This is the EXACT WAY Your EX will Reach Out to You when YOU are in NO CONTACT 

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I've been in no contact with my ex for almost 2 months today's her birthday and I didn't text or call her she just called a few minutes ago and was angry didn't reach out on her birthday. What should do please?

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Hi what happens when your Ex wife wants to call you about something, was going to do this friday(which is move the rest of my stuff out) shall I just wait and see what she has to say before trying to get a face to face?

What in the simp 💩 is going on here….😂 if there were a ex why would you want them back to hurt you ,If you let them go? To show them that then if they cheated or played games to become a ex that your okay with that and a sucker? Or let me guess you were thinking about playing stepdaddy to her new side guys kid weren’t you? and she say it’s yours 🤓

Ye, be better to yourself

Bruh thanks I needed this dude fr you positive af

Never take them back.

Wise words, my ex left suddenly 2 weeks before we suppose to go to my home country on little holiday and to meet my mom, without apology. I thought man 50 years old would be mature enough to communicate and try to work things out🤷‍♀️ I couldn't be more wrong. He didn't contact me even after months of no contact. I am starting to accept he has a 'reason' and trying to heal and move on.

@@andziagreen4922that’s really crappy

Love this

thank you so much for this. i think this is what i needed to read. its been a week since our breakup with no communication. he was the one that gave up on the relationship because i guess for him it was easier that way than improving our relationship altogether. he just didn't see my value and have to accept that i wasn't worth anything at all. its so painful right now.

I 💯% agree! If not the 1st thing I hear from my ex is an apology for how he treated me/what he said and an admission wrong doings, I DON'T WANT IT!🙅‍♂️ If you have not grown from the situation and bettered yourself, IZA NOO‼️😤

tell me what ended up happening, its been 2 months

@@jakefwsosa He got in contact with me as I went radio silent and he was really worried but we talking now and then but not often but I’d rather we didn’t so it’s just minimal 😊😊

I’m only in a week of no contact does it get easier because I’m struggling really bad 😭😭😭

I was left 5 weeks ago and sadly made mistakes, last one was a few days ago when I tried to establish some boundaries and she lashed out at me over it so now its true full NC. It sucks so bad but I'm doing this for me to be the man I know I am with no traumas or fears holding me back. Thankfully I have this mans videos to help me stay strong when I'm questioning everything. I have hope for our future but only the Divine timing of life will tell

@@ZAC90715did she reach out to

@@cuteandfluffypikachu3405did they reach out

@@ZAC90715stay strong I’m going through it to

It’s like you never did anything for them. Just gone, who does that🤷🏾‍♂️

​@@v.o.warrior9021All I ever did was be good to her. I never cheated on her or any girlfriend I ever had. I thought she was the one. I wanted to marry this woman. Well now, I'm glad she showed me her true face. She probably would've divorced me a month after getting married, citing whatever fear she had about us being together. I guess I did dodge not a bullet but a freaking cruise missile. Some people may say that I'm wrong for this but I despise women now. I'm still attracted to them of course but I don't trust anything about them now. After watching so many videos on female nature and "logic", I can't take the opposite sex seriously anymore. Yeah, I'm hurt. Yeah, I'm pissed. I don't think I'll be getting into any more relationships after this. I'm done. If I have to keep risking my heart being ripped out of my chest like a character in Mortal Kombat, I'd rather stay single. Just sex. Fuck your feelings. I don't care about what you're dealing with. Whatever you're telling me is just BS so you can use me. It's situations like mine that turn good guys into villains who don't give a fuck anymore. All these women keep crying about no more good men. Well, you turned a lot of us into monsters now with the BS you do. I don't give a fuck anymore.

It hurts so much.,. I cant believe that this has happened to other people besides me

@@Eagles4eva I know what you're going through bro. I was where you're at now. You'll get better as time goes on. The best advice I can give you is just say "fuck it". She gave up on you and doesn't even care. That's some cold hearted shit. You gotta get even colder. I know you have memories etc. with her but don't let the past kill you. She doesn't care. You shouldn't either.

1 month of no contact and then she reach out blaming me for talking and commenting girls pictures on instagram😅 i said we were in no contact i thought you gone, and she start blaming me, im trying to fix it and i know she want to fix it but she's just want to play hard to get so im gonna fix it by myself😂

Amen...me too in my situation as well

I would just replay: oh hi, feels so nice to hear from you. well, J was your friend, but I can‘t be just your friend. check out adrienne everheart. she is all about female energy❤

It has to be mutual ladies.

Same! His voice is comforting and soothing

You’ll never get an apology nor an explanation.

​@@MN-rw2ntNot always true someone from my past after 7 long years gave me an apology. I accepted it and moved on. Not everyone is going to apologize but some people do. 🤷

I never got any closure from my ex either and okay with living with that. ❤

Good comment. Me either. This has been quite the journey.

I almost lost the love of my life, I was going to try no contact because she blocked me, but I figured might as well shoot her 1 good message about how we can still make things work. She came back the next day. I got lucky, not taking her for granted again

How’d it end up

Prepare for the next/best person for yourself

Any update?

Good! He doesn't deserve you.

You give me hope 😊 . I'm in 3 months now in NC...

How was it ?

we went with a group of friends so it wasn't a "date" however recently he's been showing signs of jealousy bahahahaha it's also clear that he's showing signs of regret and honestly it seems like he's gone downhill... meanwhile I've been working on myself and have become a 2.0 version of myself. @@envyallison926

Update?

@@tjtanner9311 I moved on, and happier now that i'm out of the relationship :)

Always! Thanks for watching

Not reall its vice-versa now

@@preciousnhlapo2692 Hope so - as it's time for men to think with the right head ...

Glad you find them useful

Sex can be a smoke screen... You think things are getting better, but it's just Oxytocin talking... Wishing you the best tho

Bread crumbling you bro

Yes Bro! Do you🙌😄💪. You deserve better, and better will come.

Same thing happened to me being friends leaves and open door for them to use us because we are still in love with them , they want us but don’t want to be with us it’s not right. Move on find that person that wants all of u and is willing to commit

@@YahwehsButterfly I was out of dating for a long time. I’m comfortable alone and honestly this relationship reinforced my desire to remain alone and do the things I like to do. Not gonna lie it still hurts hahaha

Aint no way she was over 30. Stop messing with these 22 year oldsz

@@chantalsmissingselfawarene7655 😂 over 30 been ran thru have trauma and all of sudden they “know their worth” hard pass.

Awesome! Good to have you here 🙏

@@blacademicif she like my post in unblock me what does that mean

They’ll always be 1 how wanted it more! You need to admit to yourself if you the dumper or the dumpee. If you the dumpee stay no contact

@@remyd1984 oh no yeah she wanted to end it haha it's been brewing for pretty much the last year now. We have had almost a 9yr relationship - where we have both just loved each other like crazy (with ups & downs of course). She just started losing some attraction & interest due to some reasons in our relationship. I've always been quite independent and done a lot of things without her- and vice-versa, so it wasn't because I was being over-bearing or needy. I honestly told her right from the start I would do anything for her and that we are stronger together, but also told her that I'm a self-respecting man and won't beg for her as it has to come from within her to want this too. ^ word of advice for everyone else out there!!! It's ok to let them know you care, love them, etc. but do it from a place of self-respect and let them realize the consequences of their actions. If they care about you enough, they won't stand being away from you for too long and you will know it is mutual...

STAY NO CONTACT UNTIL HE CONTACTS YOU! No matter what! No contact works even long term! Do it!

@mariefricchione437 as I mentioned, I can't because I go back home in September and I need to move everything out of her place. It's a different situation for me. When we broke it off over the phone, I brought up moving my stuff out and she said to just give her some time and we'd talk about it. It's been almost a month since then... lol

Good luck to you

You have to move on so she can miss the relationship and come back, and you have to move on for yourself in case she never comes back.

The best indicator of what a person will do next is PAST behaviors.

I need to man up and probably start posting pics of myself with gorgeous women in public/group settings.

They still talking to you? what happened

@@Tristan-fh5ui still stalking my social media. I deleted her. Didn’t block. I don’t gaf what she sees me doing

​@@I.E.I.E. This is a move to try to make her jealous. If you want her back it won't work.

It’s not true, it can happen. With time it can happen.

I'm dealing with exact same thing and feel traumatized in panic anxiety and depression my self esteem was damaged my confidence

My ex ghosted me came bk and ghosted me again....and she send a little nonchalant message and soon as I respond she does it again

@@beastmasterakathabarbaric1509 that's terrible. What is wrong with our people?! This world is screwed. I'm scared to date again. I'm going to put my faith in God to find me someone.

Being friends is not a good idea

She would be trying to friend zone you. Or watch what you're doing.

what happend?❤

How long were you together before the breakup?

@@blacademic almost a year, about 11 months

@@danilaroche1156 thank you for your advice. I’d appreciate your prayers. Yes I am very much a Christian, once again thank you 🙏🏽 I receive your prayers

Stay in no contact until she reaches out to meet up. She's bread crumbing you.

In a way you messed up, but you can still reverse it. Go live your life! YOUR BEST ONE! You will start feeling better and the person won't even matter. Then wondering if you messed up won't even be a question. I believe if people loved once before y'all can do it again. Things just take time ❤ the only answer to this particular problem is time.