The moment I started focusing on me being my best self FOR ME, my bf changed in a way I didn't even imagine!! He became his best self too and our relationship became the relationship I always wanted it to be ❤️.
What he pointed out at 4:35 is crucial. The understanding that you gave your 100% and the rest is not your hand, and being in peace with that: is very important.
I LOVE returning to this video as a reminder that to have my best chance at a lasting relationship, instead of worrying about other women, focus on creating a world I enjoy and he will enjoy being apart of.
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Most men can't do this. Not trying to be negative but most men are not Matthew. They're insecure and weak. Myself and all my friends have been cheated on and we loved our men and thought they did too.
I agree you can give everything and people will still leave. Always save some for yourself that is what I say. A human being will always let you down at some point we are made to make mistakes.
I agree! If you can't treat me right you can go. If you want to go, then go. I don't have high tolerance for bullshit. I will do right by the man I am with but, I am not tearing myself apart. I will not get in to debt. I will not stop doing the things that make me happy. Just so the man I am with can be happy. Once I see the man I am with, is all about what makes him happy. Or I don't like is attitude or character. Then it's a very quick bye bye. I know exactly the sort of man I want. And if I don't get him. I am fine coz I will still enjoy life.
I love that you make getting the guy about being the best version of yourself. So many people approach relationships from a place of focusing on what is outside of themselves. Brilliant 😘
The woman in his life is really lucky as he understands a woman so well keeping his ego aside .A real rare man with good looks and voice..what else a girl needs!
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This just made me cry on so many levels.. Watching this has brought me to light on my own control streaks. I want to believe that in my marriage I can be the whole package. It truly is hard. Giving your all, but damaging it at the same time because you know how wonderful your spouse is. Is my real time nightmare. Thank you for stating that you have to own up to yourself and just be great. No one, has ever made it that clear to me. Thank YOU MATT!!
I agree Matt just made it clear.. Sometimes we wonder if our mate is going to find a better person. As Matt started it may not always be the look but whether what attracts your mate to you. This video really help me come to terms..
I always feel so much better after listening to Matthew Hussey. Love gets so complicated and he's always like 'try your bestest and that makes you look hottest and the maybe don't make that person the center of your world' and then my quality of life goes way up.
I find that as soon as I’m invested I start to self sabotage my relationships because of my insecurities. I am trying very hard to recognise when I feel like this to do something that makes me feel better, being my focus back to me and my self care, joy and peace 💕💕💕
My boyfriend is hot, alpha and always around beautiful different women due to his work. But he appreciates me, appreciates and adores me. I’m grateful ❣️
I usually don't watch or get into stuff like this. However, I have completely been intrigued by this man's advice. Actually used a few tips recently and it worked! swear! I am and will be a fan of Matt's! Truly. There's things us women don't know. he helps us to understand. Thanks again so much!
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I needed to hear this. My boyfriend just got a new job at Wing House, and the servers there tend to be good looking. It made me very insecure knowing that he'd gotten that job, but I feel so much more at ease now. First, time heals so many things. Second, we've been in a committed relationship for over four years, and he lets me know how much he cares about me every day. I find jealousy one of the most annoying emotions, and I don't like to give in to such feelings. Fortunately, I don't pay (as) much attention to it anymore.
Matthew, you have a real knack for cutting through the BS and getting straight to the heart of what's truly valuable in a relationship. Thank you for sharing your gift with us ladies. Your insight and advice has been immensely helpful and refreshing to me.
youre literally my fave dating coach. the way you teach us to be better instead of just impressing guys is just amazing and so inspiring and that's what i wanna hear
U can’t change no one , the person is the one that can make a change , be honest, be true , and be loyal , communication is a huge thing in a relationship, be yourself don’t act like your not u
Thats really good advice. People do tend to focus on looks and who is more desirable than them. I know I did this sometimes. However I learned from a friend that the most attractive thing is confidence in yourself. It doesn't matter if someone is chubby or has hair everywhere. If that person is confident in their appearance then they will win
That's true. I lost the person I loved, but I gave it my absolute best and know, that if I had the chance to go through it all again, I wouldn't do anything differently. I feel sad, I miss him, but I'm able to exist and enjoy life even in this, because there are no "what if"s keeping me up at night.
+GracefulDanny ...here I thought I was the only one... my boyfriend "caught" me watching Matt's videos and he asked me if there was something I wanted to tell him. LOL ..."No honey nothing at all" :/
I am sorry to say this, but many people don't know what love is. They say i love you, when in fact it at most trully means for them 'i realy like you'. So if someone says i love you it does not particularly mean they want to commit, or spend the rest of their lives with you or be with you even when you get seriously ill.
I love how watching these videos helped me get a relationship where I can progress in level of what these videos are about. I started by watching the videos about the dates, then the videos about the family, now the videos on how to keep my man. I hope he has some videos on how to sustain your marriage.
gooood ! there's a guy in my gym who is a trainer there , and he's not the best looking person I mean he's not ugly or anything but he's the sexiest guy I've met in my life !! the way he winks at me and the way he walks and talks
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It's personal insecurity projected outwardly. If someone leaves you because of look.. let them be. Relationships need to be build on trust and commitment.
Just be yourself. Trying too hard only brings heartache. Attraction and love are a crap shoot. Sometimes you can be the best you can be, and you don't meet someone. Other times they just show up out of the blue. Happiness is very attractive. If you're happy, it will shine out of you. Happiness with yourself and your life will also allow you to relax mentally, so you're more yourself, instead of in "your head" worrying about if someone likes you. Chemistry is unpredictable.
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Great discussion Matthew! Many people sabotage their happiness due to "what if's!" When someone in the partnership is always looking for reassurance, their behavior becomes very unattractive and eventually turns their partner off. Confidence is the "hottest" thing about a person in my books.
The problem is, you matter how hard to work to have a "great and sexy mind", or to be witty, funny, confident, etc...most people are going to be lured away because the sex drive trumps everything. Not love.
This is exactly how the world works Sex drive, boredom, selfishness, all of this drives people to seek out something new and exciting. There is no way to "keep your man"..your man is going to seek out excitement and validation if he isnt getting it from you. No matter how educated and fun you think you are. Men do what they want.
+RedTango I would say, insecrure people who hasn't really found themself yet, what they want with life, their dreams, their passions, goals, who they want to be around, easy get tricked by believing sex parties many partners fucking around and doing shit is "yolo living my life I'm happy" but it's all just a facade. If your partner have sex with someone, and you love him, what ways more, YOUR ego, of not understanding him, or YOUR LOVE that you can go trough shit and mistakes together, but it doesn't change the value , if it's unconditional love, you should forgive and talk about it with him, not judge him. If you want a puppy who stays beside you and never do anything wrong get a dog, not a person.
I came accross your channel a few weeks ago and I must say...this is some elightened advice that you give. 5 years that I've been with my boyfriend. He's the father of my 5 month old bundle of joy. And all this time, I always had to force him to look at other hot girls passing by in the street, telling him that it's totally fine if he's attracted to other people. But he genuinely doesn't give a single crap about them AT ALL. And you know what? I'm sure that if I were the insecure type, then he would be lurking like those guys my kinda jealous girlfriends are dating. Anyways, I only have one regret though: I wish I saw your videos few years ago when the shit was real in my then lame love life. Peace xx
Ok so recently my boyfriend told me that he needed space because I scared him. What he meant by this was that I was being too clingy.... All I did was write him a poem... And one part of it said "I'd die for you" ...I didn't really mean to scare him I was just trying to reassure him that I wouldn't leave him. He told me that he kept having dreams about me finding someone else and so i thought I'd tell him nice things in a poem. I wish he didn't think I was going to leave him. He took a week off from our relationship and for 7 days I was crying and upset. Finally he told me he missed me and that he just got smothered a bit.... my response was basically "it's ok. I missed you too." I'm extremely passive in all my relationships but with him I've been most passive. He hasn't been talking to me much lately and so I try not to talk to him either. And it works! When I don't text him he texts me later in the day. I've talked to my friend about it though and she feels like he's taking me for granted..... I have to admit so do I..... I want to say something to him to address the way he keeps putting me off.... But I'm too nice and don't know what to say.... Could you please please help me out? I have watched a ton of your videos but still I cant build up the courage to put my foot down. I need him to commit to me and invest more time into me.....
im in a long distance relationship , I'm Pisces and he's a Scorpio, I'm 34 he's 46 we met before he moved to another state, we still are in contact with each other , we plan on visiting eachother every other month or every two months, eventually we will live together. we never were intimate, he initiated sex plenty of times and I said no, he respected that, it's giving him something to work for, we had an instant connection from the jump, we had arguments, and did no Contact multiple times, we have been talking for almost two years come September 12 th 2019 . We both keep eachother laughing, we don't see eachother physically, we have a soul connection , I do wonder sometimes if he sees other women, but Im no jealous woman. I know that he loves me and sometimes men wonder just to find out in the end most of the time they have a great relationship with a great woman. I was very needy and called him every day because I loved the way he made me feel, but I had to realize that he has a life and kids to spend time with as well it's not always about me.Trust and honesty is always the best route to go, and if you feel as if he's cheating or showing no interest, then how you feel is how you feel about yourself. Move on if you're not happy, but do so by telling him respectfully and be sure thats what you want to do and mean it otherwise he will continue to play games, if he wants you he will return to you. if not then it's his loss
the ending was the most realistic thing ever! whatever package you are its perfect why? because its your identity and worth as a human being.what can you do for someone who doesnt want to be with you? if you take care of a man like you take care of yourself and then hes still not there for you,then you should only take care of yourself! i think in general people chase whatever they really want and think that its better for them.if a man thinks to him self someone hotter than me is better fro him,compared to all energy and compassion and time and all we shared then i dont wanna be with a man like that...end of the story :)
Such accurate and sincere thoughts Matt. This has really hit the nail on the head for me. I was having this discussion with my fiancé the other day ( we ve been together for 10 and half years). We are both 26 and head over heels in love with each other, but even those strong feelings won't stop a wondering eye or attraction to some one else. It sometimes makes me insanely jealous to know James has found someone else attractive, even though I know it's ridiculous. But he's a guy, and that's what guys do. I've come to accept it. It doesn't mean he loves me any less. Ladies, if Uve ever felt this way, u are not alone, just give ur man some attention and remind him why he chose you above all the rest 😝👌 xx
Thanks for this. I'm going 26 and I've been with my man for 8 years. He's attractive but he's so faithful and loyal. Sadly.. recently, I started to notice him looking at other women which is not very him. I felt very insecure and my bdd symptoms started kicking in again.. Thank you for letting me know that I'm not alone in this journey.
the best advices.. 😘 i will surely try this. I will keep up my standards as said in the previous videos and show up my guy that I'm a complete package that he wouldn't have to regret. ☺ thank you for helping the womenz who get always confused with the situation...your videos made us find our way..
As a clinical psychologist of many years here is how people lose mates:1) very good about the uniqueness of a person being what we really fall for quirks of personality and intellect only they have...we all have had the experiemce that someone less attractive becomes MORE attractive once we talk with them for quite awhile and it deepens further as we get to know them, As we get to know very physically attractive people sometimes they become less and less attractive physically because of their personality. 2) The one thing that must be avoided at all costs is your partner developing disgust for you....once that enters a relationship it is almost irretreivable...if they once respected you but now they dont. It could be a personality feature that increasingly turns then off til they reject you or something you do thatviolates their ethical principles. Wd can tell often in a first session with a couple by their body posture as tey talk about and to each other, the expression on their face whether someone is repulsed and disgusted with their partner but we have to go deeper to find out what triggered that state historically. Ic is a misinterpretation or misunderstadning it can likely be repaired but if is a permanent feature of the other partner eg a personality trait the relationship is over. Personality traits ie the Five Facot Model openness,conscientiousness this one is a biggie wide differences on this trait can break a relationship. Extroversion/introversion wide differences usually lead to alot of conflict over activities the couple want individually and difficulty agreeing.Agreeableness...highly disagreeable people arent attractive to others they may make successful business owners or executives but they make difficult partners in a relationship too much agreeableness makes a person a doormat. High Neuroticism is a relationship killer ...it wears a partner down until they give up. I totally agree it is you the partner falls out of love with based on your behavior. The sad thing is that issues that stem directly from your personality cannot be readily changed quickly. In therapy we can HELP but any permament change evolves slowly over time eg an introvert CAN learn to be slomewhat more extroverted in particualr situations. I myself am an introvert meaning too much socal interaction with too manynpeople wears me ou
So we'll said! Me and the incredible guy I have been dating have been together for a year this month. We knew of each other in middle school, but never really talked to each other. I moved out of town for a a few years and came back my sophomore year of highschool. There was an immediate connection. He pursued me right away and let his feelings grow for me untamed, and after a few months I had the biggest freak out of my life. He said "I Love You". He said it often. At this point I wasn't sure how I felt but I knew I cared about him very deeply. In these few short months he invited me into his world I had gotten to know one of the cheesiest, fun-loving, pun making Family Guy I have ever seen. I saw that he had been a very loyal friend,and that the people he held close to him were a dream team. The problem was that I wasn't sure how I felt. He knew he felt very strong about me. The first time we dated last about 10 hours. (He knows it down to the minute). I couldn't date him until I figured things out. After nine months of gently pushing him to communicate, and a couple of painful of disputes, I finally knew for sure that I wanted to be with him. It was a June day, and we were hanging out as....something a little more than friends. I was working as a swim lesson instructor, and I had a couple of hours before my next lesson. Heath agreed to meet me at the park beside the place I worked at. We goofed off,and it was so much fun. I was so comfortable around him. I need up hurting my leg and I sat on the ground to pout about it. It didn't take him but a second to be where I was sitting. After confirming I was just being a baby, and that I was alright I looked up at him. Then it finally happened! He kissed me!!!! I never expected a kiss to be so damn perfect. I'd kissed a couple of people before but I never enjoyed it. This was so surprising.He pulled away and stood up releasing his general hands from my face. I just stared up at him in surprise. Needless to say I was already addicted. The day was perfect and everything flowed in a sweet blur. We have been together every since that day. Every day since I have loved him more.
Brilliant video and I just want to add Girls and Boys - That you don't need to try to impress them or compete with others. Just be authentic in every possible way and your truth will attract the right people and a partner ♥ ♥ ♥ MUCH LOVE x
I find the biggest security when having a Super demanded guy as a Boyfriend is having a history and that special connection. I don't get jealous even when prettier girls are hitting on him because I know what we had was build up over time and I know he wouldn't trade that for any superficial attention.
I really liked what you said in the last part of the video. ("You can sleep better knowing that you gave your best to a relationship"). It helps one to focus on whom we are rather than like you say focus on how to win your partner to whom ever else his looking at. And seeing it this way changes your attitude towards the relationship. Because no matter how much you do in a relationship to win your partner if he no longer sees that interest in you, they will eventually leave. You will be left with no energy and emotionally drained. So is better to be the best that you can be with what comes around you. ( Men , friends, family etc . ) right?
I am that before but now i realized why i should stress about that thing.im giving myself unpeace so i reverse.i focus more to myself enjoy everything i had
i just met this guy from muay thai and we are trying to have something, but i feel so down like you said because im often comparing myself with the girls in the gym or that following him, because he is good looking indeed, so i've been trying to change my mind about being jealous, besides not being constantly texting him or calling him i try to respect his space and become a support instead of a problem.
Thank you Matthew, again such great advice that really resonates within me. The trick to overcoming jealousy and comparing yourself is realizing it is a process, not an on/off switch. There has to be the concious battle for those insecure thoughts and a fundamental trust in your partner and trust that they see something in you that you don't. I feel like I found a piece of gold when I found my way around your channel. I've learned so much. I really appreciate it. :)
I love this. So happy that my mind is already there. We all have down moments but it's a way of thinking and approaching life and it's a very powerful feeling. Thanks for reminding us of that Matt. Xo
Sometimes I just wish I could enjoy the single life so I wouldn’t have to worry about this at all. No matter how “perfect” you may be for a person, they’ll still leave. I’d rather not deal with that over and over again.
its about being a good package, no package is perfect but combinations of everything makes our self as perfect package for our self and the person. How much values we bring to the table. okay point taken thank you so much!
I dont hv tht prob.. Everyday she meet beautiful girls.. My special one is a supermodel.. I dnt hv insecure with tht. I'm just a simple person and dnt even work in glamorous industry. I'm proud of my self and love my self n love her so much. I knw my strength i know i'm special to her.
I'm in a relationship(long dist relationship)... I'm a clumsy person to start with :p... All I kept thinking was wat if he finds a better girl out there .. But wen we met.. He cared a lot about me.. Not even once made me feel insecure. Corrected my mistakes .. Held me wen i tripped..etc... All I had to do was be myself rather than worrying about stuff .. So glad that I have him:)
This is the first time I actually listen to you or even see your video. But everything that you have said actually made me realize many things. Thank you for your really good advise and please carry on what you are doing, it can actually help many people.
What is really great about you is the way you share. usually when i hear things i need to work on or change i feel hopeless and discoureged but when you speak it makes me feel good,hopefull. thank you so much for sharing. i appreciate that very much
I watch this video every single morning. I am dating my boss at work and my colleagues are all hot women. Were all in the same office all day and sometimes he gets a wandering eye.
I met a guy online. He seems very nice. He’s an independent, successful, gentleman, nerd, businessman, likes to have fun, and willing to pay for anything. At first I was really freak out when he showed me all his wealth. His appearance is fair to me, but I like, how he’s very a neat guy, and treat me well. Also, we have one big common thing, we love to travel, and next month he wants to take me to Las Vegas. The problem is a very direct guy, he said he wanted me, he wants to sleep with me. But I’m so scared. I’m not sure that if this is normal or something. Help me.
+anet srolunh Tell him you're saving yourself for marriage and DON'T sleep with him. And don't do a shotgun marriage either. If he stays around for 6 months or more without sex and continues to be all those nice things, he's probably worth keeping.
I was my ex’s best looking girlfriend, he fell in love with someone, as he described, he’s more in sync with on a deeper level. I’d rather he was just a superficial person and went for a hotter woman. Instead I’m left on my own to face my flawed personality. It always always comes down to personality, and that’s painful for me.
I think this was one of the more beautiful messages you've had in your videos. Love wins. Sounds cheesy but usually that's the case. I sometimes make the mistake to withdraw myself completely if I feel insecure. I don't believe in the concept of keeping someone in a cage or bounded to me. I want him or her to be with me because they don't WANT to be anywhere else. So sometimes when I feel like they would rather be anywhere else I don't fight. Instead I'll retract into my shell feeling hurt and concentrate on other things than being with them without being too obvious of course. Because usually I know there is no rational reason for me to even be hurt in the first place and it wouldn't be fair to confront or bother them about it. It's my problem and also contra productive cause I'd look like an insecure crybaby^^ But I noticed that the people that are really close to me tend to get the changes in my behavior anyway and almost always reassure me in one way or the other. Just the other week I was being stupid again so I made myself busy didn't text or call him first and suddenly he was feeling insecure and wanted to spend every waking hour with me. I then confessed to him that I can't control my feelings sometimes but that I didn't want to burden him with my rejection issues and he was so incredible sweet about it that I think I won't be feeling stupid things for the next good while :)
This is the most sense I've heard.....I try my best to live this philosophy but finding an equal partnership can be tricky.x Thank you, your a legend Mathew.x
I hear your advice Matt and it is very positive. But relationship is not always ups and highs.. What if you’re at your lowest in your life and you cant bring anything in the table anymore.. Are you not worthy of love and commitment anymore? This is my situation right now. For over a year in my relationship it’s been good..until the second semester of nursing school came and now i gotta focus in school and cant really bring anything in the table anymore. Now my bf keeps telling me he wants a break and dont know whether he wants me or not anymore. So basically if you’re not bringing anything in the table, he can just kick you out whenever he wants
You are always worthy of love and commitment. Look at yourself - you're creating a career based around helping others and providing care for people in their most vulnerable time. Even in that one comment, having never met you, I can see an array of positives that you will bring to someone's life. If your partner doesn't see how important your schooling is to you - is he really right for you? The person who supports you, encourages you, sees that you are too special to hold back and comes to your house with takeaway after a long day of study - that's the person who is worthy of YOU.
If when you need your boyfriend to stand up and be there for you when you are at your most busiest time, is the time he wants out.Then you have to ask yourself is he really worth it? Do you want to invest time, energy, heartache on someone who can only be there when times are good? The times you need someone, the hardest, the lowest times and they are there for you, is when you fall more in love with that person. Also communicate that this is the time you need his support and patience. If he cannot give you that, then my advice is he is not worth it and get out before you waste your time and energy on a person who is not willing to support you.
As someone who completed nursing school and understands the difficulty it can put on your relationship, just know that your partner sounds like he's at fault. You're busy with exams and clinicals. You won't have time or money to spend on him and if he loves you he'd understand. The fact that he's so quick to bail makes me think that you should find another man. Someone that wants to help you study and gets joy from you passing exams although you'll still be there for him when you can. Sounds like your man is quick to break it because it's not convenient for him. Think about if you need this stress in your life right now and I hope you choose the right decision. Sending you cyber hugs and good vibes!
Thank you Alma S.! Only people that had been through nursing school would understand how stressful energy and time consuming it is. Im glad you understand my situation and yes i agree! He is quick to give up..
But wHat to do if HE is comparising me with other girls?! Thats a big red flag. And i cant be with someone whos always critisising me for the way i am. And the most hurting thing is, he has told me, he isnt sure that he wont cheat on me. Wtf? Thats not a man.
I was widowed this past April (2018). I am slowly getting into the dating scene but miss my hubby a lot. We were married for 41 years and for the last 12 of his life he needed more and more care which I gave. Things are so different out there. Where and how do I even start?
Matthew, all I can say is that this video came out just on a day when I really needed this to be reminded to me. Thank you for reminding us what really matters.
I totally agree with what you are saying...problem is...you cannot always be the "best package"! Children have to take priority; ill health of other and oneself causes changes. It takes a lot to go through the vagaries of life sometimes with someone that can put their own needs and ego aside..and realise you can't always be the complete package for them...but they stay anyway!
I take your advice.... And this is my advice... Its defends the situation.. If the person or woman who love his partner so much. She doesn't think competition because she know the level of love on his man... I guess.. Go on the flow and decently love his work interconnected your mind and heart in all what he's doing.. Really greatful to have like a man who will do anything for his Love of his life.. So much...
Fantastic advice I was in a situation like this and I spent the whole time being scared and upset instead of being the best I could be and thinking wow aren't I lucky.
To be honest, I won't try to keep any guy, if he breaks my trust, I will leave him, i won't beg him to stay either, their decisions is theirs not mine. I only adapt to every situation ppl give to me. i am already tired with any kind of men. So I am gonna just adapt to how they treat me.
Sweetheart your beautiful! Please do not lower your standards for any men. Don't loose your self always put your self first. Take care god bless you and good luck in life.
you just gotta be confident in your own skin regardless of how u look. I don't paint attention to Wether someone is hotter than me. I'm satisfied with my physical attributes. If he wants to leave me for somebody else, so be it. His choice. ❤😊
I think women should take charge in a relationship and focus on how you are adding to your partner's life. When you really add something real to his life you will keep your man. I thoroughly agree working on yourself is important but there must be a balance with focusing on you and giving your man what he needs.
***** Then I think it's time to work on yourself. Look at the things you think gives them value and ask yourself if you bring those things to the table as well.
***** There is going to be someone who brings more value(total value) than the other. Don't keep score. When you complete yourself, you will have more to give.
Looks, money or status.. it's applicable across the board. The focus should not be just one 1 or 2 things, not just looks. Hence I really agree with the concept of focusing on the whole package.
I recently met someone. HE started talking about a future. I was enthusiastic about it...but he is now pulling away...giving mixed signals. What should I do?
this happened to me just a few months ago. I met someone, he started texting and calling multiple times a day. He would tell me all the things he wanted to do with me (trips, camping, movies, eating out...) Once I started to show interest in a future with him, which HE always talked about, he got weird on me. He weirded out and disappeared on me 3 times, ( he didn't talk to me for 4 or 5 days, he said I was "grounded" because I accidently hung up on him...) I just asked if he wanted to me to give up, His reply, "every negative question has a negative answer, so YES. Give up." And then he said I need psych help....I'm still like "WTF?". Thank God, we never got physical. So, Kristie, I hope your guy isn't playing some weird game on you like mine did, but if he is,e you should let your guy go too.
maryprecious I think what happened in your situation is that what your guy said he wanted to do with you that showed commitment, were just words, not actions, so he won you over with just ideas of how great your relationship could be, yet you never do go and experience those things, so when you started becoming emotionally connected to him, he still wasn't really connected to you, cuz men really are slower in that department, and so he ran away when he saw you were serious and he didnt know whether he was ready or not. I would say you didn't do anything wrong but developed a tunnel vision as Matt would say for someone who really hadn't proven himself to you just yet. gotta be careful with the talkers, it's the doers that are the transparent, the talkers can really bullshit their way into our bedrooms.
I hope and pray you come to the Philippines. A lot of women can learn from you and I love your videos. They’ve been a great learning tool for me. Very eye opening and great. ❤️
