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Women don't approach men mostly because of ego and fear. There I just solved that mystery for you. They hate getting rejected and don't like the feeling that they had to make the first move.
i think it's more because women like playing hard to get and making guys jump through hoops so they don't look easy and they have no position to do that from if they're the one approaching.
Women do approach men. Attractive men. I used to think women didn’t approach men either until I saw a few RU-vid vids of very attractive men walking down the street. Literally women were walking up to them asking them to date. It’s just 90% of men aren’t attractive enough. I’m one of them.
This entire generation has forgot that dating was meant to find your ideal partner and get settled before you hit the wall , but it has become a loose form of prostituion
The thing is that regular men struggle to find a ONS while women struggle to find a high value man that will commit Dating apps and social media really fucked up everything
Lets just be honest with it. Dating apps have allowed men access to the cheapest pussy available. Why would you invest excess time/energy/money into a woman if you're just trying to take her down?
That goes both ways, many men today want a traditional woman with good values and preferably a virgin while they themselves are stacking their body counts and without direction in life. If you arent a traditional man with good morals yourself then you arent worthy of a traditional life.
Bruh! The big girl in the pink top at 12 minutes… Talks about being traditional with her skin showing, out at bars looking to find traditional men. 😂 Delusion, Delusion. 😂
Only in Woke Feminists America and Canada tho ! The rest of the World is not this bad . Women overseas are more Polite and well spoken and Feminine ! Those Female's in America are Garbage !
Woman: "Everything's like hookup culture now...nobody has emotional connections anymore." Interviewer: "What do you look for in a guy?" Woman: "He just gotta be pretty"
Women see you as an alcoholic if you drink to hit on them. But I'm shy, i need alcohol to talk to women. There is literally no solution for me. I'm damned if I do and damned if I don't.
I'm actually astounded at the ignorance of these women in honestly believing that men have more options than women do! They must literally live in a vacuum and not the real world.
The reason women don’t approach men is because no matter how gorgeous she is, no matter how many options she has… Women CANNOT deal with rejection. They have no sense of accountability so if it’s not spoon fed, they don’t want it. Do not ever let a woman emotionally manipulate you. 😂
I reconnected with someone I thought was my friend after years of no contact. The night we saw each other again she thought it was a date. I told her I was never interested in her only as friends. She told me she don't do friends and deleted me from social media
"Do not prostitute thy daughter, to cause her to be a whore; lest the land fall to whoredom, and the land become full of wickedness." (Leviticus 19:29)
Social media has definitely ruined the dating scene and the interaction between people in general. The social scene is deplorable nowadays - terrible! 🚫
3:14 is exactly why dating is hard. Women act like they know everything, its at the point that it's getting pretty stupid. I want to thank that lady for proving it.
They do, just not you (or me). They often throw themselves at tall handsome men they've just met. They do so in the most obvious and awkward way. Generally by making physical contact or just doing something extremely provocative. Play with his hair, hug him intimately, take his hat and put it on themselves, squeeze his bicep, ... all while making some cheesy and overtly flirtatious statement like "I'm lost in your beautiful blue eyes!", "Take me home with you!" or "You're so tall! But worth the climb!" They'll just walk up, ignore the guy he's talking to and take over his attention like that. Seen it dozens of times.
True. I’m 6’2, handsome and by far the most muscular in my city/area. Every time I take my shirt off at the beach or at some party girls approach me. They ask the most ridiculous questions just to start a conversation with me 😅
The K.O. was so perfect lmaoooo, women legitimately think that men have endless of women to pick from to have sex with. When in all actuality women have all of the options to pick from including other women, while men are struggling to just get past the first date
🤣🤣😂 I would say I agree with you but you and I have both seen those moo moo type of woman pregnant so 🤷🏽♂somebody is making her an option as well@@Effervescent_Smegma
Who cares, the divorce rate is over 65 percent, if you marry and it don’t work, she takes all your shit, and the chance of her being loyal, especially if she is hot, is very slim, quit putting women on a throne, most are vampires
I’ve been married for many years now and have children, and this kind of videos pop up while on RU-vid. It makes me learn the world all over again. This all is so new to me. I used to go on dates a lot, and men always wanted sex, nothing changed here, but I feel sorry for girls. No feelings, no love, from one to another.
3:14 - 3:39 No way that wasn't scripted... way too perfect an instant kill! Why'd you cut it from there?! I wanted to see what the first girl had to say to that!
Me too. She saw the reality and I'm like you I wanted to now what she would had say. I'm glad that woman answered. She had sex 9 days ago and the guy said forever probably like months ago or maybe few years ago.
Ok, so let me get this straight. They acknowledge that they no longer act traditional when it comes to dating and relationship with men, but when it comes to approaching they want it to be traditional so men will take a risk(and shame) on themself because they don't want to be rejected? Ah, these double standarts.. never gets old.
That's kind of a reach. Imagine being insecure and using a vanity method to decide if someone is worth the time. Now have someone to point out something about you. if you can't handle that, then reevaluate yourself. You get what you put out.
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😂when he asked the girl do she like playful banter and what would she say if someone told her she got a pointy nose,her friend was trying not to laugh hard.
Best pick up line is immediately compliment her.. It doesn't work on all but just opening up with" excuse me, beautiful " puts girls in a positive frame of mind to receive you.. From there you ask for name and if she has a man...then her number so your can get to know her better..
I don’t “approach” men, but I did break the ice when I matched with my boyfriend… I told him he has cute freckles. Long story short, he cheated. I was more into him than he is to me, and deep down I think it’s because I made the first move. He told me once that he thought I was out of his league… I wish I would’ve listened because I got really hurt throughout the past 3years. Typically, when I go out in public, men are polite and hold the door or sometimes give compliments… occasionally, people ask if I’m single 😅 but it always feels like joking, so I just smile. It’s been so long since I’ve had someone sincerely put effort into getting to know me, I would be really impressed
Don’t give up.. those “are you single”questions a man asks you will be sincere from the right man 1 day. You have to realize how men think, we ask that question because if u aren’t single we aren’t even going to waste our time on the next question or next move, we’ll just walk away and move on. We don’t do drama or play that just friends game. We don’t have time for it.
But you just told us that occasionally men make nice gestures to you and ask you if you’re single, like what kind of effort do you want before dating ?
my current girl approached me (at work). at the time she did it though, i wasn’t even tryna be serious with anybody so in my mind she was another “victim” on my hit list 😈😂. turns out we have great chemistry and i’d be a fool to pass something like that up. we got two years together. 💪
Question. You said "She was trying to shoot her shot.." I'm curious; Aren't you saying that the lady was seriously wanting to get with him ? Maybe you're right; she wanted a guy who is very "unused".....
It’s probably been a bit of time for him cause he’s shy (also he’s drunk in this vid) .. wish he would have tried though cause she was cute, but the prob is that the good sweet guys these days that girls like are too shy to ask them out.. and they run away like this guy 🤣
I was at the gas station and the kid at the counter was watching RU-vid when I walked up, so I said “whatcha watching? Anything good?” And he MELTED lol 😂 I guess he’s used to being looked through instead of addressed. Then he asks for my ID (I was buying beer) and his eyes got all wide at my age lol (thankfully, I’ve been getting that a lot 😅) Anyway, his boss walks up, so I told them the story about a guy begging when I walked in, and I told him “I don’t give money to men” explaining that it was offensive. So the kid (with newly bestowed swagger) says “do you give your number to men?” I laughed and said “not YOUNG men!” and he was hollering when I left. That was a funny, organic exchange. I feel like I empowered him to make a move. I technically made the “first move”, but it wasn’t explicitly hitting on him 🤷🏾♀️
To be honest as a woman we want the whole package just like men do. Confidence, good Looks, great personality, loyalty, great sex, and an intelligent human being.
Every man I ever approached was never really into me like that none of those encounters ever amounted to anything. From experience if a guy is interested in you he will most definitely approach you in some way no matter how shy they seem. He won’t let you leave the building before he gets in front of you.
Greetings everyone from sunny Florida 🌴 ☀ ⛱️..these are great topics. I feel that men but not all is about what they can get out of a woman. Some men are genuinely looking for a serious relationship. The best way to meet someone is when you are out and about. Supermarket, church, bars, on the street etc
when a women is always around you for no reason thats her way of approaching you. in terms of approchaing strangers it's very rare, thats for men to do.
Dating be honest, be firm with your answers ask the right questions,know what you want and what you are looking for and also when it comes to rejection do it respectfully.
0:32, 11:43. She knows what's up, its just like she said though. Things have changed so much that its all f*cked and nobody can be themselves. Everyone is forced to act different than their idealsjust to get noticed and find quality people that want a partner vs a f*ck buddy.
She’s old school but clearly she ain’t applying what she’s preaching lol. She’s out here at bars, events, clubs, and dressed like a 304. Old school women were always submissive, feminine, and modest without a man telling them because they knew that was their role. Nowadays a-lot of these girls make they own rules and break them whenever they want for whoever gives them a tingle. But at the same time, they expect you to be that old school man and give them old school benefits without being themselves.
Women don't approach men because they've been raised to believe that it's whorish or slutty to make the first move. Just like some women who feel shame for having a high body count, there are women who feel shame to have to "be first" and approach a man. They have no problems having sex with hundreds of men, they just won't ask them first. In reverse, there are women who are more bold than others and will be first in line to make a move on a man before other women talk to him. Some women don't use words but instead use their body parts to make the first move. Sometimes the accidental "boob brush" or "booty brush" isn't so accidental or unintentional.
“The problem wit dating is these hoes ain’t fuckin”…… the interview coulda stopped at that moment and I would still be impressed by this exquisite sound bite.. Pure GOLD!!!
1:50 is my kind of woman, she’s gorgeous, well articulated, seem to have good morals, smart, very down to earth but seems to have healthy amount of class and a bubbly personality 😍, i would fall in love with this woman quick
Yea.....and THAT "kind of woman" is known for initiating 80% of the divorces because they feel bored or lost passion. Then they proceed to take away everything you have or built for yourself. You may fall in love with her quick but guess what......she will dump you even quicker
She looks classy,, she talks very well, but pay attention to what is coming out of her mouth. Based on her comments you can extrapolate how it would be at home with her. She’s a narcissist with no empathy.
Right? As a woman I have approached men. I made eye contact with them and if they responded with a smile or some kind of acknowledgement I went up and bs’d with them for a few minutes. It’s easy to tell if they feel you or not. If not, I would buy them a beer and tell them to enjoy their night and bounce out. No hard feelings or rudeness- there’s no need. Women need to remember that we might be someone’s cup of tea but we will never be everyone’s cup of tea unless it’s just for seccs. :)
No, I am not going to be submissive, if you are dominant. I am going to be submissive if you are gonna respect me, protect me and love me. You can be a caring guy aaand with strong personality that is the perfect combination. But please do not try to dominate me in a way where you are actually humiliating me.
Yes, I think if you uphold your standards as a woman and actually respect yourself as you want to, I think that you will GAIN far far far greater discernment and be able to find a very high value and respectable man because you will also be walking in your own self-respect. Not all men are hoes. Not all men are the same. I think what people get really confused is that their own ideas about themselves and about life leaves them blind to good men. And honestly, a good man just wants a good woman. He wouldn't settle for a hoe unless he was weak in character. Just keeping it real. And not only that but you and your significant other become role models for others in society. This may push other women and men to also change and raise their own standards.
It’s cap, it al have to do with choices in life, you got ex pornstars that are happy married with children, you got ex felons that served 15 yrs in total and now are happy married, it’s just the choices you make and the opportunity you get and what choice you gonna make with the opportunity, good and bad are just assumptions, if someone likes you they don’t care if you are bad or good or that kind of history
