But stop making an excuse that she was suffering mental illness. Why all men who killed and raped women ain't suffering any of that? You talking rubbish she must just rot in jail she's evil
Pregnant with my 2nd child and I only realize now that bringing a human being into this world is no child's play and I want to encourage those without kids, men n women to take their time until they find someone who will love and commit to them wholeheartedly before thinking of starting families.
Thank you for this valuable advice I'm 32 and I don't think I'm ready for a child but people always say that I'm running out of time. But I believe that God will give me a child when the time is right
@@nondumisondaba9904 I'm 29 and keep hearing the same thing but I won't go down that path till my emotional and head space are ready to take on the huge ass responsibility of parenthood.
Amen. I’m 30 and married. I have all the support in the world but I feel deep down that I don’t want a child. Instead I chose to assist with neglected children in orphanages. So far so good and I’m happy with that.
@@charliecharlton9782 There's a formula that God gave us to establish and raise families but we do our own things. If only people addressed this root and not the consequences then we'll see how the majority of our problems as individuals and a country will drastically drop or disappear even.
@@flourishthrive8670One can wait to get married before having children and they can still get divorced and the man can still decide to not take care of his children once divorced. Nothing is guaranteed no matter what route/formula you take
I feel she was depressed& psychotic waaaay before she got pregnant with the first child. She also sounds like she struggled bipolar & had suicidal thoughts. No one paid attention to the red flags. The truth is: Mental illness is waaaay underrated by our fellow black people(I don’t mean any disrespect). She needs help. Judging her won’t bring those innocent souls back. Praying for her family🙏
I really convey my deepest and heartfelt condolences to the family and after everything was done for peaceful sleep of the young soul's!!! Having said all these,there are two parallels I wish to bring of the Cape Flats lady who strangled her son.She was on her way to work but then prepared tea for the son after failing to wake him up! Going to the kitchen she spot's a rope supposes to have been stolen by her drug addict son,she snaps and go to strangle her! Zintle goes to seek money to buy Christmas clothes,the suppose father is in the company of another Lady, mother in law as the media report's chases her away together with the son! She is frustrated, hurt,humiliated, no empathy from anybody, in the taxi she spot's someone selling red poison she buys it and administer it! Going back to the movie(Ellen Pakkies) the psychologist is ask I will paraphrase what or after how long can it take for one to snap! He cites multiple situations which in Ellen's case was severe BUT he didn't say it has to be multiple times for one to snap! Unfortunately the Justice systems all over the world Judgment is monetary evaluated! When she goes down the stairs deep down away from the camera she was sobbing bitterly, the part distracted from public and on review I think the judge because the clip was after her judgment, her harsh comment to say she showed no remorse were not appropriate!!! Ellen,civil society assisted her while society condemned her! One has to be born in a certain society to change verdict of a sentence. Ellen served 40 hours of community service because it could be proved how incompetent all legal people in our sick legal systems is!! The judge had to distance herself and not want History to judge her and bring her name into disrepute! Zintle was unfortunate by having miscarriage of Justice and being born in an unsympathetic, judgemental, fact less society in debating issue's!!! How many women had their children taken to foster and failed simple enforcement of the mother gaining access to see her child or children. Khumbulekhaya had a classical issue of Eugland(England). The mental traumatic experience the mother had to go throughout was unimaginable!! A simply procedure, key to sanity,social worker fails to forward documents when she re locates and get married. Such is the state of the Poor and marginalized in South Africa!!!
I'm a Black woman, I fully understand you're honest and Deep emphasized analysis of Zintle state!!! I'm on my knees every time I get to think of her story!! My prayer is for me to gather information especially legal one for review of her sentence ( we live in a hypocrisy society) community attend a funeral and claim to be hurt more than Zintle,whaaaaaaa!!!
Someone somewhere is busy praying day and night, fasting has become part of her life, trusting God for a child, while someone poison her own children...... this world.
I can imagine the horror of the street vendor who sold her the rat poison how devasted she'd be upon finding that this Zintle woman never used it on rats instead on her babies
This got me into tears... Am a motswana from Botswana. Back of my mind am asking myself why... And again I keep on saying to myself where was I so I could have spoken to her. It's very sad because people go through tough times and I f we could atleast learn to listen and give hand, not laugh because that why people won't open up.... Can we speak out please... This is sad really... Stabbed through me out... That am asking from you, The Plug:you doing a great job by showing this... Just correct the lingo... Its sensitive very much... Please refraid from lines like "what the hell" also there is nothing like a beautiful funeral my lovely sister... Maybe still to respective funeral... Other than that I applaud you.... Thank you. I wish I could have spoke through her. Also they should have allowed her funeral to her kids... We, Men hurts peoples daughter and they be broken to no point of return... Am not saying that she did was a way to solving any problem... She was young... Am so sorry to the lovely kids and everyone who was hurt with this incident
me too, i cant feel my legs, my body is all numb. Im watching this as im breastfeeding my 8 months old baby, i posed the video halfway. I dont think that i can continue watching this
I'm not judging her, but to use your children to punish someone is WRONG. Those babies didn't deserve this. They deserved to live. She should have sent them to her parents and disappeared. Yes, life is hard but it's no reason to kill your children. They loved you and trusted you. 😭💔💔💔💔
She planed all this just to get back at a man but we must sympathise because she is a woman. Yet when the same story comes out but with a man in question then suddenly he is a monster who doesn't desrve to see the light of day. Let's keep the same energy and stop making excuses for murderers.
I've been through hard times with my daughter sometimes I didn't eat because my daughter would've have enough for later.I sometimes contemplated suicide for us but the thought of taking my daughter's life or taking mine she's 4 growing up without me. Those little hands on my face,her hugs & her little voice saying "Mommy I love you" how could I end that?😭😭😭😭 I'm glad our hard times are behind us.
The sad thing about life is the ones who want those children never get them n the ones who shouldn't even be parents to begin with are the ones that have them like every year,it's like God tries to warm their hearts that way but when nothing happens kids suffer like that,I can only imagine how long those babies suffered before dying n the way they just ate their food without any doubt,the little toddler just killed n broke my heart to pieces if the entire story wasn't sad enough
Exactly children home. Other homes they dont want mothers name or tell the father to take kids because she cant take it anymore but the time shes well fit to take them back she can come.
God’s way is the best way. Total abstinence before marriage, after marriage love your wife, protect her and provide for her. As a wife submit to your husband, respect him and raise those children in the way of the Lord.
Please my fellow women 🙏 don't count on anyone especially on a man . Even if that man is loyal and reliable he could die tomorrow. Before you get pregnant and bring someone into this terrible world please make sure you can do it alone if the situation demands . I was with a man who promised me mariage and even came to see my mom but tried everything to get me to abort my innocent child . He gave me the choice between aborting and being with him or keeping the baby and our relationship is over . I obviously chose my baby boy and I make sure I do the best for him . Before I have another baby with anyone else I will make sure that I am financially capable even without the father . That is my own little story if that helps anyone set a path . This woman is very heartless because even depression cannot make you this insensitive and evil. At least even if she was upset and not thinking straight the moment her kids started falling down she should have snapped and realized herself but she was very calm and composed knowing her kids were dying !
We are not given power to judge God knw every thing. I watched the video around 03h00 in the morning after I spoke to my gulfriend n we r hvng a fight n I was thing of making silly decisions bt after the video, I've learned that I must not allow my emotions to tak over coz I would regret it after all I rather let things goooo God has plans for everyone
Exactly, and the fact that the devil took over her life doesn't mean that we need to judge her, it can happen to anyone, the demon left her and now realize it was wrong, which no understand even myself
Came across ure channel today I was like chile...🤭🤫 wht do u mean... cant believe I only saw ure channel now. u should have a TV show ppl need to see this definitely the content I signed up for chile love it🥰🤩🤩🤩
It takes a special breed of a human to do such... Now she has the rest of her life to think and marinad about the death of her kids and if it was really worth killing them! RIP to the little Angels 👼
young women, please stop popping out kids with boyfriends. get married and don't have kids too young, have kids when you are financially stable and old enough to handle such a responsibility. a 1994 single mother of 4? not 1 but 4? eish.
@@ChelseaKMusee Stop it! At least try to do the right thing by bringing 2 families together for the good of children. People try to justify having children without the proper resources and then point out what "could" happen. Married mothers get more respect than baby mommas if respect means anything in this day and time.
Life is really unfair!Someone will be longing to have kids so desperately not know what more to do then someone will kill their kids so easily eish it pains me so bad.😭😭😭🇧🇼🙆🏿♀️
I can't believe I'm hearing this ,it so unhuman truth be told the pain this woman only thought of her self and not these poor kids ,how can you do that to ur kids u carried for 9months ,theres no excuse for this she just let anger control her actions she's so heartless and a brutal killer jail won't help her but that where she belongs
No child is worth suffering due to their parents issues no matter what... And I'm really sorry to say this,but if she wanted to die she would've done it herself and left the kids alone really.
I just came across this channel. Thank you for it. The weight of Zinhle's actions doesn't make sense when seen in her actions. But if you step back and you look at her life choices, you can tell that she made poor decisions regularly. Probably had a kasi girl mindset of 'catching your boyfriend with a pregnancy'. When that didn't work, she couldn't process it anymore. She was overwhelmed. The rest is simply and tragically a consequence of that decision. As an adult, I want to say, please look after yourselves in mjolo bafethu. Loving yourself, protecting yourself, caring for yourself should not be someone else's duty. It's truly your duty to love yourself more than anyone can love you!
Thank you for making this type of content, this is really not easy and I appreciate the time you took to research and compile this video for us, these are tough things to address but the awareness is necessary thank you
Zinhle is that kind of person that does then think .....she regrets it for sure now ..i mean my kids are my life i wouldnt trade them for anything ..even if i have to sleep on an empty stomach just to make life better for them i surely will .....what she did is cruel those little angels didnt deserve it
And bless and blessed are u with lots of children. Some people wish they could have. Why didn't u give them away. Auh sisi. Please pray for forgiveness
Wow, the nerve she had to confront William about financial support but not the other fathers? However, I'm hearing many people talking about what she did but what about the fathers who abandoned their children? How much can one woman tolerate? The common crap women have to put up with is being left to fend by themselves with the children because the toxic men usually walk out without looking back. In summary, BOTH parents are responsible for those little innocent lives.😭😭😭
I just love how if it's a man doing the same thing we all say he should stay in jail what useless human being but ifs it's a woman " she had some mental issues" the hypocrisy is annoying in such away that u can clearly see why GBV is not going away cause it's always one sided ! It's actually pathetic to see
She didn't allow it, something overpowered her mind, and as listening to the story she needed help but couldn't get any, that's where she got depressed, judging her wouldn't help anyone, but staying and helping each other as ladies can
Ladies, always control your reproductive health. This was so avoidable. Birth control @ free/low cost is available in ZA. A simple birth control prescription would have allowed her to circumvent all this. She's a despicable mom.
