Yep! Being handsome around 80% of black dudes is either gonna get you a "male groupie" all up in your face everywhere you go OR an instant OPP who wants to "stop your shine",cockblock you, and RUNUP on you. I cannot stand 80% of black dudes, HTF you gonna try stop another dude's shine or act like you want smoke just bc the man looks better than you?!? I keep em out my face and don't hang around em. The "old me" used to fight ALOT. I'll hurt a mug REAL quick. 🖨️💯🧔🏽
A lot of the times those jealous looks from other dudes lets you know that the women they're trying to get at, are actually talking about you to those dudes.
This explains why I get hated on at work. I have no game and I keep it respectfull with the women at work, but they still hang out around me. I'm a lame boring ass dude, but I love that about me. Cant understand why I draw so much unwanted attention. I try to be low key.
@ Chris, I know exactly what you meant NBS. I thought it was me, then my aunt who was a prosititute told me what they was jealous. It's crazy you are right they would linger around you, like you are best buddies and everything NBS.
That jealousy thing is real. During my freshman yr in college (I attended an HBCU and played b-ball.) There was this chic that most of the cats was trying to get with. She was in her last yr of college. So she and I started hanging out. It started off on some type of big sis lil bro type of shit. But later turned into something else. She had a nice lil whip so we were together off campus from time to time. And she had some $. I think her pops was a Dr. or lawyer type. So all I heard from cats was Big C you pulled one of the baddest babes on the yard. But I'm telling cats nah we're just cool like that. It's no big deal. Boy was I wrong. So one day me and shorty was hanging out on the yard and this fraternity cat was trying to talk to her and she was ignoring him because we're together. But I'm not paying him any attention. So he makes a comment to her regarding my freshmen status and I start laughing. Whenever I didn't want to hear anything that cats were saying I would say "Tell your story walking." So I hit him with that. And he went ape shit and wanted to knuckle up. So ole girl talked him off the ledge and we drove off. So while she's driving she's telling the backstory on how this cat has been trying to get with her since their freshmen yr. And she has told him that she's not into him like that. She's telling me he was jealous of me because we're together. Which is why he made those comments. So fellas don't be jealous of another man. It's weak. There are plenty of women to choose from. Peace.
I deal with this as well. They try to overcompensate by being the funny guy, the tough guy, the rich guy, or the extrovert. As a handsome guy you will be a target 🎯. Stay strong man 💪
Never had haters when I was younger and less attractive in my early 20’s, barely had conflict and issues with other. When I turned 27 women started finding me attractive and I feel like avoiding conflict is damn near impossible now. Crazy how much men pay attention to others men’s looks nowadays.
Envy or jealousy isn’t relegated just to having multiple women. It can and will be for other reasons too. Character, confidence etc. Those are female traits.
That look be tripping me out Unc I promise 😂😂😂 but even if you don’t have a woman around you, you still get that jealous look just off how you caring yourself with that I don’t give a fuck attitude they hate that to
I was at the gym the other day, and this white cat kept mean mugging me when he saw a fit snow bunny come stretch close to where I was. I wasn’t even paying attention to her but this guy was giving me dirty looks, and I’m like bruh, relax There’s only a handful of guys in a specific place or wherever they go that constantly draw unwanted attention to themselves, not because they’re trying, it’s just who they’ve become that people kept help but stare or talk shit. That’s why you have to be alert and keep your energy right, coz the bs some of us have to go through on a day to day basis would make some dudes throw in the towel.
I just recently realized this. A lot of times i had a lot of dudes have a problem with me for seemingly no reason. I worked hard, was polite, didn't start problems. I couldn't figure it out. Then i overheard someguys talking about how good looks arnt everything. Thought are they talkin about me? Are they jealous? All of a sudden it clicked. It was like at the end of a saw movie where a key piece of info is learned and the whole movie comes together. So many events in my life started to make sense. Men not liking me. Women being super friendly. I thought there was somthing wrong with me. Haha. After i realized this i saw a picture of my mother when she was young and she was beautiful. I take strongly after her. I got set up from the start. Haha
I’m sure a lot of you developed some anxiety because of this. Almost makes you feel kinda crazy. I’m glad it’s starting to get chilly outside. That way I can just wear jackets and hoodies all the time. I’m not ready for this yet.
J born sinner in my experience, chicks won’t flat out approach you (but hover around or place themselves right where they can see you, lowkey, and you can see them). It’s hilarious man. Then you see other people looking back and forth at both of you coz they know what’s up and can feel the energy you guys are giving off to each other. And lol at dudes that see you, then grab their girl, or kiss them in front of you, or try to make you look bad by poking fun of you with the girl they’re with. It’s really exhausting man. Females lowkey hate on you, but guys don’t even hide it.
Birds acting nervous, but hovering so you initiate with her, birds avoiding you outta insecurity, birds using you for ego boost, lower value birds copping attitudes, ugly dudes acting like "brah brah" male groupies(man you don't get your asp outta my face🥊), "flexible" dudes staring at you, grannie's flirting/harassing you,ugly dudes cockblocking you, trying to talk SHIH/trying RUNUP, etc. I trying not to catch a body EVERYDAY. 🖨️💯🧔🏽
I'm 48 years old I workout and don't look my age(I've been told a lot).I get jealous looks from cats half my age but what they don't know is I still got them hands.
Im just glad it aint just me who thought this, i barely have guys frienda nowadays because they hold to many females traits for me. Never made sense why people had negative stuff to say about me behind my back but in my face awhole new person.
You are not gaining anything by tearing another man down except the ruin of your own self and character. It's a reflection of the lowest part of your inner self. And you don't have to be living big to be hated on. People hate on me because of my physique, I'm humble, and good looking if I'm being honest. I just use the hating opportunities to tell them about the Jesus on the inside of me!
That shit is real I use to give brothers that look until on brother said shit ain't all gravy. Once I got older and on my purpose man I sit back and laugh like damn she is going to pick who she likes. No need to hate work on yourself see what happens
@@Mr.StanddOnBusiness Believing that they will come naturally while working on yourself is bullshit, Put yourself in situations and interact take action and only then u will find succes
Dope content! Jealous looks don’t even bother me anymore. I typically just grin a little bit too. If I didn’t get looks at this point, I’d be more concerned. Like you said unc, this issue is also closely related to the body game. If your appearance is proper it won’t go past a dirty look and I’m ok with that. We’ll keep these suckers in our prayers. 🙏🏽
These guys out here thinking that good looking men dont have problems with women it's crazy out here I've never hated on guys who gets the women whether he's average or good looking I just stay in my lane it's cool with me the guy can be good looking and get attention from women and still be single stop making assumptions about the good looking guys and stop hating on average looking players... good looking with game and personality many women aren't good mess with him like that's it scares them... to nervous and intimidation... Good video
@BlackHawk 66 yes sir you're right about because women be intimidated around certain handsome men who could wind you up single behind this shit there's a darker side women can find fault and flaws with being a good looking man or passive aggressive towards him it's sad and crazy women are insecure around certain handsome men cause they have to check themselves out dealing with a good looking man.... it's real in the field
@J born sinner yes man because it's a ego or competition thing with them when it comes to validation to women with a good looking or handsome dudes it's all because it takes away the attention away from her and put the spotlight on them its hard out for a good looking man they can be stuck up arrogant short conversation with you or being nervous with constantly laughing off the intimidating factor of a man being good looking there's a dark side too this thing man it's real out women will isolate you on purpose being good looking it can be sad and depressing having you thinking something wrong with you as man....
@J born sinner yes sir you have dudes will be trying to compete with you or clown you for not getting women that he's getting with just because he's insecure so he has to one up you cause you're good looking man and women will ignore you as good looking but still be checking you out on low low it's so bad out here you won't even get compliments from women no matter how good you dressing up going out in public places I've never really gotten compliments from women most of the time it's a bad reality and especially for jealous guys over the player guys I ain't mad at them at all...
What I’ve learned is never underestimate what a jealous dude will do for some kitty….A dude will literally take an ass whipping from you if it’s going to ruin your chances with that woman….I’ve gotten violent with a couple of dudes before for being jealous and disrespectful over a woman who neither one of us was sleeping with, but she was interested in me more…Sometimes they leave you with no other option but to put hands on them….I’ve even had a coworker who tried spark a beef with me to get me arrested because of the attention that I was getting from the female coworkers…It gets that deep sometimes….And it’s not only the jealous dudes who you have to worry about, you also have jealous unattractive women who don’t want to see other women talk to you because she knows you’re not interested in her…Especially if that attractive woman and that unattractive woman don’t get along…That attractive woman becomes a target too
@@Mr.StanddOnBusiness I forgot about my comment… thanks for reminding me of this video… SN: this guy talks sovereignty, not "owning everyone." Step aside wit that emo talk
My comment has just been deleted. All I can say is, that you should stay away from envious or jealous guys, never befriend with them. They are toxic and they are going to drag you down in one or another way. I know what I am talking about, I have made this experience several times. Those are always guys who are a total reject to women in general. I hope that this comment will not be deleted this time.
I remember those redbone season Rom, I'm from that era too! Anyway, thanks for sharing the jewels with us, these cats out here are really comical and I just look past them..... much respect ROM Wills
what's up Mr. wills, I got that look bringing home chairleeders back in the day. But they were friends from my neighborhood lol. Had to live a lifetime to get it.
Aye Rom, that shit is so true. I pulled bbw once. Body on point, younger & older cats would walk up to me in stores, hell some would even inbox me asking bout how I got her. Some look at me sideways, mugging. SMH, the question annoys me a lot. Damn near gotta be on the defensive with some of them. Shit is ridiculous man. On point with the video man.
NE, NW, SE, SW=DC all day lol. For some reason we're hated on wherever we go from jump until they get to know us whether that's the easy way or the hard way.
I'm not jealous i just don't like how unaware players are of the privilege position they are in. I know a player and the sexy women i've seen him with you don't see women like that with average men. Women pursue him and he has a whatever attitude and think getting women is nothing, and i told him average men don't get women like that. But i understand its not that he is a player hes a real alpha male that's why women want him.
He has a whatever attitude because it’s a reoccurring thing with women and him. If he keeps getting attention from all these women he’s not going to be as desperate as someone who can barely keep an average girls attention. It’s the same for women. Good looking women have a pretty whatever attitude with men too. Cause they can get it from 90% of dudes.
Keeping it real we all cant be players. But by 2020 more kats know the game from a male and FEMALE perspective. So play the game on your LEVEL even if u have to pay a LITTLE. PAY A LITTLE AND CASH OUT LIKE RET BUTLER. FRANKLY MY DEAR I DONT GIVE A DAM.
Oh my god Rom, "NORTH EAST"🤣🤣🤣, you had to let him know you were from the neighbourhood too and he could get it if he tried to step, tryin to get at you sideways and shit🤣🤣🤣. Some of these dudes be trippin with their pedestrian tendencies, grown ass dudes mad at another dude for putting it down and doing his thang just like everybody else in the game😑
My goodness I'm a female and dealing with that jealousy with women. At my daughters college graduation commencement a woman saw me and my ex together and all she can say these white women taking all our black men away. My ex told her a thing or two which was a hard verbal slap to her face in front of her whole entire family, yes I'm a light skin latina . SAD.
Kind of a reverse situation with me, was hanging and getting active with my 4 year old nephew at a school playground there was a young couple there too looking all romantic (something you’d see in a teen movie) I couldn’t help but notice the guy paying way more attention to me than his boo at times. At one point I was passing them with my nephew the dude looked like he whispered to her before running towards a trash container and jumping over it as she was shaking her head like it was a bad idea. Honestly couldn’t tell if he did it to show off but frankly I paid no mind to them in general like I’m here to climb, run, and play ball with my nephew I ain’t looking to prove myself to some random strangers over nonsense. The guy kept like this the whole time and I just kept wondering “damn man enjoy your time with your gal” but I made sure to meet his gaze for a second or two every few minutes (some sort of acknowledgment I guess like I know you there buddy calm down). I was paying the girl less attention, to me she looked entirely focused on him and not checking me out in any way or showing any signs of that to him so I’m undecided if that was a factor. It’s not like I need it from girls anyway I’ve embraced solitude and independence since being a toddler (22 now) so that mentality was nowhere near this instance. I don’t like to overestimate myself but maybe I do have things men would be jealous about, I got thick wavy hair, 5’11 with long arms, white with swarthy features, introverted, and somewhat advanced physique. That’s about all I could think of, they seemed high school aged so maybe being older and maturer was a factor. Other than that it didn’t sweat me, his mindset his problem if you get me. Does it sound like jealousy to you?
If you go looking for drama you’ll find it. Noticed alot of people posting are talking about a situation where it’s a matter of skin color. Obviously if you go out of your way to get in peoples space and vision, humans are going to react naturally. Attention seeking behavior is different than staying in your lane and minding your own business.
What exactly do you mean “get in people space and vision?” If you had any semblance of intelligence, or actually watched the video, you’d see that Rom is talking about you being out minding your business, and cats being jealous or throwing shade, similar to what you’re doing with this weak ass comment. Secondarily, you don’t know anything about what we go through,so stop speaking on shit you have no knowledge on. Clown.
@@coreygreene9498 We got a keyboard warrior over here. How’re you gonna lose your cool over an opinion on the internet :/? Emotional intelligence is real, look it up.
I'll admit that I've given that look to some people. Looking at the couple thinking how he got her. I later learned that they were just friends. I've also experience the opposite from a player assuming I was jealous of him because he slept with best looking woman at work. Long story short him and I are no longer friends.
