THESE SIMPLE HABITS CHANGE AN INFJ'S LIFE - INFJ HERMIT MODE GLOW UP (PART 2) 

"you're not suppose to be a supporting act in someone else's movie"

“We are INFJ’s, we can do hard things.” That’s a sentence that keeps giving me motivation to keep trying when I get discouraged.

Couldn’t agree more Wenzes. I used to think this: what’s the point of achieving more it won’t make me happier. But now I’m enjoying it. Went to detox retreat, rested and ate healthy. been two weeks and still eating healthy. I went out just today I noticed people looking at me. In months and years past I felt invisible and don’t even see anyone looking my way. But I guess something changed. I resolved to look better and feel better and dress better. Decided that I’ll buy more colourful clothes. That I’ll clean one drawer every day off/ weekend. Give to charity those clothes that haven’t worn in a long time. I’ve cleaned 2 chest drawers so far so I think I’m Winning. I was commented on my skin looking glowy. Controlled my negative news and social media consumption. Minimised listening to content overanalysing my past hurts. It’s good to take stock, take time off at the end of year and see where you’re progress is at, I’m going to do this every year if I can. Im mentally at peace. Im excited of the life I have achieved so far so grateful for everything. Less and less I’ll Will and animosity towards the people and things that have hurt me badly. I just feel lighter. I think I’m glowing up. When I’m fully ready and happy I think dating will be on the cards again. ❤️ to you Wenzes. You just know so well what we go through right deep within.

Looking back, I realize the ppl who sought friendship with me were naturally bossy. I'm pretty sure they saw me as someone that could be bossed around while calling it a friendship. Once they get to truly know me, they realize I'm like a porcupine. You corner me and it won't feel good lol

What makes others happy is not even on our radar. Now, at nearly 70, I look back on all my life and understand that no one ever really tried to understand me. I’m happy now

Having listened to the numerous podcasts on INFJs yes I identify that way. Still there is more that doesn’t get answered. Started listening to Heyoha empath and that also fits. I can’t go out of my house in public without one or more people picking me out of a crowd to unload their life troubles on. It’s exhausting. It not just me saying it or noticing it. My older brother who I share my day with says I have quit the interesting life. I’m always meeting strangers. I have a self imposed rule now at 5:00pm my doors get locked. I don’t answer only to family. Same with phone if it’s not learning, self improvement, or recreation I don’t answer my phone. I go for groceries I leave half the stuff I wanted, to get out of store. Not because I forgot, I feel an urgent need to get out of the store away from the crowds. It screams in my mind and i feel it all through my body. Head home and relax. Serenity is what I’m seeking then. I joined a gym and lost 20 lbs in 3 weeks. Walking the track climbing the bleachers to get in shape for an adventure which I have an overwhelming drive to accomplish. I’m constantly reading all sorts of things. Currently have 12 books to read. Interestingly they usually intertwine even though it’s different subjects. I had an incident the other day pulling into my driveway. Stopped and talked to person. I dismissed that person kindly and they agreed they should leave. It was bazaar! Wish I could tell you more. So many strange things that happen. Put my arm around a child protecting them from a car crashing through a fence that I never saw. I accept it. It’s so strange by all standards. Diffuse situations everywhere. Fast food window and a few words to the worker and their whole demeanor changes. I get a large fry or drink as a thank you gesture it’s so odd. I accept it don’t understand it. I try to ruminate on it but nothing makes sense. I’m not knocking you at all Wenzes. You’re helping soo many people. You’re a wonderful person. Sometimes I think information is for a different time. Our world has changed drastically. Anywho placing boundaries with relatives and sticking to them is helpful but they never say sorry I hurt you or stop balking at my boundaries. Why the young think they need to take care of the elderly when they can’t take care of themselves is a hoot. I get the phone calls dad how do I do this? Dad I had this happen give me advice. “Are you sure you want my advice”? Knock on the door sir will you take me and my baby to hospital? It’s never a dull day. I just ride the wave 🌊! Then go home and get my serenity! It’s a wild ride some days. Thinking of volunteering for an animal shelter at least they’re more giving less taking. Soon I would like to have my own service dog 🐕‍🦺! Do you or any of your followers experience these things? Thank you Wenzes! You’re the best! I might start a journal ? That frightens me though if it were to get in the wrong hands. Things, events and people could be taken out of context. Well new day, surfing safari! 😊

I have a weightloss club. It blew up to over 100 people in a week. I was walking on egg shells to keep from losing people. Today I received some advice. I decided that it is better to be myself and have 4 members instead of being what people want and have 104 members.

Take the lead role in your own life movie. Yep, don't be a backdrop placement in your own mind 🎉❤ love this x

I’ve been struggling with chronic health issues and have been feeling a zap of my life force. I’ve been to functional docs, acupuncturists, and spoken with spiritual mentors about what it could be. You laid it out simply. I know what I need to do now. Thanks 🙏🏼

Iam so into hermit mode I would put a dormouse to shame. It's cold, I have a cough so I came to sample some motivation.

I can’t believe how perfectly on point you are in your videos. For my whole life i’ve been repeating the same people pleasing pattern, and it got so toxic now I couldn’t ignore it anymore. Past few weeks were just me dealing with guilt of leaving people behind, and deciding in which direction i should go. This video is coming right on time. I needed that support. Thank you!

Making someone's dream come true helping out when you can can contribute to their happiness and especially your happiness that is what a true INFJ' would do to make them have happiness in their life God loves a cheerful giver .

'Difficult but doable.' Great advice on creating good habits.

What are some of the habits that have changed your life as an INFJ positively?

Love your content, changed my life in a positive way, my question is how to gain social skills and communicate better as INFJ?

I am shining when I meet other shoppers and so enjoying those brief moments. These give me energy.❣️

Excited about life ❤ love your videos

Most days I'm INFJesus. On the wrong day I'm INFJudgeDredd!

I finished the book ATOMIC HABITS and am now reading it for the second time. It's super and it confirms everything you've said here in this video. Also, my app for EFT has, in addition to tapping meditations, some short inspirational talks including one called "Act First, Feel Good Second." The first time I listened to the message I thought about how you have encouraged us to use our SE function. I've listened to it again, and it harmonizes so well with what you talk about here. I have a hunch that these sessions are going to line up well with what I'm already doing. Of course, both my involvement with EFT and reading ATOMIC HABITS came from taking your advice! 🙂📚

I got motivated to work out after watching this video 😺 I'm feeling so much better! As a highly sensitive person, I highly appreciate it 🙏

Wenzes, I know you have videos on the cognitive functions of the INFJ personality type but, from the bottom of my heart and on behalf of so many confused and mistyped people, I ask you to please make a video on what each cognitive function is and acts in a person, individually. There's so much confusion about the cognitive functions. You know your stuff, and I think it would be highly appreciated.

Thank you Wenzes. As this topic, makes me think of what we value plays an important role. If we do calculation, I myself do, something maybe not value in money, maybe some risk, then it is about us to weight about what is the thing we achieving. I can have an example of myself, that I want to make a small garden. It is not about money, and yes some risk. The purpose is to create the peace of mind, and so whatever in live, we can get harmony and add up our energy, EQ, and AQ. There are many spiritual benefits as if someone like it. So from the beginning of this year, I started the progress, grow some plants, and study, research, and design, and put things in place. In the progress, I feel more confidence not about the result, but about I do something worth, despite success, or not. There is no failure of growing plants and good for the nature. Now I look back, I did a lot the whole year, this is the report card for myself about using this period of time. I wish this can give some ideas, or helpful inspiration.

You’re really good at this Wenzes. Very helpful video, thanks.

Thank you beyond everything. You have changed my life for the better in the best of ways.

thank you so much! This is just the type of advice I needed and was always looking for. My parents are role models for me and are always supportive but oftentimes they just don't understand me (ESFJ and ESTJ) It is so incredibly helpful to have an INFJ giving you just the right type of advice for the life and mind of an INFJ❤

Loving this series....❤

The color of your shirt pops. 😎

Thank you Wenzes

Very inspiring! Thank you!

I needed to hear this today thank you

Thanks for this video, I needed to hear it today.

I really appreciate this series and the work you are doing!

I just want to say I like your hair like that

I first watched some of your videos about a year ago when I was going through some difficult transitions in my life. Since then I've gotten a new job where I'm treated with respect and I've been working on a novel in my free time, marking in my calendar every day I write even just a little bit. I spend way less time on social media and the most interesting change is that the people around me are also more inspired and motivated by my positive energy.

Awesome content!

This video sounds a lot like where I am right now. I keep feeling like I don't recognize myself anymore which I find frightening. If I'm not myself, then who am I? How does this new person interact with the world and the people in it, including those from the past who stick around? One thing in particular is that I'm seeing how I have more energy than before, but a part of me continues to believe it is only temporary and it's going to be a disaster when it runs out. This is extremely helpful in helping me move past the doubts and fears and keep going. This person I don't recognize is the one I want to be which means it's more about learning to accept that this is real and live accordingly. Thank you.

Wenzes have you been working out? You look healthier 👌🏾💪🏾

Love the bike metaphor! I sooo live in my head. Taking action can be difficult for me. You're right though; as I do the habits that make me happy, it adds so much to my life. Thank you!

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Once you integrate your Dark Side into yourself as your major defense barrier and main projected aura, then you are guaranteed that no one will attempt to interact or interfere with you and all of those toxic people will run from you.

Great advice!!👍 😀

This series is very much needed at this moment for me, thank you for making them! Looking forward to the next ones :)

Great series!👍🏻Thank you Wenzes! 😊

Loved how my 'cerebral beings' citation was essentially used. Correction however, you are a limbically charged NiFi ESFP being; your TiNi is clearly unconscious. Good generic advice for ESFPs however 😊

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Yeah we can do very hard things, but not the ℹ possible ok , it has to stay in sync whit our values also , and seen they are high ….. it is even more difficult , what is more I am overthinking , happy ? ……. What does it means anyway being happy, this whole planet is unhappy ! Happy for you, you are happy ❤ 7:02

11:03 why should I do that?

WHAT IF ALL THAD IS NOT ENOUGH? 13:13

do you believe that an infj can become a programmer?

Wenzes. 🥰

I love a lot of what you make, but this episode is just a lot of talk. What kind of habits are you talking about? Sounds like wool

Thank you ❤ ❤Thank you Thank you ❤