It’s cool to victimize yourself for 15 minutes of fame now. I saw a video of a girl scream at a guy in the gym because he walked up to her and asked her a question and she claimed he was harassing her… hundreds of people were praising her and telling her how brave she was lol.
@humandxp Be an adult and stop blaming your problems on others. You're just pathetic. You're question doesn't deserve an answer because it's nonsensical and not actually phrased as a question anyway, but if you want to keep playing the victim go ahead. You're no different than "those women".
lmaooo, Aba and Preach are grown ass men who make a living perpetuating childish drama on youtube.... like, this channel isn't really known for standards.
I knew a girl like this ..an old classmate who pushed her way in my life , my friends couldn't stand her..she had so many problems and drama in her life that she creates herself it's actually insane ...an emotional vampire ..Always sad and depressed ...should've been a red flag but still I pitied her ..she played the victim role so well I actually felt sorry for her ..moving forward found out she was talking shit about me behind my back ..pulled myself out ..didn't argue ..didn't confront her ..and just cut her off ..she went nuts ..started making up stories about me and tried to slander me ..harassed me with messages about how horrible I was and poor her ..the victim...didn't even react to her ..low life ..has no self respect let alone others .. a lesson well learned
I tend to avoid drama, and people the generate it like the plague… growing up drama was a BIG issue in my family as well. Wears you down, saps energy, and in general just hurts you and others.
Yeah same though with me it's purely by accident. Sometimes I just feel the need to be alone with my thoughts and sometimes something happens in my family or friends groups. I once missed a messy break up and have the girl in the relationship rebound super quick.
Social Media didn’t create this behavior. It magnified it. If it weren’t for the internet, no one would pay a penny to listen Danny, his friends and many other goofs on here. But you guys are awesome! Stay Real.
Social media didn't create this behavior which is true . But before social media people that were acting like that were just in small little pockets . And people looked at them like they were weirdos with physiological problems. Before social media most people were not acting like this
Accurate. These types of people always existed. The internet just didn't give them a voice. Now it does. And the internet can bring a LOT of money and opportunities. And opportunists with no morals take advantage of it.
That's why I keep my receipts from my ex. Told me she was sexually abused in her last relationship, after I broke up with her crazy ass I talked to her ex and come to find out she sure wasn't, she was actually the one who did the abusing not to mention the gaslighting shit, of which she did the same to me. I'll never forget how fucking weird it was to bond and cry with a dude u thought abused your ex after your ex abused you. Some real Gone Girl type shit. KEEP YO RECEIPTS!
Bro my ex best me to I have her confessing saying she only did because she thought I was cheating I always save texts or anything if any girl wants to say I did stuff when I didn’t trust no one bro
Its weird to me that someone would insist "no men/women would make up accusations because WE KNOW what it's like to get assaulted/falsely accused" because it falsely presumes everyone has the same experience and level of integrity.
It's way dumber than that. People who survived those experiences already know that anyone is a risk. In fact, chances are, the people who hurt them was someone they knew and trusted. Someone they empathized with. Someone they were comfortable enough with to be taken advantage by. Someone who probably was hurt in a similar way.
@@cleanmikeandtheboys3165 Exactly, I trust no one's word. People are assholes. They lie, they use you, they don't care if you're a kid or a good person or willing; and after they've destroyed your innocence, they throw you away. Until trust is built over time with someone I always assume people are feeding me half truths or straight bullshit. Even then I'm still skeptical. That goes even more so for blood relatives, 90% of kids who are abused are abused by family or someone close to them. I know I was.(and I'm not saying that for sympathy, I don't want pity. I'm no victim, I survived, I overcame and am blessed with an amazing husband and kids.) I'm saying it because I have personal experience unfortunately and this whole "believe all women/believe all men" movement has been harmful. Not only to actual survivors, but to the people falsely accused and their circles, like a ripple effect. It emboldens bad people who already have massive issues to lie for attention.
Yep. To believe that any group of people would never lie about allegations would mean we need to believe that group of people is inherently incapable of lying. And that's bullshit. All men and women are capable of lying about anything.
Perfect example - juicy smollet. I will say, the first time I encountered a pathological liar, it was shocking. I had just never met someone who lied so much for no reason.
Strong boundaries are a foundation for a good friendship. I like how Aba and Preach are still in denial of what they are to each other, because of the disagreement with the label "friends". You respect each other, you never shit talk behind the back of each other(well sometimes you do but just for the sake of comedy and directly in the face :D), you never expose personal info of one another, and you are always trying to understand the opposite perspective, despite the differences in your views. And you saying business comes first, while you reschedule your recording when someone is traveling and having their "own thing". Call me crazy but that sounds like friendship with strong boundaries to me :'D
Yeah, I mean I think they've said that the videos they do is just a small percentage of their day but just because you dont see someone a lot doesn't mean you're not friends.
I thought this was so weird growing up. “Why would someone lie about being a victim?” Regrettably as a current adult I am skeptical of EVERYONE. Even my own family or friends I’ve known for 10 yrs. Its a sad state of affairs. 🥺
Being a victim gets you pity. The odd thing is people went from not wanting pity to craving it. It's like they want to be held and told things are going to be alright. I don't know if it's because that's all they've known their whole life (bull dozer parents) or because they had parents that were never around, or some other reason. It seems to be reaching a breaking point though where there will be so many people that believe they are victims, that we will soon have the majority of people believing they aren't responsible for their own lives.
@@wolfpack4128 It is called emotional neglect and psychologists are finding out that it can be as bad as physical neglect and abuse (something I always knew was wrong, but oh well no one wants to listen to the Autistic person). 🤔🤷 Emotional neglect from family, especially from parents is causing this.
Sometimes, I think people are more willing to lie to become a victim than actual victims are willing to come forward. Lying about victimhood can get you a lot of sympathy and compassion without much emotional capital being invested. But when an actual victim wants to come forward, he/she has to deal with feelings of shame, powerlessness, etc. Personally, I very rarely discuss my history with people because being pitied makes me feel bad all over again. A person who had never had my experiences wouldn't understand those feelings, and thereby not have that emotional impediment to talk about it.
No not sometimes most of the time hench why people end up being skeptical of people who then accuse them of victim blaming. When theres no evidence, and no formal legal complaint but a accusation on the internet detailing whole entire scenarios. If your reporting a crime the first place to go no matter how long after isnt youtube or twitter e.t.c.
@@no_player_commentary I think it all depends on the scenario, there’s no way any significant action would have been taken after Epstein if the victims didn’t come forward and were platform. In fact I believe victims should always take it to social media, especially with how easy it is to manipulate the justice system and how police disregard something’s because it isn’t a problem until someone has died. Of course along with that comes people that lie but that’s more a critique on the person themself rather than the instance.
This is very true. What I've also observed in my 50 plus years is. These same not only love drama. They start drama. I stay away from them. Cancel culture reek of these types.
I've been following Aba & Preach ever since 2017, it's been an amazing ride watching them grow, and I can definitely say they haven't changed a bit. They have integrity.
Sooo... to know that soldiers who've seen action often get PTSD, you need to be in the military? To know that a bullet to the head will kill a person, you need to have shot someone? To know that people were killed in Soviet gulacks you need to be Stalin? To know that there are innocent people sitting in prison for false accusations you need to have made one to get someone incarserated? To know that in severe hypothermia you actually feel hot, you must've frozed to death at least once? To know that... well you get the idea...
After working as a security guard and going to court a bunch I've realized how much stuff like this you have to do to keep yourself safe. Sure it might seem weird or not right but its the only way to stay safe. Always record, be mindful of your words and actions there's just so many things I could bring up I don't even know where to start. Just know your rights.
Yeah, nowadays in some places in the US it seems like everyone has to record everything because shit is crazy and they could always be accused of crazy shit.
Bro I met a kid like this in college a few months ago - Dude was friendly, but had no respect for boundaries (physical and morally). He also liked to third wheel relationships and try to spit game to the girlfriend when the guy wasn’t around. My friends avoided him for a time, and one day he stalked us to a restaurant that he wasn’t invited to. When he got to the place, I took him outside and explained that people have been avoiding him because he doesn’t respect boundaries. So the guy chose to leave cuz he felt the situation was awkward. Later that night, he texted me that he wanted to “meet alone” to “talk about this”. I didn’t respond because 1, that’s real sus that you only wanna meet with me when the whole group doesn’t like you, and 2, I wanted to give him time to process his feelings. Two hours later he sends me another text saying: “God at least don’t treat me like a fucking loser”, and I didn’t reply again because of that total 180 in his personality. After that, he started telling friends of mine he barely knew that I humiliated him in front of the entire restaurant and even “kicked him out of the restaurant”. Dude also went after other people in the group - he started hanging out with a girl my friend liked and tried to warn her that the guy who liked her was “bad news”. Nowadays he hops from group to group to try to fit in, but everyone gets tired of him eventually, and he talks shit about the previous group to his new one. His college experience is likely gonna be a lonely one at this rate. But this story reminded me of him. I think he made himself look like such a victim for clout, because he’s also constantly makes fun of an autistic kid, and keeps looking around while doing it for attention and validation. This guy seems like the same - ruining reputations and making himself look like a victim for clout.
@@thefruityking6722 I didn’t even wanna ghost him. I wanted to give him time to work out his feelings. I only stopped talking to him once he started lying about me for sympathy clout
Back in HS some gay guy on the cheer team was catfishing other guys into sending him dic pics. He would make a fake instagram account pretending to be a girl and would message a bunch a guys from school. People caught on and found out it was him and he would threaten to send the photos to others if they snitched on him. He tried to say that he was getting back at all the people who made fun of him for being gay but in reality no one cared that he was gay ppl just ignored him. He got into alot of trouble and tried to make it about him being bullied for being gay.
Scummy scummy behavior. Two faced motherfuckers out here, was friends some people like that too but not quite the same degree. Ignored her and his bitch boy of a best friend
After almost a year of no contact, due to a security check in I had to log into an old email. My ex(who was diagnosed with BPD) sent me several messages. Among those a 25 minute audio message where she "forgives me even though I don't deserve forgiveness" followed up by several "please talk to me". Not once did she apologize for all the abuse she caused me. Anyway, I checked her website and even though she doesn't have a degree in psychology she has positioned herself as a Psychologist. I know for a fact she doesn't have any formal education nor certifications for this, which I find a bit dangerous. Before we broke up, I was asking her to seek a therapist, a year later she is a Psychologist herself, insane!
That shit is illegal and if someone she's "giving advice" to, hatms someone, that's gonna bite her in the butt. It's a form of medical care, and you have to have certification from the State. She is literally committing malpractice and fraud. She needs to be reported asap!
I am on the start up my self and i can say. This game is for the strong and you need to love what you do. Content creation allowed me to speak my mind when nobody wanted to hear my thoughts outside. Relieves stress for me because i am focused on something *( can be stressful though) You may work on a video for 30min and get thousands of views, then work on one for 10 hours and get 5.... literally 5, but don't let that get to you. You keep going until something pops and if it doesn't you can walk away saying you tried, or keep fighting until the day comes. Great video as always, you guys inspired me to keep it moving when times are tough so Ty my G's Happy Holidays !!
It’s obvious victims profit. Look at history. Now people trying turn themselves into victims is fake. Call them out when you see. But there’s levels to victims and then levels to victim shaming. Then there’s levels to victim shaming to the point where you actually make them a victim from shaming them and trashing them to nothing when you were only suppose to call them out. That shit is deep be careful.
@@thadjon3s most of cancel culture is like that. Especially untrue allegations. Bein a victim is like getting people to rally behind you, it's feeling like you're being pitied and validated, that's good for actually victims of sh*t but backfires as hell when it's false. False allegations just suck for everybody. It hurts the person being accused (especially if they work in entertainment where image is everything) and then once the truth is revealed the masses is gonna go chew the ass of the "victims". It's mind blowing how some people would start the cancel mobs for known content creators and the like for just a tiny bit of attention. Trust me if allegations are there you better set out your receipts, real and quick cause the truth will always come out on the internet.
@@justapassingbycommenterrem5642 the receipts don’t matter. Just proving someone wrong and going into a pointing out match is a waste of time. Then there’s the review that Aba and Preach are doing it’s like what are we gaining by highlighting it. When someone throws false allegations it’s best to ignore them altogether. It’s like arguing with a three year old. Immature and unintelligent.
@@thadjon3s unfortunately cause of social media just ignoring them is pretty hard to do, I mean what uf they're spreading that sh*t on Twitter or somethin you gotta address that right?
Its so sad that as a society this is what we've come to. This type of shit doesn't just happen on youtube. Anyone nowadays is willing to stab their "friends" in the back for any reason, and they'll do anything for clout. The people that are most outgoing and easiest to run into are narcissists that just want more for themselves. I don't know how many times in my life people have tried pulling toxic shit like that on me, its why I stick to my self nowadays. I just wish there was a way to get rid of this behavior entirely.
That's bullshit. The world is full of users and opportunist who see people who are kind and giving as naive and an easy target for them to manipulate. There are also are very few who see the true value in friendship or even have an any idea what love is. Sorry but that's why I said to myself too because I can't find real people who don't have some sort of agenda. I am sure there are others like myself but we're probably all doing the same thing and hiding and isolating because we don't want to go through that again.
We've had over a decade of elimination reality TV shows hypernormalizing backstabbing. Survivor, Big Bother, etc. It's sad how many people remind me of contestants on those shows.
@@zulidant3681 you attract the energy you PUT OUT, narcissists and manipulators prey upon this, hence the change to isolation. You are saying solving the problem would be to just not show emotion? narcissists dont flock to narcissists, they flock to good people that'll help them. Your take sounded smart but has no actual merit to it, it just isn't that simple. Merry christmas if you celebrate it, and this wasn't meant to be smartass, but to give perspective
It’s so sick that people think the idea of being a victim of ANYTHING is some type of instance ladder climb when real victims have to deal with trauma the whole nine and people like this make it a hype train
I am really surprised that you guys were not very close when you started. You give me long term friendship vibes. You get along too well almost like me & my childhood friend.
Much love to you guys! I’m in the process of getting out of homelessness that happened after the virus hit.. Your videos help push me through thank you 🙏
You got this fam! I was homeless in LA for two years while also working at Apple as a genius. You got this. I recommend snagging a cheap hammock if you can get one. Sleeping off the ground will help you stay warm, comfortable, and away from bugs, etc. hope you can get “back on your feet”, friend. 🙏
just like the people who hide behind "i'm just being honest" as an excuse to be horrible to others. you can be honest and not an asshole at the same time. it's a choice
I've heard a lot of people who've done very horrendous things say what you did... word for word. To them Asshole = anything that contains the verifiable facts of my actions Nice = anything that hides the verifiable facts of my actions
@@raymondjames57 this is why I take "you're an asshole" as a compliment. People love to assume feelings behind something based on their own feelings. I know when I'm being an "asshole" or "petty" compared to when I'm being a douchebag. If people bothered to get to know me (which does require intelligence and maturity so not many people see past my shell) they'd know the difference.
I once “exposed” someone I had worked with in college. He was pitching 50 when I was 19 and he groomed me for years. I emailed the college detailing my experiences, my own bad decisions as well as his. The boiled down point was a non consensual first time. They wanted me to fight in court. I never wanted that, I was just angry and afraid he’d do it to another student. I thought he was my friend. Just a dumb young adult was what was left over. I think he still works there which is fine because I feel no connection to the college I went to besides the student loans that follow me. I remember trusting him because all his coworkers/family held in high regards. Turns out inner him was a dirty old man. I was angry At myself for a long time and I still can’t tell if I regret telling the college or not.
7:06 Just imagining a grown ass man attempting to eat cereal quietly outside, and getting beat for making a single crunch is pretty hilarious. Good torture method Danny. 💀
There are men and women in prison because of lies. There are people who's lives were destroyed because of lies. There are people who commit suicide because of lies. I have zero respect for liars, and this whole internet culture of 'starting beef' and 'clowning on X' type of shit, either with paid actors or people who don't want to be part of the 'joke', makes me fucking sick. I don't condone violence, but I've been lied to before and it makes me so angry when I see people lie so easily for clout. good vid as always A&P
Whenever someone says crap about someone, I'm incredibly careful about believing it. Even if the information is coming from a person I know and I believe them to be a good person, even a good person will do shitty things sometimes, especially if they're following the lead of their family and/or friends. I've been lied about before and I just don't want anyone to go through what I did.
it's difficult to take you serious because you're putting this comment in an Aba and Preach video... grown ass men who make 10min videos sensationalizing and perpetuating other people's drama. Real hypocritical, and you sound very brainwashed.
Whenever someone says "I have no filter", I immediately lose a certain amount of respect for them and give them a wider birth. Having "no filter" is NOT something to be proud of.
It means i have maturity of 6 years old kid. Thats all. Interesting things is they do have filter when they have something to lose. Than they thread lightly. I never witnessed those persons lose their filter when talking to their boss. Hypocrisy is the name of that game.
The only people who have no filter whom I completely understand are my kindergarten students. But if you’re an adult, you need the maturity to have that filter. If you’re an adult, having a filter doesn’t mean you’re honest, it means you’re immature.
This is why I respect these guys so much. So humble to the fact that they don't care about the subscribers they get and about to hit 2 million. But I want yall to hit 2 million tho cause yall deserve that. They channel is just too good.
That's why I stay neutral and skeptical when allegations come out without a shred of evidence to back them up... it's "innocent until proven guilty" for a reason in the court of law... too many people look to jump to believe the first story they hear and in the process someone's reputation can be totally trashed even if the allegations are proven to be false... this shit is dangerous
If you find yourself surrounded by people who's existence revolves around being victims, REFUSE TO BE A VICTIM! Instead be a Man or Woman, strong and indomitable!
I think it has something to do with the lack of real empathy in this day and age you can only get sympathy or kindness if your a victim of whatever so now everyone wants to be a victim
That situation is crazy, glad Danny had the receipts though. This is also the earliest I’ve ever been to one of your videos in the 3-4 years I’ve watched.
One thing people need to start doing is vetting things. People hear something and instantly go "oh shit... it's on the internet so I have to believe it". All the stupid shit like this could be prevented if they spent some hours looking into it. P.S. editor loved the bit at 5:54 when you kept zooming in on aba when he whispered. Got me to chuckle pretty good.
Most people can't even search something simple into google properly, and you want them to do hours of proper research? You're basically asking for peace in the middle east. It's simply not in the cards.
Ha if only. The biggest reason why the world is in the shape it's in right now is because NOBODY does their own research. If they did our political discussions wouldn't be the disaster that they are.
1st YTuber ever to hit 1M sub is Fred. A lot of people were not happy about that back then. Dude even got picked up by Nickolodeon! So I don't know about your claim there.
@@melitajay To further support your point, we can go towards Bob Saget era AFV. Guaranteed winners were laughing babies! It was ALWAYS babies winning first prize!
Yeah....You have to be careful around everyone. At one job I was standing around talking to one of the new hires. She was an older lady who had "retired" from the military. I was also in the military so I asked her some questions about what she did, where she was last stationed etc. All normal stuff when people find out someone else is also a veteran. Anyway, she tells me the unit she retired from and I said oh I know a bunch of people there. Some of them used to be in my unit before they transferred. I will have to tell them that I work with you the next time I talk to any of them. She became nervous and shut down. I didn't think anything of it or that she was nervous because why would I? A few hours later the supervisor calls me into the office saying that woman had claimed I threatened her with making up stories to the people she used to work with. He told me he had to do a hostile workplace investigation. She said she felt threatened and unsafe. I lost it. I immediately went on a verbal assault on the supervisor. I said you want to see a hostile work environment? Go ahead and pursue this with just her word. I have been working here for 4 years and working with numerous females and not one of them has ever filed a complaint against me. I said in fact, if I wanted to I could file sexual harassment charges against at least 4 of them. One for yanking me into a side hall and grinding up against me, another for grabbing my ass, another when sitting next to me rubbing my leg, and another when we were on the road and I made sure she got back into her hotel room and in bed because she was drunk, she grabbed mywaistband and had fingers inside the waistband and tried to yank me into bed. I said I didn't care because it happened and we moved on. He gave me this look and I said uh NM...moving on. I didn't think before I blurted that out because I was postal mad. I told him go ahead and take this further than just you talking to me and then you going back to her with what I told you and see what happens. They interviewed others including someone who was standing about 3 feet away and none of them could corroborate her story. I told them I will never work with her again and they need to find a new place for her because I have seniority so I am not changing. She ended up getting moved to another shift. About 4-5 months later I talked to some of the people she used to work with. I find out that she was forced to retire because she was caught banging a lowly Airman and she was a Major. Not only did she break the law of the USMCJ but she also did it in her office on her desk and someone walked in and caught them. The guy got the worse end of the deal because he was also booted out but he was not able to retire due to only having a few years in. And he didn't even get to keep up getting laid after he was discharged. Her hubbie found out and he forgave her (the fool) but kept a close watch on her. So he was discharged and all he got was laid less than 10 times :( So now I know why she panicked when I said I knew people she worked with and would tell them I worked with her. She was afraid they would tell me the story...Which they did after I told them how she tried to get me in trouble. We had cameras all over the place but they had no sound so they had to go with both our statements, the statements of the people close to us who said they heard nothing wrong and the body language and actions. After we stopped talking she still stood next to me and could not explain why if she felt so threatened she did not move towards the supervisor standing 10 feet away.
Aaron referring to creating false abuse allegations as "the LA game" further secured my belief that any allegations of abuse from content creators posted on social media are 100% fabricated. I don't care if the individual claims a police report was filed yada yada. The idea that there are people who create these narratives and coach individuals on how to do it and that it's popular enough to be dubbed a nickname is enough for me to ignore those people altogether. I want no party in making a mockery out of being abused for social clout.
I agree. Worse still it trivializes and loses merit for those of us who were actually abused some point in our lives, one way or another. It sickens me too.
Just swinging from one extreme to another like a pendulum 'Any allegations are 100% fake' you sound dumb as hell Some will be fake, some will be real don't be a fool
@@elzzz2000 No. I refuse to be apart of this game y'all wanna play. It sucks being abused and working out of that and then seeing somebody who wants their 15 minutes of fame drum up publicity from making a mockery of what you went through. Online is not where you go to get help. It's where you go to get clout. Go be fake woke on someone else's comment.
When you have millions of people who will act without skepticism, without the ability to restrain their sympathy, actions and reactions until they hear every side of each story, it's a given that the "victim" title becomes a very lucrative position to be in. If you try to question the victim for a better understanding, you are called out for victim blaming and told that your default stance should be to always side with the supposed "victim" lest you're part of the problem. Now, we've created an environment where anyone who first portrays themselves a victim can get support and attention while being shielded from question and criticism. It's obvious that there will be those who will take advantage of it and ruin the lives of others for their own gain. Even if the fake victim is exposed, it's too late. They got the attention and support already and the person they accused has already felt the consequences of being labeled an abuser. -coughJohhnyDeppcough- This is precisely why one should be innocent until proven guilty lest the word of a liar becomes a death sentence.
The fact people need to keep receipts to make sure people don’t just blatantly lie about them is just proof that we as a country are over the whole “innocent until proven guilty” thing. We now treat accusations as “it’s on you to prove otherwise” and it baffles me why this doesn’t concern people more.
@@randypropane262 Exactly… mf’s call me an abuser apologist when I ask for some proof.. innocent till proven guilty works better than to just believe the victim no matter what
If somebody perceive themselves as a nice and funny person then it’s hard to believe. That’s why you need receipts or else people will doubt you. I had people at my school act nice and whenever you hear negative things it’s hard to believe it.
It's not going to stop though. All these dopamine rush, consumer cultures, and the safe environments. We've been spoiled too much, and the profit driven mentalities of corps ain't helping much.
@@ramowick2583 I wish men would be honest too, because there are some shady, nasty men out there too, not just women. Just be real and forward about yourself. Stop wasting peoples' time. ... but I guess in this day and age wasting time is a favorite past-time for most. Really frustrating as a non-disable person, now imagine being someone with disabilities trying to figure out this trash behavior. 😓 That is why I stick to my birds... pigeons and crows never hurt me.
This is actually important. I wish for internet culture to evolve a little more to not take words for true all the time. Public people's lives do get destroyed because of defamation much more often than you think. And the worst part that it's not "haters" who cancel someone's lives and careers, it's passers-by. "Oh, there's someone being a victim, let me jump on to defend". It's a actually a great sign how empathy and caring for people can HURT a lot. Just because there are many people who do shit and crimes and leave without punishment doesn't mean we should forget "innocent before proven guilty". It's just sick...
That kid has anger and disdain written all over his face... in his mind, it's payback for getting dumped. He could have taken a more mature route, instead, he chose to be a low life by trying to destroy someone (Danny). He's a very unfortunate case.
There are always two sides to every story, so you can't be too quick to take sides. Even if people don't always do it consciously, most will edit out the parts that make them look partially at fault.
Its nice to say but lets look at reality in this modern age women and victims side is the only side that matters so were plagued in society by massive miscarriages of justice daily everywhere.
@@OokamiDaBoi1da The internet and entertainment industry makes these things seem like a bigger epidemic than they actually are. In the real world, people are far less dramatic. Gender, race, and political differences don't matter as much as they seem to on the internet. Most people are decent if you treat them decently.
@@leanna3625 id liketo believe except we have these funny things called statistics and laws which paint a different picture. Even if most people are level headed laws and stats show that really doesnt matter.
@@OokamiDaBoi1da As shitty as life can be in general, the world is statistically better than it's ever been, especially if you live an industrialized country that gathers things like stats. It's important to remember every generation that came before us had to face more injustice. We're just better at communicating and measuring the hardships now. Personally, I care more about the people around me and the things that can impact our lives, not ambiguous statistics written up in an article.
I'd like to take a moment to remind folks of the nanny matter from the Casey Anthony trial. How she lied about an made-up woman (attributed Afrochicana descent, I believe. It's like she couldn't pick so chose both, tah) having abducted her child. Whether or not you believe her azz was guilty of murder, she absolutely lied about that point and endangered the innocent and wasted law-enforcement time/resources with her bullschitt. Even the defense had to admit to that much.
I live with 2 people who are "victims". I ask them to clean up multiple times, carry their own shit and when I finally have enough anything reaction I have or say is an attack on them. It's pathetic.
As a non-content creator, I record any conversation that seems to be going sideways. Im always covering my ass. LIke with ex-gfs. Ive had crazy women threaten to 'throw myself into a door and blame you for the black eye', etc. Its generally a good idea. Video's better, but its not always easy to put your phone in a pocket so it can record video.
@@heyjude5027 the problem is, even then the other person can still make an allegation EVEN IF YOU WALK AWAY. I would say: Yes, walk away... While recording or voice recording.
Even like Jussie Smollet it's hard to believe that someone would lie like this. Wow this is becoming the norm. At this point we have to hold all judgement until a full investigation is done before opinions are formed cuz people will do anything to stay relevant. This is sick.
He wasn’t lying tho smh like ur looking at such a small bit of this entire situation bro all arrows point towards Danny being guilty and aba and preach defending Danny might come back to bite them in the ass
This is why I've got to a realization that I gotta stop being so dependant on everyone like needing friends and romantic relationships and just stay to Myself because yeah alotta people like drama like causing some bullshit talking about we gotta be peaceful bring others together yaddi yaddi yadda but when some drama is going down and it's someone getting killed or beat up or whatever everyone so quick to record and post it all on social media like it's a great thing to see
I’m so used to watching you guys, cuz you’re being damn consistent and good quality, that I can’t imagine the day when you go separate ways. *singing the theme song of Neverending Story
TRUTH. I've witnessed people tell outsiders stories with details that didn't happen. I know they didn't cause I was there and observed the event. Yet, they still play the victim, make the other person the bad guy and don't think twice about it. People don't need promise of making money to do it.
"People are addicted to the success". Yalls videos are always on point, but if anyone takes anything away from this one in particular, I really think it's that quote right there
This is the shxt I peeped at a young age that made me very cautious and very cynical when I witnessed people do shxt like this to others. Many talk about their experience with false accusations and etc. themselves. But have you had to watch it being done to someone else? Someone who doesn't deserve it, isn't aware of it or refuses to believe because of the trust they have in a person or group ppl. That shxt shatters your trust more man. Hasn't even happened to yourself yet but you've seen so much of it unfold outside your own life that you become scared to do anything with anyone because most humans are designed to make shxt go left for their own possible benefit
I should've held my conclusion until Danny responded. It's hard to fathom someone bold face lying about a knife threat. But he was a bold face lier. I'm glad Danny recorded and kinda saved his reputation.
Everytime I question allegations like these because it's just talk with no receipts, I get DESTROYED in the comments or on twitter. Peoplr need to start to wake up that "victims" can lie.
I love channels that cut between lines and it’s so obvious. I understand some channels it’s just a thing but it does look weird. Like you can’t say the full thing in one go, it’s literally bit by bit.
I just woke up this morning from a dream where we were back in time, and Aba and Preach were both high schoolers doing the exact same videos, just younger. It was like an episode of a show where they get child actors to be a main character due to some reverse-aging plot.
I’m sitting here in my Mr. Rogers sweater drinking my smoothie, wondering if what’s missing are hugs? Where are these folks not hugged enough or to much and required consistent external stimuli?
ASPD is a serious mental illness not to be thrown around easely. Maybe hes a sociopath and impersonation one because he suffers from another MH condition.
But... you're putting this comment on a Aba and Preach video- grown ass men who make a living perpetuating drama on youtube.... are you brainwashed much?
7:57 That reminds me off the Chris Hardwick situation. So many people celebrated his accusations. Then he came back with the receipts and they all went quiet.
Oh? I'm glad you brought this up! I'll have to check out some coverage of that. I find that sort of thing both intriguing and informative, especially in terms of learning what went right and how folks were able to clear their names, as well as just seeing how blatant some folks can be about deception and the levels they'll stoop to. …Hopefully it'll also help with spotting red flags ahead of time, as well! 😅
@@AhsokaJackson Its crazy because his accuser was so invested in her story, she still believes it, and was on podcasts as recently as a few years ago playing up the victim narrative. Weirdly enough, even before the receipt's, her own story doesn't hold any weight. At WORSE Chris is guilty of having consensual s3x that she didn't want. The rest was superficial, regular bad relationship stuff that she blew up into some trauma.
This is the first time I found out y’all were not friends before you started working together. That’s cool! Y’all vibe very well together. I always look forward to what ever y’all post.
"Why would someone make up an allegation" - For real? Nobody remember girls "telling" on you in Kindergarten when you were playing and the bitch just got annoyed and told the adults that you punched her and fake cried? I remember that shit. And not only girls, boys would do it too but damn, the girls had some oscar level acting skills.
Yeah, honestly, I was sarcastically thinking to myself that the folks who say things like that must never have had siblings, especially younger siblings. XD It's a well-known thing for them to pitch fits and act like you've done something terrible so they can get you in trouble or get their way in disputes. 😅
This might seem like a trip, but stick with me. Prerequisite "Not all women" placed here. Here on youtube, there's a video (BKCHAT LDN: S5 EPISODE 8 - "I Can't Stand A Man Who Earns Less"). @25:04 on that video, a man asks a woman what she would do if her husband gets sick and can't work. She... says some psychopathic stuff. Stuff that if the genders were reversed, all the women would (rightfully) torch a dude alive. But instead, the woman in this case said it... and she got at least three of her fellow women defending her. With stereotypical women, there's a need to defend and protect most things that another woman does because if it's allowed for one, it's allowed for all. If one little girl has the power of making stuff up, all little girls have the power to make stuff up. A real woman stands up and owns her own stuff. That way when she tells the truth, we believe her. But the truth is, not too many people are real ones. Both men and women.
I knew of a handful of girls growing up who knew how “cute” they were and how to turn on the waterworks in front of adults and be absolute brats around just the kids.
It’s obvious you hate women if you call them “bitch”. This video clearly shows that both men and women lie if it’s advantageous to them. It’s a human thing. Not a gender thing.
This entire situation is sufficed by this one verse: Matthew 7:6 -Don’t throw your pearls to pigs! They will trample the pearls, then turn and attack you.
A-friggin-men! Beautiful application of that verse. I've definitely had people I've regretted investing time, energy, and emotional resources into as I've learned more about them and their character (or lack thereof) and dealt with their behavior.
Victimhood carries so much clout in today's society that it's almost natural for people to want to be the victim. When you take a group of people and you put them on a pedestal other people see that they want to be on the pedestal. If society was to put successful people on a pedestal and will kids see that they want to grow up and be successful so they can be on that pedestal society switches over and puts victims on a pedestal when people are just going to want to be victims so they can be on that pedestal. It's not hard to understand.
This is a really excellent point, and one that I'll admit took me way too long to really grasp. I experienced complex, long-term abuse starting from early childhood, and growing up a teenager in the early 2000s, I found ZERO sympathy or pedestals anywhere for it lol so it was hard for me to grasp that people *do* lie, and very well at that. I'm also autistic, so I tend to see life in black and white - "I tell the truth all the time, therefore everyone else must be, as well." I also lived through the age of being asked what *I* did wrong when I tried telling anyone about any of the abuse, so by the time I was 16, I believed it was normal. But, way too long of a comment later, I wanted to thank you for putting it so succinctly. I tend to be a "bleeding heart" but I also can't comprehend why anyone would *want* to lie about it...anyway, excellent point, I'm cutting myself off lol
all part of the plan and it required social media to achieve.. nothing about this is organic, its manufactured and you dont have search to hard to start seeing the proof beneath the surface
It’s crazy how often people should be recording conversations to protect themselves; potentially contentious issues, arguments, pretty much every meeting you ever have at work (speaking from personal experience there). Otherwise, certain life/career altering events end up coming down to ‘he said - she said’ which is *never* going to be in your favour when one half of the conversation is either playing some kind of ‘disadvantage card’ or has the authority in a situation (like a boss, etc). The problem being, you don’t realise this shit is career/life altering until AFTER shit gets ‘altered’ and you get screwed.
Sometimes you just have to. I'd rather contend with hundreds of gigabytes since 2008 than any of that kind of BS. It's tough though.. I recently lowered my guard and got stung bad.. You know you messed up bad when it's obvious that you gave something better thought and wisdom as a teenager with a Nokia N95.
