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The Muslim Problem with Fitnah aka "Naked" Women in the West 

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The problem of “fitnah” or temptations and how this affects Muslims who want to go work out at the gym. We’re going to talk about how Islam poisons the mind of women and makes them think that anything less than hijab is immodest. It creates this massive problem for men too, who just want to go work out, but feel guilty or have pressure from women not to go. We have a really interesting video coming and we’re going to dig in on the psychological effects hijab has on the community.
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@FriendlyExmuslim
@FriendlyExmuslim Месяц назад
Some of you are wondering about the backstory of my wife. 1. I got divorced after a long marriage and finally fell in love again and got newly married. 2. She's a former convert to Islam and also an exmuslim. We met online. 3. She is happy to contribute but didn't want to come on camera for privacy reasons and I agreed with her on this. 4. I'm Canadian 🍁 and she's American 🇺🇸 Having her on has been a blast and she's given me some amazing perspective. If you're new here subscribe so you can hear more of a woman's perspective on these issues. Cheers! 🍺
@MustAfaalik
@MustAfaalik Месяц назад
May you & family be well & happy.🙏
@playinglifeoneasy9226
@playinglifeoneasy9226 Месяц назад
I’ve heard of many young women being pursued by their families after leaving Islam I completely understand your wife’s reluctance and hearing her input. I hope you’re both safe.
@thomasthomasphilp4393
@thomasthomasphilp4393 Месяц назад
We need a dating site for Ex Muslims globally. Many are ostracized, get divorced and even lose their contact with their children. Dr. Arif Hussein, an EMU from Kerala, India has been going through this
@thomasthomasphilp4393
@thomasthomasphilp4393 Месяц назад
​@@playinglifeoneasy9226In Germany vocal ex Muslims like Abdel Samad are under 24/7 police protection. Anyone who criticizes Islam can be dead or alive with police protection. The western leftists are ok with that. They dont care about freedom of expression. Burkhini and Hijabs are feministic for lefties
@thomasthomasphilp4393
@thomasthomasphilp4393 Месяц назад
Islam is like cancer in the 4th stage. You can be cured for sometime. Still remission can happen any time.
@RCSVirginia
@RCSVirginia Месяц назад
Through the years, I have known people from Brazil. Brazilian women wear bikinis that are little more than strings, yet Brazilian men aren't raping women on the beaches of Ipanema or Copacabana. Perhaps, that says something about the culture of men of South America, as well as the men of North America and Europe.
@zigzig9938
@zigzig9938 Месяц назад
I can say it’s similar in Africa. In Namibia 🇳🇦 there is a tribe called Himba, where women walk half naked with long dreads in their hair, but no one harassed them because they dress according to their culture.
@adjoa-anima
@adjoa-anima Месяц назад
Those men are not weak
@stacypastry2440
@stacypastry2440 Месяц назад
It says a lot about muslim cultures and some of the tribal cultures they engulfed
@user-km2bk8zb4m
@user-km2bk8zb4m Месяц назад
Exactly.
@suzumi111
@suzumi111 Месяц назад
my friend from Saudi told me one woman went onto a beach in a bikini and was arrested immediately and they called her crazy i was like how is she crazy for not wanting to dress like a ninja and actually get sun on her skin 🥴
@cutestar564
@cutestar564 Месяц назад
Actually I have rarely seen Muslim men lowering gaze when they see women ,infact they staree
@LizA0488
@LizA0488 Месяц назад
​@@GrimSowerthere is no God anyone who allows that. That is human created BS
@SWOTHDRA
@SWOTHDRA Месяц назад
Because its not in their religion at all. Men can do whatever they want. They legally can have slaves and conqubines. Can even marry a second wife without telling the first wife.
@brettcantrell8650
@brettcantrell8650 Месяц назад
just like any men. That is why women dress modestly because men in general are lecherous while in America even the women are lecherous.
@iceblu4713
@iceblu4713 Месяц назад
Shit, I am a male, but I am Orthodox Christian and when I used to go to the gym, the arab migrants who worked out there always looked aggressively at me, they can smell Orthodox Christian souls bro 😂
@Anton-tf9iw
@Anton-tf9iw Месяц назад
In the Netherlands they spit and curse at them loudly, calling them prostitutes.
@therese2301
@therese2301 Месяц назад
Imagine getting upset at the thought of un covered ankles, but ignoring the fact the Aisha was married at 6 and consummated at 9.
@aresmarte9000
@aresmarte9000 17 дней назад
To a 50 yo p*
@Nikki-zg5sx
@Nikki-zg5sx 13 дней назад
There's that also...😬
@missqueen354
@missqueen354 11 дней назад
Aisha = Assiyah represents spiritual world , Muhammad an archetype . Muhammad took control over the 6 or 7 chakras , then consummated at 9. 9 represent new born/intellect. There’s alot of hidden spiritual meanings in this. Not to be taken literally. Most characters in the Hadith are fictional.
@veroniquesoret-walker488
@veroniquesoret-walker488 8 дней назад
Indeed, child R*** The distorted perspective of raising eyebrows at women exposing part of their bodies versus real crimes against children. We have a clear name about it in Western Countries starting with the letter P.
@rowannestripe2964
@rowannestripe2964 День назад
I know, right!!!
@Blackcato333
@Blackcato333 Месяц назад
It annoys me that they criticise the way we live here but the west is the west. I dont know why they live here.
@Globaldave1970
@Globaldave1970 Месяц назад
Wish they didnt.
@Mira-gu6we
@Mira-gu6we Месяц назад
Coz big zaddy and nato bombed their countries??
@Milagrina
@Milagrina Месяц назад
They should not .
@mikoto7693
@mikoto7693 Месяц назад
@@GrimSowerThere you go. They move to western countries because they want to force us to convert.
@diabloakland
@diabloakland Месяц назад
Me too. And i was born into Islam. I hate how they criticize our way of life in the west. If they want subjugation they should stay in their own lane. I am glad i was born in the west and am able to be free
@Ninajust__
@Ninajust__ Месяц назад
It's funny that people complain about hijab while I couldn't even have a perfume when i was a Muslim 😂 or even shape my eyebrows Or wear summer clothes even inside the house with my family members Because its "fitna" I still remember my first day at university when I took off my hijab for the first time My whole body was shaking and I felt afraid because in my childhood my mother told me that I was ugly without hijab so I would never take it off... You can live in peace with a strict Muslim family as soon as you keep your mouth shut and do your things secretly If you want to tell them about your life because they are your family, then expect abuse
@agnosticmanquestionsall2409
@agnosticmanquestionsall2409 Месяц назад
I witnessed this and it bothers me to see so many women treated as prisoners in this religion. I'm glad as a man nobody can force me to do anything and my family is moderate.
@tuinov6286
@tuinov6286 Месяц назад
​@@agnosticmanquestionsall2409 Why are they still following a ,,religion" like this? They are so dumb.
@FriendlyExmuslim
@FriendlyExmuslim Месяц назад
Wow, more people need to hear how tough this is. Hope you're doing better now Nina
@ObsidianCrocodile
@ObsidianCrocodile Месяц назад
I’m sorry you’ve gone through all that. It’s sad that your mother said that you were ugly without the hijab, how cruel and I’m sure completely untrue. It sounds like your parents probably had similar treatment growing up so even though you deserved better, I can see the consistent pattern of belittling and control that might have gone on through the generations. Sending luck and love in your life it sounds like you’re making progress in being independent 💪👍❤
@lillabotlik1975
@lillabotlik1975 Месяц назад
Intolerance, abuse and endoctrination are huge red flags. They occur when someone or a culture, tradition or religion fail to have a reasonable, empathetic and balanced stance on human issues. They resort to aggression. How sad.
@Sofasurfa
@Sofasurfa Месяц назад
The hypocrisy is what fascinates me, the women have to cover up and the men get to practice polygyny. Yet women still put up with this hypocrisy 🤷🏼‍♀️
@Lizzied1301
@Lizzied1301 Месяц назад
It is a misogynistic religion where pedophilia, rape and abuse are allowed. And this is all in the quran
@mikoto7693
@mikoto7693 Месяц назад
It’s the brainwashing from birth.
@Finckelstein
@Finckelstein Месяц назад
When you're told your entire life that misogyny is "freedom" and that you are worthless, you will begin to believe it. There's a reason islamist countries are banning education for women.
@daniella8400
@daniella8400 Месяц назад
It’s insane.
@brettcantrell8650
@brettcantrell8650 Месяц назад
in the west also men and women practice polygyny. So many cheaters in the west, it is hard to find women and men who do not cheat on their spouses ...........there is nudity everywhere.............women dance naked in front of men..........yikes.
@Brijitjonz
@Brijitjonz Месяц назад
My daughter used to lifeguard at a water park. She was always surprised at the Muslim families who came every weekend. The males dressed like everyone else, and enjoyed the water and the view of all the young women in string bikinis. The Muslim women were covered head to toe, so couldn’t enjoy the water. How can the Muslim men say they expect women to be modest when they spend their family time surrounded by young women in bikinis? You would think they would go elsewhere for family time if they truly believe in modesty.
@carriefawcett9990
@carriefawcett9990 23 дня назад
There's distinctly different rules for men than there are for women in that religion. Men can do whatever they want, women can't do anything.
@SHAHSAHEB-ft5kd
@SHAHSAHEB-ft5kd 21 день назад
How do you know that Muslim males enjoyed bikinis ?
@Ninajust__
@Ninajust__ 20 дней назад
@@SHAHSAHEB-ft5kd for example, looking all the time at those women who wear bikinis ( Remember, In Islam men shouldn't look at them , if he did .. it's zina )
@user-yg2uy8bc8q
@user-yg2uy8bc8q 19 дней назад
@@SHAHSAHEB-ft5kd so women cover up for those reasons protection and to avoid males from sinking themselves by being babies and lusting uncovered women. So now if males are allowed to go there and enjoy where women are uncovered. Might as well allow women to now wear like ghosts. Because what hypocrisy is that. Just control your lust oh god.
@jimanast3593
@jimanast3593 19 дней назад
​@@SHAHSAHEB-ft5kd Because they R ALL staring!
@souxcasa
@souxcasa Месяц назад
There is full nudity on European beaches (main land not the more conservative islands where i live), entire families will be naked and it is entirely unsexual. Just bodies being bodies there is nothing sexual about it. The obsession with nudity being sexual is something that is projected. In some parts of Africa they find it super weird that we think boobs are hot becaue they see them as a means to feed babies and think it's creepy that we sexualise them. The more you cover women the more they will be sexualised. If you see it every day it's just another body part like an elbow or a knee. I saw a documentary about Iran where one woman was telling another that men find wrists tempting so you have to cover them up for the sake of men. Once the wrists are covered they will start to find the fingers tempting, It becomes a self fulfilling prophecy
@Ninajust__
@Ninajust__ 24 дня назад
Damn that's true , even with hijab others will still tell you that your nails and toes are very tempting for men I remember my father forcing me to wear socks and never use nail polish, I was 11 years old at the time You are right , the more you cover women the more they will be sexualised
@illmeeillmee9373
@illmeeillmee9373 20 дней назад
Bodies are sexual but that isnt a reason to act the way Muslims act
@missc4079
@missc4079 3 дня назад
There are videos that show what is the correct way that a Muslim woman should dress and the wrong way to dress. Basically the only images that got were approved as being right were ones where even everything is covered up including the eyes. Any images of a Muslim woman showing her eyes, hands, face, loose fitting clothes ect were all deemed as inappropriate.
@souxcasa
@souxcasa 3 дня назад
@@missc4079 that is so upsetting
@SQUELCH-zj7il
@SQUELCH-zj7il 3 часа назад
Yeah I was in Spain recently and there were women without tops on. No one was looking lmao
@ivarhakuse8572
@ivarhakuse8572 Месяц назад
I'm a Hindu in the UK. A couple of years back, I lived in Oldham in the U.K. a place with a high muslim density and mosques of every different denomination literally left right and centre. I used to visit TK Maxx for bits and bobs and often used to meet, I take it, a young and fully kitted out muslim sales assistant that I might casually say hello and have a brief chat with. She wore a black gown and head gear with a slit. I noticed myself thinking and wondering what she looked like under that get up. Was she beautiful etc. Then I thought, strange because it was new to me. I'd never thought about women in that imaginative fantasy way before. Why would I, you see or meet someone, acknowledge their looks and end of story. It doesn't remain lingering in the back your head. It then occurred to me that all this veiling business achieved to drive the exact opposite of what it was trying to achieve. I remember walking in London parks in the summer. Well the British, as soon as a bit of sun shows remove their kit and lie almost nude to get their dose of vitamin D. I was a young man in my early 20s. Did I ever stop to gawk? Never! It was totally meaningless. You encountered it all the time. What about British seaside beaches? Bikinis galore! Who cared, you just got on with your life and they with theirs. On a side note, in the same city, a younger than me, and quite beautiful English woman shouted, 'Hey! You're fit!!!' To me from across the road! I turned, smiled waved, shouted she was beautiful herself, and then went about my own business. It was not an invitation to jump on top of her, its called mutual respect. I think she liked my retro British, Indian raw silk jacket, with the Ray Ban Pilots look. How beautiful is it that people especially women, are given and have the freedom and opportunity to pass a remark on someone's looks without it being misconstrued into a crass sexual invitation. When I think back to this incident it brings about a smile and a warm feel good about myself moment which is not sexual at all. In other words, neither mohammad nor Allah were great psychologists. They were indeed mere novices with regard to human sexual / emotional responses.
@Egg_Apron
@Egg_Apron 20 дней назад
What a great comment.
@Viveera2024
@Viveera2024 18 дней назад
Important for everyone to listen to this perspective 😊 Thank you
@bhumii802
@bhumii802 9 дней назад
Omggggg!!!! This is great perspective of the situation
@ivarhakuse8572
@ivarhakuse8572 9 дней назад
@Viveera2024 Thank you. I think as Hindus we are brought up alert to our minds and thoughts especially in meditation where we watch them from the place of the observer. So yes, indeed it was interesting and then of course to enter into an honest and non-judgmental about myself, reflective inner dialogue. I had a thought and I'm not going to chide myself for having it. The fact is I did but all the same I want to know why. And then the answer comes.
@ivarhakuse8572
@ivarhakuse8572 9 дней назад
@bhumii802 Thank you Bhumii ji
@shortbread445
@shortbread445 Месяц назад
Thank you for making the point that covering up women makes men hyper sensitive. We've been going to Turkey with my university class and were at a beach where fully dressed Turkish men and boys went and became visibly aroused immediately seeing women in bathing suits. Those poor men and boys were so deprived of seeing women skin that they immediately connected it to sexual thoughts. This is how you create lustful thoughts out of marriage and not prevent them.
@mikoto7693
@mikoto7693 Месяц назад
I noticed something similar when I visited Egypt as a young woman. It was quite far into the Egyptian summer so it was hot. So naturally I wore shorts and t shirts to try to keep cool. Now admittedly it wasn’t so bad in the big cities where they were less conservative, but out in the countryside… Well. I was an early twenties white woman with blue eyes, light brown hair and dressed lightly due to the desert heat. I actually found it uncomfortable how many of the men reacted. Some stared at my body for a few seconds before lowering his gaze, but it was usually apparent what was happening to them. A few immediately looked down. But it was usually the older men who stared openly and looked up and down from my head to my toes. Literally because I wore sandals. That wasn’t even the worst part. The worst part was when the bolder ones would go over to me and attempt to persuade me to marry them! I kid you not. Some of them even bypassed talking to me directly and went to my Dad to quite literally try to buy me to be his wife. I was told that three camels was quite a generous offer. On another occasion I saw the same kind of thing at the swimming pool as in the video. Multiple families and people in the hotel swimming pool-the women were mostly foreigners though. But there were a couple local families there. I saw one family arriving with the mother covered up with a full burka but the father and kids were in swimming gear. She had to go and sit under a parasol with the other covered women and watch her family swim and play without her. I felt profoundly sorry for her. It’s probably not a surprise that I have never visited another Islamic country again and I never will do so again.
@Redlingstein
@Redlingstein Месяц назад
No the men can’t control themselves and force women to cover themselves. These men should learn to control themselves!!! Its the men’s problem, nobody elses
@hydratejsn
@hydratejsn Месяц назад
​@@mikoto7693 I loved the warm red sea in Egypt, but same as you will never visit again because of the men. I was a shy 18 year old when I visited and outside of the beach was covered from elbows to calf to avoid sunburning my sensitive skin, yet they still stared! And it weren't admiring stares but what we call undressing stares in my language. They were absolutely gross to women in general, constantly flirting. Someone of the hotel staff started giving me sweets and would put his hand on his heart when he saw me, it was so awkward and borderline harrasment, he was always around doing this when we visited the restaurant. My scuba instructor seemed okay and absolutely lukewarm towards me, then would go ask my parents behind my back, if they weren't looking for a husband for me. The thought process that I should learn about his interest after a marriage is set up is absolutely repulsive. I cannot imagine the horrors of growing up a woman in such society. No wonder the women have toxic relationships to themselves, when men are sexually deprived because of ideology and start sexualising their whole skin. I guess I needed to vent a bit 😅.
@mikoto7693
@mikoto7693 Месяц назад
@@hydratejsn Wow. It looks like we pretty much had the same kind of experiences. And yes, it is absolutely repulsive to have a man try to *buy me* like one would buy a horse. To be considered potential property. There’s another word for regarding another human as property. Props to my Dad for his response. “You would have to ask my daughter about that. The woman decides who to date and who to marry in our country. The parents have nothing to do with it, other than advise when asked or when they really think that the daughter has made a terrible mistake.” It’s debatable which of us was more offended.
@krishgaming9080
@krishgaming9080 Месяц назад
​@@mikoto7693so I don't want to live under religion Europe is athiest n yes we athiest love sex n no one should restrict us everyone should join our parties
@joridley904
@joridley904 Месяц назад
I saw a couple running and the man was comfortable dressed in shorts and a t-shirt. The woman was dressed from head to toe in a black sheet and I could see she was struggling as it was mid summer.
@blueStarKitt7924
@blueStarKitt7924 Месяц назад
🙄😡
@mollygeorge1825
@mollygeorge1825 Месяц назад
I see that in smiths, Walmart etc in las vegas at 110°f. I Don't know their feelings, but I feel bad looking at them😢
@zcnaipowered7407
@zcnaipowered7407 21 день назад
Tough
@keith.anthony.infinity.h
@keith.anthony.infinity.h 20 дней назад
Did you say black sheet? Haha there is a name for it NIQAB? But either way it is very painful to experience.
@Plejade_
@Plejade_ Месяц назад
The problem of temptation is in the beholders eyes. You cant blame woman that you dont get yourself together as a man. Stay at home untill you can would be a better rule for those men.
@7Jasmine8
@7Jasmine8 Месяц назад
I've experienced an insane amount of sexual harassment, catcalling, and staring in Muslim countries, even though I would dress in something like a long hoodie and jeans without a hijab. Men there are not accustomed to seeing women without hijabs (besides their families), so any visible skin or hair makes them go crazy
@ImBatuKumAhhh
@ImBatuKumAhhh Месяц назад
And they'll blame the women for their perverted mind 😂
@user-ji3qm5gf7j
@user-ji3qm5gf7j Месяц назад
Where ?
@7Jasmine8
@7Jasmine8 Месяц назад
@@user-ji3qm5gf7j Jordan and Egypt
@7Jasmine8
@7Jasmine8 Месяц назад
@@user-ji3qm5gf7j Turkey wasnt bad because plenty of women there don’t wear hijabs.
@user-km2bk8zb4m
@user-km2bk8zb4m Месяц назад
That's pathetic.
@adoremus4014
@adoremus4014 Месяц назад
In summertime the muslim women area sweating in those polyester gowns, meanwhile the men are in short-sleeved t-shirts. The gowns stink due to the sweat and stale perfume and from using it to wipe the sweat off their brow. Muslim women need to take their power back and stop being oppressed.
@lynneho4573
@lynneho4573 Месяц назад
If a wife is covering,the husband should also wear traditional style.
@robfromvan
@robfromvan Месяц назад
They can also use those costumes for bee-keeping.
@christianhorn1999
@christianhorn1999 Месяц назад
men should also wear niquab
@donnabeuth3193
@donnabeuth3193 Месяц назад
Yes in their own countries please🤷🇬🇧
@LizA0488
@LizA0488 Месяц назад
Yes cover men up or women will harm them.
@shabba213
@shabba213 Месяц назад
Do that shit in the desert.
@7Jasmine8
@7Jasmine8 Месяц назад
My friend/coworker recently converted to Islam.. now she comes into work wearing a niqab and all of her social media posts are about how well Islam treats women and all the "rights" islam gives to women.. Growing up with Islam, it bothers me that a convert can just cherry pick the things they like and can decide to leave the religion if they change their mind because they have nothing at stake, while someone who is born Muslim doesn't get that luxury or freedom. For example, born-muslims usually have to get arranged marriages, women can't move out without marriage, cant travel alone or with friends, cant be independent, cant have freedom of leaving or changing their religion, some get forced to wear hijab, etc,, while converts do not even need to worry about any of those things and then eventually marry born-muslim men and their kids are forced to live by those rules
@agnosticmanquestionsall2409
@agnosticmanquestionsall2409 Месяц назад
I agree on the cherry picking with Converts because they are taught they don't speak Arabic they don't know it all. They're fooled basically. I wouldn't be jealous of them she traded her freedom for being controlled by her husband and religion you traded the opposite you're free. That husband she has would be a nightmare for someone who wants to be free.
@7Jasmine8
@7Jasmine8 Месяц назад
@@agnosticmanquestionsall2409 Im not free yet, but i know if i do get free someday it will be the biggest weight off my shoulders and i can finally be my authentic self and truly live.
@thomasthomasphilp4393
@thomasthomasphilp4393 Месяц назад
Ask her what she thinks of PM (Peace be upon only him, but whole humanity) marrying Aisha at age of 6 and consummating marriage at age of 9, when he was 53 years old? Is she ok with her daughter marrying a 53 year old pious Muslim believer?
@emilywyatt9340
@emilywyatt9340 Месяц назад
​​@@agnosticmanquestionsall2409And she can't leave as a convert. She will be an apostate and be subject to it's penalty😢..Seriously do your full research on Islam before you buy. It hasn't a exchange or refund policy..
@faryi1770
@faryi1770 Месяц назад
Its a cultural thing, islam does not dsallow that many things.
@themoon8178
@themoon8178 Месяц назад
My mother in-law and sister in-law wear hijabi, they both have problems with losing hair, my mother-in-law also has 90% Osteoporosis. I think wearing hijabi goes against nature.
@playinglifeoneasy9226
@playinglifeoneasy9226 Месяц назад
I’m so sorry! My indexes mom also suffered from alopecia 😢that is very traumatic for most woman. My grandmother died of osteoporosis it’s very painful. Take D3 K2 vitamins
@BidchAssnikka-lu5lv
@BidchAssnikka-lu5lv Месяц назад
Just shave it, bro... She finally can understand the struggles of many men going bald.
@edief.899
@edief.899 Месяц назад
No vitamin D! My sons gf is only 25, is hijabi, full modest, she wears thick spf makeup all the time. Her vitamin D is on the floor. Her legs are so thin,they are bowed slightly from zero sun exposure, calcium plus vitamin D. Getting Natural vitamin D IS CRITICAL in northern latitudes ,along with supplements. Our skin should see sun about 15-20 minutes no spf daily, ( then use SPF after needed natural exposure) the darker you are, the more natural sun you need. The seasonal affective disorder in this cohort of women is awful. No summer swimming, festivals, camping, outdoorsy physical activity…to top up needed vitamin D. maybe 2% do this in hijab. The rest stay indoors locked out of the sun, nature..it’s a public health disaster low vitamin D, poor sexual health, low exercise, lack of cervical screening….I’m referring to the U.K…I haven’t met many Muslim female hijabi born into a conservative family without painful mental health issues, BPD, anxiety,depression. I can imagine if hijabi women feel like their guy is dabbling in both worlds, that wouldn’t help mental health at all, the constant anxiety of abandonment, the extreme jealousy both male and female based on a crazy skewed cultural religious lens when living in a Westernised society…I have noticed abandonment fears a lot…so toxic and destabilising. It’s painful to see. So many want the freedom and unconditional love from family to genuinely self actualise in Muslim homes, ( like all the Europeans seem to have this presumed support culturally ) but if it bumps up against the jailers rules, you lose your family, community, then blame the West for causing the problem and become an extremist. This is so common. Can’t beat them, so join them, and become a tyrant to exercise the pent up hostility and anger. It’s not just Islam, it’s other religious sects that have separatist aspirations, but Islam is the only one with severe proscribed dress code outside of say, Amish. The Islamic dress makes complete sense in the Gulf Arab countries due to the non stop dust, sand storms, you have to cover hair, face, clothes from being wrecked by these sand dust devils ..it makes perfect sense there, also the heat and glare of extreme sun 24/7… but you can’t replicate that in;a northern, cold, dark country full of rain. I thought the Koran was supposed to be practical? Obviously it wasn’t written in Norway or Scotland, but in Arabia.
@heyiamsarahb6774
@heyiamsarahb6774 Месяц назад
OMG same !! All the people that wear hijab lose hair at some point
@bengalibunny9531
@bengalibunny9531 Месяц назад
That’s really sad … however you can buy a sunlight lamp. I have one from Lumie and it basically acts as a fake ☀️. I do in it winter in 🇬🇧 if it’s too cold to go out or just in general when I don’t leave the house to get ☀️. It looks nice too like a nice piece of furniture.
@lahleholivia7398
@lahleholivia7398 Месяц назад
Check out the hijabi swimming pool videos, an absolute hoot. Swimming in a hijab to desperately try and prove some kind of freedom & choice, when it only confirms they never had the freedom or choice to remove it to begin with. The only thing missing was the "I ❤ Irony T-shirt.
@playinglifeoneasy9226
@playinglifeoneasy9226 Месяц назад
There is a champion swimmer. I think she is Iranian and she does swim in a hedgehog, but she is such a powerful swimmer that she still breaks records however, the government has penalized her and hounded her because they feel that this is still inappropriate for a woman so even the hijab Swimsuits are not enough for some of these clerics.
@buttercupnli
@buttercupnli Месяц назад
In a certain county in suburban Portland, the community pool where I swim has made certain times “women only” to accommodate hijabis. Men are not allowed in the pool at those times because otherwise the hijabis wouldn’t be able to swim. I was outraged. Why are we accommodating their religious nonsense and taking away the our male taxpayers right to use the pool? If it’s their own religion that prohibits the mixing of genders, it is not up to our secular society to accommodate that, especially to the detriment of half the population. When I complained, they just didn’t get it saying that without this accommodation these women would never know the joy and freedom of swimming. That is on them and their religion. If they want to swim why don’t they set up their own pool at a religious community center where they can enforce their religious restrictions, why are we accommodating them in our taxpayer funded community centers?
@WithoutliesShlimShlamdie-rc9ry
@WithoutliesShlimShlamdie-rc9ry Месяц назад
@@playinglifeoneasy9226 She is cheating then. Because neoprene suits lower water resistance.
@ThomasPrell
@ThomasPrell Месяц назад
​@@playinglifeoneasy9226 I totally could imagine (since muslims also belief in the tanakh and the bible). They are angry about Eve eating the forbidden fruit amd givin' it to Adam next to her. Instead of us men accepting the responsibility and stand up for our women, we punish them in forcing them to cover them. It is actually a psychological torture in my opinion. Chronic trauma for the woman. especially the skin needs to breath. how so if covered😢
@Mira-gu6we
@Mira-gu6we Месяц назад
Why bully and shame hijabi women? Imagine shes worn it for 30 40 years of her life. She may want to remain covered. Why force her to unclothe?? Why are you whites so obsessed with unclothing muslim women?
@potts995
@potts995 Месяц назад
Wild how she’s being indoctrinated to see everything as nudity so she gets triggered by the slightest glimpse of skin. She’ll never even realize it’s men pressuring her to think this way. 😮
@Bar_Bar27
@Bar_Bar27 Месяц назад
I think she's just a crazy jealous psycho using her "religion" as an excuse
@tuinov6286
@tuinov6286 Месяц назад
Its their culture. We white people have a beautiful culture and other parts of the world are jealous.
@emilywyatt9340
@emilywyatt9340 Месяц назад
There is no shame in the body the Divine gave us.
@theodoreconstantini2548
@theodoreconstantini2548 Месяц назад
Actually it is a sick way to look at the human body. And they see sex everywhere, and almost everything they see is sexual charged. That way of thinking can actually turn you into a pervert.
@lynnmarie2962
@lynnmarie2962 Месяц назад
​@@tuinov6286it is not about skin color.
@mrcombustiblelemon2902
@mrcombustiblelemon2902 Месяц назад
The answer to her question is obvious: She has identified a business opportunity. She and her husband should open a gender-segregated gym with zero visibility between the male and female sides, as well as separate entrances from different streets to minimize the chance of fitna on the street. They will immediately run into trouble since they're in Canada and good luck telling trans ppl which side they should use, but that's a story for another day 😂
@FriendlyExmuslim
@FriendlyExmuslim Месяц назад
😂 😂
@tuinov6286
@tuinov6286 Месяц назад
There are gender-segregated gyms. Women don't want to workout with other women. They always go to the men's gym for attention😂
@GrimSower
@GrimSower Месяц назад
women should not exercise it is haram!! they should be making the next generation of true blevers!! Ahamdulillah!!
@AliceArnaud-zs8sq
@AliceArnaud-zs8sq Месяц назад
honestly I think it would be a positive idea
@deespence8629
@deespence8629 Месяц назад
Interesting video! As someone who is Christian and has only lived in the west- my take on this part of Islam is that it seems to be hyper sexualized? That’s how I perceive this!
@mysotiras21
@mysotiras21 Месяц назад
I am Christian and once lived in the Middle East. Islam is positively obsessed with sex and female bodies.
@angelikasusanne2830
@angelikasusanne2830 Месяц назад
Lot´s of Muslima cover their hair to be less attractive (or so they say), but they wear full make up. I don´t understand how that goes together.
@margaretcaine4219
@margaretcaine4219 Месяц назад
Absolutely! I always chuckle when I see young 'modest' Muslim girls smothered in heavy makeup, even sporting false eye lashes. 'Don't look at me, but look at me' mixed signals.
@frida507
@frida507 Месяц назад
@@margaretcaine4219 Not too common proably but I've seen that together with black strappy high heel shoes and red nails.
@SWOTHDRA
@SWOTHDRA Месяц назад
Hypocrites, they wear more make up then regular women 🤡🤡🤡
@PS-qn4oz
@PS-qn4oz Месяц назад
@@margaretcaine4219 Yeah like a guy will definitely be more tempted by her haircut than her heavily accentuated eyes, batting long eyelashes, and red lips. LOL
@xandraislova
@xandraislova Месяц назад
@@margaretcaine4219 I think they want to do anything that gives them individualism. It makes them feel happy, so I will not laugh at them, only recognize that they are likely being hounded to wear hijab. They are taking what bit of freedom they can find.
@mjp-bi3re
@mjp-bi3re Месяц назад
I was taight that modesty is a part of someone's character. The garments are not relevant. The most modest woman I know is covered in tattoos and wears short shorts and sleeveless tops most of the year. She is the most charitable and giving person I have ever met. Her education is post doctoral. Her manners are stellar. What else can I say?
@WithoutliesShlimShlamdie-rc9ry
@WithoutliesShlimShlamdie-rc9ry Месяц назад
Momo followers are superficial beings.
@hydratejsn
@hydratejsn Месяц назад
Yes, that's what modesty means in my language too. If someone's skin is barely visible we say covered. It absolutely confuses me why in English people use modesty to describe clothes.
@krishgaming9080
@krishgaming9080 Месяц назад
​@@hydratejsnbut her body count is very high😂😂😂
@hydratejsn
@hydratejsn Месяц назад
@@krishgaming9080 you cannot know that. Also, whether having many sexual partners is immodest or not highly depends on context
@HunterLvyiXIII
@HunterLvyiXIII 17 дней назад
​​@@hydratejsn he's just salty he can't find someone like that who'll date him. That woman sounds amazing! And her body count is irrelevant
@FatymaZAli
@FatymaZAli 25 дней назад
i hate women being called "fitnah"
@michelleferguson5580
@michelleferguson5580 Месяц назад
'If your eye leads you to sin, pluck it out": Words of Jesus. I take this to mean that the source/cause of greed/lust/envy/hatred is in the heart of the beholder. Combatting these feelings is important, crucial even for the health of individuals and society, but the hard work that needs to be done is within yourself. I have always dressed modestly, I believe in the virtue of modesty, but I do not accept that women are the cause of men's lust or unfaithfulness.
@NoKidsNoProblem
@NoKidsNoProblem Месяц назад
Except no Christians ever follow the advice of Jesus to pluck out their eyes if it causes them to become aroused. Then again Paul contradicts Jesus and instead of telling people to pluck their eyes out or cut off their hand he says for people to "present their members unto god as instruments of righteous" Christian prefer Paul's advice here. People say they are Christians, but in reality they are Paulites.
@kathybrem880
@kathybrem880 Месяц назад
I dress how ever I want!
@NoKidsNoProblem
@NoKidsNoProblem Месяц назад
@@kathybrem880 as you should. No one has the right to demand that you dress or any woman dress how they want you to.
@joane24
@joane24 Месяц назад
💯% agree.
@mysotiras21
@mysotiras21 Месяц назад
BINGO. Lust has NOTHING to do with how others dress, and EVERYTHING to do with the condition of your heart.
@PsychicIsaacs
@PsychicIsaacs Месяц назад
I'm sure that the "Polygamy Culture" of Islam must play into this female paranoia, huh?
@sherylpayne5851
@sherylpayne5851 Месяц назад
I'm sure being dependent on a male to provide for you has something to do with it. Imagine countries where a female can't even leave the house without acceptable male escort. Countries where a woman stays home and has minimal educational opportunities. Where you have many children and depend on men or the government to provide for them.
@kimjennie3145
@kimjennie3145 12 дней назад
Definitely. And also the whole hoors in heaven thing!
@evil7529
@evil7529 Месяц назад
She is also living with a threat the man will take up with several women.
@iceblu4713
@iceblu4713 Месяц назад
She knows Islam allows harems 😂😂 Fked up
@tanyas8596
@tanyas8596 Месяц назад
I live in a very high population Muslim area and I have to say, I find myself covering up around the men....not like I dress immodestly anyways! I feel like I'm covered up better than them in my layers of hoodies a lot of the time. And I did see a Muslim woman crossing the road in a white hijab, I could see her entire body in the wind, how is that more modest than what I wear? It's just stupid legalism and some men are just obsessed with sex. That is not my fault, but it is a reason to know self defense.
@chrismoore7365
@chrismoore7365 Месяц назад
Funny, its around 2015 that I rationalized my weird out reaction of women wearing the niqab/burka to a J.J.Jameson Spiderman analogy. In western society, showing your face is a form of sincerity/trustworthiness (men or women). There is also the indirect insult that by default I'm an uncontrollable horn-dog (even as an [ex-catholic] atheist) P.O.S of a man.
@mrcombustiblelemon2902
@mrcombustiblelemon2902 Месяц назад
I personally prefer the J.J.J version where he doesn't trust so-called "heroes" since his father was one, but thank you for showing me that the inferior versions have merit too 😊
@notyourordinarygran
@notyourordinarygran Месяц назад
Exactly. I have always said that they are misandrists.
@Mira-gu6we
@Mira-gu6we Месяц назад
​@@notyourordinarygran a muslim girl in a scarf is a misandrist?? You sound mental.
@hydratejsn
@hydratejsn Месяц назад
​@@notyourordinarygran well, the founder's idea of heaven population wise is 72 women for each man arriving so your idea may not be so far fetched after all
@lisadabbs2181
@lisadabbs2181 Месяц назад
Obviously, they haven't been on a cruise. Most people dress very casually and it's mostly about having fun with lots of dancing and music. Life is too short to take it so seriously. Put some joy into it. You'll have plenty of time to be fully dressed, away from music and dancing when you're finally dead.
@hydratejsn
@hydratejsn Месяц назад
😂 true
@rosameijering5161
@rosameijering5161 Месяц назад
This is such a weird comment
@lisadabbs2181
@lisadabbs2181 Месяц назад
@rosameijering5161 What's so weird about it.? It means I have never seen a Muslim person in all the cruises I have been and is because they think they are too good to mix with the carefree atmosphere of a cruise. They would be out of place and making unreasonable demands, They would stand out like a sore thumb. I stand by my earlier comment.
@krishgaming9080
@krishgaming9080 Месяц назад
I know my frinrds life get ruined by a woman due to false accusation but you know what he did not commit the crime but yes he was accussed n the judge saw that he ws dancing with the woman​ so he got sentenced the judge thought he was really did it this was in the 70's now he's dead but what I think of him that how westerners can enjoy life n the males can enjoy life with extreme rules n regulations laws like SA ,eve teasing how males can be manipulated easily like Myke tyson was blackmailed n he had loose high amount of money so now I saw my friend converting to islam cause in a civilized society there are rules of SA ,eve teasing,frauds etc that's why my opinion if woman can destroy males life in western country by falsely accusing of sexual misconduct then why to accept this ideology of liberalism n filth which targets man n victimizes woman why don't we just accept islam n make oursleves fight lust easily @@lisadabbs2181
@denisesmith6762
@denisesmith6762 Месяц назад
Great conversation both! Why dont they move to a muslim country maybe she would feel better then rather than making a big deal over something so petty. Lifes short then you die , she needs to get a life .
@FriendlyExmuslim
@FriendlyExmuslim Месяц назад
Muslim countries same issue lol
@ASMRyouVEGANyet
@ASMRyouVEGANyet Месяц назад
Bad recommendation for her to move to one of those places. She still has rights over here. She will not over there.
@tuinov6286
@tuinov6286 Месяц назад
​​@@ASMRyouVEGANyet Then she should stop destroying the culture that gave her freedom. Women seriously can complain even if their life is perfect. Disgusting..
@thomasthomasphilp4393
@thomasthomasphilp4393 Месяц назад
​@@FriendlyExmuslimShe wants to do Dawa in the West. Islamization having a Caliphate in the West must be a dream for her. Even converting one person to Islam gives you a place in Jannat. God, I have never been expert as a Christian on Quran and Hadith. Thanks to EMUS on RU-vid. EMUS - Ex Muslims
@SWOTHDRA
@SWOTHDRA Месяц назад
​@@FriendlyExmuslimi hope the lady next to you is an ex muslim as well, she still sounds a bit shaky. We dont need female muslim input in this, only from ex muslims 🙂
@I_am_not_your_sister
@I_am_not_your_sister Месяц назад
So a few years after I had stopped wearing hijab, but wasn't yet an ex muslim, I dated a muslim guy I met at work. One day my car broke down and he offered me to borrow his car, as I was leaving work with his car I had boxes of files and opened his trunk to put them in for the drive home and there was a box of magazines something like playboy soft version but topless magazines, I had never seen anything like that and I was 22 already!!! When I say I had a mental breakdown , I'm not exaggerating. This was back in the day when you had to rent spicy content like vhs tapes. There was a receipt in the box from a place like that , I called bawling and asking the clerk to tell me if my bf was renting spicy videos, I was so upset about it the clerk actually looked his name up and told me yes. looking back on that now that was not cool of the clerk, but anyway at that time I felt that I had been cheated on, I felt like I wasn't enough and also that he was "sinful" and therefore dangerous to me, I broke up with him- I wish that was the end of the story but the comment is getting long so , yeah the mentality and sheltering really messes with your head, it took me years to even begin starting to undue this brainwashing and some pretty extreme methods some of which made it worse and some that worked- its really sad - even now at age 42 I have moments I have to remind myself that I can wear what I want and it doesn't make me who I am
@thehourglassfan3515
@thehourglassfan3515 29 дней назад
I’m sorry to hear that. I hope everything’s good now.
@I_am_not_your_sister
@I_am_not_your_sister 28 дней назад
@@thehourglassfan3515 thank you yes much better I've never regretted leaving islam
@krishayvetteayson9324
@krishayvetteayson9324 26 дней назад
The hypocrisy, right? I’ve dated a muslim guy too. The mixed signals he gave me really messed up my mind. I think their men have some similar traits, I guess? 😂 He said he liked his future wife to be modest and pure but whenever there is a woman showing a lot of skin, he looks at them intently.
@joane24
@joane24 Месяц назад
I hate when men blame women for their own lust. It's putting the blame on others for their own failings. (and I actually believe in the value of modesty and dress so myself, but I don't think it should be forced on anyone and definitely not under any falsely understood moral pressure.)
@user-ku4sv2pt7h
@user-ku4sv2pt7h Месяц назад
Most men appreciate a woman. We look We admire We move on
@heyiamsarahb6774
@heyiamsarahb6774 Месяц назад
That's it exactly !
@twittlypoo
@twittlypoo Месяц назад
That goes for women too! Look,appreciate a man and move on 🙂
@GrimSower
@GrimSower Месяц назад
only weak non muslim men do that, their women are out of their control anyways
@tiermacgirl
@tiermacgirl Месяц назад
Good attitude. Slight caveat, appreciation really has to be under control, so that the object is not creeped out! Like, a creepy comment or a greedy gaze is totally violating. A gentleman will not behave that way.
@connieh6136
@connieh6136 Месяц назад
@@tiermacgirl it’s the most natural thing for man to look at a beautiful woman ! In a marriage you should have trust regardless of what religion you are !
@user-yj8wp7wj8k
@user-yj8wp7wj8k Месяц назад
Yes they are starved of female beauty and the situation becomes worse.
@harbinger2020
@harbinger2020 Месяц назад
theres nothing wrong with the human body, we need to stop shaming it and purity culture bullshit
@ismailatiamiyuabdulsalam9496
@ismailatiamiyuabdulsalam9496 Месяц назад
Why then are the nudists still denied to walk stark narked on the street ?😂
@harbinger2020
@harbinger2020 Месяц назад
@@ismailatiamiyuabdulsalam9496 ah yes cause the only options are pure niqabi and 100% nudist. Literally not in-between or nuanced for time and place
@ismailatiamiyuabdulsalam9496
@ismailatiamiyuabdulsalam9496 Месяц назад
@@harbinger2020 😂😂😂😂 So you will be OK if your nudist employee show up for work naked ? 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Brigitte619
@Brigitte619 Месяц назад
Wearing all this clothing is uncomfortable and oppressive.
@wanzahidin
@wanzahidin Месяц назад
Please... do not apply your personal opinion to all.
@darkshadow07186
@darkshadow07186 Месяц назад
If it's being forced which is usually done in most Muslim Countries. (They don't often physically force you to wear it but if they caught you not wearing it, they can accuse you of adultery & most of the time, the women have no power in court because an opinion of an adult man alone is 2× equal to that of an adult woman)
@Brigitte619
@Brigitte619 Месяц назад
@@darkshadow07186 A man can have secret “wives”, or even muta “marriage”, and that’s not adultery, but if a woman does not wear layers of clothing: it’s “adultery”.
@Brigitte619
@Brigitte619 Месяц назад
@@wanzahidin Have you tried it?
@tuinov6286
@tuinov6286 Месяц назад
​@@wanzahidin Please don't force your foolish culture on us. We are white. We are different. Go live in the midlle east.
@sorthaj
@sorthaj Месяц назад
Dear Mrs. Friendly Exmuslim, I love how you are not buying into the scam of "reverts."
@Brooklynlife1000
@Brooklynlife1000 Месяц назад
How can you hear anything with her like like like.
@sorthaj
@sorthaj Месяц назад
@@Brooklynlife1000 She always uses the term "convert" not the fake "revert."
@Brooklynlife1000
@Brooklynlife1000 Месяц назад
@@sorthaj I couldn't get past a couple of minutes of her talking. I don't know why you responded about reverting. I only hear "like, like, like" I clicked off.
@yomamasohot6411
@yomamasohot6411 Месяц назад
​@@Brooklynlife1000Im presuming you are from Brooklyn so that's pretty ironic. Its like an American staple at this point.
@Brooklynlife1000
@Brooklynlife1000 Месяц назад
​@@yomamasohot6411 It's the talk of people who want to sound like each other. I never speak like that, many Brooklyn people don't talk like that. The hipster implants talk that crap. Can't take these people seriously, it's not a stable.
@faryi1770
@faryi1770 Месяц назад
There is no need to wear all black and the niqab for hijab .
@greyngreyer5
@greyngreyer5 Месяц назад
I don't think that was the argument being made here
@bradzimmerman3171
@bradzimmerman3171 Месяц назад
Ridiculous look is an understatement and how can they bath themselves or have sex or anything
@sail4life
@sail4life Месяц назад
I think if I saw a diamond studded pink niqab I would suspect there was a man inside...
@WithoutliesShlimShlamdie-rc9ry
@WithoutliesShlimShlamdie-rc9ry Месяц назад
Here we have a momo follower trying to do taqiyya, tawriya, muruna and kitman.
@GrimSower
@GrimSower Месяц назад
you can say that only in non muslim countires and get away with it, or your daddy is rich and politically connected
@a_lucientes
@a_lucientes Месяц назад
Movies depict life, that often involves sex and nudity. People like that must have a terrible time in museums. (Michel Angelo's David stands 18' tall in all his glory lol)
@tantalize5795
@tantalize5795 Месяц назад
The producers of movies that involve nudity and sex scenes intentions are perverted. Nobody NEEDS to see the "adult" versions as the majority of us KNOW what is happening or going to happen in a scene as it happens. It's simply voyeurism for everyone filming, watching and "acting".
@SabrinaBelladonna
@SabrinaBelladonna Месяц назад
@@tantalize5795 That depends apparently on who is watching!!!! I do not feel like a creepy window watcher when for example watching the series Versailles!!!!!! And I´d rather see someone have sex, than someone killing people.
@tantalize5795
@tantalize5795 Месяц назад
@@SabrinaBelladonna Unless it's a sex internship, we don't learn anything from watching sex scenes and naked body parts. As I said: We don't NEED to have it in a movie. (Including graphic violence).😌 Sex is a very private intimate thing between a couple. However movies make it out like it's nothing - and it's intentional. That's all. That's it. 😉
@twittlypoo
@twittlypoo Месяц назад
It is up to the individual what they want to watch. I don't like football so I don't watch it and this goes for anything!
@tantalize5795
@tantalize5795 Месяц назад
@@twittlypoo I totally agree. However I specifically said "we don't NEED..." to watch as opposed to WANTING to.
@Amp1771
@Amp1771 Месяц назад
No whiteboard?
@miovicdina7706
@miovicdina7706 Месяц назад
She actually has a voice in their relationship, and in their country. Shocking. These corrupt Westerners...How can they? 😁 Jokes aside, they are a good team. As a healthy couple should be. No whiteboards, no gloves, no identity erasing, by wrapping them in black cloth.
@xydoit2024
@xydoit2024 Месяц назад
Ali Dawa married to a guy. This is why no one can heard his husband voice
@truecrimeallofthetime
@truecrimeallofthetime Месяц назад
​@miovicdina7706 Hi. I'm his wife and I just prefer to not appear in videos. We talk A LOT about these topics and I dont mind lending my voice, but I prefer to not appear. Maybe Ill bring a whiteboard next time for laughs. 😂
@ASMRyouVEGANyet
@ASMRyouVEGANyet Месяц назад
@@truecrimeallofthetime you have many options to show your laughter: Lol Lmao Hahaha Rotflmao And the use of emojis
@mr.bubleu8561
@mr.bubleu8561 Месяц назад
​@@xydoit2024 Lol 😂
@charlins.3380
@charlins.3380 Месяц назад
I would like to add my experience that Muslim men tend to look at women (me) in a different way. I live in Germany and I use saunas. Sauna in Germany means you have to have a towel on your seat and you are not allowed to wear any clothing. All humans in all ages together. It is a place where all people are the same, rich or poor all are there to sweat and relax. Nudity is nothing to worry about when everyone is naked. Only Muslim men seem to spend their time there giving the women angry looks for being naked. Most other men manage to keep their eyes somewhere else. It feels as if they use the "shame on you look" as an excuse for staring.
@FriendlyExmuslim
@FriendlyExmuslim Месяц назад
Interesting
@stephanechouinard5867
@stephanechouinard5867 Месяц назад
I’m from Canada and I have something to say on this topic. When I travelled in Europe this winter I hit every sauna I could. I love it. In certain countries ( Poland) were religion is strong you had to wear a bathing suit. But in Germany and Austria you went naked. As a Canadian we never go fully naked but we respected the culture and followed the rules. But we noticed religion was the deciding factor in how naked we would be in the sauna rooms. Funny
@infisoulsauce2631
@infisoulsauce2631 9 дней назад
it seems like they want to live in western countries but then also live in 14th century
@shanewilson2484
@shanewilson2484 Месяц назад
My husband and I are considering wearing burkas when in public because we both work out, are quite muscular, and we don't want other gay guys to get lustful thoughts when we are out in public. Lower your gaze dudes. 😆
@FriendlyExmuslim
@FriendlyExmuslim Месяц назад
😂
@MustAfaalik
@MustAfaalik Месяц назад
@@FriendlyExmuslim Glad to see you healthy & happy and with a wife perfect for you. BTW, keep up your meditation; it is said that when you pray, you are talkin to God, when you meditate you are listening to the Universe/God. May you and family be well & happy.🙏
@bradzimmerman3171
@bradzimmerman3171 Месяц назад
Shane get a life-seriously
@bradzimmerman3171
@bradzimmerman3171 Месяц назад
@@MustAfaaliklol,where did you get that info,that is silly absolutely hilarious
@MustAfaalik
@MustAfaalik Месяц назад
@@bradzimmerman3171 What info? Get real & try it, son!
@AbdulHannanAbdulMatheen
@AbdulHannanAbdulMatheen Месяц назад
👏🙂 Lol. I'm soo thankful my mom and dad were very open-minded and showed American movies & series since i was a kid which desensitized me to womens shoulders, elbows and ankles 🤣. I can't imagine being fearful of seeing womens skin everyday all the time while being a women. 17:00 great point
@tuinov6286
@tuinov6286 Месяц назад
Hey abdul you know what mohamed did when he saw women on the streets?😂
@lena-mariaglouis-charles7036
@lena-mariaglouis-charles7036 Месяц назад
The human body is a true work of art. With all due respect, this woman seems to be very insecure - while taking jealousy to a whole other level...
@bradzimmerman3171
@bradzimmerman3171 Месяц назад
Jealousy and abuse,why are they suffering so badly
@TheEgyptian99
@TheEgyptian99 Месяц назад
I am fasting: do not eat in front of me Don't dress like that : I'm not like others I can't control myself Do not criticize my religion or talk about it :, It hurt my feelings The babies of the planet aka Muslims
@josephturner7569
@josephturner7569 Месяц назад
I think the main problem is social immaturity. 😂 I live in a French naturist village. Naturists are more mature.
@followthewhiterabbit884
@followthewhiterabbit884 Месяц назад
Can you explain your Statement? What do you mean with "more mature"?
@followthewhiterabbit884
@followthewhiterabbit884 Месяц назад
Oh, and I am from germany. We have beaches just for naked people. True story.
@josephturner7569
@josephturner7569 Месяц назад
@@followthewhiterabbit884 We are not purile. We do not get over excited when using the mixed shower blocks for instance. Several years ago, I had to get an early train so was taking a shower at about 05h30. There was a Muslim employee, a contractor I think. He was showering while wearing his underwear. Alone. In a naturist village. CHM by the way. I have it on good authority that many women in Islamic countries, despite dressing appropriately, are constantly groped in markets and such. Convince me that that is a sign of maturity.
@josephturner7569
@josephturner7569 Месяц назад
@@followthewhiterabbit884 As for German naturist beaches, I am well aware. Ditto the parks. I have German friends here. I was going to say ours are warmer but it's bloody freezing at the moment 😂
@toomanymarys7355
@toomanymarys7355 Месяц назад
Keep in mind that slaves ubder Islam were supposed to be exposed so that the Muslim men would azzlt them and not Muslim women. This was abrogated by caliphs AFTER Umar.
@Earthling108
@Earthling108 28 дней назад
SICKKKKKK
@thehourglassfan3515
@thehourglassfan3515 29 дней назад
Wearing burqa full face veil and going to the gym and in public places defies the whole purpose.
@talksmoke1190
@talksmoke1190 Месяц назад
I find it strange when I see a nuslim family out and the father and boys are in t-shirts snd shorts and the mother and girls are in hijab and the long garment
@joelohberger3221
@joelohberger3221 Месяц назад
God forbid you need hospital care they strip you to treat you
@playinglifeoneasy9226
@playinglifeoneasy9226 Месяц назад
They cut your clothes right off. You are naked they need to see and work on everything.
@JunkieMonkey321
@JunkieMonkey321 Месяц назад
one thing ive never understood is: why cant muslim women just wear baggy pants, a hoodie, and a beanie? it hides the form, its comfy, it doesnt have to be thick material, and you dont stick out like a sore thumb. as for the couple in the original post, she just sounds incredibly insecure. probably has a fear of abandonment. probably feels like shes competing with these other women, all of which have the advantage of being "naked" in public... the husband could be the most pious, most modest man on earth and she would still feel insecure about it, so theres not much to do other than fix it from the inside.
@ASMRyouVEGANyet
@ASMRyouVEGANyet Месяц назад
I work with many Muslims and there's one woman who dresses how you describe. I never even thought she was Muslim until she told me
@dressagegirlkae
@dressagegirlkae Месяц назад
A sweatsuit and a beenie are perfectly acceptable hijab. However a lot of hijab women are scared to wear sweats like that for fear of looking masculine or queer because that is also socially unacceptable.
@ad_astra468
@ad_astra468 Месяц назад
Well there’s obviously a cultural element other than a scripture element also why would they not want to stick out as Muslims? Faith is not be something to be ashamed of, on the contrary it’s normal for people to wear something that indicates their faith a lot of Christians do it too by wearing a cross around the neck not because the scripture says to do so but just because it’s normal for humans to want to express part of themselves including their faith.
@tantalize5795
@tantalize5795 Месяц назад
​@@dressagegirlkae Not true. The Muslim females here basically wear whatever is trending - including figure-hugging clothing, sweats, hoodies, heavy make-up and botoxed. If it wasn't for the cloth covering their hair, nobody outside of Islam connections would know that they were muslim.
@Mira-gu6we
@Mira-gu6we Месяц назад
Why should she wear baggy western clothing? Why cant she wear modest clothing from her own culture?? Western clothing is quite ugly compared to the traditional garbs of most non white culture.
@rachelchong1529
@rachelchong1529 Месяц назад
I understand that it is the husband that expects his wife to wear the hijab. So it is not voluntary on the part of the women. If you ask any married Muslim woman who don’t wear the hijabs, the answer is always that the husband does not require her to do so. That’s my observations.
@MustAfaalik
@MustAfaalik Месяц назад
If that is the case, then you are saying that the man has absolute authority over the wife like chattels.
@darkshadow07186
@darkshadow07186 Месяц назад
​@@MustAfaalik just as most conservative households, the husband is the ruler of the house. We men are the leaders & the wives often submit. Which personally i don't see anything wrong with it as long as the woman is just genuinely that way out of love for her husband & not of fear of being abused or oppressed. Gladly in the 21st century, most of the time, we can easily call out of such domestic violences happening inside houses which limits the number of such cases.
@aleefmohammed244
@aleefmohammed244 Месяц назад
@@MustAfaalik There are western NON-MUSLIM women who still prefer a traditionally marriage dynamic. Just go on dating apps and there are women who wants to raise a family with a husband as a provider.
@MustAfaalik
@MustAfaalik Месяц назад
@@aleefmohammed244 That's their personal choice & no one else, just as how a person wishes to dress. It is not for ANYONE to pass judgement according to their culture or beliefs, but for the same person to be mindful of their own emotional response. Thus it is said, Judge not less you be judged. Just follow the the golden rule of not doing that which hurts you or others!
@MustAfaalik
@MustAfaalik Месяц назад
@@aleefmohammed244 True! But never as in Islamic narrative!
@noblestsavage1742
@noblestsavage1742 Месяц назад
here in the uk i see lots of women wearing hijab but also with lots of makeup and tight jeans. doesnt that just negate the point of the hijab in the first place? why bother with it?
@noblestsavage1742
@noblestsavage1742 Месяц назад
@@anonamous6278 ah, so they're probably not defenders of the hijab themselves then?
@anastasia10017
@anastasia10017 16 дней назад
I was at a food court recently and there was a group of muslim women wearing long face veils that came down to about their waists only their eyes showed. But they were trying to eat and they were doing all kinds of contortions to eat with the veil covering their face. It was so ridiculous. one of the women wanted to eat some big donut thing and she could not manage the food and keep the veil out of the way. so her friend/mom had to hold the veil up for her so she could shove the donut in her mouth. That was one of the stupidest things I had ever seen.
@anastasia10017
@anastasia10017 16 дней назад
at my parent's apartment they have a pool and there is a big pool rules sign that says you must wear a swimsuit if you want to go in the pool - no shorts, t shirt etc allowed.. some muslims moved in. A muslim woman came with her little kids to the pool and she was wearing full black cape/chador thing and a full veil. Her kids got in the pool and she got in the pool too wearing her full black veil + chador outfit and the lifeguard told her to get out of the pool. as you can imagine, it turned into a whole legal drama. It was kind of stupid too because with all that black fabric she was wearing, she could have drowned herself.
@whatever2206
@whatever2206 18 дней назад
May i explain you the actual problem here as an ex muslim and ex hijabi . Looks like her husband really looks at other women and she subconsciously wants to put her hijab off because she feels the inequality in this way too. He literally can admire other women and make her feel insecure and jealous but she cant catch eye of another man hence noone would look at her because of hijab. So she thinks its unjust because if other men could look at her as well , the situation would be more balanced and her husband would know her worth more.
@Beesknees567
@Beesknees567 Месяц назад
I spent 3yrs studying Islam then finally converted. I lasted 10 months and finally walking away. There are certain nuances about Islam that don’t come to light until you are on the inside.
@DC3Refom
@DC3Refom Месяц назад
haha lmaoo so you didn't study enough or look into the bad , opressive psrts too. 😂
@ninanina4324
@ninanina4324 Месяц назад
​@@DC3Refom Why? Have you read the Quran? Oppressive? Where in the Quran oppression is a requirement? Please do not mix up culture wirh religion. The religion is not what people make out of it. Islam requests mainly monotheism. Not more and not less.
@Lolibeth
@Lolibeth Месяц назад
@@ninanina4324 And where did that culture come from? If it's widespread across Islamic cultures, the common denominator is Islam.
@s13rr4buf3
@s13rr4buf3 28 дней назад
Congratulations on getting your freedom back, but I don't understand how you could have been mistaken in the first place about Islam. It's not like they hide what they think.
@marksayampanathan6517
@marksayampanathan6517 Месяц назад
She can wear a unitard to be fully covered. When we were in uni (in the US), my White Christian wife chose to wear a unitard to her dance classes on campus.
@ASMRyouVEGANyet
@ASMRyouVEGANyet Месяц назад
Why does it matter if she's white? 😂
@BrandiBAR
@BrandiBAR Месяц назад
@@ASMRyouVEGANyetTo help YOU understand where HE is coming from. Maybe to explain the situation from his POV.
@marksayampanathan6517
@marksayampanathan6517 Месяц назад
@@ASMRyouVEGANyet it matters that she is not of my culture or any religion requiring a dress code; it matters that she chose based on her own comfort level.
@BidchAssnikka-lu5lv
@BidchAssnikka-lu5lv Месяц назад
He mentioned White Christian Wife to tell White Christian Men, that he thinks he is more masculine than White Christian Men, hence that White Christian Womnn fell for him. That's simply an Insult to all White Men by his Ego. Thank God such marriages do not last long. When She realizes what nonsense and women hatred you believe and life she will drop out...
@dontknowwhattosay5402
@dontknowwhattosay5402 Месяц назад
Loving these videos with your wife!! It’s really nice to get a woman’s perspective on these issues ❤️
@wanderotter4667
@wanderotter4667 Месяц назад
I always say; the worst thing about a drug addiction is ending up born again christian/muslim.
@gaebi
@gaebi Месяц назад
There is a unique philosophical principle behind every religion. No two are the same. If they look the same, then you aren't looking deep enough
@ingriddaley
@ingriddaley Месяц назад
Please do not put Christianity in the same category as Islam. No way Christ forces anyone to do anything against their will.
@mortalwombat2001
@mortalwombat2001 Месяц назад
@@ingriddaley original christians were no better than muslims,
@ingriddaley
@ingriddaley Месяц назад
@@mortalwombat2001The original Christians were the disciples whom they all killed except one. John.
@WithoutliesShlimShlamdie-rc9ry
@WithoutliesShlimShlamdie-rc9ry Месяц назад
@@mortalwombat2001 If you mean the crusades, those were self defence.
@deepoole820
@deepoole820 19 дней назад
Don't bring restrictive practices to a free country.
@Anton-tf9iw
@Anton-tf9iw Месяц назад
Sex is an issue in any human group but nowhere except in Islam are men and women ruled so 100% differently.
@BLACK.ANGEL.
@BLACK.ANGEL. Месяц назад
Look at him acting as if he got married again, smh. Your ring and that AI voice can't fooI us! Jokes aside, congrats ❤
@FriendlyExmuslim
@FriendlyExmuslim Месяц назад
Haha thank you 🙏❤️
@Lexer584
@Lexer584 17 дней назад
Thank you so much, by chance I came across your channel. I am from Germany, teaching at a German school. Here we are confronted with a lot of refugees/ immigrants from Muslim countries like Afghanistan. I remember an Afghan couple coming to school talking to me as their son´s teacher. The couple, based on their lack to speak German, had an interpreter with them. My impression was that the wife who wore a black hijab, but her face was shown, looked aggressively at me, also her voice, when she spoke, sounded impolite and rude, impatient. I could see in her cold eyes that she hated me, a blonde, western, independent woman. I mus admit that I am frightened of these people who have not undergone a philosophical enhancement like enlightenment, have never dealt with thoughts of Immanuel Kant, Friedrich Schiller.
@zeeyanaphoenixbxxx6057
@zeeyanaphoenixbxxx6057 Месяц назад
makes sooo much sense!! what u guys chat abt , and makes my mornings whilst driving thru traffic, defintely less boring, time not wasted in da car! Thanks guys! fr having the braveness , to go through all this Infomation from the past, and its effect on our present lives, and to process and filter this infomation in the way that U doo ! sooo much appreciated! That U doo what others , cant! which is speak yr minds! despite da danger! If u must know ! All of U in da Ex muslim world , make me smile in my car! ❤ 🥰🤓Whilst listening to all yr voices! I think its amazing!
@NatsukiTakaama
@NatsukiTakaama Месяц назад
If mzlmz hate west. They should just leave.
@tuinov6286
@tuinov6286 Месяц назад
They will leave soon😂 even if they don't want to. Mass deportations in france and uk started..
@NatsukiTakaama
@NatsukiTakaama Месяц назад
@@tuinov6286 Great. That is so Great and Germany should also free itself from this rubbish.
@winxclubstellamusa
@winxclubstellamusa Месяц назад
Momo and Allah order to colonize and takeover the world! That’s why they want to change the west!!
@sail4life
@sail4life Месяц назад
@@tuinov6286 BS. Muslims are People first and foremost and should be treated the same as any other person. Illegal immigrants should be evaluated asap and sent back if appropriate, but never again this Nazi BS!
@spartan2748
@spartan2748 Месяц назад
They're in free countries to spread brain ☪️ancer.
@catherinehoward8128
@catherinehoward8128 Месяц назад
I really like your wife involved with your RU-vids! I hope she keeps it up. I'm a bit confused. What exactly is fitnah? Is it not dressing appropriately and looking, which could lead to desiring? I'm confused because I'm coming from a Christian background. Looking at a woman with lu st is the sin. It's not necessary what a woman wears, it's not simply looking at a woman (or man), it's not admiring that person's beauty. The sin is de grading that person to be only a sxul object to be used. I run and sometimes I see men and women and think how nice their bodies look and how much effort they put into their physical goals. That's not sinful. When I run, I thank and praise God for giving me such a wonderful body and heart. That's another question. There seems to be so much shame in the human body. Why? It's so different and a bit bizarre.
@truecrimeallofthetime
@truecrimeallofthetime Месяц назад
Hi! I'm Abdullahs wife. Fitnah is a word for a trial or temptation. Saying that women in the workplace, gym, etc is like a temptation or trial for Muslim men. As for why the human body is shameful, that all goes back to the Islamic sources saying it is.
@tantalize5795
@tantalize5795 Месяц назад
"Showing off" is vanity, pride and boastful of oneself. It's natural to lust over someone physically desirable or attractive. The less clothing or the tighter the fitting, usually the more "attractive" the person becomes in the eyes of the watcher. Modesty is key. Not this ridiculous tent-wearing statement of Islam.
@balumeikle8667
@balumeikle8667 Месяц назад
@@tantalize5795modesty is not the key psychologically speaking. abusers and weirdos can sexualise feet, collar bones or some even sexualise the dead.
@tantalize5795
@tantalize5795 Месяц назад
@@balumeikle8667 Absolutely. However those things you mentioned are fetishes that are usually kept behind closed doors - literally. I was referring to clothing in general or lack of ie. in private or out in public. Thus why and how modesty absolutely plays a major part in carnal desires of both sexes. 🙂
@balumeikle8667
@balumeikle8667 Месяц назад
@@tantalize5795 some of the most modest places have the highest rape rates. it doesn’t stop anything. people just make modesty an excuse mostly to victim blame mostly women and dissolve men of responsibility for their actions
@collyernicholasjohn
@collyernicholasjohn Месяц назад
“Born again” syndrome. Got to prove your devoted
@jam20230
@jam20230 Месяц назад
What a wonderful educational video ! You and your lovely wife brought up so many good points ! And you analyzed the situation and mental state of these people accurately. Its a video worth sharing. We love these videos, wise words and just amazing. Sending much love to you and your wife. ❤
@bensweiss
@bensweiss Месяц назад
Enjoyable and educational collab, thanks.
@7Jasmine8
@7Jasmine8 Месяц назад
Pleasee review more muslim marriage posts and muslim tiktok... Muslim tiktok has so much hate towards other women and even some men for being "Dayyoths". We can see how Islam really affects young minds through these apps
@tuinov6286
@tuinov6286 Месяц назад
They have to hate, its their fake god's command. The only thing you can do is vote for right wingers and they will make islam illegal..
@goldie862
@goldie862 Месяц назад
That's not the worst of it by far. In the most extreme countries, they LITERALLY have cartoons (for kids of four and five; I'm not talking about adult animated sitcoms) where the cartoon characters are reinforcing their hate for Jews and the language would make your hair stand on end.
@markoz673bajen8
@markoz673bajen8 Месяц назад
Nika App
@jafligor9274
@jafligor9274 Месяц назад
That religion teaches its adherents to hate.
@amethyst4990
@amethyst4990 Месяц назад
This woman should focus on making herself more secure in herself and increase her beauty on the inside and outside. It will be good for her to eat healthy and do exercises to feel confident to be her best self. Don't worry about others or compare just be the best you can be.
@BidchAssnikka-lu5lv
@BidchAssnikka-lu5lv Месяц назад
She knows he can have mlre women therfore she freaks out
@whatever2206
@whatever2206 18 дней назад
Its impossible to not feel insecure with a hijab.
@markpickett4403
@markpickett4403 10 дней назад
This is the first time ive seen this program im a subscriber now.
@nungsa5124
@nungsa5124 12 дней назад
I love ex muslims who knows the truth of the koran.
@TechnoMagi-h4r
@TechnoMagi-h4r Месяц назад
Sorry I can't do that it's against my Religion..Ok I can live with that... You Can't do that it's against my Religion..Sorry no way ..
@nssratchet
@nssratchet Месяц назад
Nice to have you join the video Ma'am. 😊
@LiberatedNotes
@LiberatedNotes Месяц назад
I love how you both bring up the most intricate issues that comes with Islam and in general the modesty culture. These small things though it effects woman everywhere and everyday, yet no one talks about it Thank you for this 😊
@georgesand1160
@georgesand1160 Месяц назад
It is not about showing flesh it must be something else I don't really understand...Once, waiting for the subway I was wearing a ballgown and on top of that a wintercoat. Now these two things show no skin at all. I was obviously an eyecatcher in that fairytale dress but surely I wasn't sexy. A muslim couple showed up. He, walking in front of her, she, covered up from head to toe. When he took a climpse towards me, or more likely to my unusual dress, she started to attack me yelling something I didn't understand. If there wasn't her husband to hold her back, she would have beaten me up.
@julieponce3345
@julieponce3345 Месяц назад
It´s nice to see how much in love you are with your wife. Beautiful
@anastasia10017
@anastasia10017 16 дней назад
I was at the beach and a muslim family came and sat down on the sand. mom, dad, 2 teenage daughters and a son about 12 years old. The mom basically wore 15 layers of clothes and a hijab. the 2 teen girls wore basically wet suits and a hijab and I think they had on shorts on top of the wet suits. So the the girls were completely covered except for their hands and feet. The father and the son wore normal swimsuits and could enjoy the sun on their skin. I felt so sorry for the girls. How is this fair to the girls ? Here they were on the beach, where you are supposed to enjoy feeling the warmth of the sun on your skin, to enjoy feeling the ocean breeze blow through your hair and caress your body and only their father and brother have that privilege. What does this serve other than the the men exerting control over what women can wear and what women can do ?? How is this fair ?
@annannan97865
@annannan97865 17 дней назад
imagine the culture shock when they die and see women walking naked in heaven
@Fumi007
@Fumi007 Месяц назад
19:44 exactly. When I wore hijab, I always felt like I was wearing it for men even though I lied and say it was because of my faith. But you're literally covering up because an unrelated male is present. What does that have to do with God?
@FriendlyExmuslim
@FriendlyExmuslim Месяц назад
👆
@1414141x
@1414141x Месяц назад
Hi guys. I found this video you have done very interesting. I am a white atheist and live in England. I live in a small city called Gloucester, and live in a very ethnically mixed area - a mix of English white people, Romanians, Albanians, Indians, people from all over the world. I enjoy this but there is a lot of theft and violence due to poverty in the main. There is a high concentration of Muslims as well - there are at least 5 places of worship within half a mile of my house. So there a lot of people going back and forth to pray and also a lot of females wearing hijab, niqab and burkahs. It does upset me that woman are in many cases made to wear these garments. For younger woman in a mainly western society it must cause conflicts within them. I go to a local gym and you occassionally have Muslim girls coming to the gym and they still dress modestly as much as possible. This is a problem artifically made by the religion and it is a male problem, not a female problem. Men will always be attracted to looking at women - it is a perfectly natural thing. If there was no attraction there would be no relationships and hence no babies ! I also wonder if female Muslims who are not attractive feel that the niqab is a blessing as they don't have to feel they are competing as they all look pretty much the same. Religion has a few positive points - but in the main I think it is far more negative than positive. The lThady you discussed obviously is very insecure and some women do get very jealous and give their partners a hard time if they naturally look at another attractive female ! The 'fitnah' thing seems to do very well at messing up both girls and boys. I enjoy looking at attractive females who have nice bodies and firm breasts, and there are plenty of those walking around the centre of town. It's a perfectly normal thing for a hetero male to like. I don't feel the desire to rape them.
@Didleeios88
@Didleeios88 13 дней назад
I come from a religious background which highly values modesty. In my culture men absolutely do not go to movies, beach, pool, gym, or any public place where they expect to see women dressed scantily. If they did, they would be condemned, not the women. Its about taking responsibility for what you can or can't handle instead of controlling everyone else. The double standard here is nauseating. Etheir a man can see immodesty dressed women or he can't. Why would a man make his wife dress modestly and then go to a place where he sees women who are not?!?! This is shocking hypocrisy!
@jessicacox2005
@jessicacox2005 Месяц назад
Thank you for sharing your unique perspective. I also enjoyed reading everyone else's comments here. I am coming from a non. Religious background, but interestingly, I feel that I was raised to be pretty modest. There is a particular episode as a child that I can remember. I wanted some pretty sandals, and my mom and aunt accused me of trying to be "sexy". I didn't even know what that meant at the time, but I was made to feel shamed. That really stuck with me and made me want to hide as I grew into a woman. I have really struggled to understand this behavior.
@diabloakland
@diabloakland Месяц назад
So her husband is the problem lmfao!!!!He watches porn and then complains about other women bc he wants to deflect blame. He is probably still watching porn. He wants someone to carry the burden of his blame.
@notuxnobux
@notuxnobux Месяц назад
full nudity is more common in European shows and even in news reports.
@teegee3214
@teegee3214 7 дней назад
As a mother,… I understand how important my presence is to my children when we are out socially or in public. When I collect from school or events,… when they see me their faces light up literally with joy. As much as seeing their faces is a strong emotion for me. It’s nature and natural. I am not a Muslim woman so I won’t comment on the morality of covering up to prevent “temptation of men”…. But as a mother, being seen is so important. Eye contact, facial expressions. It’s such an important part of family life. And connection. I would feel ashamed to be that woman you described sitting poolside and ignored and not participating in the pool with my children. I imagine THEy would not have much respect for their mother
@markpickett4403
@markpickett4403 10 дней назад
The rules in this religion is absolutely crazy.
@dressagegirlkae
@dressagegirlkae Месяц назад
Maybe this woman lives in the south of France? But I thought they didn’t even wear bikinis there. In all seriousness I love how personal hijab becomes to people, but what is wrong with adapting it to your environment like they do in Central Asia or India. Wear lighter layers, don’t die in the heat.
@tiryaclearsong421
@tiryaclearsong421 Месяц назад
It would make sense in Miami.
@AliceArnaud-zs8sq
@AliceArnaud-zs8sq Месяц назад
In the south of France women wear bikinis and remove the top part to tan laying down. They would put it back on to go swimming or walking around on the beach
@ashbee468
@ashbee468 Месяц назад
Okay I’m an American black woman and I agree with her to an extent. I personally believe that we have become so desensitized to sex in the West that it’s right in our faces and we don’t even see it anymore . live in a pretty conservative area so I don’t see it much here, but if I go to places like New Orleans or Baton Rouge, women dressing half naked is common. And tv shows, music , and movies are definitely a lot more risqué than 20 years ago. You really had to go looking for those things as a kid to find it and you had to sneak it. Now it’s available everywhere. Now I completely understand that she thinks anything other than a hijab is inappropriate, and I also understand the reasoning why. And I want to be clear, just because you dress a certain way as a woman, it is never an invitation for SA. However I think it can also be said that it’s not necessarily good for a society to be overly sexualized also. American women have been pushing the boundaries since the 1920’s, which is fine, but I personally think we can reel it back in a little. And it really has nothing to do with men at this point . I think it’s more so for our own mental benefit. As women we constantly compare ourselves to other women. We compare ourselves to what we look like on Instagram filters and want plastic surgery but it’s still never enough. I’m not saying doing it the Muslim way is the answer, because I don’t believe that it is. But I do wish we could be happy without so many enhancements and such reviling clothes.
@WildImgination
@WildImgination Месяц назад
I agree with you! Not to mention the pedo s*x rings you hear about on the news, ‘me too’ movement, harassment etc 💔.
@christelwilk6166
@christelwilk6166 Месяц назад
@ashbee468 I could agree more with you. Well said !
@lc4n333
@lc4n333 Месяц назад
If you learn historical women's clothing you will see the historical corsets are not what all these days feminists craze about. They're supposed to be made for every unique woman's body just like how clothes in general used to be. They're comfortable, functional, and adjustable to follow the trends with padding to shape the body's silhoutte. No needs for surgery for that Kardashian looks because public won't see women's actual body. These are the great values of historical clothings; function, comfort, beauty, and modesty.
@Lolibeth
@Lolibeth Месяц назад
@@lc4n333 Lol no, most corsets were industrially made in factories. You're confusing the custom clothing of wealthy women with the everyday experiences of ordinary people. Most people, historically, did not wear custom clothing carefully fitted to their body. They wore second-hand garments or loose-fitting generic ones or if they were made to order, they were less skillfully fit. Corsetry is not a woman-loving garment. It is no different than the diet industry or shapewear. It says that there is something inherently wrong with the body, it moralizes it, and it says it should be an ever-changing 'fashionable' shape.
@lc4n333
@lc4n333 Месяц назад
​@@Lolibeth no, custom made clothes were worn by all class even after industrialization and sewing machine invention. Yes some pieces or element of clothing were mass-produced but the whole outfit were mainly made for every person's measurement. Yes secondhand clothes were worn but after alteration if there were size differences. The upper class wore more expensive materials like finer wool, silk, fine linen, added decoration like embroidery and jewelries, etc. Yes, modern corsets are mass-produced and won't fit for every type of women's body but proper historical corsets with proper materials and construction and sizing will be comfortable and functional. Learn more about historical clothings.
@gerganakoleva4137
@gerganakoleva4137 Месяц назад
It is so sad that religions try to control the thing that cannot be controlled - what is happening in a person's head. Even if her husband is surrounded by fully covered "hidgabed" women, he is a real human being, he can and will fantasize. We (as human beings) should not be shamed or punished for our thoughts, as long as they do not turn into actions. Even if a person feels certain desires, the fact that he can dismiss them is the important one. I hope in time Islam, the same way as Christianity, will lower the expectations towards his followers, as those expectations create so much suffering.
@Eltanin25
@Eltanin25 7 дней назад
As for the veiled woman in the gym video. I remember, when I was a kid a was doing some fencing, how we were complaining about main events being in summer and us needing to wear all those layers (and girls one more than boys). But at fencing event, you could do a warming up in t-shirt and take off the mask and even your vest in between matches. Working out in that woman's outfit has to be terrible, not to mention - does she change to exercise outfit or does she work out in the same as she walks outside?
@Jozyrose
@Jozyrose 24 дня назад
There is a solution for this. If you want to live in the Western world and still maintain your values of avoiding temptation, I suggest you find a good surgeon and donate your eyes for the needy. You will be doing humanitarian work and getting VIP tickets to see Allah.
@joannemaxwell1639
@joannemaxwell1639 16 дней назад
Well said 👏
@efties.a.5183
@efties.a.5183 Месяц назад
In the west, we grow up with a kind of innocence when it comes to the human body. We don't see the human body as something related to the act of procreation 24/7. It's a kind of childlike innocence, I suppose, at least most of the time.
@tantalize5795
@tantalize5795 Месяц назад
It's NORMALISED in the West according to the climate and the culture one is accustomed to. For example, another comment mentioned Brazil and other Latin American countries where g-strings on the beach is nothing. Keep in mind, Brazil and many Westerners in general live a hedonistic lifestyle. Clothing accentuating any adults privates is not "innocent". 🙄
@efties.a.5183
@efties.a.5183 Месяц назад
@@tantalize5795 I beg to differ! I live in a predominantly Christian society and to imply we're all hedonistic because the only exposure to the west you seem to have had is possibly via social media, the movies etc is really funny. Conversely, should the "westerners" you are in contact with all be crass and hedonistic, I respectfully suggest that perhaps you need to change the circles you mix in and the places you frequent. Most of us in the West are modest, family oriented people and we don't think about males/females and the covering/uncovering of genitalia all day long! 😂 There is a sea of more important topics we're concerned with, such as serving God as He so individually directs us, making a living, serving our societies, etc etc... I hope this provides some more accurate info than what you're exposed to online.
@tantalize5795
@tantalize5795 Месяц назад
@@efties.a.5183 "In general" is what I stated. 🙄
@efties.a.5183
@efties.a.5183 Месяц назад
@@tantalize5795Ok, if that's what you meant (I don't see "in general"). Also, perhaps you meant "in general" in the media, online and in tourist spots, which in total represents a tiny, tiny percentage of the actual population - this also depends on the city and suburb one visits I'm just stating how it is for the unseen millions, getting on with their lives, behind the scenes, in the West. They're modest, hardworking and not too fussed if people they pass by are lightly dressed - like kids, we don't routinely see the body as relating to "s*xual" matters - but of course we disapprove of folk who deliberately dress provocatively! Let's all try to regain our childlike innocence about the human body! In fact, the Bible states that the first humans were naked and not ashamed (in Genesis). Once the first humans had tasted of "the knowledge of good and evil", the first thing they did was scamper to find stuff to cover their bodies with! So let's get back to times of innocence, for those of us who can! Have a lovely day. I see your point, but want to present us as we (the majority) really are!
@Shaurobi
@Shaurobi Месяц назад
Thank for putting this information out there. Much appreciated. I do have a question, and please forgive my ignorance and I have no intent to offend, just to learn - why does Mrs. Friendly Exmuslim not appear on the video? I’d rather hear the answer directly from some one in the know. Thank you. Many blessings
@FriendlyExmuslim
@FriendlyExmuslim Месяц назад
For her own privacy and safety. 🙏
@headpump
@headpump Месяц назад
Western culture and Muslim culture are not compatible. There is always tension.
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