The Art Of Being Socially Attractive 

Nah, its all sickening Hollywood fakery.

I have fewer than 1 friend in the World. That's right. Everybody disses me for making bad videos. I think they are perfect though. Who is right? My dissers or me? Which side are you on, dear ste

@@awesomewelles9174 :)

@@awesomewelles9174 you obviously didn’t know him before he became famous

@@awesomewelles9174 nah simu is the real deal. Take this coming from a Toronto boy (simu is also from Toronto). He’s such a nice guy

Maybe your therapists haven't watched enough of the videos to act like people.

@@JoeSmith-oy3hk I feel like telling them RU-vid videos help me out isn't the most convincing way to tell a doctor that I'm okay.

@@ChronicTonic true, but luckily their advice is Broad enough that it doesn't seem like I'm copying from someone. Things like sitting down spread out or making eye contact with everyone in the group when you talk is easy and not clearly copying anyone's persona.

The "posity energy" is the hardest for shy af people

@@dfo990 I find it easier because when people want to hang with me I'm happy. My issue is finding things to talk about, which this channel also helps.

Dale Carnegie said the same thing in his book. But you're dad's right. Just surprised most people don't ask questions or take an interest, but only love to talk about themselves. So be interested in others, but also interesting to them as well

exactly the uncle vibe and personality

Go with it, have fun. If they accuse you of flirting, reply with "As if I had a shot with all that (and point to them). I'm just having a good time." This will test out the waters with them to see if you have a shot, just out of curiosity. Or if you don't want that kind of attention from them them, you can say "You're just seeing what you want to see 😉". It shuts it down in a light hearted way.

@@joeybright7831 Wow!😲😂... thank you so much for this trick..imma definitely use this one! 🌚

Yup. That annoyed the absolute hell out of me. One of the main reasons why I avoid talking to people. They are weird when they convince themselves of lies.

Yes, i even had to have meetings with my my bosses and workers that was working under me because they thought i was flirting. So be carefull... i ended up with beeing a team leader over a team where almost all girls hated me becuse of that

Sourabh Pandharmise Nah dont do that. You always have a shot

Like we did with Ellen lol

@@twiceshy9773 nah I think we got fed up with her when she started hanging out with war criminals and doubled down over it.

No thanks. I hate giving compliments. In the hood, this is seen as phony.

Keep up the good work man!

“Aye cuh I fw the 1’s you got”

@@danielhart7435 Me big man, me no compliment little man 🙄

Great job bruhhhh

Underrated comment

Aka take mdma, and everyone will love you lol. (notsrs)

You can fake charm. Especially if you don't like ppl. I understand what you're saying though.

That's my problem, I hate people.

TIL Serial killers like people

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All of the examples are just that, examples of famous people who excel at being charismatic. Genuineness always wins out, but you can still learn from others.

Yes most of these stuff are just basic rules that you can play around with find what suits you

True

true

I’m in school for acting myself and I second this motion

have you acted in anything yet??!

@@vidu8280 Yes

" all the world's indeed a stage and we are merely players, performers and portrayers. Each another's audience, outside the gilded cage"

Omg I'd love to learn acting, do they have acting schools specifically for women ?

@S how to be popular in the internet: Give unpopular opinion

@S the movie has already made a lot of money and has great reviews lol.

@S I'm guessing you're not a superhero movie guy lol.

@S care to elaborate on what you mean by "real villain"? Also, I'm not understanding how hulk becoming proffesor hulk and thor losing himself because of his failure in infinity war, made endgame not a good movie. Care to explain there too?

"Hit" is pushing the definition a bit. "Break-even" is more accurate. These films need to make a significant profit margin to actually be a "hit" and keep producers happy. So far it looks like the MCU is finished having hit films. The last Star Wars film only made a $300 million profit, and Disney reacted by basically cutting all their Star Wars film projects in favor of focusing on live-action and animated shows instead. I expect we'll see the same with the MCU (already are, with Wandavision, Loki, and such) in coming years; fewer and fewer film releases, with smaller budgets and an increasing focus on cheaper streaming content for Disney+ instead. People tend to forget that these films need to clear around a 20% profit or better to be worth making. Shang-Chi supposedly cost about $200 million, the actual cost would be north of $400 million with marketing and other costs associated. The box office numbers are somewhat inflated as well, as the studio only really gets around 60% of that total (and usually a lower percentage from foreign theaters). So a $200 million dollar production like this really needs to clear $650 to 700 million to break-even on ticket sales. That's... probably not going to happen. Projections are that it'll hit $250 million domestically, and usually MCU films end up with roughly double the domestic US box office. So we're looking at around a $500 million total global box office. Whether or not it actually reaches the break-even point will largely depend on the Disney+ streaming numbers, since they get a better percentage return on that than theatrical ticket sales, and how much money Disney gets from toy sales. To be a legit hit, Shang-Chi really needs to pass $800 million. Anything less, and the producers would've been better off investing their money in an ETF/Index Fund.

But please try not to manipulate people for your sole benefit 😂 It’s usually a slippery slope

​@@Snoop_Duggright bro.. I want to be what actually I am... This is just indirect manipulating. But you know what people are always fake and manipulative in this cruel world. So there's no bad in you being manipulative. Huh... What do you think?

Officer I see

YES.

@@anotheryoutubeaccount5259 very authentic comment

Yes, I was literally thinking about how an analysis of his charisma would be a great video.

Yes please do this

It’s really about how you view the outside voices. I really like Simu Liu but not from the very beginning. While his asian hero movie was launched back then, people in Asia were heavily criticizing him on how he looks. He’s definitely charming, but not to asian standards (not k-pop looking). People on the internet were insulting him so much you have no idea. But then he made a humor out of it. He twitted “am I ugly ? “ just to laugh jt off. No one is going to be liked by all, but how we focus on the good situation instead of bad ones really effect on the outcome behaviors. He is charismatic because he focuses on the positive part of his life experiences. (Not that we should ignore the negatives, but we shouldn’t dwell in it).

Indeed, too few women are recommended by this channel as models for emulation. Worse, most of their examples are "celebrities". Where are the writers, scientists, teachers, engineers, carpenters, and nurses? In an age of all-the-time photo snapping and video recording, there has to be footage of charismatic and exemplary people other than actors, right?

Agreed! I've been saying this for years! Would really love to see more charismatic women featured on this channel and more tips geared towards women (not just tips for men on how to "get" a woman). This channel has helped me so much in improving my confidence but there's a ton of differences socially between how woman flirt, make small talk, express opinions, handle conflicts, show leadership, etc that I would love to learn more about. I wonder if they know a female charisma coach that could host the vids?

@@AhnastasiaRose agreed 100% So much of the advice is incredibly valuable, but would be cool to have targeted advice too! Maybe they’ll see this comment and think about it haha

I think the problem also lies within the confines of our patriarchal society we live in. most male influential figures are more encouraged to carry "dominant" attitudes and vibrations. unfortunately, women, because of our conditioning, are more encouraged to carry subconsciously submissive attitudes. and sometimes it difference is so micro, but regardless none of us, as human beings, are static. we're all in a constant state of flux thankfully. but I agree, it'd be nice to see some more women in the foray.

@@inhobiswinecellar9571 woman moment

Thanks Ahmet, I noticed you on Hamza's channel as well. I'm guessing you are on self-improvement?

@@toheeb07 yes

Bro I see you everywhere xD

Thanks I needed this reminder

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@@volumedealer2716I recall passing the CAPTCHA exam numerous times. Wbu? 😁

@@thefonzkiss Thanks so much for your feedback!! So glad you cared enough to type that 🙏

@@thefonzkiss Ya know, there’s something I was once told that I’ll never forget: “there’s always a chance that the person you’re talking to can be your future boss.” I suggest you remember that the next time you try to dictate someone else’s self worth. Hope you have a lovely day! 🥰

@@thefonzkiss You may have just ignored the one advice that could save your career. But oh well… can’t force a mule to drink water 🤷‍♀️

We have :-). And you’re right, Graham is definitely charismatic

@@Charismaoncommand He is also definitely interested in the people he is interviewing. It isn't all about him. Michael Parkinson is another great example that people might not remember on British TV. He interviewed many famous people from around the world but got the best out of them by just being himself even though he was a very well paid TV personality at the time.

Interested in if anyone answers the first part.

1. Try it out. It is your family, they cant run away :3 2. Sure, why not? Just don't overdo it and loose your feminity.

Smile a lot and tilt your head and ask a lot of open ended questions. It'll work out for you

They can work, but they have to harder work overcoming the previous impression. If you stick with the new "techniques", eventually people will notice you as changed - same way when you see someone and they appear different, e.g. because they were shy berore and are not now, they were depressed or sluggish and now seem more energetic, etc.

Absolutely! It’s never too late to make a new impression on people. Learning new techniques and applying them into your life is always great. But remember to always try to be comfortable being yourself:)

It’s all energy. You become significantly more attractive with confidence. You have to like yourself b4 others will or you’ll never feel the benefits

Check these ones out: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-W_TSvENWQDc.html ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-lIqSNhDTDUs.html

Haha

LOOOL

It's funny how we all knew who you're referring to. Lol

I feel like I’d be quiet around Brie Larson cause I won’t stop staring at her cause good lord, that’s a lot of good genes 🧬

Lmaooooo

Did you do that before covid too?

I get laughs from people at WalMart to Subway and the liquor store, as Shakira's song went. "Whenever, whereever."

He is an asian guy in Hollywood . The roles will dry up easily. Thats how Hollywood works 😅.

He isn't. I am British and have been interviewed by American for jobs and interviewed by American for jobs. They nearly always come across as totally over the top and false.