**Love Hour Drinking Game** Take a shot when: -Melissa says “I love that” -Melissa says “Just follow me” -Melissa does her head lean, torso lean -Melissa says “HELLO!” -Kev says “Pee and Vagee” -Kev says “The marriage bed is undefiled” -Kev makes a joke and the guest gets uncomfortable -Melissa or Kev says “That was really good” -Kev makes a sports analogy -Kev says “You undastands me?!” -Melissa says “All of the things” -Melissa says “I’m so excited” -Melissa says “say more, or say that again” ATTENTION: this has gotten out of hand so you must play the game with juice, or soda, or sweet tea or something. No alcohol! K?
LOL !!! Saw your comment AFTER I watched the episode - reading through your list - I was like "Woo... folks gonna be out here just DRUNK!!"🍷 🍸🍹🍷🍾🍺🍷🍻🥂 Thank goodness you adjusted the rules ! 🤣😂 Cool idea for a couple to play and watch together though...👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
I appreciate these relationship open dialogues. They’ve truly strengthened my marriage and my husband and I are on the path to become MARRIAGE CHAMPIONS
@@annesther726 and he said he didn't feel too good either... But he ALWAYS manages to make us laugh... @Kevonstage Thanks Kev, get some rest & feel better! Thanks Lissa for another awesome guest & great topic!!!💕💞💕💞💕
Great show as always...love that the Christian community is starting to create spaces that reconcile faith and sexuality. But Liss, you mentioned you just bought a new vacuum with an LED light...can you drop that info!? These things matter😂😂👀👀
Lis looked amazing with this new hairdo 😍!! Another great episode as usual!!! This podcast has become my favorite podcast over the last year. And I personally love how Kev and Lis are always showing support to other black content creators. I'm loving that "You Matter University" hoodie!!! ✊🏾
Child!!! I just got my whole life on that part about women get older and using it or losing it! I'm 44 and had a hysterectomy almost 3 years ago. I've noticed a decrease in my libido and this topic was all up in my business!
I'm also 44 (will be 45 on March 3rd) and I also have some health issues and let me tell you...that sex drive be all up in the slow lanel, honey. I have to use some lubes at times and can live without some butt butt (in my Kev voice)
@@brangeeellis3083 oh the struggle. I can go weeks without the butt butt and then all of a sudden it's like a switch flips and all hell breaks lose! Hubby is patient and that's a blessing but I'm going to talk to my doctor at my next visit to see what I can do. HAPPY EARLY BIRTHDAY!!!!!
**round of applause for Dr Wendasha from the Dirty South** I'm definitely like Melissa, let me pull myself up off these stairs & get outta my comfort zone for this one--whew chile!! C'mon with the sponsor plugs Liss, u da real MVP, lol!! Hahahaha, Kev always goes to the extreme, lol "hit me with the car" ….great episode!!!
I can't with Kev. I spit all over place on the ADVERTISEMENT for man scapping. The seriousness in their faces I would never make it through!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I really did appreciate this episode as a Christian but with that being said the show in this episode didn't talk about what does the Bible says about sex, fetishes, and kinks I hope in the future they will take that plug and go from that angle I appreciate the braveness the show has to talk about 'taboo' sexual topics
This is one of my all time favourite podcasts. I'm not remotely religious but I find Kev & Liss so engaging, educating and entertaining. The ideas and lessons shared can be applied to anyone in any situation. I'm single AF but I'm getting prepared for my next partner... 😏
I really appreciate this episode. I'd just add @57:00 that sexual fluidity includes any changes in our sexuality over the course of a lifetime, not just orientation. Ex: exploring kinks you weren't into before, "reds" becoming "yellows" and "greens" becoming "red", attraction to different body shapes, ect. So in this expanded definition, all sexual people are sexually fluid, even if they remain the same orientation their whole life.
Great show. I do have a question since the panel are professing Christians how does Proverbs 3:6 play a role in your sexuality or does your own thoughts and desires take the front seat regarding your thoughts and choices?
It all depends on what you believe. If you are a Christian then I believe the proverb is clear. A lot discussed in this broadcast regarding sex and types of sexual desires did not acknowledge God as the proverb directs us. My question was as professing believers does this proverb help them in answering some of the questions they have regarding sex or do they apply this proverb at all? What are your thoughts @passion 8 4god?
@@Passion84GodAlways Why do you feel that acknoledging God in your sex life equals vanilla sex? Sex is not central to my beliefs, God is. The proverb speaks that when God is center of your life that all areas of your life will be impacted by God and fruitful. A bad tree does not bear good fruit. Being that God created sex it is important that we know why God created sex and how He wants us to use this gift. When a gift is used improperly it no longer benefits the individual the way it was intended to. It is up to the individual if they are a believer to learn the scriptures, pray and seek godly counsel regarding sex (proverb 11:14). If you are not a believer then you will likely ascribe more to what "feels" good or right primarily. Not that having good feelings are wrong but having feelings replace God regarding your decision making will undoubtedly result in consequences. This can be a show in and of itself. There are many facets to properly enjoying sex. I don't per se have all the answers I just try to apply the scriptures to my own life as best as I possibly can in order that I am practicing disciplin (Hebrews 12:11). I like sex a whole lot but it cannot be central to my decision making if I am going to enjoy it responsibly without harming others or myself. So if I answered your question to your liking; what then did you take from this episode and you being a believer, how do you approach "kinky" sex with your partner? Are there any boundaries?
Of Mice And Mandrakes 100 I understand your question. I was wondering how this applies to believers too since our bodies and desires are God’s...I’d say as believers you have to honor your partner and if what you want to do doesn’t honor them then...don’t go there?
@@ofmiceandmandrakes1005 God created the clit. Which has no other purpose than pleasure. He wants you to find pleasure in sex. Are you at work always acknowledging God every time you schedule a meeting on your calendar or type a report? How does that look? If you're a believer, the way to acknowledge Him is to live your life according to His word. That's all. Man tries to put extra stipulations and rules on it that are not from Him.
Still in the middle of listening... This is a great subject to cover. One of the greatest aspects to BDSM is consent. It should ALWAYS be primary, for it to be done right. We touch each other in our everyday lives without consent, and BDSM helps us recognize how important asking first is. i am not sure if this was mentioned (yet); BDSM is not inherently (or primarily) sexual either. Many use it to enhance or add to their sexual experiences; however, people utilize non-sexual power exchanges all the time, like ageplay or petplay. Many perform S/M scenes without sex. BDSM doesn't even require toys or tools. Some people share 24/7 D/s relationships, without any bondage, sadism or masochism involved. Some D/s relationships are long distance. Some people do it simply for art's sake... because rope is absolutely beautiful. i also love how BDSM has so much potential to break down traditional performative gender roles we are conditioned to adhere to... Men could be subs, and women Dom(me)s. Anyone could switch. If any of these things were mentioned in the podcast at any point i apologize... Thanks again for the content!
I just want to know how Baby Josh feels filming these episodes. Does he feel like some boundaries are being crossed or can he maintain professionalism at all times?
@@MrsKevOnStage thanks for your response! I love these podcasts ❤ You, your husband and the whole team have been so inspiring, you don't even know the beginning of it. May you all find perfection, productivity and reward in the work of your hands. May God give you a harvest of a hundred-thousand-fold. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
My auntie put me in a purity class at church and her own daughter was in the class too. She eventually got pregnant a few years later in her teens. So yeah sex negative 😬🤷🏾♀️😂
I wish these sexual conversations would talk more about how to have kinky sex safely. Techniques and instructions aswell as the psychological component. We are still top toing around sex even when we are discussing sex. Its frustrating. I grew up in the church and I'm super frustrated with church folks approach or shall I say fear of the topic. If we dont teach us how to do this we will still go to the world to get the information which is not a healthy or "safe" place to learn it.
Kev be so uninterested. He doing his job as a supportive husband though. While trying to secure some buns in his home lol. He gone cheat she tripping exposing him to all these beautiful, educated women saying they with all that and she not with nothing.
Y’all teetering of that straight and narrow... I’m a Christian who’s “sex positive” too but having a host suggesting a threesome on a Christian podcast 🙅🏽♀️... just remember so many people are looking up to y’all
I agree, as a sex positive person some things rubbed me the wrong way. It would have been great to hear a bit of Gods word for reference rather than implied, if that makes sense.
