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Honestly, though, the friend in that episode is more of a conservative type of person and she felt incredibly uncomfortable showing so much skin. The bride kept jumping out at her trying to make her wear strapless knowing her friend's more religious background and making her jump out of her comfort zone. The bride's maids are supposed to wear these dresses for hours and they should at least feel COMFORTABLE. They don't need to like it, just not be worried about her body. The bride could have very well green lighted just one bride having straps.
Honey best friends don't choose guys they have known for a year over long time friends! If I was Amber I would have kept my mouth shut & wore her & her dude's dress but slowly exed her out my life because she is not a loyal friend to ANY of her female friends!
IKR thats what i was thinking too she ought too be grateful she is even in the wedding i wanted too be in my friends wedding too but it wasnt like i wasnt invited becaus ei was but at the time my health was so bad i couldnt cope with being maid of honor nor even a bridesmaid my friend was a bit heartbrokening but she assured me everything was okay she said that my wellbeing came first But when i get married she will be asked too be my aid of honor because in high school she was always helping me study for spainsh class since i suck at it ( but i love the language of course) Amber ought too be grateful is all we are saying. and the fact she hated the dress because the dude liked it was just like horrible because that dress was amazing!
The clip doesn't show the whole story Amber and Renee are both getting married - Amber choose Renee (the Bride on this clip) to be her maid of honor. Even in the clip prior to this, Renee went on about how great friends they are and how close they've become since both of their fiancées are best friends. Renee then talked about how she decided to skip over Amber as Maid of Honor, despite already accepting that position for Amber's wedding, and that she wanted a male co-worker to be her Man -of -Honor, while placing Amber behind him in line. On top of that because of the male's 'fashion sense' he will have a say in what Amber will wear. Renee felt Amber should accept it and yet, keep her as Maid of Honor when it's her turn to go through this. So there's a bit of fresh wounding and salt rubbing there that Amber has to work through. Renee just basically let Amber know that she's not really her closest friend. Not sure if they worked out their friendship or not for the sake of their husbands.
The first one kind of had a point about the dress being the same as the wedding dress. The other two just need to chill out hopefully when they see this episode they would see how Braty they were.
Traditionally bridesmaids were supposed to dress the same as the bride for different reasons, depending on the era and culture: either to prevent bad spirits from attaching to the bride, or to help prevent kidnapping attempts. So, ironically, it was probably the most appropriate, although I’m not sure it would have been the most flattering.
Ally, Are you really a woman? How classy! If you had done that to me when I was a young woman, I would have knock you for a loop. But maybe you are in hiding. Because you know dam well what would have happen to you if you are a man.
I did the same for my sister in laws wedding, I was not a fan of the dress style or color but it wasn’t my wedding that was her vision….there was nothing wrong with what she picked she was happy I was happy
The bridesmaid whose getting upset because she doesn’t get to wear the sexy dress to a wedding is being totally rediculous and really disrespectful towards the bride telling her that if she looks like a creep in the dress she ain’t wearing it if that was one of my bridesmaids I’d tell them then your out of the bridal party all together it’s that simple if u don’t like my choice in bridesmaid dresses then you can’t be in the bridal party
Amber Dunn I would definitely be more respectful than amber but that being said if my best friend chose a dress that looked that ugly on me then I would respectfully decline to be her bridesmaid. Let’s face it though, it made her look like she had one boob bigger than the other
Dee El Ess I won’t dumb myself down or look ugly just to boost someone else’s esteem. I hold myself to high standards and if someone doesn’t know and respect that then they don’t deserve me as a friend.
@@mylifepostpain3705 I dont see any high standards, just a petty move. Youre just as ridiculous with that dumbass entitled mentality you hold. You want a veil also? Maybe even a damn tiara? I feel for anyone who makes a wrong choice in wanting to include you in their wedding.
These clips make me so glad about how my sister chose her bridesmaid dresses. She literally saw one she liked online, had me try it on to make sure, and didn’t involve ANYone else in the decision. I kept my mouth shut, she loved it. She sent the buy link to the bridesmaids and that was that 🙌🏻
Ladies....and I am talking to Danielle and the girl who sent the tweet (Amber?)....this day is NOT about you. Its not about the dress YOU like or which one of you is her maid of honor....this is about the bride....who YOU SAY is your BEST FRIEND. You are not acting much like her friends right now. There is a reason its called bridesMAIDS and MAID of honor. Your sole purpose at this wedding is to ensure your friend is happy and relaxed and stress-free at HER wedding. This is her day to shine, not yours and you should both be ashamed of yourself. If I were her, I would boot BOTH of you out of my wedding party. I don't care if you don't get along. Put your petty differences aside and be there for your friend or bow out.
I get your point, but that's not the reason for the "maid" - they are usually unmarried, not servants. Your maid of honor could be married - in which case she becomes Matron of Honor.
@@notconvincedgranny6573 Granted....and they aren't servants. But their sole reason for being bridesmaids SHOULD be to support their best friend.....not make the day all about them.
Weird how there is always that one person that's so supportive and fine with what the bride wants and then the best friend that disagrees with everything , then again I feel like that's what my best friend will do to me one day
I want my dearest friends, cousins and sisters to feel awkward and uncomfortable, look awful and hate each other and not look as good as me at the wedding. Show me what you've got!
and also it's MY day to be the center of attention and MY day to feel like a princess and it's the job of all of you to make ME happy. And also smile while I treat you like shit so you look cute in the pictures!
I keep wondering what they do for bras. I mean, a strapless is not an option for everybody, but most dresses I've seen on the show do not allow for a regular bra. Are the dresses designed to be supportive in their own right?
@@kogancames1107 Some women have very large breast and strapless will not hold them. My mom is a 38 G so she owns zoo strapless bras as none will hold her
I am a G cup and my cousin is an HH and we wear strapless. Yes they put these built in bras in (been a brides maid way too many times 🤣). Also you can buy proper strapless bras that have a thicker band and the shoulders straps essentially criss cross around your torso to hold you in place. Works well!
Why not choose a different style in the same color this way the bridesmaids can wear something that flatters their figures? I wanted my girls to feel pretty & have a bit of a say in what they’re spending their own $$$ on!
I did the same. At first I wanted all of my girls wear same dress but since they all have different figures and personalities I decided that best thing would be that each of them would choose red coctail dress that each one of them love. And that was best desicion I ciyld have made
Yeah, if youre referring to Amber, Renee was looking for a dress they all felt comfortable in. She was side tracked by Ambers fit. They should have a say, but Amber chose the sexy dress abusing the input.
"I thought Renee would have been more on my side, because she knew that I should have been the maid of honor" And yet, Renee did not ask her to be the maid of honor soooo?
I have never understood the concern that "oh no, the bridesmaids will upstage the bride." No, they won't! She's the one in the white dress. People know whom they came to see! I don't care how sexy or fancy the bridesmaid's dress is, unless she's LITERALLY WEARING A WEDDING DRESS ALSO, people will know who the lady of the hour is! I always like the idea of giving one unifying idea (like all same color, or all same length, or everyone has the same necklace, or please use this scarf in some way) but otherwise, letting the bridesmaids choose what they want. They look better, the dresses will flatter their unique bodies and personalities, they seem happier, and you avoid all that tension and bad blood between the people you love. (And if a bridesmaid really goes off the rails, and chooses something totally inappropriate, well, she's the one whom people will snicker at, not the bride!)
"You can't say ..." Oh. She's watching out for my best interests so she doesn't wear the same dress as me. Wow. How intense. The find drama where there isn't any!
Some of these brides, I just don’t understand how they can stay so quiet while their maids make everything about themselves. I wouldn’t even give them the option to choose.
I understand that some of these bridesmaids are paying for their dresses so they need their money's worth ... but if the bride were paying, they need to stay quiet.
@@cloudyrae04 You want to be one of my bridesmaid? Someone who understands that bridesmaids and bride need to work together and come to a genuine agreement. Both parties need to show respect for each other and I sincerely hope that my bridal party don't act so poorly.
If you expect people to spend their own money on a dress to be in your wedding then you have to be reasonable in your expectations as a bride. Also bridesmaids are human beings. They're your friends not mannequins. Your wedding is a very important day in your life but don't ruin your friendships over it. Your friendships have to last passed your wedding day.
as a bridesmaid i'd wear literally anything! it doesn't matter if i don't like the color or it doesn't match my expectations... it's not my fcking day, it's the couple's and i'll be happy to simply enjoy their day
My bridesmaids wore cherry red chiffon long dresses. That went great with our Chicago Blackhawks theme. These bridesmaids are total divas who need to get over it be their for the bride.
If the bridesmaids are paying for the dress then I do think it’s unfair to force them to buy something they don’t want or feel good in. However if bride is paying then they just have to wear it and get over it
Ashley Nicole If the bride forks out for it then yeah. I’m not going to pay maybe hundreds of dollars for something that’s ugly and I won’t wear it again. If she wants it she can pay that’s fair
I bekeive people shoudk split the money for teh dress so they both both a say but it's still brides choice with a little compromise. Because wleople CHOOSE to be in the wedding. It's the brides day and there choice. Qnd you can sell the dress
I'm going to be losing one of my best friends [Amber]! She can't be too bothered if she's busy bossing the bride around and demanding everyone goes with HER choice! Surely the bride chooses the bridesmaids dresses!
"what she thought she wanted, wasn't what she wanted. not changing her mind!" Definition of changing your mind: deciding you don't like or want one thing and choosing another. I-........
I wouldn't have Amber near the wedding. Clearly, she is determined to make trouble for the bride. She's the type that would call in a bomb scare during the ceremony.
I had three and ended up regretting the third one lol! She pulled some bs on the wedding day 😒It’s hard to find more than two female friends that actually care about making the special day about the bride
Okay, as a sister I get why the sister in the first one reacted that way. I know my sister better than she knows herself lol. So I know that if I say something and she realizes I'm right, she's not changing her mind, she's realizes that what I'm saying is what she had always thought lol. Its just a sister thing.
The fist scene wasn’t that bad tho. She couldn’t worded it a bit better, but the bridesmaid was right. You don’t want their dress to be the same as the brides, or it’ll look weird
