The MOST UNHINGED booktok drama... (it's bad) 

“That’s a lewd comment from his own wife” um…..yeah. His WIFE who he is married to 😭😭😭. It’s honestly disturbing how people completely dismissed consent

As a woman I'm so sick and disgusted with women of all ages treating men like we hate to be treated, like a piece of meat. I see that a lot on kpop, as well.

As a female that loves to watch hockey but also finds some hockey players really good looking I would never do this. What the booktoker says about these players is just disgusting 🤢.Felicia Alexander’s wife made a very amazing statement about this whole situation. She was very nice and was not mean in her statement. She always has a right to feel uncomfortable about this whole issue even when she was ok with it in the beginning. I feel like the booktoker just total missed the point of her statements.

Kiera’s response is like saying “well you were ok with having sex once so you have to be ok it whenever I want!” consent can be withdrawn at any time and there is such a thing as taking a “joke” too far, which she did.

It’s a basic consent thing. He said he did not like it and wanted it to stop, she needs to stop. Consent can be withdrawn at anytime, she needs to chill tf out.

The way people lack empathy is ASTOUNDING. All kiera had to do was think how uncomfortable itd be if a man she had 0 interest in was shouting similar things to her in public. I swear the internet has desensitized people to a degree where they simply cannot see how their actions jmpact others. Its sad really.

I REAAAALLY dont wanna play the if the roles were reversed card but imagine a guy doing this to a woman and after she says “stop this is making me uncomfortable” the guy goes “nah you put yourself out there”! It baffles me that she doesn’t see it. Literally all she had to do was back off and apologise. Now she’s “bounced back” (Sagittarius energy she said) and ready to do this again Literally what

I was so uncomfortable hearing her say all of that 😖 yuck

People really acting like weirdos and creeps because a man and his wife started to get uncomfortable with their behaviour. Going onto their family IG and leaving inappropriate comments and expecting them not to be uncomfortable and set perfectly reasonable boundaries is bizarre. The wife was being a good sport about it, but they took it too far. There are also families with children at those games. I'm not a prude, but I'd be extremely uncomfortable sat near her at a game shouting those obscenities.

The way these people are saying “and suddenly she’s not okay with it” about the wife AS IF YOU CAN’T CHANGE YOUR MIND ABOUT SOMETHING when it becomes uncomfortable. And to pull the “you’re coming for a black woman” card??? Jesus Christ. What does her race have to do with anything in this scenario?

I think it’s definitely a valid point in this case to compare it to if it was a man making a video like that about a female athlete. People would find it gross, and that video was gross. Like you said, it’s fine to have these thoughts and feelings for attractive people, celebrity or not, but they should remain private thoughts.

"That's a lewd comment from your own wife"... yeah, that's his wife. How are you not able to see that it's different to receive a comment like that from your partner vs a total stranger

She's no obnoxious, omg. She can't be like "get my name out of you mouth" when she's literally using other people's names in a sexual manner.

It really makes no sense to me how almost everybody and anybody on booktok is sitting here trying to defend Kiera and the comments people made. That was literally verbal sexual harassment, let that be a man talking about a woman they would’ve been up and arms about it. They both expressed that now this is getting out of hand and that it’s making them uncomfortable but somehow Kiera is the victim and their attacking her??!??? “They played into it” that was at the beginning when it was just surface level comments and just like a little crush. They might’ve been fine with it in the beginning but NOW they are telling you to stop. If somebody’s feelings have changed that means you need to listen to what they are saying NOW.

As a swedish person who loves hockey and have known about Alex Wennberg for over 10 years - he has always had a lot of female attention for his looks, and probably get hundreds of DMs per year. It is very telling how different these last months have been attention wise since he never spoke out before. Also, as he says the norm in hockey culture is to never speak out about anything so it is a really unique situation all around.

That whole rant was disgusting as hell. Victim blaming much? 'You went along with it! Why didn't you say you were uncomfortable the first time we said it? It's YOUR fault for not saying no sooner, you were leading us on!' Ugh. And of course there has to be mention of "and you coming after a black woman?" spiel. The whole thing was just whining about getting consequences after harrassing a person which of course you should get. Yuck.

I also think it’s so weird no one is separating the player from the company??? Like he said he was uncomfortable, why is everyone so focused on a corp trying to make money?? We all know they’re shady. It’s the individuals feelings, period.

8:46 exactly!! We do criticize men for making these types of sexually charged comments about irl people, but when we do it to women it's misogynistic 😭 As a lesbian, I'd feel so uncomfortable if another woman was talking about me that way.

People defending the booktoker are basically saying that as soon as you have consented you can never take it back. Like if you meet someone and at first they are just complimenting you, and because you are flattered you consent to the comments but then they take a turn and become weird and make you uncomfortable but since you didn't say stop in the beginning you can't say it now.

Omg how did that girl actually post that ! So vulgar and creepy

Kiera brought up her race for no reason. Your race doesn’t add nor subtract anything from the situation. Saying this as a black woman, you playing the race card is so stupid.

it so crazy how many people are agreeing with the tiktok girl and are saying that the wife is wrong??? just because you are famous doesnt mean you sign up for harassment and you definitely dont have to deal with that. to call his wife a karen for speaking up is absolutely insane. also notice how everyone is attacking his wife..?? and imagine your friends or family and coworkers reading these comments and talk about it with you, thats so embarassing. your washing machine is giving me ptsd 😭

this is why I prefer book tube wayyyy more. can't we just collectively read and love books? lol

The creator is using this as an excuse, that they posted “hot” videos of the players so she did nothing wrong but there is a BIG difference between the team’s TikTok posting thirst traps and showing off that their players are attractive and posting a video saying how you want to do explicit things to a specific person. Again with the same “if a man did this” argument, but if a woman posts a bikini pic and wants to show off her body and that she feels attractive, it doesn’t mean she wants to be DMed what somebody wants to do to her because it’s unsolicited, therefore it’s sexual harassment - I think these videos should be treated the same.

I am a romance fiend. I read over 100 of them each year. There are 2 major things you need to know about reading romance: 1. Romance booktok is the dregs of romance, there is maybe 1 good book out of every 20 that are recommended 2. all romance is fake, that's why it's fun, but people who get too deep in the community forget that.

I remember when some 30 something old model said when Finn from stranger things turned 18 to call her or something like that. It’s disgusting honestly. Like women sexualizing men is very much a thing and shouldn’t be as normal as it is 😢

That girl Kierra makes my head hurt so much, stop screaming

Maybe it’s the asexual in me but I think it’s generally just disrespectful to make any sort of public sexual comment about someone you don’t know? They did not give you permission to treat them like a sexual object and it’s a perfectly valid line to not want people to cross. Just say he’s hot and leave it at that. Idk drama like this always just reminds me how different people are because I would never think to publicly make sexual comments about someone, are you not embarrassed? So inappropriate, these people need to learn some respect

I really hate this because women already get enough shit as it is for reading “silly romance books.” We get belittled for it all the time, and this has made it worse. I hope people understand not all of us are insane.

Consent can be revoked at anytime! Just bc they liked it at one point does not mean they have to forever

It’s sexual harassment, plain and simple. Him being a public figure does not change that. I’d imagine it’s a pretty unique kind of traumatizing to see hundreds, if not thousands, of people liking and positively commenting under harassing posts. People don’t stop being people with needs and emotions just because they become public figures. There is a big difference between calling someone hot and explicitly describing desired sex acts. Yes, they played into it at first, but CONSENT CAN BE REVOKED. If someone asks you to stop, you need to stop.

Makes me worry seeing how they think consent works. Yes, the wife liked it when it was just fun and cute. It got weird and she's not giving her consent any more, you don't get to go "you said yes before, how dare you change your mind!"

It’s really gross how people on TikTok will talk about the importance of boundaries but on the flip side will be upset that the couple set them. I swear with the use of social media we becoming more and more entitled to others it’s crazy

Everyone was okay with and played i to the surface level, more innocent comments because that’s what the players/team management were comfortable with. Why is everyone so shocked that players and their families can feel uncomfortable with blatant sexual harassment?? I thought that initial video was really gross and certainly crossed a line. She should have just apologized for her sexual comments and taken down the video instead of justifying her behavior and blaming them for “playing into it.” Also, can we stop expecting celebrities/influencers to give up basic human rights because they’re famous?? Everyone deserves privacy and the freedom to say they’re not comfortable with something and that shouldn’t change because someone is famous. The gross behavior people try to justify is outrageous

i think it crosses a line once the thirsting shifts from *figurative hockey player* to *specific real life person*. also frustrating that she brought her race into it as if that’s why her words about this man were deemed inappropriate

That girl who covers drama on Tiktok with horrible takes is so wild I truly cannot stand her. And the booktok girl angry over people criticizing her is a bit wild. Technically, she can do whatever she wants. Doesn’t mean we can’t criticize her. She’s deflecting so much she can’t even consider that her follows are taking things too far and her videos fuel that energy.

I work in athletics so it’s really hard for me to imagine being able to objectify hardworking athletes, regardless of gender. It’s touch grass behaviour

32:05 there’s no why. the man is uncomfortable. period. no question asked. he doesn’t even have to explain himself, he’s UNCOMFORTABLE. whatever his wife does after doesn’t matter, you are not part of their relationship, you have NO SAY in what they should or shouldn’t do. some of these people not understanding that is just wild to me.

This is just embarrassing. Like how many times must it be said by those of us DEEP into Fandom culture? DO. NOT. THIRST. AFTER. REAL. PEOPLE. Do not SHOW real people your fics. It is one thing to make thirst traps about Optimus, Shadow, and Inuyasha FINE. But not real people, especially if THEY'RE MARRIED. Also don't fcking SHIP real people either. That's just weird.

Does she not understand there's a line she done crossed?

Why does she yell everything. It's so tiring to listen to. Both the yikes video with the sexual comments and her yelling about having friends and family.

As a millennial, I really hate to pull the "younger generation" speech but the younger generation needs to really disconnect tiktok virality/online follower count from justification. The internet by design creates echo chambers, so if someone who is affected by your content speaks out, LISTEN to them. Online clout is not a green card to continue saying whatever the fuck you want.

“It was a small amount a crazies” girl clearly it wasn’t if she had to make a statement about. Ain’t nobody ruin her relationship with the team, she did that herself. That girl getting mad at his wife making comments about HER husband, is she not hear herself? That’s HIS wife. Not thousands of ransoms on the internet. Just because you deal with certain things one way, doesn’t mean the rest of the world does. Congrats, that’s for YOU, not US nor Felicia.

The way I’m loving the expanding of the tea to just stuff you love like celebritea and booktea girl I love this for youuuu ❤

This is really scary to me how much sexual content is in these books and they aren’t aware that someone can revoked their consent. Like someone can become uncomfortable and revoked their consent, it’s still valid. It’s one of the reasons I think this boom of the romance genre needs a serious evaluation especially because the boundaries that they seem so fine walking over and the vicious defense of this is screaming porn addiction. I truly believe women shouldn’t be shamed for liking sex. I love a spicy scene in a book, but there’s a line. Especially when people will only read a book if it has sexual content. Feeling entitled to make these comments to these again REAL PEOPLE shows some serious lack understanding boundaries, which if you only read and enjoy sexual content books, is very concerning to me.

Booktok really needs to stop... the way everyone in the comments was agreeing with that creepy woman like wtf.. all of them weirdos fr

Do these people realize that consent can be withdrawn at any point? This is pathetic. They honestly need to go touch some grass.

I genuinely do not understand the sudden obsession with smut and spicy books and people saying they can’t read a book unless it has explicit content in it

Wow, no. I feel bad for the player and his wife. This behavior is not ok and the women doing it would not be defending a man acting this way towards a female athlete.

I feel like these people fail to understand that consent can be withdrawn at any time. You can be comfortable with something at one point in time, and then uncomfortable in another. Personally, I don't participate in booktok anymore because the real people fics get taken too far and people forget how to distinguish reality.

This is a great reminder for women to check ourselves. A lot of us grew up with the idea that men should be grateful for any amount of attention we give them and it's something we need to unlearn.

Lol. I'm literally teaching a 5 year old about good and bad choices. Crazy that so many people never had that clearly. Sexual harassment = bad choice!

Just to note - if you’re close enough to the glass, the players CAN hear you on the ice. I believe someone told her that and she equated the players to being like animals in a zoo. Honestly, her behavior is super gross and someone is allowed to change their feelings about your actions when your actions become abusive instead of playful.

I don’t think it’s ‘pick me’ to say it’s not okay to film men stretching and sexualise them. I think it’s completely valid to say that because that is a very uncomfortable unsettling thing to go through for the people being harassed, filmed, sexualised. We shouldn’t be making it okay for women treating men like that just because a lot of men think it’s okay to treat women like that. It blows my mind that people think either way is okay, it’s not it’s gross

this woman is the epitome of "people who make books their entire personality because they're losers irl with no friends"

personally, as a Canadian that grew up with hundreds of hockey boys, I don't get the appeal of "hockey romance" or whatever. its just a sport and being obsessed with the players is something that teen girls did not grown women with grown men. they would all sit in the same section of the arena and were called puck bunnies

been a member of the book community for over 10 years and it has gotten really crazy since it’s exploded. I miss how quiet it used to be 😭

YOU HIT THE NAIL ON THIS HEAD WITH THIS ONE FRRR. I'm about to leave my thoughts on this just because I really enjoyed the upload, but it's going to be very long so beware: I feel like BookTok is definitely a slippery slope as far as the sm*t. It's okay when it's a healthy intake but when it gets to the point where you can't read a book without s*x and it's obsessive, that's definitely concerning. That's why 29:57 was so accurate to me because some people are sm*t addicted and are losing a grip on reality. If you see a real human being and athletes only through a sexual lens based on the type of content you've been consuming that's definitely a problem. I have always been so against sexualizing people online (i.e the whole "what color is it, there's a slight vein at 9,2, bubblegum pink, till my back breaks" etc, etc) because it's replaced human decency and kind compliments with sexual innuendos that just feel so gross to me, especially when it's not on inherently sexual videos, they just say that to a person they're attracted to, warranted or not (though it never really is warranted). Why are you guys so okay with talking about people's bodies like that? So when it gets to the point where you can't make distinctions between online fantasies and real human beings with feelings who probably don't want to be catcalled on a day to day basis, that's where a thick line needs to be drawn. It's perfectly okay with fictional characters that have been designed and written to be catered to their female audience, whether it's romantically or otherwise, but people? Nah. I also agree that there is definitely a double standard between men and women being sexually harassed because y'all WOULD NOT let that fly if some men did that to a female athlete. The original video that that Booktoker (idk what to call them) made was disgusting to me (6:15). Even if "it's not serious", or "everyone on tiktok does it.", those types of sexual videos should never be directed at people who are just living their lives. Like what happened to "He's handsome/cute"? What happened to normal compliments that aren't heavily sexual or having to do with peoples bodies? I just have a very personal gripe with those types of people and their fans that defend that immoral behavior and hype it up to the point where they feel like it's okay to do those things. Like was it necessary to talk about your "holes" ON A PUBLIC FORUM LIKE WHAT HAPPENED TO MORALITY Y'ALL... I also have a personal problem with her using the race-card (22:17) as a POC because it had nothing to do with her being black...at all. It was about her actions, and Alex's wife didn't seem to have any racists intentions she just wanted people to leave her and her family alone. Kierra shouldn't be exempt from criticism just because of her skin tone. I completely understand Alex's wife finding it funny or relatable at first (because ofc she can understand being attracted to her own husband!!) until it escalated and had this snowball effect that interacted with their daily lives. If you're catcalling or yelling at him or leaving gross comments on either of their Instagram (especially on posts with their literal CHILD), that's when you need to seek help. It is such basic knowledge that consent can be revoked as things progress. I do agree with Kierra though as far as businesses using BookTok or other interests for their marketing and feeding into it, then dropping it when it no longer serves them. That was dangerous and unprofessional in the first place, especially if the players didn't consent to that thirst trappy type content being released. "BookTok did you like this one? 😏" No. Just...ew. Last take on this I swear, but @thoughtswgracie was so intolerable to me. Just because you are a public influencer does not mean that sexual/hateful comments should be normalized. It should be expected as that happens to most people, but the narrative that you should deal with it, that's what happens and you're not allowed to complain, is dangerous in itself because you're telling people not to speak up for themselves and set boundaries. "Do you see me complaining?" is a weird take because everyone has a different tolerance for those kinds of comments and are ALLOWED to not like that and act against it. Anyways, amazing video, and have a good day to everyone who read this mini essay LMAOO

My first thought was exactly what you said about consent, you can withdraw it at any time and women saying the couple was fine with it until they weren’t are giving off big predator energy. Showing up at someone’s workplace is unhinged. Men are allowed to feel vulnerable and exploited, yes the Krakens made an error in judgement assuming the “thirst traps” would remain harmless online (that is based in patriarchy and the assumption that women can’t be sexually violent which is untrue). That doesn’t mean the individual players can’t speak out. The booktok smut obsession is this generations wine mom, camouflaging addiction under a cute name doesn’t make it ok.

Twich banned "simp" bc ppl was accusing staff of giving female streamers special treatment.

It's funny bc in this case its a wife getting upset about inappropriate comments about her husband bc people find him attractive so people are calling the wife the "bad guy", but if a husband was getting upset at people for sexualizing his wife the WIFE would ALSO BE BLAMED for being too "provocative" or "allowing this behavior" bc her partner spoke up instead of her.

As a woman who is a hockey and book fan, I’m so frustrated with the comments Kierra (and other creators) made originally, and also the videos in response to Felicia Wennberg’s statements. You mentioned that you’re not sure if the players can hear the chants… during warmups, if you’re up at the glass, they can hear your conversations. So the girls filming warmups and screaming “crack my back” and making other inappropriate comments are making players uncomfortable for sure. Also, Felicia mentioned in her statement that the OG video was being sent to her and Alex almost daily, so I understand why she’s speaking up “four months later”. Honestly, this whole drama could make it for women who are genuinely fans of the sport since a lot of the toxic male fans have accused us of being “puck bunnies” or “jersey chasers”.

I swear there was a situation where a group of men went to a gymnastics tournament to watch a girl in a weird way too

It was so icky to even watch the original videos. Smut should be kept to fictional characters and when you start hypersexualizing REAL people, it’s gone way too far.

There is literally no connection between the kraken supporting her behavior and Felicia being uncomfortable by it. Wenneberg is a professional athlete signed to the Kraken and that’s it. When it comes to his personal life and his family’s life it doesn’t fucking matter that his job supported this. That honestly just looks worse for the krakens social media team and I hope they address this and support and protect their player.

I've looked for your book channel and never been able to find it, so thanks for putting in the discretion, finally lol His statement was very polite, fair and set his boundaries. He had every right to put out that statement. It seems that people were crossing the line and behaving disgustingly. Especially going on to their Instagram accounts to sexualise them and harass his wife and children, it's weird and gross.

"jokes" more than half the stuff she said was sexual harassment comments like, guys use this excuse too but they're always get called out for it idk why these girls think they're the exception, if anything they should know how bad it is.

It can all be boiled down to: he said he is unconfortable with this behaviour. Why Is It so hard to hear that and then stop? Literally. What's hard to understand about that. It's basic human decency.

I'm a woman who absolutely adores hockey and genuinely love the sport and yes, I too find some of the players attractive. However, I would never in a million years make the comments this girl has as it is definitely harassment, it's not funny. I'm siding with Wennbergs wife on this one, and yes YOU CAN REVOKE CONSENT!

They crossed the line and now they're mad there are consequences. The wife has every right to be uncomfortable and call them all out. The stuff they were saying is foul.

"I don't take my life seriously" may be you should, just a little bit?

having been subscribed to you and the hockey guy for YEARS i have to say this is the crossover i truly never expected

Some ppl on tiktok doesn’t realize that people can change their mind about a topic.

It’s very unserious that ppl believe or treat public figure like they’re not allowed to have any boundaries, and when said public figures tell ppl to respect their boundaries ppl start tweaking out about it, it’s a weird level of entitlement and parasocialism, like these ppl are REAL they’re not characters in a story

It's sad also that everyone was like "oh she shouldn't change her mind" (as you said, she's allowed to put a limit to her consent); but no one asked if HE maybe put a stop to it ? Like maybe she was okay until her husband felt unconfortable or harrassed? And he is also allowed to say "ok, this is too far"...

There seems to be alot of sexual harassment accusations made about women that if done by a man would be a huge issue. Women can be as predatory as men and they need to be held accountable

i don’t understand people justifying the comments she made. “it’s just jokes” but it’s also explicitly sexual? and public? what if her employer saw that - it wouldn’t be a joke then + she would probably get in trouble. she is not the victim in this

Today I took a sexual harassment prevention course for my new job and that my friend, is text book case of sexual harassment

i find it so weird that she says “this is why our generation is on tiktok we’re just trying to have fun” it’s fun to sexualize a stranger ?? U don’t know? Who’s we??? Do NOT group the rest of us with u. Wanting to have “fun” does not mean you’re free of consequences from whatever happens because of it 😭 so delusional

didn't realise that people on 'booktok' could be that illiterate when it comes to understanding the wifes statements.

This definitely isn't the point of the video but I hate how she kept saying "the guy above" and the gifts he gave her. What's the gift, the gift of sexualization? Like what is she doing that's such a gift.

I'm glad someone is talking about this, I was unaware of this booktok drama, but I left the hockey "fandom" back in the day on Tumblr because the amount of people who were taking below the waist and zoomed in photos of Sidney Crosby's butt, the sexual harassment they were committing by doing that and talking about him the way they did, I completely checked out. Watch and see if a fellow woman was objectified like that, they'd be calling Kierra and other women creeps like they should be.

This is basic consent. The hockey player has revoked his consent to be treated in a way that makes him feel like crap... it's so strange to me that people don't respect that. Especially when they claim to like them, etc...

Was hoping you'd cover this! Genuinely unhinged situation 😅

These people contacting the athletes and their families is what really crosses the line. You can ignore the videos if you don’t like them, but you can’t so easily ignore when people start directly contacting you.

The moment his wife and him said they were uncomfortable Kierra should've apologized and deleted the tiktoks. Idk why anybody bothers trying to have a discourse around it. They were clearly okay with the jokes to some extent but it got out of hand and they spoke out which they had every right to do. I don't get why people bring up that the hockey players posted thirst traps as a way to defend Kierra, like yes they consented to posting thirst traps, they didn't consent to being catcalled and other stuff. People need to start understanding basic consent!

For someone who’s just making videos for “entertainment” she is sure big mad that she got unfollowed by the sports team.

The OneDirection Wattpad readers to Hockey fan pipeline is very real and incredibly bizarre

Thanks for addressing this in such a good and comprehensive way! And honestly, that TikTok girly is so annoying and cringe. Almost unwatchable.

the internet has made people SO bold and i hate that that is just SO normalized. chanting is one thing, but imagine going up to someone you just do not know in real life and splurting out like 15 random s**ual lines.. like no!! ick!! super ick!! why do you feel so bold saying that online !!

I’m sure the wife wouldn’t have mind if the creator didn’t drag the joke too far. Also I heard that creator defending a non black country artist saying the n word so idgaf about her getting dragged

People overwhelmingly cross the line on social media. I can find someone attractive without feeling the need to make a sexual comment on their content. I had a video go viral and turned off the comments because the sexualization of me/my job was disgusting. I do however feel like women tend to feel justified because “men always do it”. The standard should be the same, we can’t be hypocrites.

This Tiktok girl Grace seems annoying af. Trying to make this situation all about her.

This just reminds me of how some Kpop Stans treat the idols as well. It’s so fucking normalized along some to make such sexual statements and “jokes” about them. And it’s literally disgusting. These are real people that haven’t consented to these types of comments. I genuinely don’t get how people act like this.

Something that I think no one really realises is how almost always in these cases, the wives/female partners are the ones who speak out first because male athletes have normalised their sexualization to a really sad point where they probably don't even see an issue unless someone points it out. It's really upsetting how our patriarchal double standard can be so obvious yet it's not seen because admitting to it, makea you guilty of sexual harassment and being a perverted creep. Also, what's the whole thing about them 'attacking a black woman'? Race has nothing to do with this, you are a perverted person for sexualising a real human being, not only on the internet but in real life with other people (including children) surrounding you, your skin colour has absolutely nothing to do with it.

The fact that a person, that person of whom you showed the clip, can call them 'emotional', because they got sexually harrassed is just sad. They act like they asked for it.. so sad to hear this type of speech. Also why is the book tokker that also sexually harassed the hockey player screaming all of the time? It doesn't make the sexual harassment any less harassment.. but maybe thats just my view Love your videos Angelika, thank you ❤

I hate how people try to justify their lack of decency/morals/ethics/boundaries by saying ‘oh you’re a public figure it comes with the territory’

Omg thank you for posting this! I was on my TikTok for you page and saw the original authors post crying and there was NO context 😫

People who are into fanfiction about real life people freak me out. If you think Batman is hot and express it its completely fine because he is not a real person who could see it and feel violated. But these people seem to think that their "characters" aren't fictional, they are real people and can have very real and awful feelings about the sexual stuff you're hurling about them

i feel like the company that backs the crakens is a little wrong for openly comparing their players to characters in smut. i feel like that might not have been the best avenue for this venture