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THIS is Why Girls You Really Like Reject You 

Dan Bacon
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When a guy meets a pretty girl or an attractive woman, he will usually be immediately stunned by what is known as The Halo Effect.
All of a sudden, due to The Halo Effect, he will feel the need to treat her better and be nicer to her than he would be to other women, or even other people.
She is special.
She is different.
She’s a PRETTY girl and he likes her.
Yet, what most guys don’t realize when they react in that way to a pretty girl is that, due to The Halo Effect, guys have been reacting to her in that way her entire life.
By feeling the need to treat her better based on her looks and likability, a guy will come across as though he’s trying to be liked by her and accepted by her.
She will get the sense that he doesn’t feel as though he’s good enough as is and as a result, he feels the need to suck up to her or give her special treatment in order to hopefully be liked by her.
So, what should you do instead if you don’t want to get rejected or friend zoned by a girl you really like?
Treat her as though you are at LEAST on the same level as her in terms of value, but ideally, treat her as though you are actually a cooler, more valuable person than her.
THAT is what the guys who easily attract her do.
They don’t become stunned by The Halo Effect and see her as being higher value than themselves.
Instead, they talk to her as though she is simply another pretty girl who like them.
Watch the video above for example of how to talk to a pretty woman in that way.
For more examples of what to say and do to get pretty girls to feel attracted to you, so you can get laid or get a girlfriend, go to:
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Cheers
Dan Bacon
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@gooddaymate1171
@gooddaymate1171 5 лет назад
Pause @ 7:00. This is the same problem guys do when a woman posts half naked pics on instagram. The guys throw out too many compliments and this makes women feel like they can get any guy they want. Guys, STOP giving women attention like this!
@Aqu4nime
@Aqu4nime 5 лет назад
yesterday, i was in the metro, and i saw this really hot girl come in, i was like ok she's pretty as hell, but right then, a guy comes up to her, drunk, sat down next to her, and started to harrase her, she looks sooo stressed, didnt know what to do, so i look at her and tell her, just move, she moved and sat next to me, i didnt talk to her, not because i was shy but simply i thought it was the right thing to do, then we got off at the same station, she stayed with me and started a conversation, i was responding normally , fun convo then when i needed to go i said okay well im gonna go, have a nice evening, i left, then she ran to me and wanted to stay, then she asked me for my facebook, i thought to my self, damn, i was just helping this girl, and she totally liked that, and was super interested even tho i seemed to not care, this approves this video haha, i thought of sharing this story because it was a really interesting situation.
@TrapPhoneLoveMelodiesss
@TrapPhoneLoveMelodiesss 5 лет назад
Bro, everything you say here is FACTS.
@taytibobfenty
@taytibobfenty 4 года назад
I didn’t realized that until now it’s sad that you have to lose her to find those type of videos in your RU-vid recommendations .. DAMN YOU HALO EFFECT !!!
@MrPittsbrother
@MrPittsbrother 5 лет назад
Need to design some spectacles that we can put on when approaching a stunner that make her face distort into ugliness to defuse the halo effect.
@mauriciosauri8126
@mauriciosauri8126 5 лет назад
Damn man, you deserve more subscribers, you helped me get my woman back, I'm 19, I know I'm still young, but we were pretty serious about it, and hey if you ever need another "success story" I'd gladly share my story. I thought it was over.
@scubbarookie
@scubbarookie 5 лет назад
When your able to joke around with the ladies, they love it. If your too serious then forget it. You must display and be of a well traveled nature or of experience. This is one of the biggest things in the first impression. Think about your worth and value! You can never treat her like she's a queen, or forget it. I date different women and they're all diferent and very lively. Thank you!
@MikeHersnt
@MikeHersnt 5 лет назад
Totally agree with what you have said, bro. We all have the chance to get beautiful girls in our life its just the matter on how we interact with them and how we deal with them. Another great principle is conveying a higher value. Great content bro, keep it up!
@78236931
@78236931 5 лет назад
Great editing and content, I especially like the explanation of the halo effect and the way you brought up the explanation on the screen. Good job geezer
@matosfstwenty
@matosfstwenty 5 лет назад
Thank you, Dan! You've been teaching us how to bring about the halo effect in our favor. It's awesome and worth gratitude! Excellent job!!!
@Prashantsingh-ol5di
@Prashantsingh-ol5di 5 лет назад
This is what being called be yourself and don't try to impress anyone
@d_s_ctube
@d_s_ctube 5 лет назад
Very true...don't focus on their looks...talk to them on a level status.
@syauqiramli437
@syauqiramli437 5 лет назад
Hey Dan, I really appreciate your English man, every word you said I clearly understand. I've been many coaching video but man, you really did my day, thanks bro 👍😁
@kinglouenleoncoeurofbreton4112
@kinglouenleoncoeurofbreton4112 4 года назад
I have to say Dan Bacon, you make some helpful videos. You are the hero we need not the hero we deserve when it comes to winning a woman's heart, devotion and love. On behalf of Canada, I thank you! You are making some men realize what they are doing wrong and how to fix their actions, you have already opened my eyes to the truth and the key to winning a woman's heart.
@neilbradley
@neilbradley 8 месяцев назад
Spot on, and I wished I had seen this video a year ago. Right after my divorce, I went on a date with (what I'd consider) a high value/class woman. She was VERY assertive with me, challenging me constantly. I passed with flying colors. I told her straight up "You don't intimidate me." And honestly, I was in DGAF mode. Holy shit... it worked! We were together for about 7 months before I screwed up and became too needy... watched your other video on THAT issue... Dan, you're the man, and thank you.
@bryanmccallum4614
@bryanmccallum4614 5 лет назад
Thanks Dan! Every little bit helps build up better information for me!
@chrisyang3130
@chrisyang3130 4 года назад
Wish I had watched your videos years ago! It would have saved me many years of frustration and confusion
@danbowers20
@danbowers20 4 года назад
Thank you, Dan. This is wonderful stuff.
@denisbuckley4352
@denisbuckley4352 4 года назад
I've been rejected all my life i don't hate them for it but it's extremely unfair i think I'm being humiliated what would want to have done to be in that situation... Ireland is miserable don't come here people 😞😞😞😞😞
@sctm81
@sctm81 5 лет назад
Its cause society has placed an overemphasis on looks. Look past that and the playing field gets a lot more level. What else do they bring to the table. That's what you have to ask.
@adielwilson8749
@adielwilson8749 5 лет назад
I find that attractive women I'm not into tend to be all over me
@kibuladesire8019
@kibuladesire8019 5 лет назад
I wish most men can watch all your videos!!! Bacon you're the best coach I have ever watched on RU-vid.. Thanks for your knowledge..x
@danielomariasante8269
@danielomariasante8269 5 лет назад
I always like Dan's video before I watch. Thanks Dan for your good works
@debjittarafdar6919
@debjittarafdar6919 5 лет назад
Hey Dan, I follow all your videos and you're doing a great job for the mankind. Thanks man🙏🙇
@jesusisjerryallahistom
@jesusisjerryallahistom 4 года назад
Dan hands down, you really have mastered in your field.
@CANEHURRICANE
@CANEHURRICANE 5 лет назад
First time on this channel, you got a new subscriber good stuff Dan
@immaturegalaxy4217
@immaturegalaxy4217 3 года назад
This guy is amazing, I haven't found this helpful info anywhere else!
@anthonylamphier5289
@anthonylamphier5289 5 лет назад
OMG!!! Ive been doing this and for all the wrong reasons!!! OMG!!! THAT IS WHAT IVE DONE WRONG!!!YES YOU CANNOT TREAT THEM LIKE THAT!!!!
@englishwithsid1343
@englishwithsid1343 5 лет назад
You're Wiseman thanks a lot I really appreciate what your do you are the best man I have heard speaking about woman
@victorsam5926
@victorsam5926 5 лет назад
Cool Stuff Dan Bacon... This Video add to the Stuff you've always talked about... Creating a Relationship dynamic of High Value, Masculinity and Confidence 💪💯... Great Video and lessons learnt
@sportsbossph
@sportsbossph 5 лет назад
If only i watched this before i met my GF now were over before i learned all of this... I'm so sad
@ezpzjayzaar
@ezpzjayzaar 5 лет назад
I don't know where you found that girl, but she is the cutest little thing I've seen.
@PCMAXGAMEPLAY
@PCMAXGAMEPLAY 5 лет назад
Best advice ever
@aminaadan7536
@aminaadan7536 5 лет назад
Such educational video. I love guys who doesn’t give too much attention to me. Mean mysterious guys.
@TheDestroyer73
@TheDestroyer73 5 лет назад
hmm i keep learning more and more....and i noticed certain things but to bad those girls are taken vs the one i want. i do good with the ones im not interested dammit
@oKapiteinKoeko
@oKapiteinKoeko 5 лет назад
Thinking of buying 'The Flow', question to those who have: How did it help/change your life and is it worth it?
@barackbanana9786
@barackbanana9786 5 лет назад
Hey Dan, maybe u could give us guys some tips, how to deal with masculin dominant women and how to please them. Cheers, love your channel! You know your stuff :)
@seabass8923
@seabass8923 5 лет назад
Dan , thank you alot for the info! Definitely change my perspective of women and build my confidence
@bonchan4404
@bonchan4404 5 лет назад
Notice me . And thank you youtube for recommending this channel . New subscriber here . Time to watch your other videos !!
@jacobcutrer
@jacobcutrer 5 лет назад
I just had to pause that at 1:56... that's depressing actually
@ricardosanchez7768
@ricardosanchez7768 5 лет назад
You are the man Dan!🔥
@CarlosJimenez-fi3pl
@CarlosJimenez-fi3pl 5 лет назад
I am a red pill thinker and believe that looks are the key for attraction and going for girls on your league or under, but this guy makes me reconsider, because this situation has happened to me over and over again, sometimes girls give me the right cues to approach but then we talk and there is a lost of conection, then all conection is lost and from interested she seems uninterested.
@waykiwayki
@waykiwayki Год назад
really good work.
@thefnaffan2
@thefnaffan2 4 года назад
Now I know what that song Halo means by Soil... Well Shit
@CalledHigher-ib8ce
@CalledHigher-ib8ce 5 лет назад
Phenomenal info,Great Job!
@kapibara2440
@kapibara2440 4 года назад
Very isightful video. Thank you!
@TheoriginalTHX007
@TheoriginalTHX007 4 года назад
Legend! Thanks
@BeshoyV
@BeshoyV 5 лет назад
So what should i do after making those mistakes , is there any hope to get her again .
@stevennguyen5186
@stevennguyen5186 5 лет назад
If I could give this more then one thumbs up. Good advice.
@golfhk
@golfhk 5 лет назад
Thanks Dan
@ek1582
@ek1582 4 года назад
Respect, Dan
@nicholasvodanovich1503
@nicholasvodanovich1503 5 лет назад
How'd you become a dating god?
@richardsauditionsmonologs931
@richardsauditionsmonologs931 4 года назад
Seen this 10 times or more... realized a hidden word there "reject her" but playfully, so not just with her taste on XsomethingX but if sub comm could be asking me out or anything like that. 😳 Thanks again cousin Dan 😆
@527bodie
@527bodie 5 лет назад
0:34 who is the black girl wow someone tell me
@sahilvarma9553
@sahilvarma9553 5 лет назад
Hi Dan, what if I have done this mistake .. now how to stitch it back ... Should I again start speaking to her the way you are asking us to .. let us know what if we have treated her well and we have been rejected ... Now how regenerate her attraction ?? Please make a video for that 🙏
@abpirsitang9533
@abpirsitang9533 4 года назад
Tnx bro helpful
@smaug.the.stupendous
@smaug.the.stupendous 5 лет назад
Don't be stunned by the Halo effects!
@frankfoster2755
@frankfoster2755 4 года назад
Where can get your book the flow?
@snorlaxcom
@snorlaxcom 4 года назад
Even lesbians that wear the pants follow this advice and pull chicks haha
@ChrisCorson
@ChrisCorson 5 лет назад
Good stuff.
@kevinnyshines7367
@kevinnyshines7367 5 лет назад
The girl I’ve been seeing has backed away after we hung out it was great we made out she had fun then on social media she hasn’t been very talkative after about 3 days of this I asked her if anything’s wrong is that needy and should I be worried or am I fine
@bluecandy5615
@bluecandy5615 5 лет назад
Who is that model ? What's her name
@BASSREEFLEX
@BASSREEFLEX 4 года назад
100%
@versatilelord8893
@versatilelord8893 5 лет назад
The halo affect has always been my problem with women. Thanks to your videos tho I’ve seen the light lol
@tjpm
@tjpm 5 лет назад
Ok i am a woman and this has happen to me. This is what I have felt as a woman. The guy becomes needy. Needy is not wanting to hang out everyday. Needy is that you become a puppy and not a masculine man. If you really like her. Invite her out and hang out. Yes treat me well. But be you. don’t walk on my shadow. Be naturally you. Funny. Tell me you don’t want to go where I want to go and let’s talk it out. Be your own charming self. I am hanging out with a guy that could be a very good prospect but he is acting so needy that he doesn’t let me be the girl. Because I need to tell him what to do. I don’t want to be your mom. I want to be a girl. . . And this video is spot on. Have an opinion please.
@social-mathematics
@social-mathematics 5 лет назад
Humanity needs you. Keep going.
@amentothatt
@amentothatt 5 лет назад
Dan! I learned an essential principle that conveying higher value is key in attraction.
@littlegipper5798
@littlegipper5798 4 года назад
This makes absolute sense. I treated the last girl like royalty and when I finally made a move, she in return told me "I don't want you as a sexual partner". I don't know if this attitude would have lead to different results, but treating a girl like a queen took me nowhere, so it couldn't do any worse, thx
@datahloks
@datahloks 5 лет назад
Hey brotha, I've subscribed because of this video, guys like me who grew without a father figure need this kind of advice in life and you have this kind of advice, thanks.
@sebastiandelacruz7093
@sebastiandelacruz7093 4 года назад
Man, this just happened to me, the girl that i was flirting with suddenly stopped talking to me and i feel like it was because i was treating her special and doing favors for him. Shoulda watched this 🤦‍♂️
@squali1930
@squali1930 4 года назад
Honestly just knowing this knowledge makes you more of a higher value guy than other guys around. So it works out.
@souperman1402
@souperman1402 2 года назад
So I met this girl at my work, she's the most beautiful girl for me, I really liked her since the moment I saw her, so she came up to me and we had a convo, the way she talked and the things she said showed that she was interested in me, couple of days go by we still talk about ourselves... Until one day she asked " hey I never asked about your age, how old are you?" Well. I did t ldie about it I told her my age ( I'm 20) and she is 27, after knowing my age she barely talks to me she was also in shock when she knew my age because I look older, I'm trying to keep my emotions balanced, I'm not doing so well the crush hit harder than ever.
@copaxchannel
@copaxchannel 4 года назад
This is why all the girls I friendzone are crazy fucking in love with me and the girls I like are like “okay I’m gonna go” lol!!!!
@hardtopart3346
@hardtopart3346 5 лет назад
Remember a nice pretty girl I used to treat like a pal.. sometimes I seemed not to notice her and act indifferent.. at a party I took her dancing and she said "Gosh I thought U didnt like me..." Lol
@speederman7026
@speederman7026 5 лет назад
Damn that halo effect,lol
@johnnypenso9574
@johnnypenso9574 5 лет назад
I couldn't agree more with this advice. I lucked into this just by being myself, about 20 years ago. I was married for several years and then single for some time during which I was quite active in pursuing women. I was always a cocky guy, full of confidence but able to laugh at myself at the same time. Women absolutely loved that I was cocky and confident in a playful way. I was never shy about sharing an opinion and the playful putdown seemed quite amusing to me. I loved to shock them with a negative comment and follow it up with some laughter to let them know I was only playing around. I never thought of it in terms of the Halo Effect or putting myself on their level, I was just being myself but, in effect, it was the same thing. This stuff works. I know it's counterintuitive for some if you've never done it and it will take practice if it isn't natural to you but it absolutely works.
@kwame1911
@kwame1911 5 лет назад
Thanks I love your channel, Pure Value
@acese4837
@acese4837 3 года назад
Dude. Are you a magician or something? Every time I watch one of your videos it is like I have injected testosterone!
@sunshine1768
@sunshine1768 4 года назад
Now I finally get it, why girls that I liked didnt want a relationship with me and the girls that i dont liked wanted the opposite.
@i_am_donald116
@i_am_donald116 4 года назад
Hey ,i really like this..you really broke into details the Halo effect, it's really interesting.
@kaptireeli3567
@kaptireeli3567 Год назад
Mr Dan Bacon, your a 10/10 in your analysis and relationship ideas.after watching several videos from most coaches. I settle with Dan's, thank you huge👊
@fareshasan1038
@fareshasan1038 Год назад
Tbh Dan, a lot of the advice you give me is also applicable to some of my male friends. I’ve noticed a lot of the things I say and do even make my friends want to create some distance with me and I’ve been implementing your advice and now I notice my friends are hitting me up to hang out more often.
@anthonylamphier5289
@anthonylamphier5289 5 лет назад
THANK YOU DAN BACON!THANK YOU DAN BACON!THANK YOU DAN BACON!THANK YOU DAN BACON!
@OnlyToComent
@OnlyToComent 5 лет назад
Hi Dan! After five months my ex came back and told me she wanted to try again. We are going slow. My problem is, she slept with someone else in a party and that bothers me, we were our first and only until now. I know she didn't do anything wrong, but I can't avoid feeling hurt. I fear I may end up messing things up. She says that experience helped her figure things out. We were together for 5 years and her hook up happenned one month after leaving me. Any advice? Thank you by the way, thanks to you I managed to level up and re attract her.
@eljefe919
@eljefe919 5 лет назад
Excellent video!
@randyranjel4516
@randyranjel4516 5 лет назад
Church!!!
@Matt-lx6cj
@Matt-lx6cj 5 лет назад
This explains so much thanks I have made a lot of progress getting my ex back i feel it’s a matter of time before i get her back this affect and stress from work have held me back but i love her the most, But. I’ve came across someone the girl i had I crush on in school she’s 25 now and insane attractive I know her Facebook and she just became single I never could have got her back in school but now... What you think I should do should I message her and What to say ? im not friends with her but she knows my friends on fb and lives in the same area
@Matt-lx6cj
@Matt-lx6cj 5 лет назад
This girl is insane she’s tall and looks like tomb raider the young angelina jolie one (including the accent, she’s very confident and badass) And im not back with my ex should i take the opportunity
@Azzaro_zukiu
@Azzaro_zukiu 5 лет назад
Very useful thank you
@anandpandey9988
@anandpandey9988 5 лет назад
Wow, words of wisdom 👍👍💙🙏
@mrlaventino6497
@mrlaventino6497 5 лет назад
Nicely said , Dan. Thank you very much !
@ashharkausar413
@ashharkausar413 5 лет назад
This video is spot on. This happened to me.
@Farooc
@Farooc 5 лет назад
Dan. what you said is just the truth thank you
@sollysuliman2357
@sollysuliman2357 2 года назад
Dan spits straight facts! Even though his advice helped me and other guys a lot… just imagine that if we were born as women, we wouldn’t have had to deal with all this
@jacobp6522
@jacobp6522 4 года назад
This is the reason I lost my wife. I don't think I was instilled confidence growing up and it is something I am having to work on today. It literally is a reframing of the mind.
@geeelll7216
@geeelll7216 2 года назад
Light bulb moment. Thank you sir
@erfansg
@erfansg 4 года назад
I wish I saw this video two years ago but now i'm happy to learn it. Tnx bro
@MichaelDike-ci8du
@MichaelDike-ci8du 2 года назад
I've learnt alot from you Dan
@frankfoster2755
@frankfoster2755 4 года назад
Do you sell a paper copy of the flow ?
@secretbillionaire463
@secretbillionaire463 5 лет назад
Thank you Dan.👍🏼
@dolevnirran3195
@dolevnirran3195 3 года назад
this is gold!
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