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The OnlyFans Model who became a Killer... | The Case of Courtney Clenney 

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Fame, fortune, and success... Courtney Clenney had it all. But after years of terrible behaviour, one fateful evening would leave Courtney behind bars and her partner Christian Obumseli dead. And a mountain of evidence left behind painted a very concerning picture...
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00:00 Intro
01:35 Miami
02:39 The Growth of Courtney Clenney
05:56 Christian "Toby" Obsumseli
07:26 A Crumbling relationship...
08:29 July 2021, BODYCAM FOOTAGE
11:00 Moving to Miami
12:30 WE IN MIAMI PODCAST
13:12 Amplified behaviour...
14:50 Heartbroken messages left behind
16:50 More disputes...
18:38 BODYCAM FOOTAGE
22:59 911 CALL
24:12 April 3rd 2022
25:25 INTERROGATION FOOTAGE Pt. 1
26:53 Courtney's story
28:33 INTERROGATION FOOTAGE Pt. 2
33:31 Aftermath, and let go...
37:02 Arrested...
38:17 Medical Examiner's Observations
40:02 Other media
41:20 Legal proceedings...
42:58 Wrapping up, remembering Christian...
44:27 Outro
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@CoffeehouseCrime
@CoffeehouseCrime Год назад
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@muhammadsalafiahlulhadith
@muhammadsalafiahlulhadith Год назад
She should be jailed for life with no parole
@kaylafort1111
@kaylafort1111 Год назад
Love the longer videos! Please do more
@prestonporter7866
@prestonporter7866 Год назад
Love it!
@phoogoo
@phoogoo Год назад
I think the videos should be as long as they need to be to accurately tell the story, pay respect to the victims. I don't see any need to arbitrarily try and keep the videos to a standard ~30 minute length. Great work, Adrian!
@susanyoung5447
@susanyoung5447 Год назад
I agree with all of these people. As I said in my comment, I get mesmerized listening to your voice and watching the video. Please use as much time as necessary to properly (and respectfully) give us the complete crime story. Thank you again, Adrian.
@Fairygodmoda
@Fairygodmoda Год назад
My brother was married to a woman like that and one night while she was asleep he took his important documents and his car keys and drove for over 20hours and never looked back
@kianeko2120
@kianeko2120 Год назад
So glad he got out of that situation safely!!
@treehugger3615
@treehugger3615 Год назад
She could call the police and report him missing. But I guess even if they do track him down, she can't do anything, he's a free man and he is free to go anywhere he wants.
@kianeko2120
@kianeko2120 Год назад
@@treehugger3615 Yeah, she can try to do that, but in the end if he doesn't want to go back they can't force him ^-^ I'm just so glad he was able to safely get away.
@jhingbangayan762
@jhingbangayan762 Год назад
Im glad your brother got away
@annabambus6572
@annabambus6572 Год назад
Deeply wish he would share his story to help so many men ashamed and so fearful of running away. Or still blinded and confused by the love bombing in the beginning or in between. Or blindsided at every turn. The testimonies of others really helps, and so much too once the individual has managed to get out. Men suffering from DV and SA need a platform on social media. I sincerely wish I had the time. That could be a project when I retire or leave teaching Junior High.
@annetteallen5171
@annetteallen5171 Год назад
She ain't crying because she's sorry he's gone. She's crying because her life is done.
@gladiammgtow4092
@gladiammgtow4092 Год назад
Women...
@AshNikkosWife
@AshNikkosWife Год назад
@@gladiammgtow4092 … be so fr rn. Not every woman, as a matter of fact I’d argue MOST are not like that lol.
@cosmancho2959
@cosmancho2959 Год назад
@@bikebmc226 Those 16 are more than enough to destroy her narcissist life.She losses the best years in terms of looks for her.Thats a huge blow for a narcissist.
@aloeglow2066
@aloeglow2066 Год назад
Exactly. This story made me sick. Just because of money, she turned into an arrogant monster. I hope she rots in jail for taking an innocent man's life. Its unfortunate that domestic violence against men is overseen. May his soul rest in peace 🙏
@djdusted6485
@djdusted6485 Год назад
@@AshNikkosWife whilst you're right, it is the same attitude as when people use phrases like "r@pe culture". All men get accused of every injustice that a woman might receive. Then when a man says well its not all men it falls on deaf ears and women are trained to believe all men are dangerous. What I'm saying is, I hope you stand up against the comments like this either way?
@GentleHeart25
@GentleHeart25 2 месяца назад
Hearing him saying he was going to die and the fact she waited so long to call 911 makes her guilty in my eyes.
@BrianWarren-hl6pv
@BrianWarren-hl6pv 2 месяца назад
Yeah this is what happens when you treat a woman like a queen, the situation would've been different if he had treated her like a Dog she would have loved the ground he walked on, trying to show him she's Worthy of being loved,.... it's sad but it's true.
@CarmendeliaManso
@CarmendeliaManso 2 месяца назад
Abso freakin lutly!!!!!!!😢
@camilla_films_stuff
@camilla_films_stuff 2 месяца назад
@@BrianWarren-hl6pvwhy do you think that?
@BrianWarren-hl6pv
@BrianWarren-hl6pv 2 месяца назад
@@camilla_films_stuff when you're left by a woman who you treated like a queen, she turns around and returns to her abuser to be treated like a Dog, what else am I supposed to think ??
@camilla_films_stuff
@camilla_films_stuff 2 месяца назад
@@BrianWarren-hl6pv damn, that must suck. it makes sense to feel that way after something like that. when did this happen to you?
@DynaKitty
@DynaKitty 2 месяца назад
It's remarkable how these 'internet-famous' people look a LOT different when they end up in jail.
@sarahrean7174
@sarahrean7174 2 месяца назад
Like everyone else 😒 put every celebrities without glam squad !
@DynaKitty
@DynaKitty 2 месяца назад
@@sarahrean7174 Every one of us could be internet-famous with the right filters and layers of makeup, right?!
@desdicadoric
@desdicadoric 2 месяца назад
Makeup is almost like magic in the right hands, plus filters of course
@Onmysheet
@Onmysheet 2 месяца назад
She went from an 8 to a 4.
@latinaalma1947
@latinaalma1947 2 месяца назад
She is no natural beauty that is for sure...very ordinary face.
@melb5533
@melb5533 Год назад
As Cristian is bleeding out, he still has to give 911 the address and try and talk Courtney out of her meltdown as she makes everything about herself. And in true narcissistic behavior, when she finds out he died, she's again making it all about herself by asking for hugs. She's a self-centered narcissist who thought she could boo hoo her way out of this.
@lisaanna2899
@lisaanna2899 Год назад
They live in a fantasy bubble! Believe they're own lies! Blame shift reapetedly! They have a two faced personality! The recordings proved it
@SvayaG
@SvayaG Год назад
What's even more upsetting is that it almost worked.
@DeadpoolX9
@DeadpoolX9 Год назад
SHES ULTING!
@mykidsaresupercute
@mykidsaresupercute Год назад
Exactly
@duvessa2003
@duvessa2003 Год назад
Well-said
@41tinman41
@41tinman41 Год назад
she was having a panic attack in that interrogation room, not because of toby’s death, but because her lifestyle was about to be ripped away from her once convicted.
@attoboi9763
@attoboi9763 Год назад
plus she was faking it, thats not what a panic attack looks like. She was a straight up psychopath or narcissist
@SatanenPerkele
@SatanenPerkele Год назад
Yep, their own ego is the only thing narcissists, borderlines and psychopaths care about.
@fernandoortiz-robles8771
@fernandoortiz-robles8771 Год назад
100% facts
@0000SYL
@0000SYL Год назад
that is not panic attack, she is acting
@NuttinChunkySpunk
@NuttinChunkySpunk Год назад
Funny story, I actually met Brandon Call at a shuffleboard tournament years back. I was star-struck. I got my first taste of the Hollywood limelight, and I was in a state of transcendental ecstatic bliss. My chest swayed, my eyes rolled back in my head and I gasped, "Brandon Call, right? From Step by Step." He acknowledged me with a gleeful smirk and a proud nod. "That's me." Sprawled on the concrete, writhing in ecstacy, I managed to garble out a few more words, "they don't make shows like that anymore." He agreed and proceeded down the boardwalk hand in hand with his supple wife. It's impressively gracious that a man of such caliber would ever grace my presence, let alone stoop to the level of the common man for a humble chat. Since then, I've reflected back on that day with great reverence pondering where would we be now if back when even before they made shows like that, we all got to experience a certain level of precision entertainment that people were never able to get when they can't even watch it before they did it now! I'll miss those days. 🫖 ❤️ 🍿
@MNcoquicoqui
@MNcoquicoqui 2 месяца назад
That letter he wrote SCREAMS: TRAUMA BOND
@i80748
@i80748 2 месяца назад
Magical thinking. Delusional Hoping tomorrow will be better. She's a sadist a textbook narcissistic woman. And he was desperate to be loved and validated by her.
@eveheart2876
@eveheart2876 Месяц назад
😢 Is devastating indeeed. Never let anyone tie u down emotionally on the negative levels
@LoveLightHealingPeace
@LoveLightHealingPeace 29 дней назад
Why u doing coke with her to make her feel better after she stabbed you smh... & u getting cheated on.
@annalisamandell3581
@annalisamandell3581 15 дней назад
Exactly. I thought that same thing!! This poor man is trying to find the “good,” in this relationship, but it all has to do with making her happy…he sacrificed EVERYTHING. Condolences to his family and may he rest in peace.
@dahlia1845
@dahlia1845 11 дней назад
He needed therapy just as she did. He did not love nor value himself.
@briantincher9284
@briantincher9284 2 месяца назад
Its staggering how different she looks without make-up and props. Just shows how fake everything is on the internet. What looks so pretty, so happy and so successful is a shattered mess.
@Julesorjulz
@Julesorjulz 19 дней назад
💯💯💯
@jaysonteixeria195
@jaysonteixeria195 15 дней назад
Looks like Rhonda rousey 😂 super mid it's pathetic men pay for her onlyfans, losers
@user-ow2zy5iw1c
@user-ow2zy5iw1c Год назад
Chilling to hear him realize he’s dying and how scared he was, I hope he’s at peace, man deserved way more than this girl
@sumboide4204
@sumboide4204 Год назад
Amen to that
@veronikagajdoszova1209
@veronikagajdoszova1209 Год назад
🙏😢
@KnowledgeIsPower773
@KnowledgeIsPower773 Год назад
too much love will kill you. Reserve some love to yourself.
@zeldagoblin
@zeldagoblin Год назад
Well...if you don't know that an only fans model who dominates you and brags that she's toxic is going to end up eating you alive...I don't know what to tell you. If that's victim blaming, sign me up, I'm not scared of silly phrases invented to make anyone who's died completely above reproach. People need to start seeing these types of women for what they are, and get a clue. Try looking beyond the physical and thinking with something other than certain parts of your anatomy.
@lucasodelta2591
@lucasodelta2591 Год назад
@@zeldagoblin you are a awful person
@gpk1982
@gpk1982 Год назад
Something about her stating she only dates “rich black guys” made me very uncomfortable. I don’t think she sees them as individual humans, they’re just accessories to her.
@evaphillips2102
@evaphillips2102 Год назад
The fact that the black men in the room didn’t call her out on it- and appeared to SUPPORT it- is infuriating. It’s indescribable.
@cupcake1065
@cupcake1065 Год назад
As a black woman watching this there are so many layers to this. Soooo many. All the traits bm say bw have are what she had and was displaying so obviously and yet he still stayed. He protected her image eve when he was in danger. Bw don’t get that same grace with bm. And this is even outside of the domestic violence elements of this. It’s just crazy.
@aeoligarlic4024
@aeoligarlic4024 Год назад
And rich black guys like him only want to provide white women. Doesn't matter if a black woman is dainty, feminine, and a loving wife. These guys would still treat trashy white women better
@evaphillips2102
@evaphillips2102 Год назад
@@cupcake1065 you said it.
@sexybrainpls
@sexybrainpls Год назад
@@cupcake1065 PREACH!!!
@GoneColoring
@GoneColoring 2 месяца назад
UPDATE:s Clenney's parents are now facing charges-accused of tampering with Obumseli's laptop (CBSNEWS). & In court, Assistant State Attorney Shawn Abuhoff said they charged Clenney with one count of interception of wire or electronic communication, which is a third-degree felony. Clenney, who’s already facing second-degree murder with a weapon, was also charged with one count of unauthorized access or excessive access to a computer for allegedly serving as a principal and breaking into her boyfriend Christian Obumseli’s laptop.
@11chancer
@11chancer Месяц назад
I just watched the video of them getting arrested in Texas. I didn't get good vibes from them as they acted very arrogant. Hum wonder where Courtney got the same attitude!
@aaaooooooooooo
@aaaooooooooooo Месяц назад
@@11chancerwhere is the vid
@shannonvandyne8604
@shannonvandyne8604 День назад
What were they trying to accomplish?
@thaoa16
@thaoa16 2 месяца назад
I was married to an abusive narcissist who always acted like he was the victim even though I was the one dragged around and suffered by his hands. Her asking for a hug is so triggering because my ex asked for the same exact thing, trying to gain sympathy from me when he was “ill” but I wasn’t having it. Thank goodness he is no longer in my life. I hope she rots in jail.
@CreditR01
@CreditR01 2 месяца назад
I'm glad you escaped that nightmare. Best wishes to you.
@sydneyroth1853
@sydneyroth1853 Год назад
He was nothing but a fetish to her. Disregarding her physical abuse, the fact that she called him racial slurs when she was mad at him as well showed how she truly regarded him. sick over this
@evaphillips2102
@evaphillips2102 Год назад
What do you think she was to him? 😂 these psychos deserved each other
@sydneyroth1853
@sydneyroth1853 Год назад
@@evaphillips2102 Im seeing just low self esteem from him which isn't an excuse for abuse. He obviously didnt think highly of himself either but thats incredibly common in abusive relationships. There is absolutely no way you are calling a VICTIM a psycho and implying he deserved any of the things she did to him.
@Falapin_Enjoyer
@Falapin_Enjoyer Год назад
@@sydneyroth1853 nah, da shit he said Abt blk women is crazy. He deserved it. Especially when he bashes blk women and fetishizes yt women then dies for it🤦🏿‍♂️. It's like wat was bro cooking.
@ajaxslamgoody9736
@ajaxslamgoody9736 Год назад
Fetish is right..."I only date Black guys". Disgusting.
@thaistomp
@thaistomp Год назад
He was dumb too.
@mrcrabmoney
@mrcrabmoney Год назад
Christian's letter to her was so beautiful. He seemed like a good partner and a passionate and driven man. Rest easy. I pray for justice.
@jamiestarpsh
@jamiestarpsh Год назад
its a wedding vow level 🥹😭
@daviondandridge5672
@daviondandridge5672 Год назад
He just needed someone who deserved that love and kindness.
@angelicaadriel3168
@angelicaadriel3168 Год назад
It's plain naïve. Life is not a fairy tale, not some happy ending Hollywood's movie. Honestly, what does he see in her?
@lisavanderpump7475
@lisavanderpump7475 Год назад
@@angelicaadriel3168 he loved white girls I guess on his Twitter he would bash black girls and call them ugly . And she only liked black men so I guess it was a fetish toxic mess
@cuckertarlson3037
@cuckertarlson3037 Год назад
He seemed like a true romantic. Sad he was taken for granted.
@megan7619
@megan7619 2 месяца назад
I actually dropped quite a few tears. You can get your millions and your perfect body and your perfect life but if you're rotten inside.. it won't change a thing. Rotten apples always rot away eventually. Rest in Peace Christian. ❤ Condolences to the family.
@markkostka6897
@markkostka6897 28 дней назад
Plastic surgery and makeup and filters can make you look pretty on the outside to OF porn followers but ugly goes right to the bone.
@Rell_cbfw
@Rell_cbfw 22 дня назад
I remember seeing him talk real bad about black women
@anadeealupu1458
@anadeealupu1458 9 дней назад
She didn't get a perfect brain. That screws everything else.
@Ynnastra
@Ynnastra 4 дня назад
Nope. Her body looked very different outside of IG. This is the delusional society we live in.
@bridykes9986
@bridykes9986 Месяц назад
Her talking over officers asking same questions can i get restraining order BEFORE HIM and saying oh my dads on the pbone just highlights her bratty entitlement
@sparkles8344
@sparkles8344 Год назад
She was spoiled her entire life. She is the very definition of toxic. Her parents insist it was self defense. I hope his family receives justice.
@n8vscience842
@n8vscience842 Год назад
Her parents said that?????? 😡😡😡 may he receive justice.
@queenkamie1743
@queenkamie1743 Год назад
Of course they said that. And I’m sure exactly why they said it as well. Not even shocked
@zachrichardson5581
@zachrichardson5581 Год назад
The entitlement is crazy. The bodycam of when she asked "well how do I get first" as if there is some way to push her way to the front of the line and get her case focused on above everyone else's.
@redtobertshateshandles
@redtobertshateshandles Год назад
My dad spoilt my brother. Dad would never believe we did anything wrong.
@shroomgod1990
@shroomgod1990 Год назад
Only 16 years. That’s not much of Justice
@littlemisssunshine890
@littlemisssunshine890 Год назад
The authorities handled this case horribly initially. They didn’t even notify Toby’s family he had passed, his mom found out when medical staff called and asked her if she wanted to donate his organs still. That’s so messed up!
@THEcommitteeVISION
@THEcommitteeVISION Год назад
THE LIFE OF A SIMP
@queenkamie1743
@queenkamie1743 Год назад
@@THEcommitteeVISION you’re gross. Seriously. Toxic culture.
@potocatepetl
@potocatepetl Год назад
Well, the question is, who did the hospital call first? The police or the family? You can't expect the police to stay at the hospital with a victim until they either recover or die. They only can know the victim died when/if they are announced. And even if the police didn't announce, the way the hospital acted is ludicrous... You don't call and ask about organ donation, you first call and announce the family that their member died. Afterwards you can think about your own interests... But hey, that's an American hospital for you!
@escabasket153
@escabasket153 Год назад
@@THEcommitteeVISION that’s such a rude thing to say. No one should be violent against each other’s partner and unfortunately it happens more often than people think. He was manipulated and gas lighted to stay with his abuser.
@Megabot_6000
@Megabot_6000 Год назад
In too many of these cases I don't expect much from authorities, but this is Florida police....I wouldn't be surprised if one of them coached the girl to claim she was in danger. That's what they'd do themselves.
@tootscarlson
@tootscarlson 2 месяца назад
Her physical transformation cannot be ignored.
@SewingLara
@SewingLara 2 месяца назад
That was so sad. Especially given the fact the authorities first just believed Courtney. Good that his family never gave up. So heartbreaking.
@alexia3552
@alexia3552 Месяц назад
It just hit me hard how this dynamic echoes Get Out... The situation isn't necessarily the same, but it's such a culturally-enforced subconscious bias to view the thin, pretty, blonde, young, white woman as the sympathetic and pitiable and believable character, and the black man as... deserving whatever violence was inflicted on him.
@brittanyhuffman2342
@brittanyhuffman2342 Год назад
I’m so annoyed that our society rewards people like her with fame and fortune. She adds NOTHING to humanity but makes millions while there’s others fostering children, working on medical cures, at war defending our country, feeding the homeless, etc who don’t reap any of those rewards. I can’t believe how she treated Christian. I hope she never gets out of prison. And I hope her parents are put on trial for knowing he was in danger and doing nothing.
@CrazieAsianBoi
@CrazieAsianBoi Год назад
Preach!
@Rai46149
@Rai46149 Год назад
Ppl are intoxicated by sex. They see this so call beautiful girl and becomes obsessed by her. Making her rich. Shes and ugly person. Her ugliness showed when in court. She has no brain or love in her heart. This guy was also an idiot and should hv left. Love it blind. Sorry for him n his family. May the lord hv mercy on his soul.
@frankculaga5169
@frankculaga5169 Год назад
"I’m so annoyed that our society rewards people like her with fame and fortune. She adds NOTHING to humanity but makes millions while there’s others fostering children, working on medical cures, at war defending our country, feeding the homeless, etc who don’t reap any of those rewards". Fuckin' tell me about it! I wish all the findoms would get their asses in prison.
@messermoreaux1139
@messermoreaux1139 Год назад
It isn’t society that rewards her it’s men. Men made her rich and famous. Let’s be clear on that.
@lesliethomas9532
@lesliethomas9532 Год назад
​@Messer Moreaux true.
@victorthegreat1991
@victorthegreat1991 Год назад
Anytime a relationship gets abusive mentally, physically, or financially, pack up your bags and leave and never look back. No partner is worth one's life.
@skyfaceoforson2023
@skyfaceoforson2023 11 месяцев назад
Anytime a relationship gets physical,. Pack up your bags and leave and never look back. No partner is worth one's life.
@Wastingsometimehere
@Wastingsometimehere 11 месяцев назад
I agree, but unless they are well off that's not easy.
@victorthegreat1991
@victorthegreat1991 11 месяцев назад
@@Wastingsometimehere I would rather be poor but alive than rich but dead!!!
@rachaelm3298
@rachaelm3298 11 месяцев назад
No pair of tits and a pretty smile is either.
@Najda007
@Najda007 10 месяцев назад
And also when it gets psychologically abusive.
@chadriegel2832
@chadriegel2832 2 месяца назад
"have you received information that the defendent is a professional knife thrower?" Is such a funny question 😂
@Mukashi1996
@Mukashi1996 22 дня назад
I seriously chuckled when she claimed to throw a knife hard enough from almost ten feet away to impale a man and kill him. That is almost impossible for an elite soldier of immense strength, much less an OnlyFans model who is half silicone.
@didactica9326
@didactica9326 2 месяца назад
There’s some things money can’t buy- namely class and decency
@kayelmusic6101
@kayelmusic6101 Год назад
Staying in an abusive relationship, thinking your partner is gonna change has taken many to grave. If you’re in such relationship just leave before it’s too late. RIP Tobby🕊
@neanam
@neanam Год назад
Coon train 🚂💨🦝
@crazy4felines4ever
@crazy4felines4ever Год назад
I agree Kay. I don't understand why he even stayed in such an extremely toxic relationship. He should have left when she stabbed him in the leg. Suuuuch a horrific story that shouldn't have gone as far as it did. I feel awful for Tobi's family. All that money and fame went straight to her head causing her to sadly destroy another person's life and hers
@MiguelDLewis
@MiguelDLewis Год назад
“A wicked woman is given as a portion to a wicked man: but a godly woman is given to him that feareth the Lord.” - Ecclesiasticus 26:23 ✝
@ukchanak
@ukchanak Год назад
@@crazy4felines4ever Men are treated like shit when women are the aggressor. It's really not fair at all. We need to normalize men being victims of DV not just in homosexual relationships or as children 😞
@patrickbowman8841
@patrickbowman8841 Год назад
This dude hit the fucking lotto and he would have NEVER left this girl no matter what! A gorgeous big titty blonde with a 3/10 black dude??? AND SHE WAS RICH???? If the mfer survived the night she stabbed him he STILL would have never left. I’ve seen this shit before.
@ogeteres7618
@ogeteres7618 Год назад
To think that the initial prosecutor didn't do his research and this girl almost walked free is daunting.
@bethulrich5406
@bethulrich5406 Год назад
WORD.🤨😡
@spartanepic-4423
@spartanepic-4423 Год назад
White woman privilege
@HerbFlowers
@HerbFlowers Год назад
Wrong use of daunting
@KingCorda
@KingCorda Год назад
Must’ve got her onlyfans for free
@valentin06iancu
@valentin06iancu Год назад
The behavior is typical especially when women are involved. 99% of times the women plays the victim card and the prosecutors turn a blind eye on everything else.
@1w598
@1w598 2 месяца назад
I feel so bad for Christian. He totally wore his heart on his sleeve for her & he suffered so much. She treated him so awful & he gave her the benefit of the doubt, thinking maybe she would change. What a horrible & scary feeling he must've been living with.
@archiecoolsdown5854
@archiecoolsdown5854 Месяц назад
Did Toby not choose to be emtionally open to a woman making pornography?
@annoyedaussie3942
@annoyedaussie3942 3 дня назад
While all that's true , he was a dependent of hers. Turns out he was completely broke. Whether you are male or female you shouldn't be completely reliant on your partner. He was also addicted to the high life I would suggest which made it impossible for him to just leave.
@glennquagmire1747
@glennquagmire1747 Месяц назад
Domestic violence against men are not taking seriously by police or the court systems.
@kingcerberus1485
@kingcerberus1485 Год назад
Almost broke down crying. This man is dying on the floor saying he can't feel his arm and still tell her in a calm demeanor the address, poor man he deserved better.
@mercedeswestbrook4356
@mercedeswestbrook4356 Год назад
Yes.
@martahaile1664
@martahaile1664 Год назад
Poor soul may he rest in peace I truly hope he is in a better place
@puremotion2212
@puremotion2212 Год назад
@@OpalBLeigh He would have expired more quickly had he allowed himself to react more strenuously because his heart in turn would have pumped the blood out even faster.
@edntz
@edntz Год назад
He got what he chose.
@stephenfrank9735
@stephenfrank9735 Год назад
@@edntz Shut your trap.
@jordangreen7191
@jordangreen7191 Год назад
My heart aches for people whose greatest weakness is their kindness.
@helenal.7881
@helenal.7881 Год назад
Or stupidity
@JessicaMiller-pc4dj
@JessicaMiller-pc4dj Год назад
Same 😥
@Sneakerbaby
@Sneakerbaby Год назад
I felt this
@kwisuxk
@kwisuxk Год назад
It’s so sad, I feel so bad because all he wanted to do was care for her when she didn’t deserve his love at all. I hope he rests easy.
@velocityhdmi8140
@velocityhdmi8140 Год назад
Not if you let it be your weakness
@Shiftrealities360
@Shiftrealities360 2 месяца назад
Incredibly sad for Toby's parents that raised such a loving person.
@ginovalentino5735
@ginovalentino5735 2 месяца назад
What do you mean “No one saw this coming”?!? WTF
@bjt81366
@bjt81366 Год назад
"I don't necessarily feel like I'm in trouble". That's the mind of a spoiled person who never got checked by her parents. Money has bought her confidence that she can do what she wants.
@paulinenaisubi2800
@paulinenaisubi2800 Год назад
nope, narcissistic brain damage - much more dangerous and serious than any "spoiled child
@kitecommunications7633
@kitecommunications7633 Год назад
So true
@oooh19
@oooh19 Год назад
Yeah she thought she’d get away with killing somebody but then again maybe she didn’t mean to kill him but she was terrible about the whole thing
@maygrantz4426
@maygrantz4426 22 дня назад
This woman has a God complex and she manipulate and lie.The evidence it tells who she is and she killed the guy with out doubt.
@mattdavison284
@mattdavison284 Год назад
She’s so entitled that she doesn’t even realize the weight of the situation after being brought to an interrogation room by two homicide detectives.. “I’m probably not in trouble..”
@nightcoreeclub
@nightcoreeclub Год назад
too much money causes brain rot
@MsGhostofficial
@MsGhostofficial Год назад
Yeah. Total arrogance mixed with cluelessness!!!
@donbrashsux
@donbrashsux Год назад
God there’s nothin attractive about this girl .. period
@MyLadyPanda
@MyLadyPanda Год назад
Well she's a pretty white girl with an 'abusive' black boyfriend. So she was banking on that to be let go. And shock, she was. She's getting karma now. Hopefully a jury will see through her BS.
@degatagauwatie4073
@degatagauwatie4073 Год назад
And believing she could talk her way out of it. Jeesh.
@becca4067
@becca4067 2 месяца назад
That officer was ready for that hug
@veronicasettee6052
@veronicasettee6052 Месяц назад
Ew totally I noticed that too
@Jesusofsuburbia768
@Jesusofsuburbia768 Месяц назад
It's amazing what make up, hair extensions, and filters can do. So sorry this happened to you Christian 💙💐
@lieutenantdiamond5601
@lieutenantdiamond5601 Год назад
"Courtney knew what she was doing was wrong, and would profusely apologize" This is like a MAJOR red flag for abuse. They always apologize, and never mean it.
@yiwoon_cr8s
@yiwoon_cr8s 10 месяцев назад
Sometimes they apologize to keep everything for themselves and not others
@deepblack2193
@deepblack2193 9 месяцев назад
She will only get maximum 16 years? That’s almost bad as UK sentencing
@morganpeydinblackmore1598
@morganpeydinblackmore1598 9 месяцев назад
@@deepblack2193no. That’s the minimum punishment possible. She will likely get life with chance of parole.
@DontPretendtoCare
@DontPretendtoCare 9 месяцев назад
Poor Courtney. She didn't deserve any of this. R.I.P.
@designanddirection
@designanddirection 9 месяцев назад
Cocaine's a hell of a drug.
@kingmary2268
@kingmary2268 Год назад
Applause for the ladies that called her out and filmed, told her she should leave. That's how you handle murderers, politicians, pedophiles, predators...shunn them from polite society because they are destructive leeches.
@rmc0329
@rmc0329 Год назад
How social media makes these people rich tht's crazy. To Follow them. Wow
@OSDDASPD
@OSDDASPD Год назад
@@rmc0329 😂
@karcavida3250
@karcavida3250 Год назад
@@OSDDASPD Courtney, it must be really nice spamming from your alt account, thinking you're all mighty by spamming 😂 emotes THE AUDACITY 🤣😂😂 bless yer heart, bish thinkin she slick
@OSDDASPD
@OSDDASPD Год назад
@@karcavida3250 she’s boring , how’s yo mom karc
@catlady5359
@catlady5359 Год назад
It happened to O. J. Simpson after his acquittal. I’m glad it happened to this girl at least once.
@novascotiaskater1868
@novascotiaskater1868 2 месяца назад
Thank God his parents didn’t just accept the story she told and Law Enforcement quickly assuming she was the victim……they would never have got justice if they had been too afraid or scared to fight back!
@ashleedandrade7943
@ashleedandrade7943 Месяц назад
Wow... It astounds me how someone can claim to love a POC and yet call him such a degrading name in anger… That word has a horrible history. The era of slavery was awful. In the end, it only illustrates how awful of a person she is and how satisfying it is to watch someone crumble behind bars.
@Another_Look
@Another_Look Год назад
Children should be taught to recognise and get out of toxic relationships.
@wvrjl
@wvrjl Год назад
Yes. I think they need to teach warning signs in high school. How to recognize abusive gf/bfs, starting with controlling behavior, where it leads, and safe ways to remove yourself from the situation.
@amandalogan89
@amandalogan89 Год назад
Absolutely! It should be a part of standard health classes or sex education.
@doubleboy2388
@doubleboy2388 Год назад
You shouldn't have to be taught. Any normal reasonable person with self respect knows when they are getting abused and disrespected. If someone is mentally and physically abusing you. Guess what? It's toxic! This guy I'm sorry was kind of an idiot for staying with this girl. She literally stabbed him. And he's like oh babe I woke up the next day so happy. Like wtf. Smh. And look what happened, he ended up dead.
@Another_Look
@Another_Look Год назад
@@doubleboy2388, thousands of people stay because they don't recognise abuse. Instead, they try to modify their behaviour in order not to "provoke" their partner. Some ask "What should I do?" They simply do not know they are being abused and that they should leave.
@tonyamartin1425
@tonyamartin1425 Год назад
Boys should be taught to be men problem solved. this was no man.
@BarbaraJV1
@BarbaraJV1 Год назад
This is narcissism at it’s worst. If only he could have had the strength to free himself from her. Love is definitely blind 😢
@pepe_da_prawn
@pepe_da_prawn Год назад
Yeh, I think he had substantial trauma bond.
@Valdrex
@Valdrex Год назад
Blind? I don't think so. He was with her for her looks. He wouldn't have put up with her shit if she didn't look like that.
@cookiesnmilk9200
@cookiesnmilk9200 Год назад
@@Valdrex that's b.s he could of found another woman. She reeled him in to batter him slowly to death. Stop victim blaming. She's the monster not him.
@Valdrex
@Valdrex Год назад
@@cookiesnmilk9200 I didn't blame him. I just explained why he stayed as long as he did.
@elleluna4537
@elleluna4537 Год назад
Love is blind! You’re 100% correct and only when you see that person you “love” for who they really are, only then will you understand that saying.
@lookup17
@lookup17 2 месяца назад
Just hearing this case, heartbreaking. Condolences to this young man’s family. The pain can be unbearable. Prayers for comfort and healing. God Bless.
@ayeshaw.oliver3197
@ayeshaw.oliver3197 2 месяца назад
His messages about the abuse he endured are heart breaking. It really shows the psychological part of domestic violence. He was blinded…by love🤷🏾‍♀️. 😢
@smellydot1233
@smellydot1233 Год назад
Everything she says is infuriating, because she twists it to make the boyfriend the one who’s always at fault. “I was sitting in a puddle of my boyfriends blood begging him to not give up on me?” YOU stabbed him, yet he’s “giving up?”
@yvonnejacko5644
@yvonnejacko5644 Год назад
May she rot in hell.....
@Jeff-jl2xc
@Jeff-jl2xc Год назад
She's fucking disgusting, I've never hated someone I don't know so much in my life before this
@nunyabusiness4682
@nunyabusiness4682 Год назад
Seen too many documentaries like this to not be surprised by this unfortunately. She's incredibly narcissistic and it's blatant, anything and everything is all about her; her restraining order, how she feels, what's going to happen to her and so on. I'd be very surprised if she ever asked how this poor lads day went if she wasn't asked first, if at all... So sad, he deserved so much more.
@texasbeaver8188
@texasbeaver8188 Год назад
Even while her partner's dying she still can't help protecting herself. Narcissists can only love themselves...
@frankiefrankie1934
@frankiefrankie1934 Год назад
Lol
@jamesedenart
@jamesedenart Год назад
The fact that we're calling the relationship "highly toxic" instead of what it is: domestic violence and abuse, says a lot about how seriously we take violence towards men. Poor Toby.
@AlphonseWeebay
@AlphonseWeebay 9 месяцев назад
Lol his name was Christian
@morganpeydinblackmore1598
@morganpeydinblackmore1598 9 месяцев назад
@@AlphonseWeebayhe was referred to as Toby throughout the video, and it was mentioned very early on that he went by Toby.
@bekiraakathesexypoette4711
@bekiraakathesexypoette4711 8 месяцев назад
Toxic because it's a white girl that was abusing her black boyfriend. Is DV when it's black on black
@bekiraakathesexypoette4711
@bekiraakathesexypoette4711 8 месяцев назад
Did she say she wish that had the questions first so she could think about the answers
@LuckyCae
@LuckyCae 8 месяцев назад
Toxic isnt downplaying anything
@maryfrederick6934
@maryfrederick6934 2 месяца назад
Thanks so much for making this video! It’s the only one I could find which started at the beginning, assuming the viewer was not familiar with the case, which I was not. Very well done and informative!
@shirleysmith8108
@shirleysmith8108 2 месяца назад
When she disrespected him by calling him racial slurs he should have left her sooner than later.
@PotatoPieYT
@PotatoPieYT 25 дней назад
Did you see his tweets? That was his preference
@user-jz2uj1mr5c
@user-jz2uj1mr5c 11 месяцев назад
The power of makeup, hair extensions, fake lashes...is incredible. The orange suit and jail exposed her.
@jondoh3471
@jondoh3471 10 месяцев назад
I'll still hit it tho ;)
@gregpeterson3144
@gregpeterson3144 10 месяцев назад
and photo editing
@user-jz2uj1mr5c
@user-jz2uj1mr5c 10 месяцев назад
@@gregpeterson3144 oh for sure! It's all fake!
@user-jz2uj1mr5c
@user-jz2uj1mr5c 10 месяцев назад
@@jondoh3471 hopefully she won't hit you back. Like she did the poor guy.
@jazybomber
@jazybomber 10 месяцев назад
​@@user-jz2uj1mr5coutta pocket
@nerdoseven332
@nerdoseven332 Год назад
People that repeatedly hurt you do not love you. Full stop. No matter how much they beg and plead and make empty promises, they do not love you. If anything they love the love you give them. That's all. I hope everyone that might find themselves in a similar situation as this can get themselves out in time. People like this woman frighten me.
@mikegomezfilms
@mikegomezfilms 2 месяца назад
Beyond tragic. Dude was blinded by love and gave this crazy woman so many chances and predicted his own death. If any of you are ever in an abusive relationship, please leave asap. It will never get better.
@maygrantz4426
@maygrantz4426 22 дня назад
Once an abuser will do it again..
@inwiththenew414
@inwiththenew414 2 месяца назад
It's interesting how police just accept the surviving party's word as fact. Self defense meanwhile she had a violent history of abuse.
@SuperSPatrick
@SuperSPatrick Год назад
This poor man was a victim of abuse from her for so long. She deserves prison.
@Jake-cf2iq
@Jake-cf2iq Год назад
I agree
@Rainsnowreadysetblow
@Rainsnowreadysetblow Год назад
Poor man? He was a pos who was rac!st towards Black women and said the most horrible things about them. He got what he deserved.
@taoriq3632
@taoriq3632 Год назад
He was never a victim he chose that for himself
@jordan12374
@jordan12374 Год назад
@@taoriq3632 strange thing to say kid
@mattiasautio559
@mattiasautio559 Год назад
@@taoriq3632 based.
@mantas6565
@mantas6565 Год назад
Father didn't know about her career? She bought a mansion near you! What did you think she was doing?! The ignorance of some parents is truly baffling...
@wordsbymaribeja1470
@wordsbymaribeja1470 Год назад
..and she was doing what after deciding not to go to college after all the money they spent supporting her extra curricular activities as a teen? So they suddently took zero interest in her? And you know she wouldn't have lied about how she made her money. Please.
@riggs20
@riggs20 Год назад
He’s not ignorant; he’s a liar.
@willstacy9685
@willstacy9685 Год назад
Did you not watch the video and just comment dumb shit? Lol I said clearly she was already successful online before that so for all he knows she could’ve been making it from Instagram and other places she had over 1 million followers on Instagram not hard to make money when you have that many followers
@butimjustacat534
@butimjustacat534 Год назад
She had a huge following before OF. She could’ve made the money from social media. I mean, look at how much influencers are banking.
@grimmfan6460
@grimmfan6460 Год назад
He's definitely lying. One does not become a millionaire out of the blue.
@TheCourtneyRoyce
@TheCourtneyRoyce 2 месяца назад
I really think that if there's evidence of domestic abuse in a relationship, the charges should ALWAYS be moved to first degree murder, DV ALWAYS escalates and the perpetrator is intentionally causing harm.
@Christian-eq7uh
@Christian-eq7uh Месяц назад
Lived in Miami for 6 years, and one thing I learned there: you never ever date the 10. Ever. They are all crazy.
@user-yk9sk7pg6v
@user-yk9sk7pg6v 15 дней назад
but she's not a 10 (especially by miami standards).
@warbossgegguz679
@warbossgegguz679 Год назад
All I can say: What a genuinely disgusting and narcissistic person. Abusive relationships hit me hard as someone from a family with a history of DV, but her brazen and shameless nature about it all makes my blood boil. Also, thank you for spreading the word about male victims of abuse. It's a topic that our culture continues to willfully overlook to this day and it NEEDS to stop. The fact police and detectives literally assumed it was a case of an abusive Boyfriend with 0 evidence apart from Tobey *being the one that was dead* is despicable. Abuse isnt gender exclusive and the belief that women cannot be abusive is itself a sexist assumption.
@patrickbaklava7297
@patrickbaklava7297 Год назад
The ego to think you can diagnose someone with a mental disorder based off a true crime video. You can have your opinion but stop trying to sound smarter than you are.
@cyntdestroyer69xd
@cyntdestroyer69xd Год назад
@@BobungaShamunga Or maybe people tend to not show theirs true colours immediately? Hello??
@NuttinChunkySpunk
@NuttinChunkySpunk Год назад
Funny story, I actually met Brandon Call at a shuffleboard tournament years back. I was star-struck. I got my first taste of the Hollywood limelight, and I was in a state of transcendental ecstatic bliss. My chest swayed, my eyes rolled back in my head and I gasped, "Brandon Call, right? From Step by Step." He acknowledged me with a gleeful smirk and a proud nod. "That's me." Sprawled on the concrete, writhing in ecstacy, I managed to garble out a few more words, "they don't make shows like that anymore." He agreed and proceeded down the boardwalk hand in hand with his supple wife. It's impressively gracious that a man of such caliber would ever grace my presence, let alone stoop to the level of the common man for a humble chat. Since then, I've reflected back on that day with great reverence pondering where would we be now if back when even before they made shows like that, we all got to experience a certain level of precision entertainment that people were never able to get when they can't even watch it before they did it now! I'll miss those days. 🫖 ❤️ 🍿
@PhantomCookie87
@PhantomCookie87 Год назад
@@BobungaShamunga not true.
@mitchellstephens08
@mitchellstephens08 Год назад
He just couldn’t quit that white smoke show ass💯 It can happen to the best of us .. R.I.P.
@the_real_rascal
@the_real_rascal Год назад
I was in an abusive marriage. Cops called multiple times. Stints in the er. Yet I stayed until one of the responding cops told me he was afraid the next call to my house would be to pick up my body. It finally clicked and he helped me get put. I lost everything I had in that marriage but my life. I'll always be grateful to that man for showing me a way out. This case reminds me of how lucky I was to make it out alive.
@burntc
@burntc Год назад
So glad to hear you got out!
@Tardisntimbits
@Tardisntimbits Год назад
Glad you're still with us, stay safe.
@amberc.2137
@amberc.2137 Год назад
Very moving story Stephanie. You sound like an extremely strong woman. And a humble one also. Your words saying "I lost everything except my life" is very powerful. Material things, in the long run, do not matter at all. Continue to be strong & ALWAYS love yourself....
@johnnnyboo7105
@johnnnyboo7105 Год назад
This is about men being abused not women!
@the_real_rascal
@the_real_rascal Год назад
@@johnnnyboo7105 it's about domestic violence and the extremes it can go to. Abuse knows no gender, religion, sexual orientation, or socioeconomic status. Everyone is at risk. I relate to this story because violence is not gendered. 🤷‍♀️
@MorePrayer700
@MorePrayer700 Месяц назад
I wish I could have held you in your dying moments, Toby. May your memory be forever blessed.
@pqueen1753
@pqueen1753 Месяц назад
To be in an inter-racial relationship and have the person call you racial slurs is telling. She stabbed him in the leg and he woke up happy. She throws his belongings over the balcony and tried throwing him out. This is a sad case. I can’t believe that the detective gave her huge. She was released after all of the domestic abuse calls made to the police. I’m glad his family continued to press the issue against her because she almost got away with murder. She didn’t even care enough to help with his funeral. Her bad habits got worse because of guilt. She every black man she dated was injured by her
@rashone2879
@rashone2879 Год назад
Courtney was essentially 2 years old, temper tantrums, the whole screaming, kicking, etc.
@alzbetal1499
@alzbetal1499 Год назад
no, she was an abuser
@Jolis_Parsec
@Jolis_Parsec Год назад
She’s clearly used to being given whatever she wants and having her way for sure. While I don’t want to drag her parents through the mud since they’re not the ones responsible for Toby’s tragic passing, I do have to wonder if they spoiled her profusely while she was growing up given how immature she acted throughout this entire situation. 😒
@Mercurio2435
@Mercurio2435 Год назад
Strangely attractive to a lot of men.
@larey12
@larey12 Год назад
@@Mercurio2435 - only to simps
@AyshaLovesYou
@AyshaLovesYou Год назад
My 2 year old is more emotionally stable than her 😅
@MurdersFPV
@MurdersFPV Год назад
My ex-wife became increasingly more abusive to me physically and it culminated in her pulling a knife on me one evening. Though she lounged at me with a look in her eyes I will never forget, I was able to get the knife away from her. I immediately left that night and slept on a friend's couch till the divorce was final and she was forced to leave my home. Don't be like me and don't be like Toby. Walk away.
@thehoneydeev
@thehoneydeev Год назад
It took great courage for you to leave. I thank God for your lucidity
@jenerin905
@jenerin905 Год назад
As a child raised with a mother and father like these two, you absolutely did the right thing. I wish my father had left her and kept me safe, but sadly, he was bullied into staying and shamed that he wasn't a man due to being beat up by a woman. These women KNOW a man cannot hit them and they bait them into being physical so that they can have something on the men. These women twist the conversation until you feel insane. You're absolutely lucky. Please educate others, break the stigma, and stay safe.
@humancrustaceans7849
@humancrustaceans7849 Год назад
Glad you are safe, wild situation
@butterfliesarefreetofly6964
Thank God you got away. No man or woman deserves to go through any of that so glad you got away.🌻
@elizabethnoxon512
@elizabethnoxon512 Год назад
may i ask why you didn't leave earlier?
@deniseturner3754
@deniseturner3754 2 месяца назад
Wow! I can’t believe this is the first I’ve heard of this story! Thanks for sharing! Yall covered it in such great detail! I feel so bad for him!!!😢💔
@sammieleighsunshinesamuels
@sammieleighsunshinesamuels 2 месяца назад
She is a disgrace to the human race.I cant imagine how Toby put up with her and her attitude. She was so lucky to have a caring and gentle partner. It was horrendous to hear Toby say ' I am dying ' I hope that she now realises what her actions by not being able to talk instead of being violent, have achieved yes the unfortunate murder of a decent young man. I feel heartbroken for his family. RIP Toby...
@kddicks5115
@kddicks5115 Год назад
The way she reacted when they told her Toby had passed, was so overly dramatic and the addition of "can I get a hug"made me physically ill. She is nothing but a sociopath/psychopath and Toby seemed so restrained, loving, tender... no words. RIP Christian (Toby) your spirit will always shine❤❤
@Debbyra_forum
@Debbyra_forum Год назад
Was so irritated watching that part of the video.... like really
@dreadmilk
@dreadmilk Год назад
It’s so fucking hilarious and pathetic I cannot wrap my head around it.
@lindseyhendrix2405
@lindseyhendrix2405 Год назад
Gosh I remember the first time hearing that and having a visceral reaction to it.
@starlingswallow
@starlingswallow Год назад
Yeah, narcs don't know what acting normal means or looks like....they mirror/copy people......that's cringeworthy.
@sengasengana
@sengasengana Год назад
She's absolutely topic but doesn't have the traits of a psychopath or sociopath. Pretty sure she has BPD.
@pixiehopper8
@pixiehopper8 Год назад
I am SO glad the judge blocked them from hiding all the recordings and evidence!
@poeticsilence047
@poeticsilence047 Год назад
Definitely. Probably would of been a different story if she did. At least, her money and/or looks did not keep her out of trouble like it usually does for some people.
@TenFalconsMusic
@TenFalconsMusic Год назад
Please, please, please show the black ladies in prison with her a photo of Toby and share with them how kind & wonderful he was... ...The DA wouldn't need to ask for the 💀 sentence. The 💀 sentence would already be done. My condolences to Toby's family & friends.
@dinarusso3320
@dinarusso3320 Год назад
For once a female abuser got in trouble.
@djxgam1ng
@djxgam1ng Год назад
What’s up Jenn?
@cindywa2721
@cindywa2721 Год назад
@@TenFalconsMusic Not likely for Black women to involve themselves. Tobby was a very known antiBlack man. He has posted and stated how much he hated Black women, he called Black women ALOT of colorist names. So no, Black women will sit this one out. He died from his preference.
@sophiefurtado4577
@sophiefurtado4577 2 месяца назад
I just discovered your program and I love it and please keep it long!
@sidneysalcido9314
@sidneysalcido9314 2 месяца назад
Amazing work and great investigation. You are a true professional!
@loram9976
@loram9976 Год назад
When you played the 911 recording and he said "I'm dying ", I just broke down. This case makes me so sad. I grew up in a household where DV occurred and my mom was the abuser. I've seen how poorly these things are handled by authorities when the abuser is a woman. It is tragic, I feel awful for his friends and family. Justice needs to be served
@ark194
@ark194 Год назад
Fr i had an abusive roommate and she was going for a social work degree and was from an influential family. Crazy b. She counsels ppl online.
@dylannance4772
@dylannance4772 Год назад
@@ark194 Wow. I would try to sabotage her "carrier" as much as possible lol
@TheDramacist
@TheDramacist Год назад
Truth. My older sister is a violent abuser. She's knocked everyone in the family around, even when we kicked her out, she'd come back for visits which usually ended in her having an emotional screaming meltdown, punching, kicking, slapping. So when she got married, it was no surprise he came to me one day telling me she had been thumping him, a lot, regularly. Now my sis is a big STRONG woman. 💪 She would really let loose. When he struck her back, as he was hurting, angry and frustrated, she would just hit him harder! Ofc they divorced and have no relationship now, wont even speak, despite having 3 kids. He really put up with her shit for a long long time. Surprisingly, he never wanted to go to the police about it, because he had/would thump her back. He felt this invalidated the fact that she was always the physical aggressor. Yes he was stronger, but honestly not by much! Even if women are weaker, should men just become punching bags? Ofc not!
@BillyBeanist
@BillyBeanist Год назад
Because of gender stereotypes some people just refuse to believe that women can be the violent one but it can and does happen.
@aservantinbabylon
@aservantinbabylon Год назад
@@TheDramacist Who cares if men on average our stronger? It shouldn't count in the equation in the least, because a weaker person can always use a weapon....even wait until you are asleep and then do whatever. I don't care if you are man, woman, in between. If you come at me violently, expect full force aggression in return. I'd expect the same if I came at someone.
@Innakitasan
@Innakitasan Год назад
They used to come into the bar where I bartend at...I always wondered what happened to them. He was a super nice guy. She always seemed to be a bit "high and mighty" but that's pretty normal for girls like that in this town. I always wondered where they went but I just figured they had moved. I have no words....Rest in Peace Toby. I hope that his family can find some sort of peace and that she rots in jail for the rest of her unnatural life.
@bishopscore
@bishopscore 2 месяца назад
Wow. Thanks for sharing. 😢😢😢
@sandracastellanos921
@sandracastellanos921 2 месяца назад
Remember ladies and gentlemen there is always a catch to what seems too good to be true. If you’re average and dating what you believe is a 10 it’s because there’s something rotting beneath the surface. I dated a very handsome man and he was an engineer. He turned out wayyyyy too good to be true. He made a 180 and became a psychopath who started bashing my car and punching doors. He would blackmail me with suicide.
@zenmama4160
@zenmama4160 2 месяца назад
Just saw police bodycam footage on RU-vid. Her parents just detained (in handcuffs) two days ago by their county sheriff’s office to be transported to Florida on charges of tampering with evidence in their daughter’s case.
@rebeccarobare770
@rebeccarobare770 Год назад
This is so tragic. He gave her so many chances to change and improve herself. This gentle, kind man lost, and his family will forever suffer.
@claireglory
@claireglory Год назад
i searched for any s.3.x videos about her and i did find it on the internet. it was the two of them and it really looks like the guy can't leave her just because of her pussi. even tho she is very toxic. she's quite good at the bed. he is a simp and that killed him. that's not love. you just can't let go of her pussi. fight, s.3.x., fight, s.3.x., lmao
@JoBlo321
@JoBlo321 Год назад
It angered me when she was playing victim and lying about him attacking her first. It was very clear in the elevator video that she was the aggressor and *he did/does not fight back!*
@qjtvaddict
@qjtvaddict Год назад
Too many men and women tolerate loony partners
@God-ec8ni
@God-ec8ni Год назад
thats what happens when you leech off of your gf
@Rakshiir
@Rakshiir Год назад
I think if you give someone several chances and they don't do anything, better leave. Not all end in death, but for your own mental health it is the better step. It hurts at first for sure, if you love the person, but it will get better after some time. In contrast: staying will always create more issues. I don't want to sound like I blame the guy or anything, it is hard to do that for many. It is sad that he didn't do it.
@bee9330
@bee9330 Год назад
Proof that a narcissist get can everything in life: money, fame, looks, luxury and loving partner- and still fuck it up.
@OSDDASPD
@OSDDASPD Год назад
😂and
@naeberries
@naeberries Год назад
yup, they lack gratitude for what they got in front of them
@Nanda_ares
@Nanda_ares Год назад
For realll!!
@Micfri300
@Micfri300 Год назад
Both people in this specific relationship were interested in lust not love
@redleeks6253
@redleeks6253 Год назад
He was a narcissist too. Having the blond bomb shell as his trophy and also living off her money. He was not far from a pimp. This guy would write disgusting comments about blk women on his socials.
@JessieLee_
@JessieLee_ 2 месяца назад
I subscribed! I’ve seen this true crime story before but I like your content so I kept watching…plus what a great channel name 💯❤
@user-rz1se5tn9d
@user-rz1se5tn9d 2 месяца назад
I have seen on True Crime, that they also arrested the parents for hacking into Cristian's laptop, you can look it up
@stephanieortega9496
@stephanieortega9496 Год назад
She's pure evil, I believe she did know what she was doing when she shoved the knife into Toby's chest. I hope the judicial system doesn't fail this man's family.
@ADM-wt9cn
@ADM-wt9cn 11 месяцев назад
She 100% is insane... Calls your own man the N word in a fight. Shes horrible. How do you stay with someone like that though?
@barbaramorgan9582
@barbaramorgan9582 10 месяцев назад
Amen!!
@digimonalvatrax2738
@digimonalvatrax2738 10 месяцев назад
When I heard her story about her being given anything she ever wanted. I already knew that this is a recipe for disaster.
@uruloki2758
@uruloki2758 9 месяцев назад
Nah she's just a textbook example of extreme BPD. They have no self restrain whatsoever. Secretly she knew she was in the wrong every time but was addicted to her emotions and power over the poor guy. Every relation with someone who suffers from BPD turns into a spiraling fall into drama and insanity.
@ifly2themoon171
@ifly2themoon171 8 месяцев назад
I doubt that. She never in her life had to experience, that actions have consequences sometimes beyond your control and you have to limit them or at least take responsibility for the outcome. It seems the first time something major happened she couldn't turn around or neglect was sadly the loss of Christian Tobys life.
@its.maryann
@its.maryann Год назад
She kept calling her mother every time shit hit the fan, or was about to. Something tells me her mother was her greatest enabler. Her dad too. A major contributor to how this all panned out
@MsGhostofficial
@MsGhostofficial Год назад
Seriously. Zero lessons taught.
@FlamingBasketballClub
@FlamingBasketballClub Год назад
Her parents are walking failures
@OSDDASPD
@OSDDASPD Год назад
Don’t assume 😂
@karcavida3250
@karcavida3250 Год назад
@@OSDDASPD hi Courtney
@OSDDASPD
@OSDDASPD Год назад
@@karcavida3250 hi UGLY
@geoffhunter7704
@geoffhunter7704 2 месяца назад
My cousin courted and married the local beauty Queen she had the looks,was comfortably well to do but was high maintainance she told her husband that children would have to come later as she was proud of her looks and body.Cousin who was an Charted Accountant told me just months after they wed she was a lot of work and we noticed he was losing weight and generally run down and becoming withdrawn plus i noted one day he was wearing cosmetic's.Well it transpired she was a naturally discontented woman and was finding constant fault with my cousin a neighbour hearing the sounds of a fight called the cops.She was actually beating him and the cosmetic's were for hiding the bruising from the beatings she was giving him he not retaliating as it was wrong to hit women.He was found to have multiple bruising ,a cracked rib,a broken toe and a bite mark to his shoulder.She got 2yrs suspended for 2yrs plus 3yrs Probation and Compulsory Anger Management Treatment.They're still together as she did complete successfully her legal requirements and they are much happier but we do wonder how long this will last.
@RakOfLamb
@RakOfLamb Месяц назад
I know I am a year late but I just recently found your videos and it’s so fun to listen to while cleaning
@ACEVella
@ACEVella Год назад
She doesn't look like the same person in the court. Just shows you what makeup, enhancements and hair extensions can do. I hope that young man rests in peace as he went through too much in a short life
@rt66vintage16
@rt66vintage16 Год назад
I was going to comment the same. She's really just a overweight plain jane with a speech impediment. Warning to men who fall for the Only Fans girls.
@connys.a2412
@connys.a2412 Год назад
It is mainly alcohol abuse what does it in the long run ( change of appearance ) , weight gain . Of course the stress being incarcerated adds to it too.
@tegridyfarms6851
@tegridyfarms6851 Год назад
@@connys.a2412 No, its being seen without facetune and photoshop...
@paul6925
@paul6925 Год назад
All the filters that run on the photos make a lot of subtle and not so subtle changes too
@paul6925
@paul6925 Год назад
@@tegridyfarms6851 Yep exactly
@nichie1931
@nichie1931 Год назад
''I don't think I'm necessarily in trouble'' You just stabbed somebody, that's one of the worst things you can do to a human.
@DakotaofRaptors
@DakotaofRaptors Год назад
Definitely not one of the worst
@nichie1931
@nichie1931 Год назад
@@DakotaofRaptors A stab is a slow, grueling death, unlike a gun shot that is quick a death. With a stab, the victim knows he is going to die, but he has to sit through every second until he bleeds out. The victim has to endure the pain, the fear, the blood, and the emotions as long as he still lives, or gets medical care. Definitely not the worst, but it is one of the worst things a human can endure.
@wvrjl
@wvrjl Год назад
@@nichie1931 - A gun shot is NOT always a quick death. And death from a knife wound can be quick.
@evaphillips2102
@evaphillips2102 Год назад
I vote drowning is the most malicious thing you can do to a person and painful way to die.
@HumanHamCube
@HumanHamCube Год назад
She's not the brightest bulb in the pack typical Instagram bimbo
@blkeclipsel2400
@blkeclipsel2400 10 дней назад
Subscribed. This was extremely well done. I've been following this case for some time, and you've shed some light in areas I hadn't noticed before. Again, well done, sir.
@pinschrunner
@pinschrunner 2 месяца назад
It is obvious from the elevator incident that she is aggressive and violent towards him. He showed a great deal of restraint to not pound her back. God Bless him, may he rest in peace
@arealious25
@arealious25 Год назад
The fact she didn't help pay for his funeral says everything.
@nissan300zxtt9
@nissan300zxtt9 Год назад
She is a sociopathic nutbag , social media breeds these people .
@NicNakBraun
@NicNakBraun Год назад
She murdered him..funeral costs like wtf..
@queenkamie1743
@queenkamie1743 Год назад
Exactly
@tanyaogrady2240
@tanyaogrady2240 Год назад
I know, what an unempathic narcissist.
@RhaenyraT
@RhaenyraT Год назад
I doubt his family would wanna accept it.
@markwells6532
@markwells6532 Год назад
She's a perfect example of how fake social media is," believe none of what you hear and half of what you see because it isn't what it seems to be" without make up , she'd be working at Starbucks , now she'll be another lady's girlfriend in jail
@TheEarlThePearl1
@TheEarlThePearl1 Год назад
I don’t disagree with you but it’s funny to me that you think women’s prison is the same as men’s. Its basically a summer camp where they all fuck each other so I don’t think being someone’s girlfriend is the punishment you think it is lol
@limitlessinfinite2284
@limitlessinfinite2284 Год назад
Exactly. Social media is not reality. Everything is made-up, filtered, and scripted. And most of these "content creators" and "influencers" are talent-less, shallow, dull, and has no real personality... they do nothing society at large but weak people validate them and even pay them for their "services".
@Udontknowmi
@Udontknowmi Год назад
​@@phillyliverpoolfc4079 Come on. I don't like her nor condone her actions, but she is definitely a 9/10. It's for that exact reason she was let go for months.
@c_p1858
@c_p1858 Год назад
@@phillyliverpoolfc4079 she is a horrible human being and I hope she stays locked up but you don’t need to bring misogyny into this please She is aweful but to start degrading her looks as if that changes anything about what she did or the fact that she did OF is just uncalled for
@ashleybaldock2526
@ashleybaldock2526 Год назад
​@R Is she still a 9out of 10 without the make up at her last court hearing ? Didn't even look like the same person without the money and makeup and filters
@jared9643
@jared9643 2 месяца назад
That dude was confused as shit when she asked for a hug, he probably wasn't prepared for that
@tarajh
@tarajh 2 месяца назад
I cannot wrap my mind around why or how Christian/Toby put up with her crazy shit. None of her behavior is okay. It's abusive. He deserved so much better. If you recognize your own relationship anywhere in this video, RUN. Leave. Get out. Choose a time to slip away when they're not around. Do NOT tell them ahead of time that you're thinking about leaving. You "owe" them nothing.
@ListenUpDemocracy
@ListenUpDemocracy Месяц назад
I believe as a first generation Nigerian he was taught that she was the ultimate prize as a yt woman and to denigrate people of color. He had an open disdain for black women and African Americans. Nigerians and other recent immigrants sometimes look down on African Americans without understanding the history and sacrifice it took for them to enjoy the freedoms they now have as recent immigrants of color. I do respect the commitment to success, but I cringe when people imply African Americans have never or do not try for their own successes. Prior to 1965 and following the Civil Rights Act, neither Africans nor Indians could immigrate to the U.S. Yet, many come here with attitudes similar to the racists they hope will accept them one day. Christian wanted that acceptance despite all the n-words and physical abuse. It's really quite sad.
@peterimade003
@peterimade003 Месяц назад
​@@ListenUpDemocracyeverything you say is accurate 💯 as a Nigerian I do understand the historical context African Americans went through 💯 💯 💯 💯 I appreciate your insight.
@Sueshay876
@Sueshay876 Месяц назад
He would have never put up with a blank woman. But the ultimate prize is the ultimate prize I guess!
@crowmedicine3890
@crowmedicine3890 Год назад
I've seen people say that she stabbed him in self defense. How people delude themselves amazes me. She clearly has serious issues with anger, rage, self control, jealousy and possessiveness. I'm willing to bet if we looked at her previous relationships we would see a lot of the same. I feel so bad for this guy.
@ravensthatflywiththenightm7319
That's pretty much the main reason narcissists continue to run amok. Because there will always be braindead idiots willing to play the Flying Monkey / Enabler to narcissistic behavior.
@duvessa2003
@duvessa2003 Год назад
Yes. At the end of this presentation a former bf said she tried to stab him and she did something to that body builder she was messing with. He didn’t report it because he didn’t want his wife to find out…
@crowmedicine3890
@crowmedicine3890 Год назад
@@duvessa2003 I saw after I wrote the comment. I haven't heard anyone else talk about that!
@gtw4546
@gtw4546 Год назад
Starting with her relationship with her parents. This is what happens when a child is spoiled. If you can't stand up to a 3-year-old's tantrums, you're actively creating this kind of monster because you're teaching them that using their anger to control people works!
@florencemiller7826
@florencemiller7826 Год назад
@@gtw4546 absolutely it's called parental manipulation, and there's a whole generation of them
@gpz219
@gpz219 7 месяцев назад
Her reaction to the news of Toby's death tells it all. She doesn't cry. She does the typical narcissist thing and makes it about herself. She checks her own pulse because all she can think about is herself. She asks for a hug because all she can think about is herself. She talks about how much SHE'S been crying, because all she can think about is herself. Man lost his life at her hands and she shows almost no remorse or sadness, just feigned shock as her thoughts race back to herself over and over.
@DavidSanchez-vr1ny
@DavidSanchez-vr1ny 5 месяцев назад
And when the detective was going to giver one she almost said "eew but not you though!"
@wow35master
@wow35master 4 месяца назад
@@emilyjamesalisonis not cringe, she was mentally ill . she checked her pulse and grab her chest at first that indicate that she had panic attack. i don’t support her nor i defend her but mentally ill people who suffer from panic attacks or seizure episodes have to know that is not cringe to check your pulse or anything that you can do to prevent you from feeling worse.
@megan9825
@megan9825 4 месяца назад
I thought she was pinching herself - like she was dreaming.
@novascotiaskater1868
@novascotiaskater1868 4 месяца назад
@@wow35masterI have several brother in laws with bipolar and severe anxiety and Panic/anxiety attacks don’t happen that quickly … they also don’t instantly check their pulse - they don’t need to… they know what’s happening…she was told he died and was literally acting within 20 seconds…. She was 100% cringe…
@novascotiaskater1868
@novascotiaskater1868 4 месяца назад
Wasn’t his name Christian?
@reelfly
@reelfly 2 месяца назад
15:04 So I went to check out the song he told her to listen to at the bottom of his letter titled My Personal Sunset. And to see what she ultimately did to him. Wow...just wow.
@beansan11
@beansan11 Месяц назад
What happens when you don’t discipline your kids. Parents are to blame as well, raise your kids right so they aren entitled assholes.
@charleswinters9567
@charleswinters9567 Год назад
You know you're about to become a murder victim when Adrian starts complementing your character
@rainandshine012
@rainandshine012 Год назад
As a huge fan of this channel, this comment is hilarious
@sadiya2418
@sadiya2418 Год назад
😂😂😂 I feel so bad laughing but this comment is hilarious
@artisthusnatalal3099
@artisthusnatalal3099 Год назад
😂😂😂
@joelellis7035
@joelellis7035 Год назад
Kinda like when Jessica Fletcher says she's coming for a visit.
@ennjaychannel
@ennjaychannel Год назад
☠️☠️☠️☠️
@shannonmisquadis
@shannonmisquadis 7 месяцев назад
I hope that Christian's family gets the justice that is truly deserved. My condolences to his family and friends.
@femiolowofoyeku5852
@femiolowofoyeku5852 2 месяца назад
I whipped up the best coffee I've ever made for this one. Wasn't disappointed.
@m.x.refrigxolani8365
@m.x.refrigxolani8365 6 дней назад
The more abuse by women towards men is ignored, the more of this you still gonna encounter.
@mvv700
@mvv700 Год назад
Man that 911 call is heartbreaking. Those don't often get to me, but hearing him say 'I'm dying'.. man.. Almost like he's in shock, disbelief and coming to terms with knowing he's going to die altogether. Jesus that broke my heart.
@adraborandavis-blake4611
@adraborandavis-blake4611 Месяц назад
That dude should have took his butt home to his parents when she locked him out of that apartment and let her mother live there.
@lauriedavis5946
@lauriedavis5946 28 дней назад
TO DETECTIVES DURING QUESTIONING: “ .. i mean, i don’t think i’m necessarily in trouble ..” My turn: _i_ mean, you DON’T?!
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