Things I've learned from dating older (rich) men 

Keep doing you and I know you're going to get everything that's coming to you.

love you😘

I understand you just try to have your best life but if you don't care like you said in the video why feel the need to tell us you'll do you no matter what? Obv you do you no matter what

Can i ask why it is bad to let men you are seeing know your parents weren’t perfect and treated you badly when you were younger? Is it because it shows you didn’t have a good support system growing up or something?

did not watch the video but I am a Man on the grind. When i look for wifey material , having a healthy relationship with both parents would signify a healthy support system yes , and also less likely to be going through negative behavior patterns associated with trauma. If you worked on yourself like I have , it should be obvious that you are cable of having a secure attachment which is the foundation of a healthy relationship that can last. Hope you have a great group of people around you now! Change is possible / its inevitable actually in nature @@schoolworkaccount3887

I am 43 years old. The oldest guy I ever dated was only 3 years older than me. And that was boyfriend number 1.

Which is why she’s getting money from them now

@@Babezilla yeah wish my life came down to leveraging my sexuality to extract resources from other people via meaningless relationships… Where have I head that before?

she is trash creating more trash

GOOGLE salma hayek

Broke men who can't attract the women they want are always trying to find some way to insist that these women are escorts when they're with other men.

bahahahaha

Yes cause every younger woman who dates older men are all escorts. You need to get your head examined.

No, she's a gold digger, not an escort.

no, they should just be played by broke guys who don't want to commit.

Is her fault for choosing rich man who has more options ,and clearly you see a problem with man choosing younger vvomen but you don’t see a problem with the vvoman choosing to be with older vvomen, 🤣 keep playing games until the wall comes ,hopefully before mister Right 🤣

FR bestie

There is nothing at all about love in her story, it's purely transactional. The men know it, she knows it, she's just a highly paid prostitute providing the "girlfriend experience". All the rest is just rationalization.

who wouldn't want to date woman 20 years younger than him? it's normal

Why are women always shaming men’s dating preferences? Meanwhile, women want a 6’3 guy, earns 6 figures, is in good shape, and is usually older than her. Wtf!? Where’s the logic?

😂😂😂

Just pump and dump material......

@@dotcom2528 You can't be more accurate, mate. 😂

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In which Dostoyevski's book is that quote and what is the context?

@@clau_5923 Raskolnikov said to Sonya in "Crime and punishment." Page 65 in Russian translation.

Based

​@@ilonaniinemae4735 yeah it's all over pinterest

Of course that assumes one actually wants a relationship as opposed to squeezing as much in exchange for access as one possibly can. That is a very specific kind of game by definition.

With the ability to play this game with men and then report to RU-vid your results, I don’t think real true relationships are happening any time soon.

Good question. I think never. Women and men have been doing this since day one on this planet. And will continue to do it. There are exceptions who don't do this, but they are so, sooo rare. Although, this game is mostly played by women, men have a tendency to be more straight forward and know what they want. Men are a lot simpler than women. Women on the other hand.... Well, that's a different story.

When women do it first

Women don’t deal in love and respect my friend. They only care about what resources you can provide to them and/or the social status you can elevate them to.

This ☝️

Exactly! I never had to worry what my partner thinks of my family to respect us… He just respects us in spite of our issues! No need for games with a good man.

I am gonna repeat that a 100 times over. DONT DATE A NARCISSIST.

​@@ritikasingh9555 and dont date gold digger

So every singel man she date is a bad guy but she is the angel one and the perfect one . I think she the one who is narcissist who always blame other .

Nothing wrong with that.

Wait…they’re trash and SHE is the problem in your opinion? Could you get more misogynistic? 😂

Calling her and escort is way too harsh.

How about date guys you're attracted to then? yall are disgusting having some old guy all over you just because he's rich.

@@dragorn3212 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

It means he is attracted to young women just like everyone else....it is very common.

They are very insecure and leftovers for a reason. Your comment is proving her point

This is "Pure Gold!" because we're men, ain't we?

The whole Red Pill GANG IS SWARMING IN ON DIS ONE

yeah, experience literally fades away. it's not even about relationships -- it's about TRUE fulfillment and meaning. i guess, to be fair, her personality (the context of this situation) is attuned to experiences. giving her long term relationships will be like trying to fit a ballerina's shoe on an ugly giant ocre foot. she will always get bored. so at least she's self aware :)

"Me, me, me, me" sounds like the man.

there's a particular kind of older men who date 23-year-olds.

Yes. She is a toxic, insecure narcissist who is projecting like hell.

@@deleted01yup it’s called successful men lmfao

@@duckyh9712Successful men marry young and have one long-lasting marriage with a loving wife.

@@deleted01 damn you right

I think most rich mean see this sort of thing as a business transaction.

@@leagueofotters2774 ... i am idealistic and traumatized so its hard for me to swallow that females doesnt know love they only know lust and transactional relationships.

@@leagueofotters2774 Obviously. I'm not a rich man, but I can easily see myself having sex with hot young girls if I were single and had gobs of money to spend on some fun time. I'd be happy to call it "dating" if it makes the girls more eager to please. And if one of these girls pays for her own shit in an effort to make me see her as wife material I'd give her a pat on the back for being such a good girl, but I still wouldn't marry her. Just as the men she "dated" didn't marry her. Why on Earth would they? This girl truly doesn't have a clue, and is in for a rough awakening just a couple of years from now when the well of billionaire "boyfriends" mysteriously dries up.

@@leagueofotters2774 Only she thinks she ever was dating them.

The truth is, men have the ability to give their love to a woman. Women, I want to be careful to say this, do not have this capacity. I’m sorry to say.

She said she was joking

@@coreykleinman7902 OK, she's a funny escort.

well it's not that bad :-)

P R E A C H

That did not translate well at all . . .

@@bookernoel6471 is RU-vid translating incorrectly or what? try google translation

@@bookernoel6471If you're confused about the last sentence, "hang noodles onto someone's ears" is a russian saying, which means "to lie, to mislead"

I second that.

I know, I had to slow it down to .50x

She passed that test. But she must not have passed other tests.

Her point is that he’s the one that started the test whether she’ll go crazy with his card or not.

Are the men complaining?

Facts 💯 elderly grumpy males date women for their youth and young woman date elderly males for money. It's a transactional relationship. It's sounds like she is playing games without anything in return. And the way she is saying she is mature, makes me wonder who many grumpy granny groomed her 😅

I don’t know about that exactly. I dated a 46 yr old when I was 25 and he got pretty upset because he thought I was embarrassed to show him to my roommates and that was not the case at all. He accused me of not wanting to be seen with him because he’s older and refused to speak to me again. I think it showed how deeply insecure he was about his age

The most successful men are the most insecure especially if they are a narcissist. What drives them to succeed is the insecurity of being not enough ( this is what they subconsciously think about themselves). So they go around overachieving to prove to everyone they are the best . The reason they date young and good looking women is to get validation from other men. Also young women are more impressionable. More likely to dismiss mental health issues and personality disorders as long as they are getting material stuff. Older women can afford a lot of these things themselves and also have experience with insecure men so can judge the character much better. They are far more difficult to manipulate. The main point is that these men overestimate their intelligence. I dated insecure neurosurgeon and a theoretical physicist. Both were brainwashed with marxist communist political ideology ( through their phd programs) and completely ignorant about politics which were so obvious to me coming from a former communist and war thorn country. Insecure rich men are actually very easy to manipulate because they suffer from pride and self importance

@@Amoore1991 You didn’t mention if he was wealthy or not because that’s the topic here, older and wealthy. I will give you girls some pointers though. The men with the expensive cars and the bling, they are usually the insecure ones (which ironically is what a lot of you go for). And honestly speaking most of those men are not really wealthy. Owning expensive things or businesses on credit is not genuine wealth. In fact if he uses a credit card instead of a debit card to pay for things that’s a big red flag. I am very discreet and private, I don’t drive a fancy car. I have nothing to prove to anyone and don’t need validation from anyone. My money is spent mainly on travel, comfort, my hobbies, and new experiences. I don’t use social media either. The young women I choose to share these experiences with respect this. You can’t choose badly then group us all together.

I half agree with you. I think it’s a generalization. Some are in fact insecure and some may have insecurities like a lot of people. I would have definitely used his card and thanked him for taking care of me 🥰

Young girls think everyone is insecure.

Thank you for highlighting this 😂

You forgot insecure

No. Narc is used when a poorly behaving man treats a woman in an insidious way

The proper term is Narcissist Personality Disorder and, and this is in cluster B, which can possibly be dangerous.

They have a host of buzzwords when someone dumps them: "insecure", "toxic", "narcissist", "miso*ynist", and about a half-dozen others that allow them to avoid any kind of accountability or self-examination. After all, why should she evaluate herself when she can just call people names like a toddler?

there are also the ones who look at you as a wife if you're emotionally mature and else only as a girlfriend

That girl for fun

And there are those who look at women willing to sell themselves to the highest bidder as exactly what they are.

it's a quotation from sex and the city though

Nobody but simps will look at her as a potential wife if she made herself a sugarbaby. The moment she made money a requirement she turned herself into that kind of woman.

Is the man toxic? This is his preference so he's not a victim. The men in these relationships are getting what they want.

@@natashadickson4819 your right. Problem is she is too but shes making the guy out to seem like the bad guy. Zero type of accountability

Women with an education used to be extremely interesting.

Riiiight . . . and how many of your "relationships" have been based on anything more than how much you want to shell out? I mean in reality, not in your imagination. Or does "respect" simply mean a modicum of acting ability?

I notice you don't mention mutual respect or respecting her back. No amount of money is worth a lack of respect. Younger men, rich or not, are underrated.

@@WynneL i agree :) i am a young woman who loves a young man :D

I had a rich manipulative man

It’s either his way or no way

Have you watched the freaking video?

@@ShanaJahsintaWalters You got me I am Raymond Charles and I have not watched the video due to me being blind. I should now remove this comment because I have no clue what I am talking about!

@@texas5009 You are absolutely right.

they are dating her for a reason too. y would you even look at someone half your age in the first place?

@@RM-gq5jv Exactly.

yep :)

Not true

Disagree. I use to think I was flexible enough to form a relationship with anyone. That any problem could be worked out. After a relationship with a narcissist though, I learned that I was very wrong. Some people are so toxic that you have to leave them. Will never do that again.

@@JaimeWarlock you attracted that "toxic narcissist" in the first place

@@jamestucker4800 No doubt I did. The universe was teaching me a lesson, but because I had co-dependency issues, not because I was a narcissist. I have a wonderful partner now.

Wow😮❤🥰😍

So he was 58 and you werre 27 when you married.

😮almost double your age

@@franziskani She married the money.

​@@nastyaswanmindyou learned real worth yet? Because you dont have it.

Or a liar.

Or a sociopath.

Or an escort.

these kinds of women think that you constantly need to play tricks to run a relationship.

I don’t date married men.

​@@nastyaswanmindsoul ties ( energy cords ) by sex. All men woman slept are living forever rent free in her head and body. It is easy visible in case of man woman lost virginity with. All best.

​@@nastyaswanmind Well dammit it's time you start!!

@@rockhero2274 Oh no, she wants the kind of true love that only an unmarried billionaire can provide! Just call a hooker a hooker and be done with it. Just don't try to fool yourself, you surely aren't fooling anyone else.

Cierto, y me gustaría escuchar la historia desde la perspectiva de los hombres.

​@wilimliao1666 It seems to me she tells on herself repeatedly, as it is. She claims has only "dated" old billionaires. Do you believe they all were and that they were actually "dating" her?

actually a coin had 3 sides

Why would an aspect of coin would be valid for a different thing: story? "Every dice has 6 sides. Every story has 6 versions." By your reasoning, the 2nd should be true as well. & if the coin is irrelevant, then why use it?

Coming from a woman. Very valuable.

Crazy or not, it's been her reality so far and I assume she is not the only one with this specific type of experience....🤷🏼‍♀️

If you are a woman. Do you think this this is like a psychopath mentality or it's just a situationship? @@stellar.2385

Where is the manipulation?

@@ShanaJahsintaWalters Refusing gifts so that she doesn't appear to be a gold digger so that she can form a long-term relationship with these men in order to be a gold-digger long term? That's definitely manipulation.

@@ReformedAgnostic What language are you speaking to m right now?

Glad it was helpful!

"Dating" or being a sugar baby/prostitute like this one? If all you're after is the money, then the answer is pretty clear. No doubt value is provided, but may as well call a spade a spade.

Nope, not at all. Didn't you get the part where she only "dates" rich guys? One has to be able to afford a high-class hooker, after all.

She looks like she is in her twenties. I thought she was 25.

@@The-Oneness11 that's you! I thought she was 33. She looks older to ME. European women in general age fast....

Her makeup and dress make her look more mature. She also carries herself maturely. This comment seems a little rude. Can we just appreciate her sharing her experiences and knowledge?

@@user-fg3sm9db3j I have tons of pictures of myself in mature dress and makeup at 23 when I was a professional student. I still am, I'm not much older than her. I look back at my pictures and I look like a BABY. Her makeup is not what's aging her. I'm just stating an observation, not trying to be rude.

@@user-fg3sm9db3j it has nothing to do with her makeup and I cannot even see what she has on. Bye.

She doesn't have a heart, only a calculator. Or perhaps a cash app.

Girls don’t think like we do. They have a mentality of being expecting help. They’ll flex their man. Or dad’s money although it isn’t theirs. A man can’t do that without feeling like a moron.

She’s meeting these wealthy men on certain sites. And it is a game. Thank the internet for making this all possible.

Thank you so much!!

exactly

Her "type" is rich men who can give her the lifestyle she seeks. Their "type" is a sexy young body to have sex with. It's a match made in heaven.

А мне наоборот понравилось, и достаточно легко воспринимается, и английский улучшается 😊

Are the men looking for love? Are they victims?

You know, I felt a little bad hearing of these girls dating well off men who provides for them, while I’ve only had the opportunity to date poor men, but you have a point…

@@J-in-Japan dont feel bad! its so valuable to truly love a man, who will love you for long beyond your beauty, and will want to provide for you for the rest of your life as long as you are his motivation to keep going :)

@@onemillionpercent That’s true, and encouraging! 👍🏽 I do believe they can’t provide if they don’t have money though. The most recent person I’ve been involved with has a flip phone and shoes from the early 2000s. I asked him why a flip phone and he said he doesn’t want to risk losing an expensive phone. I always pay my end of the bill and he drinks my beer and water. Maybe we’re friends. 🤷🏽‍♀️😅😭

Proud? For what? Is a short-lived career as a luxury escort something admirable these days? What does she achieve by selling her young body to wealthy old men? It's not like she tells you how she got married to one of them. Because she didn't. They all have another silly young girl in their bed right now.

Narcissist is a term to cover all a holes.

If you don't comply you are either that or insecure. It is just noise, really forget it.

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Most women billionaires got their wealth from divorce etc.

Correction becoming one, on your own, not as a result of marriage, is an accomplishment.

Yep, would be interested to hear the experiences of dating a man that makes less than 6 figures

She said she was joking about the billionaire part

i hope not , not trying to be any girls atm unless she's going to be my prostitute or sex slave. Either way i'm holding out for a woman who is capable of loving me and not primarily loving what i can do for her. First thirty secs of the video gave so many red flags with her The gold digger energy is strong. Not old or rich yet lol but when that happens these women are being put in the category of fuck only/ no commitment so at least we can have some fun!

Comment of the day.

Yep

“Too quickly” is how we say it.