She Got Ditched At Dinner WITH HIS BILL. Have Online Dating Apps Ruined Dating? 

i did it...4 times I was like "I'm not paying for her"

Nah. I enjoy my life of solitude. If I want the drama of dating apps, I watch the trauma happen to other people so they can post their experiences on RU-vid for me to watch. I treat it like violent video games or violent movies. I am okay the trauma happen to others on a screen rather than living it. I'm like a trauma-cuckhold. I am very unfaithful to it and get my kicks from watching it fuck other people's life up.

Unforgivable!!!😂

Unforgivable! Aba N Preach hopefully if this happened to Yaa.. Plzzz post the girl FACE! We Got yaaa for sure!!!!! If this happened to a man. This could hurt a man heart and could deleting them self for not feeling value in the world!

Could it be possible that girlie is a walking red flag and he said F…… this…… s…..

Lack of community is at heart of a lot of problems

Wish we still had this.

This was true up until the apps. Reputation was everything back then. It wasn’t “cool” to be a player; now F-boy/F-girl; it’s been renamed to be casual but the actions have no honor and there are way too many men and women hating the opposite sex. If rep becomes popular again people will act accordingly. Now everyone is lazy. The #1 reason I hear people say they do OLD is because “It’s easy”. Which is THE WORST thing to do when finding a lifetime partner. Even more so bad that someone will comment and say “ not everyone is looking for marriage or life time partner” completely forgetting that DATING and (a forgotten word) COURTING was for the purpose of MARRIAGE. People have lost value in PEOPLE and CHILDREN (No your pet is NOT your child). It’s all fun and games now and EVERYONE SUFFERS. It’s a lose lose situation. OLD should be banned you can not Amazon love. GO OUT, make friends, bring back house parties make them popular again and find your person.

I think your explanation is on point! There was no way getting away with outrageous behaviour because your social circle was your "checks and balances", and people seemed to have basic decency and a little bit of shame. Nowadays I feel like it's impossible to make someone accountable for their bad behaviour....

Yeah but also gets complicated if you ever break up and start dating another person in that same social circle lol.

I disagree. You can't even get to the communication part when most people are lying before even the first date lol

⁠@@meganod279lying is part of poor communication lmao you’re arguing for no reason

​@@meganod279 Wich would also fall under poor communication

​@meganod279 that is still poor communication

*Modern women

People SUCK.

You deserved better, sorry that happened

I’m going to do this to avenge my fellow males

I meannnnn was u weird? Lol

@@zsazsa4159 No.

If he's a therapist he shoulda known from the profile picture.

I quit Hinge last weekend. My profile: 38 years old, 5'11, in excellent shape, good looking, and good career (PhD, tenured faculty at an elite university). I had no trouble matching with women, but I never found someone of comparable quality. Several doctors and lawyers matched with me, but I never met one of them in person because they all either failed to respond to my initial greeting or just unmatched me summarily for no reason. The sense of entitlement among this group was staggering. Then there are single mothers who want a 'life partner' to help them raise their kids. They don't pitch it that way, but it's the way it would pan out. Thanks but no thanks. Then there are career-orientated women who realise in their mid-to-late 30s that they want a family and are desperate (in many senses of the word) to get pregnant. The last group are women who just want to get laid and/or be showered with attention. I can understand the first impulse, but the second one is to my eyes bizarre. I never matched with anyone on the app. Chasing women is a boys' game and I would wait for women to match with me. You would think that if you took the time to match with someone and they responded in good time (i.e. not immediately but a day or two after), that you'd write back to them. But about 80% of the women I matched with never wrote back to me. 80%! For a time I was convinced these chicks were bots, but my female friends are adamant they're not. They claim they're women who use dating apps to get 'liked' by eligible bachelors simply to make them feel better. That's utterly bonkers, but par for the course in this deranged era of social media.

@@JasonlaroseLaRoseknown what

@@bbailey3055 It helps if you watch the video.

Very true

It just shows how narcissistic they are

What the author said; "The curtains were blue." What you misinterpret; "The curtains represent his immense depression and his lack to carry on." What the author meant; "The curtains were literally the colour blue."

Yeah, i don't know why, but the girl is giving me wierd vibes... There's definitely something she ain't saying about the date, that would be crucial info. Like what was going on before he left?

Maybe she couldn’t stop posting online during the date

If people want to judge this woman for being upset after her date ditched her than that's on them. She might be one of those influencers that vlogs going to get their hair done and baking muffins so maybe she wanted to share it for an online audience she already had and it went viral.

That was so fucking out of pocket 😂😂😂😂 Edit: THE SLOGAN: HAVE YOU BEEN FUCKED BY A FUCK BOY?

Modern problems require modern solutions.

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Capitalism at its finest 🤣🤣🤣

She got treated like a man.

Foodie calls

I agree 100 percent, same experience

Therapist would never EVER be a positive in my eyes haha she played herself

this is one of 2 ways it can go. Which I mean, isn't really new right. Why did they used to call them Quacks? Is it cuz they are speaking a language we don't understand? or does it just not make sense. 👁 😂👁 Stay asleep 🤫

There are three logical fallacies in your argument: 1. The Anecdotal Fallacy: Which is when one draws sweeping conclusions on a broad subject matter using their own personal experiences. Like if I’ve had some bad encounters with therapists, then therapists are bad. “I’ve met a few therapists out there (not as a client), who are all crazy…” implying that all therapists must be crazy because of your anecdotal experiences. 2. The Fallacy Of Composition: which is when you think what's true for the parts is true for the whole. Like if some therapists are bad, then all therapists must be bad. 3. Lost Cause Fallacy: Which occurs when a person incorrectly assumes something causes something without enough proof. “They [The Therapists] get into their profession to learn about themselves (A false assumption/false premise fallacy) that’s how they all become crazy.”

In addition to my previous reply, It’s quite interesting how some women who love to use the fallacy of composition to ostracize groups of men, bawl your eyes out when a man does the same. Quite hypocritical, don’t you think? Say, a guy calls women gold diggers because of his past experiences and you lose your mind over it forgetting that it isn’t any different from this very comment you posted.

😂😂😂

@@mr.anderson4755 Oh.

I love that one man acted like an average woman and it became a whole thing 😂

@@_..-.._..-.._Exactly

@@_..-.._..-.._ Bruh.

Just out of curiosity and I'm just I don't know I guess I'm a loser or something. Where the fuck do you meet people?

​​@@hbsharkmanLibraries, bars, clubs, city centres and other locales - Places that hold potential for socialisation.

@hbsharkman bro just like me 💀

Libraries, that's crazy.

@hbsharkman You can go find places to learn or practice hobbies. I started with dancing, but would also do amateur theatre, go to board game meetings etc. Bars and night clubs are more in line with "hooking up". Also try thing you wouldn't normally do. You would be surprised how many different people you can meet like that.

Oh your def right about dating apps. Women on there are terrible. Ill try my luck at a bar or something. At least there i got a better chance at getting a reply

You have resources for her to extract before, during, and when her team runs you through the women's court system. Your kids will be stripped from you. Your assets will be stripped from you. Your investment will be stripped from you. And your future income will be stripped from you. She knows the end from the beginning. It's her movie and the state, OAG, and judge are there to ensure she is rewarded handsomely and they profit too from Title IV D. 50%+ chance I just described your future. If I told you there was a 50% chance when you stepped outside your house you would be beat to a pulp I bet you would be more cautious than you will about the warning you received all based on facts and stats. Good luck. Your future is all in her hands...

I would say people are terrible. As a woman, I can say the exact same thing for men. So, it is not a matter of male or female. it is a matter of person.

Getting married? Bruh.. guess you're doing to learn the hard way, even in 2024 🤣

Online dating apps convinced me that women hate men and treat them like crap. I thought I was just picking bad women, nope. They are all a bunch of narcissistic sociopaths! I had no idea the contempt for men women had till I started reading profiles.. Just reading the profiles, the ego and the entitlement are as attractive as vomit.

I just saw eHarmony lol

I just got a bumble ad midway 😂

nahhh😂😂😂 I just saw that shitt

Dude i got one too 🤣

Thought Tinder was a hetro version of grinder hook up app? Downloaded and uninstalled the Tinder app within 24 hours 😂

Very True.

Been a long time since I've been on an app. But i remember females setting a word limit. You basically had to approach them with nothing short of a light novel. They'll be disappointed when they find out how little cats talk

If you are from normal places, I think it still works, the simple phrases.

Crazy world lol

I'm dating a woman I met on match about 2 months ago now. That's almost exactly how our conversations started lol. But, we are both a year or so away from 50yrs old so our age group tends to not be so loopy as kids in their 20s and 30s.

She must've really been a whale

You stayed long enough to drink a beer?

@@prepordietryin9119maybe he got there first

She definitely wanted a free meal and thought you were stupid enough. Good choice to leave, should’ve left a lot sooner though.

Brad i need more my guy. So when you showed the picture what did the server say to the girl and what happened after 😂

Attention. Most girls staying on apps just want to get likes. The other ones get flooded by men and quit cause it’s overload.

How was it different from the past may I ask?

​@@tobiaslawrence8928less fuck boi culture and more looking to connect with someone. Whimsical societies cause people to behave flakey.

​@@VCRAGEfalse. The prob is women only choosing 5% of men. They've created the thing they hate. If they started giving average guys a chance, these problems would go away overnight. But attractive dudes with alot going for themselves don't have any incentive to be good men since thousands of women are throwing themselves at them.

Remember back then in the start in 2001 we were labeled as so weird and so risky for dating online and then everyone decided to join and act like they weren't insulting us that we're trying at the beginning..back then ppl were a lot more fun and laid back and not acting like it was a competition

@@jessicahawks3223 yessss! thats what it feels like exactly. it didnt used to feel like a competition now it does. ugh

100%

Yeah that lady made it seem like there's this horny group of people moving from one app to the next and leaving ruin and destruction. I'm not sure why all apps turn into hookup apps but I'm sure those old school ones like eHarmony aren't. It's actually probably about the age of the user more than anything. If they make it boring for young people it would probably be a relationship app.

Abolish it

​@@Aaron-kj8dvthere were kind of two tiers. The free apps like pof, tinder, etc. they were for hookups mainly. EHarmony and match, the paid ones, were supposedly for relationships. The "real" ones were filled with bots and people who felt entitled because they paid.

So was Facebook when it started.

I don't mind the first rule, Second rule though is a bit off. I mean theres nothing wrong with something inexpensive and thoughtful but not if they demand it as a requirement.

@@MusMasibruh if she doesn’t let you touch her it’s not a relationship

​@@MusMasi Those rules are glaring red flags

​@@burtreynolds8030It's a first date they don't know if they like each other yet. The gift thing was wild though.

@@MusMasiIf not touching her is a requirement, then it’s followed by “and bring a gift” I think we all know what game is being played here.

Then you’re paranoid and weird. Girls play defense in the dating game so they’ll assume the worst of everything you do. That’s why in person first impressions are more important. You have some degree of control in how you’re represented

facts on facts

They met on hinge

I hate that tinder blocked me for asking for a casual thing

I have met younger college girls that wanted me for one night.. and also on tinder, even girls from below the border not from here, on work and church missions, doing it... After doing both a while...both tinder and real life, it is, both, a random mix.... its all confusing women who dont know what they truly want... ...and ive dated the both of those recently and three times, it wasnt me, ha...

That’s what women do though

Does it matter was it made hookup or not. Whats matters is that when you are on those apps be sure what your intentions are. Be clear of what you are seeking and stop cowering asking no bs questions cause you scared she gonna block or unmatch you.

Hella weird behavior

Yoooooo lmao

That's woman logic for you ☕.

Paying for food or a drink on a date is one thing. We pay for goods and items whether on a date or not. Paying for some emoji or whatever virtual icon just to message someone is a bit cringe. It should never be that serious; just go out and meet people. I get it doesn’t make sense to y’all but that’s still how a lot of us feel.

@@mariam2115 We're talking about dates. You're waffling on about stuff unrelated.

Or you go to the bathroom & come back to find your date gone cause they thought you were ditching them.

@@beewest5704 So... Romeo and Juliette, but for modern audiences?

@@beewest5704 I feel like the first girl should’ve said how long she waited for If you’re waiting for a whole hour and your date hasn’t come out then I’d get a little concerned and probably text/call them or something But she didn’t disclose any info between the time she got to the date and when she got home 🤷🏾‍♂️

If someone says they need to use the bathroom I’m definitely saying me too and following them or making sure I can see where they are going. I’m not being left with someone else’s bill.

@@cecee3480 technically if the waiter/sever saw you with two people you can justify only paying for your meal. At least that’s what I imagine

Yup. First dates should be cheap and kept short so more time isn’t wasted if there’s no compatibility.

This was a drink date

​@@Zwirdshe has a full plate of food.

While I agree, a $20 dinner is a cheap short date.

@@NicheGreens I didn't see the plate at first

Criminally underrated comment

There was a thing on reddit where people who worked for online dating companies told their stories and one guy who worked for match and he said they told him to make fake profiles and talk to men a day or 2 before their subscription expires then ghost them after they sign up again. He also said he could see messages between people and got a free profile as part of his work and girl he was talking to was talking to another guy and he shared his number with her so he went in and deleted the message so she thought she got ghosted and the original guy ended up dating her.

I mean, 75% of Tinder users are men. Some of the remaining percentage are bots, catfishers and fake accounts that exist solely to make men think there are more women on the app than there really are. These companies exist to make money, not to help you find love and/or sex. I'm not sure how anyone is surprised that they do things meant to part fools from their money.

Exactly it's 1400% worse for men. Men will never in their entire lifetime even get half of the attention women get

you created a comment SO accurately on target it created a singularly point

Same for women... Oh but you don't like that

A therapist that cant communicate you must be the problem cause i know how girls are 😂 they be sitting there sending off "i dont want to know you vibes" expecting the convo to go good when they aren't contributing at all

@@tyler-ee8vl are you dense? She literally went on a date and the guy left her with his bill. So clearly he did not communicate he wasn’t interested. My situation is completely different. I knew a guy who was a therapist for 7 years… we were supposed to be friends but after I had my daughter with someone else he was no where to be found and blamed me why he didn’t want to be friends anymore saying he was hurt I had a child, when he never ever mentioned he wanted to date me or anything nor do he want to. He just didn’t want anyone else to have me. Very toxic behavior. Yet you assume it was me? Seek help.

@@NativeBloodWolf never said women did not. Was there a guy in the clip that got stood up? No. Can we stick to the context of the video? I’m aware women do this too. It’s bad either way.

@@Chrissycolelive They both did something icky

Tinder always has and always will be a hookup app. Even if setting up for high value matches, the app will always devolve to hookups. If you start as a hookup app, you’ll never successfully be known to raise standards to high value matches. That’s not how life works. Edit: I should have started with “I agree with you!” Sorry. 🤜🤛

It started as a dating app but became used for hookups more and thats the current status of tinder the hook up app

Still a hookup app. People are just pretentious about being whores now.

@@davantebarbain3216 no, it was even stated from the CEO that tinder was originally for casual encounters, which is strictly hanging out and hooking up

😂my poor cousin is looking for true love on there, he’s probably dated like 10+ women a year and is getting upset about not settling down or finding the “one” and I have the same answer every time… “why the F on you on Tinder?” The couple I’ve met are emotionally unstable. Holy hell dude just hire a professional matchmaker at this point.

Sounds like my mom. My therapist says I was raised by a narcissist. Her man gave her the kind of validation you can’t, so he’s more important to her than you are. And it sucks because no one ever believes your mom is so cold, they always assume there is something you did to deserve it

Sam, you've had a conversation with your Momma about this since ? You need to tell her off

Well your mother is a horrible person. Make sure you get yourself fixed before finding a mate or you risk repeating the cycle

brutal.

A RU-vid comment section is probably not somewhere to vent about your troubles

I really think most would honestly, but it’s just some women specifically online saying that women shouldn’t accept that. But they’re only loud online

I hated the coffee dates. I didnt want my coffee to ruined with the potential of not being good enough. Coffee is good with friends you are going to hang out with again

​@@chasingsunsets87Then walk around a park that way no party has to pay and leave whenever they want...

This is the best answer. Low pressure on both ends, no alcohol involved to cloud your judgement, you still have your whole day and evening free if it doesn’t work out.

See even this for me seems too formal and structured. When you meet a good partner it's organic, whatever numbered date you're going to eat together on is the last thing on your mind

"Is that you Tiffany??" 🚗💨😂

Thought I was the only one who remembered lol

Bro don’t think that way. Sure life can be terrible but it’s about those little moments that bring you joy. You can’t experience happiness without sadness.

Connect with God. You are clearly here for reasons beyond your knowledge right now

@@peaceunion5316mentally weak scape goats are cringe

Hold onto that connection you have with your Father and Brother and back each other up, so you can branch on from there. Try not to think like that, think about the small things that bring you joy and grow it from there, and if things knock you down, go back to those connections you have to know you do have a Foundation.

True, just like searching for a job, it can be soul-crushing. Apps can do a number on you, they make you cynical. Don't go that way. As long as you're healthy and have yr family, it's a lot. Find a job that makes you happy (even if it isn't something that you thought you'd be doing), possibly working among people, and build from there

Spot on. People forget it's a business at the end of the day, so the apps are designed to keep you on them. Hinge's slogan is genius marketing because it lures you in with a false reassurance.

Hookups? well sht, used it for months and no matches. it's over

@@thevoyagerv4499 yeah it was meant for that but women only swipe the top 10% now only.. so tinder is loosing a lot of men as they r wasting money and no results and men are getting scammed in foodie calls so they lost a lot of traffic

Found my partner there 😂 we're on our 6th year together.

💯

The rule for any man or woman who are dating is to have on hand/in a. Out, sufficient funds to pay for the date twice without feeling negatively impacted. If you cannot do this, you cannot afford that particular date.

How any of this even needs to be explained is wild.

I got a strong feeling watching this that there was no guy and that she made it all up to get views. The whole thing seemed very fake to me. She also looked drunk and/or not mentally stable during her venting session.

Yeah but let's not ignore the fact that buddy is a therapist and decided to bounce on her. Man saw huge red flags with her.

its main character syndrome...they dont think or care about anyone else but themselfs, everyone else is just an NPC there for entertainment...absolute narcicism

That’s what happens when you live in a godless society that promotes Thelema.

She was so obnoxious on the way to the date that he had to bail! That's all that makes sense

​@@ashleysanford8645 then he should have the balls to tell her he was leaving and pay his bill like an adult. His behaviour was cowardly.

People that are rude like this need to be banned from the apps

You'd be surprised at how many people share interests but they don't have the courage to bring it up in conversation because they don't want them shut down. I always talk about my interests, & I ask theirs- that's not even 100% foolproof because some things they're just embarrassed by. I say, just be you, live your best life, & if someone shuts down your interests as "weird" or "creepy" (when you know they're beige flags at worst) then, move on. I'm naturally introverted anyways, I accept a lot of people look down on my hobbies- gaming, reading manga, drawing... lol! It's whatever, find your tribe & best of luck to you ✌️

Well what are your interests? Even if it's not something common, there are others also interested in the same thing. Try a club, class, or convention that overlaps with those interests, you will find like-minded people there.

Not to use stereotypes but I'm not expecting to find wifey material in your industry if you're a DJ

​@@SASMADBRUV7who's says he's meeting girls at party's to wife up? I think what OP meant is that he meets hundreds of people who act like this and are still single.

@@SASMADBRUV7Stereotypes are a time saver.

@@Jeremy-wp4yh it's when he said if you're not married then good luck

My husband, a DJ, found his wife. me. a tattoo artist :D I think it's hard for everyone (everyone normal, not fboys/fgirls) to find a legit person. if you are real, you will find a real person-just don't tell ppl you are a DJ, trash is always attracted to titles.

good on you lol

Don’t blame you!

Why block them? Think of all the sport trolling you're missing out on.

You didn’t do what he did. You paid for your movie and snacks at least.

Wow, you really just justified a guy not paying for his meal huh? There is nothing wrong with walking out if you pay. There is if you don't pay. It's also wild you assume the person who did nothing wrong was the cause. You're giving me big 'I had to have sex outside the marriage because my wife would have sex every time I wanted it' energy right now. Sometimes the guy is the pos in the situation for no reason. Sometimes the woman is. Seeing people through the lense of gender to the point you automatically think one person is right or wrong just based on the gender is wild.

@@1faithchick7technically it was just a drink. It’s not like he bought a steak dinner. It’s still rude though.

You really read a lot extra into that. What shall we blame all men for because of you? Being shallow and willfully ignorant? ORRR you could refrain from stereotypes and stop feeding the tribalism.

BPD can be hell to deal with, especially the distortion campaigns. I know not all BPD sufferers do this but if you have been stung a few times you become extremely wary.

Yeah. Something happened during the date, all he got was a drink.

​@@Zheratulshould have communicated like an adult

Yeah, somethings not mathing up for a dude to just bail like that.

@@tweatification Some people are just natural born cowards and instead of being honest and saying the just didn't feel like it was gonna go well, offer to at least pay for a ride home or something he just left. True, dunno what might have happened on the way there but the vibe I get he just runs away from things he doesn't like rather than be a stand up guy.

For real 😭

My gran called it titty money. You always have enough money in your bra under your tit to get you home no matter who takes you out. Lol.

Facts.

Guyanese mother's motto

I’m from Texas. What’s vex money mean?

I was just about to write my appreciation for the comedy 😅 👌🏽

Of course. They can’t keep clowning of F&F now that their platform has gotten substantially smaller.

Yes they can lol​@@terraventusaqua123

​@@terraventusaqua123or maybe because H3H3 keeps talking about them and F&F doesn't?

Sneak diss not slick

Gonna need the Neurolink lol

Not if you cane enough Ketamine. ​@@DtehHermit

I'm sorry that it happened to you and so many others. Those matches just fed their egos. Loads of M and F are like that on apps. Some ppl really find partners but the apps are not meant for that. Try the real life, some hobby in a social environment. Have fun and build yrself up in a healthy way. In the end, nobody can be sure to find love, but do what matters to you and do yr best

@@anabltc Thanks for the advice, really appreciate it. I’m trying to focus more on me. Heck, doing a solo trip to another country for the first time to prove I can do it. Been doing well so far. Going to get back to running and gaming again.

Its an Ego trip

@@skyemilk one of my guy friends told me he does that too to boost his confidence. I mean I get it but the people at the receiving end lose confidence. I understand that they are not responsible for our lack of confidence. It just sucks, that’s all I’m saying.

Don't even trip. A lot of people online are bots or there to play games. Online seems to bring out the worst people. I wouldn't take it personally.

Finally, someone with actual sense. Next, someone will say "Go youtube it.", instead of actually trying to help and explaining it. Or have an argument about why you should do better or around those lines.

I would say treat it as a video game with your primary mission being to live an enjoyable and fulfilling life. In this case having hobbies works well and exploring your local area. I don't go to bars/clubs that often (1x a month and usually solo). A few times out of the week I have a list of places in my surrounding areas that I want to visit (having an enjoyable life). It can be musuems, parks, book shops, malls, arcades, etc. Heck I can even pick up a martial art or learn salsa or do yoga. My primary mission is to have an enjoyable experience and it is through that I sometimes come across attractive women. Like a videogame, there are side objectives in your main missions that you can complete that gives you additional rewards (ie. approaching that attractive woman for a relationship or to hookup with her). If you live near the beach, you can go to the beach. If you have a downtown area, then go to your downtown area. Volunteer in something you are interested in. I know in my area, we have arcade bars. If traditional bars and clubs aren't your style, then look for something more niche. There's also an app called "Meetup" where you can join groups and events these groups posted. You can even create your own group based on one of your interests and host an event (online or in person). There's also another app called "Eventbrite" where you can look for local events in your area as well. This is how you can meet other people.

Go to the grocery store. Women who cook will be looking for ingredients in the produce section. You're welcome

Dark Times when we ask where to meet other ppl

@@MBelizariusz I can't argue with that. I was a homebody and wasn't that social when I was younger. I have OP the tools, but ultimately it's up to him to use it.

Actually there is a work around....if you X on all of them they will pop up in your regular feed....I'm surprised they haven't fixed it yet

Abba clearly did not understand then tried to gaslight preach. That was annoying. Abba, if you’re not using hinge, don’t speak on it. I noticed the change in their algorithm a few years ago and it was beyond annoying. If you don’t pay, you won’t see the folks you normally would swipe on. They know this based on who you “like”/match with. You have to pay.

@@darkslider802this makes no sense bc eventually you will need to actually “like” ones you actually are interested in…. What else is the point of the app. Your comment is asinine at best.

I know what you’re talking about. Technically Hinge is deceiving you. What the app doesn’t tell you is that those five people they select are the ones who Hinge thinks are best matches for you. But also are profiles with a lot of activity. Meaning that they already get lots of people liking their profile frequently

This apps sound terribly complicated nowadays 😂

The old husband store joke has now become reality These women can't help but play the "what if the next guy" game Until the wall arrives

@@capo4270and that’s exactly what all these dating apps excel at. In some ways you could argue it shares some similarities with gambling. Why settle for the option presented in front of you when you can swipe and get a potentially better option?

Its almost like she didnt know businesses were made to make money😂.

She even had someone to asked to show his face so they can say something, and she did for reason, these women are snakes

And the fact she an "independent feminist" who was offered a ride

The world system

Haha one can deny, it won't be plausible.

The oldest trade ever in history. Sex will always sell.

Blame capitalism and not the natural state of women in a feminist environment. Women all want to extract resources from men, feminist societies encourage the transparency and behavior of S working

I thought it was the other way around? That Grindr arrived after Tinder

Lol it isn’t property rights’ fault that people are promiscuous. Sometimes an economic system can’t be blamed for everything, but hey, makes you sound smart!

Might be she is misinformed and not deliberately lying, but she should do her research then and not open her mouth on something if she is that ignorant on the subject and try an lecture on it.

Lying is the wrong word

​@@benja303Lying is the correct world. It's 2024, information is free and plentiful, so to push misinformation pretty much outs you as a fraud.

It's best to fact check anything women say. They love to omit important information and misrepresent things.

@@benja303no she lied. It was never branded as the app to find love as per Aba reading of the article sighting tinder’s rise.😂 she also said it came out when she was in high school in 2010. Aba read the article that said the app launched in 2012.

Yeah. It’s just easier for deceptive people to be deceive online. Meeting people through real life is just more unfiltered and you meeting a real person.

Don't underestimate how much people love convenience

@@CorinthianIvory Yeah, me personally tho I get over it. McDonald's is on the way between my stops at times but I have better food at home. Thats just me tho

She's a woman what do you expect 😂. They have no integrity

She said her type is ‘went to ivy and works in corporate America’ she’s mid and wants a successful smart guy

​@@Tickerchicken my type is a millionaire who's easy to emotionally manipulate 😂

This specifically her experience, and you can say that’s her choice, but you don’t know someone is a asshole til they show you

@@BlaxkSun What you said doesn't even make sense because she's not speaking about her experience she literally attempted to give a history of dating apps and lied about everything 😂

I found that Okcupid was great when it first came out.

@@leehalloway8787 i met alot of girls on Okcupid when it just started, it was really good. Got hookups and relationships. Checked back on it few months ago and had to delete. Our times were so much easier.

😂😂😂😂😂

@@leehalloway8787 okc was 38 fire emojis

@@leehalloway8787 Plenty of fish wasnt bad either at first. me a few women there.

Haha true I get what you mean.

Facts mane, this shit isn’t adding up like why he asked her on a date just to mysteriously leave. Men don’t do stuff like that without a reason.

​@@easylife6348stop cursing its a sin

She seems to be on shit from the beginning to me. Or is she just like all that?

@@easylife6348 true. I mean you’d almost hope that she’s telling the truth given that she had the nerve to post his picture, and potentially ruin his career and personal life. It’s unbelievable the lows people will stoop to once you refuse to put up with their bullsh**.

Most people dating online are dating the same people. That being said Most people do not use dating apps so they're not having that issue.

Exactly, they scream men are cheaters and fboys but that's because they all want the "666". 6 figures, 6 foot, 6 pack. Lol. Most men are not that lol. And if they don't have that man, he is a place holder until she manufactures a way to get out of being with him or cheats. Recognize female nature. The consider the 1% as all men, there is no use telling her there are more genuine men, they don't care lol

If you are not going to keep those dishonest men accountable, you are part of the problem

If you live in a small city your chances of dating the same person increases, women who are online dating aren't dating one guy at a time hoping it sticks when they have a bunch of other options available.

@@renenetatm8222 we will as long as you keep dishonest women accountable also. Don't scream at men but whisper at women. Keep the same energy

Stop cursing its a sin!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.......

A man wouldn't run & block for no reason, but a BOY definitely would. He ordered that drink as "payment" for picking her up at home. No one has to behave themselves on the internet & he most likely got a better offer.

@@Drageisha i can tell your a woman by how stupidly biased your comment was.

Yes they would!! 😂

@@Drageisha that comment was so stupidly bias. I can tell your a woman.

Maybe you're onto something. If he was going to go through all that trouble just to bail, why only order a drink? Wouldn't he have ordered an appetizer and then a large main meal? Maybe he saw red flags and fled as soon as possible.

Why?

😂

Is this patrick?

Must be nice. I hope one day you at least expand to a hobbit hole. Looks very comfy.

And before that, it was personal ads in newspapers.

@@AngryReptileKeeper And before that it was some lady at church/temple/friendly gathering with the perfect niece or nephew.

@@barongerhardtOddly enough, my pastor is trying to set me up with her nephew, the good ways never stop, lol!

Its wild seeing some of those personal ads from 100-150 years ago @@AngryReptileKeeper

Most men on these apps kind off still pay for memberships and women not. Because if you have 10 likes for example, the app will most of the time not present them to you. In other words, some people swipe for weeks without finding 1 match. Paying kind of helps getting pushed more forward. Women can swipe once or twice and have a match.