The Internet Said So | EP 60 | Emotions 

Dog : Bhow Bhow Neville : No, I don't think it's that.

OK. Neville had a full on glow up during quarantine.

“The worst thing to do is to try to chase Nostalgia.” - Kautuk Srivastava, 2020.

This is one of the best episodes after 'death'. Great balance between humorous and serious conversation. Didn't feel heavy at all. Well done, guys !

56 year old :uncle" here. Many years ago I had heard a line that has always stayed with me about maturity and emotions and how to deal with them. It went like this - " In my 20s I was always worried about what people thought of me, in my 30s i didn't care about what people thought of me, it was only in my 40s I realized that they were never thinking about me at all".

I genuinely feel Tuesday should be renamed to TISSDAY

Boys who talk about their emotions. Let’s make this the new way of being to all the boys out there. Vulnerable, Compassionate and Kind Men are the hottest. Girls and Gays admire this quality in boys.

The more I watch Neville speak, the more I relate to him on all levels! Even the emotions he feels.. When he says, he is selfish in a certain way, that he wants to do things his way so he'd rather do it himself.. God! I am this person! And maybe I need therapy asap too 😂

"You feel more nostalgic when you are miserable" Don't know what can relate more!

U people are my strength... Recovering from covid and ur podcast is everything that is good and relaxing for me.. Thank you varun and team

Neville talking about how he feels about meeting a collective or uninvited guests or friends of friends or a group of people he is uncomfortable with is so me and several others who have social anxiety. We are few in number but we are there. All we want is someone to be okay with us like we are okay with them. We have a different personality, accept it and move on. Thank you for this Neville :)

When bawa said " I don't hate follow people, I search for them to hate and that's worse" I felt that!

a shoutout to kautuk for letting us know the ‘time’ and how they all stay up late just for us , aadar for having such a quirky adorable laugh , Varun for keeping all of us on our toes and Neville being the naive cutie fact checking everyone and almost never understanding that it was supposed to be a joke

I feel like Neville needs a dose of embarrassingly lovely compliments and he looks hot in this episode. Just saying 😂

Someone once said in the comments that Neville is acquired taste. Couldn't agree more❤️

My big takeaway from this podcast, "There is a point in time where we just mature as people and we understand the futility of just putting ourselves through the emotion of emotions" - Started by Neville completed by Varun with, "of emotions", haha. Love you guys really.

KAUTUK didn’t get the Memo for dressing up as College Event Organiser.

Varun should permanently change "shocking" to "shocks" & "stats" to "facts" after 201836 times "shocksing" & "starting" it😂😂

I really don’t understand how this channel hasn’t reached 1 million yet!

Guys discussing emotions with neville 😂

Kautuk : what's the evolutionary Reason for nostalgia??? Karan johar: so that I can make films

What a beautiful first 2 mins😂😂😂😂

The biggest reason I like TISS is that it is not just being funny. It is like listening to a bunch of friends talk, who might not have been able to meet. Just listening to a podcast by these guys puts me in a better mood, I take out one hour of my day to listen to them. Thanks for this guys! Thanks for still continuing and making this whole situation better

Kautuk : bawa which is your favorite emotion of all time? Me : schadenfreude Bawa :anger? Kautuk : no Kautuk : schadenfreude

Negative emotions are like "Gobar" , it's ugly when fresh . When processed it becomes a fuel .

Vrooon, next podcast on "Your first impression of each other". #TISSOP

You guys have become a permanent part of my life now. Learnt so much from this podcast during the lockdown. I wish I get the chance to meet you guys one day. Lots of love from Pakistan. ❤️

I'm relating so much with Neville at the age of 18 , that its scaring me now

Never thought an episode about just emotions could be this interesting and intuitive! Kudos! As someone else mentioned earlier in the comments, definitely the most emotionally engaging episode after Death. Bawa stars in both. I see a pattern here.

Whatever Bawa is saying about hanging out with a large extended group and also wanting to do things on his own as opposed to letting others do it coz they would do it in perhaps a not so efficient way resonates so much with how I feel as well. I can see the rest of you interpreting it in a different way and I am like No guys No. That's not what it is....

Kautuk Recording From Nana Nani Park 🌸

Looks like i am going to cry after watching this 😢

Neville playing with his curls 😂 so adorable

I officially declare Pokhraj Roy as the official yt comments bot for TISS IF anybody else notices, high five 🖐️

I think about nostalgia , we as humans mostly expect that things which have already happened in the past will be our best experiences , and no future experience can supersede it. So even when something better is happening in the present we tend to ponder upon past memories to be the best.

How Neville reacts to parents, I react to grandparents: I cry wolf when I see adorable grandparents in the media in any form. Not to say that my grandparents were any less adorable and lovely.

My emotions are always so at the brim, I can cry at the drop of a hat. I think I should have been an actor. Especially since last 5 years. I had strangely self diagnosed myself with anxiety, depression & quick triggers 5 years ago, and hence started keeping away from people, stopped being social, etc. If I had a panic attack or an anxiety attack, I just had to rush back home and sit in my room to feel better. I had done that so many times when I was working in an office. I changed jobs so many times and finally I'm jobless now, trying to figure out what to do. Let's see. I can't tell you guys how liberated I feel seeing you guys familiarise people with these things. It's always been an uphill task communicating my condition to friends and family. People used to be like - "listen everyone is suffering so just suck it up and do your job." But I just couldn't. And I hated this reaction. Then there was another reaction -" I'm there for you, talk to me or reach out to me whenever."-- which has to be the fakest and the most clueless thing non depressed people say to depressed people. This sympathy doesn't help either, it pisses me off rather. And the worst - when they start giving advices after advices, to a point that it suffocates you. Now I am so afraid to open up, I rarely go out or meet people and even if people visit my place I get anxious. Social interaction causes a great deal of anxiety to me. Im planning to see a new doctor now. Hope things get better. Loved this episode, really related to everything you guys said about mental Anxiety and depression. I love you guys and TISS too much. ❤️

"Aadar's reaction when Neville was reading Pizonna's lines" is me😂😂

This podcast is not just a podcast. It's an Emotion ❤️

Absolutely love your podcasts! I am undergrad psychology student and I just wanted to add to the phenomenon you all were talking about where when one person smiles and the other does too this happens because of neurons called the "mirror neurons" in the frontal lobe which is activated by performing an action or by seeing another person perform the same action. These neurons play a big role in imitation of others, understanding their intentions and feeling empathy. Psychopaths lack mirror neurons and hence they don't feel empathy at all.

51:33 Neville ❤️

As Varun mentioned that some people felt happy in quarantine. I want to share an incident During my college days I was under weight and was affecting my health but due to quarantine I dont know what happened to me I started working out and the results started to show up. I am very happy because of lockdown as it helped me and gave to time to take care of myself and ach9my goals. And it's such a great feeling to achieve what I wanted.

I’ve had anxiety since I was 20 (I’m 33 now), so practically my entire adult life. This conversation touched a very raw nerve. But thank you for talking about it to make people aware of what anxiety can physically do to a person. #MentalHealthMatters

Empathy I feel. What has bothered me is the fact that over the years I've realized that I am unable to cry when something really hurtful happens. Like going away from someone I truly cherish and love. I cry later, in solitude when I am alone, when the person of my affection cannot see me... And I don't know why. It really screws up. When the relationship is going on, I will do everything to make the person happy and comfortable. But if it comes to the point where we have to part... whatever the relationship is, friendship, family. ..most importantly a relationship of love and passion, of partnership I am unable to show emotions then. I just go numb. I block up. I come home, and then I cry and cry and cry. The person that I am crying for doesn't see it. All that person sees is me smiling and hugging and saying "Hey, take care". It has bothered me no end. Because once I am alone, i then go through the whole crying and falling apart. It makes the person i have so much affection for, feel that i am cold and don't reciprocate their feelings. And it makes them feel emotionally rejected by me. It is very important to show your emotions but I also realize that I have invested in people so much when they didn't care about me as much, that it's a self preservation tool that my brain has developed.

Was watching the video of the song 'sat saumdar paar' and noticed that Varun looks so similar to a young gulshan grover😂

What is the evolutionary purpose of nostalgia .. dayum guys! Good one! My observation - Nostalgia definitely is a means of self preservation, also escapism to cope and give hope. ( like you guys mentioned) . I heard about this social experiment carried out with 25 citizens over the age of 65, where they were taken to a resort, with decor styles from their youth, music/ food from their era and stayed a week at this premises, no newspapers etc to remind them of current day. Those with severe arthritis made an attempt to dance, people who had been quiet for months, started to engage with others. Pretty fascinating !

Girls drooling over Neville 🥴🤤

Boredom is an important evolutionary trait wherein mostly because of this emotion we created or discovered new things

I JUST GOT DONE WITH WATCHING THE BINGE LIST PART 2 FOR THE FOURTH TIME. REFRESHED MY RU-vid. AND LO AND BEHOLD A NEW EPISODE. WHAT A DAYYYYYY.

Make a podcast on books

I would like to share an experience on ‘empathy’ - this is my work experience - I had to be in another department that day for some reason. And I witnessed employee 1 was insulted by an employee 2, in my presence. I was shocked myself with that then this employee 1 comes to me and discusses about what just happened, my tears just rolled out! I couldn’t hold it in a professional environment. A day or two later she gifted me with chocolates and card thanking me about the whole thing.

I don’t know why some people didn’t like this episode. This has to be one of the best in my opinion! (And it is super hard to decide, you guys should know, for all the episodes are sooooo good!) Being a psychologist, I just loved the way you spoke so well about different emotions and broke it down to evolutionary purpose it serves, the expression and the experience of the emotions! What a greatttt episode!😍♥️ Thank you so much💯♥️

Smile is contagious until you develop anxiety and then you see people smiling at you and you’re thinking “what’s wrong with me, are they mocking me?” Lol

Y’all usually just turn my day around but this this is one of those episodes that also gives you enough to think about for a while! 💕

Sending my love and hugs to the very cute TISS BOYS and the TISS Army!

I was in a middle of something so I put my phone on speaker and these guys were talking so nicely about emotions and stuff and Neville's philosophy verses and the moment my uncle enters the room Kautuk yells "HOLY FUCK"

Epiphany during the Pandemic: 1. I was a toxic workaholic which I thought was rewarding but led to a terrible burnout leading to Anxiety and Major Fatigue. I let myself rest. And now I want to be a Creative Person in various fields and MAYBE a Stand-Up Comedian or a Comedian with proficiency in various branches. 2. I’ve become a better writer but now with Zoom, I feel like I need to practice speaking more, and I’m a good conversationalist. I need to revive that.

Itne saalon se inko sunn aur dekh rahi hoon, they have become part of my existence now haha.

Getting or not getting an episode of TISS every tuesday is also an emotion !!!

May be kautuk was spot on at 26:00 and that's why bawa ne edit kiya🤣🤣🤣🤣

Emotions. The greatest power out there. Interesting to find out about y'all guys emotions

Pls let kauthuk and Aadar talk. Cowtuk has some really fantastic one liners and easy quips and some profound observations. Let him talk guys!!

I love how KAUTUK is low-key dropping hints that we cannot get enough of 😂

Having a good meal after a hard day of work is BEST EMOTION. 😁

This episode is so cathartic! Keep up the good work guys!

The last two podcasts especially have been so so good and so informational and funny at the same time. Love the work guys and please do keep this going on. The podcast deserves way more views than it gets

This was such a great podcast, I'm so glad you spoke about your experiences- it covered a mix of things that different people could relate to! Thanks for this

Neville inserting his pen in his curls was something I never thought I'd enjoy seeing xD

Thank you guys for making me realize that I am not the only one who is just emotionally confused!!

omg going through so many emotional memories watching these! xD

What a great topic for the day when "This Is Us" season 5 is premiering! Just emotions everywhere.

This was brilliant ! Great conversation sprinkled with humor and things to ponder on ! When I saw the topic , I did not expect to be blown away ... 1 hour flew by !

Most favourite TISS podcast ever. I guess I will revisit this every now and then and it will still be new because I will have more relatable new experiences. PURE GOLD. ❤️

Really enjoyed this one, Deep & Humorous. Thanks guys ❤️

I can't tell you how much joy you guys bring to my day..... I just can't ❤

53:54 Aadar talking about that tree made realise that there were these vast stretches of trees lined across an area of Kolkata called Lake Town. And then the trees were poisoned and removed to create a park in its place. It affected my mood too: I’d become unhappy.

You guys make videos on such varied topics and make it very relatable. Please keep on making more of these

The emotion Neville described in 1:02:40 is *Post Purchase Cognitive Dissonance*. Post Cognitive Dissonance can be anything that is not pursued/ less pursued after knowing something - e.g. smoking less after reading the health warning.

Man... This pod hit diff. It's crazy how y'all guys connect with the audience... Keep going guys ❤️

New 🌸 in kautauk's House

You guys are my fav ... loved this episode about emotions... want more of this.. it was worth watching since lockdown

Tuesday enhancers, these podcast episodes!!! 🙏🙏🙏🙏

This has to be hands down, my most favourite episode! 🧡 Loved every bit of this conversation and everyone broke down bits to understand and help us understand several aspect of emotions. And also just want to mention that, Neville in this episode, just hits different! 🌼🧡 Sending love to all of y'all!

Thank you guys for doing podcast on emotions I have learned lot of things about myself 👍👍

I am female version of Bawa! It seems 😁

Love that you guys discussed about anxiety and panic attacks.❤

Bawa figuring tunnels in his curly hair during the podcast is the best part

Towards the end of the episode, really enjoyed the conversation around the experience judgment/intuition cycle

Shared this to every relevant person in my life because literally everyone could take away atleast one thing from this. Thats how amazing this podcast was. Much love guys❤️

Very deep conversation. Loved it

Kautuk is hyper energetic in this one. Screams at least three times!

The most needed subject ❤️

My god, such good points of discussion, jealousy and angles at emotions, beautiful, loved it

I feel like the evolutionary function of nostalgia is in keeping the emotion of empathy intact in us. For example, what differs us from a robot who learns from experience? Basically the robot saves its experience as a memory while we save an experience as a memory in conjunction with an emotion we felt due to that experience.

I really like to sit down for TISS @midnight... Feels like I am sitting with my gang cause guys especially Varun n Bawa I can relate with you guys on another level altogether! Varun.. Thanks bud! 🥃

Deep episode. Full of good stuff.

Commenting midway ,by far the BEST ONE!

This has to be my favourite episode.

Now that's what I call a well researched podcast correct amount of banter, humor, facts & experience. Love you guys ❤️

Ye couch wala episode kab aayega yarrrr