Their Access Have Been Denied and They Can't Handle it (Narcissist & Jezebel) 

@responsherbility it's true call em out I fear God not man

Great comment . Very petty & entitled . They don't give a f*** about us . 🙏🏽🙏🏽😇💯

Yep 💯💯

Amen same

Amen 🙏🏽 I’m with you too 💯🙏🏽🙌🏽

Amen 🙏🏼

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I totally agree!!! You can't be well for anyone if you're not well yourself. I'm telling you that and reminding myself as well.

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@AHeaven iHear you thoroughly, ESPECIALLY on welfare check😮‍💨 They can't express or verbalize their intentions yet will induce embarrassment to come out as "caring".

i wish you the best. but, as a former child of an abusive and narcissistic parent who i still maintain no contact with after two decades, i must say that children do not "just leave", run away, block you, or break contact from their parents for no reason at all. and if they do, it's an extreme rarity. i notice that you call your oldest "mean". please consider: would someone *want* to return to a person that calls them that? regardless of kinship? are adults supposed to call children things like that? does calling a person that provide them with the nonjudgment, emotional safety to return, or even converse at all? us survivors have heard and experienced those exact (or similar) words, and that perspective countless times. you are strong and your struggles are valid, but just because you had to sacrifice for your children, doesn't mean that they are obligated to do the same for you. the only thing they did was be born, and yet, they're responsible for the tribulations that have occurred in your life *before they were even born* ? this is a bit of a hot take, but bare with me: your mother yelled at you, mocked you, ridiculed you. right? that's a person who doesn't care. care does not feel like that. that's a person who did not express love there. you were not adequately cared for. you were not adequately loved. and now, you place the responsibility on your children to give you what you were supposed to receive in the first place. but, it's not fair. because they aren't your parents. a caterpillar can not show a butterfly how to be a butterfly. they're your children. not mom 2.0. and it's your responsibility to provide them with that care. unconditional love, not labor. but, how can you raise them "right", if (from what you mention in this comment) you never worked out your own lack of love in your life? and learn how to reparent yourself and sprout the seed of self-love in your own heart, so you don't end up resorting to delegating that task to anyone else? no one can, or should, do that for you. children are not supposed to parent parents. that's how childhoods die; and that's how often times trauma is born. from a survivor child who now suffers and is healing daily from multiple disorders due to the same kind of treatment from my own parents/guardians. i am unable to work a brick and mortar job due to my upbringing. i don't mean this from a place of disrespect, i mean this because i used to be in your kid's place. i really was. and my word meant nothing to them because it wasn't coming out of their own mouths, but the body keeps score. please hear out your children. make sure to hear their side without bias or emotion. please be better than my own mother was to me and hear your kids out. i hope that you consider my comment. if not, well, once again, all the best.

@@asia.t I am so glad that you said this. Respectfully, she comes off as entitled by stating that she raised her kids and her sacrifices to raise them. No one gets special credit for doing what they are supposed to do. Your children didn't ask to be here. Also, when she said she didn't know why her children don't talk to her, I was thinking she isn't very self aware because no one does that. Thank you for your real comment.

@@GiGiChosen precisely. i saw all of those red flags in their comment, too, and i had to spit it out. you're very welcome. ❤️

@@AHeaven remember sit with yourself and ask the universe what you need to do to heal from that trauma and also take accountability for what was done to cause the drift from the children...don't take that as an attack I've had to do it myself and remember words, actions or energy I've passed due to trauma .... Write a letter to them with your true emotions be raw and real . Meditate and ask the universe for forgiveness. Work on you and when the time comes give those letters to them . I pray unity restores in yourself and in your family 💖

spot on!

@ChildofGod98765 I will keep y6in my prayers. Put your hope in Jesus and make God your stronghold

@@ChildofGod98765 standing right in your shoes! My children are not disabled, but my youngest was 11, got with the narcissist, and now I am a single mom with a 2&3 year old, but I would by NO MEANS WALK BACK INTO THAT HELL!! Yes I hurt, Yes I get angry, but NO I WILL NOT GO BACK!!!! GOD HAS US, HE DELIVERED US, AND HE WILL NEVER LEAVE US!! #KEEPPUSHING

@feliciabrice2654 unfortunately they don't see their wrong doing unless the Most High God can bring them into humbleness because they will not change other wise

Amen sister.

In the next life. Lol.

@@thaistomp Neither.

@@jaredchilders3781 can you explain those 2 verses?

@@Johannenoel-ku3gn The end is in the beginning, and we've been here before. You are born again, but into the same facemask you will always be born into. God speaks to mankind numerically.

@@jaredchilders3781 what eve have to do with Jezabel?

@@Johannenoel-ku3gn Jezebel is Eve. What was Eve told in Genesis 3:3? What did Jehu do to Jezebel? Why is Jezebel alive at the end in Revelation 2:23? Why does Revelation 3:12 state, I will write my new name on him? Which is in Genesis 5. The final moment, is in Genesis. It's all in the beginning of the Bible.

Your sentence is incoherent