The Simple Way To Get Respect From Anyone | Jocko Willink 

Napoleon taught a lot about this concept. Admonish in private, praise in public. Inspire greatness as well.

My dad was a military field officer. Long after his death, one of the men in his command said that while serving with him there was no doubt who was in command, as long as everyone was doing their job it was like being on a camping trip with your favorite uncle.

100% and this creates a future generation of better leaders. It only takes 1 toxic leader to destroy a team.

In other words, to be a leader and to have authority over others, be liked and likable. That’s actually spot on I think

Respect must go both ways. Your subordinates aren’t stupid they will see right through you if you don’t care, respect them, or are a selfish individual.

This makes sense. I can think back to many awkward situations where not feeling cared about and not caring about the leadership caused chaos in the workplace

Good leaders create a culture of trust and empathy where you focus on understanding what the organisation does and what your role is in it in context to others. That creates purpose, safety and support

... Love your neighbor as yourself.

Love one another as I have loved you. -JC

It’s great knowing that someone has your back no matter what, whether it’s you looking out for your leader or someone looking out for you as the leader. Respect is reciprocal and it makes for a well oiled machine.

The problem we have is because Most people always taught that " you only need a good job to become rich. These billionaires are operating on a whole other playbook that many don't even know exists.

I'm so tired of toxic team leaders and toxic management here in cape town south africa...Bertrand from cape town south africa

Truth, as a Correctional LT, thats how i led, i truly cared for my subordinates and would fight tooth and nail for them against the upper administration and in return they cared for me

You’re a Saint . We need more men like you

They say friends will help you move....REAL friends will help you move a body.

I see this in my team. There’s authority everywhere because we care about each other.

Love and respect from me. I wish we had leaders like him in charge.

Amazing truth!

unity, love and respect

I've never heard anybody (except maybe Goggins) call this out. Subscribed. And bought your (audio, lol) book, based on this single video alone.

I’m a 45 year old Mom to two grown daughters and I have always praised them in public & punished them in private. I worked in HR for a decade & treated my 198 employees the same way.

GOOD SHIT. THANKS.

Nice work ❤

Better to be loved than feared.

this is great advice

There has to be a level of respect as well. I can like/care about someone but if I don't respect them I will no follow.

It starts with credibility. If the leader is not resting on their actual authority but has demonstrated or has a well known reputation for competence, reliability, fairness, being reciprocal, open mindedness, dedication... this is the type of person you would like to follow. Managers and bosses tend to rely on the fact that they are actually empowered to command but their priorities center around self promotion, self protection (cya), personal enrichment and ego stoking. Leaders act from a sense of responsibility to the mission, the organization and the people working within it. It’s easy enough to figure out what you’re dealing with. When a person’s thoughts, words and actions match, particularly under pressure or stress, you are dealing with an authentic person. When there’s a disconnect then their words are meaningless, their agenda is hidden and their credibility is suspect.

Spot on.

He's talking about charismatic leadership, the most powerful of all. People will obey a strong figure until he fails, but charismatic leaders inspire insane levels of devotion

Thanks you a propr leader

these days a huge amount of people try to destroy people who are good hearted and are trying to build up good things for everyone, due to jealousy or bitterness that we are liked etc so this video does not really help deal with HOW To build that respect and caring etc

Treat your team good and they will care for you and return that goodness

It's been my experience that when I start new businesses the people closest to them are the the one's that want freebies and don't want to support. It's been my experience that when I launch a fundraiser for money that it's surprisingly strangers that donate more than those who are close to me. Maybe I have a shitty circle of people that don't actually care but it seems to me that when they are close their actions show the opposite.

Amen brother ❤

Thanks, I did not know care & empathy is enough to get respect. This is my first video seen with Jocko Willink & it was useful. 1 332:2. 03/07/2024. 1:08. 32 169.

Dank.

Makes sense.

This is the truth.

hell yeah

I think Mr. Willinks stature and build are enough to initially gain respect. I enjoyed his Seal training story….

It’s called a “paycheck” this is why people obey Cocko.

Real talk 🤔

"If you take care of your team, they'll take care of you. If you don't take care of your team, they'll *take care of you*."

I’m 6’3 270 lb combat Marine, tried MMA for years as a hobby fighter but could never command respect. I’m a class clown type and learn that no one will take me serious but I can’t (and won’t) change my personality. Just accept I’ll be one of the guys but never the leader.🤷🏻‍♂️

Really wish my supervisor would watch this.

Like his shirt

I was in a great team, we all cared about each other, no egos, just got on with things and got sh*t done. New management came in, ripped the heart out of the team, brought in their own people. I left the team but stayed in the company. That team now has all new shiny qualified people. No spirit, no trust, dysfunctional, no-one likes each other in the team. Other teams don't trust them either. And most important of all, they deliver NOTHING and the company owners are starting to notice.

Everything I listen it makes feel normal in icu.

Ironically, if I could choose any leader to follow into some shit, Jocko would be towards the bottom of my list. He's like that boss that speaks with authority and the air of profoundness while not really saying anything.

I just usually let people why think they are in authority how inept they are and they have no control over me and to not waste their time

Which is why the Marine leadership doctrine is, Leader as servant. When you serve your team they will follow your commands.

I manage 30 people to do things they do not want to do everyday. I get respect cuz I lead from the front and I genuinely care about them. 100% true

I’m glad Jocko’s back after all the crap people are accusing him of all the un verified accounts of him over seas in the military.

💓 it ... 💞

I care about you Jocco

To be cared for you need to care for first, lead by example.

Summary : You get respected by disrespecting. Make sense to me what your problem.

I’m in

I have a coercive manager (not leader let's not kid ourselves) who instills fear into his team to get them to do their jobs. Nobody cares about him and as Charlie Munger once reflected on a situation, when this person dies he will have a big turn out at his funeral for the sake of ensuring he is truly gone.

I’ve seen how a bad leader uses all the tricks in the book to manufacture care towards him.

Show competence and maturity in relationships is the unstated “how to” in this video.

The Irish have known this implicitly for 2000 years. If they like you they will do anything for you no matter how mad and dangerous....

I just realized I care about Hawk Tuah girl 😳

That is reasonable. The run down of bad authority hits home, damn.

Wow

If Jocko asked me to bring a wheelbarrow, shovel, and ductape I'll be like- "good" 😆 what time

Lou Holtz first question he asks: Do you care about me?

Nice idea! And I can see that we do things for people because we care about them.. But how the hell do you get people to care about you??? And why would you care about your officer? I care about my family, but I don't care about my bosses or my colleagues or my doctor or anyone else. And with that in mind I wouldn't do anything for them.. So how do you start caring about these people or get them to care about you??

Sounds like a Jiu Jitzu academy.

This is Mark Damon time travelled back from 2074

0:15 unethical methods of authority 1:00 Genuinely care about ppl Master & Commander

He's describing what religion does to people at the beginning

Cool, but how about a video on how to make people care about you?

Can’t decide if he’s Beavis or Matt Damon

All that and the biggest way to lose respect is to be a micromanager.

Authority is an illusion

Moving forward as a species , this is what will be a driving force..No need for any religious promises.

What Metallica song was it ?

I must be a bad friend because I would NEVER show up with a wheelbarrow and shovel! Or maybe my friends are the bad ones and I need new friends...🤔

you force it by fear, not by being nice and love, that doesnt work, nice guys finish last.

A different take on respect, leadership, and service. Who has believed our message? To whom has the Lord revealed his powerful arm? My servant grew up in the Lord’s presence like a tender green shoot, like a root in dry ground. There was nothing beautiful or majestic about his appearance, nothing to attract us to him. He was despised and rejected- a man of sorrows, acquainted with deepest grief. We turned our backs on him and looked the other way. He was despised, and we did not care. Yet it was our weaknesses he carried; it was our sorrows[a] that weighed him down. And we thought his troubles were a punishment from God, a punishment for his own sins! But he was pierced for our rebellion, crushed for our sins. He was beaten so we could be whole. He was whipped so we could be healed. All of us, like sheep, have strayed away. We have left God’s paths to follow our own. Yet the Lord laid on him the sins of us all. He was oppressed and treated harshly, yet he never said a word. He was led like a lamb to the slaughter. And as a sheep is silent before the shearers, he did not open his mouth. Unjustly condemned, he was led away.[b] No one cared that he died without descendants, that his life was cut short in midstream.[c] But he was struck down for the rebellion of my people. He had done no wrong and had never deceived anyone. But he was buried like a criminal; he was put in a rich man’s grave. But it was the Lord’s good plan to crush him and cause him grief. Yet when his life is made an offering for sin, he will have many descendants. He will enjoy a long life, and the Lord’s good plan will prosper in his hands. When he sees all that is accomplished by his anguish, he will be satisfied. And because of his experience, my righteous servant will make it possible for many to be counted righteous, for he will bear all their sins. I will give him the honors of a victorious soldier, because he exposed himself to death. He was counted among the rebels. He bore the sins of many and interceded for rebels. Isaiah 53

Lol but how do you make someone care about you?

the unethical methods sound A LOT like Navy bootcamp :)

The first list looks a lot like marriage.

get the money not respect

Jesus' disciples followed him for exactly this reason. In some circles it's called "loving servant leadership".

Brotherly love made the legions of Rome unstoppable in battle, it's why they were among the first converts to Christianity. They understood the message better than most.

It’s unnecessary to get respect from others if you have your own.

Just like Putin...LOL

You shoulda seen the amount of authority your motha was willing to give me

The way to get respect from anyone: be Jocko Willink, or somebody like him. Otherwise, you're at the bottom of the food chain, or somewhere thereabouts. God, I hate the way people like Willink, or anyone for that matter for whom a certain level of success comes their way, thinks that what works for them can be universally applied. What crap.

Haha those brainwashibg techniques sounds like a lot what happened during covid 🤔

There are so many supervisors out there who do not understand these concepts. There isn't anyone to mentor them into good authority figures.

Fuck me. So then how do we get people to care about us?

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You need to stop taking steroids Matt Damon. It makes you look old