THE TRUTH About Being A Military Spouse | Caitlin Mahina Catania

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Sharing 5 pieces of advice/things to consider before committing to becoming a military spouse! Being a military wife isn't the easiest lifestyle, but it can be right for you.
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@vidananovazelandia 3 года назад

How refreshing, a military spouse who has her own identity and a job that is not into mlm or advertising sponsored products nobody needs

@Caitlin_Mahina 3 года назад

Aww thank you! But you're so right, I am tired of the mlm/mill spouse community

@WinnieDaou 2 года назад

I've been married to my husband for almost 25 years and he's been in the Army for the same amount of time. We've lived on and off post, in the states and overseas. I finished my career as a health educator specialist, worked at times and was also a SAHM. He's been an NCO and currently an Officer, has deployed and all that comes with this life. If you're a young spouse, my advice is to be who you are and don't let the military scare you. If you marry a frog the military won't turn them into a prince/ss. Celebrate your partner's promotions and awards, BUT stay humble and treat EVERYONE with respect. The bad reputation some military spouses have comes from those trying to wear their spouses' ranks or those who see marriage in general, as a mean to gain access to military benefits.

@Caitlin_Mahina 2 года назад

Such incredible advice! I completely agree from what I have seen. Thank you for your comment.

@thatproverbsmamma Год назад

Hahah! If you marry a frog. This is great. In some ways, I think the pressure would make it worse if they were not a nice person to begin with. This is good advice.

@emelypineda6881 2 года назад

This is so refreshing!! I always look up military spouse videos because my boyfriend is planning to commission as an officer for the marines, but every video I watch is usually a stay-at-home wife/mom that form their entire identity around there spouse (which is something I definitely do NOT want to do). Thank you for this video!! It gives me comfort

@Caitlin_Mahina 2 года назад

Glad I could help!

@MykkiOnTheCusp 6 месяцев назад

I absolutely refuse to let my career and interests take a backseat to a spouse's job. I think it's so important to maintain your own identity and do your own thing in spite of having to move around or plan travel differently. But I'm fortunate in that my spouse and I are both really independent people and get spend a lot of time apart without any relationship issues.

@Caitlin_Mahina 6 месяцев назад

I'm so happy for you!

@maeghansevin244 3 года назад

i’m a future marine spouse and this helped me so much! i’ve been worried about if we will be able to make ends meet on his salary while i settle in and find a job, but you’ve made me feel so much better! :)

@Caitlin_Mahina 3 года назад

I'm so glad I could help!

@itsbriiiyahhh 2 года назад

Omgsh I just spit my drink out when you said tell me about yourself and a military spouse says my husband is a gunnery SGT 💀 but I do have sympathy for a lot of military spouses bc after years of being married and having children and several deployments later, a lot of women start to lose their self identity especially being away from family so long. Especially for me, my husband is an army officer and I have to be able to support families during deployment and direct them to the right resources when they need help. And eventually his career starts to become part of your identity bc your life revolves around his career whether we want to or not and I think that alone leads to a lot of military divorces bc women want to have their own identity again and it’s very hard overall. Loved the video! ❤️

@Caitlin_Mahina 2 года назад

Thank you so much for your insight! That is a really great perspective to have that I never thought of before. I was not trying to come off as talking down to women who think that way, I just think it is important for all women to have some sense of identity outside of who their spouse is, so that they can feel valuable too!

@stephanieschubert7007 Год назад

I've never dated anyone in the military before, however I have started talking to a guy in the Navy a month ago and I think it's starting to look like it may end up as a serious relationship. I've never had any family or partners in the military before so this experience is completely new. Started looking into RU-vid videos to see what this experience is going to be like and any helpful advise I can find. Sounds like I'm off to a good start, I'm a registered nurse so I can find a job anywhere in the states with my degree and certification. I just hope I can keep myself busy and happy when he's gone.

@murphyac2498 3 года назад

My now husband drove me home from a bar and we literally got married a month to the day later and have beem happily married ever since. I am a happy stay at home wife that has homeschooled all of our kids. So I found your example funny. We are getting ready to move again for the 4th time, this time with one less kiddo. She is at the age she does not have to go with us.

@Caitlin_Mahina 3 года назад

Hi there! That is such an amazing story! Not to be totally cliché, but it sounds like when you and your hubby met it was one of those cases of "when you know, you know". How sweet! Congrats on making it though 3 moves already, and I wish you the best of luck on your 4th move. And being a stay at home wife/mom (ESPECIALLY one that does homeschooling!) is absolutely a valid and important job. Thank you for all that you do!

@bojanastojanovic2310 3 года назад

My husband just enlisted in the army and I’ve been so scared. Thank you for this!

@Caitlin_Mahina 3 года назад

It's going to be ok! Thank you for watching

@tsaints852 3 года назад

Yes, he will be fine. I am telling you that once he come back and you two move. It is going to be an amazing change of lifestyle.

@JessTylerBarron 2 года назад

Super helpful!! Thanks for sharing this :)

@madisongragg6464 3 года назад

So good!!!💕💕

@Caitlin_Mahina 3 года назад

hehe love you!!

@yesseniaacevedo7861 2 года назад

Came across your video while searching for PCS/move to Hawaii. I’ve been a military spouse for more than 11 years. You gave some pretty accurate information in your video. Lol please know that being a military spouse can be a wonderful experience. Especially, once your husband picks up rank. You won’t have to deal with all the dumb “field days” or searching for goggles in the middle of the night. Lol I can honestly say that you will either love it or hate it! I personally love it! I love moving to different parts of the world, exploring and growing with my family. There are several benefits as well, which I’m sure you have or will learn about. It’s not for everyone but it’s also not forever. So enjoy the time you have while he’s in. It can be an amazing experience for both of you. Your needs/wants in life will change. Embrace it and definitely communicate. :) Good luck on your future endeavors.

@Caitlin_Mahina 2 года назад

Thank you so much for your advice! I understand now, he has been in the fleet for about a year and life feels completely different from when I filmed this. Thank you for sharing :)

@thatproverbsmamma Год назад

I really appreciate this positive comment. It can be overwhelming at first but it's worth it to be with the person you love and soon it just becomes your normal life. 💜

@carinasellers9458 Год назад

I love this video it was so helpful like it was perfect and everything, Thank you! Waiting for his proposal 🥰

@radiant__moon 3 года назад

Loved this video! Very good information 😊

@Caitlin_Mahina 3 года назад

So glad I could help!

@kaylinbparker 3 года назад

Hey girl!! I’m a fellow mil spouse and RU-vidr. Loved this video and your honesty 🥰

@Caitlin_Mahina 3 года назад

aww thank you! I still feel like there is so much to cover haha

@kinseyy7684 2 года назад

This gave me a lot to look forward too and think about. At a young age making the decision to go down this path with my boyfriend who joined. He becomes a marine in two weeks. Our plan is to get married right after. as a diabetic I have a lot I have to think about when it comes to the things I use for my medical issue. It worries me a lot. My boyfriend told me tricare would pay for the things I use as an insulin dependent but I’m not sure who to talk to when it comes to that like if they will pay for the newly updated devices I use to take care of myself or if they pay for the bare minimum so I stay alive and healthy lol.

@Caitlin_Mahina 2 года назад

I am so glad I can help in some small way!! I don't know if tricare is able to help you, but I am optimistic that they can

@LU-NS22 3 года назад

Girl this was good content! 😂 Felt too relatable to hear you talk about the unsettling wack schedule. Anyway although it all can seem crazy and maybe scary living in the unknown, we can only truly live life taking risk and not being afraid to take the narrow path. …fire insta btw.💕

@Caitlin_Mahina 3 года назад

Aww hi! Thank you so much for the feedback, I am glad you could relate.

@miraclechiara3678 3 года назад

Great advise !seriously!:)

@Caitlin_Mahina 3 года назад

thank you! :)

@defencekidz 23 часа назад

Thanks for your honesty and telling your story! We find military families find it hard to locate resources. It’s about keeping on promoting them so they are aware ! I’m a military kid (and spouse) and we have created children’s books for military children- it’s so important children have access to further supports, especially when a parent is deployed. Thanks for all you are doing your videos are great! ❤️

@Caitlin_Mahina 10 часов назад

thank you so much!

@nataliebarron4572 Год назад

WORK REMOTELY ! You can work from literally anywhere with internet. Just find a customer service job! Indeed is full of them! I have worked at home for the past 2 years and I am able to watch my kids and not pay for childcare, and also when we start traveling around after BT I will be able to take my job with me no matter where we go ! :)

@highestapril 11 месяцев назад

How are you able to do customer service with the kids in the background?

@sachisade579 2 года назад

oh my goodness…as a future navy wife…i’m so nervous lol, but randomly getting this on my recommendations page was quite funny! i’m so excited to live our life together after dating for 3yrs and going through boot camp ahh lol. going into nursing while she’s active duty i’m so excited lol, anyways THANK YOU FOR THIS💛💛

@Caitlin_Mahina 2 года назад

I am so glad I could help!! Good luck on your next adventure :)

@victoriabarrios4849 2 года назад

My boyfriend is going into the army in a few weeks, we live together we don’t have kids. We’ve been together for almost 3 years and I feel like I’m getting anxiety knowing that’s he is going to be gone. But this video made me feel at ease. Thank you. ❤️

@Caitlin_Mahina 2 года назад

I'm so glad I could help!

@mycookiesdaisy 29 дней назад

Hi I’m in the same place! I know it’s been a while but how did things go? I’m terrified and haven’t stopped crying

@mydcunited 2 года назад

Spent half my career deployed. Loved it. Had a kid my last yr got out into the reserve to get out of deployment. Heading out soon. Seems every other yr is just what I'm gonna do. Can't seem to get away from it.

@TruthTeller-rh2bw 2 года назад

I love your intro lol My husband and I got married at ages 17 and 18 without knowing he was to join the military right after high school. When my husband joined the military close to two years later, I pretty much felt we both ate, walked, breathed, everything military. Also, I was his, cook, seamstress, laundry person, housekeeper, dry cleaning lady lol, and all with love. Although later after having our 2 children, he would frequently take us out to eat, and I had shopping money . I was married for more than half my life (25 years legally married to him) & I did manage to attend college, graduated with a very useful degree, and have beautiful memories- Praise God…

@Caitlin_Mahina 2 года назад

It sounds like you have had a wonderful journey! Thank you so much for sharing :)

@TruthTeller-rh2bw 2 года назад

@@Caitlin_Mahina Oh you’re such a sweetheart & I’m working on the next part of the journey in the best way possible, since I’ve learned valuable life lessons.Thank You 🙏🏼

@niecsanders 3 года назад

Thank you for the advice💕

@Caitlin_Mahina 3 года назад

I'm glad it helped!!

@en.or.9784 Год назад

Very helpful video, thank you!!

@Caitlin_Mahina Год назад

I'm so glad!

@SierraFord_ 2 года назад

needed this!!! my boyfriend of over 3 years is planning to go navy as an officer and this is such a new world to me. i already have an established career and needed this video!!

@Caitlin_Mahina 2 года назад

Ahh I am so glad I could help! It feels overwhelming at first but you will learn everything over time

@SierraFord_ 2 года назад

@@Caitlin_Mahina It really is! I don’t have any family in the military so it’s a lot to take in all at once

@Qchickenmc 3 года назад

Same! Dad Army. Husband Army active. Nurse myself!

@byroncollins 2 года назад

Watching some of your videos about being a military spouse. They are quite Interesting. Reminds me of the days what my wife had to go through when I were in the Army. I'm retired now and lossed my wife three years ago. Keep Up The Good Work 😎👊‼️

@Caitlin_Mahina 2 года назад

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Thank you for the encouragement!

@kaylamay9664 2 года назад

My husband just enlisted in the Navy and not gonna lie, I was so scared not knowing the future. Thank you for this, your videos bring me peace 😩❤️

@Caitlin_Mahina 2 года назад

I'm so glad I can help!

@SharlaNelson 7 месяцев назад

I’ve been in a relationship with an Air Force guy since May 12, 2019. We’ve broken up twice, but now we’re going strong. He recently moved to Houston so that he could be closer to me and family. We’ve talked about rings and stuff. We’re both supportive of each other. Thank you for your insight on military spouses. Really helped me a lot for the future.

@lesvialeon8225 3 года назад

Thank you so much this is so different very very helpful ❤️😘

@Caitlin_Mahina 3 года назад

I'm glad I could help!

@Marilynefc 2 года назад

I love this video and your personality 😍♥️beautiful disclaimer

@Caitlin_Mahina 2 года назад

Thank you so much! I appreciate your comment :)

@satinsage 3 года назад

Girl this video was so interesting! I’m playing the next half once I’m in bed tonight lol. My boyfriend “trained” to be in the Navy (not entirely sure how the process works) but it’s cool to hear your input on being an active duty military wife!! We love this first video 🥰😍

@Caitlin_Mahina 3 года назад

thank you!! that means so much to me

@nataliezorrilla448 2 года назад

Thank you for this video. I am currently getting ready to enlist and ship out and having my hubby I've been concerned on how all this is going to effect our relationship in the long run.

@Caitlin_Mahina 2 года назад

I'm glad I could help! Thank you for watching

@jiminsbulge9448 3 года назад

I'm surprised you only have 300 subs, you're very enjoyable to watch! :) 25:41 had me laughing for a minute xDD

@Caitlin_Mahina 3 года назад

aw thank you! My next goal is 500! :)

@GrimBrother 3 месяца назад

As someone who plans to be in the military and grew up in a military family, relationships scare the hell out of me for a lot of reasons. I am watching videos like these to get an idea of how to help my future gf/wife with the complications of me being in the service.

@Caitlin_Mahina 3 месяца назад

I'm sure you'll do just fine :)

@jhill4071 Год назад

4-19-23 Nice video about military life. Well planned topics and interesting presentation. USAF retired- So Calif

@jen5538 Год назад

Yes please make a video on the job as a civilian

@steffiefebrero7999 2 года назад

Thanks for a resourceful videos about being a military wife me and my fiancee plans our wedding but sadly his to far he is a retired us army thou and I live here I the philippines ferry sad but we keep holding on to our love.

@izzyrodriguez3434 3 года назад

Can you please make a video regarding how you work for the military as a civilian:)

@Caitlin_Mahina 3 года назад

I actually have one planned! Should be coming out a week from today :)

@MamiRexRez 3 года назад

I need to start filming too!!

@Caitlin_Mahina 3 года назад

do it!! it's so fun

@SusiesTips 2 месяца назад

Girls I have a question my boyfriend has a 4 year contract with the Army but he won’t continue after that. My question is how many deployments do you think he will have? He will leave to Korea for 9 months and I am scared that he is going to have another one after that.

@Vanessa-ew2dv 3 года назад

It's been an interest of mine for so long to start vlogging, but not fully sure how I should start. Any tips? I am a defence wife myself in Australia, and glad I have found a channel like yours to relate with.

@Caitlin_Mahina 3 года назад

Hi! I am glad you found me then :) Here is how I started, I hope it helps! First I decided what kind of equipment I wanted to film with. I use a Canon G7X Mark II and my editing software is final cut pro. Then I committed to an upload schedule, right now with my 9-5 job, I am uploading every Sunday. Then, I came up with as many video ideas as a can. Find creators and content that you enjoy and that you feel you can be passionate about. I hope that helps!

@isisgranger933 Год назад

My bf is in the military so this is great ty

@rachelelizabeth4619 11 месяцев назад

My husband is about to sign paperwork on Monday to join the Air National Guard, if he succeeds, I'll have to get very creative in figuring out how to parent our two small children primarily on my own. I feel like I'm pretty flexible and can adapt well to change, but I'm a big quality time love language person, and I'm really not wanting to move. Do you think this could work for our family?

@E_Munny 3 года назад

I’m dying to know about a career while the hubs is in the military... my bf is active duty army and I’m studying law soooo Im very concerned about my career if we get married

@MiZZVMN 3 года назад

I work with a new associate whose husband is in the military. They don’t live together, but, in CA at least, there are a lot of programs that make remote work possible. Even more so with Covid. It would be difficult but you can work out to see each other often.

@tsaints852 3 года назад

Hello, Catlin, I really love your videos. My wife is from another country and she isn't used to this lifestyle. I am TDY and she is pregnant with our second child. I understand the stress she is going to and wish I can be there, but I can't. I will send this video to her to give her a different perspective. Thank you again

@Caitlin_Mahina 3 года назад

Hi there! I am so glad I could help. I wish you and your family the best of luck!

@artleos7966 2 года назад

Hello Caitlin, I was wondering if you can help me. Im a social work student in California and Im looking for a military spouse support group. I'm conducting a six-week assignment to get to know the needs and support a military spouse may encounter. Any help would be appreciated.

@alexas34 3 года назад

Hey! I am/was going to be a marine. I am having tons of doubts about joining. I’ve been pretty set and stone about joining since I enlisted but I met my bf at PT’s and he’s now a marine but I have started to realize that he is the most important thing in my life rn and if I were a marine, I wouldn’t be able to see him if we are at diff bases for at least another 2 years. I don’t think I want to go thru that. We want to get married soon so we can live on or off base together. I’m also realizing that if I were a marine, I’m not sure I will love that rigorous and controlling lifestyle. Shit, idk! Help lol. Also, yes we are both aware that I should be making this decision for me and myself only.

@Caitlin_Mahina 3 года назад

Funny you should mention this, I actually tried to be a Marine as well and I met my now husband there! Here is the video on that experience: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-APYm2o9c-ss.html I talk about it a bit in this video and the one I linked, even if you do become a Marine, it might not be for forever. I am of the opinion of if you think you might regret it if you don't try it, then go for it. But it doesn't have to be your whole life! if you hate it, you could always do a few years and then get out. Totally up to you, but if your boyfriend is really your forever life partner, a few years of distance won't hurt. My husband and I have been married a little over 1.5 years at this point and most of it has been apart because he has been training, we don't mind because we know this situation with the Marine Corps is temporary, but our marriage is not. Just some food for thought!

@alexas34 3 года назад

@@Caitlin_Mahina thanks! I’m just worried that the lifestyle will frustrate me and make me sad/depressed. Honestly, I wanted to join to get out of my parents house and to be away from my stresses and anxieties that I feel here from not having a purpose/not knowing what to do. I just can’t bare the thought of being away from him for a couple years.

@Caitlin_Mahina 3 года назад

@@alexas34 as long as you're sure you want to marry him because you want to spend your life with him, rather than just to escape your current situation! in that case, it might be a good idea to join if you do not know what else you might want to do with your time

@alexas34 3 года назад

@@Caitlin_Mahina I would get a job and buy a car for myself in the time being, while we are apart and trying to figure out how to get our marriage certificates. I mean here’s the thing, I keep going back and forth. Earlier I was like fuck it, I should go, but right now I am getting excited about getting a job and a car as a civilian... the thought of that makes me happy because I’ll be busy and I’ll have more freedom.

@robertdeffenbaugh9004 Год назад

My Mom and Dad were Army National Guard. My Brother was 4th Infantry Division Afghanistan gave him Asthma. My Brother has three Daughters about to have a Son. My Sister is in the Air Force stationed in Japan. Last year she had her first Child a boy.

@fernandaandrade7552 Год назад

My boyfriend is about to go into Air Force and I’m a flight attendant. We live together and we have plans to get marry in a future soon. With my job I can work 40h to be able to keep my job and I’m hoping I’ll be able to commute in case of moving around (I mean, I know moving is a sure thing, but I mean when it happens). But I don’t have any family or close friends that could answer my questions about it. Could you do a video about jobs being a military wife?

@KeylerRose Год назад

My fiancee is joining the navy and this was really helpful 😭😭 im about to get my cosmetology license, do you know if there’s any on-base salons?

@Caitlin_Mahina Год назад

I've seen some before! But really it depends on the base. You could always set up your own practice at home! I know wives who have done that and been successful

@katerinasmusix4774 2 года назад

Hi Caitlin, I am wondering for college students. I currently have FASFA and I only have one more year but I am planning on getting married this year. What kind of benefits are their for “student” spouses?

@Caitlin_Mahina 2 года назад

Hi there! Unfortunately I do not think that there are any student-specific benefits for military spouses. I am pretty sure the tuition assistance is only for former military. However, when you get married you could be entitled to a housing allowance and separation pay if you two live far away from each other. That can help pay for college expenses potentially.

@katerinasmusix4774 2 года назад

@@Caitlin_Mahina ohh snap that sucks! So if I don’t move in with him I could receive money if we live far from each other??

@Caitlin_Mahina 2 года назад

@@katerinasmusix4774 Yep! He would receive a bit of extra money in each paycheck. I have heard it isn't that much extra but it is something

@katerinasmusix4774 2 года назад

@@Caitlin_Mahina Mmm oooh alright. Well thank you anyways love 🥰!

@mafere.v.277 3 года назад

How often do USA army military men get vacations?

@Mariana-ld6wo 3 года назад

My bf will be joining the military in September and it’s going to be really hard for me not to talk to him 24/7 And l overthinking and have anxiety too if maybe we would break up because that’s not something am use to it but we talk about it and he said that any time he’s free or is possible to text me he would do it today he’s currently going he’s training for September and l hope he pass he’s tests and we won’t be able to see each other for months many till Christmas cuz he’s going to do he’s boot camping till Christmas time and ldk how am going to do it

@Caitlin_Mahina 3 года назад

I'm going to give some tough advice here, if you genuinely think you can't do it, then a relationship with someone in the military might not be for you. Being separated for 9 months at a time is a pretty normal thing for us military wives. I would think long and hard about continuing your relationship with him, it's not worth it for you to be constantly stressed and unsure.

@kphoria1009 Год назад

same here 🥺 how has it been?

@estherheward Год назад

I needed this, I am also unsure

@jaylaass6641 Год назад

I can’t do separation 😂he’s in Germany I call his phone every time he’s available 💀and once he hangs up I’m having mental break downs

@yasmingonzalez5497 2 года назад

Hi, my fiance just finished bootcamp and is in MCT and we both know it'll be hard once we get married, once I turn 18 we're thinking of marriage. Right now I am in online college trying to get a bachelors in kinesiology so college won't be an issue when I move with my fiance since I can take my college anywhere. My fiance is doing air traffic control for his MOS. I want to be able to get a job once I live with him as well, I was thinking of doing customer service rep on the phone because i've gotten job opportunities that is on the phone after I graduated high school. Are there any other things I need to plan or think about?

@Caitlin_Mahina 2 года назад

Not that I can think of! You sound very well-prepared. :)

@yasmingonzalez5497 2 года назад

@@Caitlin_Mahina thank you :) now all I need to work on is my cooking skills lol.

@alanamarie1428 2 года назад

I’m 18 and my boyfriend is currently in MCT right now and after he finishes MOS schooling we are planning on getting married and me going with him wherever he is stationed. I’m currently in dental Assiting school and I should be done with that around when hes done with his MOS. This video definitely helped especially since I’m so young and I know I definitely want to marry him and truly be with him. Any tips? I have alot of people judging abt how we are young and how I’m rushing things with him but we know what we want. Also with me doing dental Assiting school would that work out as well me being able to work also? Tysm for this video!

@Caitlin_Mahina 2 года назад

I am so glad I could help! As far as people judging you, you just need to accept that is going to happen. I got married at 22 after college, and people still questioned my decision! If you and your future spouse are secure in your decision, then you need to do your best to let that criticism roll off your shoulders. People will always judge others, no matter what they do. I honestly lost some friends because of our decision. Not because we actively cut ties or anything, but because our lives started moving in such different directions. And that's ok! I made so many new friends who are my age and went down the exact same life path, and I truly have never had closer friends in my life! As far as dental assisting school, you can get jobs wherever you go. I have a friend who is a registered dietician at a hospital, and she moves every three years. This might sound shady, but she honestly just doesn't tell her employers she is a military spouse. And that is perfectly legal! If a dentist's practice discriminates against you for being a military spouse when they find out, they could get into legal trouble. Again that isn't to sound shady, but you can absolutely move from practice to practice wherever you live. Just get on the job hunt as soon as you move somewhere, so you can stay in one job for as long as possible. Good luck!

@alanamarie1428 2 года назад

@@Caitlin_Mahina this was so helpful thank you so much!!!

@SusiesTips 2 месяца назад

I started date a military guy and we are already so inlove, I love him with all my heart and I know he does too, he textme and call me every day but not for many hours, I am ok with that. His base is at 3 hours from my house so see each other every weekend. Right now he is in a training for 6 weeks in california without any communication and that is killing me. I have 3 kids from my previous marriage (by the way I am older that him) and even been with my kids and doing all my job at home is so hard, I am constantly crying missing him so much. When he comes back, he will stay for 4 months and then leave for 9 months to Korea. I don’t know How I will handle that if this one is already killing me and make me depressed. At this point I can’t see my self without him and neither him without me, we have talk about getting married but we want to wait until his contract ends in 3 years 😢

@Ryellefrench 3 года назад

can you o a video on fun jobs

@estebangarcia399 Год назад

Did she ever make one

@nyo2828 Год назад

My girlfriend wants to join the military. We been together for two years. We don’t have kids. I’m a Fuel hauler truck driver currently. I couldn’t join the military because I have a couple herniated disks. So do we have to get married to stay together because if she goes around the country/world I’m going to be jumping job to job and that’s not going be a good thing for my career.

@clopez1395 2 года назад

You’re saying the military covers IVF ?

@nonasmith2405 10 часов назад

Most women don't think that about marrying military that is just a stigma I married for love

@907travelalot Год назад

Reality check awesome.

@mebeBrianna 10 месяцев назад

My husband just joined Space Force and we’re going to be stationed somewhere that is not good for my career so I’m freaking out that I’ve had to put my career on hold for him. I can’t just be a stay at home wife, I need to work.

@kphoria1009 Год назад

my partner of 3 years is joining and i’m very nervous about it, but i’m still in school so i can’t go live with him while he’s training, do you know other military wives in that position? or do most live with their spouses?

@Caitlin_Mahina Год назад

it's not unusual at all! Plenty of spouses can't join up with their husbands until they finish school. I'm sure that doesn't make it feel any better though. You've got this!

@kphoria1009 Год назад

@@Caitlin_Mahina i hope so, thank you for responding :)

@MegaRahatul Год назад

9:00 omg

@tahmercynung2498 2 года назад

I personally don’t like to be married to someone who is near me everyday. I like someone who has a job which involves him not being around me everyday. As long as he is faithful it’s okay. I don’t mind communication. Even if it’s a year or two gone without seeing him physically it’s fine by me. I know that this sounds bizarre

@isaiahthaxton7177 2 года назад

So my girlfriend is in basic training now and after A school we plan on moving and living with each other and I’m trying to be an electrician and my hours move with me we’re both 19 I need some help..

@Caitlin_Mahina 2 года назад

How can I help?

@isaiahthaxton7177 2 года назад

@@Caitlin_Mahina I’m willing to leave home and move with her but I’m sure we have to get married so when should that fall into place

@Caitlin_Mahina 2 года назад

@@isaiahthaxton7177 That is true! You need to get married before you can receive military benefits. You can move in together, but you will not get housing benefits until you are legally married. You can get legally married (not have a proper ceremony) now in order to move in an have a "real" wedding later on.

@eggsandrice6158 2 года назад

Watching this bc im finna marry my girlfriend, and just want to see a military wife’s pov

@Caitlin_Mahina 2 года назад

I hope it was helpful!

@estebe-anap.5499 2 года назад

My boyfriend left to marine boot camp three weeks , I'm still very new to military life I guess. We plan to get married years later on. I'm just nervous 😬

@Caitlin_Mahina 2 года назад

Don't be nervous! It will be ok :)

@danillemashby6463 2 года назад

mine is in boot camp too for the marines! he’s in san diego, california. honestly it’s tough but i won’t see him until december ://

@estebe-anap.5499 2 года назад

@@danillemashby6463 I don't see mine until November ☹️

@Caitlin_Mahina 2 года назад

@@danillemashby6463 I promise December will come before you know it! Good luck :)

@jamesdouyon4526 3 года назад

Caitlin you know what would be a good idea if the military could somehow give the spouse a job not just help find one, you know kinda like an assignment.

@Caitlin_Mahina 3 года назад

I totally agree! That would be the most logical option.

@nonasmith2405 10 часов назад

Don't be your husband's trade or rank be yourself and don't trust other spouse's who ask what's yours spouse's rank before they introduce themselves

@TressaMulder Год назад

You represent your spouse.

@1do2likeU 3 года назад

Pastors wifes, presidents wifes get that label to or put it on themselfs.

@govannivelazco677 Год назад

RIP 🪦 moving to California

@mirembeflavia7237 3 года назад

Now how do l get a military man ready to marry me

@1kmckoan 3 года назад

🤣🤣

@mirembeflavia7237 3 года назад

@@1kmckoan yes

@Stine2328 6 месяцев назад

When she makes vlogs giving advice for “military spouse” but still ended up being divorced. This is too hilarious for me. I can’t. Lmao

@jewelweed6880 3 года назад

Take up geocaching 😉

@amberhollowell2957 3 года назад

I'm talking to a guy in the Marines I'm nervous about it because I do have a learning disability and I'm not sure if I would be able to handle everything I would need to any advice? Because of it I'm thinking of not talking to him anymore as the thought makes me nervous. He wants me to have a job I'm guessing it's to keep myself busy also I have a 3 year old son From ba previous relationship

@Caitlin_Mahina 3 года назад

I might not be the best person to get advice from in this particular situation but I do know that the civilian side of the Department of the Navy does a great job in hiring people with learning and other disabilities! So you could still get a job working as a civilian for the Marine Corps in the exchanges or other places on base.

@amberhollowell2957 3 года назад

@@Caitlin_Mahina thank you so much for answering me! The thought scares me of him being deployed but I really want to see where things go with him. I'm really liking him :) we haven't met yet because he is currently on a mission or deployment lol

@_rhodaet Месяц назад

Is your spouse an Officer?

@tahmercynung2498 2 года назад

Jesus loves you and wants to begin a relationship with you irrespective of your past. John 3:16. For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son that whosoever believes in him should not perish but have everlasting life. All you need do is say. Lord Jesus please forgive me where i have sinned against you in my thoughts actions words and deeds. Please cleanse me and wash me with your precious blood and come into my life in Jesus Name. Amen.Hurray you are now a child of God. Just as a little baby needs milk to grow so do you need the word of God.God bless you as you start your new walk with Jesus. Ask the holyspirit to led you to a church where you can be fed continuously with the word of God.