I'm going to be honest with you, I can be a little scary cat! I sometimes get scared when I hear noises at night, I'll freak myself out when my feet touch something while swimming in the ocean and I hate scary movies! But you know what... I also have this thing within me called courage. Whenever I notice fear arise, I make a conscious choice to summon courage... it scares the shit out of me but with courage, I can face my fears... walk outside with a baseball bat to investigate the noise, swim a little longer in the ocean and watch a scary movie once in a while. Courage is a muscle that needs to be exercised. Each time I practice courage, I grow stronger and consequently I become less afraid. It's 2022, a new year, and a new opportunity to step forward in courage. This is your year if you are willing to claim it.
Hi Kindly Tell me the phrase you said when you were talking about or rather you were saying. 'You will mever overcome fear.' Tell me that foreign phrase please.
Awesome Video! I really do enjoy both yours and Stefan's. However prior to now, I was fearless, I was optimistic, I was always motivated, I was successful..... All that went out the window when I watched my Mum pass away 6 months ago. I know have this massive void in my heart and I find it hard to fight again, I find it hard and All I want is comfort atm.. One thing note: We must learn to harness fear.
Exactly facing fear makes u stronger and you know how to deal with it depend on the situation you are in. I tell that all people to face their fear to get rid of it and to be more stronger instead letting the fear taking control over their life. Having fear from ocean is not a shame to feel of because we care about our lives and i would say when u go to swim dont be alone, im a swimmer since i was a child so i feel you i had that fear i still have but much less than before, also dont jump into a swimming spot that u have no idea what is underneath your life matters more than swimming :). Not gonna lie if i was there i would give u a lot of tips if u want of course :). Thanks tatiana for this amazing video.
Fear can destroy everything we can be. If we can overcome it, we can do anything, face anything and go everywhere. So many people let it defeat them and it makes life so sad for them. If they could just understand it is something we create and therefore can make it less, our lives could be so much better. Thank you for bringing this up. It is such a downplayed subject and shouldn't be.
I have been on the edge of giving up for awhile. I really appreciate everything she said about the comfort zone and overcoming your fears, and Laying it out in-front of you. I have extreme anxiety and this is the step I needed to take to get back on my feet. Even though writing things out may seem silly to some people, however it can help us grow so much.
God is so awesome to have granted us with seemingly unlimited human potential, I don't see why He would give us this gift if He didn't want us to exercise it :)
I was just just telling myself yesterday stop not shining show everyone what you can do stop not pushing myself because I’m afraid of what people will think are say but thank you for this video this was a sign to tap in and press that GO Button and leap into 2022 and take over 💪🏽💜
That's exactly right! People will always have an opinion no matter what you say or do, it's unavoidable. When you're afraid of what they will think, you hand them your power and that puts you in a very vulnerable position. Your true power comes from understanding your innate human value, your God-given spirit.
This video warms my heart Tatiana, thank you very much for this. My biggest fear for the last three years was it to tell my parents that I want to be an actress. I still get goosebumps thinking about telling them. They're amazing parents, I value their opinion way too much. I think I'm not "individual enough" to go and say: ok, so I'm doing this and my parents hate it. Because I love them so much, want their blessing and support. I don't want a lonely life and not want to tell people about their children's professions proudly. I am looking for the courage to do this. Everything I already know, but when you say it Tatiana, always has a different meaning/more value attached to it. I admire you so much. One thought I had during this video "Wow, I admire her openness of life so much. Her future kids will have a intelligent mother to learn from and their life will probably be so beautiful." That thought probably came to me, because of my inner resentment towards my parents, because their lack of encouragement for artistic possibilities in life. Then I thought "well, you know about this information now. You're independent and have a mind as beautiful as Tatiana, because you understand this video and have an openness to life as well." I've never been so vulnerable in a RU-vid Comment.. THANK YOU FOR THIS TATIANA! 💌
Thank you for sharing! I can relate to this... you and I both want to make our parents happy and proud because we LOVE them. But what does every parent want for their child? I've asked around... a great parent ultimately wants their child to be HAPPY. They want to see their children smiling. My mom really wanted me to finish university... the fact that I was in university was something my mom was proud of. To have a daughter drop out of university would be an embarrassment. But success speaks for itself. Go do what you love and do it with all you've got, put all your energy into it, and be filled with passion that propels your forward. If you do that, you'll be a success. I have no doubt. Most people don't realize that success in anything is just a matter of giving it your ALL. Most people just don't try. I guarantee you that your parents will be proud when they see how successful their child is (no matter if it's not their first career choice for you) and most importantly they'll be happy to know that you are pursuing your passion in life and it's creating meaning for you. When you're lit up from the inside out, it shines through and everyone around you will feel it. No explanations needed.
1 thing I think should be noted is that although fear can lead to cautious behavior, caution doesn't have to be fear based. You can act with caution from purely objective, rational consideration, in the absence of actual fear. Caution can be derived from an unemotional analysis of risk, without fear of risk. I think many (most?) people seem (or act) like they're incapable of caution without fear. Sad for them, but they are who they are. A clever person can be cautious about their approaches to problems they identify without being afraid of the risks involved. When you can cultivate rational caution without the potentially damaging effects of fear, you don't *need* to be afraid to get the same benefits of fear. Our feelings aren't facts, they're only important as far as they motivate us & tell us our values. From those values & motivations, we can rationally construct goals based on those values & motivations, prioritized based on the relative importance of the values & motivations we have.
Thank you so much . I used to have a lot of uncertainty about a year ago when i started my Amazon fba business . I was fearful of failure and fearful of humiliation im happy that i was able to overcome it and i know this video will help someone in the same situation that i used to be in !
This was amazing using your fears to propel you to summon courage, so it is fear itself that makes you courageous this is so informative thanks Tatiana
Thank you for this! One of my biggest fears in making a business is not knowing how to deal with problems. Like refunds or if an item doesn’t get sent out and I also struggle finding any answers to this. If you could make a video similar to how to deal with these issues like this when dropshipping on shopify or Amazon that’d be great♥️
Hi, Tatiana & Stefan James! I am a huge fan of yours from the Philippines! The two of you really helped me in realizing so many things in life. I'm an avid subscriber to both of your channels. Keep posting encouraging and helpful videos like this! 😍 One line I won't forget from this video is, "Encourage courage." Such a powerful one! 😎
Excellent exercise! Absolutely excellent! I was able to distance myself from the fears in my head after seeing what I had on paper. Also my fears list only went to number 5…my possibilities exceeded 12. Thank you TATIANA!
Really like the way you explained that overcoming fear is not eliminate those fears and get back to our comfort zone, rather becoming more courageous to make fear a catalyst to growth! Thanks Tatiana!
thank you tatiana. i have learned so much from you over the years. you are one of the top business women i always come back to for inspiration, confidence and steadying my mind.
Thank you dear Tatiana 💓 Well explained and incredible points that one can take to handle the fears. Please share more journey on you ecommerce business expedition in detail ( entire failures, mistakes and becoming ecommerce expert). Also share your routine in a day - business, content creation, travel, meetings and more. Thank you again.
Thank you for your video! This evening I've been feeling so uneasy because of my self doubt going into selling Cutco products which I totally love and believe in for the past 17 years. Pushing my comfort zone and Focusing on courage :) thank you! Love from Vancouver Canada!
Thank you so much for this video.... I have so many fears... I live inside my bubble, because every time I take a risk and step outside this bubble I regret it. It's like... the world outside my bubble isn't meant for me? Maybe it's because I fear so much.... maybe it's because of other things, but it's really hard for me to let the fear not define my whole life. That's why your video really was perfect for me, 'cause it reminded me of never giving up and always work on myself, so I someday can step outside my bubble again... with the knowing of my fear that I will regret it again, but also with the hope that I can make it work that time. So thank you!
I believe that the world you experience is a reflection of your inner world. It means that if there is struggle in the material world there must be some resistance in the internal world. So if you find yourself perpetually struggling whenever you’d two outside your comfort zone then it’s because you are forcing the step because you ‘think you should’ rather than taking it from a place of power. I recommend the book Power Vs. Force by David Hawkins. For example, if you try to quit drinking alcohol but you’re thinking about how much you’ll lose, then you will always undermine yourself because you see it as a loss. If you instead focus on what you could gain, then you’ll be pulled towards a healthier lifestyle.
@@TatianaJames Thank you so much for your words and your recommendation. I'll order the book and go from there. :) But I really think you're right... there are so many struggles inside me that it's hard to focus on the outside, too. Have an awesome day and thank you so much for your help!
Awesome video! Tell fear how big your God is"The Lord is my light and my salvation, whom shall I fear." Psalm 27:1 The fear we feel is a giant. God can help us defeat our giants. Remember David was much smaller and a less skilled fighter. He was a shepherd boy. So, he thought about his God. That is how he overcame Goliath. Tatiana is right, a true influencer, fighter, skillful warrior to give you ways to conquer your fear. She did it! It worked. 🙏
Thank you so much Tatiana for this amazing content and so valuable information. I love you 💗 , I love how you present 💗! May I ask what microphone do you use for presentation? 🦋 Sending lots of blessings 😍
Love the hair color!!! Ur so pretty and well rounded woman! I look up to you and your successes and knowledge, i totally will succeed with actually picking one person to model. In order to grow and find your identity i know you have to find one person to model and girllll ur the one!! I appreciate your voice and care have an amazing day tatianaaaaaa♥️♥️♥️♥️
Fear of starting a business is not my issue. As a former retail Small Business Relationship Banker, I had the courage to start 3 of my own in 2021 (small business lending, a clothing line with my youngest Son, and a financial literacy blog). My fear is how to get people to support ME, as if it's harmful for me to be the face of my businesses in a divisive society. My acquaintances and family just sit in the bleachers and watch. The question is, will I have the courage to believe that people would see my face and actually buy from ME. This is how I am failing while others are succeeding.
Hey RAD, I think they absolutely would if you're delivering massive value. Just keep in mind if you want to sell your business one day, if you do, you might not want to become the face of it so much as it will be less attractive to buyers. Keep me posted!
@@TatianaJames Great point Tatiana. Still need to figure out the best way for me to establish some traction and momentum. Something like that lol. Thank you for responding. Loved the vid.
I would like to thank u so much If it weren’t for u I would give up my dream I always wanted to become an kpop idol but i was also so afraid that I would not get in or im not good enough ,im not going to be successful and not being able to take care of my own life and I thought i have to worry abt so so many things But now I understand that i have more posibilities than worries and if i want to become what i want I should take the risk because no one else will do it for me And if in the future i will not want to become what i want now Thats fine U know its better to have one opinion that more cuz when u have more u dont work hard for what u really want But u start to worry more and start working for another things Idk if u understood what i said but yea Thank u so much
Feeling you're fear and not letting it control you is one of the most powerful things you can do. When I feel my fear... I actually shake, physically, sometimes I can cry, I can feel nauseous (in the pit of the stomach). Fear can last a few seconds to a few minutes but once felt... it leaves. I use to fear Spiders, Heights, Violence, Lack of security/safety, Loneliness... and lots lots more but I've removed many of them by feeling them. I would disagree that most successful people have felt their fear, I dont feel thats true. Most successful people are still driven BY their fear. They've still not felt their fear about lack of income, lack of providing for their family... lots of fear there. And because they havent felt their fear they actually live in fear... By OVER-compensating with their success in an effort to avoid feeling these fears. Sorry I know this is probably not what you are saying in your video, but this is my understanding.
foarte mulți pe RU-vid și pe alte canale nu știe decât să taie cu foarfeca să dau orice și să facă tot felul de lucruri murdare îmi schimb sinceritatea și respect trebuie să fie pe primul loc când o să arătați întregii planetei sinceritatea și respect live atunci o să aveți respect
Thank you for your videos! If someone had a total of 3k to invest ...not a penny more. And they had motivation and wanted to make a side income of let's say 12k profit per year (after 6 months from launch). Do you recommend FBA passion product? Or rather, utilizing Merch & Etsy and just doing t-shirts and accessories? I'm so motivated and I've saved so hard. I just feel afraid to take the wrong direction. And I can not afford a course outside the classes I've taken on jungle scout. I'm willing to work very hard. I just don't know where to go...
Which business model would you be most passionate about / able to give your customers the most value? There's no right or wrong here, but I say choose one that you think you'll enjoy the most. Lots more videos on my channel to help you. Keep me updated! I can't wait to see what you do.
@@TatianaJames thank you Tatiana!!!! Loving all you're videos. Everyone on RU-vid is great but there is something so deeply genuine about the way you come across. Keep it up! 💯
hello tatiana and how your day going and have you thought about live streaming on twitch and starting your own podcast and starting your own vlog channel on youtube and starting your own tiktok account and starting your own discord account and starting your own patreon account or onlyfans account in the future
I've recently started researching selling on Amazon thanks to your videos I feel more informed and confident still haven't pulled the trigger due to not having the money quiet just yet but o really do appreciate your videos!!! 🥰