What The Covert Narcissist Needs From You 

Do you really think karma gets those bastards? I’ve seen narcs do unbelievable dirty shit to people over long periods of time and benefit and gain and get ahead doing their dirty work. I doubt karma really exists. Scums benefit and get ahead with their bs. Where’s the karma at?

@@luxurylifestyle2510 Yes totally. Couldn't agree more....my take on karma is it's actually our conscience. If you think you've done wrong you actually punish yourself, so I don't think karma exists as an external force. Have seen cruel, psychopathic people get away with everything... because they don't feel guilty. They're proud of their crimes against humanity.

@@xenajade6264 Whoso rewardeth evil for good, evil shall not depart their house. Proverbs 17:13

@@luxurylifestyle2510 stay tuned!

Dont count on that .. they triangulate your sibling then your kids. Liars … it’s sad . But it just gets worse

@@luxurylifestyle2510 they don't care. You have to ignore them.

@@kevinjanghj So ignoring them and pretending like they don’t exist and cutting them out of your life is what hurts them the most? Is this what roasts them the most? Why does ignoring them and cutting them off hurt them so much?

@@luxurylifestyle2510 narcissists need attention

@@kevinjanghj So this is why ignoring them hurts them so much? Is attention like their main motivation for the crap they pull or part of it?

@@luxurylifestyle2510 they get a high off attention. But the true self to a narc is often very dark and pathetic. You won't be able to see them in that truest element of their true self, unless they are at absolute rock bottom, such as impending death, destitution, or terminal illness, so I never recommend speculating on the range of motivations behind their malignant actions.

Is that your picture?

That’s their plan!

shelley hansen : That's some good approach or response to their asses. If it works, do it.👍

shelley hansen Or tell a lie about them in front of them then laugh. I say things like “He can’t even swim”. He goes nuts. Then I say “Well he can’t swim well. Never could”. Never to him but about him & in his presence. Make a narc the butt of a joke. They can’t take it.

@@perdidoatlantic The Narcissist that you have done that to surely deserved it. You have guts. That's when you/we really cannot stand them. Am I right?

shelly hansen: You have guts ! After a while we can't stand them. And they are not reasoning in the fact of what they dish out. They lack self awareness big time. They only look at what's in front of them and it's just like a viscous circle and they point the finger. Did you ever realize they cannot grow as a person? No growth whatsoever and nothing to give only torment. That's what I know and realizing myself they can't be anything good just a child inside a man and it disgusts me still. I will get to where you are and I will like it.👍

N D It’s my brother. He can’t hide from me. I tell everyone what he is. He does things like files false reports to the police about people. Pretends to be other people to scam money. He’s the worst.

*Christ said it best...Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness? ~ 2 Corinthians 6:14.*

@@hepzibahbeulah8961 please explain what you wrotein simple words ..im curious

Reply: "Everyone has his own experience" :) See more power phrases in Nazare-Aga's "Emotional Terror".

Smart move😀. Planning ahead is important.💞 As always you are very welcome. God bless you too💐

@@ExposingtheNarcissist I'm praying that I will be divorced from him by Valentine's Day! I don't want to date, just free from him so I can breathe! 🙌🙌🙌🙌

Lock him out of your computer. Make his life utter hell in a million different ways. Covertly of course. Have an reasonable excuse for every thing.

@@miladydewinter8551, You've missed the point, dear. She doesn't want to take on the traits of her narcisist. Rather, she wants to be freed from those traits of control, covert manipulation, and lack of empathy. They are simply not the type of persuits that float her boat.

marshalllhiepler Blocking the Narcissist from doing you harm is not taking on the traits of a Narcissist. Nor is making sure that you are not disrespected in your own home with the use of your own things. This is called enforcing personal boundaries which are what every Narcissist violates. When there are strong personal boundaries in place the Narc generally goes in search of easier prey.

They are afraid you see the darkness in their soul.

@@ExposingtheNarcissist EXACTLY.MY EX FNARC IS MANAGING THE OFFICE OF THE LODGE I RENT MY HOUSE FROM.I WENT N/C 3 WEEKS AGO.WENT TO GET MY MAIL,SHE HID THE WINDOWS TO HER SOUL.COULDN'T EVEN LOOK AT ME.SHE KNOWS I TRUST GAS STATION SUSHI WAAAAAY MORE THAN HER,OR TOILET WATER,OR KILLARY KILLINTON...NUFF SAID.

@Eric King , O.k., o.k. ... I get it. She's an evil narc. But, why are you yelling at us?

@@marshalllhiepler WHY DOES EVERY SNOWFLAKE THAT SEES CAPS GET TRIGGERED&CLAIM I'M YELLING?🤔I'VE BEEN TYPING LIKE THIS FOR DECADES.CALM AS CAN BE.JUST MY STYLE.

@@ericking4072, Has it occurred to you, during those decades, that people associate all-caps with yelling? Moreover, has it occurred to you that ... of all those people that have shared their interpretation of all-caps communication for multiple decades and counting ... the one interpretation that is skewed, is your own? Here's a thought: If you feel you must respond to this reply (and I believe you will) try a different approach to life, and respond without all-caps, and note the effect that this imparts. Betcha can't do it. 😜

Bingo.

@@elpacho....9254 Cheers

@@casperinsight3524 you hit the nail right on the head.

You are very welcome! Yes they all seem like one in the same.

They are all the same bots everywhere, super superficial and they have no substance to add to your life.

Yes and they abuse it.

*And no marvel; for satan himself is transformed into an angel of light. Therefore it is no great thing if his ministers also be transformed as the ministers of righteousness; whose end shall be according to their works ~ 2 Corinthians 11:14-15.*

@@hepzibahbeulah8961 Yeah, I know that now 💔

Discernment is very important. Peace and blessings!💞

Cindy Ann: You got that right! Me also!!!

Cindy Ann: They are nutso

Yep!

What is decernment?

We were all fools at one point to believe these people but you can't keep blaming yourself. Please check out my latest vid ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-E8GxKJpb4ho.html

You aren't a fool !!! You are a good trusting person!! They are evil !! Know that you are good !! And never stop growing 💗

You are very welcome! I try my best to express what I've experienced so I'm glad to know that you think so.💖

Red Plum: Those assh-les call everyone out that catches on. That is not your problem cause they are now afraid like in the old movies the reaction Dracula has when he can't take the sun in his eyes, face. You are on the right track keep pushing that one out the door..

Stand your ground! I pray the Most High gives you wisdom and keep you and your family safe.

That's WHY Evil Not Dealt With Here Properly...Worried About Hell Somewhere Else Instead Of Here. Narcs Making That Way. But They Living Heaven Here.

That's fine. Thanks for sharing!💖

I See WHY They Find A LOT Of Victims In Theses Churches...Lies Mixed With A Little Truth. TOXIC Kool Aid ....What A Way To Pimp People.

@@valerieriggins3184 I agree

@@ExposingtheNarcissist I should have put it this way; I don't believe they have to believe their own lies to do harm and inflict abuse. Some may believe their own lies but are you saying all Coverts do?

@@ExposingtheNarcissist Thank you too but I didn't put the beginning the right way. I meant: I don't believe all Coverts believe their own lies. As they are pathological liars they will lie about the smallest things. In the past ater kissing my husband before he went to work I asked "did you brush your teeth?" And he said yes but I knew he was lying. You see?

😊knowing what I know now it will be very difficult for me to enter the dating scene again. Trust being a major factor. Good question though! Thanks for watching💞☺

The main characteristic of all narcisists is the absence of true empathy in their character, and thus, in their interactions with others. This is the big "red flag" that the narcisist hides behind their back, whenever interacting with others. As empaths, we feel "guilty" when we think to question the claims of the narcisist. Thus, when they are telling us that they are "holding a beautiful white flag behind their back" we deem it impolite to ask to "see the white flag" and choose to take their word for it. Thus, considerable time often transpires before we become aware of the red flag. Solution: A wise man once said: "The definition of insanity, is repeating the same behavior, while expecting a different result." Whenever you meet new people, be on the "lookout" for the red flags that formerly popped up in past "crash and burn" relationships. Take the time to ask questions. Don't regard it as impolite to seek more information from those who "need something from you". Most importantly, take careful note of how new people interact with others. The narc will never offer money, resources, or help to others, unless there is a clear gain for them by doing so. The narc always engages in interactions that lead to "getting the long end of the stick". Otherwise, they can't be bothered to actually offer help to others, and their response is limited to a display of feigned concern, followed by a change of subject. Your "defense" for being "reeled in" by a narcisist, lies in paying close attention to the details offered to you ... and, asking direct questions for the details that aren't. Remember ... the honest person does not mind giving further details about things that they have already told you. Whereas, the deceiver loathes questions that they have not spent time preparing for.

You are not the crazy one they are! I'm glad you know now what you are dealing with and I pray your healing is swift💖. Please be sure to tune in for my video coming out later today as it relates to breaking up with a narc.

It all comes down to your motives at the end of the day. If you don't have any mal intentions of wanting people to trust you then sounds like you have a bit of codependency going on; seeking validation from others. Narcissists can make us this way as well, where we become insecure and constantly seeking approval.

Narcissists present a fake-self to get others to like and trust them. Are you being fake? (You don't have to answer it is just something to think about).

exposure is what destroys them. being exposed for what they really are behind the mask. they run like bugs under a rock that has been lifted up

*And no marvel; for satan himself is transformed into an angel of light. Therefore it is no great thing if his ministers also be transformed as the ministers of righteousness; whose end shall be according to their works ~ 2 Corinthians 11:14-15.*

I have done 2. Please see them here: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-EvPSLQO4jGU.html and ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-SLAkOS0zj4M.html

Relocate if possible.

@@ExposingtheNarcissist that's what they want me to do ..then track me there, and pass me on to other narcs..

You need to go outside of their jurisdiction where they have no influence if possible. Are you in America?

@@ExposingtheNarcissist yes good ole USA I've been under seige for about 7 years now..but one of the ( big shots ) finally taking notice..but they all still do petty tourcher ( carefully not to get caught) ongoing..but God See's..I believe he protect me.. because they would have destroyed me by now..

@@ExposingtheNarcissist My narc endeavors to find out who my friends are and who my social circle is, then endeavors to infiltrate it behind my back and turn my friends, associates into flying monkeys. At what point can I claim stalking? Done this repeatedly to me. Any advice?

Thank you!💞

You can call me Ray, or you can call me Jay, but, just don't call me Later For Dinner.

Michael...get over yourself. The English language is made to be complicated ~ so they can manipulate the world on a play of words. It’s the spirit behind everything...not the pronunciation....period.