5 "INFJ EPIC LIFE" BEGINNER MISTAKES (you’re probably still making!!!)

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INFJ Life Coach Lesson: Today, we're talking about the 5 beginner mistakes on your INFJ Epic life journey that you're probably still making. And let's unpack this title for a moment because this isn't supposed to trigger you. This isn't supposed to hit you and say, Oh, you're such a beginner, you're making all of these mistakes, I know so much better. No, let's look at it from the best-case scenario, which is: You're probably still making these mistakes and because you're making them, you're not making the progress that you were hoping for. This isn't something to be ashamed of. I've made each one of those mistakes, not once, but for years on end. And you could look at them and say, Oh, they're sort of cringe-worthy. No, they're not. They're exactly what happens if you're an INFJ and you have not learned that what I've learned from those mistakes because I've done them a million times, but you might not have to. If you recognize yourself in one of those mistakes that we're gonna talk about today, you can say: Oh, because I'm still making this mistake, I'm staying at the starting point when everything else should be working much faster. Now, if I just stopped making this one, two, or maybe five things, I can finally take charge of my INFJ Epic life and move forward, like a bulldozer. That's where we wanna get. We all wanna feel like this is exponential growth. It is fun. You don't feel like you're stuck and things are just moving smoothly. You're completely in the flow.
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@Wenzes 3 года назад

Which of the 5 "mistakes" can you relate most to?

@DearYoungerSelf111 3 года назад

Mistake #1 - I have created so many fantasy relationships in my mind and was completely heartbroken when "reality" showed me how wrong my vision was. This happened for me jn Friendships & boys I liked too. I appreciate Wenzes for reminding us about the "external observable facts". It helps me to keep myself in check "Am I projecting or is this actually happening".

@Wenzes 3 года назад

👏👏👏

@simovtransportmedia1137 3 года назад

I have been through all ot this situations at some moment. This is what the INFJ reality it's all about and the biggest problem is to align your reality to the real reality. You have to be more people oriented and take this experience as advantage. Don't lose yourself too much in your own world.

@ninoaldifilms 3 года назад

ALL of the mistakes I can relate to, lol. Great video - very insightful. Keep up the good work 👍

@TheWisdomOfTheAges_PsyM_Revd Год назад

Comparing myself to always end up depreciating my work of love.

@tehShikari Год назад

“They don’t know the strength it took to become the person I am” was apparently something I truly needed to hear, thank you!

@elenigalani4885 3 года назад

"We have to fail and we have to fail fast" (such an INFJ thing to say!). Very true!

@Wenzes 3 года назад

😉👍

@learngrow4135 3 года назад

For me, as INFJ, the best way is live a life without any expectations at all. Then you wont be dissapointed.

@inidefini329 2 года назад

Im scared to show my greatness - because I don't want to make the others feel smaller. 🙃

@MarkHenryMasicz Месяц назад

stop a cup, you dont belive you have what is take, how I know bcoz I am the person who hear all the lies I told. what you really want do it!!!

@suefluger3786 Год назад

I wrote two different celebrities when I was younger, imagining the connection I really needed. You’re not alone :)

@piingfaan 3 года назад

"once we are grounded, we can picks ourselves up" yep, i'm exactly in this process. Thank you so much Wenzes!

@Wenzes 3 года назад

☺️😉👍

@zonefreakman Год назад

This is so much better advice than anyone else has said to me which basically consists of " you're just overreacting, get over it."

@FSCHW Год назад

My current situation is my employer sees me as nothing despite my accomplishments and what I have done for them. Available 24x7x365 for the last 22 years. Worked 2 levels above my grade level with a good reputation across the whole company. But I am not an engineer or even a college graduate, however once I’ve learned the details of what we are doing I can compete with all of them. I do all the reporting out of an outage management system because I understand the data. I am on several teams because of my knowledge of the system/data and because I tend to see things differently and offer different solutions than what they all come up with. Management/supervisory people here do not get OT but they have made exceptions to people all around me and this past year promoted my two engineers to the same grade level as me and pay them OT. They just came out with an early retirement incentive program and offered it to all the engineers my grade level and above in our field offices plus two managers in my office. They skipped me. It’s time to terminate this relationship. There is nothing I can do to earn the respect I deserve.

@patdo4452 Год назад

Have you ever considered starting your own business?

@meriemcullen8510 Год назад

the first mistake , omg it hit really hard 💔i think my "grandiose" mind interpreted things in a way that kicked me back in the face so brutally , it clouded my sight of the reality in front of me , i was so caught up in this fantasy inside my mind , that me and that person have this unique this spirutual deep unique connexion between us , that he valued me as much as i valued me , and what i represent to him is the same as he represented to me , by the end that person ghosted me , and not ONCE ! but four times it makes me feel ashamed that i allowed that to happen , really, and i aknowledge what kind of image of myself it reflect , like how little self love you must have ? wheres ur dignity at ? u dropped it somewhere ? , yeah but u guys know better than me , y'all have that person , that exception u dont apply ur rule on them , i swear if it was someone else he would ve been out of my life since the first , but when he apologized and told me it will never happen i believed it , but it happened again nd again , so i wasnt the exception of my exception , unfortunatly , my mind screw me over , i believed BS i told myself , but at least now im coming to this realisation , that this person doesnt see things like i see them , that i should do those changes in me , and move on

@CW-nk2vd Год назад

Wenzes have you ever participated in psychology, sociology, and emotional & mental health counseling for your INFJ issues? I had never heard of INFJ before I heard it from you, and now I know I am one of them. My father traumatized me instead of respecting me and loving me unconditionally. He was the opinion leader in our family, and my mother and siblings followed his lead. This was and is a multiple generational pattern Maternally and Paternally in my family.

@aquariusstar7248 3 года назад

That FIRST ONE!!! Just realized this past week i was doing this. Was so embarrassed when i realized that ppl cld see that i thought i was special and viewed me as being full of myself! Just this aspect of myself alone has caused me sooooo many relationship and life problems. Im glad to know this is an INFJ trait. I feel a little less shame now. I think also this may be why we are attracted to narcissist. The narc reflects our grandiosity in their narcissistic arrogance and their flattery feeds our inner vision of ourselves. Im focusing on creating a more internal locus of focus and power over external locus. It is an effort but im comitted. And that reality vs vision issue. Omg! Letting go of that inner idea of how we think the world works when we discover it doesnt work that way our whole world comes crashing down! And the 3rd one as well. Im learning to move through the comparison and letting myself go up and down emotionally on my vocation journey. Im using the journey for growth instead. It's been tough because my ego and pride gets in the way. Thank you so much, Wenzes😭😭😍😍❤❤

@ministry222 3 года назад

Watching Mr Sam lately? :)

@kiritik 3 года назад

Dear Wenzes, due to Covid situation, due to long work hours, I was not able to watch your videos for a very long time. I am so happy to hear that you got married and now you had your baby. Congratulations 🎉🎊 I feel so happy for you. You deserve good things. You touched so many people's lifes and you helped so many people. God bless you and your baby. Lots of love 💕 💐🍀🧿 Irmak.

@user-rq7ow9uc8w 7 месяцев назад

I'm still on my path to my epic life. I have had to step back and get other things done that have came up, but this things are very important and very much needed to be done. I've moved to a new town away from the emotionally draining people who were in my life. I am on my way to a much better life.

@Vyjayanthi41 2 года назад

Nope , I got chosen to be a lead actress in a film & I could not accept I was anything but ordinary. I went back to medical profession. Studied hard to become a psychiatrist . I valued psychiatry more than the fame / money movies would bring. I knew it would lead to " me too" . But I always knew my Ni Ti loop was special. My idealism & tenacity in its pursuit was special. It still is :-)

@handleguy 2 года назад

I wasn't able to relate to this subject. Good old NI gave me the answer after a while. The way to avoid thinking you are smarter than everyone else is to be born to two alcoholic parents. Then your problem becomes: How can I ever learn to do anything right, and not be wrong all the time? and thereby cause my parents' lives to be ruined by my constant mistakes. That is a whole different ball game from the "normal" route of having non-toxic people in charge of filling your belief system with non-poisonous messages. I found my way out of this trap eventually, but there was this additional handicap to overcome. I was surprised to be confused and unable to relate to this subject matter. Wenzes does a great job of presenting INFJ information in her videos, so I felt puzzled when it didn't seem to be working.

@nmercenary 3 года назад

You speak truth. Incredible work and service you’re doing Wenzes. Thank you 🥺

@Wenzes 3 года назад

Glad it resonates with you 😊

@LAL7887 3 года назад

"We have to fail and we have to fail fast" damn that one hits deep

@TheWisdomOfTheAges_PsyM_Revd Год назад

This might not make a lot of sense to a lot of people but for the most part of my life and due to childhood traumas, I did not even know who I was, which means that anchor was the external world. Needless to say that my life did not work out for the most part. Now even today, in spite of all the improvements I've made about myself, I am still relying too much on the external - for instance so many few people subscribed on my channel - to value my work. Not that I don't know the worth of my work but it is definitively bugging me a great deal to the point that it makes me feel invisible because well I am. lol This above being said, I'm not ready to appear on camera - because of what was done to me - nor my aim is not to make the best professional videos out there (make professional videos is not my passion, research is and more precisely, pursuing the truth that helps me and I share do that it rarely but sometimes help others) so I will have to accept that I get like 1 sub for 1 video until I do something else because of what you already explained in your videos. Thank you for your hard work of love. p.s. The reality is that I became ill enough before understanding in what world/reality I was living in. So it is not that easy to get out of that being between a rock and a hard place. This was indeed a hard comment to write for me.

@mr.goodwrench8273 3 года назад

Which of the 5 "mistakes" can you relate most to ? Mistake # 1 "Expecting people to know that I am something special". It's easy to know that everybody puts their pants on the same way, one leg at a time, and we are all imperfect humans. What is not easy for me is, to get people to listen to me and realize that the way they are doing things is not the best method when I am sharing a better idea with them. Being helpful to prideful people is not easy, so I have begun letting go, and allow them learn on their own rather than to exhaust myself with the frustration of trying to convince them otherwise. I hope this works better because I don't like conflict.

@Wenzes 3 года назад

You got this. Step by step!!!

@Nafshadow 3 года назад

Al hamde li Allah. الحمد لله

@bushrakhan3162 2 года назад

I’m so grateful that i came across your videos . These are half of my life’s life advice . Hope to see you grow more .

@shek5040 3 года назад

This is the most 100% quality-driven content in youtube I've ever seen, atleast for an INFJ. I'm still having second thoughts if I really am one, but all of them are completely relatable and something I need now. Thanks a lot!

@bobevans5282 3 года назад

Literally I have done all those mistakes in my life thanks for video its really great specially that messaging celebrity thing because I have also done that in my past you really are a great mentor

@Wenzes 3 года назад

👍👍👍😊

@poojamishra-ex3ri 3 года назад

Can you please summarize it in the end? I like to take notes too. Thank you so much for helping us with your work.

@dawnfreshour8425 Год назад

Your videos have been a tremendous help! Thanks a lot.

@suefluger3786 Год назад

I definitely want to be seen as special but I also want to establish it with people first. If someone thinks I’m special right out of the gate, I’m suspicious of what they are projecting onto me and how quickly that will dissolve. So I actually think I should have to ‘prove it’ and I know I can prove it.

@sherigrant7867 2 года назад

By listening to this make me cry cuz I am an infj

@UncleAbes 3 года назад

Thank you once again for your videos. I have been binging them since I found your page. You have a unique way of explaining things to humble and empower me in a way that is practical and healing. I cannot tell you how much I appreciate it.

@evilj1x733 Год назад

"If I can't compete with the overnight success why even try" ouch. that's like a slap in the face with a half frozen wet rag. yeah, I'm guilty of this.. never saw it in that light though.. feeling a little stupid right now 🤣

@NganHoang-dy8el Год назад

Thank you, you are a life-saver for us INFJ. Im starting to realize the first and second point in my life. My life was hard because I didnt know that. Im at the transitional stage of my life, and this video is really what i need. Thank you so much !

@Betscu. 3 года назад

Hey from cutting off wrong things to the growth! Let's go!

@gustavotu6835 2 года назад

Thank you Wenzes, you are really changing my life

@ChildofGod2890 3 года назад

Powerful message. Thank you.

@aprildamski8365 Год назад

Thank you so much for this video!!!

@krishnathapa1122 3 года назад

4th point probably got me bit more. Others almost accepted those things . And thank u for this hope we can implement those steps. I am not much in my head so that might have helped but i cannot take action for few more months.

@RommyFallas 3 года назад

Thank you Wenzes 🙏🙏

@tanaeemahmad6445 2 года назад

Thanks alot for the suggestions. I was lost for the time being now I have a roadmap.

@lucky_i.i 2 месяца назад

Great video Wenzes. Thank you!

@kathysarmiento4652 Год назад

Always on point!

@tpwdtest 2 месяца назад

Thanks!

@pcfulgrl33 Год назад

So wonderfully helpful. Thank U

@nchotemimarieangelnembo1593 Год назад

Thanks very much for giving me clearity

@manisheibani2478 Год назад

Very good points

@stuffofmexx6077 3 года назад

Thank you.

@janetzinati1190 3 года назад

Haha I wrote a few celebrities to change their own ways lmao and I believe it worked bc I’ve seen them change for the better

@CW-nk2vd Год назад

You are amazing! Wenzes

@nancyhanscom1374 10 месяцев назад

Very good

@Angelica-bw7iq Год назад

You are an INFJ healer. 🖤

@charleswoodhams5325 2 года назад

I have ideas for inventions. and one idea I have is life changing. I see an old person struggling and figure a way to stop that struggle through innovation. I'm trying to learn more about my self to be successful but that might be keeping me in my owe mind.

@flowgy Год назад

11:50 another incredible insight

@tanvysharma1232 3 года назад

damn. this was a hard slap in the face;-;

@Wenzes 3 года назад

Don‘t take it that way ☺️...we are all making them

@joselozano0528 2 года назад

I always find myself saving women. Sometimes they run past other guys & run straight to me. I don't know why I do this, but I know I'm good at it. I even went as far as risking my life on a few. It's not like I'm out looking for trouble, it just happens right in front of me.

@captainxxx5725 3 года назад

greate video Wenzes btw Wenzes, sometimes you should just pause the video to take a look to your grimace :D

@TroyPosey 3 года назад

Yeah... This one hit home... 😞

@TheDougWay Год назад

Dang this means I should stop playing videogames 24/7 as they're my "television" as you described. Well I kinda already knew that, I just haven't gone through making it happen yet.

@VersaFitTv 3 года назад

#RealityCheck thank you

@salomeyul 3 года назад

Thank you so much for these words! You are 100% right about EVERYTHING. You are a true blessing ✨✨✨

@statusquo1473 Год назад

Takes one to know one.. to recognize somebodys genius, you have to be on similar level.. and everybody knows how "the average" looks like :)

@jessmason2112 Год назад

Stuck on stupid is in my way. 😡 🤭🙏😇🤭

@KeanSprout. 3 года назад

I started to do the same thing with celebrities 😂

@alltheblessingswithbusisos2576 3 года назад

Mistake #4 .... I'm currently in it

@raboldrt Год назад

I’m pushing 50. Was diagnosed with ADD (not physically hyperactive) about +/-30 years ago. How might that fit in?

@catrocastre8215 Год назад

I think it's a bit complimentary: like being touch out of reality and not being able to do a lot of work, so doing specific things will helps us get where we wanted. And I would add: A) being patient to our conditión. B) know thyself: patterns, triggers, obstacles and of course, ours strengths. Design your intervention, aka, how you can tackle and take advantage to what u do day to day. C) search 4 neurodivergent tips and apps.

@JohnDoe-np3zk 3 года назад

The more difficult thing is to write to a young person knowing that inevitably they will become a celebrity whatever that means and to have them write back, and later to become a celebrity. Seeing that light, that spark, it's what talent agents are capable of but in this case the real talent is their personality in spite of becoming that celebrity. Then as they grow as a person they are able to respond to you in spite of you being kind of a fanboy because they kind of do know you and they really are nice and in the end just a pretty normal person who just entertains and gets fun out of doing that.

@Wenzes 3 года назад

👍😊

@dhamon-pi6os 6 месяцев назад

Shiners hey?

@cynthiamarston2208 2 года назад

Escape! In your opinion how many hours a day is not damaging growth? Do tell please. Maybe ill google it. Oh. About 2 to 3 1/2 hours a day. Got it! I do get myself going on an art project but my effective ness with little breaks tops out at 6 hours and better even if i limit to two hours with long break and return. Oth3rwise all there is is reading, chores ….a lot of chores! Too many chores is taking the pleasure out of life. Now i even think of cooking as a chore. 69. What growth? Ha ha. You all go for it