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Bro I feel like the red pill saved my sanity.but I do recommend little doses , alot of red pills made me hate women for a while .but I had to remind my self not every girl is like these women.there are common traits to look for but not as drastic
He obviously likes the fact that this woman is dependent on him. She makes him work hard to achieve much. No woman that is a single parent and has a career would be able to easily relinquish her own agency to anyone. So their dynamic must really work for them. I bet she cooks, gives up the punanny on demand and shows lots of affection. She talks big but watch how she holds onto him tightly. That woman would cut a bitch if she tried to come near her man.
Nah those dudes are simps they never been in a fight or confrontation in there life. There the type too get bullied around by there girlfriend. I know how guys like this think
To the first guy, do NOT mary or put her signature on ANYTHING! That will be the biggest mistake of your life.🙅🏿♂️ She's going to use you EXACTLY like her mom used her father. She just said it.🚩🛑
Women hate the question " what do you bring to the table" because they cant stand the realization of how little they have to bring in a relationship but still find reasons to complain
Yeah, they don't bring anything other than sex. Meanwhile men have to shoulder all of the burdens, costs, risks, and annoyances. Seems like a very high price to pay for sometime sexual access.
@@hc7092 that's because most guys aren't going to prioritize a woman's ability to bring money to a relationship...that's what women typically prioritize. Men and women look for different things in a partner. Women want the protector and provider and men want the supporter and nurturer.
@@seventhkeyomegasghost8233 women are tore up 😂 Being single no kids as a Black man 💪💪💪 in 2023....at 43 years old is Truly a Real Blessing from GOD 💯💯💯💯💪💪💪
It's gotten worse since social media and dating apps skyrocketed women's options. It made things brutal for men....too much competition as women want Top 20% men
It’s the same nature. Having an American passport is a sign status and women perceive us as having good money, so they get interested, treat us different than the competition over there.
me personally, even though i make good money, i'm not about to pay 100% of the bills and spend my money while she quietly stacks hers lmao. i'm good luv
facts man. Imagine Nike acquiring some small shoe company and paying all their bills and letting them use all their factories and Nike gets none of the profits....it's bad business. women have mastered the small shoe company approach.
Same here, except the only exception for me would be if my girl wasn't working and she was a virgin. Obviously if she had a really good head on her shoulders, feminine, soft spoken and was obsessed with me, those are other traits, but in general, I agree with you. Man, I'm not gonna lie, even if she was working, I would feel some type of way because she would be around guys. I see it all the time in my workplace; guys are married, and flirting with the women who are married, and women are married and flirting with guys who are married. You expect for me to feel content that she won't do anything if she's making her own money? Doing in these times are very difficult. Luckily for me and other men out there, I'm a work in progress, so I'm still invisible to women until I fix my situation.
I'll rather be single than pay 100%...and i can afford to do so 10 times over. Moment a woman says she wont contribute financially, that's the moment i lose interest. I want an adult, not a dependent parasite.
The friendzoned dude, my god. That's painful as fuck. She's " his friend " and lying to his face like it's nothing. That's tough. Why can't she just admit " I don't find you attractive " and rip off the damn bandate? Why string him along? He obviously has feelings for you. God damn, that's cruel.
Amen brotha I was thinking the same thing 99% of the time guy absolutely has feelings she 100% knows but dose just enough to keep him around been there done that
Wómen use guys like that to feed their egos after the guys they REALLY want, dump them. They play with men's emotions the way cats play with rats, beating them without landing the finishing blow. All so they can feel better about themselves because they lack empathy.
I hate how relationships have become so transactional. Before it’s about partnership being able to trust each other and work together now it all just seems like a business deal. Purely conditional.
All relationships between men and women are transactional. Women wanted rich men 40 years ago just as they do now they're just more open about it now. Transactional relationships are great to be honest. Just pay for what you want and go about your life peacefully. I have no idea why men today want the responsibility of taking care of women. Let them take care of themselves. Not my problem.
@@CobraR1993 This is incorrect. All relationships between men and women are not transactional. Is your relationship with your mother, sister, daughter, female cousin, etc. transactional? Relationships are exactly what you craft them out to be. If you want your relationship to be transactional, then that is what it will be. I do agree that there is a level of comfort in transactional relationships in that there is a clear understanding. I have also seen two "dreamers" get together and build with one another. You define the parameters of what you will accept in a relationship and what kind it will be. The hardest part is screening for like-minded individuals.
Marriage has always been transacitonal. Why do you think older, traditional cultures have arranged marriages and dowries? It's always been about money. In the past though men were breadwinners across the board so men could pick a marriage based on personality because they had the money covered. Nowadays, more women graduate with bachelor's degrees and enter the job market. Women expect more now because they can earn independently.
To the first guy, the whole reason she is able to get away with this is because she is out of his league, you can tell she is more confident in her body than him, he could turn the tables on her if he got in the gym, got fit and solid and the attention he'll get from other women will make her step up her game. Theres no way she could get away with that mentality with a tall fit handsome chad. She stated she expects that because thats how she was raised, yet im pretty sure she wasnt raised to have kids outside of wedlock either, so your traditional privileges went out the window when you had a kid and became a single mom. The only reason she is able to continue to live in her delusional entitlement world is because she is with a guy with no options and whos fat and out of shape, so he pretty much HAS to go with whatever women say, otherwise he'll be single and probably couldn't replace her that easily.
Bro she isn't out of his league he owns a business he just doesn't know that he is a catch and that's why he went for the weakest link, like a waitress in a bar someone he can use a couple of dollars and promise of marriage to woo. I just hope she doesn't leave him when someone else with more money comes around. No disrespect to the waitresses out there.
@@bisiyahaya6142 No disrespect, but Captain America was right. The body language says it all and she thrust her chest out every time she felt the conversation was moving to the advantage or his rights, as the man. It's her attitude of pay for me or else I'll leave you for another SIMP. He feels that and was very careful not to step on thin ice. It's not going to end well for them and it will all be her fault.
Relationships today seem more transactional, opposed to them being based on partnership and compassion. At 26, dating is new to me and videos like this help me understand men more. So thank u for this. It seems like men just wanna feel loved and appreciated by the woman they're with
Actually, as an older guy, I have a piece of advice for you - Men don't need love in the same way that women do. What men operate on is respect. From other men and from women, perhaps even more so. If you want to have a successful relationship with a man, show him that you respect him. That will go much much further.
@@moleahy6880 until modern xx can unlearn that men and xx are not the same nor equal no progress will be made between men and xx. They want men to think like xx and think everything goes both ways.
Couple No.1 - A real example of a selfish greedy woman - She gets a Paycheck from work, she probably receives Child Support from the father of her 12 year old daughter, and now she expects her Boyfriend to Pay all the bills - She doesn't care about bringing anything to the table but her GREED !
3:30 This is just sad. Brother over here “hoping” and waiting for “possibilities” to happen all while being a whole pretend boyfriend. Just pathetic all the way around. Fellas! A public service announcement like Smokey the bear: Only you can prevent yourself from being friendzoned
Because if She wanted to push for a Relationship she would expect him to be available immediately. But want him to be the waterboy on the sideline. He don't even realize he's not even on the team.
He’s given them so much thought and stands there pretending to be fine with her saying she has never given them any thought. That’s the kind of disrespect I wouldn’t take at all. I don’t keep female friends that I find attractive. My sisters and cousin are all the female friends I need. If you are a female and find yourself as my “friend,” occasionally grab n feel if your dick is still there because you will be treated just like a male friend. Zero special privileges!
dudes never got women then grew up and decided to treat women like kids...I can't even blame the women, taxing these guys. it's free money. If you are in the workforce there is no way i am paying all your bills. Why is my time and effort less valuable than yours ? Cooking and cleaning is not a golden ticket either
Make or female. If anyone say that “they bring themselves to the table” they have nothing to offer. And this is the best way to leave the relationship or not go further than a few words.
Men pay attention when a woman speaks in general vs directly about you. She said she wants her man to lead and she wants to be submissive to her man. She doesn’t reference him directly.
As soon as the Asian dude with the Wht girl said - Can you look at me I feel like your not really listening to me. And then they wanna turn the tables. Because they're not comfortable being together and feel judged. I would've said cut. We don't need to go any further.
The first guy is a classic example of if you lead with your wallet, you’ll get lead by your wallet. When dude asked her it was all about the money she said yeah.. He is buying her time. He told a single mother he was gonna marry her and pretty much gave her a “You got saved” card.. traaaagedy.
Reminds me of the guy who said he never pays (prostitute) for sx from a woman. Yeah, he does. Better to rent it for an hour than a lifetime of payments.
if you are going to accept her pay for play, concept, then diversify your portfolio don't dump your time and money into one, you may as well have as many as you can afford.
This first couple all I heard was transaction transaction transaction. Didn't hear nothing about love or caring for your significant other. And he really believes he DOESN'T PAY. ALL MEN PAY . he needs to watch this back cuz he is over paying for a heavily used product. Dudes need to wake up and stop believing they have to take these bad deals just to get some used up box
Haha, your last question was quite interesting and amusing! The guy mentioned confidence, but it seems he approached the waiter while being drunk and made an extravagant gesture. The fact that he still hasn't realized the impact of his actions says a lot. Hopefully, someone wealthier doesn't come along and steal her heart.
I knew I wasn’t the only one who caught that…he’s so blind he really believes that it was his confidence that hooked her in when it really was him passing her shiiit test. Soon as she saw he can afford her and was openly willing to spend, she was like “ooo i got me a wealthy suckah” 🤑🤑
@@bloodsweatntearswarrior223Correct. To him it was this big magical deal, to her it was just another goofy trick from her shift. Imagine seeing a girl working the nightlife and thinking that's your wife. OUF! Everything is fucked in dating. Men are being raised to believe that women are these virtuous and special creatures of wonder, and women are being raised to believe that all men ain't shit and it's better to focus on making money and having all the sex you want. When that's the culture, you end up with a bunch of disrespectful and masculine broads of poor character being simped on by a bunch of guys who have this unrealistic/Disney view of life. Crazy. And those women are RUTHLESS, cold, cunning, calculated, extracting users who offer nothing in return.
5:33 "I provide unconditional love" This is exactly why the FnF podcast is booming at the moment. Myron explains that no love is unconditional, unless it's a family member and even in these times family backstab each other all the time. This girl clearly does not know what unconditional love means. Myron again explaining that women have the privilege of being stupid, but can still be successful at life is very true. Clearly if she was in his position paying all of the bills, she would leave him 100% which is not unconditional love at all. That's a clear condition that he needs to provide everything in order for their relationship to work. The fact that she also hates the "what do you bring to the table question" tells everyone that she is just a walking hole. Brings absolutely nothing to the table besides her vagina which is sad.
@@rocciteeny57What's sad is if it's not him, some dude is going to wife this girl up. This will be in her down years when her looks are faded. People can call me misogynistic all they want. I call it REALISTIC.
@@kiboinderitu8431 Umm no it's not. Do you know what unconditional love means? It means loving someone under ANY condition or circumstance. If that guy was broke and couldn't pay for anything, do you think she would still love him? These types of girls say they will, but until they are faced with this situation, take it with a grain of salt. She literally contradicted herself the next sentence saying she would not be with him if the roles were reverse. Please do not get confused with being traditional and loving someone unconditionally.
It's not wrong to pay for everything, the thing is that is she worth it or not, does she deserve it or not. Most of the times it's NO to both questions.
I didn't even view it as that. In my eyes he was just being real sensitive. And when his girl asked the random question if the interviewer has dated white & asian girls he was gassing her up which gave me the hint that she's the dominant one and holds authority in their relationship
@@SoulBrotha91 You're right. I think they had issues for being in an interracial relationships that's why the girlfriend ask him if he dated outside his race. There's some insecurities there but yes the girl is clearly the "man" in that relationship.
I was in a 5 year relationship where we split all costs and sometimes I would pay for everything. I’m so glad these videos are being done because now i see so many girls never pay for anything. So I’ve changed my mindset and I’m now dating a guy who pays a lot of the time and i love it. I pay sometimes and sometimes we split but it’s so nice to not be splitting every single damn time.
I watch Irael Padulla for the jokes and drunk people and watch this dude for the more serious questions. They answer him more serious because he is taller and is more assured. 👍🏾
The girl at 11:01 is 50% 50% Catch but I love her feminine movements. Her bubbly sense of emotions is so cute.. I could see myself with her and as a man, I would take care of things. What most people don't know is that Men pass the money over to the woman to pay things as most woman are better at paying bills than man are. Before I got married, we spoke about this subject for many relationships suffer when money is low. What many woman forget is that a man is attracted to you and as a woman, your job in life to keep him happy and that is to always support him, touch him, keep yourself sexually attractive. God has given a gift to all woman married in the grace of God, the gift is that you man only sees you as you even when you age. However, if you change up, used to wear makeup, then stopped and never, the man will wake up, ask who is this girl and another girl could capture his feelings. While today, woman are being told to take care of themselves, there are more and more woman who end up single in their 30-40 which is the last safe window to have kids. Think about that?
That last segment was so sad. I feel so sorry for that guy. He’s going to end up paying for her illegitimate child, for the rest of his life. She will divorce him and take half. Big Simp there.
If you are an African American man in America. You represent 6% of the United States population. If you don't have felonies or not a homosexual you represent 3% of the population. Women should be doing everything in their power to be with you. Plus the current state of the economy and the whole feminist movement. No you shouldn't be paying all the bills. Plus these women ain't traditional women they come with stepkids. They have to bring something to the table. Don't let a serial cheater who can't bring a stable marriage like Steven(because he a sellout) Harvey tell you otherwise.
I feel like the question what do you bring to the table is a tough question because some of us like the first couple work hard, are leaders, protectors, providers...I feel like most women look for that. When women are asked if a man is supposed to have all of that it goes directly to nurturing, being a homemaker unless a man wants you to have a certain amount of money, etc. I wouldn't mind if a guy wanted to pay for the majority of dates and bills if that's how he was raised and what he wanted from me as a woman and future wife. I also don't mind going 50/50. It's a conversation and an agreement you both should have. I bring intelligence and knowledge - two degrees Career - Education financial with my current position, not 100K but I make enough to take care of bills, put away emergency funds, save, take trips, or whatever else I desire. I try not to live outside of my bracket. The list goes on I think the better question is "What qualities do you have?" What qualities do you look for in a significant other?
You know what's funny? None of the bullshit you listed are important to men. We don't care about your "knowledge" or degrees or income. Your status and money are of ZERO use to us. You're not gonna take care of me, you're not gonna be a provider. Even if you're a high earner you will still expect me to earn even more than you and take care of you. So what's the point of your money at all? Do you see? From a man's perspective, a woman's money is useless. Not only that, but for you to make money you have to have a bunch of masculine traits such as being headstrong, competitive, confrontational, dominant to a certain degree etc. Basically you become more masculine the more money you make, and less of a sweetheart. So not only is your money useless to me, but I'm also getting a manlier woman with it. How is this good for me? It's not. Same thing for your status and "knowledge". Who cares? You will still expect me to have more of that than you so that you can look up to me and respect me. If you know more than me you can't respect me. If you know a lot, it's of no real use to me because I already know a lot more than you by virtue of me being with you. So your experiences and knowledge serve me no purpose. A lot of you modern women, hell, MOST of you modern women lead with these masculine characteristics that YOU look for in a man, thinking that's what WE want from you too. When it's completely false. Want to know what we want? A respectable woman from a good family that's skilled in homemaking, is a sweetheart, and is considerate and polite. That's it. Don't be a hoe, have a good reputation and background, respect me, appreciate all that I do for you, and have the skills to turn a house into a home. What are those skills? Of course the basics are know how to cook from scratch, know how to maintain the cleanliness of the home. But it's a little more than that. We also would REALLY like it if you could bake from scratch, are good with money (in terms of being smart with how you spend groceries, furniture, household items, cleaning supplies etc), and most of all if you're pleasant to be around and not annoying. That means no nagging, giving us space, being quiet for the most part, and being peaceful. The home is the last place a man wants to be going to war too. All those things I just talked about are VERY SIMPLE things that all women can master by the time they're 16 and it doesn't take much effort. But modern women REFUSE to listen to what men actually want and what men are telling them they want, and instead listen to bitter and older single women telling them that men SHOULD want masculine boss babes with degrees and a business plan. We don't care. Listen to what WE tell you WE want. Stop listening to women. I just gave you game changing advice here on how to get basically any guy that you want. Go out there and try it. Start with your Instagram. Stop posting hoe shit, pictures of you in tight dresses at the club, pictures of you drinking alcohol, pictures of you at vacation spots, hoe pictures of you in bikinis (you're not a model, slow your roll) etc. Clean up your image. Post pictures of you inside the house, pictures of you buying stuff at the groceries and what you were able to make with those groceries, pictures of what you can bake, and just pictures with your family. That's what men REALLY want to see. All that hoe shit you modern girls post is only good to get men to see you as easy fuckmeat. That's it. The more simple and plain you appear in your life and how you dress, the more attractive you become from a relationship standpoint. The guys that avoid you because of that, are guys that were never intending on taking any girl seriously in the first place. Your future husband is looking for his future wife. Wives are FOUND, not made at the altar. You myst be wifely in your dress and lifestyle BEFORE you meet your husband. And that man could be ANYBODY. You never know what caliber of men could be checking you out behind the scenes. A lot of you girls miss out on GREAT and successful men simply based on how you present yourselves to the world. Those great men that you want, are not looking for baddies, they're looking for WIVES. And if you're more interested in being and showing that you're a baddie, you will get eliminated from the runnings before you even realize that you were in a competition. BE the wife you would want your future husband to be proud of. Focus on developing your CHARACTER and your HOMEMAKER skills. Put your dick away!
Women are supposed to bring a womb, be ready to have children and care for them. If she can't have children, then they can adopt. But since the West doesn't really value family anymore, Women don't think about this and neither do Men.
I had to double check that the dude around ~9:00 isn't the same guy from the "they had us in the 1st half" video. He sounds just like him (to me), but that guy apparently still lives in Texas and this is in Atlanta so it's probably someone else.
Been going 5 years with a two year old splitting everything 50/50. It is possible. Don’t let a girl play you.. I will say she does bring it in to fights but I stated from day one I don’t pay for extra shit
you gotta child... your answering questoins for him... "what does he get" "ME" dont be made when he cheats. You could see he was turned off. She comes across like shes gods gift to the world and she dosent have to do anything to make him happy
On the first couple is a supply demand problem, if that guy does not pay for everything even for that kid that is not his. She will easily find plenty of dudes who will.
12:10 - was hilarious. she pays sometimes but she's a stay at home mom, so she didn't actually MAKE the money that she's using to pay for the date. she doesn't feel that emotion of taking money out of her own account to pay. ps. they look super happy. kudos to great relationships.
The things that girl mentioned at 6.44 is all we need as men. Don’t get it twisted. Imagine buying getting married to a woman. Flooring her around the world. No hug not even a thank you. Some of these women are absolutely crazy.
3:54 Couldnt you argue that she’s trying to force a friendship then? She said she doesnt want to ruin the friendship, so does that mean she’s forcing it to keep it going? Seems like ole boy is down to elevate things but she doesnt wanna force a relationship but will instead force the friendship. But idk I just be saying shit
Nah, the first couple, the gal got it wrong, if you come into a relationship kids, you got so foot some bills, otherwise I will get another, she getting money from her kid's daddy, this is the disconnect, there is not free pass, if you are a baby mama and your working at the same time, the man is being a sucker for used up cat...... And as whole, if man got a gal working,she got foot her own bills, I got the major bills for the household, like mortgage, utilities but she paying her own car note, hair, nails, shoes, clothes, etc and we just go half and on the food since I got to pay my own car, clothes and stuff I need while they saving their money, hell no. Ain't no women taking advantage on being traditional, if they are working....... the nonsense , women be on today are not economical anymore....... all they want to do is spend others people money not not theirs......gtfo
Can a woman please help me understand the logic of expecting the man to pay for everything. Unless he earns significantly more than you how do you expect a man to cover everything but yet still have money to put down a down payment on a house, drive etc whilst you keep all your money to yourself?
Brother you had a golden opportunity to save that simp that's been relegated to the friendzone and the idiot that was about to commit to a woman with a kid (that literally said the man has to provide while simultaneously saying I bring my career to the table) you have failed those men. You gatta get better at this man. You're good.. You're just gonna have to get better. You can totally get your point across in these kind of discussions on the street without incident other than ruffling a few feathers. Because it can be a bit intimidating out the streets if you go shooting of your mouth to randoms like folks do on podcasts online. I get that aspect. But you could've done it. Here.. I'll give u an example. When she said career after asking her what she brings to the table (notice how quiet how her man got) that's an indicator that's he's liking where the conversation is going. You could've called out the hypocrisy concerning a man required to pay all the bills but bringing up her career when asked the table question. As for the simp.. I would've put her on the spot about his height being an issue for her and watch her squirm trying to answer that.
That is true, I have noticed that many times, the interviewer often does that. He looks around while the guest is speaking. So disrespectful. You need those guests, pay attention.
There is nothing wrong as a man to pay but paying for something that is going to be a long term payment(s) then you must consider you ROI. The culture today is pay to play anyways ...
