The mind of a narcissist when they see you after the breakup 

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I dunno about anyone else but ive always been happier on my own

I was told by my stbx that I would never find anyone like him. I laughed and said.."You promise ?!?" LOL

I hope I never have to see him again...don't wish him any harm, but I also do not care to know about him anymore.

Exactly 💯The narcissists always think they are the best but it’s actually the best of the worst.

My ex showed up on my birthday and asked me out. I said sure. He bragged about his new girlfriend and that she is 100 times better than I would ever be. While he was blabbing, I was thinking how he will cheat on her like he did with me and I felt sorry for her eventhough I don't know her.

He started stalking me and tried to get me back. He cried and cried about how sorry he was for treating me so bad and losing me. He just wanted to see if I would come back, don't fall for it.

If I’m alone and single it’s because I’m traumatized af. 😂

The narcessist changed me. He managed to turn me into a monster. I had seven years of torture, and after leaving him, I still struggle 😢

The sad thing is that sometimes they are the best, but, at the same time, they are ALWAYS the worst. It’s the old saying: when they’re good, they’re so good, but when they’re bad, they are so, so bad. But the good is NOT worth the damage they will do to you.

let them think whatever makes them sleep better. Just don't let them back in your life, you should HOPE not to find anyone like that narc

And their reality shakes when they try to hoover and find a wall .

PEACE IS the PRIZE!♡

My ex was looking like what the heck? She got a nice vehicle now and looking good without me. I didn't have transportation for a few years, but ended up getting blessed a few months after our parting like the red sea. So, as an act of jealousy he called himself getting something better than what I have. I know full good and well he isn't paying 2 car payments and insurance for 2 vehicles. He cried about paying for his car. Told me I won't find any one like him. To make me feel like he did. Seriously? So cocky and arrogant. The lady he is with now is on cloud nine not knowing he has cheated on her the entire time they have been together. She will soon find out. He financially abused me. Wanted me to pay for everything. Wanted me to pay all the rent by myself while he said he would pay the lights and gas. Just pitiful. Can't believe I was so blind.

I hope I never see that mothertrucker again 😊 And every day that I don't have contact with him is a blessing 🙏

It’s always about the narcissist. They can’t stand not being chased.

i've seen the fool twice in the past 30 days. don't give a F what he thought, what he's thinking, what he will think, if he can think!!! I DON'T GIVE A F!!!!!!! i'm single and FREE and TRULY LOVING ME and NOT his modern-day slave!!!!!!! THAT'S ALL THAT MATTERS!!!!

That’s what mine said to me that I can’t get anyone better then him

You can still love the person that hurt you but you shouldn't allow them access to your life...❤ Loved it Lee - you are absolutely 💯 correct

It’s been two years since I discarded the narcissist from my past. I dealt with him for four. I wrote a list of all of the ways he hurt me and used me. Then I asked myself, “Do I want to write this same list next year? Will it be longer next year?” It made it easier for me to stop talking to him. I don’t regret blocking and deleting, I won’t forgive him, and I’m getting a stun gun to protect myself.

My ex got arrested when I broke it off, and the next time I saw him was in court for a TRO hearing. He was in oranges and bracelets, and plead no contest to the TRO. But, he also broke the no contact order three weeks after it was issued, WHILE HE WAS STILL IN JAIL, YA'LL. If he thinks the best I could ever hope for in a relationship is him, his delusion level is beyond beyond.

Newly single after nearly 9 years of the relationship! I’m so happy with my newly found single life that I need to take at least 2 years away from dating whilst I detox from that relationship a focus on working on a better version of myself. Good luck to him as he appears to have already started another relationship. Right now my peace is of paramount importance to me!💅🏾

Some people just don’t jump from person to person like they do some of us do love our own company their the ones who can’t be alone because they don’t like themselves & always need supply

I upgraded, the narc can only mess with the children as a final move for control. A low pathetic person will use their own kids to hurt an ex.

Being single and being lonely are two totaly different things - I am HAPPIEST when I dont have anyone to be in love with....

They will absolutely harm you, and try to unalive you. My narc is being held without bond.. his narcissistic injury was so great, he violated protective order, broke in, disarmed me while I slept, and woke me up with a Glock to my head.

"you can love them but not allow access to your life". Exactly, probably the term is not the love, but caring or something, but you do everything as if you don't care. You do this purely out of rational thinking, not emotional.

I really like the new shirt thank you for hearing the silent cry of abuse from us survivors 🤗💝🤗

My NarEx said we was going to replace me - and I said you can’t try but u will never find anyone like me . I definitely won’t replace you cause I don’t want anyone else like you .

From my difficult experiences, I find you amazing for doing this for the people around you

When my ex-narc texted me and said he was done, I did not reply back. I let him go on about his business.

They can't be happy alone. They literally think that's a weakness. Remember when they shamed you about your small circle?

I hope i never see her ever again. I never met someone who just made the...no THE WORST OF DECISIONS IN LIFE. Being the best version of your self entels you changing for the better,

I’m single and happy with myself. Also single because I refuse to disrespect myself anymore with narcissistic or toxic people! Truly finding myself brought me to understand I don’t need to entertain anyone else’s thoughts or opinions of how they think I should be living MY LIFE! ❤

I'm getting that shirt, Lee! ❤ Finally managed no contact. Your channel gets a lot of the credit for that. Thank you

Never get tired of those impersonations 😂🙌🏼

The ex narc told me the next person is going to treat you just like I did. I am loving myself and it feels good!

Lee you're so good at explaining all this. I love how you also joke about it and make it a bit lighter.

Being in a small town I’ve seen her a few times in public. She always turns red and gets away as soon as possible. Found out she was cheating and told her to take care of herself after she wanted a break.

😔 my toxic narcisstic ex - after 1.5 years reached out to me. Totally tried to hammer me with all the "remember when we". He went right back to being the guy he was. I had to stop contact with him after 48 hours. When I called him out on being a narcissists, he didn't even deny it, which sealed the deal for me. I have cut off all contact with him, I used to ask myself, I wonder if he ever really even cared about me. I got my answer......He can't care about me, he is incapable of doing so.

To the being alone and single thing… it’s oddly true and well I have learned but best thing live your life and be or become unbothered 😅😊

I’m so happy to find you, I’m putting you on repeat!!

How does the Narc react if he sees you and your new boyfriend in public?? I doubt he would attack physically or verbally if bf is w/ you. They are cowards.

What if you point at them and laugh.. like they're the fools they are

I don’t wanna hear the aftermath, he’s so predictable. I already know what he’s thinking, and even what he might say. We studying this creature so much now that the outcome is inevitable. Of course the Oscar goes to…

Dude you saying lots and lots of facts.

I came into town without his knowledge and drove by him at an intersection and he looked shocked but then quickly covered up with a big head thrown back laugh 🤷🏼‍♀️

Mine I had to see at court. I looked my best, had hair done but I was with him enough that I just knew he said something I had gained weight. He was looking at me a few times I caught him. He walked in the courthouse all loud I could tell it was his insecurities showing. He pretended he was in bothered. Then knowing I hate his text messages he turned the volume all the way up so I could hear him receive and return texts when he was grey rocking me. His tactics worked, got in my head. Still ignored me after I dropped charges.

Even if you are in a new relationship, they are still convinced that you're not happy. My nex used to say that about his previous partner, who is in a new relationship and has married since "yes, she's married the other guy, but I can tell she's not happy"....subtext "because she's not with me".

Smashing the like button your doing good work thanks bro

4 weeks no cont. Thank u, you do make a difference ❤

Dang, he was losing his mind BEFORE he moved on, I would hate (not really) to see have him see me doing way better.

Loving that shirt ❤❤

I hope you treasure your child while it lasts because time is so short ❤ don’t worry about updating videos, you earned your public support! It’s okay to take a break.

“always an old bbl” 💀💀💀 My family is very close with my narc ex after our breakup. I’m scared I’m going to see him at a relative’s wedding soon. I’m in a healthy relationship now though which is pretty lucky 🍀 I unblock him from time to time & he still texts me but I never say anything back. Always end up blocking him immediately. Thank you for these videos Lee

ABSOLUTELY 💯. It's the funniest thing EVER 🤣 😂 😆 THEY'RE SUCH 🤡🤡🤡 BEEN AROUND THEM ALL MY LIFE. I'M LIKE A WALKING MIRACLE 💯👏🏽🙌🏾💓🎊💫🎯🙏🏾🙏🏾

Sounds like Martell Holt of Love and Marriage Huntsville 😅😅😅

I enjoyed the video! Thank you...

Love the shirt !

Artist name Chrisette Michele has a song that says “ you can say whatever you like, long as we just say goodbye” 🤣

Amazing! This is exactly what I went through with my narcissistic ex.

Very cool merch Lee!

How could you not be happy to move on from a narcissist they are pure evil and very miserable to be around

Lol the coincidence, im right there in that situation and started overthinking abt what i would do if i sas him again and right there and then you post this new video.. awesome !👏🏾 ❤

I was so proud of how I reacted when I literally crossed paths with the narcissist ex a few months back. He was leaving the casino I work at and was walking through the common area towards the exit. I was walking with another coworker in that same space and going another direction, and we would have collided if one of us didn't slow down or stop. He saw me first but when I looked up and realized he was approaching, he stopped and gestured with his hand for us to go ahead of him, pretending to be a gentleman. He was laser focused on me with a stupid grin on his face. When it registered in my brain that it was 'him', our eyes met for a split second, I broke eye contact and looked right through him with absolutely NO EMOTION. I acted like I didn't even see him. I didn't look startled, change my expression or break my stride at all or nod to acknowledge him and when we passed him, I never turned around to see where he was going. The friend that I was with had no idea that I even knew the guy we just passed. I was so calm and cool about it and she didn't know the backstory until I was safely around the corner where he was completely out of sight, when I finally was able to freak out about it. I schooled her on narcissism for about a half hour after that and she was blown away by what I was telling her. We laughed afterwards and I was so glad I was with someone else when that happened. I totally and completely ignored him and I bet that made him mad as hell! I'm so glad I treated him like he was invisible and didn't give him any fuel off my body language but now he knows where I work, but he's too lazy to bother me there, also because he wouldn't want to be banned from playing the slots! I hope he lost money too that day! 👍🤣😂😆

Mine have always tried to get back with me when they’ve seen me after our breakups. When I told my daughter’s dad’s gf that, he was PISSED. He didn’t want her to know of course. Then when I saw him with her a year later to something I invited him to for our daughter, he was so sure that I would be hurt when I saw them together 😂 not even close. I didn’t care anymore. When I was unbothered, AGAIN, he was pissed lol I was just my same pleasant self bc I truly didn’t care anymore & thought it was funny that he still cared about my reaction lol

Loving the new shirt lee

What about after I told him to find someone else, anyone else, that i would find him someone if he was too big of a loser. Three days later he was gone and living with a new victim. When we exchange our son we only discuss our son. I only give one-word answers and am always busy and happy when he picks up and drops off. I am so happy that I even look a 100 % better. What is he thinking? Does he realize I think he’s disgusting?

I just divorced my narcissistic husband. I am healing. I am happy. And Im glad everyone sees the shine on me.

Happy as I can be I no longer have that baggage there thinking is irrelevant silence is golden

I rarely be lonely..

As soon as I met another person omfg the stalking, false accusations, and harassment became seemingly endless! They're CRAZY!

Yes this is true

Omfg 04:55 had me 😂🤣...Lee your vids sometimes are dangerous to watch late at night 😂😂 👏👏👏

I luv you bro....keep going

Yes at the end of the day all that matters is our happiness & self love. About 3 months ago I pretended to be a guy telling my ex to stop messaging my misses lol. Well he totally ignored that & messaged back saying good to hear from you take care miss you. 🤣🤣🤣 Weirdo they just don't care. Then 2 months after that asked me how I'm going lol. I didn't reply back gdluck to his messed up mind. 😂

Well my ex was definitely a narcissist. I’m so lucky to be out of it now looking back but she saw me on my own in a shop with her new partner. I did not say anything. I just walked off when I finish shopping but then she saw me outside the pub with friends and a girl she was with her partner walking past. She definitely said something I couldn’t hear it was so busy but I would love to know what she was thinking that she wouldn’t look at me. I caught her just as she Walked past, but I could tell she saw me

THEY can talk to everything that moves & simultaneously even carry on 😓 multiple relationships ! I meet someone 🆕 & worst thing ever in the world 🌎 !

Why do they constantly tell you they love you when you're not together anymore? And he has a whole new family we have kids together so when we communicate for the kids he will keep telling me he loves me and he barley told me he loved me when we were together

I saw mine months afterwards. He had the cheek to try and talk to me. I said why would I want to talk to you when you treated me like crap... I walked away from him then and carried on...

What about a narcissistic law-enforcement husband? How do you fight that alone?

So true!! My ex said if (I) couldn’t make it work with him , what could another man do he won’t be worth anything 🤣 & the other narc told me that I need a man like him.. the luck of me meeting 2 narcs in my lifetime Yes both of my exes talked about how bad their exes new man is .. it’s like ( why do you care) they can’t help it cause they are narcs

I love the shirt!!!!!!!😍

Hahahaha 🤣 that's narcissist thinks he was the best I'm ever going to get. I've a cat and dog. The dude thinks he's the prize. This one is brilliant. Thank you for making this. Single and lonely by myself.

The clapping cheeks makes me laugh out loud every time Lee 😂 but yes they go mental. I saw mine walking near my house yesterday and he lives like 45 mins away and his car is broken down since he’s broke. Freaky!

That's okay for me now (finally)😂 I recognize that he projects me as a sad single person, but at the same time, I know I am on the right track of my life. I leave him the freedom to have this illusion and also give the room for my real freedom ! Peace.

It's been a month of no contact thou I tried leaving 4 times in 3yrs. May 3rd 2024..the narc was ranting being very disrespectful. I was triggered annoyed just gloomy. That day is the last I will ever speak to him. I blocked him and avoid places he may go. I saw him recently in traffic..he drove slowly in front of me and stared me down. He knew i no longer cared cuz I don't

Valuable information… to try to be as far as possible from them even when your life is good and you are relaxed. My narc ex trying to get into my energy all the time… he even came to my yard lately… I just acted as I don’t saw him. Not sure about love though. After healing part I can’t find any love in my heart towards his persona. The more far I’ve come the less I feel anything for him. I don’t wish him bad things though. I just lost respect and trust to him. Which led to loose any interest… When I’ve seen him in his car in my yard my heart not even gave any minor special beat… My mind was clear and peaceful. The only thing what’s bothering me is how to protect myself if he will become mad after finding out I don’t care anymore. I’ve heard many drastic stories out here in the internet.

If thats the best im ever going to get id rather be alone

The 13th of this month makes 6 months no contact I've got to say best decision I made cutting my ex out of my life it is so much more peaceful the 16th makes a year since I left I'm such a different person and I am so thankful I found your channel its really helped me alot in the beginning of me leaving and going no contact and staying no contact I'm forever grateful ❤

If you love a narcissist from AFAR…… you will heal the SCAR. #self❤ you existed before them and you will after them…… they were nothing but a short chapter of the book of YOU.

He told me that.

U should do that case, Ali Abulaban, he was the classic example of a narc. U can do a case study on him

My life is peaceful now im single 🎉 best thing he ever did was block me 🎉

My ex used to tell me that I belonged to him. That I had wifely duties towards him, constantly. Thanks Lee.

I put absolutely no personal info about myself online (because my nex cyberstalked and harassed me when we broke up). 10 years later they reached out with another hollow, hooving apology. I let them know I wasnt impressed so they took to the internet saying I need to "get a partner, a family, move out of my parents house, and get a job" he knows sweet F.A. about me and that comment let me know just how much that bothers him 😊✌️

i like that shirt!

His life is in shambles 🙌🏼 God heard my prayer ... accountability comes in different forms💯✅️♟️

More so self respect.! Loneliness is the last thing going on let them keep dreaming it’s because of them what a joke 😂😂😂

Haha he try to say my arms got fat lol like I know somebody that like it 😂❤