Jesus Christ, just get a woman already and stop brainwashing people into being alone. There are successful marriages and relationships, just as there are businesses that are as such. Move on and stop ruining young people's lives with hatred
@@diegomaia5485 I know that, but it doesn't solve a problem He's just stating all the negatives of women, like a little child, with a trauma A man needs a woman, as much as a woman needs a man. I feel sorry for those who cannot accept women as they are and still have a good marriage, kids and whole family It's possible P.S.: Also he's not a psychiatrist, he cannot possibly be right at everything. He's just a guy, with his own bad experience
Your washer and dryer start running everyday. Your power bill goes up 2/3rds, your free time evaporates and your savings starts getting hammered. I could keep going.
@@ForkOffjewgle That hits home. they literally do this. must be adjacent to nesting. also not saving money and packing your house full of unnecessary accessories - i'm sure you know about that one too.
Dude this exactly happened to me. My utility bill was around $150-$200 a month. Thank god she was only with me for 2 months. Ever since she moved out my utility bill has been around $35 a month and yes I’ve save TONS of money in addition to that.
@@SKBottom and so do I. And I have :) … new D-D trend will include a max 3 month period “when I’m into the relationship”, after which I will discover that “she has changed” and “I need to re-discover myself”, and “we need time apart”.
@@LukasP143 Millions of starving people all over the world are waiting for him to love them. When’s he gonna help them?? I guess he’s to busy magically helping football teams win??
I once lived with a woman in the same house for 4 days, that was 7 years ago and it still boggles my mind how other men are able to do it for more than a week. I am 38 this year and I made peace with the fact that alone is better.
A gal explained it to me this way, "Boys have a 'pipe'. Boys have a relatively easier time directing the urine where it needs to go. Girls 'spray' - (like sneezing into a wall) - urine goes everywhere". This is why they use so much toilet paper." After she explained it this way....I'm not as pissed that they use so much toilet paper (most of the time). It's really about cleanliness.
Ye! I did 15yrs! It felt like I was locked up for that long, and now I’m out, gonna be a good citizen and not going back there again. marriage is a lie.
Ha I lasted about 60 days. She locked me out one night over something and I didn’t go back. Then she had the nerve to ask when I was coming back and I said never, biatshh!
15 years ago I lasted 6 months in my home with a fiance. She piled on 50lbs, did nothing around the house except invite her equally heavy drinking friends over while I was working 12hr night shifts...without me knowing of course Came home one morning after work with 6 passed out drunk women sprawled out all over the place with vomit all over brand new carpet. Asked her to move back in with her parents, while we went to "Therapy". I never went, changed the locks immediately. She went for half of everything I worked for. My home, my cars etc. I gave her an offer she couldn't refuse. Cost me 30k to get out that one. I got the ring back. Lived alone in MY home ever since. I refuse to move anyone in. Don't get married and for the love of GOD...do not cohabitate. These grifters are only looking for the bag.
Bro I am so sorry that happened to you. I was in a similar situation as you, I worked all the time while she didn't want to do anything. She didn't want to work or clean or cook, just nothing. I had to do EVERYTHING. Needless to say I divorced her but luckily didn't ask for half my stuff. I will never marry or have a child or have a woman move in ever again in my life.
If guys truly did understand why living with "Girls who Just want to Have fun" also requires the type of man who's yet to realize why He does have to sleep with one eye open.
You can bet the partying girlfriends, were on her side cheering away, and in her ear playing armchair lawyer, like a pep rally. May sure to get every dime you can. That's what happened in my divorce, with my ex. Her ex-boyfriends wife was in her corner, along with her friends, and of course the in-laws and they were contacting the lawyer also. Can you believe that? People whom I didn't even know. I should have known right after we married, she quit her job, what was up. She didn't want to do anything. And, began visiting her old Flames. I could type 10 pages of crazy stories you would not believe, and 2-page story on the divorce alone. Not enough space here.
I was married for four years. The last three years were hell. I just moved out of a custom built house on an acre and a half of land and we’re now going through a divorce. I moved into a apartment and the peace of mind feels so unbelievable.
@@Scot-kz7odThe economic incentives to get together with someone or stay together even if the love is gone is very strong. But I much rather share my home with my dog than someone just for money
@@victorwong6976yes. If you don’t want kids I absolutely agree that there is little point in marriage. If you want to have kids it’s pretty much the only way. Unless you are super rich and have some idea to have kids with a surrogate.
because men are conditioned to believe that this is what they are supposed to do, like their fathers & grandfathers, who more than likely never got divorced -- although with later generations, divorce is so frequent that I don't know why ANY younger men would even consider getting married or cohabitating with a woman
Clogging drains with hair, toilets with “ products”; scratching polished hardwood floors; accidentally throwing things away; messing up the interior of cars; leaving gas tank close to empty; each week the trash can and recycle can are full. The list goes on. I dont know where this consumerist lifestyle come from
My ex said to my back as I walked out of my house, the house the state had given her. 'If only you had money.' Now I live in a house on a remote island with 150 feet of private shoreline on a private pond and a five foot waterfall next to the house. No debt, I own my car, an exotic roadster. The house she took from me has since fallen down due to lack of maintenance and she's living in tenement housing and will the rest of her life. btw I'm about to put two early 18th century cannons out front of my house as a welcome mate for home invaders. Married men don't get to do this.
There is a hell of a lot of trash in this world. Glad you were able to toss it out & continue to improve your own life without that garbage holding you back mate. We can all have a much happier life & great lifestyle without them around. They wreck everything, can’t help themselves.
@@LamelKendrick Exactly, every single one of them have hundreds of those poor souls in their dms. Females literally don't have ANY clue about being lonely or undesirable
I wonder how much of that 13% is honest, as for the 3% who are still in bliss after 8.5 yrs... they are lying I am sorry, that's not how human psychology works.
Been with the same woman for 32 years or so. While not perfect, we together have been successful. Everything is paid for, net worth .5 mil+...still have sex. She cooks for me, does my laundry, cleans the house, helps me on occasion fixing things, nursed my dying dogs, gave me a son, drinks with me, likes football, rides ON THE BACK of my motorcycles, I'm her whole world with my son. Oh, and she works full time. So...there ARE some decent women out there. Cooper will lead you to believe otherwise.
women always take control of a relationship in order to feel secure. But what's good for her is very much not good for him and ultimately the relationship. so she turns him into something she doesn't respect due to her own efforts and then files for divorce because of the result. Crazy but true for most divorces.
Married for 5+ years..no sex for last 30 months we sleep in separate rooms..my wife loves bars male attention and validation has many male friends we barely speak divorce is coming...so different than when I first met her during the honeymoon period 7 years ago..geesh
@@bashiruddinahmad408 wow, all the best with that. she is living her best life but not you. You did though in your comment mention the solution to avoid her taking the house and kids. You just need to go to a lawyer and set the scheme up.
@@stanlyqbrick1621 no kids.. she tricked into signing as a witness to a refinance the loan officer said it was strictly signing as a witness in fact I signed a grant deed/quick claim deed signing my property rights over to her..got fooled but spousal and her pension still in play
I hear you brother! They turn on a dime. At the snap of a finger, they upend your entire life. They cause thousands of good men to commit suicide every year. They are of Satan. A man is much better off to have a transaction with a prostitute when necessary vs a wife. Girlfriend can be just as bad. They love to control you. If you balk and break up with them, they will be all over town telling anyone that will listen, how you are the worst person that ever existed. Making up vile lies about you also.
Stoics believe you should refrain from sex because of the chance of unwanted child births among other reasons. Men have been skipping sex with women for thousands of years. it’s not impossible, or unheard of.
I have witnessed all of this shit with my mum divorce raping my dad in the 90s , and later in 2009 divorcing her 2nd husband. The hardesr part is men not acknowledging that we have an elephant in the room. We have huge societal issues, and most guys don't want to admit it.
@@bk_8338 Matriachy doesn't exist in my opinion. It's just another way of describing total chaos. Chaos arises when men cease to lead, for whatever reason.
I went by my exes house (where my kids live part time) to get an AC repair estimate. Nobody was home, all the lights were on, the heat was on in one zone, the bathroom floor warmer was on 75. She used to take the garbage out when it was less that 1/4 full because "smells", going though 6 bags or more per week. Since living alone with kids equal time, I have one garbage bag per week. Don't even get me started on Amazon being there at least once per day. Women drain resources.
Lol it's so true about the garbage bag thing. Women always telling males (the man or sons that live with them) to throw them out when they're only about 1/3 full. Those things are expensive!
Any food scraps go right in the trash outside so it doesn't sit and rot in the trashcan. Women can't figure that out. They throw heaps of food in there and then wonder why it smells.
I paid $50K when my first wife and I split. I paid $130K to get rid of my second wife, and I'll write a check for $250K in a couple of weeks to get rid of this one. I'm an idiot.
The OP story about a paid roommate who was able to claim they were in a de facto marriage was very alarming, even when efforts are made to declare separate property. Even FWB need to have a separate address, now. Divorce courts are horrible, especially for men, or anyone else acting in good faith. I suspect that its' even more effort to destroy families and drive more of a wedge between men and women, and drive women towards the feminists' Marxist goal of making women dependent on the state.
This captivating video triggers a flood of painful memories from the end of my 5 year relationship just three months ago. The woman I loved with all my heart chose to walk away, leaving me grappling with an insurmountable sense of loss. Despite my relentless efforts to salvage what we had, I'm left feeling disillusioned and unable to imagine a future without her. Despite my attempts to move on, I'm drawn to express my deep-seated longing for her here.
The struggle to release someone dear to your heart is undeniably arduous. I empathize, having experienced a similar circumstance when my 8 year relationship concluded. Refusing to accept defeat, I pursued every conceivable avenue to reclaim his affection. Eventually, I sought the assistance of a spiritual counselor, whose wisdom and intervention played a pivotal role in reuniting us.
Women do not love my friend. At best... They appreciate.. the resources you provide. At best. Much brighter days are ahead for you brother. Just keep moving forward. 😎👍
It's all about getting to the absolute "Why" your mate would ever change their mind about what was meaningful yesterday. Good luck with that, Today.....
“Stonn, she is yours. After a time, you may find that having is not so pleasing a thing after all as wanting. It is not logical, but it is often true.” -Spock 🖖
Spot on Rich! My ex wife was exactly like, this super cooperative, said she’d never put me on support if things didn’t work out. Even though she said I was her soul mate 😂 What a bunch of bs. Of course she changed her mind after taking to a lawyer. I said I thought you’d never come after me and my money. She just said she changed her mind and I’d have to “figure it out”. NEVER believe what women tell you. They can and will change their mind it if suits or benefits them. Even if that means you having to suffer. They won’t lose one ounce of sleep over it.
That's a Covert narcissist you've got there... "Soul mate / twin flame," dead giveaway. The "figure it out", 0 accountability and lack of empathy is another one...
@@lexzenis2544 thats because they are all the same I have a mom a 4 yr old niece and a old bag (old lady)I take care of they are all babies cranky bitches out of the 3 I only love my niece.
My first girlfriend's mother told me when we broke up, she Steve all women are rubbish, she said find em, feel em, finger em, fk em and forget em. I didn't listen. And after 3 divorces at 62 years old I finally learned my lesson, I'm now 69 and luckily still healthy enough to go to the gym and travel. Footnote I was left homeless each time. Never ever believed when they say I will never lie to you.
I got custody of my daughters in 2021 after being accused of sexually molesting them, accusations of domestic violence and it goes on and on. I finally got custody but it cost me my life savings. I knew I was going to lose everything, but if I were to lose, I’d want to lose fighting for my daughters. I’d rather live in a box with my children, than to be a billionaire and live without them. Our system is fucked
It will be. Birth rates plummeting or negative globally (less immigration). A sixpack of hit-the-wall women without savings or super, living beyond their means, while rents also discriminate those who are not DINKs. Remains to be seen how govts responds to cat lovers demanding more taxpayer money.
My biggest gripe about living with a woman is the constant communication. I get home from work, and all I wanna do is focus on my side project. But I'm constantly getting bombarded for my free time to talk. Then by the time I finally have the ability to sit down and get some actual work done on my project, I have to go to bed soon. It's infuriating.
The worst of it is that women find fulfilment in hours of inconsequential yakkity yak that mostly has no value five minutes after the words have been spoken.
@narendra7817 you hit the nail on the head. It's meaningless conversation with no purpose, and it's not even fun or good conversation. Why do you think so many women are unbelievably boring?
RIght on! I can agree 100% My only 2 real relationships I took seriously were all great before I let them move in. about exactly 1 year later on each they became disagreeable, bitchy, and tried controlling every aspect of the house and the relationship. Never again
I wonder if it isn't human nature.. or if they simply dont take after their parents grandparents... and the way they act is simply instinctively based on how they saw their parents and grandparents relationships work.
When the rules are rigged; the only winning move is not to play. Get your needs met by someone who charges by the hour or evening; and go on with your life. This is the only way not to get railroaded by the system.
My long time good buddy 16-50 years old. Dated disasters his whole life. He found a recently divorced mom and they got serious real quick. She told him out of the blue that she had to figure some things out. She said she didn’t love him and didn’t see the relationship going anywhere. Then he tells me that she’s still supposed to move in with him so she can save for a house. I advised him of the disaster that would follow. That was three years ago. The disaster happened of course and of course she’s still living with him saving for a house. And of course I’ve not heard from him in two years 🤷♂️
That’s ironic. For the first time, he mentioned debt as a major problem to a mutual friend of ours . He was already a balance bouncer before she came along. I’m sure she didn’t improve things…
@@vincei4252I finally spoke to him. He didn’t marry her TG and says he never intends to, but she’s still living there and now has three cats. He often travels without her and he plans to retire in four years. It’s like the Beatles song “boy, you’re gonna carry that weight a long time.” 🤷♂️ He didn’t talk about her much.
This happened to a neighbor. He was a dentist with a nice house. He moved in his girlfriend. His girlfriend moved in her mother and aunt. At some point there was an argument ... and my neighbor got a restraining order against him. He couldnt go into his own house. The girlfriend, mother & aunt are still living there.
I lived with my friend and his girlfriend. BAD IDEA! She had all her bills paid and no job and had control of 80% of the apartment. I worked full time. She made my life hell.
@@2muchReality7ven Three way split on the lease. She paid no rent. I mean she had all the say about everything. I sat in my room with the door closed and that was not good enough.
@@EricMoore790 ...Never works out in the situation you were in..Women do NOT want the man to have any friends he had before they met and especially a roommate!! In the mid 1990's I was in a similar situation like you.We were friendlier hung and out but still TENSION...She liked me but hated that I lived there..My buddy and myself lived together for 2 years with no issues,after 6 -8 months after she moved in I left!! Luckily at 26 I was able to buy a house,small crappy house but mine nonetheless..2 bedroom,1 bath on 2 acres..Loved that place FREEDOM! Then his woman seemed to like me more and we hung out and she never complained,I even asked him and he said she liked me but a few of his other buddies disappeared for good..I usually get along with them but man,if you are a roommate,your done!
@@EricMoore790 Wow, Im sorry that happen to you. I assume your friend didnt check her, but he may have been in the same situation. At least you made it out.
There's no such thing as a perfect marriage or relationship; they're all unique. What makes one person happy might not make another person happy. But I've learned that there's always a way to solve problems. Five years back, my wife and I were almost divorcing because we had problems in our marriage, but we managed to work things out. It was a hard time, but we got past it.
I understand why what you're saying is important, and I genuinely want to be happy as well. I'm in a relationship, and even though we're apart, I can't think of life without her; my love for her is solid. I really want her back, and I'm committed to making it work. We've tried different things, like therapy, to mend things.
Parting with someone you love is always a challenging process, but in my experience, I had the guidance of a spiritual guide who prevented my marriage from collapsing. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
Your guidance is well-received. I'll quickly search for her online. Thank you. I'm optimistic that taking this approach will yield results for me as well; her absence is keenly felt.
Guys listen to this man I came across his channel 2 years after my divorce he is 100% spot on when I went through my divorce it was three agonizing years I had a prenup protecting two homes paid off prior to the marriage the lady judge she said she would not entertain a prenup in her Court I fought through arbitration and mediation with no success my ex when I met her she had nothing when we divorced long story short she got 50% of all my assets listen to this guy he's telling you the truth I wish my fellow brothers out there all the best just don't get married the system is against men
I use to feel sorry and sometimes annoyed about this sort of stuff but then I look at myself. Single, healthy, fit, 56, retired young, living well. The difference with me and a lot of those dudes and many of them my friends is that I have never had any official attachments to women. If you choose to take that risk then the onus of responsibility rests with you.
I am perfectly content and happy living on my own. I consider my home a sacred space and my place of peace. Inviting someone into that space has zero appeal to me. Will that change when I'm an old man? Maybe, but I can only speak for how I want to live my life in the present. I did live with a long term gf for a couple years several years back. It was not fun-nothing too crazy really but it just was an unpleasant experience that I would not repeat. There is no benefit to me that I'm not already getting from having a GF. I cook my own food, clean my own house, sometimes have a cleaning service, etc... This idea of near 24/ undiluted time together doesn't work for me. Most women push for it to get some level of security and someone to pay at least half of the bills (usually more). They are very pragmatic and clever when it comes to pushing for this sort of thing.
Rich and the divorce lawyer he has on are both in an LTR but smart enough to Not cohabitate. Learn from them. For all practical purposes I am am older man at 72. Will you be a lonely old fuk? Don't even worry about it. The chips are stacked against you if you invite a woman into your house. Times are just not the same as 50 years ago. Women have the upper hand and they know it! You and I are nothing more than a swipe. If you are looking you are looking for a needle in a haystack.
@@coloradomark2159 Yep totally agree and they are also both smart not to cohabitate. Women will genially push for this and you have to be willing to stand your ground and let her walk if necessary. Too many guys just can't do it though-they cave
@@steveblackbird Exactly. It may start out innocent enough but you will end up paying the lion's share if not all the now elevated bills. Juice ain't worth the squeeze.
My brother is getting asset stripped at the moment. He can’t even sell the house as she has a child under 18… not his child but he still has to pay the mortgage on a place where he doesn’t live anymore
Men live with an honor system. Women live with a survival system. One would be a fool to expect to live without a double standard if you engage. Just like a few other demographics.
I own a platinum wedding band some guy likely threw away after the divorce. It was laying in the dirt next to a parking lot. It's my constant reminder to stay single & free.
@@tamadeus7189 wow . I sit here and read all these horrible sad comments.and I agree with everyone of them . I’m a female myself and see the horrible shit women do to a man . Is f Ed up for sure. The law is against the males for sure. We are dealing with a vicious female who has taken over my nephew. She goes around calling her 18 month old baby a little shit , doesn’t clean house or cook, she now calls my niece a little bitch . Her choice of words are very poor . I recently told her as if a week ago to please quit talking so ugly to your husband, my niece and her 18 month old baby . Well ….. don’t you know that went over well . She told me to stay away from her and a lot of other filthy things. It floored all of us she is a grand example of what this dude is talking about
Follow Terrance pops videos... If you're emotional pain is to high join a gym and start training in combat sports.. your brain can't tell the difference between emotional and physical pain it will have to start focusing on the physical
Go look at being of service to others in some way (volunteering and so on). Fulfilment comes from being of service and a fulfilled individual isn't looking at self-deleting.
The perfect scenario: She's got her own place, her own car, her own job, and these extremely rare things known as HOBBIES. She is her own person. She has her own life. She is self-sustaining. And she is LOYAL. We date. We are monogamous. She trusts me. I trust her. But we live apart. So it's a TREAT when we DO see each other. Sleepovers on the weekends. Swap whose place we stay at. I would kill to find a woman in 2024 that could handle such an arrangement. But they're all psycho.
It's important to explain to these guys something very crucial if you stupidly decide to marry. Do not co mingle your premarital property! Homes, cars, stock investments, inheritance, ect and keep separated bank accounts. The woman can not touch it nor can her sneaky attorney. Mine tried and fought me during a 5 year litigation and custody battle. Her corruption, parental alienation tactics and past criminal record, which I only discovered after she tried to toss me out and keep every cent I had, sealed her fate with the courts. I now have custody of my kids and my money but not her! Don't give in and act weak guys, you can beat the women in court.
I'm already there... and have been for along time. And I dont live with a girlfriend but my sister.... she made my life hell for the past several years.
I have the same situation here...but I also have 2 kids...and it's very difficult but a real MAN is strong and we overcome everything...stay strong guys
Doesn’t all the sexual intimacy dry up and then loads of resentment creep into the relationship and this particularly abusive to the male. She can put on a tonne of weight! Has even more leverage in baby trapping you through persistent nagging and female passive aggressive tactics. Intimacy can be rationed off for household chores further damaging the romantic illusion you originally had.
Marriage and relationships as defined in western societies today is a minefield. Don't step into it. Statistically, you are very likely to be damaged by attempting to live there. While it has always been a messy endeavour, so much interventionist law and legislation governing every little thing has developed in recent decades that it is essentially an industry for lawyers and the courts. And yes. Those in possession of a vagina have a distinct and unfair advantage. Do your research. Read the data. DON'T GO THERE !
I'm turning 50 in only a couple of months. People, coworkers, family, friends, even a couple of neighbors hate that I have never married or have kids at my age. The concepts described in this video regarding the State's legal interpretations of male/female interactions and financial/emotional/other resource consequences compounded with the modern feemail's delusional and even narcissistic character is THE CORE of why I refuse to agree to marriage/cohabitation/kids and even allowing an interaction to progress to satisfy the legal definition of a "commitment." All of this is perpetuated into a 24/7 enabling of feemails to extract from men's genuine want to build lives with a feemail. Why men continue to volunteer for these liabilities that feemails have no problem inflicting onto a man no matter how great of a soul and caring heart he has is at minimum mind boggling with gut wrenching on top of that. I was born in and have lived in Los Angeles California 49 3/4 years of my life. I thank God for never allowed me to have give into any of ex's demands and subtle hints to get married and/or have children in this God awful LA County court system.
It took me 30 years to find a woman I could live with. This is how I did it. I was totally honest and up front with my needs BEFORE we moved in together. I told her what I needed to maintain my sanity, and I held firm. I told her I need my own bathroom, my own bedroom, and my own office with TV so I can have some space when I needed it. Everywhere else in the house is mutual territory, 24/7, including kitchen, living room, dining room, family room, and garage. While I don’t have 100% freedom, everyday I feel grateful that I found a woman who is willing to respect my boundaries as I respect hers. It’s been nearly 10 years together now, and I owe it all to the courage of being honest from the very beginning.
Correct, we get better sleep that way. We are both heavy snorers and move around in our sleep, and both wake up to go to the bathroom multiple times a night. At our age especially, it just makes sense to prioritize sleep, which gets more difficult as we age.
There’s a lot of women who want their own space too but never get it really . But I agree it’s about being upfront at the beginning .. I do feel men are brought up in western society for the man to feel like he’s doing the woman a favour .. my take on it is as a woman .. 1 in the beginning talk about finances 2 make an agreement if kids come about for support 3 agree to have an amicable split 4 let’s face it until men carry babies for 9 months and shoot a melon out of their orafice it’s always going to favour a female and rightly so . But if going onto a relationship a man should protect some of his wealth .
5 years ago my hubby and I designed a custom home with 2 master suites on opposite sides of the house-his and hers. People were shocked at what we chose to build. However, any male (especially the contractors) who saw the home when it was being built/done was envious and admired the logic of the layout. Females largely judged the quality of our marriage because 'after all, how good could it be if you're not even sleeping in the same bed??" I'm married 30 years, still crazy about him and our sex life is still pretty darn good. Like you, we know what works for us. Kudos, sir :)
I have been with my partner for over 17 years, blissfuly happy. She lives in her flat, I live in mine. We both like our space and sharing time together but will never cohabitate.
“They're prisons! Man made prisons! You're doing time! You wake up in the morning: she's there. You go to bed at night: she's there. It's like you have to ask permission to use the bathroom!” - noted philosopher Cosmo Kramer
Cohabitation rights only really help women if there are shared children involved or if there is clear evidence of her past financially contributing to the property. So calm yourself 🙄
Fact 1: Common law states often go by when man & the woman consider themselves together (being dating, partners, lovers, whatever) Fact 2: The status of the house house changed --> after they got together
This struck a nerve with how bad woman are and how manipulative they can be, I experienced this with a narcissistic single mother she was a hot mess, thanks for the content Rich
@@ArmageddonIsHere admitting to she doesn’t like to apologize at all when she’s wrong it plagued her in her previous marriage, she just took didn’t pour much into the situation, was getting emotionally involved with someone from work had them lined up before she broke things off brother the list goes on and on. The amount of Gaslighting when she was wrong was insane and love bombed like a mad woman at the beginning wanted to move quick to in relationship was sending me ring pics in month 3 of relationship Lol I would be writing a book if I sat and mentioned it all.
It's a great deal: 1) Guaranteed sex 2) Don't have to listen to hours of their self-centred nonsense 3) Different woman each time if you like 4) Don't have any drama, revenge and stalking, unlike pump-and-dump 5) She won't break your heart.
7:42 : It was SO important you said it out loud! It's not even a joke, seriously. "Women always reserve the right to change their mind at any time". Welcome, all!
when you get married the priest quickly shoves a pen in your hand , and all these papers for you to sign you have no idea about . 8 years later in divorce court you get to find out what you signed.
It is the ONLY contract that does not state the terms and conditions. Funny story but true: before i signed i asked for the paperwork. Both the official and my future wife thought that was the most hilarious thing they had ever heard. Imagine, 2 out of 5 marriages fail and you sign on the dotted line in ignorance!
@@AegonCallery-ty6vy and yet its the very contract they stand to benefit from financially should THEY breach it. Unheard of in breaking any other contract, that you profit from it.
I have been married more than 20 years. I left home completely broke, I lost children and mental health. I'm fighting with her in court for 4 years. Never more!!
1:00 "Nobody tells you up front" about how marriage really is. This reminds me of this one skit on SNL back in the day with with Will Ferrel in it where he and this other guy met this 3rd guy at a bar to talk to him just before he gets married. Will then proceeds to tells him all these lies that go against marriage stereotypes. He's telling him the sex only gets better and more plentiful. The food is always great. She never pushes you around. Everybody is laughing because while everybody knows this isn't true, we all get married anyways. Finally the guy leaves and says "Yea, I am going to get married. Thanks for the advice." Will Ferrel and the other married guy are left looking at each other silently until Will finally breaks the silence and says "WHAT!........Screw him. Nobody told us!"
I NEVER let a woman take control of the relationship. It's my way or the highway. An "irrevokable" trust is the one that is safe. A "revokable" trust is the one you DON'T want.
I keep hearing from all our family friends that have been married for 10 - 15 years that their relationship are at all time low. Being in 11 year marriage myaelf I can attest to that. When the love is gone, and the bliss is over, the rose glasses come off, and the couple has to learn to live together once again. The questikns is do they really want to, or sometimes have to learn to love together when small kids are tangled in in between their crappy relationship 😢
In laws are a HUGE part of the problem. They will start bombarding your marriage. They're jealous. I loved my wife. We just got divorced after 25 years of marriage. I never saw it coming. We have two teenage children. I am almost homeless and broke. I have to reinvent myself. I have wept every day for 557 straight. I have thought about "it" 127 times. But now I am working out. I do not drink alcohol or use drugs. I read a lot. I eat right. I am saving. Someone told me there's a girl out there with love in her eyes and flowers in her hair.
Hey Brother, it DOES get better based on what you are doing now. I walked that road 23 years ago. It took almost a decade to get back to where I wanted to be. You can do it-as there is nothing special about me. No alcohol, no drugs (including Rx), no debt, living on an island in Florida. I Live small, have set goals, established solid boundaries for women. They may not like it; but, life is too short to get taken advantage of twice. I Had lunch with my pilot buddies today, planning trips, live for myself, my two children, and grandchildren. Wishing you the best!
@@jonbuehler2429 You have made my day/week/weekend. Thank you for your kind words. I am leaving for a 10 mile walk now. It is Friday. Tonight I will have pepperoni pizza and a salad. Tomorrow morning, I will have my egg sandwich. I am going to help the homeless Saturday and Sunday, and attend church and sing. Thank you.
I'd say, in this day and age, men should apply the same thought and careful choice when it comes to who we sleep with. I know, I know - not talking about one-night stands or the first weeks of dating a woman. I am saying be selective with whom you CONTINOUSLY sleep with, living together or not. If you have a strong selection at that stage already, by the time the "living together" or being exclusive questions start coming in, you will have a much easier time deciding. Build your choices upon a strong foundation.
I am now 61 and have never had a girlfriend or lived with a woman. I can see from my friends who have partners that their lives are not their own and they live a life of constant compromise. My advice is stay single and keep your privacy, your independence, your sanity, your money, your time and most important.. your total freedom!
Today I drove my a house and the guy was doing some construction while the lady was looking at flower beds. It made me think of all the women online that go on about guys not doing the real work like dishes and vacuuming but instead are out mowing. My point is- what if we started posting moronic videos about how they aren’t doing the real work while we are siding a house and they are contemplating the potential curtain color
I have been divorced for 31 years. We agree of spousal support because I married her because, she was pregnant. Into the marriage it was brought to my attention I wasn't the biological father. i never signed the birth certificate did not have to child support but yes, to spousal support. She is on her third marriage. My spousal support has not stopped because she allegedly never worked so the spousal support will continue.
Nothing wrong with wanting a companion. It's just a companion moves in or you marry one they know full well that laws are on their side and they will use it to control you. That's the problem.
at least you aren't in torturous physical pain every day of your life due to nerve pain. Id take being alone and emotionally miserable for another 20 years before id take another day of this hell.
I sold my property a few years ago so politicians couldnt steal it if they took a dislike to me. Its not worth it to own anything anymore except a cheap car. Now i have another reason not to own anything
We almost left out the fact that they had children…as he was reading this, I was banking on that fact. Surely don’t have children, she’s getting half. As a man, you get one marriage, if that doesn’t work, no more marriages.
My so glad the ex didn’t move in. I’d likely be in jail and lost the house had she accepted. I wanted her to move in because I thought her apartment was too expensive, but she felt it was too early… THANK GOD.
@@gefleigh4264 not entirely. She drank drano in my kitchen so I had to call 911. Paramedics took her then I had to deal with police. I haven’t been in a relationship since.
Was with my last girlfriend/ finance for 5 years..was planning to get married .. looking at houses to buy everyday.. then one day out of the blue I noticed 5 k cash that I had saved in the house was missing... Called her to confront her and ask wtf is my money... When she got home she packed 3 bags of clothes and left with no explanation.. that was 2 years ago .. needless to say .. I'm done with women and relationships .. !! The last 2 years have been so peaceful... I spend my money on me and spoil me from here on out!!
