The Halo Effect and the Virgin vs. Chad Meme: Why Your Life Is Harder When You Are Ugly 

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People have done research on facial structure being correlated to certain positive temperaments or increased intelligence, which leads to more success by default. The same goes for skincare and the immune system.

The flip side is for those who never known it personally, it is impossible to not notice when someone else is privileged.

Similar experience. I am 6 feet 1 and in bangladesh i wasnt the most popular guy. But being 8 inches over the average height i was given some kind of respect. However,when i visited amsterdam, i felt like a total midget.

Meet them and look at them from the top

Brutal heightpill

Good on you for recognizing and admitting your privilege.

normies, majorities of the world populations makes up of normies

Doesint work looking attractive as man in black hood???? Or jobs in hood.

Corruption. all successful individuals wants to keep their status and jobs. Otherwise, they would have to give up anything related to merit since its predetermined by looks and genes, so it's not a meritocracy, and so, success, intelligence and achievements are not correlated with looks.

I have noticed this also since losing weight and dressing better (losing weight also allows you to dress better, magnifying the effect).

can confirm that, when i became an adult i hit the gym hard, got surprised on how people starting to treat me.

But the point is whats appealing to someone is subjective to the individual

​@@SergyMilitaryRankingswrong. Attractiveness is an objective measure not a subjective one. It's been found that the brain can distinguish between a good-looking versus an unattractive/unappealing face in 0.13 seconds.

​@@SergyMilitaryRankingsA fat double chinned guy can't compete with a a fit guy who has a good jawline and clear skin. Generalities exist

nah. when it's an ugly GUY they don't care. Females are inherently valued by society regardless of looks.

Facts!!

Nah

That ugly man who died? That's right, you didn't even know he was in the movie.

@curoi Everyone remembers Yoda’s and Obi-wan’s deaths you pathetic dim incel.

You don't have to be Stacy, existing as woman in the West is enough

​@alexw6849 not if you're unattractive

@@Takashii85 Even average and ugly chicks can get a lot of guys going for them. She has to be sub human/bottom of the barrel in order for a guy to not go for her.

life of a stacey is exponentially greater than the life of a chad it’s a differences between heaven and earth buddy boyos

@@clownworld360You might enjoy Hoe Math's content. His opinion is that top 20% of men have it best, then the top ~80% of women, and the bottom 80% of men, then the bottom 20% of women. Or something along those lines. I think that rings true. The top 20% of men can get as many women as they want, but most women can only get as much sex as they want, not as much quality relationships leading to marriage as they want - at least not when they're anchored on the top 20% of men.

Jermy Meeks created the Meeks effect: just be hot and life lives for you.

The Meeks shall inherit the earth

Yeah he was a gang member that committed crimes and beat up teenagers and was awarded for it by being scouted out for modeling. The same goes for tall people scouted out for the NBA. Lot of these tall guys were thugs, robbers, or women beaters (they still beat their girlfriends while in the NBA and they don't report it) If a tall man beats up a woman she blames it on herself for things like she looked at him funny or didn't adhere to his outrageous instructions.

Don't ever get up

Idc if I come across as envious. Meeks objectively didn't not deserve the life he got privileged with.

I used to be a very fat child, now I’m a muscular young man. I don’t feel like I’m being treated too different necessarily. I feel more self-confident!

I have a story for both. Personally, I think I'm someone who went through a real "ugly" phase, and then grew out of that as I got older. I've gotten bullied a lot growing up. As a kid, I dont think its because I was ugly, but rather because I was just plain weird personality wise. I think I might be on the spectrum, and was boarderline nonfunctional socially speaking, until around the age of 22 when I finally started to adapt and make an effort to learn social skills that dont come naturally. But to compound that, I hit puberty, got really hairy really early, and developed/retained a mild dad bod, never getting, you know... Ripped. And that didnt change despite being a varsity level swimmer. Worse still, one thing I was proud about was being the tall kid in class... Till I stopped growing around 5'8" at the age of 12, and all the slower growing kids around me suddenly started dwarfing me. Then it got worse, because I was becoming a bit of a shorter dad bod, on top of socialization issues. I quit the swim team over my self image issues, and gained weight to being about 20 lbs more than when I was 16, which ironically made things worse. Then I made the mistake of joining the USAF, thinking it would assist me socially and to get more fit... Instead the flightline job I worked was really taxing on the body, and because this unit was overworked, we didnt have a PT program. Furthermore, my diet took a nosedive for a wide variety of reasons, most of which stem from that military lifestyle. And finally... I think the only way to even come close to rocking the dad bod is to grow out your hair and faicial hair, try to go for that older rugged look (which I felt like I could maybe do, as I started getting greys pretty early). Ubfortunately, I had to keep my hair super short to stay in regs, and keep a clean shaven face. I just couldnt pull off the military style haircut and face. But... I put a lot of effort into adapting socially. I feel like I make better first impressions now. I put effort into improving my diet, I excercise more, I'm losing weight... And I finally got out of the military... Now I dont think I look half bad when I go out, or look at myself in the mirror. Longer better maintained hair, and a rugged beard. And now I'm at the age where some women seem to kinda like the mild dad bod and grey hairs in a younger dude. Now I feel like I can be relatively confident when I want to be. ... But I also dont forget where I come from. I value mutual respect from people above all else, after not having it from many for so long. I demand it a little because I've grown to realize everyone deserves at least a little, myself included. And I give people respect in return when I am shown any. On the other side of the coin, I knew a chick in highschool. Drop dead gorgeous half asian chick. I had a bit of a crush on her at the time but never really talked to her for social reasons. One day she came into class wearing an amazing dress, and noticed me staring. I couldnt help it. Her friend she sat with embarrased me a lot, she basically bit my head off in the middle of class because I was even looking their way. Well... I think she was embarassed by her friend too. She came up to me randomly in the library a day later and basically said "hey, I have a boyfriend, but... Well, we're not always going well... So if you wanna talk to me, or be friends, youre welcome to". I was like... Ok... And then never talked to her. I always took things at face value, and thought "shes taken and way out of my league". I didnt get at the time that was basically a "I wanna be friends" or code for "you might have a shot if things dont work out". Anyway, fast forward 8 years, since the last time I saw her, and I'm walking into the medical clinic on base, when I hear "Ryan?... Is that you?" I turn around, and there she is, sitting on a waiting bench. It took a solid 20 seconds for it to register who she was and why she knew who I was. ... She must've weighed like 300 lbs now, where in highschool she was this tiny little thing with maybe a little tummy at most. I was still processing this. We went to highschool in a DOD school in Germany. Now I was serving in Japan, so it was weird to run into someone I went to school with on literally the opposite side of the planet. And I was trying to adjust to the massive change in her physique as well. I sat down and started catching up with her. I wasnt going to say anything ablut her weight though, because that'd be super rude. "Yeah, so, as you can see, I've become a massive dependapotamus" ... That took my aback, she's the one who brought it up. A Dependapotamus for those who dont know, is a really derrogatory term for a stereotypical military dependent wife, usually overweight. I dunno if she felt like, I dunno, she owed an explaination. She really didnt, it's none of my business. But she basically summarized her life, going into how she's had chronic medical issues with brittle bones, low metabolism and other things, preventing her from working out and staying in shape like she used to. A bunch of different contributing factors causing lots of weight gain. Also prevented her from joining the military herself when she tried. So she ended up marrying a good guy who was military and had recently had a kid. The entire time, I couldnt help but feel bad for her. Her dialogue was dripping with self detrimental humor. People do that, to cope with what they percieve as faults. I felt bad she felt like it was necessary to degrade herself. I didnt think it was funny tbh, it's not her fault she cant really maintain a healthy weight, and her med history was never my business. Anyway, worst of all... Dependapotamus isnt a word I'd use to describe her either. Part of that stereotype is dependents who feel entitled to stuff. She didnt act that way. Besides the self detrimental humor, she still had the same funny, sweet, infectious personality she had in highschool. She was calling herself those names, not me... And I felt like she really shouldnt have been. It was like her confidence had been broken by it. I wouldnt even say she was "ugly". She still had a very pretty face, for example. We stayed in touch a little after that. Anyway, I guess all this goes to show how closely tied physical image and a healthy level of confidence are. And it also goes to show the mental and physical changes people undergo in life. I'm glad she found someone, I hope he treats her well. Anyway, if youre reading this, and youre a confident attractive individual... Respect your confidence, and use it appropriately. And when the beauty fades (because it will), remind yourself who you once were, and try to maintain some level of self respect. And for those of you reading this who have never been in the category of "attractive"... That doesnt have to be were you stay. Work on your actual image (develop healthy physical activities, work on your hair style, how you dress, etc.) Half of attraction is simply how you present yourself. For example, I'll probably never have washboard abs, but I know just changing my hair and how I dress, putting effort into those things, I can be at least what SOMEONE is attracted to. And if you cant work on yourself physically for whatever reason (like my friend who I still regret not talking to back in highschool), then work on yourself emotionally. Theres a way to present yourself socially without changing who you are fundamentally. And develop some positive self image. Learn to love yourself. It doesnt matter how ugly you think you are, you will always be a human, and humans deserve some really basic respect. Start demanding some when someone treats you terribly. Have some confidence. Just a little bit of confidence can offset a lot of unattractiveness. And who knows, maybe if you work on yourself on all levels, if possible, you might actually reach the point where you honestly dont recognize yourself... And wonder who replaced that dope with someone worth hanging out with. People change. If you change for the worse, then maintain composure, and work your way back if you can. And if you arent in a good place, then make an effort to change for the better, because people ARE capable of that. You are too.

I was in that category for a brief time in high school (the hot phase) and for me was a horrible experience. For most of my life I was either bullied or ignored by girls, thanks to a mix of my image being a mess, being very unsporty person, being untreatead high capacity and coming from a household with an emotionally abusive dad... but at that time, I was kind of able of gathering attention thanks to a talent contest in high school were I sang and played the "sensitive singer boy" reaching second place. Now, reality is that it was that the change was overwhelming: girls, in a fan like state, tried to talk to me hiperventilating, the same type of girls that, a few years back, were either ignoring me or even before, would be plainly mean to me. I was overwhelmed and disgusted, and at the same time I tried to play it cool, while anxiety and self doubt was kind of destroying me inside. I still can make myself a bit attractive if I put my mind into it (nice clothes, haircut a good beard trim...) but I have been fighting depression and medical issue for a while, which luckily I'm finally getting out of. Now, for me becoming "attractive" was certainly a bad experience, because for me it make me more of a "toy" to people: they don't like you because who you are, but because how you look, and it's not even something you can accept sometimes, if you come from the "ugly/nerd" side of the spectrum. You don't have that kind of self confidence. In my case, abuse was also a big thing, so it didn't help the problem, but even If I can put my mind into it and be a "attractive guy with an attractive personality" what I've learned is that it doesn't help one bit without self confidence and self love. If you start with those, the rest kind of come PD: Also, attractiveness is not the best thing. My partner is not the most physically attractive person, but they are highly smart, witty, funny, caring and a lot more of positive things... and those are they things that attracted me to them. They see me for who I am [we have been friends before for at least 5 years.] And that gives me a peace no ammount of good looks could ever give me [I was with a "hot girl" that I met in highschool before... and it ended up being another abusive relationship... so that's that.]

@@hatman4818 Hey, I just want to say that your outlook on your life, looks and confidence is fascinating - it certainly also helped me. You should consider sharing this comment with more people, whether on some sort of subreddit, a video, or maybe even try writing a book - there's definitely evidence of literary talent here. Thanks for sharing.

@@hatman4818 wow it's really nice how you discribed your view on this. I agree with the other comment that you should share this view with other people. It has some real truth to it. And it also made me realize that although I'm not necessarily ugly, I do struggle with people not showing a little respect. I'll have to to try and figure out how I will do that.

With that pfp you probably deserved it lol

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Deserved 100% Fr fr NoCap🧢 Ongod

Not your fault buddy boyo,genetics is a harsh b1tch

Let me guess you try to like the same things taller kids liked or try to get the same clothes and haircut as them and it did diddly shit? Or wear name brands?

💯 truth

Brooootal

Man.. handsome quiet guy is the best type

Fully fulfilling people's values is not a good idea as many hold beliefs that others should be put to death en masse. Plus, most people don't know what the hell they want.

@@YerpyMoose you make a good point; some peoples' values might not be compatible. In that case, the way to go would probably be to maximize total value (would obv be difficult to determine). Also, while most people may not know their values consciously, they could theoretically be found in the unconscious. Another challenge would be to discover them in practice.

The rich get richer and the poor get poorer.

@mollstake God is omnipotent being he chose to make the world the way it is even though he has the power to change it

why did you let them bully you

@@jedemmaludjecu2229 it's been six months, I do not even remember watching this, but I will answer nonetheless A child going against not only all of it's peers but also those that are meant to be it's guidance and support is like a simple person fighting giants What was I to do? Beat up a dozen people as a 6 year old? I was just a kid. Tell it to someone? Great, only made it worse. All that was possible to do was suffer, disassociate, and become the hollow shell I still am.

@@elythas128 I felt that.

@@jedemmaludjecu2229 Victim blaming? How "nice" of you!

I was bullied to the point of almost taking my own life. It took me facing great adversities and achieving my goals. Hitting mile stones. I still have skeletons in my closet from all the childhood trauma, but I didn't let it define me. I used it as fuel to drive myself at mach fuckyou to improving my life and gaining more and more confidence in myself and my skills. You find your true validation through you. Not anyone else. Strive to improve yourself everyday kings 👍

Beautiful people already won. Why bother develop skills when your eyes and face are what people are striving to attract?

@@voltinator that's why Muslims have hijab. In some countries like Syria in the Ottoman age or modern Afghanistan, they even covered their faces. Even the men don't walk around shirtless as often as in non-Muslim countries.

@@Moses_VII I understand. I even heard of some Muslim countries exiling men for being too handsome. I think that hijabs are useful, but not for the women, I think that men should be forced to wear hijabs so that women can't evaluate their faces and exercise their hypergamy when comparing males. Instead male attractiveness would mostly be due to their economic status.

@@voltinator doesn’t even have to be this way there’s a science to how your face and head and body grows all about posture but it’s not taught which is the sad part

Of course the article begs the question of whether good looking people really are more healthy and thus maybe more intelligent or something. From my most intelligent friends, (at least on somewhat narrow fields), I'd say that's definitely false as a necessary causal link. But in any case, it should be good to discuss that certain biases have to be fought to be reduced even in the presence of imperfect causation, or else we ruin the lives of the unpriviledged talented/"deserving" ones. Measuring (opportunity) is often better than assuming, in most cases individually and for society as a whole.

Biological facts

Blackpill is Darwinism put on the social structure of human society.

Lookism is the least talked about discrimination, yet its effects are huge.

aka reality

Really brutal reality people don’t want to acknowledge

Every tech CEO, famous inventor, et al, is/was a 0-6 out of 10. So are most physicians and they make a killing. I was a Chad when I was young. Far from being welcomed with open arms, my superiors and coworkers often treated me with jealousy and resentment, particularly if it was a woman who hit on me, but I rejected. Oh, boy. It really did suck, no kidding.

@@maxjohnson1758 Now imagine getting spit on by *everyone* INCLUDING AND VERY MUCH IN PARTICULAR women and you have the average in/cel life. Study states not only do attractive people earn 9% more than unattractive, but most CEO's are statistically ovER 6ft. So stop whining "Oh, I had to reject a girl, my life is a tragedy, everyone hates me for being some attractive entitlet extrovert, what a cruel life we are living" when most men here work dead end jobs have no one and get rejected by society as a whole, some even living in third world countries.

@@maxjohnson1758 your example is pure apex fallacy

@@maxjohnson1758 Poor Chad.

Yup. But I just want my phycological needs met instead of coming home to an empty house every night.

@@xtdycxtfuv9353 And people will tell you that you're a bad person for wanting those things

always has been

@@iiCounted-op5jx💯

the world has always been unfair there isn’t justice, right or wrong morally and ethnically it is an constantly politics, checks and balances its always be propagated, social media, news feeds, films, documentaries it is a facades

That's very interesting

What surgeries did you get if you don't mind me asking?

@@ForeverShadowBanned At 23, Rhinoplasty with coral implant to remove nasolabial folds, at 34, mild cheek implants and vector-facelift to reshape general appearance, at 39, ear reshaping and preventative forehead and neck muscle tightening before gravity had much altered my appearance.

@@sfkeepay Wow that's impressive dude, congrats honestly. I'm glad you were able to do that, planning a rhinoplasty soon myself and a hair transplant down the line.

@@ForeverShadowBanned , Yeah, it sucks but it’s true. It just makes your life that little bit easier. It’s an investment with decades of returns.

Right, this is why you also see them give advice such as: “just be yourself” “just go out and do your hobbies, don’t even worry about women, one will show up in your life at the right time” lol

Bro.. good looking people could have mental illness and childhood trauma. Thinking looking good solves everything is ridiculous

Or just don’t be born ugly

@@derek_3054 that's not even what i said. Dont act like i made a claim that i never made

@@derek_3054 autistic women have a higher rate of getting into relationships than men. (Probably because they are considered good looking)

"befriend a Chad" most chads are assholes but go on I guess

IT'S TRULY OVER

idk y but that's just fun for me to say lol

Didn't expect a 4chan user to have any different opinion.

An ugly woman always fares better in life than an ugly man. The distance between the sexes only widens as looks go up. I'm sure there's no place for this in your "intersectional framework" as your female privilege would be directly affected.

nonsense. kristobs started this lmao

Aw man my genetics be lackin

But not in life is all about genetics. One can still develop skills or other traits or trying to look more appealing in order to improve their life. I mean, excersice helps a lot, and so does increasing in self confidence

@@Arlesmon you have anime pfp your opinion is invalid

@@Arlesmon it is, especially iq.

@@gatoloco3949 but even if someone has low iq they can still be successful in life. I mean, sure, it might take more time to learn, but they can still learn stuff if they so want. After all, even with limits, one can achieve stuff

It's not. One can still have self confidence and achieve their goals. Self love is an important factor to be happy, and to let People know that you're confiedent

@@Arlesmon massive cope

@@Arlesmon just be confident bro

@@Arlesmon The guy in the video JUST SAID, that ugly people get bullied more and therby never love themselves and have low self esteem. Self esteem is not a choice it is asigned by others to you. "Ughhh don't focuse on others..." I can already hear you typing. But take your life. Why do you work? Why didn't you do anything to go to prison? It is always about the way society judges something. And if they judge you unworthy of love and basic human nature you are subhuman.

@@j.d.s.1837 Sure, getting bullied will affect the self steem of someone, but here's a thing, it can be fixed if you're willing to develop self love and go to tehrapy if needed. Sure, it will affect you in school, but after school, people will be more chill, and you can start with a fresh start. And if you have enough self love, people will notice that. And yeah, i will adsmit that apperances matter on first impressions, but after that, it's the personality of someone, their charisma and other traits that will keep those people who like you. Besides, on the internet one can get liked more often without them looking at their physical apperance. After all, it's a good way for ugly people to get noticed if they so desire And yeah, part of society will judge someone, but you can always prove them wrong if you want to face them

For me Redpill and Blackpill go hand in hand.

Yes. When learning a language it helps to say all of the new words out loud. For practice.

Clip Studio Paint EX

Looks are not everything. For men especially, being poor, dumb, and socially inept is a far greater disadvantage than being ugly.

@@alexgomez6723 No it’s not. You think that to cope with how final being ugly is. If you’re ugly, you will not ever experience what it’s like to be desired.

@@alexgomez6723 you're far less likely to be poor if you're good looking, not to mention you'll still get lots of help from random ppl if you're good looking and homeless

@@xtdycxtfuv9353 “Cope”? Should have figured I was going to get 4chan levels of substance when it came to debates in a topic like this. You don’t have the slightest clue of what I’m “coping” with or otherwise. The only “cope” going on here is pathetic incels who would rather scapegoat others than take any responsibility for their own choices. I was considered handsome, (disagree if you want, I’m not the most photogenic of people), and while it did come with some perks, it alone did not make me a hit with the ladies, because unfortunately, I was born with Asperger’s, rendering me awkward, insecure, anxious, and socially inept, things that are a far bigger turn off to a woman than even the most hideously deformed hobgoblin face, contrary to what your grifting basement dwelling video game obsessed YTber regurgitating the same tired and undoubted arguments to validate the self pity and lack of accountability to their equally pathetic audience. You people flat out ignore any piece of evidence that doesn’t vindicate your narrative, despite loads of evidence to the be contrary. www.theclever.com/15-beautiful-women-who-fell-in-love-with-ugly-guys/ Let alone the fact women actually PERFER less attractive men in general. link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12110-001-1007-9 Do you losers have even slightest clue how much advantages you have as a male? I’m not saying this as some preachy feminist, but there is anyone who has legit reason to bitch and moan about their ugly predicament, it’s women. You are a goddam MAN, members of society judged by their skills, intelligence, tenacity, and assets. Women? Not so much. And you have the audacity to act as if somewhere you’re owed pity for being “ugly”, and blame people like for your predicament? Pathetic. Despicable even. I don’t doubt there are black pilled females or “femcels” out there, but most of this bark and whimpering is coming from males. Incredibly ironic considering what I mention above, they have legit reasons to bitter and angry, you have far less excuses. You are worse than the feminists you chastised. I doubt you’re going to take in any information I put, falling into blind eyes and hard headed minds, because it’s far easier for people like you to blame others for your failure, coming up with the most trite excuses to not improve yourself or take action, burying yourself into internet echo chambers that validate sentiments of self sorrow and grudges towards strangers you have never met. Get over yourself.

@@alexgomez6723 Oh shut up, bitchass. I’m a diagnosed sperg too. It’s doubly over… I’m ugly, so it’s already over. You are so insecure over a word. You know, I hate the word pathetic. It’s pathetic how popular pathetic is when you mean pitiful. I’m not reading your text dump properly either. Face is way more important than anything else. Clueless.

If you want to level a field then make your own field, for you and people who think like you, but you can't force me to be on your field and force your rules on me I don't have to accept you trying to take things away from me, trying to make my life worse just because you have a prejudiced deceitful false idea that I have privileges. If you try to take things away from me then you'll be attacking me, and I'll fight back Yeah communism should be wiped out by its very root. An abhorrent weed creeping in the western world

As a far-left person that talks to far-left people on a semi-regular basis, I have to say that it is definitely something that gets brought up pretty frequently. Overlooking it would be very problematic indeed- the solution of leveling the playing field is something that even liberals accept pretty universally: making an active effort to judge people based on how they choose to interact with others rather than their visible characteristics.

Far left incels wanting FALGSC that have sex-robots

Survival of the fittest

@@AbuBased731 More like: Survival of the prettiest

no NOO I CAN'T UNSEE IT

@@user-kd9iw1bh6r one year later, and I got to see poopoo go "oopoop"

lol

No. Beauty is certain bone configurations and proportions in the face. Notice how simple this is, but also notice what that implies about life. Hollowing feeling, no?

Nice

It has nothing to do with physical health you are quite delusional

I told in the comments below : I'm a dumb idiot, and my opinion is worth nothing

Ah yes the crocodile, it has gone with ZERO design changes since it’s inception in the late Triassic period, that is because it is without flaw.

I am coming to Colombia but I am 5'5

His zaddy

You don't know that. They prefer bone, that's empirical.

But even the ability or predisposition to self improve is governed by your genes and your environment. A person may genuinely never have learned how, or been born with, such abilities. And the way they look could have contributed to this. Also when talking about averages across populations, there will always be exceptions and outliers, so yes of course there will be attractive people who have a bad time and 'ugly' people who 'over achieve'.

I’d take the worse problems any day over being ugly being ugly you’re subhuman simple let’s be honest

Cope you can’t self improve as a short or ugly ethnic balding dude it’s over if you need money status for someone to like you

@@thedarkestknight8381 the BRUTAL truth 💯💯 ppl always say "just get rich bro" and then what? attract a bunch of gold diggers who hate you but love your money?? no thanks 😂🤣🤣

I'm a guy in a wheelchair who has a master's degree who has dedicated himself to becoming cultured for myself, and while I have been with one woman, one stroke of luck doesn't prove the rule. Despite trying I've had no luck. I'm not ideologically blackpilled-I'm still going to work towards building self-sufficiency for the disabled community, but I can say that someone who did everything people told them to do to have success, it's not over exaggerated. People don't want to admit it though.

You really have to add more context because I’m interested in your POV. In my experience I have NEVER seen an good looking person face heavy bullying or isolation like I have as an ugly guy. The GL person might encounter banter from other males but bullying…usually they are given praise,they get automatic respect regardless of mood,if someone is angry with a GL person they hide it and push that anger into a less attractive person nearby which has happened to me,they get engaged in conversation,they get attention from both sixes,etc. Its very interesting that you said you are GL and got bullied.

ugly narc LOL

Cope

You don’t get it. I don’t think you’ll ever get it. The blackpill about looks, as it’s called, is final, and is the most depressing confrontation with reality for ugly and weak framed men. Your wall of text cannot undo years of first hand experience with this horrible existence.

Everyone else can understand lmao

his default state is already a fairly average looking bald man, with a permanent wistful expression

based

based

Based and blackPilled

Also the stereotypes of attractive people in general being stupid and uglier people being smart. The thought is that attractive people got by in school and whatnot through their looks, having been given an easy pass by profs or employers and thus didn't have to develop their intelligence to succeed. Whereas a normal or ugly person is thought to never have gotten that special treatment and thus had to develop their intelligence as much as possible to succeed.

@@jaredevans8263 the irony is that intelligence is not something that can be “improved”

@@jaredevans8263 mannn this is so true 💯

Did you also go from being short to tall

You can go to a country that has short guys, like where I live, you just need to be minimally pretty to get girls

@@Guilherme-R Yeah.... I agree with you, if you have a decent-looking face it can pull some attraction towards girl's for bit but, height is more important in today standards of the West most likely😞.

This applies to everyone regardless of gender and sexuality

@@chelseashamim9148not really, the fact of the matter is most women are seen as attractive by most men, the issue is that women only find like 10-20 percent of men physically attractive, go an ask women how many men they see and think are actually attractive and they’ll say shit like 1 guy out of hundreds.

“”””non-binary”””” Cringe, stopped reading after that.

lmao non binary