The Simp, Explained | What Does It Meme? 

Its literally so dumb💀

Lol that's really sad

Simp has basically just replaced white knight on the internet. Casual sexism at it's finest.

Yeap, pretty much the non sense to which all this stereotyping leads. Everyone is a unique person, no one is a no-personality no-identity robot that can be classified into simplistic categories of the pop culture.

What a simp

IRunWithVampires101 Ikr? Lol

Yeah. I only know about it for three months or so.

Yeah I know right

Well, the term "Simp" has only been popularised in recent years, but I've mainly heard it referred to as "The Dogged Nice Guy Gimmick".

Me neither

But, if the simp has self repect and is willing to walk away. They wouldn't be a simp. They would be a man or woman with a strong center.

Amen, brother! Be willing to accept a "no" and move on is key to almost everything in life.

It's that SIMPle I'll just see myself out 😉

@@rosshenderson2940 uhh yes... hence the “difference” between a simp and someone successful lol

@@davideassis87 Notice how the examples they use in the video: Ben & Leslie from Parks and Recreation Dawson and Jen from Dawson’s Creek Jim & Pam from The Office Ross & Rachel from Friends All the women only started to show interest when the men stopped simping, showed some dignity, and walked away.

Yeah it needs to be retired. Nobody likes being called one and it just promotes misogyny.

I thought a simp was someone who acts like a "nice guy"

@@haley5735 with that additude you can convince more people to use the word. I didn't want to use it but now you convinced me

@@eduardopantoja9115 techinically yes. But nowadays it's being thrown around to anyone who is just being nice to women. That term, and "white knight" have become super overused, and no longer used in the appropriate context. I've noticed anytime someone calls out misogyny, they are either called a simp or a white knight. (the comments section of a lot of 2 and a half men clips, especially the ones that feature judith, are full of this)

Me neither. I got called a simp just for talking to someone.

If you have to confess you already know the answer. Why bother?

@@viharsarok What? Are you saying people just "know" they love each other and can get together without ever actually saying it?

@@ellybean7354 Yes, of course. That's how it happens in real life. If you like somebody and they like you back you'll gravitate towards each other without saying anything. Confessions work in movies only.

@@viharsarok My own experience can counter this. I spent a year in heartbreak because I believed if a man was interested, he'd probably confess first. Turns out we were both interested in each other, but past relationships discouraged him from seeking any more, and I didn't want to pursue him out of fear of making him uncomfortable (as people had done that to me in the past) nor lose the chances I had to talk to him without things becoming awkward (which I realize now to be a very unhealthy mentality). Thanks to a mutual friend who talked to both of us privately about it, we managed to get our feelings out in the open and make things work. Perhaps that's how it's been with some, but definitely not all. Making assumptions about how others feel, even those we consider close to us, can hurt them. There are a scary number of people who've believed others were in love with them, or could fall in love with them if they used the right tactics, and have instead harassed them unknowingly.

@@ElectricZoeEel What you're talking about does happen but as a general rule, if somebody is interested in you they will either approach you or make it particularly easy for you to approach them. It's that simple.

Pog

Lol. They wouldnt watch it

XD

twitch was a mistake

Not everyone on twitch is a simp for ladies showing barely TOS breaking content. Some twitch users are respectable

I don't like these absolutely meaningless labels, but yeah, most often for most normal people "simp" is not a trait of character but a label that is limited to a precise context. I see such "simpy" behavior as a credit undeservedly gifted to the other as a positive basis for a potential relationship. We all have different personalities in different situations. You are not the same person at your job than you are at home or in some other place. Giving someone a very positive place from the get go in your interaction, gives them a positive role to instinctively adapt their personality to and with time to grow into making it their normal, thus becoming a better happier person in a long run. In other terms a positive perspective on you and a positive role given to you will not only validate and encourage you in the immediate but also stimulate your growth and happiness as a person in the long run. By contrast someone demanding, who has a critical and judgmental attitude and makes you feel on a constant toxic trial of either achieve this, be pretty, be this or that or become worthless to me and lose everything, will put your spirit down, will in a long run simply depress you, lower your self esteem and push you down into stagnation or decadence. It is wrong to think that someone has low self esteem just because he gifts you high credit. Neither does it mean that he doesn't see your other reality, hence the term "gift". In overall, I'd say that any simplistic label such as "simp", is solely based on a simplistic superficial external analysis of the situation that can cover many deeply different realities that in essence can go from crazy psycho stalker to smart relationship building. "“In the end, it is impossible not to become what others believe you are.” so let's believe in the best in each other :)

I’m so I’m not alone😭 this was me at the beginning of college... it was a dark time😂😅

I didn't realize I was until I watched this video. 😳

Me in High School and College. I just never say my feelings and definitely give way more than I get in return. I'm glad I'm noticing that.

Dude...this one guy in highschool resubmitted my essay I sent him cuz he said it would ‘help him figure out the assignment’... and another in college was mooching notes ... The cringe behaviour ... the daddy issuessssss 😬

Thank you, F Scott Fitzgerald.

@Akshay 786 As in don't be an insecure man that made his fortune through stocks and bootlegging while pining for a married woman?

What the....? Did he succeed in alcohol stocks at least??

Him and Cyrano De Bergerac. I'm surprised that they didn't mention him.

@@juanmanuelpenaloza9264 hey, what did Scott Fitzgerald do???

I'm not entirely sure that quote highlights the whole idea of a simp though. Many times a simp is just a 'nice guy' who wants sex or a relationship and expects it because he is nice. So that quote works as long as you consider that the guy saying it is trying to say that he's not getting what he wants and therefore will stop caring about her.

@@haley5735 Morty is definitely a simp, totally and unwisely devoted to Jessica, but I wouldn't say he's the Nice Guy (tm) because he never gets angry at her for not meeting his expectations. However in the episode I quoted, Morty has a temporary bout of extreme clarity and self-awareness (brought about by some brain tech). He realizes suddenly what he's been doing and quits doing it. When the effects pass, he reverts to being pretty much the same simp as before. But yeah, the quote reflects the awareness that the typical simp lacks, and he says it in response to Jessica saying she misses him.

@@haley5735 I think the problem is that the line is kind of blurry in the nice guy/honest guy fenomena, IMO telling a girl you are not getting what you seek out of a relationship and opting out is mature behavior as long as you don't berate her or call her names. You present your feelings, wait for an answer and react accordingly, there is a lot of people, as the nice guy is not entitled to a relationship, the woman is not entitled to a friendship.

@@haley5735 ok , i think we need to define the term : a simp doesn't lowers guilt on the woman he simps for , he endures and endures a lot ending up in emberassing situations ... a nice guy on the other hand will call a woman a bitch and guilt her for not sleeping with him afther "courting" ... in short : the simp is locking itself in the room with you , while you get locked in the same room with the nice guy ...

@@davidegaruti2582 That definition is very well-thought out and it makes sense. However, there are many definitions of a what it means to be a simp on the Internet, and I follow a different definition than that. Many times, a simp is ostracized by their (usually male) friends and not by the girl, so yes, there would be no need for them to make her feel guilty for their own actions and the action of their friends. So generally, when the simp says 'please do this, please notice me' or whatever embarrassing thing they choose to do, it is going out of his way to bother the woman for something. That is the intersection, I believe, because simps can sometime harass women in the name of affection.

Exactly, Ben and Leslie both liked each other and he was never going to ridiculous lengths for her before they got together. They both have a very equal and balanced relationship. He isn't a simp at ALL

@@lana5201 also one of the healthiest and cutest relationships too!

@@obsessivefangirl5055 yes! 100% !

I think he represents more the kind of men that are unfairly called simps by randos on the Internet that what simps were supposed to be in the first place.

@@filiaaut yeah but I don't think if you dote on your partner after you're together and their feelings are completely reciprocated for you it's really called simping.

The guys who say this only view male-female relations through a sexual lens. So if you support a woman, you must be trying to fuck her. A few years ago the term was "white knight", but I guess society has moved on.

@@mankytoes In between white knight and simp there was also the word "cuck." Always the same idea, just renamed every few years.

@David Van Siclen it’s one thing to give without expectation because you are sincerely wanting to make a person happy. It’s another thing to “give” with a hidden agenda and hidden intention of wanting something to exchange for it. Because then in the end you’re only going to blame yourself and the other for not satisfy your own selfish expectation.

@@summerhoang What would you say if the person who receives said help is better off than the people supporting her, doesn't work, specifically targets emotionally weak men and deceives them by faking a personal connection and gratitude with her followers? Just for the record, I'm not the incel type, I'm a man and I've been in a happy relationship with another man for five years, but I do see a recent trend where influencers (I'm using a very loose definition) adopt the same business model as content creators , but instead of giving things like early access or even mentioning their names, they commoddify the very celebrity/fan relation, feeding their affection-starved fans with false hope.

@@Toshimi1043 There are slight variations to the terms. Especially literally 😂. But yes, recently they have all become conflated by bozos who wan to show how "alpha" they are. There ARE simps, cucks and white knights in the world, no denying that. But there are as many wannabe "alphas" who think any act of decency is a sign of inferiority.

Yeah, very sensitive, nuanced and insightful

You'd never date him unless you're ast your prime

@@Red_Hood514 idk. But I would rather date him than you ;)

@@maiavanwaes7590You definitely not my type based on your comment... and you wouldn’t be able to handle me sweetheart

@@Red_Hood514 haha, dude... you're the one being all weird about it. In my first coment, I was talking about the video... not the simp himself. I like their analysis. Then you come here like a fustrated, white, single cis gender male talking about dates and whatnot when we were clearly comenting on the quality of the video xD man just get a girl already, you almost look jalouse of a simp ^^"

*20 year old boys. Speaking from experience

Exactly, not all nice guys are cut from the same cloth, and are friendly simply because they like the girl's company, and not because of some hopeless crush. 🥰❣️

Exactly. Its the dumbest thing ever.

Man: I love my wife Incels: sIMp

It's not only the fourteen year old ones, THAT'S the sad part...

I think that the K-pop and Harry styles examples you gave are considered as parasocial relationships... when I think about it, parasocial relationships are a form of simping, so yeah.

I agree , I hate it when people call men simps just cause they act like gentlemen to their women.

i think those are parasocial relationships

My GF lives hairy style so much. She even started a harry styles fan club in high school (Japanese always have school clubs they are forced to join or make) When harry rumours of him and Olivia Wilde dating started happening she was depressed for a week. Not even a joke. Lmao

@x x I lived in Japan for 2 years haha. I've heard of it. This is also a thing in South Korea. It's pretty crazy.

Also, how the girl is always with some guy who treats her like crap so we, as the audience, are set up to be perfectly ok with her cheating or entertaining the other love interest.

Yes

@@iamV10010 Er, but you do realize there are bad boy/girlfriends who do treat their spouses like crap right?

@@moonlitebrite9317 amen

@@moonlitebrite9317 Yeah there are and it's great if someone is being supportive and encourages the MC to stand up for themselves when this happens but in TV/movies/books that's not what they do. The "good spouse /girlfriend" doesn't leave their partner because they are bad people, even if they are, but rather because someone else shows interest in them. It's almost implied that they would've left their partner for the other person no matter what but it's ok bc the partner is mean

The bitch ? You mean women right? Please stop calling women bitches

@semi ) Thank You! I wanted to say something like this.

@Ru paul You sound jealous and bitter.

OKAY WHAT HAPPENED IN YOUR REPLIES? THERE'S SO MUCH GOING ON BUT ONLY 4 OF THEM-

@@alizeica519 ) Ru paul deleted his comment wich was rather misognoystic....

Nah

Eh it depends

It depends on how you define "confidence". For most people "confidence" is to act as you're not insecure about anything and such behavior can be followed by arrogance and even toxicity most of the time. For me "confidence" is to accept yourself while doing your best despite your insecurities. This can even lead you to self-improvement, because you're being honest with yourself. This is what I love the most on someone, waaay more than the popular definition.

Yes, people don't need to do grand gestures to impress someone. Have some confidence and start a conversation.

@@renatamarques8610 nah. Plenty of people appreciate a gesture

Yes I like their relationship because they both pursue each other and want to be together. It’s not Ben convincing her to like him.

He a simp.

My husband was called a simp by his customers when he mentioned that I had dropped him off at work so I could go see a movie only I wanted to see and was going to pick him up when he got off of work. Lol it really confused us when he was called that because literally we just thought that we were being independent individuals but considerate of each other's plans that day

@@hambone4984 that sucks, sorry. What a bunch of jerks honestly.

It's another way to encourage abusive treatment to women in society

I smell simpage

But people would call him a simp

Tangled is a movie before it had it's own TV show.

But she's the monarch, she would literally have to ask him.

He never explicitly said he asked her several times, that years and years bit could have just been part of his joke...I mean otherwise he'd just have been settled for eventually, and woman couldn't respect a guy who'd been orbiting her for that long right?

@@docthefaust4519 Women can get complimented by his determination

Yessss do it

Why do I feel like Cher from clueless would be that

these girls wont ever do a negative take on female roles

@@MmentoMori They aren't even willing to do on for Becky which ignores the fact of how racist they are and trys to find sympathy for them.

@@MmentoMori they've done them on plenty of girl orientated tropes. They even did Karen's.

Same ! Lol I had no idea ! now I’m questioning my existence hahah 😂😂😂😂😂😂

It doesn’t mean the same thing. Simp was a slang word before, but the way Phoebe used means a general sucker or gullible idiot. This SIMP used in the video is from a misappropriated slang term from AAVE that has been around for over 30 years.

@@crownofeunoia1907 citation needed

@@luisalejandro2335 Google it. Like everyone was not using simp for a guy kissing up to a girl until Black folks on Twitter started using it like a lot of the Internet slang you know.

Mandela Effect?

and when I say some people I mean men 🤦

The fact that he's married already makes him an non-simp.

@@mrtyrant1680 Absolutely. The terms are mutually exclusive. A simp is defined by desperately trying to get into a relationship. A person already in a relationship can never be a simp.

@@matunusdonnerhammer3423 IKR I was watching a clip of Up the other day, and somebody in the comment section was saying something about how Carl was doing something great to honor his wife Ellie, and of course somebody called Carl a simp.

@@kittykittybangbang9367 Than that person doesn't know the meaning of the word simp. A married simp makes about as much sense as an adult baby, a vegan carnivore, chaste porn or an intelligent Trump supporter.

Yeah, guys who spend time on women they like are often called SIMP by guys who strictly do one-night stands and booty calls.

Guys who use the slang vocabulary are so insecure that they can never comprehend the importance of a relationship as their only desire is to own and dominate the girl as a trophy or possession.

@@OwenRona You realize this entire video used the slang vocabulary, right? Sometimes people are just using common terms.

Yessss! Ive been called one before by a guy

I don't use social media much but the only times I've seen the term being used is for guys who literally hand out hundreds of dollars at a moment's notice, and I don't mean to real friends going through difficult times needing economic assistance, I'm talking about women who just want nice things for free

So well said!! Ben isn't a simp because firstly his feelings are 100% reciprocated and also he makes all those big gestures for her after they start dating, he's not doing that stuff to woo her or win her over, but because he genuinely wants to. It might have been considered simp-like if he'd been making big gestures for her before they were together. Also he's one of the most adorable characters I've ever seen.🥰

@@obsessivefangirl5055 Very key point about him doing that stuff *after* they start dating. It stops when they break up for the campaign, which he sticks to despite Leslie trying to find ways to prolong their involvement in parks department projects, and then starts up again when they’re back together and eventually married. And he gets all the same back from Leslie who is a huge giver. He also doesn’t go easy on Leslie when they’re back together and he takes over as her campaign manager - e.g. running a negative campaign ad against Bobby Newport which they clash over before reaching a compromise. Also agreed, he’s just super adorable all around!

@@withinwithout6263 yesss! That negative ad example is spot on. Also there was an episode in s6 as well where they disagree about something and have a hilarious fight which ends with them both standing in a freezing fountain🤣. Either way Ben holds his ground against Leslie many times and doesn't always go along with what she says.

Some men have called the character a SIMP for being willing to set aside his own feelings and work for his wife.

@@GenerationNextNextNext ikr! Their misogyny shows clearly. If more men were like Ben Wyatt, this world would be a much better place.

I thought that was the point? He acts so intense that no one wants him to end up with Andie.

I heard that the original ending was Andie and Duckie getting together, but audiences HATED that, so she got with Blaine, so I don't think it's an unpopular opinion in the slightest. Lol Edit: Added Blaine's name.

Duckie is just a boy in conflict with himself, he really loves Andie, but he's childish and doesn't know how to demonstrate, don't blame he so much, it's normal

@@brendon1441 stalking is not normal. Edit: He also acts like he knows Andie's feelings and intentions better than herself. That should not be encouraged or overlooked.

Blaine, was a brand name for refrigerators I believe.

Nope, not "how society sees women" ...

@@smartass0124 yes, because apparently in order to be strong you have to be a man in a hot female body 🙄🙄🙄

The feminine men are not seen desirable, unless they are at peak of Financial or artistic success. This has nothing to do with how society sees women, it simply a projection of what's deemed desirable in popular culture and it's always a hyper masculine guy.

@Ru paul it's not that she needs to "deal with it".. She's just taking offense to something that has nothing to do with her being a woman or how they are seen.

What does it tell us about that?

Nowadays if you open the door for a woman your called a simp

@@monicacreator3168 some people but a true simp my first answer or giving money to online girls thinking you have a shot at them

@@kingdomhreats23 true a healthy simp is a oxymoron

Exactly. A simp can't be "enlightened", because then he wouldn't be a simp.

@@kingdomhreats23 Er, what is wrong with that it's their money, they can do whatever they want with it. I'm sorry, but this just comes across as an insidious way to stigmatize sex work and/or cam girl profession.

I continue to love your quotes, life can be hard AND easy simultaneously!

Not all evil is easy... Serial killing seems like a LOT of work. But point taken ;-)

@@Snowshowslow Conquering the world is evil.

@@trinaq thank you

@@The482075 Yes and I'd be way too lazy for that too 😁

In Japan it's considered a good virtue to protect those you care about.

Yeah.. like he's only seeing the fantasy version of her and not the reality of what it would actually be like.

Yes it seems like attachment and mommy issues.

@@iamV10010 But most people who are in that state of mind see the fantasy version rather than the reality version. When you first fall in love or in crush you don't immediately see the "real" person, you instantly see the more romanticized version of a person.

Hah! You say like it's something simple. Moving on is often not an option.

This channel has to give you a VIP membership because I see you everywhere!!

But sometimes i think that the "simp" try to do something good for the people around him , but the "Nice guy" only is selfish and never thinks about the others , even though the "simps" do somethings bads

Simp and nice guy are the same

I think simps don't necessarily even believe they can get the girl. To me it sounds more like the simps just have the dream of "oh but what if..." but never act on it more than being kind, which just ends up hurting themselves more than anyone else. Gunther is a good example. And Ross was like that too at first. Nice Guys are inconsiderate and persistent, like Ted, that believe their crush should be with them because they love the girl and would "treat them right", so why is the girl being stubborn for not being with them.

I love Marshall

My problem with this term. Is the simp only treat women with kindness. Making women look like special little kinds. Why don't these men show this same exact kindness to other men? The simp opens the door for that pretty girl because you just wanna smash or be in a relationship I don't know. But the simp wouldn't the door for men or unattractive women. The problem I have with these men is their kindness is usually one-sided and usually has an agenda behind it. They would be indifferent or mean towards men and unattractive women. But automatically change to a super simp once a pretty woman walks into the room. Who is a complete stranger they don't know? Any treat her like a princess. You shouldn't give the bare minimum of kindness or more to just one particular hot woman stranger. You give the bare minimum of kindness to everybody. Open the door everybody. Don't have a fake nice guy motive for opening the door. Be nice to everybody, not just attractive women.

@@markstriker925 Agreed with all of this, especially the part about how they become super simps when an attractive woman walks in and treating her like a princess. I'd say they're nice to hot women mostly because they want to smash and not because they want to be in a relationship. They pine after these women and put them on a pedestal because they think it's the only way to get that kind of woman to like them. Also because those kinds of woman aren't usually attracted to simps.

Okay yoo this story kinda spooky, I hope she’s alright though….

Nah, you have to start hating/blaming the women to become an incel

What’s an incel?

@@nagisa0931 It's short for "involuntarily celibate." It's a term used by (typically straight) men who self-identify as such and blame their situation on the women who spurned them because they feel entitled to romance and sex. The stereotype of self-proclaimed incels, though, is that they are often dorky and unattractive, and that is why women spurn them.

@@inkwisitive That's the worry though, the simp will experience so many failures and decide women are to blame- after all, he's done everything for them and only been rejected.

@@teacoffee42 That's fair. I remember a BBC program that interviewed a number of self-identified incels and, while one was pretty awful and enjoyed catfishing women and videoing it, another was very thoughtful and simply drew solace from being part of an online community

Dude shonen male characters are almost always oblivious to the feelings of female friends around them. It annoys me af, so much so that I wish there wouldn't be any romance in whatever shonen manga I pick up.

@@aenirrinea523 right, like if you are not going to do it correctly, then do not do it. I think it hurts the impressionable reader's perception of what romance should look like

@@93abc123 yeah and people act like it's was a great anime romance, I was like, "They interact maybe five times in 700+ chapters and every time he says anything to her she blushes and then faints." I really think there was one good relationship in that whole show.

@semi alright, thats a good distinction

Simp and a nice guy Are the same. Calling them a nice guy is a nicer way of putting it

There's definitely an overlap between them

Jesus, the women who intentionaly lead is so true. Years ago I had to deal with a girl who scold me for "not trying hard enough to win her", even though she literally told me she was not interested in me from the get-go, but apparently I needed to ignore that and just keep trying. People be crazy I swear, lol.

@semi sometimes its both.

He’s also her employee so they’re conflating things he does out of subordinate duty to his queen with romantic devotion

In the books, Jorah is way more foward and even harassed her at times. (In the books he's a descontruction of the courtly love.) In the show, it's played straight.

@@mrtyrant1680 Either way, calling him a simp is clearly off the mark.

I have and I agree with the Take.

He literally volunteered ib the second film/book because of his unrequited feelings.

@@Dauerglotzer123 it’s so much more complicated than that. By the second reaping Katniss had already fallen in love with him, the trauma that they had gone through made them become closer to each other. Haymitch couldn’t have protected her in the games, plus, who wouldn’t volunteer to save a loved one? In the books his family was abusive to him, and practically abandoned him after his first games, his family was Katniss, Haymitch and maybe Delly.

Yes, lol

If you don't mind me asking, does "gado" literally translates to simp or does it mean something similar to it?

@@aenirrinea523 It literally means cattle. I guess you can tell why, a horde of non thinking following. Interestingly enough, since the last president was elected, the term started to be used for his supporters too. President Bolsonaro supporters = "bolsogado" or "bolsominion"

@@EmmaPersil oh like trump supporters

@@reniseboisrond5971 pretty much. Bolsonaro is a Trump wannabe...

Agreed

Incel isn’t a trope I think I’ve seen much in media. Do you have examples?

@@Ergoperidot Hal from Megamind Sugou from SAO Gaston Frollo Zoller from Inglorious Basterds

@@ashleightompkins3200 They don’t self identify as virgins so there’s no way to know that they are incels. Virginity is literally the main characteristic of an incel. They’re very toxic obviously but I don’t feel like it fits

@@ashleightompkins3200, the majority of them act like nice guys though

@@Andyatl2002 And that's what incels believe they are but their behaviour is tainted with the idea of being so nice that any woman they set eyes on should fall at their feet from the first hello.

This.

True.

Agreed

I want this too but I really hope they don't consider us all to be Trump supporters lol-

@@alizeica519 we don't, no worries. Can't speak for all Europeans, but usually we consume more diverse media, so foreign news play a big role in being informed. On the other hand, most exchange students that went to the US made the experience that Americans are chronically uneducated and were asked really weird questions by Americans, like 'is Hitler still alive?'

@@sourgummiescureyourpain4555 W H A T? Someone asked your friend if Hitler was still alive?

Also east asian countries.

@@sourgummiescureyourpain4555 Yep, Americans seem very uneducated to us Europeans but that's probably because we hold them to European standards of general knowledge. We might seem uneducated to them, too. I've been asked dumb questions by Americans such as if we have buildings and roads in Hungary (lol). But truth be told, that's just one or two people, many Americans surprised me with their knowledge about Europe, e. g. somebody knew where Hungary is located within Europe.

💯💯💯 in no way is Gatsby a loser at all. I also agree that it’s great that a man will put effort into seducing the woman they want. Why would I want a man that isn’t putting great effort in courting me?

Yeah, but did he do it all JUST for Daisy? If so, that's a problem.

@@ballo3595 willing to bet he wanted a luxurious life as well.

Perhaps Gatsby deliberately placed his affections and self-worth in an unattainable woman's hands. Gatsby was running away from himself for quite some time. His quest for Daisy's affection is like an outward manifestation of an inward battle.

@@samanthagupta Alr. How much?

You aren't alone mate I hate the degradation of the this and many terms to derogatory status with/without context. Also personally, the very concept of owing something for decent human behaviour is as far from love as it can. Love isn't a trade , love is a verb, and mutual respect (without losing self respect or being arrogant, entitled) is I think the most significant part of any relationship,romantic, familial, friendly or otherwise

This.

All of this. And total agreement with Orion

No, you should simp for your sister and mum

It's all about unequal power and/or dedication where 1 party is over committing and the other doesn't reciprocate or takes advantage. You can be a simp for friends, family, authority figures, celebrities etc

@@KingHiki its really equal when my sister does give anything to me XD

There is always that kid that would do anything to be part of the friend group even if it's degrading, I think they should also count as simps

I know right!

U know why

Don't forget to pick me the term.

Underrated comment

It's DOUBLE sexist, because it also implies that treating women with respect is "pathetic"...

THIS!!!

come to brazil

Isso mesmo , nos Eua e em outra culturas são chamados de "Simp" que são caras muito trouxas que fazem tudo por mulheres que às vezes não valem a pena , no Brasil é o famoso "gado" , por isso esses personagens como Ross , Ted , Boyle são gados por fazerem um monte de burrada por mulheres que as vezes nem valem a pena , o famoso "Gado demais"

They made a video about the show when they go into detail about it, I think it was just a reference, an example (on this video I mean)

@@ArtificialPerson it was just a reference yes but they said that we see woman LUSTING after a guy as healthy and To me CRAZY EX-GIRLFRIEND marked a change in showing Woman being showed in that light, the picture didn't match the words on screen in that case. But yeah maybe I was being a little too nitpicky with that as they using an example and not actually talking about they thoughts of the Show itself. I looked for your video but I sorry I can't find it.

They.....refuse? What the hell do they think he is then?

Marinette is lowkey irritating. I prefer her when she’s ladybug.

@@zendayasfruityfrenchfry1784 yeah, I like her but she can be a little overreacting sometimes

@@everwildart3563 Honestly

@@zendayasfruityfrenchfry1784 Marinette is more coming off as shy and unsure then anything given her crush is a rich kid

Joan from Clone high

You mean the one where stuff romanticizes cheating?

@@ninjanibba4259 yup

His face when Dany asks for Daario after the battle gets me every time.