Where do you want me to start lol? I have been in that particular "rising from the ashes" scenario many times - yet to survive - now its about THRIVING baby! We are master manifestors with the practice of deciding what we want and holding it in our mind's eye - Love it love it -
I learnt English to almost a native level, while in Ukraine, with no Internet, television, courses, and native speakers, back when I was a teen. To this day I can't explain to other people how I did it. But most people have a hard time believing me when I say I never visited an English speaking country. I wanted to speak and think in English so bad, that there was no way for me not to learn it.
I'm always feel like I'm thriving through a situations that many peole I meet can't and that's the interesting part. I can calm down any drama, but that makes me feel like most people view me as a boring person. That's tha whole thing about INFJs feeling misunderstood. Most people are interested by drama and show, not by a calm down person in control of almost everything in his life.
If you project negative things in to your life you'll end up having a toxic life if you project happiness on to your life you'll have an amazing happy life . the choice is up to you .
I gave up my life passion career, my Mortgage free house and nearly my entire savings . Agreed to buying my wife’s dream home, helped her with her Masters program school work, and spent a year making the new house and acreage into a palace that I decided to make “our palace”. One year later, my wife violated my loving trust and kicked me into the ditch. Dealing with the loss of my father and helping my mother battle bone cancer, the death of two wonderful dogs
The reasons why I'm watching this video is because I know to much about my weakness rather my strength and power 😔🤧 If you're reading this have an amazing day and take care :) Thank you so much again this is so helping ❤️
I have lived through so many epic beat downs in life... lost my job, my home, moved to a different state, had no place to live... and I made the world conform to my vision. Within a month I had an apartment, a boyfriend, a job, spending money and a new lease on life. After my divorce last year, I have moved mountains to lose weight, build my body back to something a 25yo would be proud of (I'm 52) and am getting my sea legs again for dating. We are Legion, INFJ's!
Spot on! I wish I understood my self earlier than at 60. These days, unfortunately, I am seen by our current society’s dementia as too white, too male and too old. To start over again at my age in todays warped world is a “mission impossible ” task. My most enjoyable activities in life are being taken away (via new laws) one at a time. My new reality is only to live my epic INFJ life helping others no matter what they think. I lived my life that way and every night when lay in bed I sleep sound every night. I guess that I am happiest when I can neglect myself and help someone or some thing better in someway. I did everything I really wanted to in my life and then some...I am not fearful of the future, poverty, pain or death and know that people will soon be needing the INFJ person to help survive the storm that sits on the horizon. I enjoy your words and views. I was I was As enlightened when i was your age. Good job!
this is the real reason why were here. sadly alot of these idiots don’t realize they need us until crisis or serious wisdom is needed for their poor life choices
Thank you for a wonderful video. It confirmed what many acquaintances and family have said about my situation. Suddenly, my husband died of a heart attack. The shock to my entire system affected my body and mind. Things took on a different characteristic that was unrecognizable. Yet I didn't ask for help or assistance, especially with our business. Closing it down, managing the finances, and now doing two people's jobs as a sole survivor was mind numbing. I cried. I wailed and grieved. I took my time digesting what my new lifestyle would bring out of this terrible darkness. Yet, in the back of my mind, I didn't want sympathy. I wanted to figure out how I was going to handle this new life after 54 years of trust and companionship. My thoughts and focus were organizing my efforts to move forward. My patience allowed me to take time to make all the right choices. It was not easy. At times, it was downright impossible. But, after four years of incredible difficulty, my aim was to return to my watercolor painting and poems. My superpower kept me on track. This capacity helped drive me forward thru this time period. Only now, people will add in our conversations that they don't understand how I did it on my own. Your video answered that question. I followed my heart and my mind. I love your videos because your mental points are completely correct. Thanks for the understanding.
Ps I had just turned 60. Now am rebuilding my Life in a society that appears to have decided that my type of human deserves limited opportunity. I still help people smile
That one (limited opportunity) has been hard for me to swallow, but its the truth. Sometimes I find myself not liking people much but later snap out if it.
This is SO true. I was dimming my light to make a woman who ran the org I worked for seem brighter, but all she kept doing was telling me who I was (which I didn’t care about, but allowed cause I know who I am), but dimming my own light just made me second fiddle which after I stopped working there and just focusing on myself made me shine brighter than ever.
I had a female sergeant major get in my face and yell "Sargeant Black, you just don't give a shit do you " I talked calm like always and said "Not even a little bit" then explained to her I was not being a smart ass, simply telling the truth. She couldnt understand how it was the truth. That Sargeant Major was so frustrated trying to help me. She was honestly sincerely trying so hard to help me, she is a good woman. I honestly care nothing for money, cars, homes they are all NOTHING to me. She saw me give up so much that any one else would have given up an arm or leg for, material things are honestly nothing to me. If my home burned to the ground and no one was hurt, I'd not shed a year over that. I've lost everything I've had and it was thf feeling as intense if I drop a candybar in the dirt. It is NOTHING.
Imagine some people were seeing something valuable in me, others were looking at me like am from another planet, this was giving me hard times to an extent I decided quarantine myself and discover the diamond and gold people see in me.
EPIC VIDEO... when working on projects now, if I'm getting overwhelmed I stop and say "You've got Super Powers, you can do this!" and I believe it... my confidence is rising to get out there. You walked me back into my past to discover... YOU ARE SO FREAKING RIGHT!!. At times when there was something I wanted to do, despite everybody in the Universe telling me I couldn't have it, I made it happen. THANKS for your support. So many times, it is ONLY an INFJ that can help and man do you help! Thank you.
What tough situation have I been able to thrive through, that I think most other people wouldn't have been able to ? Back in early 2019, there were 3 things that went wrong in a small time frame. First, the transmission in my truck began malfunctioning. I had money saved up. I ordered a new transmission, picked it up, brought it home, and replaced the old transmission. It all went smooth. One month later, my well water pump for my home malfunctioned. I had no water. With saved up money, I hired a plumbing contractor to come over and replace the pump and piping. I changed the water filters and pressurized the system. Two months later, my air conditioning system went totally inoperative. A local HVAC company had a special low price on a new system. With saved up money, I purchased it and they installed it. Money is a tool. I hardly even said a word to anyone else about all this stuff happening. Not to judge or criticize others, yet some folks would have had a nervous breakdown at some point. No boasting here. I just feel blessed to have some resources and skills at my disposal to take on challenges when they occur. Being single helps some too. I'm sorry this is such a large comment.
I can't believe a video like this exists. My heart has been leading me somewhere that I KNOW no one will want for me. But I'm getting really tired: physically, mentally, emotionally etc... But NO MORE. I won't listen to anyone but me! I WILL go abroad and study in Japan ♡ it seems insane but it's like it's LITERALLY calling my name. So I may as well give it my all~ Thank you, Wenzes. Love you, INFJs♡
Coming from an INTJ here, i see a problem with your basing the desire of others to be around you based on how much you 'need' them. In truth, MOST EVERYONE ONLY SEES whatever they can gain from being associated with another - they DO NOT base their willingness to be around you on how much you need them but MOSTLY on what THEY CAN GAIN from their association with you. That IS why you often see pop stars, sports stars and/or, actors with an entourage surrounding them when they go out for a public event. You GAIN TRUST from others BY DOING WHAT YOU SAY YOURE GOING TO DO - your INTEGRITY. ANYWAY, the capacity to FORESEE something - a vision or whatever - that is not real quite yet ABSOLUTELY IS a GREAT, GREAT, GREAT SUPERPOWER. BE A VISIONARY REGARDLESS of whatever goes on around you. that ABSOLUTELY DOES INSPIRE others (EVERYONE) to climb to greater heights than they mayve first imagined themselves capable of... (Te) extroverted thinking btw IS a VERY ACTIONABLE concept. what it REALLY MEANS is putting and/or enacting the vision in your head out in the real world around you. It doesnt always have to be perfect right off the bat. And, in fact, even getting things out there in nearly complete yet not perfect form ABSOLUTELY CAN be a first step to realizing the perfect real-world conclusion of whatever perfect vision you may have in your head!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
That is true for holding on to a vision. I was the most pathetic person in the group when I was a kid and teen. Because I know if I continue this way I’m going to have a devastating life in front of me when I look into the future. I don’t want to be the “ failure”. So I decided that either I change or either I have to end this life. And obviously I am standing here cos I change for the better and I feel so good to myself to a place that I almost feel like I don’t recognize myself. We are obviously are the true magician in our lives. I know everyone has the power to do that but we particularly can see through the blockage that we have and constantly seek improvement.
you have beautiful big eyes…when you wear green they look green…and matches with your hair in this video your eyes look blue grey. your videos are amazing and helpful…thank you
You are absolutely an incarnated ANGEL, Wenzes... It is sooooo uncanny how I now got to see this video of yours when I absolutely needed to hear, right this very moment, everything that you expounded on here. It is 3:33 pm ( really !!! ) of 27 April 2021, Tuesday, Philippines. It's like GOD herself sent you in front of my face to say these things, not that I'm more important than other souls... maybe there's a million of us listening to your wisdom just right now ... what a supercalifragilisticexpialidocious moment this is !!!!! Another INFJ, reclusive me, says so MBTI. And an Aquarian, adding to the weirdness ... Robert S Banadera.
LOVE this video!! You truly inspired me to be my best self!! I love how you said that everyone else has their own superpowers too, so we shouldn't feel like we can't use ours! I usually feel like others are at a disadvantage if I use it, but they have their own!! 😀❤
Well hardship is fickle.. when you overcome one, another come in and introduces extra difficulty.. but the thing is you always get over it so it is about *DOING*
Very interesting lady. We know we are smart, we know we are capable, there isn't any situation will put us down. Show your pesona to the world ONFJs fellow ❤️
Yeah....I've been though a lot of trauma, but have come out of the other side not completely happy, but definitely getting there. It wouldn't have happened if I had given up hope that things would get better. Out of all the types, the INFJ holds on the most to the hope for a better future. It's what animates so much of what we do.
Beautifully articulated message, Wenzes! I was just writing about being addicted to hardship as a means to move forward and break inertia , but was struggling to find the words to articulate it in an understandable way. This nails it. I believe that learning a martial art is a great tool for INFJs to synchronize the NI world with physical world. Learning the movements while working on bypassing the thinking function (introverted or extroverted) can lead to this NI and SE symbiosis in which the body begins to ground to the physical world and move in a fluid and intuitive manner. People will seem surprised because an INFJ can really stick out from a crowd and do things that others can’t (for one reason or another, I’m still working on figuring this out ). This connection and grounding will translate to other areas in life as you can act on your NI without filtering all the incoming information (this is done automatically, weather we chose to be conscious of it or not ) leading to a lot of breakthroughs. Have an amazing week everyone !
Thank you for your videos! I have gained some incredible insight and inspiration from them. After 59 years of living a very confusing life, your videos have put a lot of things into perspective! I have spend too many years letting others dump their negativity in my lap, waiting for them to " keep up " so to speak. I'm tired of being their " chameleon " . It is finally my time to shine! They can either keep up or sadly, I will have to leave them behind, for my own sanity.
This really cleared up Te and its bridge for me (and how well Klaus Mikaelson can do this, an ENTJ). And that the 3rd of the shadowfunctions is the least favourite... Huge chunk of information! Apparently it seems that Te carries my self-worth and I've never seen so clearly what was otherwise simply too scattered. Feeling and seeing this centers me to overthink a little less scattered and puts me more on a potential side of a coin. Thank you. And that holding on seems to be our designated stubbornness. Always felt like in that piece of, I think, Si other INFJ's seemed breakable or diminish-able, thus changeable. I've often filled it with junk... MAN what a strength, such an alignment😆
This is my first time commenting on any videos. Thank you wenzes it just felt like you are me means what i thinking these days is exactly what you explained. Thanks for this video which gave me clarification about what i am going to do is right and thats what i need to do rn.
I've honed my skills and deflated the bad ones for 35 years now. PTSD made my since of awareness and others very strong. take a bad aspect and turn it to benefit you, not hurt you. practice practice practice.
I've had people compare me to Don Quixote for using this super power. A man in rags who thought he was a knight, and tilted at windmills. I don't bother explaining it to them. If they don't get self-esteem, that's their own tough luck.
More than points i wanna say the sound volume was best i have heard till today. I liked your eyes. But not taking away chance to appreciate you were amazing.
What a beautiful content you prepared for us with this video ❤ thank you so much. Every word you speak here is a true ☺️ this is highly motivational and I am grateful to have found your channel. Looking forward to many more good videos from you and once again, bug thanks 💐✨💫
I have a question why holding onto our goal for long is so hard because I have a given my 1st exam and after few months I have to give another exam and while doing preparation I have a feeling I am becoming more & more careless towards my goal but I am determined why is this happened and how to prevent it?
In my case it's sometimes the disappearance of the vision itself. It's like the initial vision is realised partially (the 1st exam is done), and it is no longer the vision you are moving towards. You need an update, take stock of where you are now, congratulate yourself, be in the present moment, and then sit down and create a new vision, maybe visualising it and writing it down in logical and conceptual steps. Unless the problem lies elsewhere. Just my two cents.
Hi stumbled upon your channel (INFP here), and I must say you're doing awesome work-sharing & helping others. I have a question, so lately I'm having a connection with an INFJ (F), she sometimes says, that she doesn't feel heard, seen, she says that with us it's like "we are from the same universe but on different planets", I truly & deeply want to understand her. I have a strong clarity of commitment towards it. Please if possible give me some suggestions, also one more thing, should I contact an INFJ when they need some personal time, or should I let them connect. I asked her whether she wants to spend some time with herself because she was not feeling connected to herself lately, I want deeply want her growth and I want to be supportive in all the possible ways she wants.
I would say let her be alone for as much as possible so that she could spend some time with herself to understand what is going on in her life and if possible show her this channel this channel is really helpful for infj's -Random Infj on internet
I would say talk to her and make her feel comfortable whenever she is with you yet at the same time give her time to reflect to herself whenever she's alone and don't let her being dependent on you try to make her as independent person as possible just like wenzes said in this video to become independent That way she would fell less like she's not being heard but plz show her this channel or either watch this channel's videos and understand what she would need and what she won't
The problem is that she's taking care of others rather than herself that's why she isn't feeling herself so plz tell her to stop caring for others and start to move on and live the life she wants to!!
I feel you man... For me i found out that educating myself to death on youtube 😉😉 about whatever it is that's holding me back, gives amazing and immidiate results.
