This Is Why Women Actually Think You're Unattractive 

All those girls talking about the man’s salary requirements are delusional

“If women don’t find you attractive, it’s because you’re probably not” - Jordan B Peterson

when they started listing salaries above 200k i was dying inside

If I'm making $300K a year or more, then I'm gonna have a girlfriend/wife that's hotter than your friends. Those girls need to come back down to Earth.

It amazes me how some women have completely bonkers expectations about what a guy should earn to even qualify. Almost nobody earns $500k a year. What makes her think she deserves that? What has she achieved? Meanwhile, many women spend most of their time on ‘self-care’ and other utter nonsense. No wonder so many guys are just checking out entirely, and the percentage of women are over 30 and single is skyrocketing. It’s crazy.

100-250 000 $ a year in income?! What planet do these women live on?? Superficiality.

Can you imagine how high the cross youre crucified on would be set if a man said "women should just go to the gym and lose weight stop being lazy" You want us to accept you the way you are but we have to literally turn into another person so youd notice us

They dont think I'm unattractive, but there's always someone better waiting in the wings. Women have massive amounts of options in dating via apps.

'You're stuck with yourself forever, you might as well like yourself". That was such a good line. honestly.

Acting desperate is so unattractive. So many men do this and that’s the truth. When I was younger, I would see my friends act so desperate towards a girl they like and I was like “bro… wtf are you doing…”

Every mans New Year's resolution should be how to learn not to SIMP!

Men, learning not to give a single damn what any woman thinks of you, will set you free.

Gents, it doesn't matter how much you better yourself. If you didn't catch the fact that the girls she interviews are completely and utterly amd hopelessly delusional, there is no helping you no matter how much improvement you do. Work on finding that rare girl that is a giver. Cause most women out here are takers. And they will take everything from you. They're out for themselves. You can't point out a single girl in these interviews that wanted to do anything for that husband they wanted.

This is coming straight from the heart, the girl that said 300k/year I would give her the opportunity to carry my water bottle around the gym,that's it nothing else. She's like a 6 on a good day but wants 300k/year :))

That first one hit home for me. I do come off as desperate to girls. I’ve had a hard time with women, and because of that I do get desperate to find a girlfriend. Like you said, I have a longing to love and be loved. That’s something I needed to hear. I’m definitely going to work on this going into the new year. I needed this.

I have been rejected, ghosted and flaked on for 28 years by every woman I have ever liked. I am a 28 year old male who has never been in a relationship. We understand desperation is not attractive, but those who are not in a situation like mine, could never understand the mindset this type of life culminates into.

If these women expect a guy to make a six-figure salary, they just excluded 90% of men.

The girl that said 500k salary is delusional! She is going to be single forever

I'm guilty of the scarcity mindset, then again, I have been on one date in ten years, so it's kind of hard to have any other mindset. Guilty of lack of effort in my physical appearance and even trying to meet a woman. Guilty of lacking confidence and thinking I'm unattractive but it's not a physical thing, it's more a personality thing.

😂😂 This is a classic example of women saying one thing and doing the other. 1. Acting too desperate: They say desperation is a turn-off, then they check for the same by playing hard to get. 2. Having no ambition: They want a man with ambition, but at the same time, they don't wanna be with a hardworking guy who can't give them enough attention 3. Putting in no effort: And at last, even if a man puts the effort, he is doing everything all the time. There is no reciprocation.

The ambition thing is real. I've moved back in with my mom to help her out with the house and as she gets older just to help out in general. But as a single male obviously this is an idea or attractive is what I thought. But I've been on some amazing dates and those women said they don't mind me staying with my mom because I have ambition and drive to be better and to make something for myself. Just want to throw that out there. Thank you Courtney for the video 🙏🏾

When a girl asks me for my number, I get suspicious now. I had girls ask me for my number before, but nothing became of it so I removed their numbers. If they're fishing to see what they can catch, they can grab a fishing pole and go to the lake.

I still find it funny that many women find men attractive if he make more than 6 figures. The only way most men can even come close to that is through criminal activity. After working for 6 figures for a couple of years I ended up quitting. I would work endless hours and had consistent health problems. Give me a regular 8 hour job that would allow me to be with my horses and do my volunteer work. I'd rather be a successful human being that would benefit many people and affect their lives than a successful man who benefits one woman who still could leave me in the end.

Courtney is right. I started to take care of myself more and have made fantastic progress over the years! Has this helped me become more attractive to women? Not even remotely. BUT! It has made me like myself more, and, truthfully speaking, that's a lot more important to me.

RIP Pele 🇧🇷😭

I learned when I give a woman attention she doesn't want it. But when I ignore her she wants the attention. So I decided not to give her too much attention. It doesn't really bother anymore if she doesn't reply to me anymore.

$500,000 dollars a year... Really The mayor of Jacksonville, FL quadrupled his pay when he became the UNF campus president of my college. He made around $420,000, and everyone despised him for it. Students, professors, and everyone hated it. Several presidents have come and gone since then. Remember the kid down the block who died from MS because he couldn't afford the medicine. That's because the maker of that medicine made a $500,000 bonus and just bought a mega yacht. So you can be rich on a yacht with your honey and also have blood on your hands too... That's so cute of you two!

Oke so these are the salaries which they want their bf to make: 70-100k, 300k, 125k, 500k, 150-250k. Let's see which job titles fit that: 100k: engineers, financial/investment analyst, 150k: engineering/financial managers and physicists/astronomers, 200-250k: chief executives, pilots and physicians, 300k: surgeons, cardiologists, 350k> do not exist (as a standard job).

“Putting in more effort” applies to me a lot. For most of my life, I wasn’t very successful with women. When I was in high school, I started to spike my hair for the first time. Then, all the sudden, I was getting lots of female attention, girls were smiling at me all the time, and it was all because I made one little change. It was actually the first time I had any hairstyle. I think my friends started to get jealous of me because they started to realize how good looking I am. One day, at the lunch table, one of my friends looked at me and said “You look like one of the fuckin’ popular kids.” That triggered me, because most of the popular boys had my same hairstyle, and I didn’t like those kids. Eventually I stopped spiking my hair because i started to become too self-conscious- it looked like I was trying to fit in with “them”, when in reality I was just trying to get some style. I’ve always been a social outcast and I’m not a people person, so if I really wanted to boost my attractiveness, I would’ve had to develop better social skills as well. As of now, I’m in college, and I’m glad I found this channel.

For the longest time I though being nice was an attractive feature but it makes you weak so I've detached myself from ever giving into liking a girl until the day I learn to put myself on top before anyone else

So I need to make 125k MINIMUM to date now? That’s less than 10% of the population Women need to get real holy shit

the money part is so ridiculous.. 500 THOUSAND!?? not even brain surgeons make that much. y’all are naming celebrity numbers and make women look so bad

If a women dated me because of my income, i would skip her... who needs that !! I would want someone who just likes me for me. I would rather be alone. My wife met me when i had nothing , and she did not care about how much i made. She has never had to work , but she would if need be.

If you find yourself having to pursue a girl, it’s already a losing battle, there’s no way to win or any gimmicks to force the attraction

“Well, that’s probably how the cookie is going to crumble for you...” Courtney straight up with the truth! I really believe contentment is a huge factor in being able to believe in yourself and bring the energy needed for a healthy relationship.

Yeah I don't know about all this seven years ago I was homeless had nothing, today I make almost $100,000 a year I own my own house brand new truck to classic cars and I'm still a f****** zero, either you got it or you don't, and obviously I f****** don't

It always kills me that a woman who wants to do nothing but be a stay at home wife with a man that takes care of her has the balls to demand a man with ambition. So… I have to be this crazy ambitious go-getter and you get to be a leach? Got it. 🙄

This is real easy: 1: you're not attractive 2: you're not pulling 7 figures The end 👍

$127k. Where the fuck did that number come from?? Haha

I just joined Anytime Fitness last month and I’m doing their 6 week challenge. It’s a great way to get in shape and get out and meet people. It’s just people getting in shape and staying in shape. No selfies or steroid users. Going to the classes helps with accountability.

For me, I saw this video as more like why I find myself unattractive (yes, it is important that you think you look good) and why women find me unattractive. And you highlighted a great deal of key issues that I find within myself. But none of it is beyond redemption - these are things that are totally reversible and I thank you for making this video😁

Imma keep it short and simple: “hold on loosely, but don’t let go, if u cling too tightly, you’re gonna loose control”

I started watching your videos about a year ago, and I have learned a lot. I look forward to seeing more of your awesome and insightful content in 2023. Happy New Year, Courtney!

Telling a Starving person, to have an abundance mindset, especially when they have no concept of what abundance is, is unlikely to be productive. Loneliness and Hunger share the same part of the brain, the reactions are likely to be very similar. Telling a hungry/starving person to just think they have eaten doesn't work. This is most insanely harder for those with abundance to understand as they never seen scarcity. Just look at some of the women you have talked with about income. I wonder if the increase of the loneliness in the west has introduced overeating to try to stimulate the same portion of the brain. This may be one facet of the western societies being overweight.

These videos always talk about men needing to do better but nobody wants to consider if the effort is worth the tiny bit of reward. As long as hypergamy exists we will never have fair relationships. Hypergamy makes most men lonely because they need to measure up to win a womans approval. If every man started doing their best right now to be a high value man then nothing would change, because woman will just raise their standards.

Unrealistic expectations = childless and single

"500k, is that bad?" - a 6 at best. Realistic.

nah the women's expectations for money are top 1%, don't worry kings, just keep going and building your life and find someone who brings something to the table as well other than just sex

Whatever the income number chosen, if I'm making six figures a year, I do not want a woman who can/is/will spend six figures a year. It's weird to me that people have these wild numbers when the average income for one person is like under 40k apparently. I think the blame can be placed on people who willingly put themselves in debt owning homes and vehicles their paychecks can't afford. Even young celebrities go broke and have their stuff repossessed for non payment. What chance do you, as an average joe, have to maintain that lifestyle? It's so rampant that we think that is a normal thing to own in your 20s and early 30s. It's not. I guess the takeaway is to keep your earnings a secret and screen people who are overly interested in it.

With respect, I simply don’t care what excuses they use to call me unattractive.

Women who chase after these rich boys are gonna be in for a big surprise when inflation peaks and their money isnt worth sh*t. Shoulda went after the hunter who knew how to live off the land

Hi Will, You are absolutely correct! I have been around the block a few times, married & divorced, did the dating things & @ the end of the day most women have the attitude of..."What can you do for me?" This is why old & plain looking guys with money can still get women.

Fun fact: only 2.6% of the workforce earns $250k or more per year, and out of all the people age 25-55 making $250k per year, only 8% are single. So, good luck ladies.

Cause I'm ugly? Lol

Are these women being serious? They want guys who earn $250k - $500k. I feel like they're taking piss out of me.

If a woman expects me to make good money…. She NEEDS to be willing to support me BEFORE I make that much; if I’m working full time and going to school, she better not say “sorry, but you’re too busy/stressed out. I need a man who’s got time for me and emotionally stable.” Okay, then when I’m successful, you won’t exist to me. Women need to be willing to nurture a man they’re expecting to provide for her

" . . do it for you're freakin' self!" Love it! All these tips will help not just with dating but with work, personal relationships, etc. I've been extatically, happily married for 15 years and use Courtney's advice to woo my wife, improve myself professionally and even take better care of my skin!

Coutrney's videos are usually generalized and obvious advice to older people. However, being someone who has had no trouble dating but likes younger women I tune in sometimes. Also, there's some real raw comments on here that don't get her "love it" nod of approval. If there's one takeaway here that matters most it's focus on building yourself and don't place so much emphasis on women... or any illusions of modern western culture. Those girls were perfect examples of what real men do not want.

Here's what works for me. I'm no pro or stud(far from it!), just a 50 year-old guy who is friends with his exes, and can count his bad relationships on his thumbs. Exercise. You don't have to be killing it with cross fit or getting 6-pack abs. Just exercise enough to be in shape. Be able to go for a hike three to five miles without feeling like you need a defibrillator. Dress right. Classic styles never die. Nice khaki style or jeans, a decent jacket or blazer, a nice FITTED Tee, polo, or button-down, and appropriate shoes(put away the Jordans. You aren't 12); clothing that fits without being too tight or looking like you lost 50 pounds and haven't been clothes shopping in months. If you are proud of what you do, and are passionate about it, you don't have to be making 6 figures. I've never made close to 6 figures and have no issues. All the ladies she interviewed are GIRLS. They all have "pretty privilege", have their pick of partners, and most haven't yet learned that most of those 1-2% they are after are going to be fucking them and the other twenty to thirty women just like them. If you are you, are driven and passionate about what you do, be it work or other passions, and don't live in a van down by the river, you can find a decent woman who will give a shit about you and care for you as much as you care for them. Good hygiene is a must. Take care of yourself. Shower regularly(once every two to three days is not regularly). Wash your ass. scrub your feet(the water at the bottom of the tub doesn't count). Wear a nice scent. Honestly, I've had no trouble, and I'll just have a sandalwood-scented deodorant as my only scent, most days. Trim your hair every month or so. Even if it's long, trim the ends and keep down the frizz. For facial hair, don't listen to the little girls. Wear facial hair that fits your face. Shaped stubble looks tacky. Neck beards will NEVER be in fashion. A strong mustache needs a strong face. There's a reason Navy SEALs and fire fighters wear them. If you have a nice face, however, don't cover it up! Also, if you have wispy beards or mustaches, stay shaved. It's not worth it. Finally, don't worry about it! Women are not the end-all be-all. Focus on friendships, with men and women. Long after relationships end, friends will still be there to share all your good times and bad. Cultivate friends and you will be a better human being, which will make you more attractive to the RIGHT woman(not the most attractive, but the right one). Most of the longest relationships and most successful marriages were not started at a bar or on Tinder/Grinder. They were started at the workplace, at interests/events they shared, or through mutual friends. If you focus on these, you will find someone that you will care about and can spend your time with, not just a romantic fling that will burn out, or a rejection that will just leave you more depressed. Of course, I know fuck-all, so take it with a grain of salt.

IMO People telling guys to not act desperate when trying to atract women is like an Employer asking you to have 2+ years of experience in order to to be hired. Kind of hard to get the work experience if you never had the opportunity to work. Same thing applies to relationships, kinda hard to come off as needy or desperate when you starved for intimacy, sex and female attention. I understand what Courtney is trying to say not trying to come off as cynical just making an observation.

It’s incredibly difficult when I’m a single dad with a deadbeat mom for an ex.

I've followed these principles for years and years still have rejection rate of 99.999% not sure these tips help when a lot of women have a massive checklist of requirements and difficult to work out ! I believe the stats are that women find 80% of men unattractive and well over 50% of women in the west will be single by 2030, given how tough i find it these figures seem extremely accurate.

The women who threw out salary figures are nuts and gold diggers

Talk about how women should be in a world where artificial wombs, genetic engineering and sexbots become commonplace. Women are endangered because most rely on men for survival; that’s their primary concern when assessing romantic relationships with men. In the future, the demand for women will decrease to the point that they may become second class citizens or even extinct. Tell us the value of estrogen in the world to come.

If you want to really help men, women need to start checking each other and shouting down the women who have these unrealistic and entitled attitudes. The same way women beat men down for the last 50 years. The faster and more aggressive you ladies are with defending good men the faster ladies will start finding husbands. Otherwise men will continue to walk away and ladies will go home crying to a lonely glass of wine and their overused vibrators

Common sense suggestions however never underestimate the effect of pheromones on women or their natural ability to attract women to men. A simple and inexpensive experiment is for a man to wear an item of clothing that isn't filthy but that he has sweated in, to any informal social gathering where there are lots of women. Axillary sweat has Androstadienone which has been shown in studies to cause a positive mood and heightened focus(arousal) in women. Reference "Pheromones and their effect on women's mood and sexuality" J. Verhaege, R. Gheysen, P. Enzlin. National Library of Medicine, NCIB 2013.

0:35 ACTING DESPERATE 2:33 NO AMBITION 4:24 NO EFFORT (self-care, etc) 7:32 YOU THINK YOU ARE UNATTRACTIVE ACTING DESPERATE - Even when I acted aloof and "uninterested", nothing changed. All I succeeded in doing was becoming invisible, and giving a sigh of relief to all women who feared I might approach them. NO AMBITION - Ambition, motivation, etc, comes from having something to aspire to/for. When one is rendered with nothing left to work/strive for, when all goals are failed or denied, ambition goes out the window - it's like having gasoline but no car to put it in. NO EFFORT - I put SO MUCH effort into my appearance, but it was never good enough. I put SO much effort that I became OCD about it. And oh, surprise surprise, THAT was a "turn off", cos I wound up spending more time on my appearance (especially the hair) than most women. I thought we were PAST all these "gender stereotypes", but I guess not - some "rules" still apply? I am NOT a trend follower and I had my own unique style, but that was not appreciated. If being accepted or considered attractive means whoring out to trends and conforming to crap I don't like or that are NOT ME, it's not worth it. I'd rather sell my soul to the Devil. "Don't change who you are", but "go get a haircut and change your wardrobe"... Sounds exactly like changing who you are to me. If one WANTS a change, stemming form their own desire for one, then that is fine. But to be "pressured" into it just to achieve some goal? That's a compromise and a sell-out. What if you ACTUALLY like yourself, in all your quirky, oddballish ways? What if you like your current hair style and wardrobe despite it not being "current" or "trendy" (but also is not terribly "outdated" or out of fashion entirely)? I thought if people don't like you for those things then that is THEIR problem? Yet still the "advice" is to get a makeover? So why do YOU gotta make all the efforts and changes? Being told that what you have and what you are is not good enough and conformity is the only option, should not be accompanied by hollow affirmations of "be who you are", cos that is a CONTRADICTION. And it's a slippery slope - if you conform a little now, what about next time? You already changed a little before, what's a little more now? Or later? How many times and how many "small" concessions must one make until it's finally enough? It's NEVER enough. Once you start down that road of changing JUST to impress/appease others, there's no return. You LOSE yourself and you can never be who you ARE (cos you FORGET), and become only who others expect/want you to be. I don't think anyone truly understands what "BE who/what you ARE" REALLY means, or what it requires. Yeah, "be yourself", but ONLY til it becomes inconvenient and too hard... then, sell out. NO. THANKS. YOU THINK YOU ARE UNATTRACTIVE - Oh, it's beyond what I 'think' now... it's what I KNOW, cos I have not only been told as much, I am not stupid ; I see things happening around me. I see what people are attracted to, and what they're not. I'm not delusional enough to think that I can "win anyone over" with my amazing personality, hilarious sense of humor and good heart despite my lousy looks. No one cares about that stuff until AFTER the looks criteria is met. Well, I cannot deliver on that one, so, this honorable, decent, funny, smart guy is gonna just watch everyone run around in circles pursuing these shallow and superficial endeavors, pissing away quality cos it comes in a less than perfect packaging, and then wonder why they can't find anyone "nice" or "good". So why wouldn't I "think" I am unattractive? It's called facing (and accepting) the the hard (ugly) truth (especially when it keeps turning up in every mirror). And one last note : Q : _"Where are all the GOOD men?"_ A : Right where you left them : In the "Friend Zone" and/or chucked to the side of the road, cos those GOOD men were simply NOT GOOD ENOUGH for your finicky criteria.

I did a lot of this...And then met a bunch of single moms/party girls. Being attractive/taking care of myself didn't fix a thing. It just made me got Mgtow.

I admittedly made a lot of these mistakes in the past, specifically with the first one. The career/ambition stuff has been easier for me as I made that a priority over dating in my younger years.

We all heard average yearly income expectetions from women such as 100K , 200K , 500K or 338K is STILL good but these are the 1-3% of the male population that are 97% of this tiny population are married with children and over the age of 65. How many of those top earners are over 6 ft or have six pack abs or ... Can you guarentee anything with their looks ? What is the possibility ? Of course , I did that too. The moment you get slight smile from a girl at the grocery most men , including me , start melting down. Men at this time are the MOST DESPERATE compared to women. Men need love more than ever before. Because women eliminate 95+% of the men DOWN ON THE LINE. Even the ones are 2-3 on beauty scale. Max Verstappen 25-26 years old (Formula 1 driver) he is with someone that 37 years old. Or all the other high level high status men having problem (Tom Brady) and I can not stand when they come up with ''bettering yourself is the answer'' type of solution. Once you know one thing about her that she had her party years and she had eye-rolls from other six pack abs men and that party years and high level of promiscuity ITS OVER. There is no more point for me to hope or expect anything from this marketplace. Yes sure better yourself but NOT for this ''LaLa Land'' mindset. You better yourself for youself. INVEST INVEST INVEST. Do not make yourself a target buy wearing flashy clothes with flashy car. Hide it ! Once you do that it will way easier for you to filter them. Because after social media , Instagram and especially dating apps... E-V-E-R-Y-T-H-I-N-G has CHANGED ! Get that into your head RIGHT NOW !

I'm 5' 5". That is an automatic loss.

I always love your videos, it allows me to take a step back and realize what a loser I am.

I disagree with most of the mannosphere because I think being nice can occasionally charm women in rare cases. You just have to be very careful and sparing with your validation and keep your emotions under control. Of course it’s mostly about genetics and Money but what the mannosphere misses is that being nice broadens your social circle. Popularity is a big deal to women. Even if you’re ugly it raises your rating.

If all of this is true, then how is it that the guy who lives above me who doesn't workout, doesn't work at all, has a sexy baby mama and like 6 side chick's that are at least 6s? But I work, workout 5x a week religiously, invest, and can't get a woman if my life depended on it?

Courtney, those ladies you interviewed are sure getting roasted all over the internet. I'm seeing segments of your interviews all over You Tube and various video shorts.

Bro some of those salaries were wildly unrealistic haha, 300k?... 500k?!

I’m unattractive and I’m learning to accept it. It makes me unique. I remember when I was in really good shape and a group of girls passed by and one of them said “butterface” and like I’m the type of ugly where I can do all the looks maxing in the world but it ain’t gonna take away my ugly. The most important thing that women look for is not height, it’s not money, it’s not the ability to make her laugh, it’s having six pack abs and a nice body….its having an attractive face. Women may not admit but it’s from experience, this won’t apply to every single women but women in general. So if you are facially very unattractive as a man, get a consultation with a plastic surgeon, if they cannot fix your issues then I am very sorry to inform you that looks maxing will not help you, getting buff and jacked will not help you. Don’t waste your time, this will save so much heartache and disappointment. Focus your energy on your career, your hobbies, your personal development. Women are a waste of time who will only use you and exploit you if you’re ugly.

If chad is desperate or clingy it usually not seen as a negative. They see it as romantic. We arent getting dates or matches cause we are ugly/average looking and women arent attracted to average/ugly guys and its very hard to become chad when 80% of its genetic. If you are bald, short, ugly/average face dating in the modern world becomes extremely difficult.

I am semi retired, debt free, own my house and am not creating debt. Still Courtney, I am 65 and I am a realist! My wife of 26 years died in 2014 and I will never find a decently attractive and good woman at my age and I am fine with that. That's reality, that is life! And besides, I don't want to change! No woman is worth my changing for them.

I Love being put in the Friend Zone. In my experience The Friend Zone does not last too long. It's also how I like to get to know them. As a friend they will tell you a lot more about themselves without sugar coating. They will even treat you to dinner and drinks because you are "only friends". They will bring their hot friends to your house because you are "only friends".

Hi Courtney, your content has been crucial to my dating life. Thank you so much! Happy new year and all the best to you. Cheers to you having a half a million subscriber in the new year 🥂🍾

Joining the military really helped fix my issues with insecurity. I used to be nearly 300 lbs and lost 100 lbs to do something most Americans aren't even WILLING to do. I have come to accept some people have it better than me in certain areas in life, but that's how it is for everyone else. I have my flaws but I find ways to improve myself every day. Another big thing I've noticed is that temporarily getting away from everyone I know to focus on myself has done wonders as well.

Like Jay-Z said “no such thing as a ugly billionaire” lol

“Since [narcissists] deep down, feel themselves to be faultless, it is inevitable that when they are in conflict with the world they will invariably perceive the conflict as the world's fault. Since they must deny their own badness, they must perceive others as bad. They project their own evil onto the world. They never think of themselves as evil, on the other hand, they consequently see much evil in others.” ― M. Scott Peck

The Title is Wrong.

People forget that dating is a numbers game. There’s probably only 1% of women out there that actually finds you genuinely attractive. Who cares about the other 99%? It’s your mission to weed through the 99% and find the best out of that 1%. Nobody said it was going to be easy, but as a man it must be done.

Drive and ambition huh? Whatever happened to having a job, a car, and your own place? It always amazed me when a woman talks about what about what a man has attained financially, when all men want from most women is for them to be fit and peaceful. What's more attainable?

These women who say a guy has to make 100k, be 6'4" & on & on have unrealistic expectations. They are also showing their lack of depth, shallowness, materialistic. This is "princess syndrome" & they likely will live a sad life. The things money can't buy are the keys to happiness.

Good freaking lord - those price expectations LOL. The average American person ages 24-34 makes around 52k. This can be much lower/higher in certain states. The unrealistic expectations need to be addressed.

I remember watching a TED Talk video a year or so ago. The speaker was a man who, before he was born, had a benign tumor inside his skull. During his gestation, that tumor deformed his skull so that his eyes were spaced very far apart. It was a very obvious thing, and he'd endured lots of mocking while he was growing up. His self esteem was obviously low (even the strongest person would have been affected by the mocking). As an adult, he eventually had multiple surgeries to work on it, and his appearance improved some. However, there was one final surgery that could be done, but there was a high risk of it leaving him blind. His deformity was still very obvious, but he looked a lot better than he did before the first surgery. I mention this guy's story because he's now married to a beautiful woman and he has wonderful kids. What's inside us can often counter problems of physical appearance.

I’ve been so insecure about not being able to grow a full beard that I had been contemplating having hair transplants placed inside my face to grow one. I eventually scrapped that idea since I learned that both the side effects and healing process were not going to be too pleasant. I’d like to hear your thoughts about why you think some people do this. Hope you enjoyed your Christmas and have a Happy New Year!

I get desperate, clingy, or needy when I don’t have a lot going on in life. It’s like pent up energy, put that energy towards an ambition, a purpose, or goals and you’ll get your mind off of that girl

I'm working toward retirement and nobody should get in the way! I mean NOBODY!

Lolol stop caring what women think. They slow

Yeah, I agree with her points. I failed a few of them too when I was younger. But the thing is, change them but don't expect things to be all fine and dandy right away. The delusional types will still be there. The shit-testers. The solipsistic types. The financial vampires. Change those points for YOU, not THEM. Don't get turned down and pretend not to give a shit, but ACTUALLY don't give a shit. 'Fine, not you then someone else, or just not'. Walk into a room and don't think 'I hope someone here likes me' but 'Let's see if there's someone here that I like'. Women are an welcome addition to your life, not a necessity.

Hey Courtney, without knowing what sort of resources you have at your disposal, I'd like to propose that you find a way to speak to a broader range of women. I think the current group has demonstrated a very isolated and privileged outlook, and as such a lot of your audience is starting to see them as socially ignorant/socially myopic (perhaps rightly, for at least a few of them). The trouble the current small sample presents is that it may serve to cement certain ill informed attitudes about women in the men within your audience, some of whom appear to be fairly socially isolated. In the US and Canada, where the majority of your audience resides, there are at least 150 million adult women, some of whom have outlooks _far_ different from your current group. Your videos are very clickable, but I foresee diminishing returns in the future. No one is expecting you to tour coast to coast, but honestly my gut is telling me that the regressive ideas of some of the women in your group are not really all that common within the wider population. Just food for thought.

You are beautiful, but it’s always good to stay humble. Looks fade, time marches on. You’ll have a legacy of helping people to be proud of.

This is real red pill content. She calmly takes on both the blue and black pills with (paraphrased) "women don't want a man to be too interested in them, especially initially" and "if you increase your health then you can increase your attractiveness to women". Courtney is offering real and red pill solutions in a way that could be digested by the most diverse audience of most red pill creators.

I think shes trying to help, but men and women have completely different realities when it comes to dating. Remember fellas, if you're trying to catch a fish, ask a fisherman, not a fish.

I was always seen as an unattractive candidate back in college because: 1) I am introvert. 2) I am too nice instead of being a "bad boy". Nice means boring. 3) I am not a disco-er of bar goer. Instead in my spare time I used to study or work. 4) I used to play a lot of Squash as a fitness exercise and that game is not a very social game. 5) Don't smoke and don't drink. 6) I wear simple clothes and don't care a bit for fashion. 7) I wasn't rich, 8) I wasn't interested in one night stands, instead I was looking for a girl who had the same viewpoints about our future, i.e. work, get education done, save, buy a house instead of the lif-laf-party going culture. Twenty years later....I got what I want. Good job, work in higher ed, no debt other than mortgage, financial solid, and more than once there is some single mother ot some other divorcee interested in me. Nope, not falling for it. Looking at some of my old friends who got fleeced by the family courts, I think I dodged a bullet. I am good! mgtow for me...