Watching this now after Jay’s passing 😭😭So glad God restored his marriage and they got to enjoy their life together. Praying for Tami, kids and the Frederick family
Speechless. I can't imagine the level of emotional on stepping away because you are tired Then dealing with the concept of illness, death, divorce, caretaker etx. Girl you need therapy by yourself.
I wish Tami and Jason did the episode together because I think they spoke from different views with it being in two parts. And maybe i'm wrong but Jason's talking points were from how he felt as individual and how he felt as a father and brother. Tami's talking points were on being a wife and her individual development in the process of being a separated and a caretaker. Maybe Tami speaking on being a wife and care taker would have steered Jason to discuss the stages he went through as a husband. For him to drive 12 hours, sick, to get his wife and family back, what was the moment leading up to "I'm getting them back". Either way love both episodes. Also, Tami 2.0 is on the scene and she ain't going no where. 💜
if that woulda happened u'd prob b lyin on the floor cryin for a full day!! agree though that it woulda been great ... bt im already emotionally drained frm both GREAT episodes.
I understand that people are inquisitive and are interested in the topic and in the people, but I feel like they don't owe us anymore. It's hard for all of them to relive these things and they've done it for two videos. They don't need to do anymore for our entertainment. They good. Yaw just gone forever have questions.
I agree! This was great and I appreciate it but boundaries are important and counselors are too. Also happy Kev is learning to feel his feelings but I just kept thinking- it's not a requirement that she share her feelings and cry on camera if she's not comfortable.
You know, I can really appreciate Tammy’s perspective. As a nurse, I take for granted that wives like Tammy will rise to the occasion. Being a caregiver is not easy when you’re not in healthcare like me. I applaud their journey back to health and each other in love. I’m sure Tammy is glad they worked through their issues now that he’s gone. I pray that she, the kids and the rest of the family has comfort and peace.
I understand her feelings. It seemed like she was mad at him but Json was sick so she couldn't just not care about him...... I totally get it.... Thanks for sharing love
Thanks for this. It's interesting hearing from Tammy, a person who isn't in the entertainment or public speaking business. I appreciate that she did this for you guys and hear her side.
I didn’t see this until after Jason’s passing but to know they did this 3years ago is so beautiful to me because it allowed them to say what they needed to say from both sides. Sending compassion and love to the entire family as they process this great loss.
The thing that stuck out for me was Tammi being in the process of disconnecting herself then boom you stop the process and eventually reconnect the parts you already disconnected... this was good! Even tho she held back, I LEARNED ... and appreciate her truth! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Loved this episode bc the burden of a wife goes without saying. I luv'd Kev's input and to see how much he is growing as a husband. Kev is showing the BIBLICAL side of how a man can also submit to his wife with by growing in this area of compassion, empathy and love. I always say it takes a real man to be husband. 'Husband' ain't for boys... Melissa and Kev...amazing. Bravo.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Two questions: 1)Can you please do a part 3 with Jason and Tammy together talking about how their relationship has changed over the years? 2)How does Kev feel about Tammy and Jason, given his statements about no one being able to love a Black man like a Black woman can?
Miss Raquel that's a GREAT question. I forgot Kev said that. Yes he told Doboy to date a black woman. That definitely would be a great topic. Also a follow up with them about the process of restoring their marriage @kevonstage @thelovehour @mrskevonstage
I don’t think they should do anymore. You can tell this topic is so hard for them. Tammy was zoned out trying not to cry during the beginning. They don’t need to do anymore for our entertainment or curiosity. As someone else said, boundaries are important and they don’t owe us their experience
@@NigeriaSimone I no way think this is for entertainment. I feel everyone's testimony can save another's life. I've said that several times when guest come on the love hour or "ask a" Their are people who feel they agree the ONLY one's going through. My suggestion was not for Tomorrow but WAY later on IF they chose to. Once again I in NO WAY feel this is "entertainment" OAN: As for the comment Kev made saying Douboy needs to date a black woman only - that would be an conversation that would be GREAT once again IF he chooses to delve into why he thinks that.
Melissa and Tami please do more of these! I would love to have just married women perspective/panel about the balancing you and your voice in your marriages!
Wow! This testimony was an absolute blessing! My ex-wife has severe bipolar and OCD, I was a caretaker for the whole 8 years of our marriage. I especially liked the fact that Tami removed her family out of her marriage. People and marriage are way to complex to involve others in your marriage. I pray that the Frederecks family will continue to grow form this situation.
This was tough to watch. She was in the process of trying to mentally and emotionally separate herself from her husband and then he got sick. But thank God for it because challenges like this will mature anything adolescent in a relationship and bring the most important things in perspective.
"Separation is a process..." wow, that's some deep stuff. I don't think enough people recognize that. It's hard to just shut things off and expect to move on, ESPECIALLY in marriage!!!
Just in case y’all didn’t see my comment on the teaser, 🗣BRING TAHIR ON THE LOVE HOUR‼️‼️Melissa needs to be interviewing him. She’s passionate & blessed with that therapeutic gift.
So raw....Loss my mom 2 weeks ago.....I felt all of these same emotions that Tammi speaks of for my mom. No funeral because of the coronavirus too. GOD'S LOVE AND GRACE IS SUFFICIENT!
Man...as a wife, this hit me so hard. There were so many lessons and nuggets of wisdom that Tammy shared through her perspective. That part of patience alone....whew! You can also clearly see God’s hand in redeeming their marriage while growing them individually.
OMGOSH, am I reeeeady?!? 😳😱 I was U-G-L-Y CRYIN' during Part 1!!!😭😭😭😭 Keeping y'all in prayer before I even watch this. 🙏🏾 Edit - Kev TOOK 👏🏾 ME 👏🏾 CLEAN 👏🏾 OUT 👏🏾 with "Ain't gon' be before ya long, Amen! We're here for a good time not a long time, Amen!" 5:36 😅😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
Rest in peace, Jayson. We’re so sorry that he had to leave his family so soon. May the Lord grant them comfort, peace, unified love and agreement for the length of their days, in Jesus Holy name we pray, Amen! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾#R.I.P.JaysonFredericks
I am not among one of the people who was upset with Melissa for bringing this conversation forward. We went through this type of cancer with my uncle as well, and I never spoke with him about how he was feeling as he was going through treatments and such. I was very young, so it’s very enlightening to hear about the different things that people with cancer feel… I really hope that Jason is doing well, and I appreciate this episode, it really sheds light on what it truly means when you take vows and you promise to be there for your spouse in sickness and in health… This episode was really important, so I’m glad it exists.
Loved these episodes. You can really see the hand of God over this situation. From Json being in the accident which lead to his diagnosis, to Tami's boss knowing 1st hand what it was she'd be dealing with and being flexible. Love it.
Did Tami say “and make sure you know how to fight” when Melissa was giving her dad’s independent woman check list🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Good show and thanks for sharing Tami👍🏽
That last topic Melissa spoke on about growing up as a girl in the"independent woman" era and with dads who taught you to learn mechanics etc is a great talking point! I felt that! I would love to hear how they're learning to be that self sufficient woman but also meshing in a marriage and practicing submission etc.
Maybe one day when it's not so fresh Tammy could come back and fill in a lot of those areas that are now to tender to talk about. I appreciate you having her on and TY for sharing such a personal part of your life with us ❤
Tami's sadness is surreal. Ending or loss of life brings a new perspective and appreciation to it. God bless your union and you family and give you the strength to get through the trying times.
Mrs.kev looking beautiful.....thanks guys for sharing this with us. I'm so in love with your family and y'all's strength....my prayers are with you all during this time
This was so good! Tammie and Json should write a book! The part that resonated the most with me was when she talked about him valuing her. They had to go through this so he could see the light. But it started with her separating herself from him. It takes a lot for people to change pathology. A lot of emotional and sometimes physical pain. But when we surrender to the process, who we become afterwards will be a blessing! Great interview guys!
Wow great episode hearing from the caretaker perspective. My mom is a caretaker for my dad that was diagnosed with multiple myeloma in 2018 and it is definitely a transition on both sides of the spectrum. Just like Tammy and Jason, they have been through A LOT but have become closer through this conquering cancer experience. Thanks for sharing! Also, GREAT topic idea Melissa, speaking on being raised to be an independent woman and then having to be submissive in marriage...dive into that transition...! 😉
Having been subscribed to Kev since Playmakers, i remember when you all put the news out. Please know that we prayed for you all and God intervened with the cancer and the relationship.
I really appreciated the episode with Jason and I'm so happy to see Tami here. To hear how they've both grown prior to and after his diagnosis, and have decided to step into a new phase of their marriage is really inspiring. It would be easier for them both to fall into the way they were before. They are both very courageous in choosing to do the work. Thank you Tami for reinforcing the standard of value. I wish you, your family and marriage continued growth, love and blessings.❤
I love how, regardless of what Tami and Jason have been through, you all have remained close and loving toward each other (regardless of who cause the strain on their relationship). That's maturity!!
Kevin’s answer to the question in the beginning just gives me more confidence that he’s in line to b a youth pastor lol that was a well thought out answer n I agree lol
WOW... giving EVERYTHING to literally save your husband's life!!! It's soooo amazing, "this is our trial period... we have to get through this because we have so much else to do!!" Whew...
I looked and saw the 17 minute episode and told my wife it was going to be real quick today...watched it and saw that it wasn’t the full thing. We are looking forward to seeing the full thing :)
Tami, thank you for your vulnerability and transparency. Thank you for your strength and willingness to help us by recounting your marital history while still working through some of the emotions of it. This was is soul-level deep and it took a lot of courage. Kevin and Melissa, thank you for The Love Hour. It is helping me so much right now. ❤
37:42 47:35 ❤️💔💔💔💔WoW...thats deep. Its not hard to care....but marital issues dont disappear in caregiving situations😔 It is VERY HARD TO SEE SOMEONE DETERIORATE.
APPAULSEEEE!!!! TO YOU TAMMI 👏👏👏👏👏👏 I went through cancer with my ex- best friend & that is MINISTRY!!!! Hunny that's MINISTRY!! you show LOVE that you NEVERRRR will ever experience for someone. God Bless You Tami & your Beautiful Spirit
