Lmao literallt get called creep or i get a weird look like "why are you talking to me" and i iant even ugly.. so now i will approach a girl if she gives a me a look if shes interested if she looks and never looks again then i aint trying
You guys need to work on deciphering a woman's message, you're only desperate when she is not attracted to you. You can have a 5-minute conversation with a woman and do exactly what she said, women know fairly quickly if they are sexually attracted to you.
You know what's a hard truth that some women can't accept? That men aren't mind readers. That men get rejected and put into the friendzone more than women do. Ever since The Times up, me 2 movements started men have learned their lesson. Isn't this what women wanted?
More Women should ask out because guys can’t read minds. in todays world guys who approach women are just creeps. Get plastered on til tok as stalkers.
Exactly, move too soon get labeled the most widely accepted label world wide and that is YOUR A CREEP, or HE GIVES ME THE CREEPS. It’s not worth being put on someone’s tik tok and having the whole community criticizing you.
Nope bro, the point is to be a Man who takes action. If you are waiting all the life to get "signals" to move on, you are gonna keep waiting. Yes, we cant read minds but we can be a risktaker. Greetings.
You miss every shot you don't take. Also, being good looking doesnt mean you get girls. The most average looking guy from my friends gets the most girls. He always trims his beard, always has a nice haircut, always in shape, and always does his best at work. Any man can do what he does and do fine. Don't make excuses and get out there and get some pussy.
Truth be told, if a Woman smiles at me, i'am not seeing that as something special. I always think she is just nice. A smile means and even eyecontact means nothing
Hahaha, dude guys never get approached unless they're a top 1% ultra-Chad. I can count on one hand the number of times I've been approached in my life, and the best of the lot was a 3 at best.
@@fuzzypanda1684 Not true. Lots of guys find girls they match with. They are not your average "pretty girl" tho and most of you probably will not get interested in her, but it does happen no matter what you idiots say...
But women fought for the right to be strong and independent so shouldn't they do the approaching instead of making us men do all the work kinda defeats the purpose of being strong and Independent
This comment deserve 100 upvotes. Just fact. What im saying now will be fact, and most women logic. Women want to be independent and strong, yet they want to feel lower and weaker/weak in every regard. They basiacly saying women are not those things, and dosent deserve equal rights and treatment. By their logic, if equal rights and equal treatment was removed then it would be easier for men to initiate and lead a relationship. Because obviously women almost never intiate out of fear. Also as if men dont get harsher treatment by being called creep regularly, and even falsely accusing men of sexual harassment. Only way for a man to initiate and lead in relationship in women`s mind is men being richer, taller, smarter and bolder than themself. Its hypocrisy and double standard of women. If they want we can remove the equal rights and equal treatment of women if thats what they want. They clearly want to feel and be inferior. They refuse to change, but men have changed. They very much indirectly and directly asking to be inferior. We can make that 100% that happen, seems it will make most people happy because clearly many arent.
Every single time I have initiated, I get rejected. Women complain they get hit on all the time and yet want you to initiate... Women need to stop playing games, stop being judgemental and start showing respect for us guys who do actually try...
I was just like you when I was 21, then I started seeing it from their perspective. These "games" are definitely bad, but one good reason they do this is because they understand psychology better than us (and rightfully so, because they're physically weaker than us, and they can't do anything about it!), and they definitely don't want to be labelled as sluts! In other words, if you work hard for something (a woman's attention in this case), you're less likely to dump her. There's a reason why it's hard to go out with some girls. I'm not defending them, but I'm not attacking them either without fully understanding the situation. Your best bet is to just ask, and if she says no, that's absolutely fine. I got rejected THOUSANDS of times so far, and I still try when I'm single.
I couldn't agree more apprentice., women need to wake up.. some women think we just want them for sex, maybe cos that's all we think they've got to offer (ie there not a nice person, no personality, bitchy etc etc)
I'm 47, I'm fit, muscular and I might not look like George Clooney but I'm attractive, in great shape, always have been and I've NEVER had a gf. I spent my entire life being rejected despite how respectful I am to women, I don't see women as sex objects but yes, like any and EVERY other man, I think women are very sexy and it's hard to not look at those sexy curves but it really annoys me when a girl dresses to show off her body and when a guy checks her out, or even INITIATES, she complains that some creep looked at her or hit on her. Yes some guys out there are creeps but don't label us all, we men are hard wired to desire you, to be attracted to you sexually, seriously, women need to respect the nature of human nature and start understanding that its really hard for men nowadays, a simple hello and a look can turn into sexualising harassment and it's pathetic. Women need to take initiative now aswell, it's all a part of what they say they want with the equal rights, equality, act like it!
Yeah, I think it only applies to the ones that they want to hit on them. Like we're supposed to know. I'll tell you what though, let one of them ask you out and then respond with "nah, I like my peace". Besides, I kinda like being single. That way, if I get in trouble, it will actually be my fault 😂
Women should take the initiative & ask men out themselves. What's the worst that can happen? You get shot down like a man? You might be surprised when you take a chance on the guy you're about to reject
@@mikereiss4216 Men don't like it, but they don't rage like women do either XD have you seen those shows where they press the button to reject the other person? Men get rejected 30-40 times a year (and that's if they are still in the dating game) and most don't even remember the girls they ask out and got rejected by because years later those same girls will be 100+ lbs and have tattos all over the place and have 3 kids with 2 baby daddies. If you reject a woman, instead of just being like "oh ok that's fine I understand" they get FURIOUS and start shouting and screaming.
The amount of bullshit she speaks with that fake Donald duck looking face of hers 😂 Men ,don't run around women, if they are desperate,they should take the initiative. You should be focused on building your career, wealth,health and happiness. This is the age of equality,let the women take initiatives now or else you will always have to be her entertainment box .
Mmmmmmm... I currently have a coworker that hits on every girl and even the ones who are teens. He has said creepy weird things before....honestly it's how the initiative is taken. Some come on too strong and make us feel uncomfortable.........I think there has to be a balance in it. 🤔 then there is also females who hit on males or they only talk to males constantly. Either way people need to be balanced when pursuing someone. Don't make them think your weird and clingy.
I don’t know WHY THIS WOMEN is trying to act like she knows everything about men you’re not a man you don’t understand us we will be called a creep if we immediately ask out a girl 💀
Not all females are the same....some of us want to get to know someone first and see if we would like to ask them or for them to ask us......random asking for numbers is kinda...weird. 😅😅
Translation: Approach women so they have the upper hand and can create false accusations, because we all know you think you are violated the moment we say hi.
😂 I think what she means to say is that initiating conversations first is nice and if it flows and she seems to enjoy it then....you can ask for numbers or contact info.
Me: Hi there. Say, would you... Her: Get lost/No/Sorry I gotta take this call. Has happened more than once, more than a couple dozens. There is only so many times a guy can try to initiate until he loses hope.
@will smith I would apply that to any other aspect in life but when it comes to women we can’t read their minds, moods or whatever is happening that day.
I remember being in Amsterdam and I just wanted to roll a joint but I had no tabacco. I went in the nightlife district with clubs and stuff and went straight to a girl who was smoking and asked her for a cig. Guess what...! Me:"Hey, excuse me, I wanted to ask you if you would give me a cigarette so that I can..." Cuts me right off and says Her:"Wow, what a lame pick up line... couldnt you come up with something else?" I was completely baffled and thought wdf... Ofc I responded with a big laugh and said that I wasnt trying to hit on her and just wanted a cig for rolling. But guess what? Ofc I didnt got a cigarette and had to move on. Still funny but also soooo sad to see that entitlement. I bet she still beliefs I tried to hit on her... hahaha
@@alllovese4syx319 70 percent of women seem to think if you are talking to them then you are trying to pick them up. The number goes up the younger and more attractive they are and down the older and less attractive they are. But many just make that assumption. Sometimes they are right but not always. I try not to act like I am picking them up or interested until at least 5 to 10 minutes into the conversation. If you do it right away then they have a reason to shoot you down.
@@Rollyax I have initiated its mixed signals, but still being called or creep is just rude and dehumanizing. I never experienced it to my face, but might have had it behind me, if so thats rude. Wouldnt be suprised if many or most men have been refered to as creep. Where did you get the 30 number from? I have so far intiated 10-15 time. In my life. Its was scary at first, but after 2 time, it get easier, especially get easier after you have trained or about to train, but that might give bad results because of gym clothes and odor, but i did look good in my fit and had deodorant on. So i asked like 4-6 girls in a day i believe. Which was very impressive for me. Wouldnt recommend doing in same area where previous girl can see i think lol, which i did, probably beccause of testosterone and endoprhin release. Its discouraging tho facing failure. Especially when has nice face and average weight. Im maxing up, so im slightly optimisitc.
@@revivedsoul1099 It’s frustrating to know you can appear as a creep yet the more you do it the better you get the more results you get. It’s also a numbers game. I did it on the street mostly. But I’ve done 1.500 approaches. I wanted more than women, I wanted to improve my social skills and be more confident, which you will definetly achieve if you do constantly, cause you’ll get rejected a lot. Yet there are also tons of other benefits. I constantly think why I didn’t start interacting more from a younger age yet I’m only 2 years into this and still got more to learn. Anyways bro, after a while I started to read signals from women that already liked me and approach only those. At the begining I approached anyone no matter what yet if her body doesn’t respond to you energetically and send you signals of interest there are more chances that you’ll come across as a creep when you approach. But do it the right way and be sincere, read body language (by practicing a lot) so you don’t come across as too strong, show warmness and vulnerability and even if she doesn’t like you you’ll make her day and have a good interaction. If you did 4-6 first time that’s pretty nice. My first and the second had a break like 2 months in between.
Can't really initiate anymore because we're too scared of catching a charge or being called a creepy or maybe even being publicly humiliated. Still love your videos though 🤗
This is actually good advice. The faster a guy gets over the rejection fear the more successful he becomes because he just asks more and doesn't care if she says no, that fucks her head big time. If she talks about you behind your back, her friends will be more interested out of jealousy and women shit will cause them all to be more willing.
This is a trap. Women that complain about men not making a move on her are just frustrated that he's not easy for her to get validation from him like every other guy. Women aren't attracted to men who give them power over him. You might get yourself into some garbage relationship with her if you initiate, but the moment you do is the moment she loses respect for you as well. She has conquered you because you are a weak man. If you want something to happen that benefits you then you are better off keeping your power to yourself and exhibiting value to as many women and people as you can. Eventually some of them will not be able to resist anymore. It is important that she's the one whose composure and resolve breaks and not you if you want to be respected. If you're a desperate man then you jump the gun because sexual release is more important to you than power.
They are desperatd for validation and clout, now that the red pill has come to the masses and men dont wanna play games, they want to return to old times Forget it kings, stay strong, protect yourselves at all times
There are a lot of women out here, If you missed one, there will be another. so don't risk ruining your reputation by approaching women casually and being called creeps.
Just initiate conversation and if it flows and the female seems to enjoy chatting with you.....then ask for contact info. It works especially when you both find a common ground.
Terrible terrible advice. Guys, if we collectively initiate even more than the crazy levels women are getting us to initiate online… well if you think their sense of entitlement is bad now, you haven’t seen anything. The real advice is see if you’re getting some cues. Then initiate and only then, and do so subtly. Do not chase. Repeat, do NOT chase
Take initiative so she can turn you down call you a creep or a weirdo or worse accuse you of sexual harassment and post you on tik tok...Yeah I'll pass.
Absolutely, women love men who are dominant and take initiative. She wants a man who takes the lead so she can follow, it makes her feel secure and protected which is important for a woman to feel. Initiating first and being dominant really helped with my dating life and got the most supportive gf I ever had. 💯
Massive caveat: only be the one who initiates if you know she finds you attractive. Otherwise that’s a one way ticket to being put on the creepy guy list.
Honestly, I've had this happen to me with different guys (eight) who were interested in me. Tall guys, short guys, etc. They didn't talk or ask questions or make any attempts to introduce themselves... I had to do everything until I got tired, started feeling masculine, and just couldn't see myself as female... and just turned cold, shut off from them, and just immersed myself back into my hobbies. Never again. 😂
@@antares64917 Okay. Great. This totally changes my experiences and of having to do EVERYTHING myself and the feelings that arose from them. Thanks. /S
@@fburnsDubstepEnderFox I mean I was talkin about some women that calls out muscuilinity/feminity is unreal on one side and scare themselves if they'll become a man for doing traditional male things on the other end. Meanwhile there are many feminine men and muscuiline men in this day. People are becoming modern(including you), but some of them are keeping their virtues traditional even tho they're chasing after modernity. You can't have cake and eat that too lol. Believe it not, most of these gender stereotypes are social constructs, there would be some natural aesthetics, values between genders, but we aren't biologically driven creatures anymore.
Okay but I'm not talking about masculinity/femininity on a societal scale. I'm talking about (1) my personal experiences and feelings, and (2) talking about not being able to be attracted to someone who won't meet me halfway. If I feel masculine because of those experiences, how does it bother you -- a literal Internet stranger -- who hasn't lived in my shoes or gone through what I've gone through? 🤔
Yes, guys. Ask them out more quickly. Get rejected and get it over with. Remember, there's still a possibility that she'll go out with you. One on a thousand. Unless you're tall, good looking and rich. So...there's hope. Ask away!!
How quickly are we talking? Just saw her and up in her face asking? 😂 no bro.....conversations first. Make her laugh a bit and smile...then she probably will be expecting you to ask for that contact info
@@axosrain4825Sounds like women aren't very humble then. They feel too important and too good to put in equal effort and reciprocate when it comes to dating.
Because of feminist movement, you cannot easily even talk to ladies without potentially getting in trouble with the law. Ask a police officer about jeopardies you can get in if you talking to strange women these days!😂 Lots of karens out there too!😮
Everything going well so you ask her out and she either says "already made plans" or flakes out. I ask once, ask again a week later. Give 2 chances then I'm done. Keep waiting as if you'll get a better option. Women are dumb
@@steveh5307 still you give so many chances..only ask once..Its better to stop asking her out/approaching/initiating conversation in order to stop giving these women options and ego boost and free validation.End result is 98 % rejction/humiliation for guys..so its no use
Women of this generation don’t have a clue as to the type of man they desire and they are very easily misled by negative whispers comments in there ear 👂🏾 about the man 👨🏽 and then they decide not to give the poor guy a fighting chance so sad women don’t have a mind of their own and they are easily misled by the haters or some one judgmental view of a prospective guy she may be interested in or he in her any way this is all i have to share ✌🏾♥️🙏🏾
You ask a girl on a date they say yes.... You plan a vacation with her they say yes.... They even throw all the signals and look at you constantly and smiles at you, messages you when you don't message first and sometimes a double message if you don't reply ❤ But say to them you like them and ask them what they think....... Not interested Moral of the story is women treat us men like toys use them for so long them drop us when a new toy comes and blocks you 😅
Something tells me this is true. I think men who have sisters or trusted female family members probably get clued into this. Whether you think women should approach men more is besides the point. The confusion this clears up- I can see why women don't want guys they're not interested in hitting on them, so I don't want to be that guy.That's the precise reason I don't approach- just plain ol' not sure if she wants me to. But if she is interested, and I know how to read the signs, it won't be a problem. Thanks for the coping skills. These shorts also help figure out how not to come off creepy, whether intentionally or inadvertently. It does require the ability to take No for an answer. And the confidence to know at some point you'll run into someone who is interested in you. All you have to do is chill-lax until you see the signs a woman wants you to approach her. I just hope I don't start dealing with connecting with women as a numbers game. I'm not being arrogant, but I think these shorts are saying a lot of us guys miss opportunities cuz we Just Don't Get It. I'm probably far away from the only guy who is "missing the signs". Sad if you think about it, there could be so many more happy people we can get this right. I'll do my part. This ish damn intriguing, and I think I'm gonna try it out.
I tried initiating with some women got rejected by all. The only good side is that they didn't report me as a creep. Damn all I did was invite them for coffee 😅
Sadly when we do it women reject men. That’s my personal thought of this wish is why I don’t approach women. Because of 2 reasons, they either think there too important for you or, They Just ignore you all together. But then complain why are still single, and asking were the good guys at When in reality they love toxicity, it’s confusing to me but it’s but this is are the women we deal now a days crazy.
LOL 😆... in today's day and age. That's the quickest way to get arrested or on social media exposed as a creep or humiliated for approaching a women. If you are the guy women want you don't need to approach.
We are not mind readers😂😂😂 We just need to try again and again until find the one this woman is talking about. Not every woman is going to accept whatever comes first. I know that for experience P
I initiate plenty, but that's not the problem. The problem is the multitude of reasons why that woman won't give me her number, or go on a date with me. Whether it be attraction, or boyfriend, or arrogance, or age or any number of things
We men are normal human beings. We are also vulnerable to rejections and it doesn’t feel all that good. As males if we take the first initiative every time then we face the negative odds of rejections more than females. As such we protect ourselves from hurt and rejections as well..! Ever thought of that one my dear EXPERT?? As a mature man, I prefer to get to know my potential partner vs immediate flirt and ask her out. As a mature n quite intelligent person, I’m confident I can get a date. But at time not want to get a date for the sale of it. We men want you women want. A long term, reliable and dependable partner after initial 🔥 sizzle fizzles. So THERE YOU HAVE IT MY DATING GURU/expert!! We men are just as vulnerable as you women or not more so, because of the rejections that we face!
Me too is a major turn off. And Al the videos women post about degrading men who are interested. The entire game is jacked up. Accountability from women would go along way with this problem.
Guys, enjoy your life with cars, bikes, gadgets and tours! Invite women only when you feel your life needs Drama just to spice up your life for few days!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Next thing you know. You find your self canceled. Fired from your job, arrested, and labeled a sex offender. No thank you imma keep it pushing and get this money.
Hell nah. I ignore them. Want to know why? Because as soon as I show some type of interest they play Hard to get and then act like they’re not interested in me. F that.
A tip to women: if you want a man to approach you, first make it known that you’re attracted to him. Make sure he sees you looking at him…a lot. This very easy but crucial step has somehow been lost.
Why relationships have to be a mind games and paradoxes. What happened to the straight and honest approach that most human cultures world wide used to have. Every nation had the appropriate approach that a mannered young man can approach a women politely and appropriately propose and at the same time women can accept or decline politely.
That’s cause women act really mean when they reject men and that scares men away from doing that in the future because they don’t wanna go through that again.
The truth is women are not asking that to make relationships more approachable, but rather to boost self their validation and sense of value. They would like a young handsome rich man approaching them but God forbid if you are older, bald, fat, poor... then that would be very offensive and regarded as a harassment act.
When men take the initiative...a lot of times it will be viewed as sexual harassment. In order to avoid sexual harassment, we don't approach women...we dont even get close to women. We stay 50 feet away at all times if we can help it.
Actually, there are manipulators in both genders. 😂 personality wise. It's just hard to find someone that you can truly connect with. Then the whole battle of the sexes is wild. With both sides up in arms and labeling the other bad things. We seem to forget that the other person is human.
@@axosrain4825That is true. However most men are willing to negotiate or meet women halfway, but women on the other hand are not willing to meet men halfway or come to the table to negotiate. It's either their way or the highway. They have become even more egotistical than the most egotistical men (I know its hard to believe) and it is some women not all women, but what is scary is that that number of women who are like that keeps increasing every year. Feminism turned women into monsters who are painfully not self-aware and dangerously entitled. More and more men are now becoming more humble, more self-aware, less toxic, less arrogant and less entitled. They are starting to go in the other direction. And women are starting to go in the opposite direction which is crazy. I guess they think since men did it, its their turn to be toxic, arrogant, crazy, entitled etc.
The worst thing you can do is hear a women on how to flirt when they are clueless of what they really want in a guy, "Dont recommend channel" button here we go 😂😂😂
Women need to be a bit clearer in their feelings about a guy because if we know you’re interested im sure any dude would jump into the next step quickly. However, if all we’re getting are smiles every once in a while and nothing else then how the heck are we supposed to jump at the opportunity and risk being labeled creepy.
Most woman avoid eye contact when guys approach them in sidewalks passes. They look away to the other side or look down, with non expressive facial expression. They are saying stay away in their body language.😂
Initiate in a way thats romantic. Thats rhe part she left out. Romantic and a bit seductive. Thats when she wont call you creepy or desperate. Plus rejection is normal
In this day and age a man finds himself in a damned if they do damned if they don't situation as far as approaching women. If she smiles at you then approach? Nah, that doesn't mean anything. I've had women with wedding rings smile at me. It don't mean anything.
All bs i take the initiative immediately when i see a woman 👩🏽, sometimes i wait for 5 minutes or so before i approach to know if she even notice me … and som i don’t make a move because once i do even tho I’m a confident man the woman finds something negative about me
Y can't women take initiative y can't women ask men out. Cause if a man makes the date then the man has to pay. I'm not spending money an a 304. U no women r the reason men no longer ask u out.
I wasted my twenties chasing women and trying to make effort with them without trying to come accross as desperate only to be friendzoned. Im 30 now and not even interested in women don't waste time.
False. Chad does not initiate, they chase him. She'll break all the typical common sense things if you're her Chad or her ideal man (the one she finds attractivre)
Lady , These days it's called sexual harassment. So please don't tell us guys that we have to initiate.. We have gone our own ways. Only to see women age through menopause . And their bodies began to fall apart
