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Do you think since the person being sued is a Tarot reader online, that she might have some kind of disclaimer stating something like "for entertainment only...". Would that cover her legally against defamation per se'???
Does anyone know how large/small an area is actually meant by ‘In the area 12 times before…”? Does it mean that he drove past the house?…or could it be, ‘He got coffee from a local shop down the road’? …or visiting a friend who lives on the next street? Is there good reason to drive around there? Is it a busy road? I thought that they could pinpoint an exact location with gps on modern phones…but that wouldn’t be, “in the area”??!!? I’m confused??? 😅
I always thought I could take care of myself. Took defense classes, had my ex-LEO-husband train with me, felt quite confident in what I would do if presented with someone trying to harm me. However ... when confronted with a surprising situation that was potentially harmful, I simply dropped the bag I was carrying, put my hands over my face and tried to scream. Miss-Confident-and-Very-Prepared completely froze, couldn't move and the scream wouldn't even come out. So ... there's that. No one knows how they'll react and you can think you know all you want, but you 100% don't. Until it happens to you. THEN you will know how YOU react, not how that applies to anyone else.
I did that too when I got robbed at the convenience store I worked overnight at. I knew I could get robbed, thought, just hand over the $$, all is well. I totally broke down after. Having the gun pointed at me (head, chest, back) did something to me.
@@carenfarmer4794 Hell yes that would do something to you! I'm so sorry you went through that. I hope you had an opportunity to work through that experience and all of the resulting feelings and issues with someone. That's a lot! ❤
I had some boys kick my front door open in the middle of the night in high school because of stupid drama. I snapped straight up and screamed my head off. Not a subtle response at all. Everyone responds differently.
Me too. I’ve taken judo and karate classes, both my husband and I did and we practiced at home. But when something shocking happens I didn’t know how I’d react. One day I was home sick, and I woke up to 20 police all over my property with a helicopter hovering over the house. They had been chasing a illegal gun and drug dealer who was hiding on my property. I was terrified. As they were looking I walked out to the front yard and discovered him hiding between a trellis and the house. I was rooted to the spot. Mouth didn’t work, nor did my legs.
No offence. As former roommate, I did NOT interact with my roommates. Minimal contact, if needed. I kept noise canceling earphones in or played youtube 24/7. People cried over relationships, fought with friends and partners or had parties. I did NOT engage or involve myself. This isn't an American teen movie. A lot of people are going through their own stuff in post secondary and people are NOT trying to get involved with one another, in fact a lot of roommates have beef. Everyone is trying to respect the little privacy these multiple roommate households have. Most houses are owned by one person and the residents have contracts spanning from 3 months, 6 months, 9 months and a year. Sometimes people are new roommates or people leave and you have no clue. People clearly haven't had this experience, based off the attacks on this girl. She was nice to open her door. I can't even imagine doing that. I'd lock my door and put my earphones in. People think they'd do better, insane. All these people who probably live alone or with their parents
I think she did what you said, she just looked but didn't bother checking. She probably thought it was guest. Then went back to bed and was going to check in the morning. But I don't think she froze in fear and passed out like some ppl are claiming. I don't think she knew what was going on.
@Lilman Yellow I don't think it's really sad or heartless. Moving away for school is hard. It's not the fantasy world people think it is. As if you'll become one big family, these aren't your friends or your classmates and as previously mentioned can be different people month to month. You're young, and on your own for the first time. You're working and going to school and you don't know these people. There aren't formal meet and greets. You're all strangers under a roof, paying way too much for a room. Would you like , if you were having a big fight with a partner for your roommate , who is a stranger to get involved? It's embarrassing. Everyone is trying to be as respectful of privacy and space as possible. Unless someone knocks on your door, you're not trying to intrude on people's buisess. Your idealism on the world is admirable, but what happened isn't a crime of humanity or a deconstruction of society. As Emily said, people like to believe there would be a different outcome or that they would be different. It's clear you've never had to live with strangers, otherwise it would be pretty understandable how this could happen. It's not about being uncaring or cold, it's reality. A lot of people are uncomfortable living with strangers. The etiquette is, you keep as quite as possible, clean, don't narc to the landlord and don't be a pest. Most roommates don't say more than 'hi' or 'bye' unless they are your friends or classmates....which is rare.
You take the room you can get at the best place you can afford and tolerate the housemates you get. You might make friends, you might not. You might fit in, you might not. You may be looking around for new accommodation by the end of the semester or moving in with a new best friend or partner. I get it. I also understand not wanting to interfere with the comings and goings on the party floor or being shocked by what you see or think you see or being frozen. We don’t know what is going on yet.
This morning Ashley Banfield on News Nation interviewed a woman whose roommate was killed when she was in college. She talked about what it was like to have seen the murder scene and it didn't occur to her that there was blood all over until the paramedic pointed it out. Your brain will do funny things to protect your emotions when you are in horrible situations.
I saw this interview. Let’s not forget, Bundy did the same thing. Killed 4 out of 6. Could have been the prerogative the whole time. Do some Bundy, do some gacy, do some BTK. Who knows???? From the affidavit, doesn’t sound like dude saw her, but she saw him. Could have had a panic attack and passed out. Could have had a panic attack, took a Xanax, and passed out. No one but her knows.
@@JeremiahAlphonsus I think it’s a bit egregious as well, but we don’t know what happened. She could have had a panic attack and passed out. Could have taken a Xanax, and passed out. We don’t know… only she does.
I’ve seen some people say DM “isn’t a victim”…. Like hello??? Her house was broken into and four of her roommates (friends!!) were brutally murdered. Of course she’s a victim…people have been so awful about it though.
Yes she is a victim but she is also still alive and maybe some of the other victims could have still been alive too if the room-mate didn't wait 7-8 hours to call for help.
@@lenamcguire2659 like many others who have been in these types of houses have explained: you don’t call the cops everytime you see an unfamiliar person in your house. This case has made me realize how few people have experienced these “party houses”. In the town I went to school in, they were these big old Victorian homes chopped up in anything from 6-8 bedrooms, two entrances, multiple staircases, main lighting source at night is just a string of Christmas lights or some shit, your roommates let their friends use their bed for threesomes, at least one of your roommates sells weed and MDMA, and people are getting blackout drunk on a Monday night. There can be two separate parties happening in the same house. Seeing someone leave like that might be weird, and you wouldn’t call out to them because you know the person is probably sketchy, but not call the cops level sketchy. It would be the kind of thing that makes perfect sense after the fact. Saying “oh she should have called the cops right away” only tells me that YOU are inexperienced with how these living situations work. The idea that the person she’d seen had just killed her roommates and wasn’t just hooking up with someone or doing a late night drug deal wouldn’t have occurred to her at all. Like I lived in one of these homes in school. So many nights I heard thumps, crying, people I’d never seen leaving…I always poked my head out exactly like DM. Saw nothing. not one of those times had any of my roommates even been assaulted, let alone murdered.
@@Enjemnsnens she heard them saying someone is here and crying which she thought was so strange she kept looking out the door to see what was going on and then a sketchy person walking out of the house all those things added up says call the police because this is not a normal party house situation.
@@lenamcguire2659 I hate it when people try to place blame on her for their deaths. She had absolutely no way to know what had happened. So judgemental. They only person responsible is the killer, no good can come out of accusing her of contributing to their deaths. We don't even know if their injuries were treatable anyway.
@@lenamcguire2659 you call the cops every time your roommate cries? Did you read my comment at all explaining the way things in these houses go? You see people you don’t know ALL the time. People will always try and reassure themselves. “When you hear hoofbeats, it’s probably a horse, not a zebra”. How was DM supposed to know this was the 0.0000001% of times it was a fucking zebra? She probably thought someone had a bad hookup. Or the couple had a fight and she didn’t want to get involved. It’s so fucking smug and arrogant for you to sit there and tell someone else what they should have done when you don’t even understand the lifestyle of living in one of those houses.
Another example of TikTok being an absolute blight on society, I hope the poor professor gets justice and doesn't suffer any lasting negative consequences due to a clout chaser who thinks they are untouchable.
I love how you approach this case with compassion for those involved while focusing on the objective aspects of the case. It makes me sad to see the all the speculation regarding the victims, the families, and especially the surviving roommates…
i think we also need to account for the fact that she didn’t leave. something happened to her and/or didn’t think of threat. she stayed in that home for 8 hours
@@johannawigg6921 yea even in the military there is a saying that all planning goes out the window at first contact. And all their training is how to handle that deadly encounter which this child doesn’t have. Hopefully there’s no survivors guilt or ptsd.
One thing about the time of DM’s call to police was that she knew that roommates were up very late that night and sleeping in very late would not have been at all unusual or weird for a young person, especially for those who had been up until the early morning hours.
For anyone who has ever been to college, it is not uncommon for students to stay up all night and sleep most of the day. Even young people in other education programs will do that. I believe there is something about human growth that creates that. A human brain is not really fully mature and grown until the age of 25. I believe the weird sleep patterns of late teens and early twenties is part of that last brain growth spurt.
Plus I believe she witnessed and heard a whole lot more. Her room is in the middle of the house by the main walkways. She would hear most everything. While BF’s room is the furthest removed from everything else. If she indeed did not hear or see anything, that is why.
Re: the surviving roommate D. Just because the PCA states that she saw him, what he was wearing etc. doesn’t mean that it doesn’t leave out other key details to protect the case. Maybe he waived a bloody knife at her, threatened her…we just don’t know.
She saw a guy right? If it was me, I'd assume they were my housemates friend or partner, not someone who'd kill them or who had killed them. I live with a bunch of women and I still don't know who everyone is. Let alone if we had guests... That poor roommate.
I’ve lived in a house with 4 other roommates and it would be rare I would ever go and inquire about a noise unless it was a call for help. If I saw someone in the house I didn’t recognize, I would literally think it was just a roommates guest. It wasn’t rare that I’d see someone I didn’t recognize in the hallway going to the bathroom or kitchen. I understand why people have questions but it was completely normal and reasonable to me that she stayed in her bedroom.
@lilmanyellow8652 it wasn't multiple roommates that said "someone is here" additionally the surviving roommate didn't hear the thud. Re-read the probable cause affidavit. You've got some "facts" mixed up.
Agreed! Everyone keeps assuming it’s a robbers mask but the affidavit only said it covered his nose and mouth…sounds like the typical COVID mask 😷 based on that information.
@@morepeaspls Don't bother with them. They just want to reply to every comment to bash the surviving roommate with whatever bs excuse/reason they can come up with.
If information comes out that implicates her, then that’s one thing. But idk why people are condemning her and jumping to conclusions based on 2 sentences from her witness statement.
@Lilman Yellow I would love to see where you learned her story. As far as I know we have no clue what happened immediately after the interaction at 4AM because that wasn't relative to probable cause for BK's arrest.
I'm not saying we should accuse her of involvement, but the truth is -- it is appropriate that she feel guilty. We would need to find out something _wild,_ like she fainted, hit her head on the floor, and didn't wake up until the morning (which can't actually be true in this case, but something like that) for her not to have had a responsibility to call the police. Even if she was frightened -- which I have no doubt she was. Social expectations help people produce desirable behavior. It is a worthy social expectation that, in this circumstance, a person should call 911. If you were in a similar situation in the future, I would hope your roommate would think to themselves, "I'm too scared -- but I don't want to end up like that Idaho girl," and make the call.
@@jacksyoutubechannel4045 If it was a party house with an open door most of the time (as I read somewhere), then drugs, alcohol, loud music, could have been involved explaining the roommate passing out til noon.
It's common knowledge that college students generally have many different people in their home or dorm. There are study groups and relationships that develop. I don't think the witness did anything wrong. And I definitely have compassion for the survivors guilt that individual feels.
I’m glad Emily is addressing the surviving roommate’s importance to the investigation. It was really saddening to see a bunch of law needs in the initial livestream victim blaming the witness that was integral to catching the murderer.
Yes I was so disappointed that people couldn't fathom how someone could react in a way they don't think they would have acted. When the truth is you don't know until things happen what will happen. Freezing is definitely a thing that happens often.
It was so disgusting to see how quickly everyone started questioning this girl for surviving a literal murderer instead of questioning the motives of the alleged killer - especially after such a thorough affidavit. I hope she knows we are glad she survived. 💔🕊
@@JeremiahAlphonsus Dress has absolutely nothing to do with being sexually assaulted. If you aren't wearing a helmet are you consenting to me hitting you over the head? Because why would you leave it exposed like that if you didnt want me to bash ya? You think a 5 year old in overalls is dressing provocatively? You are not welcome in this community if that is how you view women and the world.
DM did the right thing. She survived and was crucial to getting BCK arrested. She likely saved more people from being murdered. She doesn't need this grief from these bullies
@@earld158. No, that’s not what Emily (and the police) have said - you seem to have completely mossed the point. It was because that description she gave matched someone driving one of the cars that was seen in the area, that then meant they had probable cause to stake out his parents house…. So, yes…. Her testimony was crucial to the arrest. Perhaps you can pay a bit more attention?
"How could she wait 8 hours to call the police?" She was awake at 4 in the morning. She probably went to sleep because she had no idea what happened yet.
Either she was frozen in terror for hours or she went to bed because she didn't know what happened, or another reason. We will find out one day. In the meantime people who are judging her online without knowing what happened are being cruel. She's a victim, too. I hope she is getting trauma therapy and has been able to access money from the victims of crime funding. People say they would know what they would do. You don't. I grew up in a very violent home. When different situations have happened in my adult life sometimes I am able to act with a clear head and sometimes I freeze up and am immobile. Nobody knows how they are going to act or react. This young woman and the other survivors,of this house and everywhere, did the very best they could in the situations they were in. Stop victim blaming!
DM could have easily said she slept through everything and saved herself all of the horrible speculation. Thank God she came forward with what she saw and heard.
@@Kimi1968fulthe affidavit stated she was on TikTok (I believe it was DM, at least) and it was part of the evidence building the timeline for when things happened.
@@angelaseymour4464 We can't dictate how someones body deals with a traumatic shock. You can't control how your own body will deals with Traumatic shock. Compassion is required.
THIS THANK YOU! Like for all she knew he was still in the house and if she made a noise or opened the door she could’ve died or been injured along with the roommates. She saw a man in the home with only his eyes exposed in dark clothing after hearing someone’s in the house and crying. I’d probably have waited too until I knew for sure it was safe to call.
When I was a roommate, if I heard noises from other rooms I would not have flung my door open all the way. If I was going to take a peak to see if something was going on, I would have opened the door just a crack. If that was the case with DM & she didn't have a light on in her room, she could have seen the man in the hallway, but he might not have noticed that her door was even open. Plus, he was probably worn out (stabbing 4 people to death in 15 - 20 minutes would have been tiring) and focused on getting out.
If you look at the layout of the house, there was a neon “good vibes” sign on the wall (on what would have been his right, with DMs door on the left) If that was on- it would have kept him from seeing much else in front of him
From what DM stated she did not know that four people had been murdered. All she knew was the few facts she stated on the probable cause. There were people coming and going in that house with people on three floors. She was unaware of the extent of anything else than a couple of comments and a dog barking. I wouldn’t have called the police either at that point. It wasn’t until later she realized what happened at that time. We all know what happened, but during the time she saw that guy in black she didn’t know. It could have been a “friend” of one of the roommates. When people are shocked she didn’t call, we’re looking at it through our knowledge of what actually happened. I hope people realize that what DM is going through now is horrible and will affect the rest of her life.
Your comment is contradicting. She saw a guy, didnt know who, went to bed, didnt know what happened, and didnt check on roommates. That's it. She wasn't frozen in fear. She saw someone she didn't know leave so she went back to bed. Which we do know it was a party house and ppl were up beforehand. And her statement matters if there are holes in it then he could walk free.
She was either “frozen in fear” or she wasn’t. Of course she didn’t know murders had occurred. So why would she be scared?? If she was that scared, why not text her roommates? Her statement just doesn’t make sense. Not accusing her of anything…. Just trying to understand what she has said.
A Real Housewife. Masterminded a scam, bilking old people out of money over the phone (yeah, she's got a spot in *that* level of h--l). Her apologies all give very "I'm sorry my actions are making you feel some kind of way." energy.
Emily, you integrity is a breath of fresh air. I'm so sad & disgusted what the public has done to the sole witness ( a victim & survivor) my heart breaks but I'm so angry at people too. Thank you for standing with her & announcing it on such a large audience 💜💜💜 you're a beautiful human
Thanks! 1 year, 11 months, 27 days my 24 month member anniversary is approaching. Thank you for the legal education for me, the lay-person. So happy to see your channel grow. Thank you fellow law nerds for being here with me too 💜💜💜💜
I'm a British university student and this case made the news over here. It stuck with me how terrifying it would be to realise a man you thought was a hookup or friend of your housemate was actually their murderer. And the survivors guilt must be awful the poor things, I can't imagine having thousands of people on the internet say such horrible things either. And the TikTok girlie needs psychiatric help! You can't make stuff up and blame it on tarot cards when it could have ruined people's lives.
I live with a bunch of women and we have certain rules about guests, but if we were in a situation where guests were allowed at all times, I'd definitely assume the guest was a friend/partner and not someone who'd harm them! That poor person.
I just realized I saw the backup account where she is still going and there is yet another backup account attached to this one. Just wanted to clarify my mistake that the original account is still going.
I watched Andrea Burkhart’s short on DM’s eye witness description of BK yesterday and she said the exact same thing - DM’s contribution is so valuable and she deserves support.
When I found out my dad was terminally ill I went into shock for 4 days. I was awake 36 hours without even realizing. I was completely disassociated. You never know what your brain is going to do under that much stress.
The surviving room mate did the right thing - secured her safety and then reported the crime. I sincerely hope she is in a safe location and has people she can trust around her.
@@feralLove Okay, and? That tends to happen to people that witness something traumatic. Some people go YEARS without coming forward out of fear or mental-health based blocks. She talked to investigators the next day with as much information as she could give, and it helped to solve the case in a surprisingly quick timeframe compared to similar crimes in the past.
Well I wouldn't say right thing. I think she did what she was going to. She probably thought it was just a guest and went back to sleep. I think some ppl are having a hard time that there were 4 murders and no checking on roommates but I think ppl forget it was 12 minutes. That's not long at all. So she probably went back to bed not because she was frozen but bc she didn't know. I also think some ppl are exaggerating way too much about her story, saying she passed out or had trauma or triggered. I've reported someone for acting ppl for just commenting a theory of DM (no insults or bullying) but they think it's okay bc they think they're protecting DM when in reality it's making it worse.
"I'm sorry, I didn't even give you a warning that I was going on a tangent because I didn't know it was happening" and the look on your face when you gave the "warning".... oh Emily, you are delightfully wonderful!
Thank you for supporting the surviving roommate. I think I may have been so afraid I would have frozen too. My heart goes out to the victims and their families. ♥️🙏🏻
So grateful that the two room-mates survived. This is so comforting that this despicable creep did not take more from our world than he already took! Just think of how significant this fact is to all of the friends, family and the millions of companionate people following this tragedy. Blessings and privacy to these two young ladies who are recovering and mourning their 4 friends that were taken violently and at such a young age.
Thank you Emily for outlining this defamation case. My sympathies (if that’s the right word) are totally with the professor. I can’t imagine being placed in this position in a public forum. Thank you as always for your succinct and sassy input.
The professor and the poor kid being dragged into it too. He's probably grieving his ex and feeling all kinds of feelings, and now having to deal with some lunatic on the internet calling him an accomplice.
I genuinely think the roommate didn’t really understand the extent of what was going on. There was whimpering and dogs barking (as far as we know), but no obvious screaming. As a uni student living with others, you kind of expect friends and whoever to be in your house whenever. Maybe she just thought he was a friend or partner of one of her other roommates. She didn’t see any blood, she didn’t see a weapon. Yes he was wearing a face covering but it was cold outside so maybe she thought that wasn’t a big deal? I feel for the roommate, I bet she feels awful. Thank you for covering this Emily, you always make everything informative and compassionate x
They give real tarot readers a bad name. 😢 they don’t all act a fool like her. They don’t call themselves psychic. It’s horrible what she’s done to that teacher and everyone else😢
All “psychics” make me sick tbh. I mean, caveat emptor, I guess? But preying on the gullible, the grieving, the unsuspecting is on the same level as thief to me.
@@mermaiddiyartist8119 As much as I enjoy a good tarot session, there is absolutely no scientific evidence for any of it so I just take it as a fun activity to reflect on what's going on in my life and leave it at that. Just about every one I have seen do lots of cold readings and come across a lot like this lady in the video unfortunately.
I follow one. She’s very ethical and was 90% or more correct on everything before anything was given to the public. So much so I am going to use her services in the future. Her channel is psychic sleuth. The ones I follow have helped out with other cases in the past with great information. But you’re right most channels really set me off because you KNOW they’re just fakes and are looking for clout.
I think everyone should sue Ashley. The parents of the victims, the other person she implicated in this, the survivor, and anyone else that could possibly be harmed by her bullshit.
As a tarot card reader I can say, Ashley crosses every ethical boundary I know. IF you did indeed get any information about a crime you, privately, take it to the police, you DO NOT outright call someone a murderer (over 100 videos ) on a damn tic tok channel!
Exactly, and Tarot cards don't work like she is claiming that they do. You don't get names. You can focus on a person once you have a name. Otherwise it is general information, glimpses, shadows and you can ask for clarification. But it is never set in stone. And you always have to be mindful of the energy you might let in. She is reckless and unethical in her actions.
THEY ARE SLIPS OF CARDBOARD! You get NOTHING from a tarot card reading, it's random, I guarantee the police do not need anything you gleaned from pulling cards. For the love of whatever higher power you believe in please do not go to the fucking police with card readings, they have far far far more important things to do. Further, no, tarot is not valid evidence in a goddamn murder case! PEOPLE WERE BRUTALLY MURDERED, GET A GRIP!!!
So true, I had a home invasion. I just did what they asked and prayed my son heard and ran locked himself in the laundry room. I then prepared to be raped and then killed. I was held down and a gun pressed to the back of my head. I was in shock my only thought was my son. He was safe and had a phone and was on 911 the entire time. Once. They took what they wanted, they left. But u have know idea how u will react or will do.
They just give excuses to Kohberger and protects his family atm and I've seen the very same people harass and bad mouthing the surviving victim/eyewitness. So don't expect anything kind from these people.
I am also waiting for it. When I asked one of the channels to stop asking people to report his evidence in the video's about Jack, I was told he looks like an incel and he is guilty of the act. No due process. No innocent until proven guilty in a court of law. No arrest by the police. No information to support the accusation by the channel.
@@hazelhadley-britt6396 Why is that more important than harassing the victims, friends and family? We don't even know if his parents knew nor if they will continue to defend him even if it's proven that he did this. I have no compassion for them because I don't trust them but I'm not harassing them online, and that's what others can do too. Just not talk about them.
@pelleoh you think that only victims family and friends are victims at times like this? You think they should be harrassed, attacked and accused of stuff like the professor and Jack (the ex) have been? This case has shown that many are selective when it comes to believing in due process. Even amongst those who follow lawyers. Absolutely disgusting mobs who do not care whom they destroy as long as their emotional needs are met. Emily calls for due process does she not? Yip.
Hopefully, this will began to show people that they will be held accountable for what they say as apparently, they didn't learn from Amber. Thank you Emily and keep being awesome!
one thing people need to learn about the legal process when it comes to pretrial information is that the investigators will “teach you everything you know, but not everything they know”. speculation is not needed when we don’t know probably 70% of what’s happened in the investigation. there’s a chance they already know why there was a gap between the phone call and the roommate seeing the defendant, why there were parties who didn’t live in the house there that morning when the cops arrived, why it wasn’t the roommate who called when it was their phone, why it was reported as an unconscious person. we don’t know, and we don’t deserve to.
People ragging on the roommate need to stop. JUST STOP. She was probably sound asleep, was disoriented and then finally registered someone in the house who wasn't supposed to be there. Freeze response is a REAL THING.
@Lilman Yellow um.. FBI and police heard her whole story , that isn't blindly !! You , on the other hand , haven't heard all the circumstances and blindly want to find fault . That's sick .
@@desertsunset8025 but u don't have the information either. It's called being objective bc our society is very much victims mentality now a days. Per the afd, she heard strange noises, saw a stranger, went to sleep. Didnt check on them. Until more information is released we don't actually know for sure what she did. And it's sick that ppl keep saying "she was in shock, she passed out, she knew what was going on but didn't know" at least some are being objective instead of trying to psychoanalysis and pity the crap out of her. The worms are out of the can. The more ppl keep telling ppl to stop talking about her the more she will be talked about.
And the ex boyfriend, Jack. She accused them both. Other true crime channels have only accused the ex. One of them even put together videos of evidence and asked the audience to possibly report the "facts" to the police.
Thank you for your grace towards the the surviving roommates. If they were involved at any point they would have been arrested like Brian Walshe. Thank you again for your summary and factual information.
Thank you Emily for explaining step by step how the investigation led to BK. I've listened to several commentator go through it and your explanation is the clearest.
"Becca told me too " are the words from a girl who died from a brain tumor in Canada. Her name was Rebecca Scofield. She wanted people to do acts of kindness and say she told them to do the act of kindness. This person is totally using her words and making a mockery of this poor girls life wish!!! Go Emily go!!!
@@jackdough8164 It's true. I'm from the town she's from. She's done so much good for our town and her message has spread the world over. It's a shame someone would use her message for anything but good. 😢
Someone broke into my moms house a few months ago. She woke up around 3:30am from a loud bang. She knew someone was downstairs and she didn't know who, so she chose to believe that it was probably my brothers friend trying to get into the house in the middle of the night on a school night AND WENT BACK TO SLEEP. Everyone was okay and the person was caught and arrested, but the point is that nobody knows how you're going to react in a situation like that. You want to believe in the less terrifying explanation, even if it's not logical because that is the easier thing to tell yourself
I hope you will cover some of the Delphi case as it appears to be heading to court somewhat this year. I am from Indiana and there are many people who have been deeply grabbed by the case here. I have been to Delphi I’m the years since the horrendous murders happened and you can tell the community just wants justice and closure.
I had a random person, entered my home with a knife.. my brain went to mush . I had the hardest time trying to call my husband . I wasn't thinking about the police . I wanted my husband and be to safe .
But you managed to use your dialing/texting finger...right? That's all the internet is angry about. Someone who could have possibly saved lives DIDN'T bother to check on them despite seeing someone who terrified them in the shared home.
@@WindsofChange I didn't call my husband right away ....I really don't know how long I hid . I remember not being able to move a muscle . I don't think many people blame her .. she did the best she could .
@Lilman Yellow your talking about moral compass ? and you're accusing an innocent girl of lack of moral compass because she froze with fear ? Wtf is wrong with Your moral compass ?
They were roommates living in a house not in on all of each others lives. It’s college! Just because she saw him doesn’t mean she would have immediately thought it was her business or thought he had done anything to roommates.
it's scary to think that if he had just not left the sheath and if he walked to the house rather than driven his own car, we might not have ever known who did it.. O_O
The big question is how loud the murder was and did she hear the murder. If we take the current statement in its entirety, she heard crying. Would that be strange living with that many girls? I'd expect to hear crying from time to time. And she heard some offering help. One would think that might make her less likely to see if anyone needed help. What noise there was eather wasn't loud or unusual enough for her to be curious and investigate. She saw a creepy guy in the house who scared her? Hasn't one of the biggest talking points that there were constantly people coming in and out of the house? I think the fact that there was four victims adds credibility to her story. If the first murders were loud, why wouldn't the other victims call 911 and lock their doors? I honestly don't think I would have called 911 in these circumstances.
@will Nill how do you know it was in 10 minutes? Likely, the sound she thought was someone playing with the dog was actually one of the murders. We also don't know how many times each of the victims were stabbed. Or how long it took for each victim to die. We just don't know.
I think that if she didn't hear anyone fighting him, the cry was more like a whimper or a few sobs, and if she didn't see BK exiting covered in blood or with a knife in his hand (people are forgetting it was dark), then I feel like after being frozen in shock from seeing someone in their house, she might have just thought some guy broke in to steal something and left with nothing. So why bother calling 911 in that moment? Also, can we be entirely sure her statements were 100% accurate after realizing what had happened and being so traumatized?? Maybe she thought the "someone's here" was coming from upstairs, but it was really Xana. Maybe she actually cried out/whimpered but didn't realize it was herself? (idk if that's possible but again, stressful situation might cause her to remember things differently) Either way, I think people blaming her and saying she should have done this, she should have done that, are wrong. You weren't there. You don't know what the situation was. Also, from what has been reported, it seems there was no chance of saving the 4, even if an ambulance showed up 5 seconds after the attacks.
My neighbour (rip) was murdered by stabbing in the afternoon c 2009. I was home (crap flat with thin walls) and heard thuds like a car door shutting outside. That was it - very sad and there was nothing to hear at all. I told the police and was a witness in court. The guy had come back from Spain and had murdered someone else as well. Absolute nightmare all round. Drive me nuts for a bit and the memory is still right there. Point being, it’s perfectly possible for a neighbouring roomie to not hear much and/or not recognise the sound when it’s happening. Also there’s absolutely no guide book for how you respond as it’s such an alien event.
What a horrific thing to happen to you. I am sure your observation is accurate. The last thing most of us expect is murder and for the most part we don’t interfere with others when it is not clear what is going on.
I never talk about it and yes it was totally horrible for everyone. I hope this kid witness gets proper support cos it can spiral into depression fast. Thanks for the kind words x
I so appreciate your support of the roommate. Just think if she had not taken steps to protect herself and had gotten murdered. No witness at the apartment.
I love your videos. I have seen everything since the JD/AH trial. I end up having to break your videos up recently because your voice is so soothing I fall asleep. But I want to know all the things!
Idk how anyone could think DM getting involved would have done anything besides having produced another tragic death. Seriously. The guy had a knife… he killed 4 people, why would he not add a 5th just because she confronts him? She called the police. She did what she could. If it was me who was already dead, I wouldn’t want my friend to join me if she could avoid it. Period.
Here is my OPINION: If/when a court finds this tiktok "sleuth" to have committed defamation, in addition to whatever costs, fees, & fines the court may impose, she should be required to post tiktoks to her account in which she debunks her own claims & explains that the professor & the other student she accused have no connection at all to the quadruple murders. She should be required to post the same number of these debunking tiktoks as she originally posted of tiktoks that mention her bogus defamatory claims, even if she's subsequently deleted the original tiktoks. She should be fined a certain amount per week until all of the required tiktoks are posted, & she should never be allowed to delete any of them on pain of further fines. These fined amounts should go to pay for legal help for the indigent. Merely my OPINION. Thank you SO much for covering this, EDB. I find it disturbing on many levels: as a practitioner of tarot, as a law nerd, as an adjunct to the academic world, as a woman, as a former college student, as a parent...
Thank you so much for not dissing the roommate. My heart aches for her. Not only will she be dealing with major survivor's guilt, but also having what must feel like the whole world be angry at her and say such terrible things about her...I just can't imagine what the poor girl is going through right now.
34:52 thank you for bringing up boundaries for these cases. I'm from the community that lost Harley Dilly, and we had a psychic say that he would be found by water (he was found in a chimney) when we live basically on Lake Erie. What people will do for attention astounds me
Regarding TikTok performers or any influencers passionating chasing fame, there is a line you do not cross. I am not a constitutional scholar (I will not even go into my grade for U.S. History class in college😧), but free speech does not allow you to falsely yell fire in a crowded building resulting in injuries and deaths due to stampeding nor does the promise of free speech include defamation of a private citizen exposing said private citizen to danger and injury.
@@jeishiikanzaki True. Depends on the situation and the person. For example an individual with Tourette's Syndrome who yelled fire would probably exit a jury trial with "not guilty". An 70 year old who mistakenly took people smoking/vaping as a potential danger, probably also "not guilty". However an adult female who yells fire (or murder) to get views, fame and clicks will not fare nearly as well as the previously 2 hypothetical cases.
i am beyond SICK and TIRED of seeing/reading comments about DM and accusing her of not doing enough/heroin addict/a part of it. all assumptions and unfounded. tiktok detectives thinking they know better. THIS ISNT A TV SHOW. ive had a friend in DM's spot, a outlying victim of a terrible situation and had survivors guilt/people dragging their name on social media. they ended up killing themselves for it. 100% innocent and couldnt take what people were saying about them. i hope all this talk about DM will stop and just watch the case.
I’m glad that the roommate survived. First, if he had noticed her, he probably would have murdered her as well. This gave her the opportunity to give a description and a timeline. Without her I’d, who knows how long he could have been out, and what other murders he may have done. Poor girl, it’s going to be something we struggles with forever.
It has recently come to light that BCK has a history of neurological disorders and visual snow. This impairs a persons ability to see in the dark. It’s entirely possible that he didn’t even see DM because of his poor vision or maybe even tunnel vision. I am so thankful for DM. She is absolutely a victim here and she played a very important part in identifying the suspect! I can’t even imagine the shock and trauma she must have gone through. I hope she is getting the help and support she needs right now.
DM saw a figure ... heard he was talking to a victim ... but that doesn't mean (s)he was aware of what actually occurred, or that there was a need to suspect foul play. I'm getting upset at people judging DM 😪
I don't know where this Tic tok person lives in Texas, but if it's close to Houston, I would gladly put up the professor a place to stay!! This is unacceptable.
The TikTok posts and defamation suit are exactly why trials DO need to be televised/streamed. Obviously that chick doesn’t understand the consequences of her accusations and she needs schooled on defamation
Just think everyone....how many hours many of us spent analyzing the food truck video, when in actuality, it probably had nothing to do with this tragedy
I don’t think people have been doing well to balance that. A lot of people have gone from some small speculation to outright blame in all the other accusations against unrelated people in this case. It quickly devolved to that against DM. When someone has already been harassed for simply being there, it’s time to just let it go. We’ve speculated enough in the last week for a lifetime based on two sentenced from her witness statement.
I’m glad EDB like Andrea Burkhart is not shaming DM for surviving. The amount of lawtube who are blaming the survivor for literally surviving. It’s disgraceful. The poor girl is probably so traumatised already. Thing is i don’t know for certain that she is totally innocent Nobody will know until the trial. We just have wait for evidence in trial before we can start forming conclusions.
I have not heard one of "lawtube" victim blaming. I have heard some read comments by people questioning, but not them victim blaming. They even say they will wait until she is called to testify. The nastiness of blame is coming from people making comments. Not just people listening to lawyers, but all channels discussing the case. Saying they do not know why she waited to call is not victim blaming. It is not knowing her mindset at the time. A blanket statement does not facts make.
@@hazelhadley-britt6396 I am intrigued by this case because i have been listening to lawyers and commenters/ bloggers or whatever they call themselves discuss this case. Commenters speculating and adding 2+2 and coming out with 5, i expect. But i’ve heard 2 separate lawyers read the affidavit and state they can’t understand why DM didn’t call the police and the other lawyer questioned the statement about DM being shocked then living herself in her room without checking on the others. I was shocked when i heard this lawyer say this. And i won’t giving them my view again. But the majority of lawyers i’ve listened to have been neutral and or sympathised for DM. Because most of us would not know how we’d react in the situation. So i’m not stating fact. I’m expressing my dismay at the reactions from some of lawtube.
I'm glad the investigation into the murder was down slowly and thoroughly and that everyone kept a tight-lid on information until they had concrete evidence to arrest someone.
