(01:30) - Submission should NOT be conditional! (18:02) - Is the dating world REALLY that bad?! (43:32) - Men are NOT honest about their preferences! (56:27) - My man of a year ghosted me after claiming he wanted me to move in with him (01:12:08) - Is it wrong for a MAN to have demands from a woman? (01:26:01) - What advice would you give women who have a higher sex drive than my man
When you take the time to heal, a man on some bs won't even stick around long enough because it will be too hard for him to use you ❤❤❤💯💯💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🗣🗣🗣💕💕💕 I loved this!!
It's a key piece missing in that long distance story...but I'm with OT on this. Everything she's saying about him and the relationship...it don't match up to him just abruptly ending it after a year because of the long distance. So either she lied and they did have a conversation about it.. or something else. Idk 🤔
That's what I was thinking. Because nowhere in her story did she say she didn't want to move to where he was. I think ol' dude was either using her or he met someone else that made him think, damn this one already in my city
To be honest I been single for about 4 years now and I haven't been dating for 3 years because my lest relationship did that much damage bit I had to mentally get myself together I had to heal and to be honest my healing was important because I had to heal and grow myself in a way that would make me mature. And focus on my goals so I could be financially and mentally stable to love and there is nothing wrong with that. Now I'm ready but to be honest these men make me scared because ppl morals are completely off when it comes to love and relationships and not all but some ppl literally forgot wat love was and its sad
When children come into the mix of the relationship then you need to plan weekly date nights…I go by the 2-2-2 rule….every two weeks we go out to dinner no kids; every 2 months we take a weekend trip us and no kids: every 2 years we take a week vacation us and no kids…this will keep us bonded and rekindling the relationship and romance
I’ve been watching this podcast and sharing. This is one of the most logical podcast of black Men I’ve seen. No gaslighting, no lack of accountability for either side.. it’s refreshing.
The Krew Season Podcast doesn't automatically show up under my podcast menu. I get a notification on new shows but that it. I think YTube has changed the algorithm again. Great show today.
I agree with most about the long distance guy ghosting...it can be either or. But yes, a key piece is missing for sure. We need that key piece to figure out who really to blame or what happened. 🤔
I love this channel❤However, Submitting becomes seeming like your a slave because sometimes that’s exactly how it turns out. If we both are working 40-50hr weeks and I have to come home and manage everybody and everything, then get under you and all you did was sit in the lounge chair watching me, then yea that shyt becomes old real quick. I did it for two husbands and nah I’m good off that until God sends me a balanced man who isn’t looking for an errand girl. 😢
Otis is very logical....why would someone leave you because of a timeline difference....that could be worked out between two people that want to be together. I agree with Otis something is not right.
✨ I Picked Out The House and All .. Even Had A Baby .. He moved Ah woman in just to break up a few months later .. and wanted to be back in my face … it happens 🤷🏽♀️💃🏾✨
I found you on IG but this was the first time I've actually listened. I must day I enjoyed and agreed with most of what was said, keep doing what you do.
It's been 8 years since I have been with someone ,I was getting myself together and I'm still working on myself cause my x abused me mentally and physically
16:30 facts. It seems transactional but the chemical transfer of holding hands serves as a reminder that it's really just you and I working against the issue.
Accountability is key…own your ish and don’t point fingers….submission is a good thing…it will come automatically for the right man…for me it’s an instinctive response when you feel safe in all areas of your life
Nice chat gentlemen thanks for being the change these men need to see it's very admirable I send to anyone I love or loved that require more growth 📈💹 you show them expansion 📈 alot nicer than myself lol ❤love is the MISSION with the equally yolked 📈 Trend setting!!
When it comes to that long distance relationship story, Smuv and Trill acting like it's easy to moves states out of nowhere. If she had a job, she probably has to find another in his state before she can quit the one she's working on. Maybe she wanted to wait until her lease was up. Maybe she wanted to be with him for more than a year before uprooting her life. There are PLENTY of legitimate reasons that has nothing to do with fear She said she was scared because the man she was with for a year dropped her like she was nothing after making promises and plans. I would be scared to. Y'all are completely negating the fact that men do shit like buy houses for a woman and then dump her when he sees something better suited to his tastes. I think her long distance man used her, while entertaining the main one that he truly planned on moving into his house.
That girl was playing. Took to long to go be wit her guy. He ended up liking one of them local bitches that she allowed him to get close to and it was over.
34:12 EXACTLY!!! Trill speaking ALL FACTS Right There. Thats Real Shit. Thats why you attract those same type of loser, user, f boy dudes ma. Facts!!! 💯
Marriage is like dating your spouse every day for 365 days a year…show up and be present each day…it gets hard some days…my man and I have an agreement…no withholding sex, never go to bed angry, and always listen for understanding so we can fix it together…we are one
Exactly, you go through different seasons in a relationship. You will not be operating at 100% percent daily. Will you pour into me when my tank gets low.?
I was submissive to my x husband and he had a brutal hand I did not want to let my children feel like they didn't have a dad,but I had to be a mom and dad, and I had a good childhood and great parents but we just didn't work ,and I had to break the yolk.
Having him wait anymore is unrealistic . He already had her pick out her OWN furniture, what else does she want? If there was another woman, he would have had her pick out the furniture. She was picking out the furniture for their house. She trippin🤷🏽♀️, he did right. Deuces✌🏾
Smooth straight showed off on this episode😂😂. The long-distance topic had me on the fence. I was with OT, but then Trill and Smooth broke the letter down. So now I am over the fence, but my feet are not touching the ground. Something is missing from the letter. Just my spin. Good job, gentlemen!! 🤔 Live podcast with admission or I am late with it. IJS😁
Shoutout to the podcast guys!! I learn& laugh a lot 😂 (That damn Smuv😂) Love what yall are doing Keep up the great work!!! Missing Kenny T on the pod tonight.. OT is hilarious😂 Did that man say he "like it when u lick it around the rim& the double pump?"😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Trill, getcho cousin😂😂😂😂 Love the podcast ❤
I'm rocking with O. I don't think it was as good as old girl thought it was. She's been out the game too long and got played. For a man to be able to up and leave tgat easy, "He's just not that in to you."
That first woman needs to a reality check. Men do shit upon conditions as well. Bringing GOD into it isn't going to solve the problem and asking GOD to make you content in a shitty situation is fucked up.
I so like most of the content that comes from all the guys but Otis made a remark about a young lady that was dating a man and it was long distance… the part about the young lady didn’t want to move but picking furniture out and he buying her materialistic items as well as meeting family and friends. Otis made a valid point about it may have seem suspect( NOT IN OTIS WORDS AT ALL) because the young man that is dating the female could have potentially been getting this female to decorate and giving her items…turn around and have it for his main female he really wants to be with. That buying and portraying like you interested in a female because you do these things sometimes could be a red flag for control and to set someone up to be ghosted. I been ghosted before and I definitely understand and inner stand why and happy about it. It was a blessing but it wasn’t in that form. Bless him and her anyway
They do have some but majority of them don't demand a woman come with a house, car, great job, and willing to help them become something great with the potential of taking everything from that woman...IT DONT HAPPEN
@@dsmoove008men want women to be patient with them as they build, so these men absolutely do expect women like the ones you described to stay by their side
This episode was needed because I was just thinking how do I tell my man I want more sexually with him looking at me all crazy. You made valid points which I will definitely be applying.
I have to have something true, meaningful and respectful to submit to. My submission is conditional!!! You don’t get my utmost respect and submission just because you were born male..👀 submissions and love must be incentivized…. And That’s real!
@@ladietee2824 Men (especially black men) are so ego driven that they refuse to lead & initiate with how they want to be followed and respected. Men want women to lead as they can take the credit as the leader. If men don’t want to lead, they should be with other men like their daddy Kevin Samuel said!!
