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This Is Why Women Are Single… 

Courtney Ryan
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@corhou8619
@corhou8619 Год назад
When I was on a date with a woman and she asked how I would raise daughters if I had them, I said: "I'd raise them like they are ugly. I want them to be kind, honest, educated hard workers. Because no matter how they look, the world wants those traits from everyone. And if they're pretty, then that's a bonus. We're all going to get old someday, and we'd better be good people when our skin sags." Women like the one in the video are raised wrong. I tell fathers all the time to quit reinforcing unearned ego and arrogance and don't treat your daughters like they are princesses and queens, because that makes them believe they don't have to earn anything and that they *deserve* things unearned. Teach girls the value of earning status, not entitlement.
@leniobarcelos1770
@leniobarcelos1770 Год назад
Nice... On a different note, at first glance I kind of mistook your username as "Cornholio". My bad. lol
@ismaelhall3990
@ismaelhall3990 Год назад
smart man
@anti-validation
@anti-validation Год назад
40% of babies in the USA are being born into single mother households. Women raise children. Men raise responsible adults. Women have replaced nuclear families with casual sex and baby daddies. Baby daddies want to be dads; they want nothing to do with the moms. Looking for a good woman in America is a waste of time and effort. All the good women are south of the border. They have religion, family, and values.
@x-man5056
@x-man5056 Год назад
Awesome dude.
@abelflores5976
@abelflores5976 Год назад
Women that behave like that typically DO NOT have a dad or father figure in their lives.
@amosglitterz2649
@amosglitterz2649 Год назад
Back in college, girlfriend of about 3 months - "I could break your heart if I wanted to." I was quite taken aback because things were going great (I thought). I said "Let me save us both the trouble." Dumped her on the spot. Funny thing is, she pursued me hard after that. One party seems to have (or think they have) the upper hand in a relationship. When that hierarchy gets flipped......wow.
@Kal.El1
@Kal.El1 Год назад
Toxic women like this ALWAYS tell on themselves within the first few interactions. The older you get, the better you get at spotting it. I’m actually relieved when they do this. Believe who they are the first time they let it slip. If she genuinely likes you, she won’t play waiting games. She’ll text you back asap.
@justins4274
@justins4274 Год назад
Entitlement will only lead you to loneliness and misery.
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan Год назад
Agreed
@bfitnessjoe
@bfitnessjoe Год назад
I just ghosted a girl who thought I was going to wait for her responses days later lol.
@Acess-1bx
@Acess-1bx Год назад
​@@CourtneyRyan✍🏻🧧you really look so cute & Astonishing sometimes dearest 💮🧠 "Courtney."💮💮
@Nev1812
@Nev1812 Год назад
​​@@Acess-1bxCough You mean *Isabella*
@FunnyDolphin782
@FunnyDolphin782 Год назад
She has it exactly backwards. She should feel lucky she found a guy she actually likes, especially since girls like men who women like and guys don’t like women who entertain a lot of men lol
@lenas.4943
@lenas.4943 Год назад
This girl should use her own logic to determine that the guy is not responding cause he doesn't care to respond. She is in his "respond in a week" category 😂
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan Год назад
👀 good point LOL
@Masteroogway40
@Masteroogway40 Год назад
As a man, I would give that woman a wide birth. Also, I find it amusing that many women think that men don't talk to each other. I knew this very obnoxious woman who had turned down in a rude way, 2 guys that I know. Then, later, I overheard her complaining to a group of women that no guys were asking her out at all. I thought well no duh, ya think? You act like that, and word gets around. Guys, talk. They tell their buddies hey man avoid this one she's nuts. Then women like that find themselves alone and can't for the life of them figure out why.
@thinkingoutloud9126
@thinkingoutloud9126 Год назад
You’re right, that jealousy play turns me right off. I dip if I even think I smell it.
@OpEditorial
@OpEditorial Год назад
The men she hasn't bothered replying to are the lucky ones 😂
@dariusposton5714
@dariusposton5714 Год назад
😂🤣😂 And I thought that I was the only one who saw it that way.
@OpEditorial
@OpEditorial Год назад
@@dariusposton5714 exactly, she's essentially just admitted to running a romance scam. And she still believes she's the hero of the story, because she hasn't asked any of these poor bastards for money.
@saskruffriders8234
@saskruffriders8234 Год назад
That video landed EXACTLY the way she wanted. She says something way out of left field, something controversial, something that's going to p$ss people off, all for some views, clicks and likes.
@Swidhelm
@Swidhelm Год назад
Absolute hubris. I dismiss people like that out of hand.
@EricAwful313
@EricAwful313 2 месяца назад
Not just a little bit of a turnoff; it's an outright deal breaker. And no, we are definitely not impressed by women who are being flocked by a bunch of other guys. It is after all unrealistic for any guy to think the situation is otherwise anyway, so hearing about it is just insult to injury. As I said, it's an outright deal breaker, and...no quarter; don't care if its just some 'misunderstanding'.
@deanwalker38
@deanwalker38 Год назад
OH She DEFINITELY ment it that way, now everyone can see her true self.
@bang_bang4511
@bang_bang4511 Год назад
Thank you Courtney for your content and addressing unhealthy attitudes. 🎉❤️
@Dandan-tg6tj
@Dandan-tg6tj Год назад
The one she thinks men should know how lucky they are if she responds... she's in for a hard treat. Not right now but in few years.
@dancoe4489
@dancoe4489 Год назад
Don't forget, I have to like her too! Looks is not the only criteria I go by. She has to have a good personality also.
@mhill88ify
@mhill88ify 6 месяцев назад
If she was attracted to me because of my personality, physique, and dressing well, then it wasn't luck at all...that's called planning, preparation, and dedication. I like me too baby.
@joegarrick2760
@joegarrick2760 Год назад
If I ever happened to accidentally text that woman, I can only hope that I'd be one of those guys she didn't respond to.
@Hartin31
@Hartin31 Год назад
I've never seen so many red flags in such a short video
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan Год назад
Right 🫠
@fitforfreelance
@fitforfreelance Год назад
It's wild that she put herself on blast for getting rejected the same way she rejects others 😵‍💫 the low self awareness is remarkable
@alansun70
@alansun70 Год назад
I'm ready to move on to a new relationship. I love chatting with women & some girly stores. It's been tough making friends, though. I like social groups except if it's men only.
@JMD1965
@JMD1965 Год назад
I'm a gentleman... I treat you & others with respect... I help you out in life when asked (within reason & resources)... I provide stability & security... I am honest.... I have ambition and drive... but I am the lucky one??? ... YOU are 'the prize'???? ... Riiiiiiiigggght.... Sure you are...
@seangaw6429
@seangaw6429 Год назад
Women who needs to disclose their fan list of $!mp$ only shows how insecure she is that she needs other men to pedastalize her. This is very sad.
@PolishKnightUSA
@PolishKnightUSA Год назад
Hello Courtney: My theory: One is that the woman doesn't understand the difference in mindset between men and women. Men who have dozens of women hitting on them are attractive to women even if this means the man is probably a "player" or cheater while a "nice guy" whom few women like, but is otherwise a wonderful person, is unattractive. Men are the opposite of this in that we would only be concerned about a woman having a high body count but otherwise don't care one way or another if a woman has a lot of men hitting on her in terms of us finding her attractive! We find a woman attractive or not based upon whatever criteria we have. Next, the obvious response is that if a man isn't responding to her texts quickly as some kind of "privilege", it's because he may be one of those men with dozens of women texting him to have bedroom fun meaning that she's the one who is privileged. Few men are in that category and he's treating her with the same disdain she treats the "normie" men texting her. It doesn't occur to her that not all men are the same nor that what she thinks is somehow universal. Observation on psychology: Narcissistic people are often victims of their own games ("they play themselves") and frustrated and angry when that happens but refuse to learn from it because they are in love with their delusions. The delusions prop them up in some ways, but drag them down in others. They often have poor relationships with people as the normies eventually move on and their peer equals exploit them. A red flag I missed when I dated a narcissist is that she griped about how she was surrounded by users but yet didn't get rid of them. That was because the normie, me, moved on and the users stuck around because she let them.
@havardwindingstad4112
@havardwindingstad4112 Год назад
I have had this been said to my face by someone I was not interested in...
@rjakob8073
@rjakob8073 Год назад
Entitlement is rampant with that woman. I would be upset with her about that remark, and would not venture further.
@laurentd.4473
@laurentd.4473 Год назад
I think "modern" means of communication (text and social networks) generate social and mental issues, and can be damaging for the person (like in this video). A shrink in my area told me that he has some patients are already deep down. Mostly under 30 years old. I sent some texts or DM, no answer for days-weeks-months, so I move on. Not the end of the world. We are 8 billlions of people on this planet, so the choice is very large 🙂
@natehill8069
@natehill8069 Год назад
I would be thrilled to get a same-day text telling me shes an asshole; I can move on that much sooner.
@octavianr526
@octavianr526 5 месяцев назад
Pedestalize may be misunderstood in some situations, in which women's beauty is looked at through spirituality. Some Oriental spirituality has a worship approach that lifts up a man-woman relationship from the ground and from an animal-human behavior. The world looks like we think about it and man-woman relationships only horizontally are sad and limited. If you say women do not like to be pedestalized, you are talking about uneducated and lacking spirituality women, especially in Western countries. I am not talking about crazy pedestalizing, which is toxic.
@michaelwheeler3782
@michaelwheeler3782 Год назад
This woman doesn't realize how lucky the man is that she is not responding. MGTOW is sounding better by the hour
@samwalton4598
@samwalton4598 Год назад
Nature has a way of dealing with little Narcissists like this! It’s called age! And that age for women is 30! The crows feat begin to show and everything begins to sag and maybe a little cellulite grows on those now larger thighs……..and for the Narc? That texting dries up. No more texts. and the only texts she gets? Are from guys who want to Netflix and chill! Youth and beauty and fertility are the only things that matter to a man. And men know that has an expiration date! Past age 30 women become increasingly more invisible as men look at the younger hotter tighter women that have now replaced the 30 year bags!
@JeffManaAnytime
@JeffManaAnytime Год назад
Maaan I jumped into some videos about dating and nowadays relationships during dinner tonight and after 3 minutes I started to laugh and wanted to run away, get my guitar and leave the planet 🤣🤣🤣 WTF is going on these days? Women that control 1000 of men every day, check their bank account, being a fu****ing queen, ghosting and shit like that... it's a total mess gents 😂😂 people are giving importance to bullshit and don't realize that you can have an amazing fun life with much less money than you think and a normal group of smart people... money and appearance is cool but.. cmon... Life is something else... ALL THE BEST... stay away from idiots and get close to smart women and men, do your part to fix this shit too if possible! LOVE U :*
@karihamalainen9622
@karihamalainen9622 Год назад
Feminists drive that to women minds. "Man is lucky if woman like man."Courtney - You were wery young when this philosophy started. About 20-25 years ago. And I think this ideology will not change.
@rexwashington1320
@rexwashington1320 10 месяцев назад
Courtney has a calming presence. Men are so used to taking fire that sometimes they shoot friendly fire at women who don’t deserve it. 3:23
@O_TeIe_gram_RealCourtneyRyan
@O_TeIe_gram_RealCourtneyRyan 9 месяцев назад
I wanna have a discussion with you ❤️ Above🛐🤦‍♂️,,.
@natehill8069
@natehill8069 Год назад
Thats not a bit of a turnoff, its a full 64-bit word with parity!
@GoodFellowCharles
@GoodFellowCharles Год назад
And before you know it she'll tell you "No one will ever like you like I do" Or "You'll never find anyone better than me." Sounds like emotional abuse waiting to happen.
@waynycely91
@waynycely91 Год назад
She's very young and doesn't understand what is valuable and how rare it actually is I can't really be mad at her
@johnlewis1113
@johnlewis1113 6 месяцев назад
At 3:35 this video judges communication cadence and effectively condones ghosting.
@graymatters7584
@graymatters7584 Год назад
Same woman in her 40s: “why doesn’t he text back?? Where did all the men go?”
@jonesdarryn1
@jonesdarryn1 Год назад
Courtney, last year this girl told me: "I have 200+ emails in my box so sorry it takes me a while to respond." I don't think saying things like that comes across the way they want. To me, that makes me think: "I don't care, those 200 guys are not realistic candidates, I am. You should be prioritizing ME." Of course Courtney, I am not going to say that because of self respect. I literally just moved on. No, I am not "selling" myself, I am not going to try and convince a girl she should pick me. I'm the guy, I court the girl I want to be with, either get to know me or I'm moving on. Let those girls deal with the simps and think they are special.
@ted1045
@ted1045 Год назад
If I went on a date with someone who said something like this it would be an instant red flag to me overall. I don't think most men are attracted to women who make statements like this...Though there are always outliers for sure.
@whocares2149
@whocares2149 Год назад
I feel like the word "lucky" comes into play in a relationship when someone is upset with the other person. It's not the nicest way to say whatever your problem is with your partner. However, what is the partner doing or not doing that lead the person to get to the point of saying something like "you're lucky because...?" That is usually a *response* to something the other person is doing or not doing. Just not the nicest response. But yeah...a woman like that who isn't even in the relationship yet, saying something like that isn't really a good start. I think the root of her problem with men is that she probably doesn't like them 😅
@ralphwagenet852
@ralphwagenet852 Год назад
Great video. One thought - you don't have to say "that's just my opinion" quite so often - we know that it's what you think, and it's ok to come out strongly about it. Your commenters will be happy to correct you if you happen to be wrong (but I don't think that you will be).
@Dadnatron
@Dadnatron Год назад
I LOVE it when a woman tells you exactly who she is from the beginning. It saves me time, and I never have to deal with her again.
@Danishmastery
@Danishmastery Год назад
Exactly. Makes my life so much easier lol
@robcasaccia4723
@robcasaccia4723 Год назад
Thankyou social media for helping them to expose who they really are.
@pikengren1
@pikengren1 Год назад
Yep. I'm not sure that I want them to go back to pretending to be someone they are not. In today's society people are more free than ever to be who they want to be. So when they show you who they chose to be, believe them.
@tomleigh2110
@tomleigh2110 Год назад
Not to mention , the tons of makeup she is wearing , take off the makeup and lets see what you really look like.
@yoshschmenge1916
@yoshschmenge1916 Год назад
Time AND money. Imagine if you took this woman out on a few dates only to find out the degree to which she is a loathsome human being. You could be out a grand.
@iggs67
@iggs67 Год назад
She's not trying to be with anyone, build something with anyone, she just wants attention and money. Men are wallets to her. I've dated a very attractive girl in my mid 20s (long time ago), she was solid 8 objectively, 10 in my eyes at the time. Everything was great in the beginning until, while we were at a home party with a bunch of HER friends and she made a comment how lucky I am to be with a beautiful girl like her and how she could do better. She went from 10 to 0 in a matter of 5 seconds. I just said "You're right, you CAN do better and I'm not going to stand between you and your true love". Got up and left. She chased me saying that I overreacted, she didn't mean it, etc. But I just said, sorry, it's over, go do better.
@thethesaxman23
@thethesaxman23 Год назад
You’re absolutely right Courtney. When women “flex” the attention they’re getting from other men, it’s a massive red flag to us. Men see that as a lack of commitment and a sign that her loyalty will only last until she gets bored.
@richardw3347
@richardw3347 Год назад
true, if men think their attractive they'll just assume you can get other guys. Most women have inherent value in that way. why speaking about how many options you have makes it look worse, try hard or insecure.
@TheSulross
@TheSulross Год назад
As the top rated comment put it, they are the product of "reinforcing unearned ego and arrogance". But this also translates into one core thing - a person of poor character. The younger generations today presumably have jettisoned the concept of character as being obsolete - something quaint from hoary "ancient" history that is meaningless and irrelevant (because what is contemporary is always superior to past generations, of course). But it's the lack of character that is behind everything that has trended negative in contemporary Western civilization. So younger generations - you are jettisoning the concept of character at your own peril, as Western civilization is visibly crumbling around you and the process is accelerating.
@Josith13
@Josith13 Год назад
Shit that's true most of the time even if they don't sound off about it
@maynardkeenan6521
@maynardkeenan6521 Год назад
SIMP!!!! 😂🤣😁
@ianleary5780
@ianleary5780 Год назад
A thousand likes.
@sansthedrummer
@sansthedrummer Год назад
Narcissism isn't cute. The sad thing is no matter how many people call her out, people like that rarely change. When she ends up lonely later in life, she'll never think any of it is her fault.
@JACCO20082012
@JACCO20082012 Год назад
That's the truly remarkable and nauseating thing about narcissists. They are never truly punished for what they do to people because even though they end up miserable, it's always someone else's fault and they never internalize it and feel genuine shame for what they've done to people their whole lives.
@jv8296
@jv8296 Год назад
She won’t change because she’s good looking and guys who don’t respect themselves will still give her all the attention she craves.
@benliftin4awhile
@benliftin4awhile Год назад
Yep, pisses me off honestly
@GrekeFenris
@GrekeFenris Год назад
Narcissism and unaccountability go hand in hand
@jonwalker2319
@jonwalker2319 Год назад
Why should she change when people validate her narcissism every day ?
@JasonS-eo7sh
@JasonS-eo7sh Год назад
My wife: 5' 9.5" size 0, was constantly compared to Anna Kornikova and Maria Sharapova because of her gorgeous looks...10 times better looking than this joke of a woman yet my wife never held herself above others or talked about how hot she was. She was always kind to everyone she met even when they didn't deserve it. I have spent 90% of my life in LA and when I saw my wife for the first time thought she was the best looking woman I had ever seen. 5 months later we were married. When she was killed last year at the age of 34, my life ended. Seeing women like this make me certain that I never want to date again. I did manage to get 7 years with the most amazing women ever but have been cheated out of the 40 more years we should have had together. I seriously wish I could walk up to this moronic woman and show her pictures of my wife to humble her. I hope she enjoys her next 40 years alone, in a one bedroom apartment, watching life pass her by.
@Darknight526
@Darknight526 Год назад
My condolences for your wife, sorry to hear about that.
@87handmedown
@87handmedown Год назад
Wow dude. I'm glad I saw your comment. My wife was also an unbelievable bombshell that I was able to get 6 wonderful years with. She unfortunately passed away from sudden complications with the pregnancy of our first child. I took some time for myself and then decided to see what I might find out in the wild again. I too am disgusted with the state of the modern woman in America and what dating has become. I get all those feelings of being robbed/cheated and struggle still with accepting the life we should have had together. So, lift weights, work on finances, and buy some cool toys. Find some solid guys you can slam beers with, and don't worry about the rest because when you've had the best, anything less won't do. It's far better to be single than to be with someone you don't want to be married to.
@tonycooke8545
@tonycooke8545 Год назад
I know how you feel. Condolences, old chap. After a two + year battle with cancer, I recently lost my wife. She was a very big part of life for thirty years. Even though she was in her early sixties, she was still quite stunning/petite.
@michaelsix9684
@michaelsix9684 Год назад
thanks for sharing, so sorry you lost your wife -- wish you peace and healing
@WhydoIsuddenlyhaveahandle
@WhydoIsuddenlyhaveahandle Год назад
I am very sorry this happened to your wife
@VarsVerum
@VarsVerum Год назад
I feel like you could be a 10 but instantly turn into a 0 the moment you have a "I'm doing you a favor by acknowledging your existence" attitude...
@biglex785
@biglex785 Год назад
It’s a privilege and a blessing to be a single man 👨 and not have to deal with this type of narcissists 🤦🏻‍♂️
@timothyjburton
@timothyjburton Год назад
10 years later….Where are the good men at??????
@antoniosalcido1931
@antoniosalcido1931 Год назад
been celibate all my life i am 27 but i remember when i was younger i use to get jealous of my friends they where getting laid sll the time with some attractive girls long story short now they are depressed because their girls dont like them no more and some of them even turn to drigs or the party life style they pretty much done they dont seem motivated to improve meanwhile… i am chilling climbing the latter slow and steady always works.
@Eriecartel
@Eriecartel Год назад
@@antoniosalcido1931 im 27 and celibate too you aint alone if that makes it any better. Ive come close but too many red flags, take your time.
@Majuna926
@Majuna926 Год назад
Hi Courtney. This video struck a nerve with me. About 1.5 yrs ago I ended a 5-year toxic relationship with my girlfriend. As in the video, she told me in the beginning that she could have 10-guys waiting to be with her. I was just out of a long term love-less marriage, my new GF was hot and I didn't pay attention to the the reg flags. I see this kind of entitlement fairly often in my single life. I am 62 years old and dating was nothing like this back when I was a younger man. It's sad the behavior of some women today. Thanks again Courtney for leading the charge to restore mens faith in romantic relationships. I am sure many guys on here would agree with me on this point! Congrats on your marriage.
@dontstalkmedeltoro8816
@dontstalkmedeltoro8816 Год назад
She spoke the truth. Maybe men should stop falling all over themselves for a pretty woman. I mean... you can only blame yourself. You go for hot. Shallow people will end up alone.
@northcashhh
@northcashhh Год назад
Nothing will turn me off faster than a girl who is entertaining other men, Or even implying that they are.
@davidlucasmachado2831
@davidlucasmachado2831 Год назад
You and me brother
@trackatlas6626
@trackatlas6626 Год назад
That’s one of the biggest problems with the current dating scene… ALL women seem to be entertaining AS MANY OPTIONS AS POSSIBLE. They can never spread their time around enough amongst all the men they are entertaining JUST FOR ATTENTION. If I even suspect she is talking to more than one other guy, I just stop entertaining her. I don’t have the time or energy to play those games. You can usually tell if you’re into someone after a few dates, so just date one person every 2-3 weeks until you find someone you really like.
@garypierce7380
@garypierce7380 Год назад
Yeah, shake hands and tell her it was nice meeting her.
@Murph_gaming
@Murph_gaming Год назад
@@trackatlas6626 I think a lot of people from both sexes date multiple people at once. You'll find a lot of advice online that says to do that so you don't get oneitis over one particular person too soon.
@Euphoryaaa
@Euphoryaaa Год назад
It is a huge turn off. A girl in my city started messing with a local up and coming musician and she was acting super egotistical about it. Her not even knowing that I’ve met my fair share of “famous people”, influencers and celebrities, they’re not that big of a deal to me, I told her that she’s being conceited. She got mad and unfollowed me and went on about how people these days are only intimidated by her “confidence” or that people that are “jealous” always having to bring others down. But it’s like naw-you’re just a prick
@jamesg1974a
@jamesg1974a Год назад
Because they have a strong misunderstanding of what confidence actually is. A truly confident person doesn’t need to clout chase.
@dudeh9702
@dudeh9702 Год назад
Yuck, turn-off indeed. You bruised her ego (aka gave her a narcissistic injury), so she threw an adult temper tantrum by raging at you and unfollowing you, then she had to protect her ego by telling herself lies that her confidence intimidates people rather than her fragile narcissism under the guise of arrogance actually just turning people off. Sorry you dealt with that person but glad she disappeared.
@LearnEveryday-qr4jl
@LearnEveryday-qr4jl Год назад
​@@dudeh9702let live her delusional life. Everybody looking for her,she is beautiful (just polished her face) and proud, proud for what?😂 everybody likes her or pretend for use her as a tax machine 🦵🏻🪚. But our so called strong independent women and alot egoistic girl selling herself (her body) because she still not able to discover her mental or skillset ability
@jwigley3835
@jwigley3835 Год назад
I had a girlfriend that acted like that. It was my first time ever dating a feminist too and it was the worst relationship of my life. She was massively egoistical and when I would call her out on her bad behavior, she would just accuse me of being a misogynist and claim that I was intimidated by her and her confidence. She also assaulted me one time. Anyway, that was when I was younger. I left her in the dust and any women that act remotely like that I avoid like the plague.
@Danishmastery
@Danishmastery Год назад
@@jwigley3835sorry you had to go through that, but I’m glad you learned something from it.
@daveblackman816
@daveblackman816 Год назад
The privilege?? Haha her attitude would make me thankful to not knowing or hearing from her.
@exothermal.sprocket
@exothermal.sprocket Год назад
It's a privilege to _not_ know her.
@godotblendno107
@godotblendno107 Год назад
I ghosted my situationship (a woman) on Sunday who had been breadcrumbing me for the past 5 months. The last straw for me was when she forgot my birthday. She has repeatedly shown to me over the past 5 months that I am not a priority to her. She treats me like I am a backup option. And the cherry on the shit sundae proving that she doesn't give a shit about me is that she forgot my birthday. Whereas it would have been a cardinal sin if I ever forgot her birthday. lmfao. Also telling from her Instagram stories (she posts stories on Instagram daily, which is a red flag. Women who are addicted to social media are usually low value women), she went out on my birthday. Probably with some other guy to add insult to injury. And I think she may have went to the expo in my city the weekend before my birthday too with another man. When she had mentioned 11 days earlier that she wanted me to take her to the expo with her and win her a Pikachu plushie. We have had sex within that span of 5 months. But it was very sporadically. I think she just sees me as a foodie call and a chauffeur tbh. Because she doesn't drive. And she has on two occasions mentioned that she is in her broke girl era. She also ghosted me once before last fall and hit me up 6+ months later and I took her back into my life. And she is still active on the dating app we met. She has said that she doesn't wanna put a label on it. So I don't feel sorry for ghosting her. If she was at least pleasing me sexually, I wouldn't be bothered by her not pleasing me emotionally and dating other men. But she won't even do the bare minimum. Yet women keep talking about how men don't do the bare minimum. Bruh. Men need to grow a backbone, have some self-respect and be prepared to walk from women who breadcrumb them like this.
@leohalivan861
@leohalivan861 Год назад
That entire thought, "You're lucky I like even respond to you." is an immediate turn-off. My immediate thought in response is, "This person is just going to be a pain in the ass and it's better to just walk away."
@pharmcat8484
@pharmcat8484 Год назад
The Big Boo is correct
@Danishmastery
@Danishmastery Год назад
Straight up. I like to extrapolate and say “Okay, so if she’s like this in the initial phase when people are supposedly on their best behavior and being very accommodating, then down the line when she gets comfortable, she’s gonna be a complete monster”
@kylehackett162
@kylehackett162 Год назад
Unfortunately weak, simple men made this girl and other women this way. Even despite this behavior men will put up with it and chase, inflating her ego
@ChosenPlaysYT
@ChosenPlaysYT Год назад
“Do you have any idea how lucky you are that I even bother talking to you?!” Holy hell run in the opposite direction of that woman lol let her have the hundreds of men in her text messages.
@markknivila8383
@markknivila8383 Год назад
I've left more than a few women, who talked like that, sitting in restaurant, stuck with the bill! Never communicating with them again. I was never God's gift to women, but I will never be their doormat, either! Great video, Courtney!
@PStewart28
@PStewart28 Год назад
Same here. I only entertain women who like me. It's a matter of self respect.
@samuelcohen2362
@samuelcohen2362 Год назад
I miss the days where meeting women in person was the main method of dating. Online dating just seems to have raised women's standards to unrealistic levels. At 25 with a 6 pack, 5 10, and good salary for my age, I am still told by women online that I am "average".
@Ali-ro2vv117
@Ali-ro2vv117 Год назад
Bro you need at least an 18 pack to start rizzin
@samuelcohen2362
@samuelcohen2362 Год назад
@@Ali-ro2vv117 I am aware 💪🤣
@Edmond347
@Edmond347 Год назад
@@rachel.g.. Let's you see how exceptional you are.
@90sshuffle
@90sshuffle Год назад
lol if you have a 6 pack, you are already in the top 1% maybe less
@samuelcohen2362
@samuelcohen2362 Год назад
@@90sshuffle Whether a sarcastic comment or not from her, many women view a guy in the top 1% body wise as average. Sad but true.
@hesimplywillnotdie
@hesimplywillnotdie Год назад
Any time a woman has made it clear that she has options and can get attention from other men I wish her the best of luck with those people and leave.
@khanhcao3123
@khanhcao3123 Год назад
Women who has options can never be happy because they will always think grass will be greener.
@dariusposton5714
@dariusposton5714 Год назад
I wouldn't want to be with that grown girl anyways.
@saylolcool
@saylolcool Год назад
I don't think that's a good way to go. An average to attractive women may have options but that doesn't mean you should drop her. Are you looking for women who don't have options? I.e. women you probably don't want anyway. Women having options shouldn't be your biggest turn off
@dariusposton5714
@dariusposton5714 Год назад
@@saylolcool Hate to burst your bubble, but the vast majority of women (grown girls is way more accurate) who has options have proven to us that they don’t deserve anything good since they all are narcissistic beings.
@MakeYouFeelBetterNow
@MakeYouFeelBetterNow Год назад
@@saylolcoolRead what he said again. It's not that she doesn't have options, all great women do, it's that she's TELLING you that she has options and can get attention from other men. It's a threat and it also implies that you aren't special at all. So @hesimplywillnotdie says "goodbye", which is the correct answer.
@nerigarcia7116
@nerigarcia7116 Год назад
A girl telling me she has a lot of men interested in her doesn't make me desire her more. It just makes me feel as if I'm just another one of them and am not special enough to her for her to single me out and disregard them. I'd move on, it doesn't make her more attractive to me. In fact, it makes her less attractive because of her attitude. There are plenty of attractive people out there who have better attitudes.
@Euphoryaaa
@Euphoryaaa Год назад
It’s sad that some women actually think that works on men because it paradoxically works on many women. Many women become interested in a man even more when he’s sought after by many women but the reverse does not work for men.
@Guigley
@Guigley Год назад
If someone wants to guarantee himself or herself a life of singleness, all they have to do is adopt an attitude that says, "He/she is lucky to be with me."
@993mike
@993mike Год назад
I'm afraid this one is going to be alone crying in her Chardonay with her cats at 40
@leroyrussell8766
@leroyrussell8766 Год назад
It also shows how women literally do NOT understand the situation. The men she's interested in, have more options than she does. Women have this cognitive dissonance, where their understanding of who holds the power, doesn't resonate because they look at their in box and see tons of interest, but they don't seem to understand that most of that interest is from men their aren't interested in. They then see that small amount of guys they are interested in, and seem to think they grow on trees, because they think they are just a handful of all those DMs in their inbox. I often wonder if this perception is on purpose, so they can convince themselves that they are the prize. They don't want to accept the fact that she's one out of many competing for that same guy's attention.
@Guigley
@Guigley Год назад
@@leroyrussell8766I think you touched on one of the many problems with dating apps. They are far better for women in terms of getting a match, but, like you said, they become far too picky and leave a lot of potentially good matches in the dark.
@Wanderer25
@Wanderer25 Год назад
Sounds like the typical woman.
@paultemple3660
@paultemple3660 Год назад
@@993mike Naw, some simp will eventually tap that.
@MountainMetal
@MountainMetal Год назад
Contemporary plastic feminism destroys humility, without which even the hottest 10 becomes less than 0, and it destroys accountability, without which even the hottest number becomes less than zero, but to good men, an absence of humility, or worse, haughty conceit, is an absolute deal-killer.
@The4Tifier
@The4Tifier Год назад
Just from the first few sentences my “Narcissism” alarm went off. People who treat themselves like a prize are bound to be treated like trophies in relationships.
@karuns9500
@karuns9500 Год назад
And ironically end up in last place as a result.
@robertlipsey1160
@robertlipsey1160 Год назад
@@karuns9500narcissist is probly right. Also not the vast majority of women either, even the single ones.
@dontstalkmedeltoro8816
@dontstalkmedeltoro8816 Год назад
Better than letting herself become a victim by having low self worth. She won't deal with BS. Which a lot of women should be doing.
@The4Tifier
@The4Tifier Год назад
@@dontstalkmedeltoro8816 It’s one thing to respect yourself and another to treat yourself like a god. In addition, relationships are two-way streets. It’s just about one partner getting everything they want.
@dontstalkmedeltoro8816
@dontstalkmedeltoro8816 Год назад
@@The4Tifier if she doesn't treat herself well... no one else will either. She most likely had a great father teach her this so she doesn't become a victim. Call it what you want. But she is right. She doesn't owe anyone the time of day. Funny. These channels shame women for talking to men, and then shame them for not talking to men. If women entertained every man that was in her DM. She wouldn't be putting herself first.
@cecilfletcher4404
@cecilfletcher4404 Год назад
😂😂🤣 All that makeup on and he's lucky?! Right....
@mex3000cf
@mex3000cf Год назад
Courtney, Do you know how lucky you are to have me as a subscriber and that I watch your vids same day when I can watch them weeks later! 😅😅😂😂😅
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan Год назад
😂😂
@jenniferklopman2557
@jenniferklopman2557 Год назад
The thing about looks is that they fade away. Character and intelligence can get better with time. People need to invest accordingly. Men who chase women like this aren't playing the long game, that's for sure. Seems that she's being used and also using. No good
@KrystalxElizabeth
@KrystalxElizabeth Год назад
Also I would like to say, as a woman I really find it refreshing that Courtney is level headed and speak on things from both sides.
@jarichards99utube
@jarichards99utube Год назад
YES...! I AGREE & Very Well Said...! 😊 👍 -70SomethingGuy
@amirtak9886
@amirtak9886 Год назад
Agreed
@rickiecomeaux8287
@rickiecomeaux8287 Год назад
She is very classy; the world doesn't deserve her.
@edwarda.tokash8166
@edwarda.tokash8166 Год назад
@@rickiecomeaux8287 Careful! Don't simp! She wouldn't like that. 😂
@ccastaneda669
@ccastaneda669 Год назад
Courtney, perfect comments. Very good and grounded advice.❤ Anyone who thinks that their God's gift to the world and can not provide simple basic courtesy or respect for the opposite sex you need to ignore them and walk away. That's just a disaster waiting to happen and no one needs to be mistreated and disrespected by Ms Lucky. Here is a reality check of life, this knucklehead (Ms Lucky) has not figured out, no matter how good you think you are, there is always someone better. There is always someone stronger, faster, smarter, better looking then you. She's so wrapped around her little world. She hasn't figured that out. The best any of us can hope for is to be humble, help those around us and be grateful for what we have and be gracious and kind. Generally speaking, ......people think that those individuals who have wonderful skills, personality and are grounded are more attractive. If you think your God's gift to the world, don't be surprised when you're treated badly or disrespected because that's the way you're treating others. I hope Ms Lucky get a dose of her own medicine soon, because the reality is sooner or later, she will.
@mann8098
@mann8098 Год назад
Make humility great again ❤
@TSA1963-b7e
@TSA1963-b7e Год назад
Lol
@andersnielsen6044
@andersnielsen6044 Год назад
In a world where Trump and his Andres Tate supporters run America? It is never going to happen.. !
@guitarandotherthings6090
@guitarandotherthings6090 Год назад
This girl complains about the shallowness of women (which makes her money from lonely guys watching and agreeing), but I guarantee she married a man who has all the qualities these "shallow" women want. Dont even think she wouldve married an average looking man. Youre hoping there is a girl similar to this one for you but she will also take the best she can get physically and character wise.
@josephleoned
@josephleoned Год назад
I think the girl in this video perfected the formula for remaining indefinitely single.
@DillonColtMusic
@DillonColtMusic Год назад
Nah sadly some dumbass will fall for her because she is "pretty".
@ArizonaAirspace
@ArizonaAirspace 7 месяцев назад
The tragedy is that she doesn’t seem to realize even if physical beauty is the gold standard, which it is not for me, she’s not all that pretty. For me even physical beauty wears off instantly the moment she acts like this tik tok woman. This is a huge red flag. If a girl takes a week or even several days to respond to my text, unless there is a real good reason like family emergency, I don’t respond at all and ghost her permanently.
@AlexanderSkinnerVids
@AlexanderSkinnerVids Год назад
Thank you, Courtney, for dressing and having your hair in black to pay respects for the brain cells dying en masse.
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan Год назад
😂💀 rip
@MustbeTheBassest
@MustbeTheBassest Год назад
I think you hit it on the nail. I think a lot of women want a man with options. But as a man, no. I don't feel privileged if you are spending a minute with me. If anything I feel like you will have unrealistic or unreasonable standards and leave the moment things aren't perfect. I need to know that a woman thinks that I am special to her, before I commit. And if she is entertaining a hundred guys, then the chances of that are much less.
@gerbenhoutman9348
@gerbenhoutman9348 Год назад
6:56 When a woman talks about her options in front of me, I quit taking the possibility of a relationship seriously. I mean, if she's doing it now, what will happen later? When I commit? No, no, no
@jnbovee
@jnbovee Год назад
Courtney, I like that you give people the benefit of the doubt as much as you can.
@MainUkraine
@MainUkraine Год назад
Idc about getting "lucky" that a woman past her prime is responding to me. I'd rather approach a girl in her prime in person and actually have a positive interaction. No man who values his time is gonna waste it on texting games... I don't even give a girl my number in person unless she says yes to a date reluctantly. These old emotionally broken women need a reality check cuz you need to treat a man like a king in order for him to treat you like a queen, not the other way around.
@jaremy511
@jaremy511 Год назад
A girl I dated would say that she could get attention from lots of other guys if I wasn't giving her enough attention. It just struck me as odd to say that. It was her way of demanding that I give her ALL of my attention. My response at the time was "are you saying that you are going to cheat on me if you aren't getting enough attention?" Her response was, "no, but if I'm not getting enough attention from you, then I'll get it from other guys." An answer that seemed to contradict itself. Needless to say, it was a big turn off and actually eroded trust, loyalty, and respect.
@marcuslong9761
@marcuslong9761 Год назад
Thats exactly what she was saying. She was making a threat.
@Danishmastery
@Danishmastery Год назад
That just sucks .. I think it needs to be brought to the mainstream conversation that men should be careful around such women. Sadly many of us don’t pick up on it, at least not for a while.
@jth_printed_designs
@jth_printed_designs Год назад
Women's emotional affairs are more or less seen by society as acceptable, and only unacceptable if something physical happens. It's interesting that if a woman goes outside of the relationship to fulfil the thing she desires most (emotional connection), thats fine, but is a guy goes outside of the relationship to fulfil the thing he desires most (bedroom), thats wrong.
@aftrdrk7263
@aftrdrk7263 Год назад
Then what happened? Did you keep dating her or did you break it off ?
@jaremy511
@jaremy511 Год назад
@@aftrdrk7263 More red flags popped up and I broke up with her.
@LintRiggs_
@LintRiggs_ Год назад
Mature woman shuts down narcissistic child. The latter is unfortunately cluttering our world.
@matthewhermon2677
@matthewhermon2677 Год назад
"Don't make someone a priority if they are going to make you an option." Thank you to someone in a comment section on another video for this quote. ☝🏼
@laurentd.4473
@laurentd.4473 Год назад
my life's motto 🙂
@dmaverick2396
@dmaverick2396 Год назад
If I found my gf had posted something like this in her past I would kick her out. Attitude is everything.
@joespeigle1240
@joespeigle1240 Год назад
Letting you know what kind of person you truly are before you've given your time, money, and trust to is a blessing in and of itself
@jtr82369
@jtr82369 Год назад
It's great she posted this, guys that texted her (that have self-respect) will see this and "RUNNNNNN, get to da chopper" as fast as they can. This is a dodged bullet.
@Danishmastery
@Danishmastery Год назад
Every time I dodge a bullet, I just chuckle, sigh and say to myself “daaamn dude”
@daniellehotsky1776
@daniellehotsky1776 Год назад
Yeah, she looks a little bit like a bloodthirsty beast from outer space...
@markhamilton8765
@markhamilton8765 Год назад
Does she have any idea how lucky men are since they don’t have to have anything to do with her? NEXT!!
@ReubenZeigler
@ReubenZeigler Год назад
Yep, if I knew any woman that said that……. I’d not talk to her after that. That’s unbelievable
@blendi3825
@blendi3825 Год назад
I blame the Simps for this. Imagine if every man had self awareness and self respect. She will have zero messages in her DM.
@JR-iy7pb
@JR-iy7pb Год назад
I recently got back on dating apps after a 7 year relationship. We met on a dating app so I figured hey, why not give them another shot. How wrong I was. The increase in women who think writing a list of entitled demands is a good way to advertise themselves to a prospective partner is just insane. Flowers on a first date, a list of $200-a-head restaurants they expect to chose from on a first date, a list of luxury vacations they expect you to take them on... When I was a young man, this was the sole behavior of the occasional stuck up 9&10 (i.e. gold diggers), but now straight up 4s and 5s seem to expect it too.
@jamesg1974a
@jamesg1974a Год назад
For me, it was about nine years and I tell anybody that dating today is nothing like it was even back then let alone 20 or 30 years ago. It’s much more complicated and much more fake.
@moleahy6880
@moleahy6880 Год назад
My experience was different. When I was a young man, the 4s and 5s were always the most demanding. It was never the 9s and 10s. Think it was because the 9s and 10s were just naturally given a lot of things. But the 4s and 5s weren't so they believed they had to demand stuff. And they didn't get it the vast majority of the time.
@JR-iy7pb
@JR-iy7pb Год назад
@@jamesg1974a Totally agree. I was on Tinder when it started, living in NYC. Those were good times haha
@GamingProspector84
@GamingProspector84 Год назад
49ers Syndrome. But it’s not all their fault per se, generations of men raised by single-mothers created an epidemic of simps that pathetically throw shekels 💰 at anything with a p.
@DapperArtImagery
@DapperArtImagery Год назад
$200+ restaurant dinners sounds like a good anniversary idea, not for a woman ya barely know on a 1st or 2nd date. Are they crazy?! I had a similar experience with a gal I thought we had a good connection after the 1st date. On the 2nd date she wanted me to pay for a full daytrip to Disneyland, tickets and food and all. They show their true colors soon enough😂
@stanleymcomber4844
@stanleymcomber4844 Год назад
Sounds like her turn to wait - forever. Bubby-now.
@eloseeoh
@eloseeoh Год назад
It’s refreshing to hear a woman speak like this but doesn’t matter bc your mindset is rare and most women don’t think like this, you’d be lucky if u find a woman with this mindset like yours Courtney
@Pssst.ByTheWay
@Pssst.ByTheWay Год назад
When I got into the manosphere I used to think female advocates were rare, but in the meantime there’s actually a few Shoeinhead Pearlythings That south African girl Courtney The podcast with b lady Emily whats her name Not so erudite
@Cornerboy73
@Cornerboy73 Год назад
I have to believe that she was trying to be funny and, well, Courtney said it best when 'it didn't land the way she intended '.
@devilsadvocacy
@devilsadvocacy Год назад
She'll never get a job as a comedian
@JohnM...
@JohnM... Год назад
She’s either single, or she turns off every REAL man she encounters.
@DeadlyKiss000
@DeadlyKiss000 Год назад
Courtney, you are a breath of fresh air! Love what you say and you are so level headed!
@theupgraded6558
@theupgraded6558 3 месяца назад
entitlement? guys really dont know where they standing lmao
@andrewjordan4811
@andrewjordan4811 Год назад
No one should date a woman who says that or feels like that. Simple, end of story 🤷🏻‍♂️
@dontstalkmedeltoro8816
@dontstalkmedeltoro8816 Год назад
You shouldn't date women with high self worth?
@andrewjordan4811
@andrewjordan4811 Год назад
@@dontstalkmedeltoro8816 cockiness and delusion are not self worth. Confident and humble is what you want to be
@dontstalkmedeltoro8816
@dontstalkmedeltoro8816 Год назад
@@andrewjordan4811 yep. Women with low self worth are better prey for low class men. Is there a reason why you're advocating for that? She isn't delusional. But clearly the men in her DM that are left on read for weeks are delusional.
@pnketia
@pnketia Год назад
I'm guessing she made this video because she tried to hookup with a "Chad" and he ghosted her!
@rizennsunn
@rizennsunn Год назад
Only one girl I would be lucky to have a response from is Courtney, take your time girl 🧡 Enjoy your pedestal 👸
@jv8296
@jv8296 Год назад
Has Courtney taught you nothing?
@rizennsunn
@rizennsunn Год назад
@@jv8296 So much but love is blind 💪😍👍
@exothermal.sprocket
@exothermal.sprocket Год назад
Gross. By the way, she's a married woman.
@edwardcornell1263
@edwardcornell1263 10 месяцев назад
I don't like her attitude. I would stay away from her.
@ShogunateDaimyo
@ShogunateDaimyo Год назад
@CourtneyRyan - thank you for calling out and educating on what is unacceptable/ bad behavior (for both sides). It's a great service to all in general.❤ This girl looks like an 8 with makeup so I'd be willing to bet she's a 5 without makeup and in a bikini. The problem is social media and the internet leads immature weak-minded individuals to think they have a make believe harem around the world and they're a make believe perfect 10. It's sad people waste their time thinking, posting, and viewing such embarrassing and toxic behavior. You're not instafamous or an OF celebrity because you have a bunch of average mediocre thirsty people flooding your inbox. You're going to wake up old and alone, or in a relationship that looks good on paper but you're not emotionally thriving in.
@michaelsix9684
@michaelsix9684 6 месяцев назад
she thinks she is such a prize, 5 yrs. from now she'll still be single
@thepassdude5173
@thepassdude5173 Год назад
"Same Business Day"!!!??? Maybe she has so many "clients" is why it takes so long for a response. 😂😂😂
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