100% And the fact that she kept refering to him as "Boy" "he's a good Boy" "Nice boy" Uhm ma'am. He is a grown ass adult, and you are clearly the reason he doesn't accept responsibility for his actions.
@@LOLOMGL00ZRS yes! You hit the nail right on the head that crazy ass toxic apple not fall far from the tree. Mama raised herself a son husband and any poor woman who gets involved with her son is going to wind up with a meddling, manipulative, scary, oppressive mother-in-law. Toxic as hell narcissist
@@shanakinztruebeliever1547 Because most of the time a person doesn't make a big promise out of doing something. "You promised" is often used to manipulate a person who saw a big warning sign and said, "Nope, this is going no further!" You can't MAKE somebody like you. Quit thinking like a 3rd grader.
I thought the same, cos she didn't reject him, she went with all good faith to the date. Her not calling back was purely self preservation after his calls to explain himself were less red flags and more huge blood red quilts whipping by in a hurricane!
@@G_Robb Sadly these days that don't matter anymore. They can find people's addresses in the flash of an eye. Be careful who you correspond with period especially meeting with.
"I lied. My dad's not in hospital." "I've been super honest with you." "I get upset when people aren't honest with me" "Can see how honest I am" Sir! What!?
@@itsirish9582 Yeah, Captain Honest here lied to her the 2nd time he ever talked to her, and it was a whopper. One of the things that struck me, too: in one of his phone messages, he was just dying to meet up and explain to her what an honest and all-around good person he is. That really shows an 8 year old's mentality. You don't EXPLAIN to somebody how good and honest you are, you SHOW them through your actions, and boy has that ship sailed! Dude's pretty confident in his powers of persuasion while all he's done is blow it. What a freakin' nutjob.
She didn't even reject him, he stood her up and then left a dozen voicemails talking himself into a mad rant. The sliver of a chance he might have had was gone when he got his mom involved.
I would say each voice mail was another shovel digging the grave for the relationship, the moms shovel was a double sized one lol... I have had guys do this shit but I was dumb enough to answer, yelling drunk about me not kissing them on the first date. Then pressuring me to go to meet his parents at a wine tasting ( he IS an alcoholic that says he is "moderating" and I drink a glass a few times a year if its good but I have not desire to regularly consume alcohol since I have MS i value health).... then called me more yelling about how I am cancer because I don't want to go on that second date and I won't let him feel good about toxic actions. Abusive people feel abused when I use my ability to be a mirror for them because I am no longer a doormat after what I survived getting TBIs and MS from my Ex. These guys literally think their ego feeling good all the time entitles them to give me a concussion if I said or did things he didn't like. Usually confronting addiction issues. I wonder why he missed the date, his behavior would indicate it is probably something toxic.
Scary…His standing you up was okay, but your not calling him back is “not very cool”. She needs to thank her guardian angel that he didn’t meet up with her. She definitely dodged a bullet, literally,
@@jlovesj3335 true, but this comment specifically, he used the word wrong, & it just irks me when ppl overuse "literally" when they don't mean "literally"
“I didn’t mean to yell at you cuz that’s not who I am”, is a statement that tells me all I need to know. When someone apologizes that way, that’s exactly who they are! They may wish they weren’t, but they are!
@@berrymint6384 you’re being ridiculous. “When you know it’s not you”?!!!! It’s you at the time of action. Wishing otherwise doesn’t change anything. If you feel you can or have changed after the fact, that’s great but how long will that take? And who decides if you’ve changed enough? Wanting it to be true does not make it so. One is not tested immediately. Only time will tell. How many times do domestic abusers claim to love their partners and swear to never do it again? Exactly!
I'm just glad this girl was emotionally and psychologically rounded enough not to become another victim of what could potentially become a domestic violence stat.
@@elizabethbennet4791 Who knows, maybe he has a really good glamor-shot from his high school graduation pictures or something. Just one voice-message was enough to blow it out of the water, though. Just what you need, a whiner with a hard edge and a side-order of narcissism.
@@annaelisavettavonnedozza9607 the past tense of “come” is “came” And two people liked your comment. You and your alt account. Don’t correct people when you’re grammatically illiterate.
And "You promised ..." Not taking into account what they did was so wrong that you wouldn't think of saying "I won't ghost you if you don't lie about your father being in the hospital"
@RittenhouseIsAMurderer RittenhouseIsAMurderer swing and a miss but I get what u were tryin to do. Just like the corpses Rittenhouse made...nobodys perfect.
@RittenhouseIsAMurderer RittenhouseIsAMurderer yes all of us will sweetheart. As far as I can tell humans still arent immortal. Rittenhouse's name however is immortalized forever and he'll live well into his 80's, unlike the human ammo holders he made that faithful night.
I never understood what a narcissist was before my ex. This is literally it. The blatant manipulation: "I thought you were different", "You said you weren't like the others", "I haven't been treated well over the years and it's so hard on me", "All I'm asking for is xyz", "You need to respect me", "You owe me a response". No, dude. No one owes you anything.
I had one and he taught me a lot. They really think they own you. I met one or two while dating after I left him and I was a narc expert by then. I extricated myself from those situations as soon as I felt that gut feeling. It was the same gut feeling I had when I met my ex that I ignored.
@Kila McEndree Velez yes! Some of the other lines can be a context thing but not the friends line. I had an ex tell me that his friend (whom I had never met or spoken to) told him that I was crazy and that he should leave me and basically I was lucky he wasn’t going to despite that lmfao dude was gone the next day.
I think that someone saying “I haven’t been treated well over the years and it’s so hard on me” is perfectly reasonable if it’s true. We shouldn’t overlook the impact that certain events can have on a person, whether we agree with their actions or not. It’s also dignified to be open and honest with someone, just like you would in a workplace for example. That doesn’t mean you necessarily “owe” someone that, but you should treat others as you would like to be treated, not treat them like they treat you. But the rest of the examples you cite are bad signs of a person’s character.
@@fourninemarketing wrong bro. You're past relationships should have no bearing on how you perceive future dates. Making the relationship about only yourself, or the relationships you've had, is why even when it's true that it's a narcissistic trait to use it to build from or as an argumentative point. If you are dating someone who finds it relative to bring up past relationships it's best to just run like hell. There is an entire truckload of ways to deal with pet peeves or "phobias" caused by prior relationships but playing the victim even if you were one isn't healthy for either person looking to start a new relationship. There is never a good outcome if you build a new house on an old foundation. No GOOD woman needs to be told how not to treat a man and a GOOD man doesn't need to tell a woman how not to treat him. If you find yourself in that situation just know that one, or both, of you isn't good
And my favorites, “I deserve…” and “I don’t deserve…” 🙄 after my ex, those phrases make me cringe way too hard. “One day everyone will give me the respect I deserve! 😡” “I’m a great guy and I don’t deserve to be treated like I’m a POS!”
The creepy thing is that he's able to find out where she lives just by having her cellphone number (unless it's a tracphone). Websites like Whitepages & others give info like that away for free or very cheap. That's how a guy I dated found my address.
@@oliviadarling8754 Ok I’m confused by this passive aggressive ass comment. I’m sure Tara knows that assault rifles shoot bullets…🤦🏾♀️. Are you ok sis?
He's what they call a "front loader." Unleashes years worth of anger, conflict, screaming at the beginning of a new relationship. Once he gets it all out of his system, he's a real pussycat.
Yeah. This guy is off the deep end and is acting like they’ve been in a relationship for years when he’s the one who screwed up the first date. Wow! This whole throws up huge red flags.
She didn’t reject him! That’s one of the crazy parts. She agreed to a date and he rejected her by standing her up! Definitely a stalker situation here.
@@BlueIvysAssistant buy why would a stalker not go to a date with the person they’re stalking? Especially since their victim was willing to go to the date on her own
I’m so glad she made these voice mail public so his mom and his friends can actually see what kind of person he is because I’m pretty sure he made her the villain
Yea he kinda sounds entitled to me & tries to play the victim card when he dug this grave by standing her up. Now he's just harassing her at this point.
@@hellerwise Yep. What an incredible lack of self-awareness. I like the part where he says that he wants to get with her to explain what a good and virtuous guy he is. You don't explain that to people, you show them and boy oh boy has that ship sailed!
He wasn't rejected. She accepted his date, prepared for it and àrrived on time. He stood her up, lied through his teeth and then bombarded her with constant voicemails. He's a weirdo
She did not reject him, he stood her up at a restaurant and than lied about it. He not only rejected her, he disrespected her. He is not worthy of a second chance. Move on guy and do better!!
Not to mention it was supposed to be the first date and he is acting like it is some long-time relationship. This guy is creepy and scary, definitely stalker material.
And talked about what a “ good boy” he was!!! He stood her up on purpose because he wanted her to chase him and it backfired. I dated a guy like this months. Very briefly. Pay attention to the red flags people! So glad this girl did not call him back
Yes, she needs at least an alarm system with cameras that alert her to motion, and something that goes BANG BANG! Along with knowledge and practice with the BANG BANG device.
That reminded me of a film called Misery 1990, when the woman rescues an author who crashed his car then restrains him to the bed, so he can never get away, all while telling him how much she really likes him, and so she can treat him nicely. He's the female version of her, for sure.
To be fair to the guy, he did ask her not to put those messages on tik tok… lmao and she did it Anyways, it also shows how that woman is and acts in these situations. Anything for clout right? Yeah the dude didn’t do the right thing here but posting private messages… that’s not right either though
The momma was speaking about him like he is still in pre-school. “He is a good boy”, “Bradley and I have a lot of talks about how we treat people and he knows what is not right” I was dying laughing because this is how I spoke to my kids when they were 1-2 years old and I sometimes speak to my dogs like this when they are misbehaving.
In that moment my heart broke for the mother. I have a feeling shes the reason he is this way (definitely coddled) but imagine your son turning out to be such a loser that you feel the need to call his tinder date?
@@jennaltonji9996 😂😂😂😂 Sadly, this Boy-Man child was raised by people (person) who were/are incompetent. Millions fall into this category. It's heartbreaking. But at the same time.......It is what it is. 😪
Me too totally avoid to make any wrong relationship , better to stay single but not to jump any toxic relationship , no way , She's great because not giving any chance , just perfect .
"I talked to my friends, they don't think it's cool, either." I'd put 20 bucks on him having no friends. I'd also put 20 bucks on mommy calling because she's desperate to get this loser out of her house, too. Too bad, mom, it's your fault for raising this Nancy-boy whiner that thinks he can talk his way into and out of anything.
This is after missing a first date. Can you just imagine what he would be like if a woman broke up with him after a few months of dating? And, what on earth would momma say?!😧
@@2Tim1.6 I haven’t. I’ve seen the trailer, it looks intense. Do you recommend it? It must have a character that reminds you of either this man or his mother.
Let’s pretend, for a second, he has friends. Why would he (allegedly) ask his friends how much time is reasonable to receive a response after leaving a voicemail?!? And how is that supposed to convince anyone of anything..? I mean, who does that?
Well usually stalkers dont ghost the people they are stalking from a real deal date tho(that would be a weird obsession lol)-she'll be fine. Kinda hard to be a stalker if you legit avoided her presence on a first date. Hes just an idiot making a big deal about her "ghosting" his call back...which is just karma for him doing it to her.
@@shanecharles4589 stalking without in-person contact is still a very real problem that happens, though, unfortunately. I've had EXTREME issues with a few guys in the past... one that comes to mind above the rest is someone I went to school with who wanted to reconnect years later, and despite never actually seeing him during this whole debacle, he severely affected my life for a while. He would not stop harassing me from countless phone numbers, no matter how many numbers of his I blocked, and he was like this moron, where he was apologetic one hour, screaming the next, and round and round he went. Nonstop texts from endless burner numbers. I couldn't get away from him for months and I'm just so lucky I never told him exactly where I lived at that time, I can't imagine if I had, I might not exist anymore 😳 some people are just batshit bananas and you can shake your ass all you want but that dingleberry just won't fall off. 😂
@@shanecharles4589 But because he now feels like she rejected him it is different. He is clearly unstable. So it’s reasonable to worry about her safety.
I had a Bradley too. After making up a completely false persona, and getting caught at it, he had his best "girlfriend" call me to plead with me to give him another chance. I didn't. Two months later, he's still calling & texting me, asking me to "get together " with him. Insanity.
Exactly he is the type to stalk and harm because he isn’t getting his way. He said he apologized 👀 and he doesn’t understand why she won’t talk to him. 🤦🏾♀️ He sounds like a grade school child and then to involve his mother let’s me know he is not mentally mature. He reminds me of one of those kids that hurts someone and says, well I said sorry. He is not self aware at all. But he aware enough to threaten her pfft. She better run and get that order of protection. He probably go ballistic when he sees this online smh.
I agree completely! His behavior is stalker material. He was probably scared to meet up with her, and lied to cover his fear. After that, is where it gets super creepy. I hope to God, this fu**ing freak doesn't find out where she lives.
This is classic narcissistic behaviour. He plays with her head, standing her up at the restaurant. Then gives her the "sick father" excuse before hitting her with the truth that he had lied. He was looking for a big reaction and wanted her emotionally frail and to chase him with calls and texts. When she DOESN'T fall apart and proves to be stronger than he thought, he goes nuts because he can't stand that he is not in control and dominating the relationship. To loose it to the point that he runs to his mother to call this woman too, shows how neurotic and unstable he is. Well done to this woman for seeing him for what he is and not rising to the bait.
I swear to god you’re describing my ex. Anytime I was happy or doing ANYTHING that he wasn’t the centre of attention, he’d have a HUGE crisis and NEED me to respond asap and if I didn’t, I was heartless and didn’t care. Then when I dropped my life to give him attention , he was suddenly fine and too busy for me.
@@joellejohnson7846 I am happy to see the "ex" in your bad situation. I am sorry what you had to go through-been there, now can gratefully write 'ex'. Still hurts, esp since so new around the holidays, but God has His reasons for everything if we listen, plus remember God helps those who help themselves". As they sing in 'Rudolph" (old animatronic one I love) "Put one foot in front of the other...and soon you'll be walking out the door"...sooo applicable for us!
I hate the excuse men say “rejection is a guys worst fear” a women’s is getting abused and murdered by a guy she rejects.. there’s a common denominator here and it’s not women. Don’t say something to a women, you wouldn’t wan’t a man to say to you in prison.
it's easy for me to forget how different our experiences are until i'm reminded of this; it' ubiquitous for us but guys lose it if a girl is overly attached but not lethally attached. to be honest i wish we'd stop seeking all our affection and validation from romantic partners; i hate that our culture does things this way.
@@hugenerd242 Yeah, I commented that and people were PISSED! I attributed the quote to Gavin de Becker because I read it in his book "The Gift of Fear". Well, apparently Margaret Atwood wrote it also (The Handmaid's Tale) and people exploded all over me, lol.
I've never seen so many red flags waving wildly in the wind in such a short period of time. My palms are sweating. Dude actually had his mom call her.. "he's a good boy". Key word BOY.
Wow. I don't know if this is more infuriating or scary. She didn't dodge a bullet. She dodged a grenade. It's like every time I consider dating again, I see something like this. I hope he left her alone. I think she handled it best by ignoring him.
Ouuuuchhh. I had some bad experiences in my dating years too! Don't let that stop you from believing theres a chance for a loving stable relationship someday, Please!
Same. Also- he gave this woman’s phone number to his mother. Like “hey mom I literally can’t get a girl on my own, I’ve been such a jerk and I can’t stop myself. Can you be nice to her to make her think at least someone in our family is sane, and lure her in so I can do what I do? Thanks, here’s her number.”
right? like thats what throws me- SHE DIDNT EVEN REJECT HIM YET. HE JUMPED SO EARLY. ohhhhhh lord how emotional this dude is. that narcissistic injury is a bitch
He wasn't rejected though. He didn't turn up to dinner and then he pretended his father was in hospital. *HE* basically rejected her and then he couldn't deal with his decision. Unbelievable.
@@frutcakes6370 Isn't that what Norman Bates mother would tell the woman who stayed at the motel when they found him peeping through the drilled holes in the wall and they soon checked out?
It’s actually really common for some people to think that just because they’re being honest that it means all their sins are dismissed. It’s an extremely manipulative tactic when used this way because you are given little to no time to process this new information before being expected to sweep everything under the rug. Being honest just means you’re being a decent human being by allowing the other person THE RIGHT to make informed decisions. They are not then obligated to continue anything with you. If you didn’t want to take a chance with losing them you shouldn’t have done whatever it is you did in the first place.
They are not decent if they did something like the guy did before they are telling the truth. It is just used for manipulation which no decent person does.
@@cosmicreef5858 Humans aren’t strictly decent or indecent. They can have lapses. Honestly we all have consistently done something that’s indecent. We all suck
Honestly, this isn't even a "rejection." Guy stood her up, lied about why he stood her up, admitted that he lied about why he stood her up, then got upset that she wasn't begging to go on an actual date with him. Then getting your mom involved is just... how? What also gets me is that this "Brad" guy clearly knew his behavior was unnacceptable. I can't think of any other reason he would be begging to not have his voice mail put on TikTok. I am definitely glad she didn't actually go on a date with him, guy is straight up crazy.
She could easily blocked his calls but she needed solid proof that dude is extremely unstable and possibly a threat to her personal safety. Some guys need to know it's wrap if she don't reply back immediately at a certain time period. She did right exposing Brad as the scary sore loser he really is.
No hate on her but I would have just kept all the voicemails for evidence without posting to Tik Tok. The guy is unhinged and could try to seek revenge. I know it can be tempting to “expose” ppl or whatever but don’t fight fire with fire. I agree it was smart for her to not block him immediately tho.
@@jl4260 she did it for her own safety. That way if something happens to her people know where to look. Especially after he got his mama involved! That was extra creepy.
You bring up a very good point that is a weird part of society. The need for receipts. We *could* just end things, but collecting proof is so important that humoring the behavior has become apart of ending it.
@@missxspencer1538 I'm glad she posted it for evidence purposes. She didn't dox him either, she just posted his voice and now if something happens to her they have a suspect.
I feel you, I have disturbing thoughts listening to this wondering if they have had women over before and if they don't date brad they end up becoming an ingredient in his bbq sauce.... WTF did she think that was a smart idea to talk about how he COULD make money if he ever sold his sauce on top of calling in the first place.... I hate when the parents get involved in trying to trap me in staying, that did always make it harder. I hope she stays safe too.... he needs deep therapy, maybe inpatient care to deal with his issues before he should be allowed to date.... he is not capable of respectful healthy boundaries because he is ignorant we need to stop dating these guys because we feel bad and get them to grow so they can be healthier for themselves and everyone they impact. sending you love. and I hope you cope well with the challenges you face today 💖
The mom calling and everything that she said is the reason he turned out to be a narcissist. You can tell she coddled him his whole life and even still now, as a full-grown adult she continues. An over-coddling mother/(parents) is one of the reasons narcissists are created.
I bet Brad is stomping around his mama's basement crying like Peppa Pig. She comes down the stairs and says "What is it this week?" Brad "waaaaaaa". Mom "OK give me her number" 😂😂😂 LOL
I canceled a first date with a guy because I was picking up similar vibes. This guy was making grandiose lies about his life and his upbringing and expected me to be in awe of him. Plus he posted screenshots our texts on his Facebook page to make his ex (who was still his Facebook friend) jealous. Luckily, his ex reached out to me and told me he was an abuser and sent me his public criminal record as proof. Multiple accounts of domestic abuse charges. I politely canceled our date to which he proceeded to call me every degrading name in the book. He called me over 5 times within minutes before I blocked him. Bullet. Dodged.
@@nancytran6134 I mean it's a Facebook friend not an actual friend. I probably still have an ex or two on there. I check Facebook maybe once or twice a month and I don't think I've ever blocked anyone.
Not gonna lie, even if I wanted to behave this way and act in such a dysfunctional manner… I wouldn’t even be able to do it. This is so embarrassing I’d rather just stay rejected for the rest of my life LOL
"Mama-wife" is a very good label because his mother comes across as the type who treats her son like a husband. The dude is a narcissist and she coddled his behavior growing up.
No, but you don’t understand! Bradley is such a good boy, and I’m sure you’ll understand that once you stop pulling on those darn shackles. We hate putting those on you, Bradley and me both, but we can’t have you escaping before you understand that you love my son and want to give me grandchildren. 🙂
@@ryry998 HOKAY! Despite the fact that he actually showed insane behavior, let's attack the victim... because you hate women? GTFO. You also used the wrong form of their, which shows probably why you're so salty...because ya ignorant up and down, son.
She is so smart and aware to dodge wasting years of her life on an abusive, narcissistic relationship. The fact that the guy’s Mother got involved is just bizarre.
Stood strong ? How come she couldn't tell the guy was mentally handicapped and has some kind of autism like Asperger's and is mentally slow with some things like societal norms and has the mind more of a kid ? How is it she was unable to tell this when it is so obvious
I was at a chinese buffet while watching this. I was wearing loose shorts and loose underwear. I peed and soiled myself and the floor right in front of the stir fry cooker.
That should have been taken as a warning sign, that Mama has brought-up an atypical member of the psychopath community! Whatever it was HE wanted with her, *_his Mama wanted to share in as well! *_
"It's been an hour, and I haven't heard from you" Hands down the creepiest thing you could ever hear from someone you've never dated lol or met for that matter.
I waited too long to apply to "hi" on facebook dating (2 hours on Christmas day) and the guy wrote me a long message about how I play too many games like the rest of the females on the dating website. I replied, I hope you find what you're looking for and left it at that. He then proceeded to invite me to video chat which I rejected. Screen shotted for comic relief and blocked.
The only time this happened to me was with a female coworker from several years ago. At some point she kept trying to invite me to her parties at her house every Friday, zero interest in going. In that sense, I get home one day and she left the most bizarrely message on my answering machine, made it sound like we had been dating for years, lol.
I get the feeling that had she shown up to that "family dinner", she would have ended up tied to a chair at the dinner table where a bunch of corpses were also seated while Bradley joins them in a dress and wig.
@@Mia-yx5gf If that was her intention she wouldn't be making fun of the situation at all; she'd be frightened, doing it for herself, foremost, and secondarily for others. I wonder if she failed to be aware of the danger she is in until she started reading these comments.
@@virginiamoss7045 People deal with situations like this differently and they express what they feel differently as well. Idk if she was afraid. All I know is that she made those videos to spread awareness and to help protect herself by exposing that man’s ways of dealing with stuff like this and what might happen if things escalating from there.
He's an incel and thinks he is entitled and that women owe him. An a mama that supports this type of bs. A very dangerous situation. I hope she called the cops on him and she should get herself a gun, both the son and the mother are dangerous
Any man who feels a woman owes him by saying yes to a date or any intimacy in spite of how she really feels is a sorry-ass sad excuse for a man. Message to guys like the freak in this video: No means NO!! And yes, he's a freak. Any man who acts like that will automatically be branded a freak
Yeah. I had a psycho treat me like this. After just One “date” and he accused me of “seeing other men” when I told him I had to go early because I had to work early (the truth). Then the nasty, endless attack of long, long single spaced emails began arriving. They were amazing to read and my friends and I had a blasts reading them. They reeked of insanity.
It is a bit scary the number of these types out there. I had one coffee date (I reserve dinner dates if there is some potential). He proceeded to construct an entire relationship with endless text pressuring me, I hardly knew him. Then stalking on various social media platforms. Thank God he did not have my address. I hope the nut case you met has stopped bothering you.
Listening to his mommy proclaim how he is a good boy, I just keep getting flashes of that movie Texas Chainsaw Massacre when that mom kept saying how her boy was so good too 😱
Sometimes it takes a while to see the red flags. This guy is a frigging matador!!! This didn't get rejected, he jacked the whole situation up all by himself.
He probably has two families on the side, tied up in a basement somewhere the way he's telling her to not put him online. She should really run a background check. These red flags are alarming as heII!
@@petergriffiinbirdistheword he’s delusional. The fact he called her so many times in one night screams unhealthy mental state. And he’s twisted everything around in his mind to make it her fault - another major warning sign.
This guy is dangerous. He's just trying to see how much control he can establish from the get-go. If she were to go for it, he would become a completely controlling abuser.
Maybe you're right; but there's a healthy dose of perspective issues, and lack of empathy, and I think that's actually most of the problem. This is a lonesome man with poor social skills. He could have made up any other excuse for no-showing for the date, to include the truth - which is the part I missed. The woman seems pretty self-assured and taking it all pretty well. She seems to have no sympathy for him; not the he earned any.
There was this cop who fell in love with me. I wasn’t interested in him, and I let him know politely but firmly of this. He wouldn’t take “No” for an answer. He showed up at my home and punched a hole in my screen door when I refused to go with him to a “Fast and the Furious” movie sequel. He also got his cop friends to harass and terrorize me. He left me threatening messages, put a dead squirrel, a dead bird, and a dead rat on my doorstep, he threw a brick through my window, and slashed my tires. Fortunately, my dash camera caught him and his cop buddies in the act, and my home security camera caught his other acts. That and other evidence I had gathered, along with a “journal” to document everything that happened, who, what, when, where, and how. I was able to file a TRO against him and with the help of the District Attorney I got him and his cop buddies to back off. TL/DR: A cop fell in love with me, I let him know I wasn’t interested, he stalked me, vandalized my home and vehicle, terrorized me, had his cop friends do the same, I gathered evidence and with a TRO and help from the DA he and his cop buddies left me alone.
@Brian Mull You had me all the way until you made it political. Attacking people over political views on a video that has nothing whatsoever to do with politics makes you as loose a wingnut as this guy. The only difference is what you're obsessing over.
His mom talking to this woman like she's apologizing to a teacher for her small child who got in trouble misbehaving at school. "He's really a good boy we had a talk about how we treat others and he knows what he did was wrong"
Everything he said initially, everything he did initially, is actually exactly who he is. This is how my ex husband was, this is why he is my ex. I love this girl!
@@mattmammone2338 Narc's know how to gaslight and cause confusion in the girl in video he slipped and showed his colors before the date before strong emotion bound most narcs can act and charm in the beginning then slowly start abuse twist things and make their partner think they are wrong they can isolate then control who you see they have flying monkeys that are going to side with his games they are good at listening and studying people in the beginning and will use peoples weakness against them. they will slowly talk you out of going for dreams change your style then put you down for not looking good pointing out how someone that has the traits you once have looks good and why can't you be like that. If someone ends up long term they end up depend they might have you quit working they take over everything which can make it hard to walk away. Know of one that has girl he like on his insurance and somehow her car she bought ended up under his name also hides her car keys goes through her things keeps tabs on every move she makes
The mother calling him was the final nail in the coffin. That's just...insane. Maybe his mom shouldn't be doing things like this, and perhaps 'Bradley' will grow up like a big boy and pull up his own pants without mommy's help!
Agreed! Bradley behaves like a narcissist lunatic because his mommy has clearly told him his whole life that he is the most special boy in the whole world, and no girl will ever be good enough for him.
Wow she is so lucky he didn’t show up. He is bat sh*t crazy. Stalker in the making, or can’t handle being ghosted or cannot NOT having the final say. He needs total control and her not picking up is freaking him out.
@@brendafleming8155 me either. I don’t have patience at all. I have an attitude as well. So, I wouldn’t to well with this type of guy, and his mother calling holy frick. I would’ve had fun with her if I answered that call. 😂 such bad.
@@requiem5995 to be fair. If the mom is sane-ish she probably only knows what the son tells her. But even my mom wouldn't call a lady for me. She'd say son your going to have to let go
Meanwhile: Dude is pacing around his apartment watching the clock freaking out counting the seconds she doesn't call getting mad one minute then crying the next 😄😭😡😫
What a complete disconnect from reality this mother and son have. Now I'm super curious as to what the rest of the family is like. Maybe his cousins and uncles will call and leave voicemails. Waiting for the next episode.
And I know she's a parent, but I always find it off when a parent is describing their adult child to another adult as a "boy" I mean that's pretty insulting they don't see their son as a man 😂 says a lot
@@fruitgum9619 Calling him a boy was designed to paint Brad the psycho as 'harmless' and THAT in itself is pretty scary considering he is anything but.
