If you can get pass the first month, you are home free and really free. This is when you realize that you have really made the right choice. One can become addicted to a person just like a drug. Kick the habit. Good points Mercy. Thank you so much.❤🙏💐
Wow sis, I’m going through it still, some days I’m happy and some days I’m sad. My kids are sick of me talking about him as every example or scenario I see is him 🤦🏽♀️. I saw his car parked at the shopping mall ones and I left and went to a different mall and my kids were shocked I did that. Explained to them I didn’t want to get triggered by even the site of him. Thank you for the ray of sunshine sis, it gets better 😅.
I avoid going places I know the narcissist will be in the state I live he won't hear or see me at all then again they like to stalk wouldn't know if he is doing that and I don't care no contact
When I made up mind that enough was enough. I was done. I was honest with myself, and that pain in me was, at the time, crucial. But I made up in my mind in spite of my feelings and went through it. A made-up mind will override those feelings and pull you through. No, it wasn't easy, but because I made up my mind and wasn't led by my feelings 4yrs noontact. And I'm better than what I was before I met him. Healing hurts as you get better. There is a better you than the version you know on the other side of this. Trust the process
No one in my circle will ever understand, they think because I don't talk about him that I'm healed..... that's so far from the truth, so I'm all alone in this and sometimes it's still hard as hell! 3 months now but it's getting better💪♥
It’s how it works why would you want to talk to evil beings. I used to be on drugs that was hell in itself. Although I made it the hell with him he was evil 😈. Just using me too put money in his pocket . Just wish people would stop trying make these people God. They are not we are stronger than we think.
I ran across two they second one personally tore if down purposely. I knew all the buttons too push them weak insecure childish being. People take your power back.