I hate how people think dads are second class parents. The mom “I decided to let him” 2 months after the baby was born. That’s bull. Parental alienation.
It is disgusting behaviour, but we don't know the other side of the story. Humans are usually not crazy and decide to torment other human beings just because. Specially an ex, and the father of their child. There must be some perception of injustice from her side. Which may or may not be justified. We don't know. To ask someone who has been through metaphorical hell to be generous to the source of their misery is a big ask for us humans.
She’s being very bitter and spiteful. Couldn’t she his infant daughter on Christmas week and she kept the little girl away from the dad. I believe she still doing drugs and sleeping with any and every man she sees. The defendant needs to be fighting for full custody or supervised visitation.
Sadly, that isn't always the case and a lot of times women win the case even if they clearly shouldn't be anywhere near the children. They SHOULD have equal rights but in reality...
@@alex1vid Very true, but the judicial system is starting to get it in most places. Usually it’s 70 yr old judges that still have social views from the 40’s and 60’s.
@arnellataylor3310 it's starting to change. For a century, the mother was the best person to have the child because women didn't have to work and the men did so they wouldn't be present to care for the child. Also, the societal differences between then and now are stark. Men were discouraged from being single parents and there was an enormous stigma against that. Luckily we are starting to get to a place now where both people are judged equally since everyone has to work now and there's no easy solution to child rearing. The stigma against men being good, present fathers has also changed which is amazing. It's no where near perfect but it's getting there.
I have two kids with my boyfriend and no matter what happens between him and I, I would never interfere with their relationship with him. This lady needs a reality check.
You say that until something happens. There’s some reasons ppl do interfere and I’m ok with it especially domestic violence just bc he abused an adult doesn’t mean he won’t ever abuse the child or even kill the child if it goes that far. I’ve seen it happen plenty times domestic violence turns into homicide of the whole family
@@xoangelicaf0523you went to the extreme of physical harm when that’s not what this is about. The plaintiff, like a lot of mothers, use their kids as pawns and see them as a tool to terrorize the man who no longer wants them. Let’s stay on track here.
@@xoangelicaf0523 you’re right, and a lot of people don’t know what happens behind closed doors . People can be very deceiving, just because they look decent doesn’t mean they are.
We hear endless stories about "Bad Dads". But when you come across a stories of a "Good Dad, Bad Mom", no one talks about it. So glad Judge Judy saw through her thin veil.
My Dad cheated on my Mum when I was 18 months old. NEVER has she discouraged me from or stopped me from seeing him. I've seen him every week since childhood. Neither of my parents have ever spoke badly about eachother to me. I have a wonderful Mother and Father. Love your kids more than you hate each other. Manipulative mothers like this disgust me. I don't care how badly he has treated you. Unless he is a danger or neglectful to the child, they are two EQUAL parents. I wish there were more judges like Judge Judy to defend fathers.
My dad also cheated on my mom and later ended up marrying his mistress after the divorce. My mom never prevented him or my paternal side from seeing me. Any negative perceptions I have of my father is because of things I have seen him do not because of anything my mother said about him.
My mother never quicked up a fuss when we would visit our father who was living with the woman he left her for, as far as she was concerned as long as he kept up the custody and child maintenance agreement it was all good. Only time an issue took place was when said woman (they aren't together anymore) told him because they had us for a week in the summer they should dock maintenance, my mother reminded my father the current agreement took weeks we wouls visit for holidays into account...his ex still wanted my father to either pay less or see us less.
So the child was already seeing her father from mon to thursday, the only reason the mother won't sign the papperwork (imho) is because she didn't want to give up the control of the situation. She uses that child as leverage and most likely with her family as well.
I like how Judge Judy had finally had enough of the " I let him" and "I gave her to him" stuff that she absolutely hates. You do not try to minimize a father's place with Judge Judy. You are way far behind if you don't know that yet lol.
The proclamation at the end of this clip is powerful and I hope every manipulative mother who uses their child as a weapon against their own father (damaging the child in the process, mind you) heard that statement and takes heed. Best clip ending ever. ""It's not up to you to 'give her' "! Praying for all the upstanding Brothers and innocent children who are being intentionally hurt by the women who think that it is and couldn't care less about the damage they are causing.
The things he’s done to you have nothing to do with the relationship he needs to have with his daughter. Holding back that relationship that needs to form is only detrimental to the child.
@lizh1988 she doesn't even detail any of the things he apparently put her through, I think they were just bad together and she doesn't want to share their child. If she's concerned over violent behaviour in the past she should get an order in place to either keep him away or keep his contact supervised, but given she only brought up doubts he was the father because he wanted to see her more often shows she just wants him gone 🙄
I really like it when JJ puts these manipulating women in their places. Many women blackmail the father using the child visitation as a bargaining chip. Disgusting! The father has every right to see his child with zero bargaining. In fact any mother who does this should be denied any custody rights!
I love how Judgy Judy picks up the tiniest details and is able to figure out who is lying after a series of specific questions. This woman is sharp, I wish I had half her brain
@@lizhurley4216I just looked it up, and yes…THEY MAKE THESE!!! Lots of different styles too. Thx for the idea, because I may need to rock one of these! ☺️
Judge Judy ''Why didn't he see the child before ?'' Plaintiff ''He was too busy doing things and running around'' and then it turns out that he had tried to see his child before and she had said ''No''. I don't think this case will go well for her !
So she's using their child as revenge and he's a liar. He went from taking care of her and the baby all of 2016 down to 2 months. He wants Mon-Thurs for financial reasons and she'd deny that baby just to hurt him. That baby is a pawn for both and it's sad
@@k.robertrichardson6779 uh.. from the video? He literally said he took care of them "all of 2016," then after being grilled by JJ, he whittled it down to 2 months
He didn't "whittle" it down. He said the woman and his baby lived with him for 2 months and the rest of the time she lived in his house while he was deployed. The least he did for her was let her stay rent-free in his house for a few months, maybe 10 maybe less.
I totally agree. They must be able to hold a job, pay for the necessities and not live on government assistance. And pass a drug test during the entire pregnancy
I hate when mothers call kids “MY child” the child has TWO parents. I couldn’t fathom makin my childs father feel like she was my “property” What the heck is wrong with people smh.
every other word out of this girl's mouth is a lie. She was surely living in his house, he clearly was supporting her and the child and he was on the birth cert until he wanted more control of custody. All the while she is driving around in his car. This lady is a piece of work.
Could be a genetic condition or syndrome that affects physical features. She seems tall and lanky, with disordered teeth, smaller head size, wide set eyes, possible cognitive issues. Could also be from exposure to substances in utero. 🤷🏼♀️
When your the plaintiff and JJ starts question you about other issues that may or may not have to do with your case it because she is trying to get a feel of her character. It’s not starting off good for plaintiff .
he is the father and has every right to see them some woman can be so selfish it’s not about you it’s about your child judge Judy does such an amazing job
So she wouldn't let him see his kid because of the way he treated her but was happy to borrow his car... thats all i needed to know to see were this was going
That poor child is just a bargaining chip to the mother. That's how she got to live in his house. That's how she got to use his car. That's how he got to see his child. When he causes "trouble" the chip costs more. A Shame.
Who is it that's telling women the children are only allowed to see dad IF THEY CHOOSE?! That's not how it works at all. If he's in the b.c. then he's the father until proven otherwise. This girl playing games and judy is on it
"I'm just trying to figure out who you are" Worst thing JJ could possibly say to you. At that point it's game over, because she never says that when she has a good impression.
Waiting for Part 2. Please, I beg you JJ, roast this stupid girl regarding father's rights to their child. Unless he is dangerous and poses a threat to himself or others, she has no business denying him the right to see his child...
I never understand women who don't allow the Fathers to see their children who want to be present. Children need both of their parents. My parents relationship was always rocky especially in the 80s and they stuck it out and I'm thankful they did for their children❤
My sons father and I hate each other and do not get along at all but I would never use my child to hurt his dad!!! As soon as she said she didn't let him see her because of the things he did to her I knew she was a disgusting human!
I wish my kids dads would be part of their lives. I have always let them know where I was and just doesn’t want to I guess. It’s sad. I can’t see a mom keep the dad from the kids. Unless it was a reason…
Hi. Just wanting to say I’m sorry your children’s father is not involved with them. I think one day he might regret it, missing all this precious time. Anyway, take care & wish you and your family all the best.
I met an awesome guy that stepped up to the plate and his family is nothing less. They love my kids like they deserve to be loved. Thank you both. I just wish the bio dads would do the same.
@@vannem2688 I have always learnt the Art of family. You don't neglect anything. I am currently divorced with a beautiful daughter but very much responsible not minding my tight scheduled Job. I don't like nonsense
What the hell is she talking about she “decided to let him see her”?Does that mean he can take the Babie then “decide” if you see her or not or is that a kidnapping? This lady is out of her mind.
She immediately put his name on the birth certificate so she could....... collect taxpayer-funded "benefits". I'm sure she's doing the same thing with her other illegitimate baby. One day she's going to do this to the wrong man.
I feel sorry for this young man. He has to put up with this vindictive Karen. From the moment she said he does not see the child because of what he did to her and put her through.
