The Ultimate People Skills: "Positive Projection"

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How do you develop extraordinary people skills? Try a strategy called “Positive Projection,” which is about mindfully exuding positive energy toward others. Here’s how:
1. Honor Others’ Struggle. You feel people around you don’t know how hard you really work and how much you have to deal with, right? Well, that feeling is exactly the feeling other people have, all the time! But we forget that. We don’t see how much others struggle, which is why we forget to be kind and patient. If you want to be extraordinary with people, keep in mind everyone is dealing with difficulty and you will be a more compassionate and supportive person, which is the kind of person everyone wants to be around.
2. Take Enthusiastic Interest. Become fascinated with others. Take active and enthusiastic interest; ask about their interests, desires, fears, and dreams. When you know others’ values and passions, it’s easier to be positive with them. When you know and champion others, you yourself become fascinating and interesting.
3. Don’t Mirror Bad Energy. If you pick up on the overall energy of the masses, though, you will find that it is a dissipated and disgruntled energy, which in turn can make you feel stressed, judgmental and negative. Emotions and energy is contagious. So, be someone who is willing the energy you want to experience in the world. Choose to generate positivity and give that gift to the world.
4. Send Well Wishes. When I pass by others, I often look at them and in my mind say, “I wish you joy, abundance, health and love.” They might not know what’s on my mind, but they can literally feel good intent coming from me and a positive aura being directed to them. Try it. Just send positive thoughts and well wishes to others. They will feel great around you.
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ABOUT BRENDON
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Brendon Burchard is one of the most watched personal development trainers in the world, and a Top 100 Most Followed Public Figure on Facebook. Over 50,000,000 people watched his videos in the last 12 months, more than 30,000,000 see his posts every week on Facebook, and 600,000-plus students have completed his online courses or video series, making him one of the most successful online instructors in history. A #1 New York Times, #1 Wall Street Journal, and #1 USA Today bestselling author, his books include The Motivation Manifesto, The Charge, The Millionaire Messenger, and Life’s Golden Ticket. Brendon is also the star and executive producer of the #1 self-help solo series on RU-vid, and his podcast The Charged Life debuted at #1 on iTunes.
After suffering depression and surviving a car accident at the age of 19, Brendon began asking himself important life questions: “Did I truly live today? Did I love? Did I matter?” His intention to be happy with the answers led to his breakthrough and life's work helping others “live a fully charged life.” By the age of 32, he became a #1 bestselling author and a multimillionaire as an early pioneer in the online education space. Since then, he has dedicated his life to helping others find their charge, deepen their motivation and strength, and share their true voice with the world.
Larry King named Brendon "one of the top motivation and marketing trainers in the world." SUCCESS Magazine named him as one of the Top 25 Most Influential Leaders in Personal Growth and Achievement, along with Oprah, Deepak Chopra, Joel Osteen, and Arianna Huffington.
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@pninagagnon1550 8 лет назад

i believe my dog has this quality, sending good energy to those who cross our path: They smile to her, she even looks back toward them, to make sure the good feeling is still on! Love to you, Brendon

@AaronDoughty44 8 лет назад

I believe it's about building an ecology of positive emotion. Meaning cultivating an environment that is inspiring, having friends that are in alignment with your higher goals, and creating habits that are positive. Then as the positive energy begins to naturally develop more and more, people will perceive it and respond to it. The power is within and meditation is what helped me cultivate more positive energy. Great video Brendon!

@achyuth_rj 8 лет назад

Just felt like you said it all .. Cheers!

@quentellamyers5798 8 лет назад

@secretsunflower 8 лет назад

By projecting POSITIVITY in a GOOD ENERGY on other peope at ALL times, you're actually bringing buoyant positive energy into your relationships. How do you do that? 1) Honoring people's struggle or hardship - not be judgemental/critical/teasing people/making enemy. Instead, choose to be kind, patient, joyful, bringing love, mindfulness, compassion, full presence, empathy, goodwill. 2) Taking ENTHUSIASTIC INTEREST in people - ask & get fascinated about their interest, desire, love of life, fears, worries, dreams, values, passion. Be their Cheerleader! 3) Don't mirror people's energy especially sadness, feeling bad or hurtful, pessimistic. Be a creator of what you're willing to be, not merely a reflector of others 4) Actively pray in silence when you see/meet people: "I Wish You Joy, Health & Love!", "I Wish You Joy, Health & Love!" World, these are amazing thoughts that work wonders!!!

@Danygotaworldtosee 8 лет назад

I feel like that I can project that positivity when I travel more, you start to appreciate everything and everyone more

@prosperouseye Год назад

I've been thinking about this when I travel. Does the new scenery influence me to let my overthinking go? Can we get to that level even when we don't travel?

@oantimido 8 лет назад

Could you stop teaching me so much and making me cry at the same time? Well, on second though, no, don't stop.

@oantimido 8 лет назад

Absolutamente! ;)

@rohanbudhoo9628 8 лет назад

+Shauna I Johnny Depp tgggg the same tttfr5 the same retgffrt ljn

@floripuppy 8 лет назад

I cried too.. Ain't this just a wonderful human being? Brendon you're the best!

@stefanpetrovic1187 5 лет назад

@D Master Who is "someone" that you are referring to ?

@linaahmadi3529 8 лет назад

Brandon, I get a positive feeling once your new video pops up on my news feed, I know that I'm going to. learn something new, vibrant, and motivating. send you love, joy and happiness ♡ God Bless You

@TameraWeeks1 8 лет назад

I know! I get a positive feeling too when I see his video pop up! Love his videos.

@SydneyTeagarden 7 лет назад

Ive been experiencing a new all-time low (which is saying a lot- I was a heroin addict for 10yrs, I've been homeless, and worse). Today I am clean, I live in a home w a long-term bf- but despite how much my life has turned around- im experiencing MORE stress!! I lost my job, my bf is saying we can't stay together if I dont have a job, I feel uncomfortable as ive gained some weight. I feel like I should be glad to simply be breathing as I have died before, literally, and was brought back- this happened many times. I want you to know I am binge-watching your videos (well, listening- cleaning house today)- but you have such a wonderful spirit and good advice as well. Lets see if I can turn some things around- it's worth a shot! I'll be visiting your website too. Really though, I just want to say Thank You for being there when I'm really struggling. I hope you're having a wonderful day!:)

@appush123 8 лет назад

How can anyone select down button on this..Brendon, A million thanks to you for these videos! You inspire me every time I feel down. Your voice has a magic that makes people listen to you! I started looking my life differently after I started watching your videos. I now know that I can do much more than what I am doing. I really wish to meet you in person in my life and thankyou.

@TinRapper 8 лет назад

"Jeez Brendon, I like being around you, even though you're weird" xD

@tcraigalexander137 7 лет назад

Thanks Brendan the world needs you! Positive vibes brother!

@t.marioooo4876 2 года назад

Thank you Brendon. You are a superstar. Every single word you say just hits something inside me. It hits deep, down my core. The positive energy you give out to the world is awe inspiring. Please don’t stop what you’re doing.

@MuseSunday Год назад

I just went through so much and I was negative for while now that I found your channel again I know that I’m starting to heal faster and be secure and positive again!! But this time with more confidence and strength!!

@rebeckahvalentine858 8 лет назад

I love what you have to say, Brendon Burchard. On hard days I listen to you and feel the "possibility" pour back into my soul! Thank you for all your hard work! Thank you!

@JasonAir 8 лет назад

Love this video Brendon. I do that too, send people good vibes when I'm out. So agree with all you've said in this! Thank you for sharing.

@RachelHannah363 8 лет назад

Brendon Thank you once again for a wonderful insight! I am a huge fan and have been reading motivation manifesto and LOVING it. It has helped me beyond comprehension! Keep it up! You are a light to the world.

@guyvaknin16 6 лет назад

thank you Brendon, for bringing me tears. it really doesn't matter how world is right now, but there is a consistant need in positive, loving, caring and helping people. Thank you

@robynclara595 8 лет назад

I'm really happy that I discovered your videos. I've been watching your videos for a few months now, and my life is getting so much better. Thank you so much for sharing all you know with us. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

@3YYY0 8 лет назад

man i love you, even if i had a bad day and didn't laughed for like 4 hours: if i watch one of your videos I'm smiling from the first to the last second and try to bring that positive energy you gave to me, to the people around me.

@pattiel1108 8 лет назад

Some very good points, Brendon. Take an interest in people. Don't take on others' energies. Send them positive feelings. People are attracted to positivity. It seems curious that negative people are even more attracted, like moths to the light. Thanks for the encouragement and keep looking up!

@wanderlustchicklmtlori 2 года назад

I needed this video today. I teared up watching because we need more humans like you, especially these days. The last part got me about saying positive thoughts to yourself about total strangers. Just what I was looking for and will start putting these tips into practice today! Thank you❤❤❤❤

@giannisniper96 8 лет назад

it's amazing, everytime i feel bad or pessimistic i watch some of your videos and somehow you can flip upside down my view of the world. just thank you! keep it up, you're changing people's perspective

@zishanrahman7208 8 лет назад

Mr. Brendon Burchard, YOU Sir, are an awesome individual! thank you a lot for the videos!

@hollywhitelow3080 8 лет назад

Where have you been all my life!? I am addicted to your videos! So many of the subjects you talk about have hit home for me. I have been struggling for years to change my life, be positive, and become successful. But, I honestly didn't know how. For the first time I feel like you are showing me how to be the person I desire and how to reach goals that 10 yrs ago I never would have dreamed of even trying to reach! Thank you and please don't stop what you are doing! I have been telling everyone I know about you...:)

@howedelamitri 4 года назад

This needs millions of views. I encourage you to share it. We could have a much better world

@nichetime 8 лет назад

Thank you for your service Brendon! You matter to me. What I continue to learn from you is hands down....AMAZING! God bless you!

@kaylacuellar9291 8 лет назад

Brendon, you are my hero. No. Really. Thank you for inspiring me, for challenging me & speaking in a way that really helps me get it. Prayers for you and your family. God speed. Xo

@ayoalex 8 лет назад

The description of struggle explained in the first portion of this video really describes what has been going on with me at work lately. Thank you for the outlook change!

@TheAutolycus75 2 года назад

So much of everything you said resonates with ideals and vision I’ve had for several years!! It’s nuts how today people have lost touch with one another.

@franistronks3049 4 года назад

Brendon, you are a phenomenal human! I'm so grateful for your message! You are fascinating! I learn so much from you! Thank you for bring so much joy into the world! This world needs you!

@AnaLopez-ip8iw 8 лет назад

Thank you you are great. Sad at work / bus / train. I see so many people staring at smart phone or video game completely disconnected from others. walking in front of incoming traffic , not paying attention thank you for your tips brendon.

@andrewdwillis1821 8 лет назад

this is the best channel I've found on self improvement holy cow!

@anusha387 5 лет назад

Beautiful message. Its very cliche to say that we must be nice to people and always be positive but sometimes we forget what other people are going through and overlook their situations. Its good to have a reminder of it every now and then. Made me feel really positive ❤️

@MaryJane-zt3pn 7 лет назад

Thank you Sir!!! I've found your page at the exact moment I really need the great advice you have to give. Just starting a big new job, big new position..really need to stay focused on the positive. I have a feeling your videos are really going to help! Is it weird that listening to you feels like I'm wrapping my anxiety-ridden brain with a cozy blanket? Lol.. much gratitude to you.

@sushmitaojha2299 6 лет назад

You are best weird person, works for my life All you say connect to my life, Your ideas I practice it keeps me moving gives me a sense of relevant and happiness Thank you brendon for your ideas

@naomikemmie9219 8 лет назад

Thank you so much Brendon for all the great life skills you share. I look forward to your videos every week:)

@andrewrose1903 8 лет назад

I've watched hundreds of your videos Brendon. In this one, I see you "at your inspiring best". Keep it up.

@ebayposhman 6 лет назад

I have watched u before...but at this point in my life your positivity is so helpful

@omayrag4 2 года назад

You’re amazing Brendan. God bless you for your kind, thoughtful and wise words. Always!

@sunflower-oo1ff 8 лет назад

Dear Brendon, i know posting videos is a lot of work. I want thank you so much for still posting them. They are so helpful to me and i am sure to so many other people. Thank you !

@mmvasquez713 8 лет назад

This is exactly what I've been trying to do for the past couple of months ! Great video showing how I can remain doing this even in my time of stress and anxiety. Wish you joy,health, and love :)

@davidbarclay3651 8 лет назад

Thanks Brendon. It is the eternal struggle of human kind to focus outward, and have an "other" mentality. This is what our Creator wants for us, to minister to others and to do His Will.

@JtruUk 7 лет назад

Great video Brendon. I always feel positive energy when I watch your videos! :)

@carrendingal2979 5 лет назад

you're an amazing person....i really thank you a lot for bringing such wonderful thoughts of positivity more power.

@jenjenvlogs3712 8 лет назад

Your words are so human. They touch my HEART and make me connect to the real humans! Thanks Brendon. You are a Saint. Period.

@Jeffrey4Chargers 8 лет назад

thanks for making these videos brendon, I really enjoy watching these late at nights to draw inspiration. you are a light. p.s. live life fully, love openly and make your difference and joy health and love I'll remember for sure.

@kacileigh6112 2 года назад

So coming from someone who has been on the receiving end of this, and they were fascinated with me and kept asking questions about myself, most definitely did not make me feel like we were on a journey. It made me upset and feel as if they might be trying to gather information to use against me later. That, or me feeling like I didn’t deserve to open up like that. Not everyone feels the same when these types of conversations happen…

@awesomelife3710 8 лет назад

Sometimes, I prefer to rejoice with those who rejoice and weep with those who weep. That's what empathy is for: to connect at a real and deep level. If I insisted on imposing my happy-happy energy upon everyone around me all the time, I'd feel like a superficial fake, indifferent to others' needs. Also, I go for depth with a few close people, rather than hundreds or thousands of fb "friends."

@HMSteadman 4 года назад

I'm so glad I found your channel. Great videos made with such positivity and filled with great content. ✌️ Thank you!

@jijimonpa5923 2 года назад

18yr old me Sometimes feels so much Lonely only because am weird!! But your talk just cheered me up 'Thankyou♥️

@SaurabhGuptaMumbaiIndia 5 лет назад

Brendon thanks for the awesome video. On the point about connecting eyes with strangers passing by, I have realised when we look at people we are looking at a mirror, it's a reflection of our own thoughts and our brain associates with these images... if we are being indifferent to others we are being indifferent to self.

@easytipsfortherealhappines7769 5 лет назад

Brendon you are so amazing I am so blessed and grateful for you my brother and you are a great gift for this world

@gavinwolking4902 5 лет назад

Brendon, I tried last week to do this, and I pushed as hard as I could to be engaged, charismatic, more assertive, and to make people feel good when I interacted with them. It was great! However, it took SO MUCH ENERGY to do! I felt exhausted at the ends of my days and felt like I couldn’t keep it up for much more after that week. Please please PLEASE provide insight into this as to how I can work to make this more sustainable? Thank you as always 🙏

@amyvart1634 2 года назад

Wow, finding this video on RU-vid is like striking gold. 🤩

@spanishsky2012 8 лет назад

Brendan you are a truly amazing human being, thank you for all you bring x

@namelastname8569 6 лет назад

you turn issues into joyful challenges. alchemy at its finest my friend

@jyotikrishnamohan7493 4 года назад

I am so glad I found this amazing video!! I loved it! Thank you so much!!

@imkaraedwards Год назад

I love this so much, Brendon! And I totally feel that energy from you!

@gojiguy88 6 лет назад

Brendan, I’d love to see a video of how to effectively make a relationship with two differing love languages work and excel. Thank you for all you do! Your videos have truly changed me and my life! God bless you!

@araxykherlopian4700 8 лет назад

Thank you Brandon - i needed to hear this. Looking forward for daily motivational snippets .

@ANiiMETk 7 лет назад

This is great! Needed this it's so hard to reach out and chasing our dreams and personal goals can make us very selfish in sometimes a more emotional way. It's been hard to reach out lately, but this has motivated me! Thanks Subscribed!

@rebeccarogan7897 2 года назад

Great as always ..very helpful to remember! not to mirror others ..I need to put this in practice everyday

@tenagestr 8 лет назад

Words truly cannot express how much I have changed after introducing Brendan's work into my life.

@cristinabanulescu8463 Год назад

Thx. Amazing video ! Made my day ! Cheered me up in this grey Monday !

@regina15ful99 8 лет назад

Thank you for sharing such great, daily affirmations to live by on a daily basis.

@alexandradowns3471 7 лет назад

Excellent podcast. Cant wait to hear more

@manishchhatwani3459 8 лет назад

you are awesome brendon ! I am living in small village of India and watching your videos every week. Thank you so much for your videos, i am learning lot of things from it.

@_Palesa_M 3 года назад

Hey Brendon! You just got yourself new subbie! Yaaaaaay! 🎉🎊🥳🍾 I am naturally boisterous and loud and with that I can start, continue and hold conversation. I am the typical people’s person and I know people love being around me, however what I noticed is that people tend to know more about me than I know about them (I know that’s bad 🙈, but at least I am aware) and which brings me to your second point. I don’t think I take general interest in other people as I should. I tend to be complacent with what other people voluntarily give me and not necessarily ask a lot in fear of being invasive. In as much as I have that personality, I am kinda private and I prefer people knowing me until a certain point so when people do ask me what I do believe is invasive I will politely say “Not to be rude or anything but I would prefer not to discuss that”. So with me being like that and having certain boundaries as to how far certain people, how then do you know that you taking interest in the person is not invasive. I really don’t like coming across as nosy or making anyone uncomfortable! How do I overcome my fear of being invasive so that I can be free to take genuine interest in people?

@warrenisaac5634 4 года назад

Excellent one Brendon. I will work at this. Thank You!

@kitkam5003 2 года назад

After watching your video, you already conveyed very positive energy to me, thank you for sharing and good luck with more people, cheers

@Jugivadi 8 лет назад

Dude, you are just an amazing person. I can take this stuff to heart. Thanks.

@MeliRentasMomlife 8 лет назад

Great points. I needed this now more than ever. 👍🏻 The social contagion construct blew my mind. Thank you!

@quickgirl80 8 лет назад

Nothing but great content time & time again. Thank you Brendon!!

@elisabrooks927 8 лет назад

I so love this! Thanks for bringing this into my reality! So true!!! Love it!

@mizztanjo 8 лет назад

By far one of my favorite video's of yours Brendon!

@parvanehshafiei1 6 лет назад

U r the best Brandon..your words is a reminder to all of us for being human

@cathybelyea 8 лет назад

this really opened my eyes for 2016 and what my goals are going to be. thanks Brendon

@andreasjohannson6573 8 лет назад

Ah, another revelation :-). You are helping me towards the good life so much. And this - being a good human - is I guess one of the main pillars of ones own happiness and of that of the world. Thank you!

@artworkbydenisebusko8813 8 лет назад

Brendon, you're awesome. Your videos always put me in a great mood! :)

@euadrianabandeira 7 лет назад

I've loved your words. They make sense for me. Thank you!

@esmeraldamartinez2805 2 года назад

Love this: please be kind to anyone honestly never know what someone is going through and these small gestures can mean so much! Thanks!!

@luka.prijatelj94 5 лет назад

Thank you Brendon for this video clip. Always an inspiration listening to you :)

@davidromanart 8 лет назад

Loved this video, Brendon! Needed it today :)

@PulpitFriendship 7 лет назад

hey - loving your videos. awesome awesome awesome... appreciate the encouragement... and your voice in my life. Lots of blessings to you. P. Love

@KingaGorski 2 года назад

An insightful point to contemplate - not to assume other people’s energy 🙏

@morningglory3644 7 лет назад

Reflect what you want to see in the world. If you want to be around positive people, then you have to light up with positivity.

@sbgreen100 8 лет назад

Thank you for sharing your gifts with us. I like ...joy, health and love.

@zerodue1000 4 года назад

Thank you so much. This exactly what I needed to hear.

8 лет назад

Great motivator! I utilize his advices in all my classes.

@aprilh679 8 лет назад

Absolutely Loved this video!

@verat.6339 3 года назад

Invaluable, thank you for sharing 💙

@kellytaylor9742 5 лет назад

Thank you! You have helped me so much, Brendon!

@KhalilAleker 8 лет назад

Brendon is a Legend! Have no words for you bro!

@NtathuAllen 8 лет назад

☺ great reminder re the spirit of being human. Thank you

@furqansiddiqui8129 8 лет назад

You are the one of greatest motivater I ever seen..... love ur videoes

@aistefashionful 3 года назад

Thank you 😊 for all your hard work

@johnnybuds3589 8 лет назад

amazing video once again brendon, thanks for the positive vibes.

@fitnessmentoringwithdaniel6006 8 лет назад

Hey Brendon! Thank you so much for all your effort in sharing your wisdom with us. You are one of my greatest motivators. I was wondering if you could make a video on: "How to help a loved one break free of the caged life". This would be so helpful and appreciated. God bless you, Brendon.