The Call of the VOID: The dangerous VORTEX of Sexual Attraction MEN create in the female mind 

thank you very much for that kind and supportive comment

Bro retain yo seed that attraction comes with it

@@YntTwon speakin real fax big dawg, I jus relapsed yesterday, but I’m on my grind💪🏾

i wonder if some women would be mad that shes sharing their secrets xD

You’re gullible af🙄

Hi Eliya! Thank you for commenting. I appreciate hearing girl's perspective so much cause I know I don't speak for all women yet at the same time I know I am not alone and I suspect there are a lot more of us out there that feel this way but aren't ok speaking about it because of all the intense shame and repression and mixed messages we get about embracing our sexuality. So it is so incredible to hear from you and to hear that you agree. These guys need to hear ur perspective too so thank you for commenting

@@mynonleatherlife 👍👍

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@@timruth8767 I don't date women who don't embrace their sexuality and their desire. I set up a trustworthy, non judgemental and safe environement when we get to know each other, and if they don't admit their desires at some point, to me they are girls, not women. It's a sign of maturity and generally comes with emotional sharpness and intelligence.

What most simps, feminist fe/males, white-knights, betas, and conservative guys fail to realize: bad boys provide excitement, novelty, unpredictability, and fun (fear, roller-coaster drama) to a new level. In other words, stability and commitment (no longer) won't cut it for today's 🦄. Why is that? Before she was your girlfriend, wife, or lover, she already had been "run through," so many guys. And each time she slept with someone (both wo/men), she lost a part of her psyche, well-being, or mind/soul/spirit. In other words, she is no longer able to have emotional attachment in a healthy or committed way. Cardi B. Artist and role model for the most privilege 🦄 on the entire planet: '''My music is always going to make a woman feel like a bad bitch. When you make a woman feel like she’s the baddest bitch in the room, to me, that’s female empowerment.''' Feminist's Ideology from Sheryl Sandberg, chief operating officer of Facebook: '''My advice to women is date all of them: the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment-phobic boys, the crazy boys. But do not marry them. The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants an equal partner. Someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated, and ambitious. Someone who values fairness and expects or, even better, wants to do his share in the home. These men exist and trust me, over time, nothing is sexier.''' Isaiah 3:12 *Childish* leaders oppress my people, and *women* rule over them. O my people, your leaders mislead you; they send you down the wrong road. Proverbs 31:3 Don't give your strength (attention, resources, mental point origin) to women, nor your ways to that which destroys kings. Ezekiel 23:20 There, she lusted after her lovers, whose genitals were like those of donkeys and whose emission was like that of horses. *Sex and Culture* by Joseph Daniel Unwin *The Rational Male Series* by Rollo Tomassi *The Manipulated Man* by Esther Vilar *The Myth of Male Power* by Warren Farrell *The Feminist Lie: It Was Never About Equality* by Bob Lewis *Anatomy of Female Power* by Chinweizu Ibekwe *Men on Strike* by Helen Smith *Silent Weapons for Quiet Wars: An Introductory Programing Manual* by Anonymous Any thoughts, suggestions, and constructive criticisms are always welcoming 🕊💚🙏🏼

you are awesome Austin, your words make me feel like I'm in a marvel movie.

I really wish I could feel that vortex just once so to know it, unfortunately I will die without ever knowing. I don't believe either gay men or trans women on hormones can experience it either. This is strictly hidden away in the female persona.

@@mynonleatherlife - I wished there was more detail as to exactly how the vortex feels physically, specially like that bit about the face feeling drawn down, etc... As a man I can never understand this vortex unless explained to me this way. There was a helplessness I saw that caused an erection in me once when I saw Lions catch and in seconds dismember a Zebra extremely violently, the animal was still squealing while being eaten. I sank into a feeling of horrifying abyss watching the cruelty but that cruelty gave me an erection at the same time, the cruelty of the givers side, not the receiver's side. Would a woman be turned on (if there is ever one) watching that taking it from the receiver's side?

@@mynonleatherlife Haha yeh WonderWoman in her non-leather ultra tight and SkimpyCat Outfit! Meoooow! Keep up the good work, and priceless nuggets. From An Enlightened Alpha in the Making In The UK!

@@mynonleatherlife Even better, you're bringing your superpower for good alive in real life.

That's really cool Ross. I like your attitude tbh. But what if she is into some darker fantasies in the bedroom...do u do it?

@@mynonleatherlife Haha, absolutely! I’m very much sexually alive but I’ve learned to control and channel the raw carnal energy and focus it into personal success/interests vs expending it all on the next sexual pursuit. I love what you’re doing with your channel by the way. There are a lot of guys out there (especially in our PC BS world) that struggle to bring their desires to the surface because society has shamed them their whole lives for that. There is little quality information out there on the female psyche and how men can game the mental aspect, but you are serving it on a silver platter to many guys with your well explained knowledge. Great work!

Take away their power. The one thing they have that you don't and remove pu$$y from the equation and focus your intent on actually getting to know them if you feel like you want to share your company with the opposite sex. You will find that allot of these women that you are wanting to bang you don't even like at all. Change your perspective and be content with celibacy until you find someone you can actually connect with on a mental/spiritual level. Wanting to smash because she makes your d!ck hard isn't enough, lest you devalue yourself so. I was in your position not long ago and I'm here to tell you that you do not have to sell your soul to get a woman that doesn't deserve it in the first place unless choose to sell yourself short. If anyone can get it, it is worthless. I can tell you from experience they will be dropping their panties at your feet and you will always have pick of the litter and I've always done decent with attractive women, just not the quality of woman I always wanted. They are not the ones changing, you are. Stop looking at their ass and start delving into their mind and express yourselves. They will give you plenty to look at, trust. I'm not saying repress your sexuality either. Flirt away and chemistry do it's thing, but that doesn't mean you have to stick your d!ck in her either.

@@Harpazo24 man what you said is so right. I work at a group home with 20 women coworkers and 2 other male coworkers. One guy is a dope, but the other is fucking half the women in the house. He's young, 23, and not bogged down by the bullshit I had to deal with at 23. Boyfriends and husbands trying to beat me up, women claiming I got them pregnant when I didn't, etc. I avoid it all, but it still makes me jealous cuz I know I could be doing the same. I just can't allow myself to, I literally have ptsd from it all.

@@MonstersSeeMeToo Remember, the vision you have now is priceless, regardless of what was given up to achieve that clarity. Trauma be damned, if the pickings are wide and wet. Pray for your coworker

No regrets. Only moving forward

I agree that can be part of it too

Beauty and the Beast

safe to allow herself succumb to the force of the dark side.

Wtf?! Wow. What is the next best stuff u have learned or any tips u could give from the 10,000 hours of research, I’m so curious. U must have a lot of perspective I am sure

@@mynonleatherlife gee, that's hard lol. It's difficult because it's not 10,000 hours along a continuous path. A lot of it is back and forth and all over. If you charted the road I traveled it wouldn't look like a highway, but more like a network of roads, like a map of a city. My goal wasn't to sleep with the most women, but to be loved and appreciated for who I actually am. I tried a lotmof things I knew wouldn't work because they didn't go far enough. I have a raw masculine attractiveness, the girls that are inti are super into me, I know this but I always had a sense of shame for tapping into this. So most of my research was phsychology based, trying to have the utmost empathy so that I could responsibly use my sexuality. Most people giving advice speak is such vague and imprecise language. "Be authentic, be dependable, be empathic" etc, which isn't very helpful. Your advice is razor sharp, gets to the core of understanding. It's what I already know deep down and have known since I was 12 and started trying to expand my understanding. There's so many contradictions but you capture the underlying dynamic that reconciles the dissonant ideas. Just being able to voice the dichotomy if feminism and women's sexual desires is HUGE, because no one really talks about it. Some red pill PUA types do but it's not from a place of understanding and being, it's from a place of observation and putting together circumstantial evidence. You embody the knowledge, hits so much stronger. Thank you for that, and for reading through this long ass post 🤣

@@mynonleatherlife I was thinking about your question and I realized I didn't really answer it. I gave a roundabout answer, really cuz most advice for men is roundabout and confusing. Honestly, the best advice I ever heard was something you said. "Don't even pay attention to whether or not woman is giving you signals she likes you. Talk to women because you like them". That's easily the most profound statement that can be said about game. That's the entire thing in a sentence. Some schools teach being the selector, the proactive force in the environment that a woman has to respond and react to. There's practical advice on maintaining emotional momentum and taking action as soon as you feel it, to avoid getting stuck in your head in "spectator mode". Some theories talk about focusing on what you really like about a woman as you approach, and the things that turn you on about her, and using that emotion in your communication. Others teach about being high integrity and not compromising on your values and morals, not even for her. What you said encompasses all of that. It's like hearing blind people describe a physical object they are touching detail by detail, and trying to guess what they are talking about, as opposed to your advice that just says what it is in a word. "It's a car" vs "it's cold, metal, chest height" etc. I've read Mode One, Iceberg Slim, The Game, RSD material since 2006, David Dieda "The way of the superior man", "the art of seduction" by Robert Greene, and thousands of articles and videos and books I will never remember again. Your simple advice, in all your videos but that one peice in particular, is phenomenal and above all the rest.

1st Take: "My advice to women is date all of them: the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment-phobic boys, the crazy boys. But do not marry them. The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants an equal partner. Someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated and ambitious. Someone who values fairness and expects or, even better, wants to do his share in the home. These men exist and, trust me, over time, nothing is sexier." Yours sincerely, Sheryl Sandberg, chief operating officer of Facebook 2nd Take: “My music is always going to make a woman feel like a bad bitch. When you make a woman feel like she’s the baddest bitch in the room, to me, that’s female empowerment.” Decently yours, Cardi B. My Humble Take: What most simps, feminist fe/males, white-knights, betas and conservative guys fail to realize: bad boys provide excitement, novelty, unpredictability and fun (fear, roller-coaster drama) to a new level. In other words, stability and commitment (no longer) won't cut it for today's 🦄. Why is that? Before she was your girlfriend, wife or lover, she already had been "run through" so many guys. And each time she slept with someone (both wo/men), she lost a part of her psyche, well-being or mind/soul/spirit. In other words, she is no longer able to have emotional attachment in a healthy or committed way. *The Rational Male Series* by Rollo Tomassi *The Manipulated Man* by Esther Vilar *Anatomy of Female Power* by Chinweizu Ibekwe *Men on Strike* by Helen Smith PhD *Silent Weapons for Quiet Wars: An Introductory Programing Manual* by Anonymous

@@MonstersSeeMeToo If you want the best advice on dating game on women look up a guy named Rom Wills.

i agree Jesse it's getting crazy

@@mynonleatherlifehow about now? Wilder n wilder

I disagree. The deliberate ambiguity thrown up by women is there to weed out guys who can’t, or don’t understand that they should take it upon themselves to act this way. If a guy is instructed explicitly, or worse… given consent, to subtly disrespect his woman in a playful way that subjugates her boundaries for his personal enjoyment, then it sucks all the tension and excitement out of the situation.

Haha thanks richard

Not just dropping pearls, but making panties drop. Lolol

Same here. It was a painful process of unlearning my instincts.

Yea, the current climate makes men's instinctual masculinity very dangerous... to men. If they arent constantly aware of it and act on it, even in a completely natural way, they could get metoo-ed

I appreciate that a lot Daniel thank you very kind of you

You are too kind!!

Too kind for sure. You’re missing the point. If you “FEEL” like you have to pay to know then start living in your power more. Woman is here to serve man with unconditional love IF he is a man who is on his purpose. A man should protect and accomplish his purpose at all costs. If the women is helping with accomplishing the purpose then she receives the benefits of the man. It’s simple. But if you’re not living for YOUR OWN chosen purpose you will never understand.

@@raynerjones7990 I have to disagree there Rayner his comment was one of the best and most special I have ever received

@@mynonleatherlife I’m saying, if your information, which is 100% accurate and worthy of profiting you, is something that has not been experienced then it won’t truly resonate. A man truly learns this from BEING A MAN. Not because he read it or heard it. It comes from living in your purpose. And, as you stated,a woman’s deep desire or inner purpose is to benefit a man.

@@raynerjones7990 well I agree with the first part of what you said but I don’t think a woman’s inner purpose is to benefit a man at all. I think she may have a desire to unite and sometimes some may feel a deeper calling at heightened moments of passion to please or serve the man she loves in a very intense way but that is kinda like a flash of a forgotten memory from a very deep place. I really couldn’t say in any way that I think a woman’s purpose is to benefit a man... could u elaborate on why u think that? I know my purpose does not involve benefitting my man, but I do have a desire to be perfect for him and make him happy with me. But it is not an overriding feeling of purpose.

wow thank you Joaquin

thanks jay

hopefully it causes more empathy towards women and is not abused by manipulative men

agreed!!

@@martymarl4602 How about more leadership than empathy, so we can move this crazy world back to being more "normal"?

@@frankiegunnz8066 The whole point of this information is so that both men and women can benefit from it equally and this toxic feminist, MGTOW, PC, culture can go away.

Yeah, I wish she would have expanded on that. In what way would feeling “safe” have anything to do with slavery? It’s generally considered to be its opposite... we’re safe when we have total self-ownership and are in complete control of our actions (ie, a woman is “safe” with a man when she doesn’t feel pressured to do anything against her will).

@@FreedomFox1 Not to be political, but the way self ownership was viewed as in the Enlightenment era was viewed either as total freedom or as slavery to the self. Let's focus on total freedom. The same philosophers responsible for that also said that with freedom came responsibility and consequences. You are free to be as you wish to be, without interference either from others, or from the government. But, you must suffer the consequences of your free choices. Like karma. A lot of the way people view safety is like the way a kid feels when their parents are with them. One perspective is that the world is too big and scary for a kid to be able to exercise any authority over themselves in it, so their parents do it for them. The child gives up their freedom in exchange for the promise of security. Of course, in some sense, when you give your parents your freedom, you also give them the right to control you, but that's the price you paid to have the safety of your parents' protection. And that's really the way a lot of kink culture works. A lot of women like being tied up and controlled not because it's degrading and painful, but because their partner is expressing their power over them, a power which makes them feel protected.

Google "sub space." Then look into your local BD%M scene and go to a few meetings. It took me a year or so to "get it." But it makes complete sense from a certain perspective. It really surprised me, at how VERY common it is.

@@FreedomFox1 Assigning the outcome to another's will means that the sense of responsibility is hugely reduced - conquering fears and exploring dangerous landscapes is about having the experiences which the fears anticipate - for example people who have been shot aren't so scared of guns. It is no longer an unknown.

thank u Ode, what type would u say it is

@@mynonleatherlife It takes strong character to create such honest content. I consider myself an intellectual individual. I respect your sincerity and intelligence. Most in society would see this as a weakness or flaw because they're afraid, but I would disagree. I don't think you realize the power that you have, its a gift and it doesn't corrupt you. That is a good thing! Top grade content, keep it up. More people need to hear this, it may remove the fears that society has of feeling vulnerable, its not a weakness.

Wow makes a lot of sense can u elaborate on the hero complex for men... is it like whenever they see someone vulnerable they get sucked in to their own vortex feeling the need to help and be a hero. As an ex stripper I think that makes a lot of sense as I often observed not just the want but the need men seemed to have to give and gift money to seemingly vulnerable women

@@mynonleatherlife exactly that, us men like a strong woman, be we also have a desire to feel needed, to protect, to be that "armour" to protect the more vulnerable. Atleast that is how I see it; it's often why we will be more likely to help a stranded woman with her motor that has a flat tyre, than a man - because we assume the man would have the strength to undo the lugs. A poor example perhaps? As a club bouncer, I see a lot of "white knighting" and though the term now describes weak men buttering up to get laid, I think it used to mean more of a positive thing. Either that or i'm antiquated! ;) Thanks for replying btw, must get busy!

Men don't have vortexes, we have morning wood and young men have it all day long.

Nah id say men and women use the same vortex , but men are the giver..women the receiver. ​@@mynonleatherlife

thank you so much Man's SuperPower

Man's SuperPower...Nope! She's already been booked! 😍

@@trkrla5113 🤣. Ok, fine. The information will still be out there. So, the work is being done.

As an artist I officially support this message.

Thanks Joseph

You are very kind, thank you

Hehe I try but I have missed a lot... any thing u would be interested to see a female perspective on?

​@@mynonleatherlife Yes, please. There is a big something ... ...how can a group of girls who have been NOTHING but NEEDLESSLY angry and snotty for as long as you've known them ...and ... ....suddenly.... ....they see you with a pretty girl who they can tell genuinely adores you and whom you genuinely adore in return and... ...pathetically... ....they are utterly blind to every other man in our circle but one... ....YOU! Because they saw the love between you and that girl.... Now they are fawning and displaying openly sexual desire for ... ...YOU. They find every excuse to want to talk with you despite you not giving them any reason to ....and call you ...and put on demure voices and stare at your eyes when you are in a conversation with OTHER people and on and on... ...m supposing this be the vortex...? ...but WHY were they do viciously contemptuous towards your neutral and non-flirty friendliness up until they saw... ....HER? All this has happened to me and I have my explanation for it which carries validity because I was THERE. On the other hand you were absent. But YOU are also a WOMAN. And a brutally HONEST woman at that. What is YOUR take on this real life story?

​@@mynonleatherlife And PS, thank you beforehand for any eventual answer..

Thanks Ezra

Well put

Women love dangerous men but only for mating A lot of women will put themselves in dangerous situations to get these mens genes Protective men or beta men are used by women for long term dating beta men are the kind of men who says "women and children first" These men have good resources cause they abide by societal rules While the alpha doesn't give a shit about anyone(which makes him an attractive mate)

you summed up the video much better than I said it myself. That is exactly what I think as well. feminism and societal pressure are pushing them in different directions. Feminism is pushing them to deny they have any submissive desires or attraction to the objectifying behaviors of men. It's telling them be loved for your intelligence and ambition not your sexuality. It's very exhausting and annoying after a while constantly feeling pressure to deny your sexuality. Society is incredibly sex negative when it comes to women as well. It's hard to even go into all the f- ed up ways society sends women extremely bizarre medieval era messaging about purity and basically having to pretend you are not interested in sex. After I became a stripper I saw it much much more clearly but many women are still in it's reign of terror and can't see it as I once couldn't see it. Idk if guys have any idea how f-ed up women are when it comes to sex and how much it takes for them to say f it to all the conditioning, friends and family and become truly sex positive. It requires breaking a lot of taboos for women. They have a very powerful movement of sex negativity working against them and many who would lose a lot from women having the rights back to their own sexuality imo.

@@mynonleatherlife I hope things get better in the future and I think this channel is the first step that will make women realise their sexual and mental independence and break society taboo. Once again thank you.

Ha ha I do the same thing 😆. By doing this behaviour one can gather important information about someone.

Nor a bad analogy

Nicely put in words without experiencing the force. We men shall live and die without ever knowing it.

Thanks for subscribing Vade. What kind of hints with her behavior might she give

Thank you William William

yea the vortex is basically a word I'm using for the physical bodily feeling of sexual attraction

@@mynonleatherlife it definitely helps me understand what most other women are going through though, so your video was really helpful. Thank you

WOW thank you. Welcome to the mysteriesssss

Supa 5th...'a seeker of your wisdom and subbing 'unto' your channel'. That's deep man!!! Are you trying to pull her into your vortex? 🤨

Your souls met in the dungeon of the vortex. As Paris Hilton once said, that's hot!-

@@mynonleatherlife Yes it is a very hot memory but like a lot of extreme fantasies not very practical :)

A kink, wow. If it's not just a kink, get help.

I am touched and can't tell u how much I appreciate your words rayv1963.

Oh wow...I should read it...thanks Ted. I learn a lot from books written for guys and even apply the insights to myself tbh

I’m a 46 year old male. Not a 9 year old girl .

the pull is so dangerous

Huh, men experience the vortex? how, when? Please explain. There is no vortex for men, there is the brightening of a dimmed light in seconds, since men have no off when it comes to sex, never. So where the heck is the vortex?.

@@lamrof The vortex has nothing to do with how fast or slow you get turned on. The vortex is a metaphor for the animal mind taking over and it almost feels like you are no longer in control of your own body. You just instinctually escalate into sex

@@treyjenkins5672 - I take it as a spiral that starts wide and slow and end up narrow and fast, so this is a warm up that ends up in heat. This is the reason I disagree. Men when turned on are on in seconds, like a light switch or is digital.

@@lamrof You’re taking it wrong. You have misinterpreted her explanation.

@@treyjenkins5672 - If she wanted to explain the takeover of the instinct then she could as well say a light switch, but she didn't she chose a metaphor of a vortex. To me that signifies a long decent that starts slow and flattering but gradually ends up in a furious inferno. Anyway we agree to disagree and close this right here. Adios.

Wow very cool. What do u mean it’s true on a fractal level. Also how do u see the Bible being about that... like Adam and Eve I could see that for sure!! Also makes total sense addicts would think of this too...thanks for ur insights, would love to hear more

@@mynonleatherlife I'm no expert but my simple understanding of the Bible is its basically the story of mankind's struggle with sin, ie the vortex (I'm not religious, please don't take that the wrong way 😅). It's funny you mention Adam and Eve because that kind of ties it all together with the fractal thing. The Adam and Eve story is essentially the same story; about the temptations of the flesh and so on. It's the same pattern branching out from itself, occuring on different levels. If you are familiar with how the golden ratio/Fibonacci sequence occurs in nature, that is a great comparison.

These are some complex thoughts, and I'm not much of a poet so it took me a long time to figure out how to put them into words. It's not the best explanation but I hope it makes sense!

Fractal: applying on all levels

Fractal: applying on all levels

i like that

there are things many women are not aware about from the male point of view and just as many things that men are totally oblivious to from the female point of view. The only thing i do not like about your comment is the implication that lacking self awareness is a female problem because trust me men are lacking it in spades as well. That being said it's important for everyone i definitely agree with you there

@@mynonleatherlife It is important for everyone, and maybe I have created a bubble with a lot of men that I think are wise which I follow on social media, and disregard a lot of the male idiots I see......but I also, just watched your interview with Stirling and he pointed out the same thing about you, and implied my same way of thinking. You are rare, there are women out there like you, but I dont find them. Thank you for putting out this stuff. I do appreciate you.

@@thezach222 yes I didn't actually agree with stirling completely there and regretted that part of the interview a lot because I chose to just go with the flow and see the grain of truth in what he was saying and not really nit pick what he was saying as he was the guest but tbh i don't fully agree with that part

@@mynonleatherlife I understand, it wouldn't have been good for the interview to stop and analyze everything....but I think we may have to agree to disagree. In my life, women like you are a rarity. Everyone has their shortcomings, men and women...of course. However, I don't think you have to turn the fact that you are special into a negative. I really enjoy your thoughts. Please keep making videos.

There could be so many reasons why she felt that magnetic pull but didn't surrender to it. 1. She could be scared of her sexuality 2. she could be embarrassed or worried that you would judge her for it or not be able to handle it 3. it could definitely be a pride and ego thing for sure--I know that's a big one for me 4.she could think it's not worth it cause for whatever reason she doesn't think you have longterm relationship potential. There could be sooo many other reasons. I'd be so curious I'd ask her directly what she was thinking. What is your best guess of what it is and what was the situation exactly

MyNonLeatherLife I am very curious and always thinking about it because we were very flirtatious in the beginning but I can tell her brother would get bothered by it so I tried to keep it cool and not be soo flirtatious because me and her brother are best friends but now all I get is attitude from her and has alway been awkward with me but every time we look at each other or sit next to each other I can feel that really strong pull. I think it could be 1 and 3? Maybe 2 but I never judge, I want her to be as free as she desires too

Btw I did ask her about our feelings and she said she didn’t feel the same but I can see she was bs me cause I could feel that pull and told me She has to act distant with me. She avoided me, barely any eye contact or not even a simple hey when I would go over and gives me attitude all the time.

@@TonyMontana-ft4en sorry! I didn’t see all your responses yet so I deleted my replies

@@TonyMontana-ft4en maybe she is kind of embarrassed that u pulled away and stopped flirting with her as much so she got kind of offended by that as If you had rejected her... so out of pride she has to act cold to you... but deep down she still feels the same pull and wants u to regain interest

I phrased it in a fun way but the fact that women have a sex drive is not some secret conspiracy

Thanks Workout, I appreciate that a lot and the feedback about what u like is very helpful to. Thank u for subscribing. Is there any topic u have wondered about that might be helpful to get a female perspective on?

Looking at your face, I don't think you'll ever be pulled into any relationship anymore

​@@EV-EV-EVdude! Haha

haha! Thanks Jorge. What don't u like about the dating coaches?

@@mynonleatherlife alot of them dont know what they r talking about. They know little things but u can tell they dont understand much. They talk about attraction but not sexual attraction. i never had high statues n now im fit but before i was skinny fat but i always had my ways with girls . There was a time where an old studio apartmt i had was always filled with strippers . The only time my game would b off is if my insecurities really got to me but eventually i started to understand it was the way i felt about myself. THATS WHAT THEY DONT SPEAK OFF ! The real thing not statues n looks . You said in a video that girls like the expirience of a men sucking them in and playing this character. I cant really explain it but is like going casanova mode in your head n pretending like is a movie. You are the only one i heard in youtube speaking off that . There is a reason these men listen to u .

@@GoldGn111 Yeah like I said in my other comment, 98% of youtube "dating coaches" are wannabes who never get any chicks, they just want to start a coaching business because they heard they could get some money from it. They tend to know just as little as new guys do. They copy random bits of information from some other clown on youtube and then blurt it out just to get views. Some dress like clowns or have gimmicks out the ass so that they can get more attention from viewers. All of them are about views/making money first, quality is low on their priority list. There is no serious, deep, mature, or ACCURATE discussion. When doing youtube became a business they came in droves. But also watch out because a few of them pretend to be serious and got the act down pat. It's the scope of their information that you have to analyze and whether or not they can bring you to a full understanding. Is it the complete and correct message, or is it jumbled up? Or is just something they memorized from someone else? Some coaches scam people like hell, telling them they can coach them, for $100 an hour, and all they do is just repeat some weak advice or improvise with made-up bullshit as answers. They have no understanding of the bigger picture they just memorize fragments of weak advice.

Isn't always that easy, the confidence doesn't always come from being in shape. Even with a perfect body you can still feel like a wreck unfortunately.. Edit: nah sex workers are a bad shout. I disagree with suggestions like that. I figured it's necessary to do shadow work, reflections, exercise, journaling.

@@The_Questionaut I do agree for some this is a major problem and I am sympathetic to it. But as a ground floor I would start with the physical. Then if that doesn't boost your confidence ya have to do what it takes to get it. Be it a class on confidence, using the services of a sex-worker, whatever it is this is crucial because for many women confidence is even more important than the physical stuff.

@@LordLoveaDuck idk, kinda all seems pointless. But that's just me I guess

no he is right @@The_Questionaut

Mudd Bludd...Seriously strong! I like this girl. I am being drawn to 'her' vortex!!! And her soothing voice!

@@trkrla5113 Men can't have the vortex. We have the light switch.

Lol

lmaoo

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Scoundrull...I was thinking the same! 😍

Thank you I try

@@mynonleatherlife You're great! Master level wisdom bombs you're dropping.

Thanks Craig I really appreciate that... I will try to think of some other ones about the subconscious primal level. I could do a lot but idk if RU-vid will even let me talk about some of these things. 😬😬

oh wow I love that it helped u so much. I hated it with a passion tho!! But ur advice must be good if it helped u so much

@@mynonleatherlife it’s interesting that you hated it. I’ve talked to many women about it and they hate it as well! None the less women respect me much more from the principles I follow from it, same with the men I teach as well.

absolutely...shame is a big part of this whole scenario

💯!! Love everything U wrote here. I love getting your female perspective on these vids.

Traduz isto pf! Como assim? Estás a falar de simples atração?

@@completelymindfucked siim, pensava que era uma sensação de sentir me observada, mas é mais que isso. É um Vortex que puxa mesmo inconscientemente. Para mulheres ainda eymais inconsciente, sente se uma força a puxar, pensa se que estamos a ser puxadas mas é para os dois lados. Nem tem de ser atração. Pode se nem sentir atraída se quer, mas sendo sexo oposto algo atrai

@@dianadias3 Isso parece tão vago e aleatório... quase paranormal! Que força é essa? Consegues dar exemplos de situações em que se manifesta?

Thanks a lot Wolfgang

A lady never tells!! Lol

@@mynonleatherlife except in their youtube channel ;)

Alot of them lie about having or liking anal sex too

@@gottagogetit9205 Why?

1st Take: "My advice to women is date all of them: the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment-phobic boys, the crazy boys. But do not marry them. The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants an equal partner. Someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated and ambitious. Someone who values fairness and expects or, even better, wants to do his share in the home. These men exist and, trust me, over time, nothing is sexier." Yours sincerely, Sheryl Sandberg, chief operating officer of Facebook 2nd Take: “My music is always going to make a woman feel like a bad bitch. When you make a woman feel like she’s the baddest bitch in the room, to me, that’s female empowerment.” Decently yours, Cardi B. My Humble Take: What most simps, feminist fe/males, white-knights, betas and conservative guys fail to realize: bad boys provide excitement, novelty, unpredictability and fun (fear, roller-coaster drama) to a new level. In other words, stability and commitment (no longer) won't cut it for today's 🦄. Why is that? Before she was your girlfriend, wife or lover, she already had been "run through" so many guys. And each time she slept with someone (both wo/men), she lost a part of her psyche, well-being or mind/soul/spirit. In other words, she is no longer able to have emotional attachment in a healthy or committed way. *The Rational Male Series* by Rollo Tomassi *The Manipulated Man* by Esther Vilar *Anatomy of Female Power* by Chinweizu Ibekwe *Men on Strike* by Helen Smith *Silent Weapons for Quiet Wars: An Introductory Programing Manual* by Anonymous

Lol I’d have to agree

The more I watch these videos the more I appreciate being a man. Being fearless is far greater than being fearful.. I can see why the west has been attacking masculinity

haha precisely

@@dreday77764 PC culture is destroying the patriarchy, turning it from the traditional, strong, protective, provider man, into a sexual predator, someone to take advantage from financially and to look down on. Crazy times.

@@D33Lux They are feminizing men while feminism is causing women to become more masculine.

Thanks Jimmy

Agreed, its amazing to hear a woman's thoughts and feelings. All we see on youtube is a women's perspective for women, but it doesn't analyze the male's perspective on such a biological and fundamental level.

Thank you so much! I was thinking maybe I could start a Patreon or something where I could just be extremely raw and share more details. But I’m trying to get to 1000 subscribers so I can monetize it... I’m nearing the goal now. Thanks a lot for your encouragement and support. How did u find the channel?

Hey did you get my reply? I’ve never commented on a channel before. 😂

@@strength2 which reply? Did u get my comment?

Lessons are sold not told. You speaking facts

@@7hinkable what does this mean lol, I’m so curious. I like the sound of it tho

I'm waiting to get my adsense acount verified :( takes 3 weeks

@@mynonleatherlife Booo!👎 We need to get you verified asap!!🙏🏾🙏🏾

@@mynonleatherlife u can get verified by getting the key manually search on youtube u wil get videos about it

wow thank u so much for that amazing message of support!!

@@mynonleatherlife Pleasure is mine. Thanks much!!

Shes already blowing up, made 10k Subs in less then a week