Arey bhai sahab koi aesa jamana bataiye jab parents khul ke apni aulaad ko sab disclose karte thaey. Mere dada ko 40 ki umar mein pata chala tha ki hum itne gareeb nahi hain. Shock laga. Mere papa ko bhi post office ki FDs ke baare mein dada ke antim samay mein pata chala. Papa ko apne baap ke marne ka dukh nahi tha, kyunki FDs hone ki aur saare kaagaz papa ko mil jaane ki khushi itni thi. Mereko bhi apne papa ki bas property ke baare mein pata hai, kyunki market rate toh mereko maalum hai, lekin aur kya assets hain. Mereko kuch bhi maalum nahi aur chhup chhup ke darwaza band karke papers wala suit case kholte hain. Bahar se mereko suit case khulne ki aur band hone ki awaaz aati hai. Kayi baari baahar se dekha hai suit case kaisa dikhta hai. Uske andar kya hai mujhe nahi pata.
One more thing, , ज्यादातर बुजुर्ग लोग कान के कच्चे होते हैं अपने बेटे और पोतों की बात कम सुनते हैं और यार दोस्त या पड़ोसी या रिश्तेदार की ज्यादा बात मानते हैं कोई बेटा या पोता अगर गलती से किसी संपत्ति का बंटवारा की चर्चा भी करता है शातिर चालाक और लालची समझा जाता है।
Sir. I agree with you but please let me know that should we give away all our property to our married sons. Or should we make a will so that after our death they get it
Mera ek example hai. Family me ek doctor the wo 82 sal me umar me expire ho gaye. wo city ke bahut bare doctor the beta papa ke status se niche tha aaj ke bhasa me simple civil engineer jo daddy se kafi kam kamata hai (hum ye nahi bol rahe ki civil engineer job achcha nahi hai hum to khud ek engineer hai). doctor saheb kabhi beta ko ek futi kauri nahi diye (wo to ghus nahi diye taki government job mil jaye 1989 me)or unake marane par ab beta village ka property bech raha hai ye kam to unake zindagi me bhi so sakta tha single male child or few daughters sari beti ka status bete ke kafi age sare damad non donation doctors or city ke famous doctor. Agar aap beta se aamir hai to beta ka jarur help kijiye. or agar beta apane papa se age nikal gaya to or bhi problem.
Families having properties in which everyone is having ownership in it. So it become very difficult to value it and distribute. Also there are issues of status quo mind sent of some members. Also the stamp duty income tax and other law issues are there. How to resolve these issues. It is prevailing in all over Indi.
Really appreciated the content. Luckily I am one of the few to have that kind of understanding family but I see people in my surrounding struggling with these issues.
in this kalyug old people will have respect attention if they have assets and liquidity in their names..this will protect them from ill times..also the leftover assets can be security of children in their bad times..children to be happy must be taught yog not bhog..the person whose needs are less with average income is richer happier than an arabpati whose desires are endless..finally..life is simple but people make it difficult by increased desires..YOG should be the aim. It is simple to be happy but difficult to be simple.
Nice , pls also cover if there is no such present issue as inheritance but still one wants to keep things easy going for future generations...how to plan inheritance
Mummy humesha taana deti h ki beti property chord kr gyi h ehsaan maano uska…behn ka krte bhi h pr unko taane bhi dene h ki property chord kr gyi h to acha khaasa krna bhi pdega uska…..meri mummy aur wife ki nahi banti isliye mummy ko h ki bahu k pas na jaakr sara beti ko du
Sir,please do consider this point in your next sequel video- beta bahu dono well settled h…achi jagah pr property lena chahte h….lekin jo inheritance wali property h vo papa k jane k baad mummy ne khud le rkhi h …..she is not ready to give….same point….marne k baad tumhari hi hogi lekin abhi ni kahi tum meri sewa na kro ….aur vo h bhi gaon mein jiski abhi koi value nahi h to tb inheritance property ka best use kaise kiya ja skta h??
My husband r 5 brothers .The eldest cheated all the 4 brothers of their rights and put all the property in his daughters name ,and became the executioner of will , and cheated all father's money too.He was the first person to leave the house in 19 83. Since I did not leave the house we were given a 2 room flat only when the garden house was on 18 and a half quattas. The other 3 brothers were deprived just because they stayed out of country. All this happened because my father in law did not discuss inheritance even after his property was inherited from his Grandfather's. I am the wife of the 3rd son and 62 years old now .Hope we knew things about inheritance and our rights and discussed it with our father in law before so that He , his wife and rightful heirs were not deprived or cheated..🙏❤️
Such a common theme sir. I have a strong hunch that lot of 60+ parents have gone more into this victim mindset by seeing Baghban. Every parent is recognising himself with Amitabh Bacchan and thinking their kids out to usurp their property
Your opinion is good but I think in Indian situations where we r not getting good facilities from government so we hv to rely upon our own money.If we will sell assets and children will loose all money so what will be assurance of survival as nowadays moneyless person is total neglected by their own child also.A middle class person hv generally a flat or two and a bit farmland and some gold so it's easy to say but hard to implement.
Bro, I would like to share my personal opinion. There are hundreds of lenders including all major banks which are desperate to offer loans to people with decent credit history. The interest rates are not more than 12%, which means around 1% per month. Banks are very serious players in the business of lending money, so if your friend isn't qualified to take a bank loan, I think you should avoid giving him a loan too. There is a French proverb: He who lends to a friend loses twice.
Honestly, I don't feel like even thinking of having any rights on my father's or in-laws property. I earn well and by god's grace will be able to make it better with time. Whenever I will get any property due to law etc. I will takr an investment decision and will pass that money to my kid on regular basis or to my own parents if they do so while they are alive. No matter what sango sir say here. But I just don't feel connected to the money/property that is not earned by myself. My husband's feelings are same on this matter. I have seen so many children fighting with their parents on this. In my view, they all are useless and have no talent of their own to have any success in life. They spend their school/college life by wasting all their time, and jab kuch ban nahi paate and dhang ki job nahi lagti to parents ko blame karte hain ki unhone apne bacchon ke liye kuch nahi kiya
