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Get "Love After Heartbreak" here 👉 bit.ly/LoveAft... - The TRUTH About Chemistry, Love & Building The PERFECT RELATIONSHIP! | Roommates... In this dating advice video, I will help you to know the truth about chemistry, love, and ways of building a perfect relationship. You may want to know how to build a perfect relationship on first dates, online dating, or somewhere in the dating process. Take heed to these dating tips and be sure to watch the entire video.
I believe in falling in love but people have a different perception of what falling in love actually is. I want you to be able to differentiate between falling in love and becoming attached because many times people are infatuated and end up believing that they are in love with somebody.
You can like and desire a lot of people, but you will only feel drawn to the person you are in love with. I want you to know how to fall in love, and be able to recognize who you are in love with and who you are attached to. You may like a lot of people, however, you will still recognize when you're in love with someone.
As a certified life coach, relationship coach, and dating coach, I want to make dating and relationships easier for you. I pray that you find this video helpful and that you will receive the man who is truly best for you.
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@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 года назад

❤️ Get your copy of "Love After Heartbreak" here 👉 www.loveafterheartbreak.com

@phamtruc9959 10 месяцев назад

The genuine connection that you have, do you have that with random people or people who are similar to you in terms of personalities? Is it the same as the "click" or "romantic spark" people always mention about? If you are the only person who is feeling it, it is no longer mutual connection?

@phamtruc9959 10 месяцев назад

And when you have a genuine connection with someone, how do you suppose to feel? Do you feel crazy about them (butterfly stomach) or just a deep, peaceful feeling like knowing they will be there for you no matter what?

@carlycarls3104 3 года назад

I think the hardest lesson I had to learn was you cant love somebody into loving you,

@grobunda6758 3 года назад

100

@davidkoziar1811 3 года назад

Yep. If you're giving a lot more than whatever you're getting then it's time to bounce.

@henryd9903 Год назад

@@davidkoziar1811 I'm feeling this I might have to consider this in my current situation even though I'm not in a relationship

@susanna4064 Год назад

Carly Carls You are so sweet thank you for saying that about me

@sexyspice1457 3 месяца назад

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@leeleebaybee8869 3 года назад

A real connection is mutual. You can't possibly be connected to someone who doesn't feel the same way you do. its rare nowadays to find someone on the same wave length as you but its a beautiful/scary thing once you do. Its a once in a lifetime experience. So if you find it, face it and embrace it !

@doristaylor3222 Год назад

Yes it has to spiritual feeling 🙏

@poochplace9511 Год назад

Agree. You feel it in your core.

@FoundationForFamilyAffairs 3 года назад

"You can't create a connection. It's either there or not". There is no point trying to force something that is not there.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 года назад

You're absolutely right!

@dianakurland2500 Год назад

But a connection can take a minute, no?

@mattiepierson2756 3 года назад

Connection is so important. It allows vulnerability.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 года назад

You're absolutely right!

@user-mb9jx5tx9y 3 года назад

Yes cause my ex was able to get me to be vulnerable and without that I wouldn’t be as comfortable with myself like I am today

@carollabelle8653 Год назад

Back in the 80s, 30+ years ago, I had a special connection and truly loved this particular man. But we were both immature and were not operating in God’s will at the time, and so we went our separate ways and there was a lot of hurt involved in that. Since then, we’ve both been through a lot and have done a lot of recovery work on ourselves by God’s grace and miraculous healing. And lo and behold 30+ years later, we reconnected due to a God-given vision that I had and it was just a divine reconnection, restoration, and reconciliation that was able to occur. Our relationship has been restored in a way that God intended it to be and it’s a beautiful thing. We don’t even have to work for it. We can just sit in it and praise God for it.🙌🏻😃💕✝️🙏🏻🙌🏻

@kingconan4crom Год назад

There is no such thing as a perfect person, but there is a perfect match.

@sonjadf47 3 года назад

It’s hard to describe what love really is. Yes it’s spiritual!

@AureliaBessard 3 года назад

That connection is really real!!! I've been in love and chosen to walk away because the trust was broken. If he's too afraid to go all in with me, I have no reason to stay.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

@Realness4sho 3 года назад

Absolutely dear!💕

@marylinmanuel1088 3 года назад

it is wild to me how it really comes down to self-love and once that is being taken care of, many great things happen.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 года назад

Thank you for sharing. I appreciate that!

@CowboyBobDuke Год назад

Totally agree 👍

@chiqui0816 3 года назад

"SPIRIT OF LOVE" Changes the entire meaning of love🙏 Unexplainable and genuine connection is achievable through God's love, once you know God, he will guide you to your connection🙏❤

@precioussylvester7173 3 года назад

@janeg1575 3 года назад

🙏🏻 amen

@lourdiacelestin2109 3 года назад

You made some good points. I don't mind to be submissive in the relationship, if he lead I will follow. Great leaders don't tell you what to do or wait on you to do. They show you how it's done! Thanks for the video Stephan🙏🙏

@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 года назад

My pleasure ❤

@marybass5412 3 года назад

EXCELLENT ❤️❤️My husband and I are total opposites. I am business oriented and happy go lucky. I am a very encouraging person. I was raised by very positive minded parents. My husband is the product of DIVORCE, and he was raised by his MOM, who is a very negative person. Anyway, I have kept myself busy over the years and I am very successful financially, but my husband is in his own WORLD of denial. Life is too short and my ATTITUDE is still very positive. I will more than likely end up divorced, but that’s LIFE ❤️I am really in LOVE with me, and I will be 61 in November and my Life will continue to GROW ❤️❤️❤️❤️

@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 года назад

❤ 🙂 Thank you!

@marybass5412 3 года назад

@Queenlay THANK YOU ❤️I will be 61 in November ❤️❤️❤️Black don’t CRACK❤️❤️❤️

@marybass5412 3 года назад

@Queenlay THANK YOU for the COMPLIMENT ❤️❤️❤️

@marybass5412 3 года назад

@@MeetStephanSpeaks YOU are VERY WELCOME ❤️

@jayc5756 3 года назад

Wow! I wonder how yall attracted each other in the 1st place. Wow! Those clash of personalities don't even seem to work without someone changing. So if yall both stuck in your ways...I don't get it. But glad you didn't lose yourself and your happy go lucky positive spirit in this. Cause most do unfortunately.

@kayjay3948 3 года назад

I am with the only man that I have ever loved. We broke-up years ago, but we reconciled years later. The love was still there even while we were apart and I was trying hard not to think about him lol.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 года назад

Glad to hear that, thank you for sharing!

@kayjay3948 3 года назад

@@MeetStephanSpeaks Thank you. You're welcome 🤗

@dr.kimbrough4506 3 года назад

Desperation will have you settling for whatever. I panicked when I realized I was appproaching 40. I wanted to be married. I wanted another kid. My desperation for those things had me with someone who was completely using me. I knew he was a liar, a cheater, and a manipulator, but what I wanted was more crucial than how he treated me. I didn’t really like him and it was obvious he didn’t like me. I like the idea of him and he liked the way I fed his narcissistic ego. Tbh, shorty wasn’t even my type. Ugh! The moment I let go of the idea of marriage and another baby. I was able to find true peace. I am getting to happy. I love y’all!

@moniquefacey5760 Год назад

Have you found the one?

@melmel7011 Год назад

Letting go of the 'marriage dream' is an eye opener. You become happier and select a good partner

@NYCAppl3 3 года назад

One of my favorite interviews. Connection versus attachment 🙌🏾

@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 года назад

Glad you enjoyed it! Thank you for sharing!

@obailey973 3 года назад

I agree by far one of the best!!!

@chiqui0816 3 года назад

👏👏👏Yes Stephan!!! That Wall built through past heartbreak should not be knocked down by the other, rather than by oneself when we have healed and are ready to love. God Bless, Stephan🙏

@janjISMYname 3 года назад

I feel like God is sending a message via you. Every thought or, question I've had (as I've decided to start dating again after 2 yrs), you soon post a vid on it. Thank you! I'm listening and learning 🙏🏾

@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 года назад

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

@3pministry-passionatelypur475 3 года назад

Wow, you don’t have to do husband wife duties while dating; it can all be seen in how you treat yourself. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Mr. Stephan Labossiere at it again!!! Leadership- everyone wants to feel respected and valued ☑️

@BeBeautifullyYou 3 года назад

These days, being truthfully open and honest is extremely rare because of fear of hurting feelings. I have literally made it clear that I prefer the honesty and if my feelings get hurt, oh well, if the information is coming from a place of love or to help me realize a better self, I’ll get over it. But, I’d rather know what’s going on than not.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 года назад

Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that.

@antoinetteroberts5626 3 года назад

I truly love this video, because I truly believe in connection. It's there and always be there. I have come to the point in my life, that I truly need all my needs met for a relationship and definitely a marriage for me to be totally and truly happy. I can not keep giving all of me and only get 20 or 50% from the other. 100% of me and 50% of you. That is totally not fair. In my experience I keep hearing men say they want a good woman. But they always pick the chic that's always in their pocket or stresses them out. No ones perfect but I'm always being supportive, wanting to know there needs. I can not stay with someone just to have a companion or someone next to me. I do not want my time wasted or in return wastes someone else's time. But I truly agree with everything said. Great video. Love You Stephan. Keep the good vibes coming. Thank You.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 года назад

My pleasure ❤ I appreciate your support!

@TeddieBear1968 3 года назад

Pure Facts …true love never ends

@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 года назад

You're absolutely right!

@kaymornasinclair5088 3 года назад

That’s right!!

@AureliaBessard 3 года назад

The Love is still there, but neglect in intolerable. Selfishness due to fear is also intolerable.

@JamaicaLove876 3 года назад

Wow, what a great conversation and on so many on point gems or food for thought. Yes, genuine connection is something you have that is just there,and agree it is that deep level of love that you are just drawn to the person. Or rather you are drawn to their spirit. When you have defined your purpose and you are walking in your passion it is much easier to find love. The love finds you because it is not something you look for or seek after it just presents itself. Yes, love does give you that desire to keep trying and it is something you can not easily walk away from as it becomes easy to pour into genuine love. The truth about chemistry, love, and finding the perfect person is that it is within you and you just find a refection of yourself in another person. The best person you can love is you, and when you find yourself in another person, that's really the true connection.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 года назад

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

@alexislamberson1901 3 года назад

Oh man that’s so beautiful and true!!!! Thank you for sharing that I screen shot what you said 🤍

@JamaicaLove876 3 года назад

@@alexislamberson1901 Thank you I was speaking from my heart and personal experience, glad you liked it. Appreciate it.

@alexislamberson1901 3 года назад

I can’t wait for real love… I’ve had maybe two partners but there was no deep connection. I pray for my future man all the time. ❤️

@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 года назад

I pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you

@nataliatorkhova8793 3 года назад

First, find connection with yourself)

@alexislamberson1901 3 года назад

@@nataliatorkhova8793 Yesss on that journey now 🤍

@wshelby83 3 года назад

Alexis me and you both!!

@user-mb9jx5tx9y 3 года назад

I’ve only had one partner and I’m in my late 20. I too pray that god sends me my person

@honeysweetstuff67 3 года назад

I’ve been listening to your for more than a year and you have given me wisdom and helped me find mine and my ex’s partners faults in the past. I reconnected with someone from my past and he is the most genuine soul and I love him now. It was the wrong time and it took us time to be okay with ourselves in order to be great together

@thisismystone9658 3 года назад

It's time to tithe to Stephan

@yvonnelisajones7095 3 года назад

Connection, positivity, supportive, honesty, respect yourself and your partner, pour into each other 🥰💕❤ thankyou stephan honey 😘

@GurlPlz4321 3 года назад

I’m so glad he said you cannot fall out of love!!! True love was never there at the beginning!! Thank you!

@arenfernandes3505 3 года назад

One sided love sucks

@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 года назад

💯 Yes!

@remiem-iw7uk 3 года назад

No one should give husband or wife privileges when only dating!

@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 года назад

You're absolutely right!

@johngonzalez4298 Год назад

Love is not about words, love is about actions

@newhorizonslifecoachcheers 2 года назад

WHAT LOVE IS AND IS NOT. Contrary to popular wordily beliefs Love does not make you do crazy things. It's arrogance and lust that make worldly people do crazy things! Not love. People need to understand the difference between the two. If someone truly loves another person they will never go out of their way to hurt them. *What True Love Is* #1. Love is (ALWAYS) patient, #2. Love is (ALWAYS) kind. #3. It DOES NOT envy (be jealousy) , #4. It DOES NOT boast, #5. It IS NOT proud (arrogant). #6. It DOES NOT dishonor (disrespect) others, #7. It IS NOT self-seeking (narcissistic), #8. It IS NOT easily angered, #9. It KEEPS NO RECORD of wrongs. #10. Love DOES NOT delight in evil BUT rejoices with the truth. *IT ALWAYS PROTECTS, ALWAYS TRUSTS, ALWAYS HOPES, ALWAYS PERSEVERES.* *LOVE NEVER FAILS.* 1 Corinthians 13 NIV New International Version

@kourtney101 3 года назад

@16:00 the best practice is to simply ask your partner "how do you see yourself?" And based on your connection's response ask what can u do to help them feel their best. Guide each other to your bliss.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 года назад

Glad to hear that. Thank you for sharing!

@lakiahwilliams 3 года назад

Stephan, you always hit the nail on the head. Your Knowledge and Spirit is very valuable to us all. Bless you.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 года назад

I appreciate that and be blessed as well!

@Bmitchell10 3 года назад

Thank you Stephan for always giving us Wisdom and Knowledge can't wait til you start touring again 💙 God bless you King💙

@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 года назад

❤ 🙂 Thank you very much and may God bless you as well!

@kpboyle1944 2 года назад

To “Fall” in love is NOT love, if you Fall then your falling away from yourself into another person, True Love is to stay fully in oneself and love another in the way you love yourself 🤍🕊

@thisismystone9658 3 года назад

What some people call falling in love is equal to becoming attached.. wow! That's powerful

@palmtreemrs 3 года назад

So much truth in this! I’m not with the person I am truly in love with.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 года назад

I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

@lil.la. 3 года назад

Same here girl ❤️

@12Messenger 3 года назад

Different dynamics: 1. I find someone attractive but they're not right for spiritually but can be cordial. 2. There is a connection with someone and overtime it may fade but the mutual interest is still there. 3. There wasnt a initial spark at first but over time they start to become more attractive and starts thinking about dating. 4. There was initial lust but shortly realizes this person isnt right. 5. Didn't find this person attractive at all but was lonely and wanted affection. 6. The person shows interest but the person being desired knows they're not right but takes up the offer on a relationship or hooking up. 7. 2 people are mutually interested and WANT to stay with each other so it lasts as long as they both show effort because we all know when the other is backing off. These are the different dynamics I've seen so only TIME will tell

@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

@judyb0216 3 года назад

If a man hasn't been to the dentist or doctor for YEARS, doesn't have a good diet or skips regular exercise. Drinks too much or smokes. That tells me he doesn't have self-love. And his lack of self-care will dictate how he values you or your relationship. It's not attractive to grow old with someone who will fall apart. You will end up being his caretaker.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 года назад

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

@reneepulliam8423 3 года назад

And right around 60 you go down hill if you have not taken care of your body. 💯💯💯💯

@INOUCIT 2 года назад

I like this objective measurement.

@iamministry8287 Год назад

This comment really has shook me. My soon to be ex-Husband has and had horrible dental presence. He breath never smelled, but his teeth were awful. They got worse and worse as time went on, but he was a gym rat and constantly talked about me being overweight. I never judged him for his teeth, but eventually it got to the point after all his criticism and talking about me losing weight, and my diet I started to only see his teeth. Sometimes I didn't want to look at him because his mouth was such a turn off after all the emotional abuse.

@jessaanderson627 3 года назад

This is my favorite video that you have ever done❣️ it enlightened me and helped me to realize the truth of what I have always known… True connection is the most powerful thing. True connection is the only way to have a genuine relationship. Thank you💗🙏

@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 года назад

My pleasure ❤

@champagnes5898 Год назад

I gave up on love a while ago..but I do love to see others have it and or obtain it💯I think real love is a mutual equal connection.

@iamministry8287 Год назад

Yeah I've given up as well. But, I hope others find love and happiness.

@thisismystone9658 3 года назад

That definition of falling in love is so clarifying.

@notoscam8406 2 года назад

Sometimes when your not in a relationship. You can see, hear and understand better what"s wrong and right about a relationship. Our senses are numb with the truth sometimes when we're together with someone. That why I appreciate what you are doing sir. I've been single for almost 10 yrs and I'm 31. But there so much more to learn. I don't have to be in a relationship and make a mistake just to learn it. Just doing the right thing in the present about my circumstances and what I need to prioritize. I appreciate more my season of being single to prepare for marriage and family life.

@NoahsArt93 3 года назад

Such a great coincidence for this video to show up. After this weekend , I stepped up on needing to fix a struggle I have right now in my life and took initiative to get this issue resolved. Thanks man🙏🏽 Blessing to you

@lil.la. 3 года назад

Omg you described it so perfectly. It is being drawn to someone. I thought I was going crazy as it is rare when it happens. I am madly in love with someone and not with them

@teaminnerpeace6279 2 года назад

Oh oh this topic was so good. God works when he wants you to hear something at the right time. Thank you Stephan for letting God use you.

@fonda7760 3 года назад

Thank you brother Stephan! There’s something quite refreshing when a godly man and servant is used as a conduit to share godly wisdom vs. stale, ‘smartness’ from a worldly grown boy! It’s just fact! The delivery is compassionate, genuine and heartfelt. I could literally hear Stephan’s heart. Being an empath, it is very detectable. Two flawed people entering a twosome-like pact without previously doing the individual required work of healing childhood / adult wounds, will undoubtedly come together for a time then fall apart, having confused attachment styles for ‘true’ love. Relationships evolve, thus, those within the relationship must also evolve, continually working on personal development as an individual and growth as a couple. As a Christ follower, it goes without saying, the two cannot be unequally yoked together. Trust me fellow Christ believer’s, it will not go well with you, more so for women than men. Save yourself the heartbreak. Besides, it is impossible to follow a parked car.

@sebrinanixon662 2 года назад

I absolutely love your points you make about love and connection! I was married 36 yrs and just recently divorced.. its been 3yrs and now I met a awesome man and that's all he talks about is connection.. just don't disconnect bc its hard to reconnect! 💥

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

@melmel7011 Год назад

Lol then you were not listening at him well. From what he said, you can never lose a genuine connection... You can run from it but you can never lose it

@lovealwayswins1218 3 года назад

💯 I totally enjoyed this conversation. So much wisdom delivered with honesty, dignity and respect. What we need: straight no chaser! Thanks Stephan, thanks Roommates.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 года назад

My pleasure ❤

@redeemed5906 2 года назад

Thanks for sharing your wisdom with these young minds. Our young men need to continue to hear wise council like this

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

@TeaTimewithLadyD 3 года назад

I love your light🥰 Keep shining King!🤴🏾 You are very powerful and have created your own lane through faith, truth, transparency, honor and loving guidance. Thank you.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 года назад

My pleasure ❤

@creativekatt 3 года назад

love the message and convo style breakdown of concepts… connection is an experience not a mental assessment 👉the end is epic 🤣

@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

@AnjelSpeaks 11 месяцев назад

We mistake connection with chemistry all the time. I think connection is someone that u feel u can be best friends with and also feel attraction. Basically feel safe to be ourselves.

@qwetblake9024 3 года назад

Dude speaking facts ! 👏👏

@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 года назад

Glad to hear that, thank you for your feedback!

@Realness4sho 3 года назад

Oh my….This is hard core needed Ttruuuuuuuuuuth! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💯 Thanks,

@creating1_c1999 2 года назад

You cannot love someone proper unless they are equally yoked. Church is not a building. When are the people going to get this? Church is in your heart. You should be having fellowship with your spouse daily. It's the best thing ever, to be centered in Christ, and stirring each other up in the word. It's beautiful.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

@lindajefferson156 3 года назад

I'm 64 and listen to you a lot because you are helping me have a better understanding about my relationship 💓. Thank you 😊

@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 года назад

My pleasure ❤

@rozannamurayama9629 3 года назад

I am 61 and his guidance is invaluable. I am not currently in a relationship, but now know what to know what to look for and how to recognize a healthy God based connection.

@vicade4112 3 года назад

Effective communication 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@renee167 3 года назад

I agree that you must have a true genuine connection with someone in order to have a successful relationship. You definitely can’t force it as you mentioned. I’ll admit that I’m afraid to truly fall for someone because of past relationships. However I’m definitely working on this while I wait and I definitely want to fall in love with the one God has for me! Thanks for your view on the true meaning of love!

@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 года назад

My pleasure ❤

@evaelizabeth6186 3 года назад

Giving love is like you want to hold on to the love that you had ❤️ U not ready to let go the current reality!

@GiveWithLove 7 месяцев назад

21:03-21:20 how you treat yourself is important to pay attention to, excellent point.

@obailey973 3 года назад

Wooooooooooow this is GOOD!!! I passed this video a few times but was drawn to come back. This helped me understand soooooo many of my feelings and my current situation. I AM IN LOVE!!!❤❤❤

@keica6062 3 года назад

Recognize, the unexplainable draw. 💯👏👏👏that was a bulls eye. You know when you know

@LibraLife47 3 года назад

It’s hard to watch at times. The mental maturity is clearly different. Hope the boys got something out of the talk. Thank you Stephan 💜

@remiem-iw7uk 3 года назад

As I see it, Stephan provided balanced mentorship for them. Unfortunately our men today have had an overload of estrogen growing up - because of lack of solid male role models growing up, an overabundance of female teachers vs male ones and also via the excess plastics and the junk being passed off as food that disrupts hormones. Feminism and the rainbow agenda have contributed tremendously to the confusion; the former by emasculating men and masculinising women, and the latter by normalising debauchery. Overall, the healthy family unit has been destroyed and dysfunction has become the standard.

@TemitopeKUYE 2 года назад

this was very interesting to watch, you are very wise. My take-home message is that success doesn’t equal purpose. When you have purpose, you don’t have time to entertain a lot of women but someone that aligns with your purpose. A man wants a woman that is supportive, positive and he must find her attractive.

@positiveenergyonlyasmr2943 3 года назад

I absolutely love you, you are so correct about the word LOVE!!! I am a woman that have been married twice and was never IN LOVE!!! With either of them. But I loved them. Which is two different things. Stay Positive

@sonjadf47 3 года назад

You can’t fall out of love because YOU are love. It’s spiritual.

@dianemcguffin6346 3 года назад

I believe that the connection is a deep feeling and it does draw you both in..

@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 года назад

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

@dianemcguffin6346 3 года назад

Connection is scary at times as you have to open up to the other person. Love is wanting the best for the other person...even if it means letting them go... Their well-being and happiness is what's important.

@kourtney101 3 года назад

@@dianemcguffin6346 this is very honest and purposeful.

@curvelover1722 3 года назад

They are dropping some good truth here. Remember. Truths are principles built into creation that cannot change. Facts can change. Truth-Gravity, facts-married vs. single.

@alexislamberson1901 3 года назад

That ending though 🤣🤣 he said what if you’re in love with 3 girls lmao

@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 года назад

lol, 🙂 thank you for watching till the end ❤

@MrsEarth-pf4cr 3 года назад

Hey Stephan, you have smiling eyes! I've been told my whole life that I have smiling eyes, never understood what it looks like on someone else until I saw you. Lol 😂

@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 года назад

❤ 🙂 Thank you!

@SuperBrianMak 11 месяцев назад

I just want to say you are a GODSEND. Thank you for being who you are and helping other Black men, like me, who could use the guidance and the wisdom. Thank you, Stephan.

@hollylynch8192 3 года назад

This is pure gold!

@joycetodd8863 3 года назад

love is giving yourself to each other and not being afraid to be venerable and knowing that person makes your heart shine. I cannot ever stop loving the man i fell in love with but he's always angry with me all the time it seems since I went through depression from family deaths. He was just beautiful until i went through this depression. now he's saying hes romantically in love with me but not in love with me like before. I have made a commitment that i will never leave and i made a promise to him. He says he could possibly fall back in love with me if i make positive changes. I've gotten help and am becoming self assured strong and working on my grief but he keeps looking backwards seeing only the past and he seems to get angry easily. I am at a loss as to what else i can do to help repair our relationship if he isn't meeting me half way.

@babyhuggz 3 года назад

This video is spot on! The dreamkiller and unsupportive types are draining especially if they don't have accomplishments and are not willing to build themselves up

@sandramoore1391 3 года назад

Truth be told . True Love never die

@akouvia 3 года назад

Thank you so much . This is so true 😊

@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 года назад

My pleasure ❤

@monathomas1777 2 года назад

I so agree. Thank you for the encouragement and bringing to the forefront of the thought process of what Love is.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

@Kay-si6if 2 года назад

Going with what you said with not being able to create a connection really resonated with me because I’ve talked to guys where I really wanted to maybe end up feeling something or some type of spark but it just wasn’t there.. & other guys where the chemistry was a lot more instant

@melmel7011 Год назад

You speak of chemistry and connection as the same thing, they are not. You can watch his other videos where he differentiates them

@konthegollc6747 3 года назад

Straight facts. Thanks

@annettewilliams424 3 года назад

I Love Everything You Said about Love! I'm Praying for exactly that! Genuine Love! Gods Will Be Done Not Mine!🙌❤️

@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 года назад

Amen 🙏

@nicenasty3751 2 года назад

I really feel like I have found my soulmate but he has some growing to do I'm actually willing to go on with life but I don't want anybody else I want him to get himself together and see what it really is with us so I have cut off all communication and he's stalking me trying to see if I'm with someone else but I'm not and I'm actually enjoying watch him watch me because It gives him a chance to see where he is being foolish at but when my spirit says it's time to let him back in I will but right now he has to take this time and sit back and see why I feel the way I feel if it's real it'll come back if not then he will find someone else and so will I

@Miss.Brown_ 2 года назад

This is good. We need more about leadership and her accepting his leadership role

@stellaasibe5013 3 года назад

You deserve a HUG!

@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 года назад

❤ 🙂 Thank you!

@adriannepaul9224 3 года назад

Single and Waiting over Taken and Faken is a great t-shirt quote, Stephan👏🏾👏🏾🌹🌹

@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

@delaneyford4711 3 года назад

This video is so good especially the part about having a genuine connection with someone it never truly goes away no matter the time apart.

@manuelapatarnello4513 5 месяцев назад

I loved this conversastion, very insighful and helpful! Thank you for sharing it! :)

@NathaliaDavis80 3 года назад

You are a wise young man, God bless you.

@cynthia59665 3 года назад

It takes two prayer is definitely needed patience communication listening 👂 🙏♥️

@Sherraysmiles 3 года назад

I totally agree. My true story.

@latashagray8405 3 года назад

Im a huge fan! Thank you for your continued wisdom 💖 May God continue to bless you sir!

@malisadalton8667 2 года назад

This video was sent to me by someone I love, someone that say they love me… yet, someone I had to walk away from because he didn’t feel like I gave my 100% in such a short timeframe we spent together. I definitely felt the connection, he said he did also but…. After 4 days, He didn’t think I was 100% all in. I’ve been hurt beyond measures in the past. But, I still believe in love and ALWAYS will. This video was very deep.

@tamaramoore6069 Год назад

I want a open and honest communication with my man because that's the way we can get closer and know each other better by being honest and communicating so thank you for the advice I appreciate it