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THE TOP 7 Blindspots CRUSHING YOUR RESULTS with WOMEN 

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Hi guys, decided to post a video to get back into the swing of things. Check out my live: www.youtube.co... last night for a much more in-depth discussion of all these blindspots, plus one very important one I forgot to mention: the male fantasy of hyperfemininity.
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@75blackviking
@75blackviking 9 месяцев назад
A sixteen minute video with about 10 years worth of wisdom condensed into it. Top Shelf.
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 9 месяцев назад
thank you!! 🙏
@playboyv12
@playboyv12 9 месяцев назад
Great comment, I agree.
@uncleanAlibertine1
@uncleanAlibertine1 6 месяцев назад
You’re like fresh air here on RU-vid: no flashy videos, clickbates, just raw honest truth, would like to thank u
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 6 месяцев назад
thank you unclean!!!
@kurtheimerman8267
@kurtheimerman8267 5 месяцев назад
Well said
@worldclassyoutuber2085
@worldclassyoutuber2085 9 месяцев назад
You are the only female "dating expert" that talks sense and how it is.
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 9 месяцев назад
Thank you but lots of female dating experts talk sense. Have u seen shera seven
@Michael-iw3ek
@Michael-iw3ek 7 месяцев назад
@@mynonleatherlife Now that you've punished the "nice guy" for trying to be nice -- yes, you are just one of the many. However, love your sexy "bedroom look."
@lucasmed2351
@lucasmed2351 3 месяца назад
​@@Michael-iw3ek Oh yeah, big time punishment. By thanking him, engaging with his point politely and selfishlessly recommending other experts in the field he is consuming. What a mean woman. Jesus christ...
@Michael-iw3ek
@Michael-iw3ek 3 месяца назад
@@lucasmed2351 That's right, suck up to her, she will recognize and reward you. Especially given the long words you are using.
@mdhazeldine
@mdhazeldine 9 месяцев назад
Just discovered your channel. I was married for 13 years with 2 kids and have now been seperated for 1.5 years, probably divorcing soon, so starting to get my head back into the idea of dating again once that's done. I have to say, I've learned quite a lot in just a few videos that I've not heard from other women (even my wife). I'm beginning to understand some areas where perhaps I wasn't the ideal man for her and why she decided to cheat and leave me. I don't think I acting masculine enough in many areas. Definitely time to change that. It might be too late for her, but I can fix it for next time.
@Gaspar40
@Gaspar40 9 месяцев назад
While it’s good to be reflective, don’t be too hard on yourself. There are lots of reasons why marriages end. It’s very rarely the fault of one person. Take care of yourself.
@robotcarnivalxyz
@robotcarnivalxyz 9 месяцев назад
She belongs to the streets
@exoticindiaa
@exoticindiaa 9 месяцев назад
It’s not you dude, some women are just for them streets. And half of the time, they are really average looking women who do this to overcompensate for their insecurities. Don’t settle below a 7 at any cost !
@kebman
@kebman 9 месяцев назад
If you don't mind me asking, how old are you? Feeling it's kind of a bitch "dating" at 45. I want children so I'm basically looking for women younger than 32 who don't have children themselves. Meanwhile the women I find on town are like 23. I mean, I can make out with these chicks, but they're hardly relationship material. Having used the summer maxing out my Tinder, I know for sure that I can forget about that as well. I'm pretty much forced to lie about my age or get crickets.
@Donut-God
@Donut-God 9 месяцев назад
go to japan you will crush with the ladies
@StrengthScholar0
@StrengthScholar0 9 месяцев назад
The insight that you have displayed about the struggles that males face while simultaneously being able to communicate how female psychology plays into that is immensely impressive. This is probably one of the most useful videos I've ever seen on the subject matter.
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 9 месяцев назад
Thank you so much!!! What a wonderful compliment. Did u have any of the blindspots still when u watched the vid
@StrengthScholar0
@StrengthScholar0 9 месяцев назад
​@@mynonleatherlife I had multiple. The assumption of hyper masculinity along with the reality women can't read your mind were really useful especially in conjunction. I'm a large pretty well built powerlifter who benches 400(swear I'm not lying I actually have the video of it lol) who also happens to have really bad social anxiety I developed earlier in life. I always assumed that women could see how uncomfortable I was all the time and was routinely surprised when they didn't seem to act as though that was the case. Realizing the assumptions women make about me will likely give me a bit more space to be confident in interactions. Honestly everything you said was nothing short of brilliant and I will come back to this video multiple times to remind myself of how profound my blindspots actually are. Thank you so much. I really genuinely mean it. Edit: also the part where you communicated that females often assume that men will behave the way that women do in female friendships and undervalue the effort they're putting in was really valuable as well. So many good points in this video.
@StrengthScholar0
@StrengthScholar0 9 месяцев назад
@@mynonleatherlife Lol I just reread your comment and realized you said did I have any blind spots after I watched the video. Lol If I knew I had blind spots then they wouldn't be blind spots would they? lol
@ludwigthedwarf7678
@ludwigthedwarf7678 9 месяцев назад
I just found you some days ago and i am really happy you are still posting information. Dont be scared of repeating yourself sometimes, info has to get drilled into my skull.
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 9 месяцев назад
thank you! good 2 know u dont mind it
@veganm8918
@veganm8918 9 месяцев назад
@@mynonleatherlife Hey you!
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 9 месяцев назад
hello veganm@@veganm8918
@WanM786
@WanM786 8 месяцев назад
​@@mynonleatherlife Why would a girl go from office phone, ignoring my text, to subtly giving me her private phone number ? Details: I asked for her number and she agreed to give it. But as my phone was dead , I asked her to give me a miss call. Later I go home get my phone fully charged see her missed call, and realise that she gave me her company number. Her whatsApp profile says “hotline” . However, I am not her customer. Why did she give me her company number ? I gave her a call and asked whether I was calling the right person. Because the whatsApp profile says hotline. She said it was the right person. Still she did not tell me that she had a personal number. I asked her to meet me, she told me she was busy. I didn't call her for few months. After that I gave her a call, someone else now had the company phone. A female colleague of her that lives with her. That colleague told me she was not home and she d inform about my call to her via text. The colleague did not ask for my name. After 10 mins the girl in question texted me via WhatsApp. The text sounded formall but she texted via her personal number. Thus now she is giving me her personal number. What is happening ?
@davidwinet5607
@davidwinet5607 4 месяца назад
It's like learning a foreign language. Learn, repeat, repeat, repeat again, and practice practice practice.
@kellykcombination
@kellykcombination 9 месяцев назад
The green light one is such facts! I've observed this being back in school. I've had women look at me like I owed them money, only for them to tell me they'd been seeing me around and wondering if they'd see me at school. I've even had women tell me that they were hinting at sex, I didn't get the hint, so they felt I was rejecting them, so they preempted the rejection to save face. Don't buy into choosing signals, pull up regardless.
@michaelleonard1491
@michaelleonard1491 9 месяцев назад
The only signals i stop for Are red lights and poles that need rewiring. An you ladies need some rewiring before your circuit blows
@ejtattersall156
@ejtattersall156 8 месяцев назад
Here's how things are screwed up: When women want to know about men, they gather their girlfriends and research by women and lock men out of the room. When men want to know about women, they steel up the nerve and date one. Women end up seeing men as defective women that need to be fixed, and men have no idea what the hell is going on with a woman.
@Saru-yr3qk
@Saru-yr3qk 8 месяцев назад
I found this out at a young age and but can't help seeing it as a turn-off and a red flag. If you're too much of a spoiled lazy brat to even show signals to a guy you like, I'll assume that attitude will continue to persist later on in the relationship. Dating a woman like that is probably a one-sided relationship where the guy puts in all the effort and investment while the woman only takes and never gives. "If he wanted to he would" goes both ways. If you as a woman really wanted to, you would've done the bare minimum of showing you're interested. If you can't do the bare minimum, why should I even waste my time with you? Also, women only like being pursued and approached by men they find attractive. Otherwise you're a creepy, icky, weirdo she's talk about to all her friends. God forbid you share the same social circle or work in the same establishment, because now you run the risk of your reputation being tarnished in the eyes of other women. This is definitely one of my biggest problems with pursuing women, but I can't look past it. Pregnancy aside, men invest and risk far more pursuing women and yet we're expected to take shots in the dark because women can't be bothered to show signs of interest in men they like. When they do show signs of interest, it's so nuanced that you're left second guessing yourself anyway.
@bluegiant13
@bluegiant13 8 месяцев назад
​@@Saru-yr3qkI agree with this. I can be a dancing monkey for a woman that is not interested and still get rejected or just say hi to a woman that made strong eye contact and everything will unfold naturally without game. I am however unique in that I am exceptionally good at picking up on social non verbal cues from women.
@lavatr8322
@lavatr8322 7 месяцев назад
​​​@@Saru-yr3qkThis THANK YOU!!!! I'll share my experience. In the gym this one girl would gaze at me, stare at me through mirrors and distances. I am not kidding she was really magnetic and I almost thought of pursuing her. A week later I came to know she comes with a dude to the gym and despite that , she would gaze at me. I really never understood her, and all the signals and signs. Idk who that dude was , her brother? Husband? Friendzone guy? And why would she do that This is why it's almost impossible for me to approach women , either give Clear & Direct signs or just Ope n your mouth and talk.
@kevindoherty6465
@kevindoherty6465 9 месяцев назад
The last blind spot is a big one for all humans. I’ve heard multiple psychologists say that emotions come first followed by logic for all humans. Dr K from HealthyGamerGG has said this as well as Karlyn Borysenko and they are both psychologists. So most people believe that the cause and effect relationship of emotions is, “I made a mistake, therefore I feel guilty” when in reality the cause and effect relationship is, “I feel guilty, therefore I know I made a mistake.”
@fdagpigj
@fdagpigj 8 месяцев назад
Correction: Dr K. is a psychiatrist, not a psychologist.
@d3r4g45
@d3r4g45 8 месяцев назад
This shannel is incredible. Mind blowing how can you know this things, most women don't have a clue about themselves. I know many of this things, and I am totally surprised to find a woman that knows too. Not even men know, let alone the women. This channel should have millions of subscribers, totally underrated.
@lamam9058
@lamam9058 9 месяцев назад
HOLY CRAP SHE STILL UPLOADS I THOUGHT SHE DROPPED OFF IM HERE FOR THIS!!!!! Shout out to you from New Zealand, this information has helped tremendously!!!!
@AnimosityIncarnate
@AnimosityIncarnate 6 месяцев назад
Profile picture on point
@andrefick2077
@andrefick2077 9 месяцев назад
The green light one is a very tricky one. In modern times men are told over and over how we should approach women with caution, and how we should always make sure everything is consensual. But then that also kills a lot of guys chances with girls because they will forever wait for that green light opening. Pretty frustrating for a lot of men looking for partners i think. I dont think women quite understand just how difficult it is to tote that line between being creepy/too forward and making sure the girl is into you. 90% of guys go too far in either direction
@boethius1812
@boethius1812 9 месяцев назад
Just look for the red lights. I'm friendly and flirty with all the girls and I'm an old man. They love it cuz I'm hilarious.
@SartorialisticSavage65
@SartorialisticSavage65 9 месяцев назад
Yup but they'll never get the game they setup when it's like this
@48vfl
@48vfl 9 месяцев назад
I think the people who need to resort to a cold approach (me) are the ones who lack the qualities ( looks, confidence) that are needed to succeed in a cold approach.
@glyxx7027
@glyxx7027 9 месяцев назад
To break this , you need to become attractive , when you reach that point and you understand what you got and know how to harness it , become attractive to a majority and then you can say what you want, it’s how you say it. Pick up lines and pre lines will only hinder you , becoming a quick thinker , freestyling like a rapper is exactly like spitting game to a girl , that along with your image will increase your catches
@glyxx7027
@glyxx7027 9 месяцев назад
You need to have something about yourself where the woman will start asking subconscious questions , first impressions, how you look is everything , and it’s powerful how your perceived if you do this right !
@carloslwanga3143
@carloslwanga3143 6 месяцев назад
The #1 Blindspot that men face -- Not realizing when a woman is not interested in you. Suffered with this one for the longest time in my life. Thank you so much for the videos. Great work!
@Rainer125
@Rainer125 6 месяцев назад
The number one blind spot is talked about in the end. Women want strong, tall alpha, handsome Chads. If you are not born in the upper 10% lookswise that will never be you as a man anways. Imagine beeing born 5'4ft or something good luck attracting women, imagine simply beeing born average looking or god forbid ugly. I am a 6ft multi millionaire with multiple real estate objets payed off completely and nice cars (multiple) while i did well 10 years ago i get next to nothing now and even that is like 1000 times more than the completely invsible guys who are average in every regard. It is honestly just rediculous at this point how extremely high womens standards are even if you are absolute perfection in every regard except looks. Just beeing average looking makes you invisible to 99.9% of women these days. You legitimately can't even get your foot through the door in the very beginning because every woman now is used to having 5000 male model looking dudes in their DM's thanks to online dating. Having your shit together and beeing a real man means nothing at all anymore if some twink bisexual crossdresser brokie without a job who simply looks good gets 350 matches a day while you get 5 a month.
@carloslwanga3143
@carloslwanga3143 6 месяцев назад
@@Rainer125 First question I am going to ask you is whether, you would date an ugly woman or someone who isn't traditionally hot. If you wouldn't, then you have no right to condemn women for making the same superficial choices. You are just emphasizing the point I was making in my original comment. A lot of men waste a lot of time going after women who have no interest in them. CHOOSE THE WOMEN WHO CHOOSE YOU AND NEVER MAKE THEM REGRET CHOOSING YOU. That is the principle. You say, you are a millionaire and you have lots of cars. There are definitely women who would want to scoop you up unless you are some kind of monster but I get the feeling that you are running after the super "hot' girls who can afford to be picky because they have more options because they have more value in people's eyes, and then bunching all women into the group of women who rejected you. I also guess you are been searching in Tinder because you said that these mysterious chads get all the matches. But what do you expect if you are looking for relationships online. The criteria is always going to be looks on dating apps. The women who might genuinely like you, be loyal to you and are not just interested in looks or your money will be somewhere else. You are right that modern culture has become incredibly superficial and hedonistic particularly with sex but i don't think 99.9% of women wont see you if you are average looking. I've been on this attraction journey for over ten years. I've read and followed them all. RSD, MYSTERY, COREY, THE GAME, RED PILL. Guys, trust me, there are women out there who would love a good average man especially if you do the big 3 -- PROVIDE for AND PROTECT HER. KNOW FEMALE NATURE AND HOW TO GIVE HER GOOD SEX. KNOW YOUR ROLE AS A MAN. LOVE HER. Its that simple. Don't get bitter, my brother. Just get better one step at a time.
@MrSmchale00
@MrSmchale00 9 месяцев назад
Once again, you are the young person who has lived several lifetimes and are kind enough to share. And once again, you are the person who provides more truth than the other Internet coaches.
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 9 месяцев назад
Wow thank you so much!!
@ellisjackson336
@ellisjackson336 9 месяцев назад
Nice little recap of your live stream. I think the most interesting point is the one where you say that women project hyper masculinity on men, while men think that women can sniff out their insecurities. I think guys should use this to their advantage
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 9 месяцев назад
thanks a lot ellis!
@JohnBrown-ig5nc
@JohnBrown-ig5nc 9 месяцев назад
I've thought the same thing. I spent too much time watching dating advice on You Tube from other dating coaches in years past and they made it seem like women were psychic and knew all of my insecurities
@braydengonzales1958
@braydengonzales1958 8 месяцев назад
I’ve been with my wife for 7 years and I started applying your advice and I can feel the increase. I’m very grateful to you and your practical wisdom please keep it up because you are the most realistic advice giver out there.
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 8 месяцев назад
Thanks Brayden!!!
@heem2k
@heem2k 8 месяцев назад
as someone who has watched youtube every single day for years your videos are very intriguing and i find myself trying to internalize everything you say. thanks for uploading.
@Leukick
@Leukick 9 месяцев назад
The "choosing signal" thing and that women often times assume men would approach if they wanted to, really blew my mind. And the super important thing your boyfriens added about looking for "red lights" instead. I always assumed seeing no choosing signal as a red light, so basically never approached countless women over many years that I've been attracted to.
@112233JORDAN
@112233JORDAN 3 месяца назад
I get choosing signals, but at the same time - it does seem like some women can remain "dormant" I'll call it, and only after you first engage with them or show some sort of favorable body language at least - only then will her interest be shown in an obvious way. I never said anything to this one specific cute girl at work. One day, I said a simple "Hi, ____" and suddenly it was like a switch giving her the okay to talk to me and show interest.
@Leukick
@Leukick 3 месяца назад
@@112233JORDAN That is so true. I've seen that happen, where they have a completely serious look on their face and almost like they're disinterested, but then all of the sudden seem attracted once you start talking to them more. Dang it... I wish I knew these things earlier.
@Feverson
@Feverson 3 месяца назад
Im 20 years old, quite good looking and very much in shape. And there's this beautiful girl I met at my campus and we only talk brief when we meet. Even on Whatsapp we talk only if one of us needs something from the other Now the problem is I think she has a boyfriend but whenever she's around me she is very shy and blushy, which are known to be choosing signals or "Green light" to make a move. But I'm so hesitant to make a move because I'm afraid I could just be assuming that she's interested
@Feverson
@Feverson 3 месяца назад
I need tips please
@cblong718
@cblong718 9 месяцев назад
Thank you for helping to educate us guys on female nature. We really need this type of content.
@cleanslate2247
@cleanslate2247 9 месяцев назад
Hey thanks for putting this out! I'm in limbo trying to either re-kindle things with my (separated for a year) wife who maybe? kinda? wants me back, and starting up the dating game (which I was really good at 20 years ago)...... Working on my looks and hygine (nails, hair, clothes, etc.) on my wife and other women. Your insights on women is fantastic.
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 9 месяцев назад
thank u clean slate. i'd try to do both...like be dating others while u try to rekindle. can only make her want u more
@reverendo1776
@reverendo1776 3 месяца назад
😱...Where did you escape from??? Surprised about so high level of wisdom, understanding of both, men and women minds, freedom and truthful mindset!!!!! Congrats from Spain, brave girl!!!
@TheBlackGarnet
@TheBlackGarnet 8 месяцев назад
I'm 18, I'm tall, fit, I have long hair and blue eyes, like I have some good features, I'm not super handsome or anything but I don't think I'm completely hidous either. Despite this, I am incredibly insecure and introverted, I am literally afraid of women. I have never had a girlfriend, or anything I am trying to build up my confidence, but I am just so incredibly afraid, it's so frustrating. I just found your channel and so far your videos have helped me get in a slightly better mindset, so thanks.
@TheFriendlyPsychopath.
@TheFriendlyPsychopath. 8 месяцев назад
You sound like a female!
@mitragyninethespeciosa6891
@mitragyninethespeciosa6891 8 месяцев назад
Ya I have a lot of trauma related to women at a early age. It's extremely hard to be confident around them.
@TheHallowHermit-dh4sq
@TheHallowHermit-dh4sq 7 месяцев назад
If you are looking at porn, stop it at least for a while. So you can see that women are just human beings. Something that holds back 'some' men is that when they see a beautiful woman, they immediately think about the sexual things they would like to do. Or sexualizing them in some form / fashion. Nice ass, big boobs or what ever. (Don't get me wrong, it's not wrong to think about those things. Just if it becomes the only thing in the mind, you will come off as awkward / desperate. Women got a knack for knowing if you are into them or not anyway) And that is blocking a lot of men from even starting a conversation, putting unnecessary pressure of how she thinks of you in a sexual way, etc.
@danieljurkiewicz1695
@danieljurkiewicz1695 7 месяцев назад
I think good idea is to make fantasy dream girl in your mind which you are comfortably with and project this image on real girls you meet with. Then it will be easier to deal with them. After some time your fantasy will adjust to reality and you still fell comfortable.
@danieljurkiewicz1695
@danieljurkiewicz1695 7 месяцев назад
I think good idea is to make fantasy dream girl in your mind which you are comfortably with and project this image on real girls you meet with. Then it will be easier to deal with them. After some time your fantasy will adjust to reality and you still fell comfortable.
@hanikheireddine7315
@hanikheireddine7315 9 месяцев назад
Damn that fear of women being psychic really held me back I’m sure with this knowledge I’m gonna be less nervous and embrace being present more thanks a bunch!
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 9 месяцев назад
So happy to hear that. Yea I definitely noticed guys were thinking that and it’s so false. I hope it eases ur mind in the future
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 9 месяцев назад
I go into all the blind spots in a lot more detail on the live posted in the description if u want a better explanation of this one too
@user-un1uv8hd6y
@user-un1uv8hd6y 9 месяцев назад
Just found your channel. Binging on few videos now. Genuine, sincere and heartfelt. Very informative. Thankyou. 51 and single for quite some time now. Been working on the best version of myself a while now. Gonna be dipping my toes again in the new year I hope. Fresh approach. Ditching foolish habits and attitudes from the past. No approach anxiety or taking rejection to heart. I'm sure i'll be revisiting your content in the days ahead. Thankyou for taking the time and effort❤
@LiltDaGod
@LiltDaGod 9 месяцев назад
You have no idea how valuable your videos have been for me! I've been following your channel for a few years. Thank you so very much. Never change. You're awesome!
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 9 месяцев назад
Wow thank u so much! Sooo happy to hear that wow
@SmarteeSteve
@SmarteeSteve 8 месяцев назад
Glad you're still making videos I've gotten a lot of value from your honesty and openness
@user-im4fi9eu8g
@user-im4fi9eu8g 7 месяцев назад
This channel should get more attention. underrated af
@spiritualkiller14
@spiritualkiller14 9 месяцев назад
Congratulations to everyone who discovered her channel🎉I been watching her for years though.💯
@keithbrunson7190
@keithbrunson7190 7 месяцев назад
Victoria. Glad your back. This episode was awesome. Everything you said was correct. To acknowledge the presence of blind spots is exactly what they are. You can't see them.
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 7 месяцев назад
thanks keith, I appreciate your comment
@keithbrunson7190
@keithbrunson7190 7 месяцев назад
Your welcome. You offer value because looks DO matter. Hey, off topic, would you consider looking into the camera when you deliver? I’d love to feel like you were looking right at me. But if not, I’ll still faithfully follow. That request comes out of being a producer, and we’ve learned through research that when the host looks directly into the camera, it draws more of the audience in. Just a polite question. This is your show, but I knew you’d at least consider it. You’re actually better than the high end shows in terms of your topic, much better, so I somehow want to contribute to your growth even though we will never meet.
@CommandoMaster
@CommandoMaster 8 месяцев назад
Women want strong, confident, good looking, tall, and dominant men, that can charm them through their charismatic personality and social skills.
@Stinger-o6o
@Stinger-o6o 8 месяцев назад
And even when you’re all of those things if you’re not well off or in positions to actually meet women and not just be in the same places as them, you probably wont get anywhere or you’ll just get the chicks that pursue you instead 🤷🏽‍♂️
@Waterdiver3900
@Waterdiver3900 4 месяца назад
@@Stinger-o6o thats false if you have all those skill you are well off.
@chinmeysway
@chinmeysway 4 месяца назад
nope. women are not a monolith. they are humans. we all vary a ton
@alphacentauri8083
@alphacentauri8083 4 месяца назад
@CommandoMaster - of course they do. Life is all about procreation and desirable gene expression. That being said, players and smooth talkers with "game" who aren't all that impressive from the "looks" category can also procure attractive women. Learn how to get into her mind.
@cryptoslacker-464
@cryptoslacker-464 4 месяца назад
That's their ideal. You just need to meet that ideal to some extent I'm guessing. Ie not too bad looking. Work on your fitness, good cliths and hair style. Some level of confidence , a bit funny. You will already be ahead of many guys already lol.
@softenerguy
@softenerguy 9 месяцев назад
ALL men who don't want to be single should dive into your videos. Very educated points and even this old dog needs good reminders like this. New subscriber here, great job! 👍
@LS-iu5uk
@LS-iu5uk 9 месяцев назад
Welcome Back and thank you!
@Truth-is-King
@Truth-is-King 28 дней назад
This amazing woman is very insightful. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and observations🙏🏻
@michaelbain9086
@michaelbain9086 9 месяцев назад
awesome content! really demystifying a lot of the misconceptions and illusions with women that were holding me back from being able to make connections and honestly relate woth other people. I went so many years just thinking there was something wrong with me and when I did have success with women I was lost as to what I did right. thank you so much for what you do
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 9 месяцев назад
Thank u so much
@Ben82617
@Ben82617 6 месяцев назад
Currently binge watching your channel. What an amazing insightful knowledge. Kind of sad to realize that I recognize myself in many of the things you explain about turn-offs for women in men. It really confronted me and explained a lot about previous relationships with women which didn’t end very well for me. It’s never too late to learn though. Anyhow, I really hope you keep making videos, they’re very appreciated!
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 6 месяцев назад
Thanks Ben I am so glad to hear that!
@f-u-nkyf-u-ntime
@f-u-nkyf-u-ntime 9 месяцев назад
Good to see you back making videos again Victoria. I'm dating at the moment. I've had 2 dates so far, one i wasn't really interested in but the other i quite liked, i put the moves you recommended on her (soft dom, touch, interrupting with a compliment etc) and she loved it. I went in for the kiss at the end of the date too. We had to part because of work commitments and then she had to go to another city for a week. Her first message to me was "Wow, What a date" She went off the boil though. Pity but never mind. Just goes to show you can use all the moves, and have the best date but it still might not work out. Got 2 more dates this weekend.
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 9 месяцев назад
What does off the boil mean?
@f-u-nkyf-u-ntime
@f-u-nkyf-u-ntime 9 месяцев назад
@@mynonleatherlifeit means that the initial keenness that she felt on the date, Faded somewhat 🤷
@Awesam3rd
@Awesam3rd 9 месяцев назад
Sister I know you will have a RU-vid reward trophy one day continue up the great work it'll get easier and easier God bless and thank you for your content you're helping many people by being so brave thank you again 🇺🇳🇺🇸
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 9 месяцев назад
aww that is so nice, thank u very much, im so glad u feel that way about helping people to be brave
@grunta101
@grunta101 9 месяцев назад
Hooray back to real content... Thankyou Victoria 😇
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 9 месяцев назад
yes I will try to start posting shorter videos again
@grunta101
@grunta101 9 месяцев назад
@@mynonleatherlife much appreciated 💖
@joaquin67
@joaquin67 6 месяцев назад
You’re what Native Americans would call a two spirit person. You really have a knack for understanding both genders. Please keep it up! Write a book! You deserve so much more than you realize. Subscribed 🙂
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 6 месяцев назад
Thanks Joaquin!!!
@tony9146
@tony9146 8 месяцев назад
Thank you for continuing to upload again! Your transparency and direct advice is refreshing and helpful.
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 8 месяцев назад
thanks a lot
@Johnb.78
@Johnb.78 9 месяцев назад
I’ve been quite a successful guy historically with women, 2 long terms girlfriends and numerous hook ups, but this is some legendary stuff that has made me realise where I’ve lost opportunities for relationships/meetings in the past. Cheers.
@dingdong6005
@dingdong6005 8 месяцев назад
How do you do this ?? 😢
@gregganderson1454
@gregganderson1454 9 месяцев назад
Glad you're back, Vic
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 9 месяцев назад
Thank you Gregg!
@dericflairmultiverse4952
@dericflairmultiverse4952 7 месяцев назад
Victoria is the MVP of dating advice👑👑👑
@cyberla
@cyberla 9 месяцев назад
Makes a lot of sense! Funny, I grew up hearing over and over again that women do not care about a guys looks 😂
@user-jz6to8md3c
@user-jz6to8md3c 9 месяцев назад
Of course they do women are very vain.
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 9 месяцев назад
both men and women are deeply affected by the halo effect from looks
@spilledit
@spilledit 9 месяцев назад
Women have been lying. Yes even the ones you trusted. Moms, grandmas, aunts, and sisters. It's really F'd up.
@vklnew9824
@vklnew9824 9 месяцев назад
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-0iHr5tJhTgA.htmlsi=SJM0VxESM_HsitMt
@hemeothunder
@hemeothunder 9 месяцев назад
Sex is a visual stimulation
@Pacolad
@Pacolad 9 месяцев назад
Thank you for this video. Please cover more blind spots. I think the frustration with women is men are obligated to know their inner workings but the flip side it’s rarely reciprocated.
@VictorG-
@VictorG- 3 месяца назад
Victoria,you're one of my main sources for unraveling true nature of women,without your channel it would be difficult to do😁 especially because all the information is from a woman's point of view,so unique!
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 3 месяца назад
Thanks a lot I don’t like the term true nature of women cuz so many men use that in a highly negative way but as long as u mean understanding women I am very glad
@palashsingh7845
@palashsingh7845 9 месяцев назад
God bless you. Honest to heart. God bless you. God bless you. I can say it a thousand times more. You're helping an entire generation. We need people to teach the lost souls. In my opinion you're right up there with Jordan Peterson. Ofcourse you're younger so it will time to get you the claim to fame. But I want to encourage you, write, speak, try and get out more variation and marketing for your content, just don't change and be true to your soul and your work. Don't sell out for money. Don't become another one of these redpill people.
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 9 месяцев назад
thanks again for your wonderful comment palash!!
@JohnBrown-ig5nc
@JohnBrown-ig5nc 9 месяцев назад
I agree. That red pill nonsense ruined me but at the time, I was ignorant about how red pill, MGTOW, black pill and the like turned out to be guys who had bought into the negativity that the Internet seems to teach about women. Thankfully I'm aware of that crap now and I stay away from it as far as I possibly can
@tommybfh2390
@tommybfh2390 4 дня назад
Thank you for providing such fantastic, in-depth explanations of the female mind. I understand my girlfriend better and I'm a better boyfriend to her thanks to your videos. Your channel is amazing! It would be really nice to see a video explaining the motivations behind bimbofication.
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 4 дня назад
Thank you Tommy! That’s wonderful to hear, I appreciate ur comment a lot. That’s a great kink and would be a great video… in the meantime u could research it on fetlife and I’m sure get some good insight from people who are into it
@josephalmond3759
@josephalmond3759 9 месяцев назад
Today I broke up with my 8th wife. I have decided to avoid romance for a week. Impossible, yes. But I owe it to myself. Thank you for a most helpful video. I hope you will lift humanity, one powerful post at a time. Your words are significant. Thank you.
@ThaTurdBurglar
@ThaTurdBurglar 9 месяцев назад
8?? Gat damn bra
@danlimbaugh3629
@danlimbaugh3629 9 месяцев назад
​@ThaTurdBurglar No kidding! I'm 59yrs old and I don't think I've even been interested that many women to even date!
@squarecracker
@squarecracker 9 месяцев назад
redpilled
@yourfriendlyneighbourhoodvue
@yourfriendlyneighbourhoodvue 9 месяцев назад
8th?!? You should’ve stopped at 2😂😂😂
@stannone7272
@stannone7272 9 месяцев назад
The queen is back! Woop woop! Im glad, you have decided to continue to enlighten people.
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 9 месяцев назад
Thank you very much 🙏
@felipe7112
@felipe7112 9 месяцев назад
This information is golden. It seems that when they teach men how to be a good citizen, to treat people with empathy and to be considerate, as a byproduct it makes men less desirable to women. Woman are more attracted to raw primal masculinity which is more or less suppressed in today society. Putting others and their needs before yourself is probably the biggest turn off for women. I don't know why but it makes me sad and disappointed in some ways. But it shows why society behaves how it does and did in history of humanity. World is tough. 🤔
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 9 месяцев назад
I somewhat disagree and somewhat agree. Being kind is good but for being in a relationship. If u just want to have casual sex as most of you all do then it can backfire because guys expect that to be a magic bullet and forget the attractive hypermasculine qualities causing dissonance in women’s minds cuz they expect you to have that already.
@felipe7112
@felipe7112 9 месяцев назад
@@mynonleatherlife Thank you for your reply. I don't want to have a casual sex I don't believe in that, I was talking about attraction in general. From what you said i understand that women prefer a man who puts himself first and is able and willing to fight for his interests. As in your example: a man who doesn't care about choosing signal, he just goes forward and pursues. This is something that is discouraged in normal social environment. you should always consider others.
@user-yj5ie1sr4j
@user-yj5ie1sr4j 7 месяцев назад
It's great to see you back, you explain things like no other
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 7 месяцев назад
thank you very much, that means so much!
@user-yl4sm2ll8g
@user-yl4sm2ll8g 9 месяцев назад
1. Female sexuality == male sexuality 2. Hypermasculine bias. Girls project hyper masculine bias on to you. They don't detect your nervousness and they believe you have more options than you really do. 3. Blackpill. Women are shallow too. Women are attracted to looks and there's a lot you can do to improve your looks. 4. Relationships shouldn't take effort. Relationships are not like male friendships. They need emotional support and need to be taken on dates. 5. Entitlement blindspot. Why are women so entitled? Why is she never grateful? Because women project hyper masculinity on you, they think it is your job to provide for her. She thinks that you should be giving her a lot of resources and emotional support. They don;t understand what it takes for you to be the man you want to be. 6. Green light fallacy blindspot. I need a sign or signal to make a move. To them it is not masculine at all. If we wanted to, he would -- this is what she thinks. A real man wouldn't let anything stop him from getting anything he wants. If you wait for signals, you'll be stalled forever. You should be looking for red lights, if she is not interested, then back off. Otherwise, take it as a green light. 7. Emotional beings fallacy. This is the idea that women are emotional creatures - they are tangled mess of hormones and emotions. This is false. From a women mindset, they do everything for a reason. There is logic, there is reason. You have to step outside the male mindset to understand it.
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 9 месяцев назад
In 2…They could detect your nervousness to some extent but they don’t know the depth of the insecurities ur struggling with
@user-yl4sm2ll8g
@user-yl4sm2ll8g 9 месяцев назад
@@mynonleatherlife Thanks for correction, your channel is an underrated gold mine!
@fatjamescorden1597
@fatjamescorden1597 9 месяцев назад
Nice one
@rombios3056
@rombios3056 9 месяцев назад
6. Greenlight fallacy and choosing signals are mutually exclusive. The problem is that in a room with three women who are potentially attractive to you. If you pull the trigger on the wrong one the others IMMEDIATELY loose interest 1) because you didnt choose them 2) because the one you chose rejected you and the others think "well if she doesnt want him, why would i?". So its imperative to get some indication of interest. Jumping from one girl to anotger to another lowers your value in their eyes. I have learned much casually "dating" women since my divorce
@solutions4tenants141
@solutions4tenants141 9 месяцев назад
Love your content and I am glad you are making videos again. I am a women in my early 60’s and find your info about women spot on. I’ve worked on construction sites with men for 40 16:19 years and I’ve heard it all. I also have 4 older brothers and heard it from them while I grew up. Men…Keep Growing and learning about woman or die alone.
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 9 месяцев назад
Wow!!! I love your comment so much. So glad you agree. Ur lucky to have the male perspective from so young. I just started wising up, painful process in the past couple years
@AliMacAzz
@AliMacAzz 9 месяцев назад
Solutions4tenants141 Men are learning….they’re learning that most American ( & western ) women are no longer worth dating or marrying….they’ve become spoiled, materialistic, narcissistic little brats that men should be ( & increasingly are) walking away from….the peace and sanity men are finding when they avoid women eclipses whatever dwindling value western gals may have.
@vicvic2081
@vicvic2081 9 месяцев назад
It works both ways you know?
@reportteemo4690
@reportteemo4690 8 месяцев назад
"Men…Keep Growing and learning about woman or die alone." no pressure at all l0lll
@madmax5789
@madmax5789 9 месяцев назад
Thank you!! Videos are much more helpful to navigate, search and revisit points that are important. This is not possible on live stream videos.
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 9 месяцев назад
thanks madmax, i agree with u the short videos are better but the livestreams are a lot more fun for me to do
@madmax5789
@madmax5789 9 месяцев назад
@@mynonleatherlife definitely live streams are great for interaction! I myself am never able to catch them as I live across the 🌍 😊
@SpaceGhost67
@SpaceGhost67 6 месяцев назад
I vote for her as the most informative content creator on the net.
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 6 месяцев назад
Thank u so much space ghost
@casillasangel
@casillasangel 8 месяцев назад
Men you are Kings make sure shes doing her responsibilitys too be a man and stand your ground
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 8 месяцев назад
What are her “responsibilities” from your perspective
@DonTheMoron716
@DonTheMoron716 8 месяцев назад
My wife calls me King and I call her Queen. What a gift that I was given!
@DonTheMoron716
@DonTheMoron716 8 месяцев назад
@@mynonleatherlifeThat’s interesting. My wife is Filipina and she wants to serve me. Her dream is to serve me. This is her way but I serve her also. It’s beautiful.
@weholmes5315
@weholmes5315 2 месяца назад
As a 59 year old happily married man, I've learned much from you! Especially the point about her entitlement/gratitude. I've flipped my perception to see it as "What can I do to support and provide for her as her husband that cannot be provided from others?" rather than "Why doesn't she seem to appreciate all I do for her?" What a difference. Thank you! 😊
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 2 месяца назад
This might be the best comment I’ve ever gotten. That is so amazing. The burden u prob just took off her mind 🤯 that is so wonderful 🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩
@weholmes5315
@weholmes5315 2 месяца назад
@@mynonleatherlife Your reply just popped up as I watch your Live on blindspots. Your channel is a goldmine! You are brilliant and you are very much appreciated! Thank you for all you do. And thanks to the man who supports you!
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 2 месяца назад
@@weholmes5315 😀🙏let me know what u think of the live lol that was one of my fave lives ever
@weholmes5315
@weholmes5315 2 месяца назад
@@mynonleatherlife That live was fun. I would have failed the quiz for sure. I'm just glad I don't have to go antiquing all day on Sunday to have a happy wife! 😅 I think another blindspot is the man assuming his woman knows what the he likes or enjoys, whether it's a gift or an activity. I've had a few disasters where my wife's impression of what I like or enjoy was horribly wrong. Now I realize I need to better communicate what I actually do like. I'm sure it goes both ways - she probably assumes I understand what she actually likes. I should probably ask her! 😜
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 2 месяца назад
that's a great female blindspot! i felt so stupid when it dawned on me way too late in the relationship what my bf actually enjoyed doing for fun😬. do u have an example of what she thought vs the reality of what u liked/enjoyed?
@trumpetman
@trumpetman 9 месяцев назад
The one point about choosing signals... the problem with that is that the way sexual harassment laws are set up in my country, doesn't really allow for this. I'll play that one safe, thanks. lol
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 9 месяцев назад
so u can't ask a woman out in your country?
@trumpetman
@trumpetman 9 месяцев назад
@@mynonleatherlife Oh, I can and do (In the US) and I wait for the damn choosing signals because your "sisters" ruined that for themselves with #metoo. I'm not getting in trouble cause I like somebody. I'll wait til I KNOW it's ok. If they want men to talk to them even though they don't show it, they should have been more reasonable with those feminist adjacent movements. I mean, you literally explained this in the video and then asked me that question? lmao
@GodIsGreat_AllahuAkbar100
@GodIsGreat_AllahuAkbar100 9 месяцев назад
Thanks very much for starting your RU-vid page again, because I really understood your former videos
@masonstruckadventure9368
@masonstruckadventure9368 9 месяцев назад
As a horny little kid lol I've always been attracted to girls! I remember not one time to think what if she doesn't want to play with me, never hesitated to pursue and play. Sometimes it backed fired and sometimes it didn't. That concept hasn't changed just mote on the mature level. Some guys just need to stop overthinkng. Thanks for sharing
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 9 месяцев назад
thx for commenting mason!
@ShyMplsMale
@ShyMplsMale 9 месяцев назад
Good stuff as usual! But Hairpiece? Nah. I've been shaving my head since I was 20 and I had a full head of hair back then. It's thinning a bit now but I keep it shaved with a razor blade so you can't really tell and I have a full on beard. Some women might not like that look but others cream over it. Not every woman will have the same taste in men but almost all women would agree with all the things Victoria talks about. Glad you are making videos again.
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 9 месяцев назад
my bf is bald and I love the look but for some guys it could make a HUGE difference. Check out before and after transformations...not for u but to see the difference it can make on some. if you look good with no hair more power to u
@FreedomFox1
@FreedomFox1 9 месяцев назад
For all the scrawny (or skinny-fat) guys out there… putting on muscle should be your #1 goal. It’s not just about exercise… be sure your dietary protein is on point and your hormones are decent (total and free testosterone). If even just one of these things are off, you will struggle. I used to think I was naturally scrawny, but I just needed to boost my testosterone and protein. I went from having virtually zero romantic options to having lots of options.
@TenderHooligan
@TenderHooligan 9 месяцев назад
how do you boost testosterone
@Soulflytribe04
@Soulflytribe04 9 месяцев назад
@@TenderHooligan drink 4 raw eggs with milk and lift
@andrewevans7992
@andrewevans7992 9 месяцев назад
@@Soulflytribe04the fuck? 😂
@andrewevans7992
@andrewevans7992 9 месяцев назад
@@TenderHooligandude just eat Eats , and good carbs and fats and lift heavy and often
@andrewevans7992
@andrewevans7992 9 месяцев назад
@@TenderHooligandude just eat Eats , and good carbs and fats and lift heavy and often
@Leukick
@Leukick 9 месяцев назад
Well dang, who would have thought this video would have been SO VALUABLE? I haven't watched her stuff in a little while and I totally forgot how good this info was!
@Suger5zero
@Suger5zero 9 месяцев назад
I have a question that I would really like to get your perspective on. I'm an EMT and I get called to a lot of domestic violence cases. And I'm always shocked and amazed at just how fiercely loyal these women are to the men that abuse them. It seems like they truly are madly in love with these men And will defend them with their very life Even after having to be taken to the hospital From being beaten. I'm completely astounded and flabbergasted. I've never hit a woman Outside of play and I don't think I ever would. But I often think how much I would like to have someone be that loyal to me and wondered what in someone's psyche Causes them to love and defend their abuser. When it seems like these very same women are so cruel and unfaithful to men that are kind and never hurt them.
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 9 месяцев назад
thats a deep question and i don't agree with the last line completely but the rest i know what ur talking about and have an opinion based on what i felt but i don't want to share it in the comments but thank u for asking ur great question and commenting
@russellcameronthomas2116
@russellcameronthomas2116 7 месяцев назад
I'm a guy, and older, but will offer my views. Look up videos on "trauma bonding". Basically, a lot of people who were traumatized in childhood or young adulthood are drawn to partners and relationships that repeat those patterns, due to psychological factors. E.g. a child of alcoholic may have had to "parent" their parent, and later in life is drawn into relationships with people with messed up lives (addiction or rage or ...) so they can be in the role of "fixer" or "parent" or "savior". And by re-enacting their core wounds, these people believe "I am getting what I deserve". Same goes with many consensual kinks, in my view. Just because a person gives consent to be humiliated, degraded, or hurt in a kink doesn't mean it is healthy, even when it stays within those boundaries. But giving consent to those opens the door for the dominant + abusive partner to go further when ever it suits them or when ever they lose control and it becomes domestic violence. The victim can then blame themselves as being complicit, as baiting the abuser or not being submissive enough, or not being loyal enough. While I appreciate Victoria's views and ideas, I think other RU-vid channels offer worthwhile information about what makes relationships and sex psychologically healthy, or not. Hope this helps.
@Lauriestrode1978
@Lauriestrode1978 7 месяцев назад
I really enjoy your videos, keep it up! I wanted to say you are very brave to be making these videos and saying a lot of things women will never admit due to making them vulnerable as you can mention sometimes. I find you very gorgeous and feminine and girly and hope I can find a girl as irresistible as you!
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 7 месяцев назад
thanks so much but in my opinion it's not that women know these things but are not admitting these things. It takes a lot of study and thought and experience to uncover the blindspots. It's a speciality niche interest that most people don't have the interest or drive to think about so much. Your comment could be read as implying women are just withholding the truth from you even though they're all secretly experts in the field of mating strategies. It's prob the most frequent comment I get...thanks for being so honest...unlike other women who lie etc. So I am very sensitive to this kind of thing.
@Lauriestrode1978
@Lauriestrode1978 7 месяцев назад
@@mynonleatherlife oh I gotcha thanks for letting me know, I really appreciate it, sorry if I misinterpreted there or said anything that come off as making you uncomfortable. All I really meant was thank you for wanting to help us men out and help us understand and I see how genuine you really are too, you are kind and compassionate. Again from how I said that, I apologize if I said that wrong.
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 7 месяцев назад
No worries 🤴and thanks again 🙏
@BigG6179
@BigG6179 8 месяцев назад
Social conditioning has made many men confused and almost borderline submissive. I was very risk averse from 16-20. And then I started to build a lot of muscle and oh boy did I start to enter that bad boy head space At 20 I was 5ft 11 202 lbs and was like "Wait a second this is what I am supposed to feel like" I was like missing out on that insane confidence. Then Covid happened so I did not go out that much and was starting to slide back again, but now at 25 I feel like that edge is coming back that urge to be masculine and to be a leader. It is a very good feeling that not many men can actually feel, because they do not eat, sleep or workout.
@eta_carithebrightlord3396
@eta_carithebrightlord3396 3 месяца назад
I'm risk averse when it comes to girls but not confrontation and fighting oddly enough.
@GodIsGreat_AllahuAkbar100
@GodIsGreat_AllahuAkbar100 9 месяцев назад
I pray this time you dont stop again because you videos are very entertaining and educative, very simple to understand
@2namesmusic
@2namesmusic 7 месяцев назад
Guys put in effort to get into a sexual relationship. From a male point of view it is up to the girl after that to put in work to prove they're relationship worthy (being thoughtful, caring, feminine, making a nice meal, Etc.) Whether you like it or not if you still act like the guy is chasing you after you're hooking up it will be a 'situationship' unless you start trying when it's her turn. Also, "pick me" behavior is a weakness & I don't get why women are against it.
@paulhammarstedt7115
@paulhammarstedt7115 3 месяца назад
More like this please. You do have the most honest, logical advice. Thank you sincerely!
@shyrocket4889
@shyrocket4889 9 месяцев назад
About the greenlight. What am I supposed to like and want if you give me nothing? Is that masculine? Is that a 'real man'? I mean oh my god
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 9 месяцев назад
Yes u will have to usually have to give first in order to receive and be seen as masculine
@shyrocket4889
@shyrocket4889 9 месяцев назад
@@mynonleatherlife Fine, but at some point i just tap out if the giving nothing part gets stretched too thin.
@rombios3056
@rombios3056 9 месяцев назад
​@@shyrocket4889worse a lot of women use the ego boost. Personally if shes not willimg to make eye contact and smile am not going to bother
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 9 месяцев назад
That’s the blindspot
@straightbacks
@straightbacks 8 месяцев назад
“Throw your hands up and call em crazy”😂
@spilledit
@spilledit 9 месяцев назад
This demonstrates how emotionally selfish women are in relationships.
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 9 месяцев назад
I guess I didn’t make it clear how emotionally selfish, scary, arrogant, ignorant, shallow, repulsive and psychopathic men often appear from the female perspective
@toddjohnson271
@toddjohnson271 9 месяцев назад
Just very primal.....
@toddjohnson271
@toddjohnson271 9 месяцев назад
@@mynonleatherlife The top men that women throw themselves at. Women love it.
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 9 месяцев назад
All men not just the top ones but them too
@toddjohnson271
@toddjohnson271 9 месяцев назад
@@mynonleatherlife Really? The average good men in provider, friendzones of millions of women's circles? Good guy finishes last. Women do not care about those machiavellian traits if he is handsome, tall, wealthy, and has status.
@Adam-pd7lh
@Adam-pd7lh 7 месяцев назад
You are awesome! Thank you for your videos.
@watamutha
@watamutha 9 месяцев назад
All this sounds like women think ‘I dont need to do anything but he has to do everything and that is normal.’
@briang2034
@briang2034 7 месяцев назад
3 vids a week min, you have great content, 100K subs, reach that Million! you make the best scents off all podcasts, thank you, u saved alot of marriages
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 7 месяцев назад
thanks briang!!
@rodblues6832
@rodblues6832 9 месяцев назад
The whole “men are logical and women are emotional” is so dumb. That’s red pill at its worst. I mean, come on, men regularly flip out in rage over the tiniest things and women’s selection criteria is far more logical as they actually care about character. At the end of the day, women understand men better than men understand women.
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 9 месяцев назад
Thank you. A million times thank u. 🙏I agree with everything u said except i don’t think that women understand men better than men understand women honestly. Like I think they’re pretty equally clueless.
@BlkShaggy300
@BlkShaggy300 9 месяцев назад
Hey Victoria! I just watched your “Male Attractive Power women can’t admit to feeling”. And It sounds like the power is literally just confidence. A RU-vidr by the name of Jameer is the perfect example.😎
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 9 месяцев назад
well i disagree. there's more to it than that. I've met a lot of "confident" guys and i definitely do not like all of them nor am i attracted to all of them
@BlkShaggy300
@BlkShaggy300 9 месяцев назад
@@mynonleatherlife So it must be dominance then.
@EvanWells1
@EvanWells1 9 месяцев назад
Man, that entitlement characteristic makes it reeeeaaaallly hard to want to be in a relationship, just sayin.
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 9 месяцев назад
yea if u explain it to them that could help i think. many guys just assume the woman should understand without making it explicit. but i do understand where u are coming from
@rombios3056
@rombios3056 9 месяцев назад
I get around it by keeping it casual and physical
@toddjohnson271
@toddjohnson271 9 месяцев назад
Go east....western women are recreational....and temporary.
@bobbyhughes4895
@bobbyhughes4895 3 месяца назад
WOW.. the entitlement blind spot you explained makes a lot of sense. Man I WISH she would realize it is not natural at all for us to constantly be there emotionally, and ask questions to see how she is feeling, and how we can help. That is definitely a learned process for us men. And it can definitely be a real challenge. And we have to be conscious of it all the time or we will just go on about life thinking everything is fine with our woman. yep, all we good men want most of the time is thank you and some sort of appreciation for our constant sacrifices, and working our ass off to try to make our woman happy. Obviously we need to let our good woman know that we appreciate her as well, and, surround her with love and a safe environment.
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 3 месяца назад
Yea in order to thank men for that they’d have to know it doesn’t come natural to all of them in the first place and takes effort and vigilance. They assume it should be obvious natural and easy
@bobbyhughes4895
@bobbyhughes4895 3 месяца назад
@@mynonleatherlife yes ma’am! Thanks for all your videos. They REALLY help clarify a lot of things. Good stuff!
@banterabc5135
@banterabc5135 9 месяцев назад
most wemen do respond on based on emotion, that is how it is
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 9 месяцев назад
Agree to disagree
@toddjohnson271
@toddjohnson271 9 месяцев назад
And western society bends to those insane illogical ideas.
@dripdrop4625
@dripdrop4625 23 дня назад
Gonna have to watch this twice.
@carloswillis4895
@carloswillis4895 8 месяцев назад
I just started watching some of your older videos and I’m so happy to see your still posting/getting back into posting your videos have taught me quite a bit of things love your vids !
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 8 месяцев назад
thanks carlos!!
@peoplesever28
@peoplesever28 8 месяцев назад
Hey I just wanted to revisit your channel that helped me out a lot last yr. It's good to see you are still pushing. Really good stuff here. Thanks 🎉
@Magic_10001
@Magic_10001 8 месяцев назад
I've been brought up in this new world of wokism and feminism. And was made to believe women and men are the same.we're equal in everything, up to the point where they try and convince us they are as strong as men. So I naturally believed inside they must be the same as men and like the same things we do. Which is beauty and being really nice. Now after watching this channel I can't believe I got it so wrong all these years and realise primarily, beauty and niceness are not qualities they highly desire like we do.
@Magic_10001
@Magic_10001 8 месяцев назад
And on the other side of the coin. Women have been led to.believe that acting masculine is the way fwd. So we kinda got men acting feminine and women acting masculine as a result. No wonder dating is a little weird at the moment
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 8 месяцев назад
we do like niceness and beauty...we also want another important piece though without which niceness is in no way sufficient
@surajchhetri3408
@surajchhetri3408 9 месяцев назад
The effort u putting to make us understand about females mind it really good thank you so much keep it up
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 9 месяцев назад
thank you 🙏🏼 I want to start making some more videos. I have a ton more blindspots to share but i know they aren't the easiest or more fun to hear
@vadvenurt
@vadvenurt 8 месяцев назад
She is madly self aware. She is madly wise in a way no man could get there himself
@TerriTerriHotSauce
@TerriTerriHotSauce 9 месяцев назад
True. They assume the men they dated or the men they want represent ALL MEN. They're shocked by majority stats.
@nothing563019
@nothing563019 9 месяцев назад
One of the few that keep it real on here. Keep up the good work and please do continue to educate us
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 9 месяцев назад
thank you nothing
@mitsay
@mitsay 9 месяцев назад
The information you transmit in your channel and the way you do it is perfect! It's the best info i've seen... and I saw a lot. I hope you keep doing it just the way you are.
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 9 месяцев назад
thank you mitsay
@ronald327
@ronald327 7 месяцев назад
More people should be talking about the things that you are talking about. I appreciate your efforts to help men to acquire better social skills and better emotional skills.
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 7 месяцев назад
Greetings :) do you agree with the blindspots
@ronald327
@ronald327 7 месяцев назад
@@mynonleatherlife …I do not recall having disagreed with any of the blind spots, but I'm not yet an expert on this subject. You could ask survey questions to women, via telegram groups or channels. …Here are some notes that I created while I was watching / listening to this RU-vid video. After you personally requested feedback from me, I modified these notes to make them easier for other people to understand. …Many men do not understand that women need, deserve, and love emotional support. …Many men assume that they need a signal from women before making a move toward better physical connections. Better physical connections include, touching, more touching, kissing, french kissing, and sex. …Many times women unconsciously give signals of attraction, and desire for more. Many men do not know how to recognize all of these signals. Many men don't know how to respond to all of these signals. …Some women never give these green light signals, because they are very good at practicing poker faces. They practice poker faces because they grew up in an environment where poker faces were excessively important as a result of stupid laws, and side effects of modern technology. …I need to pay attention to what women desire, and why they desire these things.
@ronald327
@ronald327 7 месяцев назад
@@mynonleatherlife …Here are some notes that I created while I was watching / listening to this RU-vid video for the second time. …During sex, men should focus more on the clit and less on penetration. …Foreplay is very important to women. …Women are not mind readers. Sometimes women do not mind if men need to fake it till they make it. This is regarding the subject of masculinity and confidence. …Women assume that men have all the options. But their assumptions are not correct. Don't allow their false assumptions to depress you. …Right now I feel like it's possible for me to join the top 5% of men who do have all of the options. This is because I'm dedicated to learning, and because I have chosen to be a student of some very qualified teachers. One of these teachers is Neil Strauss. …Relationships require effort. They must involve more than just sex. Women desire romance, so men should help them to experience romance. …Is it true that women project hypermasculinity on men? I plan to meditate more on this subject, and also do more research and experimentation. …Perhaps I should encourage my girlfriends to receive more emotional support from their own girlfriends, and to depend less on me for emotional support. …Recently I had an experience where I was spending too much time looking for green lights, and I was not investing enough into incentivizing the lights to turn green. …Green lights come in many forms, and I'm a lot better today at recognizing green lights than what I was 2 months ago. I give thanks to Neil Strauss for teaching this subject to me via his audiobook. …Many uneducated girls say, “If he wanted to, he would have.” Many times this statement is false. …Many men are depressed by unreasonable laws and excessive amounts of centralized power which exist in the United States of America. I have been one of those men. But over the past 10 years, I have been off and on enjoying new liberties in Mexico, Paraguay, and other small countries which have governments which are less powerful and more human. …One time I walked up to a woman who was pretending to ignore me, I stood beside her, I made small talk, and then I suggested that we go to her room for sex. She responded by dragging me to her room and then we had sex. She had to drag me there because I got nervous on the way there. I got nervous because, there were certain things along the route to her room that made me nervous. I was afraid that she was taking me to some secluded place where she would rob me. But it turned out all good, we had great sex, and then I left. I did pay her though, because she was a prostitute, and a payment of 30 dollars was part of our deal. This took place in a part of the world where prostitution is legal. …Women don't feel the need to give choosing signals. They want to be pursued, they want to be chased. …In USA, the land of the free, fear of jail is a very real and legitimate fear, in far too many situations, but not all situations. USA would be a much better place to live if USA would legalize prostitution. Guys who go too long without sex, become mentally ill. For men, sex is one of the basic necessities of life, and many men in USA become frustrated because it's illegal to pay for sex in USA. …Paying attention to red lights is more important than searching for green lights. I don't agree with this. I think that both are important. More men need to be educated about green lights that exist, which they don't notice, because they don't know how to see them. Many men are blind to green lights which do exist. …There is an exception. Many women are skilled at practicing poker face. They are skilled at hiding their desires. They hide their desires, because they are protecting themselves from psychopathic men who have gone way too long without sex. These men have gone way too long without sex, because some crazy religious politicians have outlawed prostitution in USA.
@undercover3808
@undercover3808 9 месяцев назад
crazy value that you give
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 9 месяцев назад
Thank you I appreciate u saying that a lot
@undercover3808
@undercover3808 9 месяцев назад
You're welcome. I see that you didn't upload for a year. Will you upload more regularly now ?@@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 9 месяцев назад
That is my plan
@jaredabbott9585
@jaredabbott9585 8 месяцев назад
What exactly is the benefit of being with a woman? Modern dating has become so unpleasant that I think this question is emerging in the discourse in a big way
@carolinagold8237
@carolinagold8237 9 месяцев назад
So glad you're back. Much needed info guys aren't getting anywhere else
@griffonwc
@griffonwc 9 месяцев назад
Happy to see that the videos are back! Now the only thing missing is LIVE VIDEO streaming!!!! ;)
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 9 месяцев назад
Did u see the live I linked in the description?
@griffonwc
@griffonwc 9 месяцев назад
@@mynonleatherlife I had not seen it then but now i do! Sorry for some typos that might slip in from time to time but i am legally blind, which does not mean completely, but enough to get some gov hejp!!!
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 9 месяцев назад
No problem, very cool!
@DzikiFinansista
@DzikiFinansista 9 месяцев назад
Thank you from Poland 🇵🇱
@eye1351
@eye1351 8 месяцев назад
As a man thank you so much for your compliments. forever
@piotrekmarek80
@piotrekmarek80 8 месяцев назад
Great to see you back
@avivolah9401
@avivolah9401 8 месяцев назад
Just one thing - Its not true that all women understand women, heard a lot of times women say they dont understand other women and even her own self.
@QwertyQwerty-qk1kk
@QwertyQwerty-qk1kk 7 месяцев назад
Thank you so much for sharing !!! One of the comments said, to don't mind repeating yourself, SO TRUE, it really has to be graved on our skulls hhhh, and plz don't stop, just discovered your channel 2days and I've enjoyed all the videos, even the old ones, still true to this day and always be ✌🙏
@mynonleatherlife
@mynonleatherlife 7 месяцев назад
thank you!
@6u574v9
@6u574v9 8 месяцев назад
so true about the looks part, woman say looks are not important but is not true, they also want a good looking guy.
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