The Worst Things Men Do To Attract Women (This Never Ends Well) 

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Second biggest mistake they make is the mixed signals and double speak. Don’t tell me that you enjoyed getting that back rub after a hike and the hug at the end of the date, then the next week say you don’t want any physical touching when I put my hand on the small of the back as we are walking from the car to the coffee shop.🤨

I have lived what you say. I was in a very serious relationship in the late 1980's with a girl I deeply cared for. But from the start, I was somewhat suspicious of her. She constantly gave off signs of extreme bitterness. She told me that she had blown up on the guy she had been dating due to an innocent remark that he had made concerning her eyesight-saying that he hoped their children would have good eyesight like his rather than her's (she wore contacts). He was a pilot and they are especially concerned about their eyesight since they could get grounded at the time for less than 20/20 eyesight. She told me that she exploded and threw up out of her house on the spot. The next day, she called me after I had met her and had given her phone number a few weeks before. Then after we had dated for a couple of months, she blew up on me in the same location, on her couch, but I never really knew what had happened. She didn't throw me out. She cooked us hamburgers for lunch and then stared at me with intense hatred in her eyes during the entire meal, hardly saying anything but "Chris, I am not going to cater to you." What she meant, I did not know and never did know. After we finished, she had to go to work, which she had already told me that she would do before she became angry with me. But when I called the next day, she did not answer and did not return the call. This went on for weeks until I finally got ahold of her on the phone. She said, "I am very angry with you." I replied, "Why? What's wrong?" She answered, "If you don't know that's just the problem." I asked if she cared for me. She said after reflecting a moment, "No, I guess I don't." I hung up. I later wrote her saying that I wanted to reconcile. I never heard back. I foolishly married on the rebound after this disaster.

Exactly 💯. Women do these things such as bragging about their money more than most Men. Most male dating advice is often misleading from Women boiling it down to confidence rather than taking care of themselves and presenting themselves the best they can. They also have to be 6 feet tall, make 6 figures and have six pack abs t attract modern Women somehow. Men and Women shouldn't show up late for dates but punctual or early. I really enjoyed Courtney's last video on what Men can do to be attractive to Women such as discovering interesting hobbies, taking care of yourself, emotional maturity, financial control and clear communication is what any adult Man or Woman should be capable of in this day and age. Well if you're considered physically attractive and desirable as a person then sure these other things will fall into place. Happy Pentecost everyone. Congratulations on Courtney's 700k subscribers 👏🎉. I like being single too as I'm a 24 year old Christian virgin living at peace until I'm done with working as a teacher and grad school next year SOOOO YEAH 👍. Wanting relationships with others is a natural part of life but physical conditioning and fitness is crucial for healthy living and relationships. Men are expected to lead in the relationship with her, take care of themselves physically/emotionally and psychologically as well as be self sufficient because Roma Downey is another RU-vid channel with content like this. I really respect Mrs. Ryan for at least trying to help Men and Women out in promoting healthy relationships, positive mindsets and growth in individual 🙏 ❤️. I've been watching Courtney's videos since 2021 so her channel is really helpful especially on RU-vid and social media. This has nothing to do with the video but please listen if you want to otherwise leave it alone and ignore it. Hello my name is Justin and I'm a Christian and Apologist but I'm also a college graduate. I'm not a closed minded Theist as I have nothing against Atheists or unbelievers as I speak to them often to understand their reasons for unbelief but we as Christians are convinced of God's Existence due to many real factors). I'm not trying to convert anyone or convince anyone to become Christians as that's The Holy Spirit's job to help people believe but only explain why I believe in Jesus Christ. There's actually evidence of God's Existence in Christianity. First of all there's proof that Jesus of Nazareth existed in history since the writings of Tacitus, Josephus Flavius, Pliny the younger and other historical documents prove that He was living two thousand years ago that even scholars both religious and Atheists agree with historically speaking but not that He's The Divine Son of God because obviously they don't. I'm going to give you historical and archeological evidence for God's Existence as The Scriptures have prophecies that predate the events recorded in them by several millennia including Matthew, Hosea and Zechariah which prophesy accurately of the people of Israel becoming a nation again after over 1900 years of being scattered around the nations since the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem in 70 A.D. spoken of by Christ in Matthew 23:29-24:3 and returning to their homeland after The Holocaust with Jerusalem as their capital in 1948 exactly as Jesus The Christ said. The prophets including Daniel spoke of the time where several world empires would arise and fall including the Babylonian kingdom, Medes and Persians, Roman Empire, and Saladin and the Muslims which went in consecutive order for the past few millennia. The people of Israel becoming a nation after The Holocaust in 1948 (ironically the melting point of gold as God compares Israel to gold that's tested in fire in Zechariah 13:8 and Jeremiah 16:15) exactly how Jesus The Christ said would happen since God us everything to come in The Scriptures and not just because people were working towards as Atheists claim which are impossible for any regular man to predict. Just before anyone says Christianity is a white man's religion made to oppress blacks during slavery you obviously aren't aware that the first Christians were Jews in The Middle East and that Christianity just like any religion can be used by evil and corrupt people to oppress others but you forget that the first Abolitionists/Civil Rights activists were Christians who sought to abolish slavery, racism, segregation, injustice and prejudice throughout American history. Jesus The Christ loves you enough not to give you what we all deserve which is God's Wrath by His Own Blood. Charles Darwin didn't originally come up with The Theory of Evolution over 200 years ago as it is mentioned in the writings of Ancient Greeks who believed in Demons that gave knowledge to philosophers. Evolution makes no sense when nothing has evolved after thousands of years of human history and supposedly the first creature came from primordial sludge several millions of years ago funny how they won't believe that God an Eternal Almighty Spirit Being created us from the Earth) which came from a supermassive expansion of matter at high temperature that inexplicably created everything in the known universe that supposedly came from nothing billions of years ago. How did the organs evolve before there were bones, skin, substance and how did any creatures see before eyes evolved? I've studied evolution and abiogenesis in the past and read Darwin's " On The Origin of Species" and I'm not convinced of macro Evolutionary biology whereas I accept micro Evolution like speciation and adaptation but not macro Evolution because there's no evidence of it nor clear observable examples of it where living creatures evolve into other kinds of species plus the fact that fossils don't show evidence of evolution and genetic entropy rules out evolution. The question begs how did two genders evolve from a common ancestor with a perfectly hospitable and sustainable environment with breathable oxygen and resources to survive on inexplicably? Atheists have the burden of proof to explain how everything came to be and why our existence is possible without the Existence of God from an godless perspective just as Christians have to provide evidence of God's Existence and the validity of His Word. Evolution requires life to already exist in order to take any effect in living organisms so it doesn't account for the existence of Life and reality. Also evolution is impossible because it goes against The Law of entropy and the second Law of thermodynamics because evolution makes things better whereas nothing continues to get better but decays and turns to absolute destruction in the end. Mark Ridley an Evolutionist said "No evolutionist whether gradualist or punctuationist uses the fossil record as evidence in favor of The Theory of Darwinian Evolution as opposed to special Creation". God's Existence is made perfectly known and observable in the universe as demonstrated in His Handiwork in the intelligently designed manner that Creation was made, human consciences and consciousness historical and archaeological evidence of God's Word being valid history, fulfillment of Bible Prophecies God in His Holiness and Righteousness could give us what we deserve in Hell for our since but He's merciful to give us free will to choose to accept or reject His gift of salvation by grace through faith in His Son Jesus. I don't mean this is any condescending manner but if you'd like to discuss The Scriptures with me or have me listen to your view on anything my instagram account is Savage Christian Kombatant

Exactly! They expect us men to read women's minds but we can't. It's crazy.

I am sorry about what you have been through. I have been through something similar and was almost depressed, till I contacted a spiritual counselor who helped me get my ex back and hence my life back

Interesting. Who is this counselor, and how do I meet the person?

Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

Thanks a lot. I just did. Impressive

​@@edwardclarkson-ph1klspiritual counselor to get back ex gf ?? It sounds really funny. So does she give tips and tricks or magical techniques to get back ex? Spiritual counselors are for spiritual things (deep level meditation, practicing kundalini yoga, etc) not for love and relationships but in today's world 'The Love Guru' changed his/her designation to 'Spiritual Guru'

Funny how modern women tend to that more than men nowadays. Makes you think.

True, that's why I worry about these people watching the "podcast bro" channels. They get lured into a catch22, they tell them women are gold-diggers, then they tell them to increase their money because men can get women at any age if they have money... Then using money to lead as Courtney says, now attracts people who want you for your money, then the self fulfilling prophecy comes through, all the women *you* attract are gold diggers which makes it look like your hypothesis has been confirmed. They really destroy men's lives. Even friendships that you got from showing you have money leads to friends that only like you for your money.

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True, that's why I worry about these people watching the "podcast bro" channels. They get lured into a catch22, they tell them women are gold-diggers, then they tell them to increase their money because men can get women at any age if they have money... Then using money to lead as Courtney says, now attracts people who want you for your money, then the self fulfilling prophecy comes through, all the women *you* attract are gold diggers which makes it look like your hypothesis has been confirmed. They really destroy men's lives. Even friendships that you got from showing you have money leads to friends that only like you for your money.

True, that's why I worry about these people watching the "podcast bro" channels. They get lured into a catch22, they tell them women are gold-diggers, then they tell them to increase their money because men can get women at any age if they have money... Then using money to lead as Courtney says, now attracts people who want you for your money, then the self fulfilling prophecy comes through, all the women *you* attract are gold diggers which makes it look like your hypothesis has been confirmed. They really destroy men's lives. Even friendships that you got from showing you have money leads to friends that only like you for your money.

That is so true. A friend of mine asked a girl to meet at a Starbuck's ar a halfway point between their homes. The girl went off on him that he was not being intentional. No, this was not a teenager or a twenty something old girl but rather a 43 year old woman. I told him to tell the woman to grow up.

It's woman in this context

Playing mind games is a sign of disrespect. For me, respect from a woman is a requirement for me to have interest in her.

Let me guess, you are single.

​@@perrycoffey5410She asked what men find a turn off in dating at the end. That's what he was answering.

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I don't think that you understood the video, she didn't say any of those things.

HUH?

@@gordonwilkinson5041 lol

@@gordonwilkinson5041 I don't think that was meant to be taken as her actual words in the video. He's talking about a different demographic of women.

They always do though 🤔

Bro don't u know how to read minds? Lol

@@chaleorta Nah I didn’t get the software update yet 😕

@@EazyE_ Lol

True and if she has bad hygiene.

Go gettem Tiger!

Ahh it’s my pleasure to help! This comment made me smile, thank you my friend ❤️

@@CourtneyRyan Awesome work Mrs Ryan

What you are touching on is women overemphasizing desire. A person desires what they lack. If they get it, then they lose the desire. Men can desire a woman whom they care for but then they consummate the desire in love (or casual sex if they don't love the girl-then they lose interest). In most cases, women do not love the man. Rather, they can respond to a man's deep love for them. But if the man does not have this passionate love, then when the woman's desire dissipates for whatever reason, that's it.

I totally agree with you on this! It’s very highly annoying 🙄 @brantsavage1380

If a person--woman or man--is NOT "attracted" to another person, it's NOT "personal". It just IS. Move on.

@@user-cz5lj2vx1f It is all a matter of personal chemistry that the man feels first and then the woman responds. If the man is not captivated by the lady then he should not try to start up something that is not meant to be. The problem though for men is that they cannot get married just because they fall in love as can a woman who is responding to the right man for her. He must first gain employment and an income sufficient to support a family. A woman does not have this responsibility and her attractiveness to a man has zero to do with her income. So she can marry at any time. The husband is the one who has the main responsibility for providing and protecting the family. So, what do men do in the meantime? That is a very problematic issue as well as then finding the right girl when he is in a position to get married. Falling in love is rare. A man can go for decades without finding the right person, but he should wait until he is hit between the eyes with recognizing his "other half" who is meant for him and him for her. Otherwise, it ain't going to work.

That is shitty behavior from the women but honestly dude you have to take some accountability for letting those women into your life. A woman like that shouldnt make it past a first date.

Classic Man Law !

Most women are like this these days. They make good hook-up material, nothing else.

you sound like an awesome dude, seriously I would kill for guy friends like you

Nothing more pathetic than a man FL surrendering his personality in order to attract and keep a relationship with a woman whose out to change him. He will buckle to her demands for change in inner thought processes and outer appearance, such as what she believes he should dress like. That is a horrid way for a man to exist.

Yeah they can be like that.

That's where you went wrong, from the beginning. Focusing on just 1 woman, who's not even your girlfriend. I mean, you have your own life. Since you are single, there is nothing wrong with talking to other women and focusing on your own goals, hobbies, work, skills, friends... Follow always your passion. What you truly love and create your own business. I did exactly that while working in a big corporation. Always living a humble lifestyle. I resigned from that big corporation. Best decision ever.

@@yvesgysel9834 you are absolutely right, but i find it hard to talk to people i am not 100% interested in.

​@@yvesgysel9834i don't think he was just sitting at home, doing nothing with his life and only slept and woke up to think of that one girl...

It’s my pleasure! 🥰

Don't. Run. J/k, good luck

Good luck.. Be nonchalant if she accepts, or if she rejects.

Get a bear costume.

That's cool 😎. Women do these things such as bragging about their money more than most Men. Most male dating advice is often misleading from Women boiling it down to confidence rather than taking care of themselves and presenting themselves the best they can. They also have to be 6 feet tall, make 6 figures and have six pack abs t attract modern Women somehow. Men and Women shouldn't show up late for dates but punctual or early. I really enjoyed Courtney's last video on what Men can do to be attractive to Women such as discovering interesting hobbies, taking care of yourself, emotional maturity, financial control and clear communication is what any adult Man or Woman should be capable of in this day and age. Well if you're considered physically attractive and desirable as a person then sure these other things will fall into place. Happy Pentecost everyone. Congratulations on Courtney's 700k subscribers 👏🎉. I like being single too as I'm a 24 year old Christian virgin living at peace until I'm done with working as a teacher and grad school next year SOOOO YEAH 👍. Wanting relationships with others is a natural part of life but physical conditioning and fitness is crucial for healthy living and relationships. Men are expected to lead in the relationship with her, take care of themselves physically/emotionally and psychologically as well as be self sufficient because Roma Downey is another RU-vid channel with content like this. I really respect Mrs. Ryan for at least trying to help Men and Women out in promoting healthy relationships, positive mindsets and growth in individual 🙏 ❤️. I've been watching Courtney's videos since 2021 so her channel is really helpful especially on RU-vid and social media. This has nothing to do with the video but please listen if you want to otherwise leave it alone and ignore it. Hello my name is Justin and I'm a Christian and Apologist but I'm also a college graduate. I'm not a closed minded Theist as I have nothing against Atheists or unbelievers as I speak to them often to understand their reasons for unbelief but we as Christians are convinced of God's Existence due to many real factors). I'm not trying to convert anyone or convince anyone to become Christians as that's The Holy Spirit's job to help people believe but only explain why I believe in Jesus Christ. There's actually evidence of God's Existence in Christianity. First of all there's proof that Jesus of Nazareth existed in history since the writings of Tacitus, Josephus Flavius, Pliny the younger and other historical documents prove that He was living two thousand years ago that even scholars both religious and Atheists agree with historically speaking but not that He's The Divine Son of God because obviously they don't. I'm going to give you historical and archeological evidence for God's Existence as The Scriptures have prophecies that predate the events recorded in them by several millennia including Matthew, Hosea and Zechariah which prophesy accurately of the people of Israel becoming a nation again after over 1900 years of being scattered around the nations since the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem in 70 A.D. spoken of by Christ in Matthew 23:29-24:3 and returning to their homeland after The Holocaust with Jerusalem as their capital in 1948 exactly as Jesus The Christ said. The prophets including Daniel spoke of the time where several world empires would arise and fall including the Babylonian kingdom, Medes and Persians, Roman Empire, and Saladin and the Muslims which went in consecutive order for the past few millennia. The people of Israel becoming a nation after The Holocaust in 1948 (ironically the melting point of gold as God compares Israel to gold that's tested in fire in Zechariah 13:8 and Jeremiah 16:15) exactly how Jesus The Christ said would happen since God us everything to come in The Scriptures and not just because people were working towards as Atheists claim which are impossible for any regular man to predict. Just before anyone says Christianity is a white man's religion made to oppress blacks during slavery you obviously aren't aware that the first Christians were Jews in The Middle East and that Christianity just like any religion can be used by evil and corrupt people to oppress others but you forget that the first Abolitionists/Civil Rights activists were Christians who sought to abolish slavery, racism, segregation, injustice and prejudice throughout American history. Jesus The Christ loves you enough not to give you what we all deserve which is God's Wrath by His Own Blood. Charles Darwin didn't originally come up with The Theory of Evolution over 200 years ago as it is mentioned in the writings of Ancient Greeks who believed in Demons that gave knowledge to philosophers. Evolution makes no sense when nothing has evolved after thousands of years of human history and supposedly the first creature came from primordial sludge several millions of years ago funny how they won't believe that God an Eternal Almighty Spirit Being created us from the Earth) which came from a supermassive expansion of matter at high temperature that inexplicably created everything in the known universe that supposedly came from nothing billions of years ago. How did the organs evolve before there were bones, skin, substance and how did any creatures see before eyes evolved? I've studied evolution and abiogenesis in the past and read Darwin's " On The Origin of Species" and I'm not convinced of macro Evolutionary biology whereas I accept micro Evolution like speciation and adaptation but not macro Evolution because there's no evidence of it nor clear observable examples of it where living creatures evolve into other kinds of species plus the fact that fossils don't show evidence of evolution and genetic entropy rules out evolution. The question begs how did two genders evolve from a common ancestor with a perfectly hospitable and sustainable environment with breathable oxygen and resources to survive on inexplicably? Atheists have the burden of proof to explain how everything came to be and why our existence is possible without the Existence of God from an godless perspective just as Christians have to provide evidence of God's Existence and the validity of His Word. Evolution requires life to already exist in order to take any effect in living organisms so it doesn't account for the existence of Life and reality. Also evolution is impossible because it goes against The Law of entropy and the second Law of thermodynamics because evolution makes things better whereas nothing continues to get better but decays and turns to absolute destruction in the end. Mark Ridley an Evolutionist said "No evolutionist whether gradualist or punctuationist uses the fossil record as evidence in favor of The Theory of Darwinian Evolution as opposed to special Creation". God's Existence is made perfectly known and observable in the universe as demonstrated in His Handiwork in the intelligently designed manner that Creation was made, human consciences and consciousness historical and archaeological evidence of God's Word being valid history, fulfillment of Bible Prophecies God in His Holiness and Righteousness could give us what we deserve in Hell for our since but He's merciful to give us free will to choose to accept or reject His gift of salvation by grace through faith in His Son Jesus. I don't mean this is any condescending manner but if you'd like to discuss The Scriptures with me or have me listen to your view on anything my instagram account is Savage Christian Kombatant

True 👍

So give them flowers only on special occasions.

@@davidabarak A former girlfriend used to send me flowers for special occasions. I asked her to stop because 1) to me they are just dead things that take up space, 2) I don't know what to do with the accumulated empty vases, 3) they don't mix well with my pets, and 4) sometimes they make me sneeze. She didn't listen, which became part of a bigger problem. But for a time, all I could do was to express gratitude while keeping them on my dryer in the garage until they shriveled up and shed their petals.

Il give them dead flowers and twiggs.

Seems about right, my now ex wife left our happy relationship of 10 years to sleep with our neighbors & smoke meth & snort heroin... anyone on here looking for a husband?

Never waste your time on women who are not interested (PERIOD). the rejection was for a reason and it NOT a fit. Lick your wounds and find the women who wants to get to know you.

Spot on! Courtney should do a video on how women overthink and twist these five things into what they aren’t. Oh wait never mind, because that’s almost what this video already is.😑

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Everything else is cope.

Not even close to true. Sounds like you're trying to convince yourself that the things that are in your control don't matter, so why bother. They do matter, it just takes work. I'm proof this works. I'm neither handsome nor rich, but have a good woman by my side, we're about to hit the 10 year mark. I've turned down lots of women in my life. You can do this too, get after it.

Not true. There's a guy who did a Ted Talk on RU-vid who was born with a facial deformity. He's married and has kids.

There's an exception to every rule I guess, so good luck to the Ted guy. I've never had any success with women and I'm 53 now. I'm very fit, still playing football and badminton and visit the gym twice a week. I have a comfortable six figure salary. Loads of friends and a great social life. Great sense of humour. Sadly, women aren't attracted to me. I wear good clothes, have good hygiene, moisturise regularly. There's very little more I can do. Seems like the reply above assumes I'm some sort of slob that isn't making the effort. That couldn't be further from the truth.

@@om617yota8 See my reply below. You are assuming I'm some sort of slob who doesn't look after himself. It's very much the opposite. I look after myself very well and I'm very proud of how fit and active I am at my age. Way better than most.

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Grow a pair

Pretty much.

Single bitter male.

@@Nithinithinith Single BETTER male.

Can confirm. I had a severe crush on a girl at my work when I was young. I was already in a relationship with my future wife, but this other girl just made me tingle all over. She was very beautiful, and also very funny and sociable. I found excuses to go talk to her as often as possible, and she was definitely receptive and seemed to enjoy my company a lot, giving out all the signals. I was in a fever and wanted this girl so bad! Then one day I overheard her talking with some of her friends. And she was a nasty backstabber talking crap about some third person. My interest in her died on the spot, and I never talked to her again.

@@mikael.wilhelm Awesome man. Yup 👍 that's because you need someone to witness life togethe in a healthy relationship If she's always that gossip that is a sign of a weak insecure woman with bad energy don't need that in your life.

😂❤️ thank you my friend!

meanwhile on Father's Day: crickets.

I'm sure some men do it too, but yeah, almost all women are playing a mind game with you to some extent.

Yeah, I never want to be around a manipulative woman.

Word

Good Job man. You Nailed it! So true, So true!

I think I can turn to my mom's advice when I was little. "When you become a man, more will be expected of you. And you're going to get less in return. Get everything you can and develop a foundation." Everything you said is true. That's why straight men say never ask a fish how to catch a fish. It's also why I work on making myself happy even though I live like a monk. The men that fall apart lack that foundation sadly. The dating game is rigged, always has been, always will. There are ways to move the odds closer in your favor, but the house always wins. Especially these days that push narcissism as the watchword. People think they're owed everything for doing nothing, and if you don't fulfill 200% of their demands, this involves invisible desires they don't specify, you're a creep. It's very depressing knowing there is no magic bullet to get the fairytale ending and find an actual princess, but with a firm foundation, you can weather it. Personally, I could never be gay; boys are icky. :D But honestly, it feels like there's worse things than a woman's rejection these days.

It's much worse than that. See hoe_math's charts on how men vs. women see others on a 1-10 scale bell chart. The statistics are closer to 1-7s get rejected out right. Those men are labeled as invisible with a ghost icon. Dating app statistics show women match with the top 20% at most, and women will message first with the top 4.5% only. That includes looks, but one must also factor in height, income, and status. Status is the tricky one as celebrity status, even as a broke criminal on death row, will get women throwing themselves at you. Those are basically the only measurables available for online dating in today's world. Some men have shown 5-figure and close to if not 6-figure swipes with very few matches, even fewer dates, and zero relationships from the apps.

Courtney doesn't care she's just a money whore. So I'll help you. She's asking questions which is a very very good sign. Other than that it's open to interpretation. Answer her questions and ask her questions as if YOU ARE GENUINELY interested. Peace Out!

These women think they are because women are impressed with a man who has expensive possessions. The women don't realize men couldn't care less about a woman's income. It's the same kind of thing where men like a woman who respects him and takes his lead. Therefore, the men do the same by placing women above them on a pedestal and expect them to lead in some way by having her make decisions.

Did he have boundaries and knew when to say no (to outsiders or even family). This questions is kind of devoid of a lot of context, like those videos that lead to people arguing, because people and and listen with their own context in their heads ... There are other things to do and be in a marriage. I suddenly thought of being kind to everyone without being firm or having boundaries, which would "people pleasing". They were attracted because you were a "good guy" but then the other party notices that it's all the time, when it negatively impacts you or the family, when people are taking advantage you can't actually say no. Which causes problems for your immediate family, like people can walk over you, or ask things of you and though it may take away something from the immediate family you do it anyway. And got reminded by comments i see talking about their dad kept sending uncles and aunties money even though they need some in the house and those people never repaid him. And they're annoyed for him, but also its exasperating living with the consequence when outsiders think dad is a good guy and doesn't say no. 😅 now look at that random context that i just put.

Also in the context of what I'm describing, it might not be the "good guy"that's being de-linked, it's the crazy users that's walking over your family and affecting it and being a serious vulnerability for the rest of the immediate family that the wife may want to stop. We know nothing about the wife, her thoughts, she could be good, could be evil, could be a difference in cultural expectations, it's impossible for a guy to be perfect and do everything right too, but the flaws might also be non-issues. Courtney would know nothing about these people They might have to seek a 1 to 1 with a professional for conflict resolution (without my scenario, just going off your question).

I’ve heard it’s perceived as needy or desperate, which kinda sucks. I think it mainly comes down to having matching communication styles. Some people may have the traits you like, but they might not like talking back and forth as much as you do, so being persistent with them won’t work. Whereas with a person who likes talking/texting a lot, they may LIKE that you are persistent/attentive. I think these communication style differences are highly underestimated when it comes to compatibility.

And no where near as good. Therapy over the phone is like paying for a message over the phone.

No, that's just a rapport. By mind games she means lying about what you do for a living, sending her mixed signals. The type of things you don't want her to do to you.

There’s a balance here. I think it’s great to do things like pay for dates (nothing extravagant at first). But there shouldn’t be expensive gifts or trips too early on. If you’re a gift-giver, go smaller like the occasional flowers or bringing her favorite drink/coffee/tea or something. It’s also okay to increase the expense a little as the relationship progresses, but if you do that too soon, you don’t know if she’s there for you or for the lifestyle. Don’t lie about wealth, but don’t give that info out at the beginning, either. And if she’s asking about it too early, that’s a sign. Also, I have NEVER understood why men start paying women’s bills or for things like haircuts or mani/pedis, etc. Things like that shouldn’t happen until you’re married, unless it’s a gift. And if you stick to gifts mostly on occasions like birthday, anniversary, etc., you can keep from going over the top.

I’m planning to! 😂 hoping to have another one out soon

@@CourtneyRyan 👏is Biscuit ganna be there .. cz my cat ' Cream ' 😻would love it

Hi my friend! 🥰

@CourtneyRyan 😸hehe 💖 .. love your vlogs 💕

She's working on it. She's trying a new approach much better than last videos