This is what scares me the most. I don’t want to think I didn’t appreciate them enough while they are here right now. Love those around you as much as you can.
It's so easy to console someone who has experienced a passing but when you experience the loss of a loved one the pain and realization that they're gone is unbearable.
Emma we have all been their you just need to talk to people about how you fell and it going thro that as well and I knwo how you fell if you ever want to talk just reply to this and I will respond
I never understood the true meaning of "I'd give anything to have them back" until just recently. I love you so much, Dad. Please wait for me. 1-14-20 🖤
Me too I recently lost my grandpa ( we were very close he was the only one who actually understood me ) and now he is gone and I feel empty inside R.I.P grandpa 24/01/‘20
I’m sorry for your loss Kim, I lost my dad 4/25/2019 after a short lung cancer battle. It doesn’t get easier but it does become more manageable to deal with. 🖤🖤
I lost my mom July 14th, 2018 She was only 45 It was the hardest thing to deal with , it’s been 5 months now and it still hurts the same, I just wish heaven had visiting hours 💔
To anyone who has lost someone they love, I want to offer my sincere and deepest sympathies. You are not alone on this journey. Whoever you are, there will always be people willing to open their arms to you and hold your hand through the grief ❤🙏
@@CreeseDF Brother, i sympathize with you entirely. I hope youve made your peace. I lost my brother today, he was a great guy and a uncle to my son. he was only 24 years old, and didnt deserve the horrendous , barbaric killing that was inflicted on him. Hope to hear from you. Well wishes and lots of love.
@@BewilderedAsshat my uncle passed this morning from a heart attack. He was supposed to come on a trip with us for the weekend, but he was sick and he said it would be fine if we left him with grandma for the weekend. I knew something was off that day and I can never ever forgive myself
@@CreeseDF My neighbor died a couple days or weeks ago. I wish I appreciated her and seen her more. She gave up on life- the pain was too much. But remember there watching you from above no matter what you believe in. Hold on tight..
I’m so so sorry for your loss Bill. She’s with you everyday. I lost my dad less than a year ago to cancer and at certain times, I feel his presence. She’s ok, so remind her that you’re also trying your best to be ok.
Bill Ellis I lost my bird 3 days ago when I got home from school I would always talk to him and bring him along with me but his time came he didn’t sing and slept more but was still alive until it finally happened that same day and I’m still really sad currently I just can’t accept it he was my best friend and the best bird ever.😭😭🐤🐤
Me: thinking about killing myself Grandma: *dont make me come down there damnit* Rip grandma 5/18/19 Edit: I no longer want to die, but my life will never be the same
My grandma passed 10/20/19, but was kept alive till the 25th through AI. She suffered a stroke, and had been to the hospital so many times before, we put the most beautiful dress on her when she was going to the cremation site.
:( my grandpa passed just now like couple minutes ago and my aunty passed away yesterday, so two important family members passed away 1 day apart :( i just needed to tell someone, sorry if it bothered u
I lost my dad this morning. 14/06/23. I wish I appreciated him more. It feels weird with him gone. I knew it would happen. He said his hernia was in pain. And they never took him to the hospital. I’m gonna miss my dad.
My dad also passed away, 7 years ago next summer. I still don't know how to fathom that. I can't even remember his voice and in pictures he looks like a stranger. My 14 year old self was way to good in shoving all the feelings away and just keep on going, that it's hard to dig them back up now. I also wish I had loved him more and shown him how much I care for him, but he wasn't better at it and maby it is just hard to do that as a child, when your parents just broke up. Sometimes i wonder when and if it ever stops. I also can't see a clear end of this tunnel, but I can see my next step and I know, that if I keep on going, I will get out of it. Wish you all the best, stay strong.
He knows you love him he always did, I recently lost my dad and I feel exactly like you, it hurts cause we loved even when we were upset at them. We miss people more when their gone instead of loving more when they are here. I'm sure you will see him again 😊
My father passed this morning. I’m 16 and he was 49. It’s so sad to think about all the milestones he won’t be around for in my life and my little sister’s life. I’m graduating high school this year and I know he was so excited to see me walk across the stage. Dad, I miss you, and I hope you’re okay.
Mine is similar with yours. Whenever I think of each milestone I will achieve without my father, it weakens me. I love him, our youngest sister is strong and he is my inspiration to study so I can give the life my father dreamed to her.
I found my brothers dead body in his room today, it broke my heart because our dad died one moth before he died. It’s sad to see someone take their own life because someone died. May god be with your father and mine, may my brother be with his family in heaven. And good luck sent to those who are still on earth, and rest peacefully all those in heaven. Amen.
Same rip 6-15-2020, that’s the first time I have ever wrote the date down. I can’t stop crying and I don’t know what to do. I would give ANYTHING to have her back.
It's not comparing your loss, you are acknowledging your pain and that is so important! I'm so sorry for your loss, sure that George was very special and important to you. I hope you are feeling at peace now.
Every relationship is unique and familys look different , you have all your right to feel sad over your loss😭😭💔💔animals are not just animals , they are personalities like humans😭😭😭
Claire 999 I am sorry for you loss may he Rest In Peace and same here my dog recently died and I just miss him soo bad and miss his unconditional love ❤️
During the last 4 years I’ve lost my grandpa, my mom, a friend and my grandma.. my feelings are just numb at this point, I don’t know where to put my grief anymore💔 19.10.2016 29.12.2018 03.06.2020 08.07.2020 Rest in peace🌟
Man This must be hurting you a lot . i cant imagine how are you feeling right now but life is longer than you thought and you have many many years to get better and live the life that your loved ones have thought you will live and be happy (i can just say but its you who need to do that )RIP for the loved ones you lost.
My Grandmother was like a mother to me ... even though not the talkative type, but she always helped me the best that she could ! When i was sick, when my parents abandoned me ... she was always there !
I recently lost my grandma and I think the best thing that u can do for yourself is to reach out and rebuild ur support network. There are people out there who will talk to u ur gonna get through this.
I lost my dad a week ago.. I wish I would show my love to him more openly, I wish I would appreciate him more when he was alive. I do not know how am I supposed to live with these feelings of guilt, sadness. I really don’t know. Rest in peace, dad. I love you so much. Until we meet😞😞😞
My dad also passed away, 7 years ago next summer. I still don't know how to fathom that. I can't even remember his voice and in pictures he looks like a stranger. My 14 year old self was way to good in shoving all the feelings away and just keep on going, that it's hard to dig them back up now. I also wish I had loved him more and shown him how much I care for him, but he wasn't better at it and maby it is just hard to do that as a child, when your parents just broke up. Sometimes i wonder when and if it ever stops. I also can't see a clear end of this tunnel, but I can see my next step and I know, that if I keep on going, I will get out of it. Wish you all the best, stay strong.
My mother just passed away on Sunday, January 19, 2020! She came to my home to celebrate my birthday and she died the following day!! Her life slipped right of my hands as I was trying to do CPR!!! It hurts so much, I do not know how to grieve!!! The what ifs are kicking in!! Regrets are just pounding in my heart!!! Should I had loved her more? Please pray for me for PEACE, HOPE and strength!!! I got 6 little girls to take care of!! I don't want to eat or sleep!! PLEASE pray!!!
From a person who lost his mom @2 and my father 3years ago it feels like yesterday..stay strong live your life and make them proud .may they rest in peace ✌️🕊️
@@PaulineScores How did he die from exercising? Was he much older or did he have a heart attack? Just curious. I don't doubt you. But, I had situation where they told me that I could have died, but I got surgery before it became life-threatening. Or, it was LT -- just I got surgery before the rupture got bigger.
I lost my dad months ago and when he died I realized I lost my best friend. I started to become distant from friends I has since elementary, and my online friends. I made new friends but I feel bad because every time my childhood friends call me I can’t make myself answer andI don’t know why. When my dad died I felt and still do feel stupid because I should’ve called him everyday, but no. My stupid self didn’t even call everyday like he asked and I always apologize to him for it. Last night I couldn’t sleep and I cried myself to sleep because the longer he’s gone the more I miss him. People say it will get better but what Im wondering is when? When will my life ever be normal again because it seems like I will never be the girl I used to be
Thank you. God bless you as well. My father just told me I love you which is very rare as we don't have the best relationship. Things are not easy right now. However I know that Jesus never fails and life does go on
Thank you. Its really difficult to deal with life right now. I don't want to go into too much detail here but it isn't the fact that she is gone that hurts so much. Its the fact that she choose to leave that bothers me. With that being said I do understand that life goes on eventually despite how painful it can get
I just lost my dad, right before my 18th birthday. almost 18 years ago, I lay in the NICU, clinging onto life by a mere thread. My dad stood next to my incubator, watching me. through the many tubes and wires hooked up all over my body, I grabbed onto his pinkie with my tiny hand. He was there for me. Now I have no one. I just feel so terribly alone.
Same! My Dad passed a few days ago. Everybody is telling me to be strong, but how? Is there a class I can take or something? But I'm glad I came across this video, and reading the comments makes me feel less lonely.
@@nanoulise19 It's been a month and I'm trying to not think about it too much. Just be glad that he's not hurting anymore and he's in a better place now. He still loves you. ♥
I know it sounds weird but I had a pet chicken I spent time with everyday for 2 years and his kidneys just failed nothing will fix that worst part is it happened today
I lost my dog and I can’t imagine losing a human being that is close to you. I’m feeling so much endless pain by losing one of my beloved dogs and just the thought of losing someone close to me, crushes me. Bless those who have gone through this pain and those that are going through it right now.
Alicelf360 I feel your pain. I lost my cat yesterday and I’ve been crying ever since I got the call that she was euthanized. Thank you for your kind words ❤️
i lost my dog 24 hours ago. I grew up wirh her. She was there with me on my first day of school. She was so important to me. She had heart and lung problems and i found her last night underneath our dining table. I havent stopped crying since but reading all of these comments make me feel less alone.
I lost my cat three days ago. I didnt have energy to do anything. All the house is empty and I miss him so much. He was so special to me. And I know he loved me too
My cat got run over 2 days ago. He was only 6 months old but in that time we became really close. He would sleep next to me and wake up with me and I'd play with him every day. And now when I wake up he isn't there anymore. Everything feels so empty right now.
I lost my sweet Dad two months ago, on Aug 8th. I couldn’t save him, I feel like I’ve failed him. I just woke up that morning and he was gone. Everyday doesn’t feel real. I just want to wake up from this never ending nightmare and see my dad again. I hate living life without him, it doesn’t feel right at all. I hate every moment I’m distracted from thinking about him. I just want to hear his voice. Talk to him again. Idk how long I have to wait for my time to come but I honestly hope it’s not too long. Losing a parent is hell on earth for me and I cannot handle the pain. He was my strength. I hope..if there is a Heaven, he’s up there happy and at peace. I hope I can join him there someday. I can only hope.
@@gerarddonaldson8049 Damn. I am sorry to hear that man. Life can he really hard sometimes. I hope you feel better and I hope you remember that your father is now looking after you and that he loves you.
Since I was little, Ive heard adults talk about how they’d "give anything to have them back" I never completely realized the meaning until last Tuesday. We had my grandmas funeral today, and I can’t help thinking about how much time I missed with her by playing video games instead of spending time with her when I was at her house.🤬😓 She passed away after getting COVID at a Vacation Bible school party. I was at camp during the party, but before the camp was the last time I ever actually spent time with her. She spent a month in the hospital, and I never saw her healthy again. I can only imagine how my grandfather is feeling, but I can’t stop thinking of the things I used to take for granted and how she won’t be there to watch me continue to grow. I’m thinking as I type this about how she won’t see anymore of my track meets, won’t see me graduate high school, and won’t be at the beach next summer. Now I want to go hug my other three grandparents and spend every remaining second of their lives that I can with them. I love you so much, Grandma. Rest In Peace 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Sorry for your loss. I lost my Grandma many years ago, but I was 17 (I guess) and she died in my latter high school years. But, she had been sick from Dementia for few years, so it was actually a relief that she finally passed. Because she was not in good health, and there was nothing that our current medical science could do. She just got worse and worse. So, I am sorry for what happened, and yes, it is important to spend time with the people that we care about in our lives. And, a big loss will make you realize how important those moments are.
The same happend to me about a couple months ago , I lost my grandpa and I would do anything to get any time with him back. Your not alone. May your grandma Rest In Peace ✌️🤍
almost exactly the same story...I lost her today and I can't stop thinking about all my regrets and how hard she fought, may your rest in peace grandma
I lost my 13 year old son 21 years ago . I am trying to speak about my journey to help others ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-SQRzIK0o-NA.html
My grandma died a few months ago, it felt like a whole world just ripped apart from me, she always took care of me and encouraged during tough times, when she died of sudden heart attack I felt very guilty becuase she died alone with no one comforting her except for doctors and nurses, I can't imagine how much all of the people here have gone through, I hope every one of our deceased loved ones are in a better place where they could relax and live a peaceful eternal life. I love you grandma I hope to see you againsomeday😫
lost my mom 2 weeks ago im only 12 but i know she is still here with me i love her so much she is the kindest person i have ever met she is the kind of person which you could talk to and within a few minutes she would make your day. There are people who talked to her for a few minutes many years ago who still remember her. This happening is just so sad for me i even knew i wouldn't have her for as long as i wanted cause she has been sick for years now dealing with lupis , authritus , one leg , Blader infection, and ect.. she was just so full of life me my brothers and dad we were her life she loved us so much even though she went through so much pain she was still so happy cause she got to spend everyday with us she lived life to the fullest she traveled the world has so many friends her family. I love her so much and i know i will see her again. There is also so much more i could say but i cant fit how much she means to me in one comment. I cant even form words strong enough to show how much she has helped me and impacted on me. Though im only 12 i will never forget the moments that we shared together
I'm so sorry you have to go through this so young. I was 11 when I lost my mom and it was a really messed up time for me I was so broken for most of my life. I'm so happy to see you looking at these videos to help you. I didn't have these back then but your so smart and courageous to share what your going through. Big hugs to you sweetie.
I lost my mom on Christmas Eve..( 2017) I am sorry for your loss also.. You are very mature for your age.. Your mother was a wonderful person who raised a wonderful daughter
My Granny Anne departed her life on Earth 18/12/2013 My Granddad Cyril moved to Heaven from Earth 13/10/2016 Rest easy up there you 2 Forever in my heart
My 12 year old brother passed away a week ago, he was my life, best friend, every fucking single thing I had in my life, when I feel down he makes me happy, and I used to upset him sometimes I hope I can Express my feelings to him, I said to my mom : i really feel bad for screaming at my lil bro , I well never do it again, came back to my dad crying telling us that my bro fell of 20m while he was in a amusement park, i thought it was a joke until I saw his body, feels weird sleeping alone, all I can say is that I loved this guy and i will always love him.
Asem Aldaras I’m so sorry that happened to you. My uncle died this morning and I can’t stop crying. I can’t imagine what you’re going through. My brother is 12 right now and we were fighting this morning, but I will give him a hug for you. I hope you and your family are doing okay. ❤️
I lost my mother a few weeks ago and she was all I had . I feel so hopeless and shattered inside . I didn’t know the death of a love one could cause so much pain .
@@liam-je8ue I’m 12 and I’m just about to lose my grandma, it’s just to painful I wasn’t always the best grandchild I hated to eat with her, and epdeal with her, but all she did was care about me now the pain is just unreal.
@@cheaterfcg1802 I’m sorry you have to go through this I’m 11 and it’s the worst time of my life but my mom and brothers and extended family and friends are making it better
I'm 19 and my family dog of 14 years passed away early this morning. I woke up and found her lifeless cold, stiff body laying on the floor. I honestly can't explain how upset I am. I've been screaming into pillows all day and my voice hurts. I cared about her the most and took care of her and now I can't help but feel guilty that I didn't notice the red flags quick enough near her end in order to help her, when I knew her better than everyone. I just want to see or feel her 1 more time. I didn't get enough time with her at the end and now ill never see her again.
Damn, sorry. So terrible to hear that. I've lost about 7 animals in my first years of life. My hamster, two ducks (both were put down to prevent the avian flu), my goldfish, one big cat (he seemed to be recovering, but he died a few days later), another cat I made friends with (they got run over by a car), my white rabbit... too much to put. Sorry, I can't take it. *That's how things go every day. That's how it goes all over the world.*
im so so so sorry! i know you gave her the best life you could!!! she was blessed by you, probably as much as you were blessed by her! you will remember her forever and always have the great memories! and you will see her again, i know it!
Same here but not only depression severe anxiety stress, problems with family they don't care of help at all, CPTSD neglection and horrible past memories wish l was dead, my life is ruined and nothing going to change it or fix it. 😭😭😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔
I think that makes it so much harder when we develop this friendship with our parent later in life. My mom just passed and she was 96. We became good friends over the past 30 years and that will make me miss her so much. When my dad died 30 years ago I did not feel the same. I was younger and not so close.
I am 25 and my dad is 54 right now.....He is my only best friend... We go to holy places together..We go to market together... He comes to pick me up when I am latefrom work(11:30pm). I can't imagine my life without him😣😣
@@passwordsuggestion5336 i still think its harder for younger people cause if you are already like 38+ you've probably spend more time with your parents but if you are a child you didnt really get to spend time then they are gone forever
I lost my horse in may, i know it sounds stupid but that horse saved my life and I can't get over the fact that he's gone. He was the one thing that made me actually happy and I still don't know what to do with myself
@@thistlebee3441 I had to put down my cat a few days ago, I haven’t been able to stop crying. She was 12 and kidney renal failure is common in cats but I feel extremely sad that I couldn’t have done more to save her. It was the hardest decision I ever had to make. I wanted her to keep fighting but that would’ve been selfish of me when she was in so much pain. I keep looking at her videos and tearing up, seeing her toys everywhere breaks my heart. I sleep with her blankets because they still smell like her. It’s so hard, it’s as hard if not harder than mourning the loss of a person. All animals go to heaven.
Save pictures and savor the times you were still close to her. It's been a month and its the little things that get me, like not seeing her in her chair anymore, not watching T.V and talking to her, not sitting on the porch smiling and laughing with her. It's like a piece of my soul went with her.
Core, I hope you are feeling a little better. I am so sorry for your pain. I know how it is to lose a best friend. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
My last words to my Grandma were “I’ll see you soon!” I knew she was in a bad condition, but we all expected her to get better. I should’ve talked to her more, I’m just kicking myself. I’ll miss her for the rest of my life.
I lived with my grandma. She died today. I have never felt this terrible in my life. She was everything my mother will never be. She was my mother. I don’t know if I’ll ever get through this pain. This is a living nightmare.
My last words to my grandma were really similar, I remember telling her to come visit us after she gets better so we could go to the beach together (she didn’t live in the same country as me). Shortly after we left, she passed on. I somehow knew she wasn’t going to overcome her sickness, yet I didn’t appreciate her like I should’ve, I didn’t talk to her enough, I didn’t hug her enough. It’s been eight months and I still haven’t come to terms with her death. I miss mi abuelita more than anything. As of recent, a friend from school died. I wasn’t close to them at all, but I still miss them. I am so sorry for your loss, and I wish you and your family well.
@Cat-zilla I'm so sorry, that sounds really terrible to witness. I hope she passes away peacefully and without pain. It's been about a little over a year since my grandma died and I made this comment, and it gets better. You never lose that pain when you think about them, but you learn to keep them in your life without wanting to breakdown anymore. I hope you find that peace, too. Much love to her, you, and your family rn.
@@andrewjudeus6283 I know I'm a bit late, but it's been a little over a year since mine died, and I promise it gets better. You'll still always miss her, but you learn to live with that pain and not feel so hopeless. I hope you feel a bit better now, and I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm sure she was lovely.
My grandma died. I was with her almost every single day of my life, but it just so happens that I wasn't with her when she passed. She went to japan to visit my nieces and nephews. 2 days after arriving she passed. I didn't even get to kiss her at the airport when they left. I feel sick to my stomach, my knees feel weak, and I can't stop crying. I cried at the church, at the grocery store, I broke down at the dinner table, and at my room. She was my best friend, she listened to everything I said even though she had no idea wtf I'm talking about half of the time. She put up with all my shit and never once complained about me. I still dont understand how she's gone, in my mind she'd be downstairs when I wake up
RIP Dad, you cared more for me and my brother than you did your own well being. And that's why you're not here.... I miss you and wish I could've said goodbye and told you I love you.
Same thing just happened to me my father went to work and had a heart attack. He was hurting all along and never showed it. He spent his last day taking care of stuff for the house when he should’ve been resting. I love and miss him so much like I know u do with your dad but the only thing keeping me sane is the fact I know he did his job and got to raise all his kids right. Our fathers will truly be missed and remembered Stay strong 💪🏾
I lost my boyfriend..we had just started living together..we only got 5 months together then he died in an astma attack, his astma was very bad..he did not get any air for an hour..he..he became braindead. He died in my arms waiting for the ambulance..at least I was there even though I could do nothing to get air into his lungs. He got some heavy meds and his body just could not take it anymore :(
@@haruchinen9959 - Thank you...I respectively say Im not ready for the Memory Lane part of this grieving process or denial...'Yes, Im that far gone' go,
@@latkagravas986 I am far gone ad well, I can't remember and smile, I only remember all the hardships and how he died in my arms. I take depression meds, calm and sleep meds. Several times I have said kill me repeatadly when I can't bare it. Yet I'm still here while he is not. He is everywhere. I can't hide and don't want to but I still do.
@@latkagravas986 everything reminds me of him, it hurts but I at the same time don't want to forget everything we had in common. But it hurts so much to remember, thats why I often hide as a defense. "Hide" from photos for example, avoid stuff that hurts to much instead of facing it.
For anyone who lost somebody dear and beloved to them, Know this; They love you, they will always be here, look up at the night sky... that one bright star shining in the distance? It is them, smiling and giving you hope for a new day, no matter what happens, they will want you to be strong, and so do I ❤️
Mia Wallace You will be okay. We are all just bodies of energy in motion. We do go on. This loss will change you...just like the water changes the rocks. It's okay. Hold your head up and be proud of your pain. Be proud you have loved so deeply, that you have hurt so pure. It will change you. It will shape you. ..be proud of these wounds.
My grandpa died today and he was the best grandpa ever. Even thought he didn't suffer in pain his death makes me so sad. I had cried this whole day. You're in better place now, we will see again. Bye for now.❤️
If he didn't suffer when he was passing, this means he was a good person and will have a good birth. Evil people suffer a lot when they get old and they wish even death to stop the suffering, yet they don't die. I grieve for my child that is still alive that was kidnapped by Social Service 5 years ago. www.ineedmymum.com
My heart is absolutely breaking for you! My grandpa just died too, it sucks. Like a lot. I am praying for you and everyone who replied to your comment! I really hope it helps! My number is 469-767-2010 if you want to text or even call if you need to talk it doesn't just have to be about this plus it would be nice to know that I am not the only one going through this.
My mother passed away a month ago, after fighting cancer for 3 months. I still didn't really overcome her death, because she is my own mother. Nobody can replace her. Despite this, now I feel better about it, thanks to my friends and my other family members. I always know that my mother isn't really gone. She is always there, inside my heart. I deeply regret all my bad actions that I committed. All those words I said. All those desrespectful actions. She was a strong woman. She never cried in front of me, always smiled and always listened to my opinions. Although it seemed like I didn't like her, I always knew I loved her, deep down inside of me. On the day she passed away, I cried for a solid hour. My aunt cheered me up, by saying that my mother wouldn't want to see me like this. She would always want to see me strong. I really miss my mother. The first thing I would say to her if I saw her again would be: I deeply regret my actions. I apologize. Thank you for all the support. I love you, mom.
Boi's Plotagon Animations you mother sounds like a trooper and a beautiful angle she is always looking down at you and protecting you don’t forget that may she Rest In Peace
@@ashr.k5041 O wasn't laughing it was a very sad moment but I have gotten over it but thank you thank you for being very sweet but I wasn't laughing I was putting that crying symbol everyone uses when they are sad but thanks for checking up sweetie
I know you’re all probably sick of seeing things like this, but my grandma was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer today. Please pray for her because the doctor said this is probably gonna be out last Christmas together. I’m never the kind of person to comment stuff like this- but I just feel like if I can get enough people on my side, she might fight through it and live through many more years.
Had her first session of radiotherapy yesterday.. the operation went well, as did the radiotherapy. Still a bit shocked though! Thank you so much for your kind thoughts
When you feel like it, and it's going to take as much time as you need, consider going to grief counseling therapy sessions that is only, and repeat only, for parents whom have lost a child of any age. Find one in your community, city, or town. Usually they're provided courtesy of a Church in your area and the one I attended for help was free. The group met once weekly for a couple of hours. Everyone in the group was unfortunately in the club no one as a parent ever wants to join, but have...including the group leader. I attended after about 3 years losing our son at the age of 20. Only parents whom have lost a child can understand what other parents whom have lost a child are going through. No one else can. Parents help each other by talking about anything and everything they are feeling, going through, their child lost, .... Anything. There's plenty of tissue boxes, no one critizises, everyone understands, and everyone is there to help everyone. You will never get over this. It has hit you like a transfer truck, you are not yourself, you never will be again. Eventually a better version of the wrecked you will materialize, but you will always be wrecked. The you back when your child was alive, is gone. You just learn to cope again because you basically have to. At least that's how it's been for me. It's been 9 years so far after losing my youngest child and he was my only Son by my 2nd marriage. Going to this group and me included, watching parents cry while they talk about their lost child. We all talked, we all helped each other. It helped.
I lost my dad too yesterday, he went swimming and didnt come back.. Still waiting to hear what actually happened. Im only 17, he didn't get to see me turn 18.. I miss you dad... Also stay strong guys.. Lets get through this together
Every time I stare at my parents I choke up on the couch. They probably don’t see it but Im thinking bad thoughts. I can not imagine my life without them. Once that day comes will be a very bad day for me. I am not strong enough. I’m 36 and could never imagine that day. I am emotionally strong but that day will bring me to my knees.
Justin Mitchell I feel you bro. Same here with my parents, they’re still here but I can’t imagine the thought of losing them, I love them so much. Enjoy every moment with them now. Death is inevitable but our souls are eternal. Love them and Cherish every moment with them. That’s what I do, when mine pass away sometime in the far far future I’ll know that they are in a better place
Me too, I’m 14 and I’m already worrying that something bad will happen to my parents or grandma. I’ve already experienced many deaths of my pets and I couldn’t even bare the pain so who knows how I will feel when one of my parents or grandma dies. The pain will be even worse
I lost my cat today. His name was gonzo and he was very sick. I also lost my dog Tara late 2017. I fell into a deep grieving for a few months after Tara's death.
I just lost my 14 year old cat to illness to, 1 in the morning, hour drive to the vet hospital to put her down. it was rough being with her and seeing her go like she did. Also my mom's favorite cat was named Tara. Sorry for your losses.
My dog had cancer and we put her down today. She was my best friend and the happiest animal. It’s hard to believe this all happened and I’m just waiting to wake up...
My birdie just died.... He was only 3 yrs old... I called him applejack... He may of had a weird name but he is still in my heart... My cat died too, he died on Xmas day... I really want to die... Edit: Sorry for your losses..
@@MohidPvE so sorry for your loss. It's been tough not gonna lie. There are days that are fine and then there are days when I am depressed and sad. All I can say that it's okay not to be okay and hopefully with time we can be eventually.
Just those few words you wrote about your mom brought all the pain of loss back to me after all these years. Love never dies, and the pain of losing them never dies completely either.
One of my best friends comitted suicide yesterday morning. I've been crying nonstop. Never thought it would ever hit this hard. For me the most scariest part is you never know when they'll be gone. He was there and then gone the next morning. I'll always feel that guilt feeling of why didn't I do something to stop it?? I am devestated. Please pray for me. I'll pray for everyone in these comments who's dealing with grief.❤❤ Love you all.
i will pray for you, my grandpa just passed from a heart attack today and yeah you really never know it’s coming he was too young and always made me laugh i miss him already 💔💔
I'm praying for you! Please do the same for me. I lost some I loved so much and its killing me. I haven't been able to truly deal with the grief I've been experiencing. Thanks! And I'm sorry for your loss. Its really hard sometimes. Stay strong! 💜
@@Marcelushowto hay my love💗💗💗 it's been over 2 months now and I can tell you it wasn't easy At first it feels like you won't be able to deal.with it but I promise you it gets better. 😚😚😚 Ilsym. Please stay strong. I will pray for you and I am so so sorry to hear.💕💕💕💕💕
My son died on june 3rd, 2018. His name is Aaron and he was 30 years old.He was a very talented hairdresser and was always striving to grow as a person and artist. He was also passionate about boxing and put his heart and soul into that also. I've been getting angry lately with denial and the thought that such a gentle spirit like Aaron would be taken a way from his future growth and joy. I've wasted a large part my life by not working to better my own life.Why is he the one that's been taken away instead of me. I've been crying out for answers and looking for some kind of spiritual awakening that will tell me that he's safe and happy in whatever place there is out there. I will never stop talking about him and will never stop bragging about how gentle hearted he was. He had the greatest laugh. I tell him every day that i'm so sorry that this happened to him. I apologize for rambling.
im so sorry david. life is so unfair and you dont have to look far to see how unjust and terrible it can be. we may all meet again one day, but in the meantime, just know that david wants you to be happy and to not ask 'why'? he wants you to celebrate his life and be happy. you know that's what he wants. its ok to feel the way you do at times though. go through the process that our mind takes us though. dont feel guilty about being here still.
david r macri My daughter Katy died June 10, 2018. She was 31. 6 months later and I still can’t get past it. It’s extremely hard to pretend to be normal when my heart is breaking. I just wanted you to know you are not alone. Losing a child is the worst of everything.
So sorry about your loss. I lost my brother over a year ago. I survived two cancers in 2013-2014 two major cancers. I keep wondering why did I live to see my Brother die of cancer. It is hard. I know no answers . Treasure your sons memory and the sound of his laugh. I have found prayer helps. God is always waiting for our prayers.
Lost my grandpa today who was pretty much my father and my best friend all wrapped into one amazing human. I’ve dealt with loss before but this one really hits harder then it ever has before. I can’t stop crying and I’m so angry at the world for allowing this to happen
I can’t relate but I feel for u, all I can say is I’m sorry for your loss and ik that won’t make it better. I’m absolutely terrified abt losing my parents and seeing yours and everyone else’s post I will try to appreciate them more .I hope u fell better soon❤️
Bless you, baby. I'm sorry you've experienced this so young. Sending love and prayers your way. Stay strong, young one. Your bestie would want that for you.
This is what i tell myself we lived on this earth everybody was on earth once someone dies they go to heaven where they start their new lives and they wait for us to get there so once everybody is in heaven we all start a new life in a new place a loveable place ♥️
Pray this prayer sincerely to know your saved Jesus, I believe you came to earth, I believe you died on the Cross for my sins. I believe you rose again on the 3rd day and went back to Heaven to prepare a place for Your Children To live with You Forever . Please forgive me of my sins. Clean my heart, white as snow. Come live in my heart, make me a child of the King, a new creature in Christ, in your precious Name I ask this...amen. Do these things after praying the Salvation Prayer: 1) try a Bible and read it daily, it will feed your spirit and soul, the way you feed your body with food and water. 2) Pray to Jesus Everyday. He is your NEW Best Friend and He Wants to Talk with you daily he is love not a sin full love of flase love but a new one. 3)God is coming back soon rapture is coming and i love and what HEAVEN for who ever is reading this pray God will guide u and that u want to be used by him. 4) Pray to be filled with the Holy Spirit, "Sanctified". You do this by praying, reading the Bible and living for Jesus. 5) take your King James Bible to church. When the preacher speaks, make sure what he says matches your Bible, it not, get up and walk out and find a new church. 6) **VERY IMPORTANT** Make SURE you REPENT of SIN you do now, ask Jesus to forgive you with an honest heart and He will he loves u with the Greatest Love. ***If you would like me to pray with you or for you for ANYTHING, please message me and I will add you to my daily prayer list. May God bless you! My Belief Statement 1) I believe In The Triune God Head, God Jesus and the Holy Spirit 2) Salvation Through Jesus Christ Is The ONLY Way To Heaven 3) I believe Christians MUST REPENT Of Post Salvation Sin 4) I believe in immersion Baptism only 5) I believe in Holy Communion 6) I believe all people will spend forever in Heaven or Hell 7) I believe in Conditional Security 8) I believe in the Pre-Tribulation Rapture 9) I believe God Created the Heavens and the earth ! 10) I believe in ONE God, Jehovah & Jesus Christ His Son! may God be with and bless and guide who ever reads this
I feel like I moved on and then... It always repeats itself again and again and I'm tired of it, I want to be able to remember her and smile, not cry and slowly fade away.
The Crazeh Jay Grief is often described as coming in waves. Sometimes very overpowering, knocking us over. Sometimes, like gentle waves, a sweet memory. Unexpected. The intensity and the frequency will diminish. E.g. Much loved songs would tear me apart. Then, I decided I had to switch the radio off if one was playing. Now, I can listen without agonising pain, or maybe a smile and sometimes a tear still falls. Sometimes, I'll dance. You will walk on firmer ground one day.
The Crazeh Jay + Zina when i thought i had good friends they didn't Come Around like i thought. 1st Of all Dear friend Ithasnt been Very long for your grieving, it seems as rhough Life just Cant go On... I cry when i see other's Grieve. It's the Worst i know... Very hard... Choose To turn to God, so far i too have lost Dad & 3 brothers. Michael most recently... my last brother died 8yrs. ago but, I Couldnt afford the Plane ticket So they Put him on the Phone With me. They said he Couldnt Speak i fought bacl my tears & said, Louis this is your sister, i Know u Can Hear Me & I said the Lords prayer with Him. I could Just Tell he was Hearing me, then I cho8ked back my tears & was told he was taking his last Breath... it's SO darn hard! But, I encourage you dear. Hang Onto the Love, the Memories, and Think of Your Good memories! Even Silly one's but Hang onto your Love 4 Ur Mom loves you.. Much hugs & Love 💓
Ive lost my grandpa, best friend, my cat and my dad within 29 days of 2024. it sucks and i cant stop crying. my head hurts and everything reminds me of them. I cant even sleep.
I lost My Grandma 😢 and I love my Grandma so much I did not want her to leave 😢 I Miss My Grandma Everyday 😢 this do not seem real this is like a Dream 😢
I know what it feels like, it feels like that our lost loved ones are still here with us even though they're gone. But what if this is a sign telling us that they really are still here, in our hearts and minds and perhaps in a better place.
I lost my Grandma yesterday. I know how it feels- my grandma was only 73 and she died of cancer, but it really feels like she's still here. Yeah- it feels all like a bad dream. Except I'll never awake from it.
I know the pain with dealing with the loss of a parent all too well. I lost my dad four years ago. Sorry I don't have an answer for how long it takes to hurt less. It still hurts the same amount as it did four years ago. I was 14 when he died and I am now 18 and going to college next year.
My dad passed away 8 years ago- it still hurts. I don't think about him every day- but sadly it's never positive when I do. Even speaking about my dad makes me cry. Trust me when I say if it's hurting you that much- don't be afraid to go to a therapist! I didn't, and now 8 years later because I never dealt with my grief properly, I've been diagnosed with depression- the root of it being my dads death so long ago. It'll eventually hurt less- especially spending time with family and maybe even talking about him. Just don't deal with your grief alone- you're not the only one who's hurt by his death, try to remember that. I didn't, and dealt with it alone.
Thank you all so much for sharing your stories, it means a lot. 14 months have passed since my father died and it still hurts like it did when he passed. I've been helped by a therapist, although some days I wake up and I do not realize he's really gone. My mind doesn't seem to comprehend it. I often ask myself where he might be. Coping with death is by no means an easy task. Knowing that someone else has gone through the same struggle made me feel less lonely in my own grief and I need to say that I am so sorry for your loss. I don't know when it will start to be acceptable or hurt less,but thank you from the bottom of my heart for the kind words. It means the world to me.
I know its an animal but my dog had to be put to sleep yesterday and it's honestly like ive lost a sister because i dont have any memories where shes not in them...i miss her so much
I just lost my mother 3 weeks ago to pancreatic cancer. It's 3:50 a.m. another sleepless night. She was my best friend and the constant in my life. Thanks for your video. It's okay to not be okay. That's what I took from it. And also, there is no time limit to my grief and its like a roller-coaster. Up and down. It's my journey through it. Thanks
yesterday my cat passed away. im so heartbroken. she's been in our family for 15 years, i dont remember how it is to live without her. she's always been there. i dont even know what to do. im so empty inside.
I lost my grandma on the 17th December after her 2nd battle with cancer. her funeral was yesterday and it was the saddest day of my life. She was my role model, a massive part of my life and knowing that she’s gone makes it hard to breathe.
I lost my grandma 2 days ago, I feel your pain, she couldn’t even speak but she knew I was there and still hugged me and rubbed my hair, just know your not alone and I wish you the best of luck my friend🙏🏿💯
@@mirrr5467 same here lost my Grandma(adopted mom) last year and my adopted dad in 2016 one year apart and both from cancer. I'm sorry for loss I truly I'm hope you got support during this rough time. I had none and I'm still dealing with all Alone 😢😞😥😕🙁😒☹️
I have lost my mother to suicide, my sister-in-law died in a house fire, and my brother overdosed on Rx pills... My advice to all from dealing with the tragedies in my own life is this: Chin up! You can choose to allow the sadness to take over your life OR you can choose to live life to the fullest, everyday! Have fun, smile, laugh because the one thing that we will always take with us in the end it the experiences we have shared in this life. The energy of love and life is eternal. I choose life and I choose to smile and hopefully make people laugh through my channel. Grief can not take over your beautiful energy unless you allow it to. So don't ;) If you're here then chances are that you are trying to fight the negative energy and surpass the stages of grief with flying colors. I believe in you and I know you can do it! Keep doing what ever it is that makes you smile everyday!! I love all of you
I lost my grandfather on Wednesday to a heart attack. Honestly, I'm still shocked that he is gone because it doesn't seem real to me. My grandfather was a larger than life guy who believed that Honesty, Hard Work, and Happiness were the keys to living a good life. 2 of the 3 H's I usually have down but my happiness was never something I cared about because I didn't think it mattered much but when my grandfather was around I was always happy. Always willing to listen to the stories he had to tell and the lessons he was willing to teach. The day before his death he told me that he was proud of me and that he was proud to have me as a grandson and we had given each other a big hug and I told him that I loved him and that is the last great memory I have had with him and I will hold it and him with me for the rest of my life. It is up to me now to hold up the mantle and standards that he upheld in his life and live the way my grandfather wanted me to live. Even though he isn't here in physical form, he is definitely with me in my heart and mind. Til we meet again at the end of the road Grandpa Jacinto. I'm gonna miss you.
TheGoodWorldArmy mine is lying in his deathbed now at home. I'm so sad. He can only say a few words and not any sentences. He told me he loved me and I will never forget
Thanks. I know that his troubles are over, unless the bible is real in which case they're just beginning! Actually, nah. He's probably cracked up satan so much that by now their rebuilding hell into a theme park for atheists!
my father passed almost 6 years ago, and I still haven't been the same since he was here. he was in a wheelchair ever since I could remember. he promised me that he would be walking by my side at my wedding. he died when I was just seven years old. daddy, I hope you are proud of me, I got over my stage fright and am now in a theatre group doing what I love most: singing. I promise I'll save you a front row seat. love, your only baby girl, charlotte. 08/20/73 - 01/22/14 I love you.
My daddy died on Monday. I miss him so much, I want to see him here with me. I'm just gonna be 20 years old in 4 days. I love him so much, he was my best friend. I know I'll see him soon, so I'm looking forward for it! You'll see your daddy too soon Just a little more days and we'll see them
Just lost my only living parent, Mom on Saturday. She raised me and my sister since we were little (8 for me and 10 for sis). My father was estranged and not caring and passed maybe 6 or 7 years ago. He never reached out prior to passing. I wish I appreciated my mom more but if I ever have kids I'll let them know how loving and proud she is of me and them.
Reading these comments really let me know that this happens to people all over and I’m not alone .... I recently lost my dad August 5th 2020 due to an unexpected severe stroke his blood vessel popped in his head and was pronounced brain dead. There was never a goodbye or heads up I just woke up and boom . It feels so good to get this out and see I am not the only one loosing a loved one close to you is hard . May my father and everyone’s loved ones Rest In Peace ❤️🌹🌹❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽(.)
My mom just recently passed on 12/31/21. She was as well pronounced brain dead, after having a brain aneurysm, in the hospital after 3 days of being there. It was a big smack in the face, and a slow burn. I lost my father 9 years ago and am still grieving his loss. I think what gets me is the big milestone I won’t see them at, but they’ll still be there. After grieving him for 9 years I’ve learned some thing but now that my mom is gone it’s hard to teach myself the same things again. But like you said, knowing that there are so many other people in the same position makes you feel like you can get through it and you can. Much love 💕
when i lost my grandmothers in the span of a month i felt like everyone in my family or everyone i love in general could’ve died any day and i was so scared of death, i felt like everything in my life was fragile and could be swept away the next day and there would’ve been no way of stopping it, if you’re feeling like this, you’ll find hope again, you may feel like “wow i’ve been living in lies and dreams all along and this is real life, everything is bad and everything good will turn bad” but it’s not like that, you’re meant to be happy, you’re meant to find peace and calm in your everyday life, the pain of losing someone will last but the fear and the horrible thoughts that come with it will go away, and dealing with your loss will be easier day after day. i hope this helped someone ❤️
Thank you for this, exactly what I have been feeling after the loss of two family members at the same month. Am so terrified of life I don't know how to deal with it.
@@katiespark7271 hang in there Katie...take it one day at a time...I lost my daughter and I hope this helps you. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-_v5xgLa6IHg.html
I too lost my grandma who I was very close to, we became bffs when I got older, I called her daily just to tell her how my day went. Covid got to her, it’s so heart breaking that after staying away from her for so long, I only got to hold her on her death bed. I am completely heart broken 💔.
My mum died today, she had cancer and she was only 45. I miss her so much already and I don't know how to cope. She was understanding, beautiful, smart kind, wonderful and many other great traits. I just burst into tears when I think about her. I just regret not being next to her when she died to comfort her. I was in Dorothy House and she couldn't speak or blink but she was breathing, due to her medication, then me and some of my other family members went on the tiniest walk while the nurse was looking after her for 5 minutes, when we came back she wasn't breathing. I started saying her name countless times, but she wouldn't wake up. I cried for hours, I just couldn't bring myself to the fact at 12 years old I wouldn't have my wonderful mum anymore...I don't know how to cope, I think I'm depressed...On the last birthday she had, me and her had an argument, she went to a restaurant with me, not my dad (They were not getting on well at all) I just wish I hadn't argued with her, I feel like it was all my fault..maybe if I had stayed to comfort her she could've lasted a little bit longer and I could've told her everything I wanted to say before she died. I wish she could've told everyone she loved them, even though I know she does...I just wished she could be right here with me now, cuddled up beside me...Telling me how much she loved me...I thought she was gonna get through it...But I guess cancer is a horrible thing...Evie x
I'm so sorry bro. I lost a family member by cancer too a few days ago and i know how you feel. Please stay stong for me even though it's hard. Push through this and never give up my guy!✊❤
I lost my grandfather on Friday (November 26th). I’m having a hard time still accepting that it’s real. My family is pretty small and we keep to ourselves (jsut my parents and my sister pretty much) so my grandpa would be on the phone with my parents almost 3 times a day. He couldn’t leave his retirement home very much so we’d always face time him and send him photos of wherever we travel. It’s hard without him here and now it just feels empty. My sister and I would even drive him to church on Sunday’s lately and I just wish I could’ve talked to him more and appreciated that time more. I was so worried about myself most of the time that I forgot to just appreciate others. I know I can’t change the past I just wish we all could’ve talked to him one last time before he went. Though I know he’s up in Heaven with my grandma. I’m praying for all those in here who are experiencing grief. I’ve never felt it like this, it’s like everything I look at reminds me of him and just makes me cry. I know he’s happier now but I really miss him and just want him to spend one more day with my family.
My cat is like a younger sibling too. I couldn't imagine loosing her, and I can't even imagine how much pain you're in. Stay strong and remember: Things will get better.
My cat died as well. Yesterday. It hurts so much because I wasn't able to take him back to the vet in time. I saw how much he suffered and can't stop blaming myself. I got to this video because I was looking for ways to stay strong. I hope things will get better for everyone experiencing this one day.
I know my dog isn’t a person but she was a part of our family and she was my best friend when no one wanted me around. She passed this morning and I. Ant deal with this and online school, sometimes I feel like giving up.
I'm sorry for your loss, I bet she was great company and knew how much you loved her. I came here to write please don't assume that no one wants you around, many people love you more than you know.
Hey, a dog is sometimes more than a person. Its okay to feel that way. Yesterday we had to put our puppy down, he was just 13 weeks old. Had been having 4 epileptic seizures a day, yesterday he had 8. And even for a dog that had just been living for us for 5 weeks, 1,5 of those weeks he was more of a zombie than a dog(because of the seizures and their toll). But he meant the world to me. I just quit my drug addiction 1 week after he got here and he was my best friend. He was there when nobody else could or would be. And i am greatfull for the 3 amazing weeks we got. Life will never be the same after this experience.
Your dog wouldnt want you to give up, he/she would have done everything to make you happy. The least you(we) can do, is keep living. Keep fighting no matter how hard it gets. Life really is something amazing, and you only see that value after you lost someone for who you would have givin your life. Stay strong my friend
My 6 weeks black kitten, Shadow died yesterday(9th of April, 2021) and I miss him so much. Still crying more than I thought I would but I'm happy that he doesn't have to suffer anymore. Shadow, may you go to a better place and bless us the power and courage to get through this heartbreaking grieving process. We will always miss you and love you as you're still our kitten. Rest in peace.
I'm so sorry. I lost my mother when I was 15. Your mom would want you to go on with your life & be happy. You will always feel as if a part of you is missing but you must allow yourself to be happy.
my friends mom died when he was your age, he saw it happen and has PTSD now. we both have PTSD but mien is fro. assault, I tell him to basically do everything in this vid, also not do drugs and remember it'll be okay.
I lost my dad almost 3 years ago. I still feel like I should have noticed him slipping. He called me his "little genius," but what kind of genius lets their father die? 10/23/16
It's not your fault my friend ..I lost my four-year old daughter...I blame myself but I know it doesn't do any good. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-X21DqbHScvg.html
I too lost my beloved father two months ago and I cry every day. I just miss his lovely smile and face and It just seems so unfair that he's gone. I did everything I could, saw his health go down, heard him say to me that he loves me so much, because he knew he was going to die. . I couldn't say many things, only that I love him. I feel so sad I can barely function some days, other days are better. But the whole pain of losing him feels very often unbearable. I love him so much. I just feel like I carry him in my heart and that's the only way I can go on.. and feel my pain a bit relieved.
@@Nefdan my heart grieves with you. You are very fresh on this grief journey and you are holding a lot...I'm 17 months into the loss of my daughter...I hope this helps. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-_v5xgLa6IHg.html
Jake nation if it makes you feel any better you’re not alone. My mom died March 17th from a freak accident and I’m 16, and the pain is almost unbearable.
I am so sorry to hear that. I lost my dad 5 months ago, today is 5 months since he died. It still hurt and it will always will I know, I am not the same person I used to be before he got sick and died. I bear pain in my chest every day. I am 27 years old and when I hear that someone younger lost parent like you did I thank God for having my dad at least 27 years in my life. When he died I lost a sence of life,nothing was important anymore,I was asking my self why do we live when we gonna die and be beried under ground and world will foret us,why we lost our parents in such young age. What is the point of living here on Eearth couple decades and die,I didnt findmuch answers except that life is short we need to realise that, we need to be good, good to God,to our parents,to our sisters and brothers and try to be better person every day, to be satisfied with things we have,we wint live forever so we dont need rich things at all. One day when we die ,if we were good we might live forever in Heaven but if were not we might regret that we did bad things in life. I bealice there is something much more above all this,there has to be heaven otherwise I dont see the point of living here on Earth at all
Jake nation sorry to hear what you are going through. my mom passed away from stage 4 lung cancer after a tough battle. she was taken on 7/15/19. I’ll never forget
Lost a huge role model today, I've been awake for hours trying to calm down While i never knew him personally he impacted me in a huge way. Techno's death hurt me more than I would have ever thought it too.
I was thinking of starting a discord support/grief group for people having a hard time grieving Technos death, so that we can all help eachother. A lot of people aren’t comfortable with showing their grief to their family and friends because of a fact that we didn’t personally know him. So I’m thinking that a more anonymous setting with people who are dealing with the same thing might help…
Yahaira yessss ik😢 but the thing I learned from this is that the only thing you can do is to embrace it and move forward. Now I’ll keep her in my thoughts and always do good work so that she can be proud and and see me being successful❤️😭🙏
I'm so sorry for your loss.. I feel you. My beloved grandma just passed away yesterday and your words are exactly how I'm feeling right now! 😭😭 She always say she loves me the most, but I couldn't be beside her for the last time because she was staying in a different city and I couldn't go because of this pandemic situation. It's been 2 days I'm crying all day..
She was like a second mother. I just can’t cope and it only scares me for what’s to come. All I have is my mom. I just hope it’s far far far far x10000 from now or never.
I am dealing with alot of guilt and grief right now. My disabled brother passed away two weeks ago. I was his guardian, and have taken care of him since we were kids. My brother was getting pneumonia from swallowing his food, so I agreed to let him get a feeding tube surgery. That surgery don't go well and we spent two months in the hospital trying to fix it before he died from dead bowels. I was staying with him in his room the night the nurse found him bleeding to death. His face looked at me peacefully but I was terrified. My brother was a gift from God and the light of my family'slife. I feel so guilty that I signed off that stupid surgery. The hole that I feel in my heart and my life is almost unbearable and I don't really know how to handle it. I missed him so much.
Chris Kilts you loved him and you did the thing you thought would be good for him. Thats all that matters. The fact that he looked peacefull shows he knew that you loved him and instead of blaming yourself,you should be proud that you did all in your power to help and care for him. I bet he will protect you now just as you did for him.
Chris Kilts Don't feel guilty!!! You should feel proud of yourself for trying to make your brother feel better. You said he was getting pneumonia from swallowing food so that was the only choice. You were a caring brother. Also in his last moments he was looking at you peacefully and even though he wasn't going to make it, I think he wanted to let you know that he loves you and that it's not your fault.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you can go through this moment and even though it will leave a scar in your heart it will make you stronger. Keep your head up brother, and don't let life bring you down!❤
Please do not feel guilty, and it was not your problem and fault. You just wanted to put a tube for him to consume food. You DID NOT choose to KILL him. It is never your problem.
it’s been 3 years since my dad passed, even to this day every time i think about him my mood drops and the more i think about him i tear up more. i’m writing this crying because i hold all this shit in and never talk to anyone about it, so the single time i think about him a little too much i tear up. i miss the days he would pick me up after school and the days we would go and drive around. i’m still not over it but i can hide it. if anyone here needs someone to talk to my instagram is @jaydbraindead. i’m here to help out with anyone who doesn’t feel comfortable talking to any of their friends about a loved ones loss.
It’s very nice to hear that even if you don’t know people you are willing to help them and talk to them you, are a nice person. And may your father Rest In Peace.
Hey... My father passed on 12th of july 2020. I would like to talk about it... Tomo is his funeral and i cant cope with it.... Im crying typing this because i dont know what to do..
I lost my grandmother today, I just wish I visited her in the hospital, but me being a goddamn idiot I decided to keep it for tomorrow though she passed away that same tomorrow…I regret it…that’s all I think about
Sara Kruder same, thats why im here. she actually hasnt died yet we have to go put her down in 45 minutes, just found out she has cancer 😞 i feel so lost im not gonna be the same without her around
