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Why So Many Women Are Single (Men Don’t Want Relationships?) 

Courtney Ryan
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@scottd52843
@scottd52843 Год назад
I find that many women today can't handle criticism. Could be because they never had to before, could be because of insecurity or both. But they tend to either turn it around and make you out to be the bad guy or they run away and say you make them uncomfortable. It's possible this is a societal issue on some level.
@andremotivation6561
@andremotivation6561 Год назад
🎯
@Metaphix
@Metaphix Год назад
They've been living life on easy mode. Their dads told them they were a princess and catered to them. In early life their boyfriends just wanted sex so would cater to them. Due to the halo effect even at work they are treated with kid gloves. The entire society caters to them, they arent fat they're curvy and anyone who says otherwise is evil, not correct haha. They exist in a protected bubble. This is also why some women are so eager to physically assault men who talk shit to them, they've always been protected and never been exposed to real violence so they have no idea what they are playing with.
@dwings21
@dwings21 Год назад
Most women were raised much differently than males growing up. They were coddled, told they were princesses, daddy would protect them from everything, etc. All while being simultaneously told that they have the same strengths and abilities as males, despite being raised in a totally different fashion. It's been a recipe for disaster.
@youngsavagefury7138
@youngsavagefury7138 Год назад
Women have quick labels they use towards men so they will never have to face accountability.
@gladiammgtow4092
@gladiammgtow4092 Год назад
have worked around and closely with many women over my business career. A consistent comment that many women made was that they did not like working with or for other women and most preferred working for a man. Many women I have known have also stated that women are crazy. These comments were made without me asking or soliciting the comment. With that being said, I offer a quote from one of my favorite movies. In the movie, “As good as it gets”, Jack Nicholson, who plays a writer in the movie, is just leaving the publisher. The young female receptionist asks Nicholson a question. Receptionist: “How do you write women so well?” Nicholson: “I think of a man and I take away reason and accountability.”
@link-jb8yy
@link-jb8yy Год назад
Checked out of dating over 5 years ago, and now I'm almost 30, and I've never been happier. I love my job, I have hobbies that are fulfilling, and I have great friends to do them with. A relationship would be fine, but all I've had were headaches and heartbreaks. I'm opposed to hook up culture, so being alone has given me solace.
@youngsavagefury7138
@youngsavagefury7138 Год назад
Get your passport brother. Travel overseas
@haydenglatemore
@haydenglatemore Год назад
I feel sorry for you because I'm sort of in the same boat I'd say do what ​ @Young Savage Fury said and go traveling my brother met his wife that way
@link-jb8yy
@link-jb8yy Год назад
@@haydenglatemore no need to feel sorry. I'm happy by myself!
@bulkguy47
@bulkguy47 Год назад
It’s happens but if you don’t try, you’ll never know. Don’t have to hookup just communicate your standards.
@vigodrakken7916
@vigodrakken7916 Год назад
Good for you!. I went my own way decades ago been so happy No Drama, i even look younger than my friends lol.
@coraleesmells
@coraleesmells 3 месяца назад
i think that the main problem now is that men believe all women are “bops” and most women have standards that are too low-yet men seem to think that we only want “chads”. no. most of us just want love and respect, but a lot of men allow a few bad experiences to cause them to think otherwise.
@zachmatousek7964
@zachmatousek7964 Год назад
I can tell u right off that its completely wrong that men don't want relationships or a partner when we get the sense that the women is a self-centered drama queen that never does anything to go out of her way fir u cause she's a girl boss yeah u r gonna treat that like just a hook up or just move on , she is absolutely 💯 right on all the points she made imo. The stupid male v female culture war we have going on is so stupid n it keeps people alone and unhappy
@isaiahmarquez9717
@isaiahmarquez9717 Год назад
I feel for my son. He just went away to college. He’s quiet. Respectful. Very easy going. And I hate that he’s out there having to navigate this crap culture. People have been taken in by this woke culture (Pop music, rap music, Hollywood, mainstream media, social media, etc) that trivializes everything, is outraged by everything, and stands for nothing. Everything is fluid and nothing is rooted in anything real. Women aren’t looking for real men. They want simps or the unattainable millionaire that has everything. (Why would that millionaire want you???). Meanwhile there’s guys just trying to figure it all out that have decided not to date because it isn’t worth it. The women are woke, feminist (yet masculine….not sure how THAT works), and usually have nasty personalities. What can you do? I pray to God that He puts a good Christian woman in his path.
@LynnJynh9315
@LynnJynh9315 Год назад
I went to a Christian College.... trust me there are no Christian women.
@kevinm.8682
@kevinm.8682 Год назад
Lots of men want relationships. They want good relationships. Unfortunately many women are only after the 8-9-10s And those guys are VERY selective. They will date you, they will bed you, but you have to be extremely special for them to marry you. They ask the same question women ask: "Why should I settle?" The vast majority of women who want a relationship could easily find one if they focused on the men who also want a relationship.
@lurchusa1299
@lurchusa1299 Год назад
Indeed... Be a 10 or go home! That's pretty much the message modern women are giving to us men today.
@jeradblazek677
@jeradblazek677 Год назад
As a 48 year old man, I want a relationship, and I like it the way I have it currently. Which is from a distance. We don't live together, we don't spend the night together, and we usually only see each other on the weekends. At this point I couldn't even imagine sharing space 24/7/365 anymore.
@LLOriginal
@LLOriginal Год назад
I know you're geared towards men but you're a good voice for women! There's so much to adore about both men and women... There's just so many decades of pain and I love channels like yours that are so good at being understanding yet strong. 🤗💖
@davidcuzick6565
@davidcuzick6565 Год назад
You are really contributing thoughtful, insightful, and healing advice to the world. Thank you for what you do, Courtney.
@sixthsky5376
@sixthsky5376 Год назад
Im a guy and id like a relationship but i like someone down to earth who has humility. Many women have a big ego and i dont have room for that. Life is so much easier if your partner and you have less drama.
@maxcorder2211
@maxcorder2211 Год назад
No Tats. No nose rings. No purple hair. No drama. No disrespect. Know how to cook and keep a clean house. We don’t care about your job, your money, your friends. We do care about your family and how you treat them. “Happy” is hard to define, but contentment is best.
@TheGrilledCheeseDude
@TheGrilledCheeseDude Год назад
No tats?
@ines3770
@ines3770 Год назад
What about personality traits ?
@aporue5893
@aporue5893 Год назад
how about you stop demanding people to fit your exact standards as if your'e ''king''.Just stop. Grow up.''Perfect'' people do not exist.
@youindeedsuck323
@youindeedsuck323 Год назад
To be a happy single person is a super power all on its own.
@unkown34x33
@unkown34x33 Год назад
I've been single for 5 years. And I'm still his. Now... a girl wants a serious relationship with me. But... God damn! I can't say I don't want nothing serious, coz she will be hurt. At least she's nice to me... something that is rare
@Fitness_Lorenzo
@Fitness_Lorenzo Год назад
You are exhausted And you are In a engagement. Imagine the bros who genuinely want a relationship but are stuck in this mess. 😂
@claroschmidt9304
@claroschmidt9304 Год назад
Great video. Girl in the red is absolutely correct. When someone wants to be with someone else, they want to go to them to feel at peace, not get into a knife or fist fight for every conversation. Aggressive women are attractive, but there's no need to be like that with your SO just because. Masculine "boss babe" women are a huge turn off because of their argumentative and confrontational personalities.
@tjholt4343
@tjholt4343 Год назад
It’s definitely a different then when I was in high school but to be fair I see a lot of men who just stopped trying they don’t dress week let there body go and don’t seem to care I’ve been in a relationship for a year but over the last 6 months I really worked out started eating well and focused on how I smell and look physically to woman and I’ve had woman come and try asking for my number or want to hang out. Imo if you put in the effort you’ll get the same value in return
@233kosta
@233kosta Год назад
It's a little difficult to "land yourself in a happy, healthy, loving relationship" when the first step has the very real potential to ruin your life through the use of the legal system.
@edwardrook8146
@edwardrook8146 2 месяца назад
Courtney you deserve to be so big online. I wish everyone would see your videos in school as a class.
@thestreets5206
@thestreets5206 Год назад
I've been there done that , sadly the women I dated just made my life miserable and drained the joy out of me ... after 18 years I'm not doing it again it'd not worth the hassle
@jmargani
@jmargani Год назад
ok been watching your channel for some time and I love your content, thanks Courtney! (my first comment here) I can't help thinking that people in general wont change those points of view not unless they recognize a problem within themselves and seek therapy. It's extremely unlikely that someone can find a good healthy relationship if they are not ok with themselves first just as you mentioned, if you carry so much prejudice, hate towards the opposite sex, etc it will be quite hard to find someone valuable and healthy to share your life with
@amadorklan
@amadorklan Год назад
My eyes were opened as well. After a failed marriage I divorced and was recently medically retired from a work related injury 🚓 . I decided to move temporarily to my hometown in Mexico where I intended to sell land I had inherited (I normally keep it a secret). After living for a year here and going out into town, I have met Women (of both sides of the social spectrum) with TOTALLY different ideology and desired expectation of a partner. At my age of 47, I will never ever again date or have a serious relationship with American Women. Now, I am seriously considering staying in Mexico to find that special person that cam complement us, as a whole. A relation where we both bring moral values, love and struggle together.
@mansoorahmed9689
@mansoorahmed9689 Год назад
That is called love.
@aporue5893
@aporue5893 Год назад
what?
@davidsharon2699
@davidsharon2699 Год назад
My wife passed away recently after a 30 year marriage. We did these things that helped keep our marriage strong was first and foremost we respected each. When we had arguments we never resorted to calling each other derogatory names and we always sat down and apologized which leads to my next point. Always say “I love you” throughout the day whether you’re in the phone hanging up or just to say it out of the blue. I always kissed my wife goodbye regardless I was leaving for a week or going to the store. You never know when that last kiss will be. Finally we always took care of each other. I would put her needs before mine and I know she did the same for me.
@RS-xo7rd
@RS-xo7rd Год назад
That sounds wonderful, especially apologising, something women seem to find difficult in my experience. Sorry for your loss.
@D_Jilla
@D_Jilla Год назад
Sorry for your loss, my friend. You were a good man to your partner.
@habsom1406
@habsom1406 Год назад
That sounds like a wonderful, healthy relationship David Sharon, seems you were blessed to have her as a life partner for 30 years and your Union was based on tenderness!
@bp51082
@bp51082 Год назад
So sorry for your loss. Sounds like you had a wonderful relationship. I know you need time to heal, but I believe a person of your character will find somebody else wonderful to spend the rest of your life with eventually. And I'm sure your wife would want that for you
@IamjustBruh
@IamjustBruh Год назад
Salute to you, sir David. I pray my wife and I reach that milestone
@jwmcneelyIII
@jwmcneelyIII Год назад
I was married for 35 years to an extraordinary woman. She died from cancer a little over 2 months ago. Every. Single. Morning. for THIRTY FIVE YEARS. She was so excited to see me! She tremendously respected me and I respected her too. Neither one of us was perfect by any means, but we knew how to look past those things and love each other. Now I tried a couple of online dating things, just coffee, and WOW. I can't believe how true the things are that you are saying! My first thought, after living with my dream woman for 35 years, was "why would I want a relationship with you? All you do is talk about how terrible all your exes are and how much you hate men! I don't even want to finish this coffee." Oh my goodness. Maybe she likes canoes and walks on the beach like me, but there aren't enough canoes in the world to make that work. It all seems so incredibly shallow.
@mothegoat6865
@mothegoat6865 11 месяцев назад
Sorry for your loss brother, praying for you. 35 beautiful years is a blessing the vast majority of men will never experience. Glad you made the most of it.
@markdanielsmarksinspiratio3547
@markdanielsmarksinspiratio3547 7 месяцев назад
Yea that is great you had a great woman. Like myself you know the contrast of the good woman you had and how it is now. I too remember when women respected men and themselves. Things are much different now as you have experienced. The world is a big place. I have traveled much and women are different in many places in the world.
@shaunwalker2557
@shaunwalker2557 6 месяцев назад
@@markdanielsmarksinspiratio3547 his wife was from a different era..
@andrewhernandez2987
@andrewhernandez2987 6 месяцев назад
You come from a different generation and I envy how easy you had it compared to mine. Nevertheless, I'm not bitter anymore about it, rather I'm going to better myself for my nephew's sake and work hard for him to make sure he won't suffer like I did.
@irinat7485
@irinat7485 5 месяцев назад
I am a woman and I don't understand how you are already going on dates after loosing the Love of your life who you have been married to for 35 years just 2 months ago. So you claim that she was that important to you, but yet you are already dating 2 months after? I don't get it!
@gregolonious
@gregolonious Год назад
Professional man here, I can confirm the fact that men do want relationships, the problem is they don't want it with women named spicy disaster.
@Supermateo97
@Supermateo97 Месяц назад
😂😂😂
@davidfitnesstech
@davidfitnesstech Месяц назад
I've been there :-/
@jankom.7783
@jankom.7783 20 дней назад
Yeah, you want a relationship. Just not with women, that are available to you. Same as women you complain about
@jdhh1801
@jdhh1801 6 дней назад
@@jankom.7783sure bud whatever helps you sleep 😂
@Andrew--S
@Andrew--S Год назад
Women would rather ride the carousel in their 20's than look for a husband. When the carousel fun ends women go back to the guys they rejected to get their marriage bailout. This happened to me in my late 20's. A bunch of ex's contacted me after years of silence. It was like 5 of them within 2 months time, it was too much to be a coincidence. I had lunch with one and she started asking me how i felt about marriage. It all made sense. I will not be suckered into being a bail out of last resort.
@masternoremac3738
@masternoremac3738 Год назад
Careful, you know the game the feminists might be triggered...
@thedoruk6324
@thedoruk6324 Год назад
+Andrew S You practically hit the nail in the head! the situation is exactly like that
@heavensea141
@heavensea141 Год назад
Well writen. Share my story with a singelmom. I'm indirectly the reason why a singelmom has her second child. Back in my blue-pilled days I chat with a singelmom online in 3 mouth's. Completaly blue-pilled moron when its came to dating I was, first time I did meet her in real life, end up took her too a vorspiel were there was plenty of other mens. She did meet another men there, friendzoned me, I was okay with that and moved on. They did get married she get her 2 child. Today she not in relationship with any of them ' She has hit the wall, 2 kids from 2 different fathers ' Doing very well successfulwise, own her own apartment and car without debt very well paid job too "I do not give a rat about" She has tried to makes me settle: I reply: You friendzoned me in you're prime years but now after you hit the wall you're wants me to be captain saver simp! No thanks!
@Andrew--S
@Andrew--S Год назад
​@@heavensea141 Never bail out a single mom. You will be the least important man in her life. The father of her kids come first (no pun intended), then her kids, then her family, and even the mail man is more important than the simp that bailed her out because he drops off the welfare checks.
@heavensea141
@heavensea141 Год назад
@@Andrew--S Exactly.
@generalrendar7290
@generalrendar7290 Год назад
When most women say "men don't want relationships", they mean the men that they find attractive. Bring them a man that does want a relationship and watch them recoil in disgust. "No! Not that guy!" Is the response you will get 99.9% of the time.
@garypierce7380
@garypierce7380 Год назад
And men do the same thing.
@kellycarlson1716
@kellycarlson1716 Год назад
A woman has to have ATTRACTION to the man. Women need to find men that they are attracted to AND want love. It’s both!
@brucebanner3566
@brucebanner3566 Год назад
@@garypierce7380 not as much as women, have you seen how much these land whales eat!?
@randyduncan795
@randyduncan795 Год назад
@@garypierce7380 Not true. You should study the dating app stats. 80% of women choose only 20% of the men, aka Chad. Men are far more open minded in who they choose. Why would an average Joe marry a 30+ year old woman who spent her late teens and 20s being ran through by Chads? One of the saddest parts of this is that 20% of fine women who do not behave this way being lumped in with the vast majority who do.
@D_Jilla
@D_Jilla Год назад
@kelly carlson the problem is that many women are attracted to chaos and toxicity because it's familiar.
@ladytd23
@ladytd23 Год назад
As a woman I agree with what she said. After I realized I need to be what I want to offer to a man, my whole outlook on relationships changed. It's ok to not be perfect just be the best person you can be and not s%@* on others. 🙏🏽💜💜💜
@codenedo
@codenedo Год назад
ha ha ha h aha WOMEN🍮🍮
@LisaFenton-h7f
@LisaFenton-h7f 9 месяцев назад
RIGHT ON!
@StMichael667
@StMichael667 8 месяцев назад
Good response. It's what I tend to express in so many words. Everyone wants the treasure chest without without realizing we are never going to having the never ending deepest pockets. The poison that was sold and bought to degrade our society was the thought process that Hollywood and the Fashion industry sold us all. You too, can have the best. Whatever that is. We are NOT the aristocrats that run the world. The chaos is ( their ) psychological doing. The essence of life is what Courtney shares. I can admit that even twice married and betrayed I still believe in a loyal relationship. Loyalty transcends all borders. Any way, I agree with your admission here.
@richardy2071
@richardy2071 8 месяцев назад
that's great! Just being nice gets you so far with most men. Learn to cook 1 thing really well. Then when you and him fight, you can cook that as a peace offering, or when you want to be nice and show him you love him. The way to a man's heart is through his stomach. You keep him that way too, because he's too full to go out and do anything foolish
@ladytd23
@ladytd23 8 месяцев назад
@@richardy2071 😅😅😅
@Coyote-wm5op
@Coyote-wm5op Год назад
As a guy I can honestly say that women I’ve recently tried to ask out are part of the problem why I can’t get a date. Those individuals like to play games but living in a low population area really limits options. Then you add in single moms, doing only fans, and unrealistic standards it’s like being Matt Damon stranded on Mars in the movie The Martian. It’s really funny how women complain about men when men are the ones who have to pursue and approach them. Women are doing the choosing but play it off like things just happen to them like they don’t have anything to do with it.
@andradeb2695
@andradeb2695 Год назад
Im not trying to be that guy but *Matt Damon
@Coyote-wm5op
@Coyote-wm5op Год назад
@@andradeb2695 lol you’re right I’ll fix it
@misaelfraga8196
@misaelfraga8196 Год назад
Stay away from single mothers. They're not looking for a lover, but a provider. You will not be happy and will always be a distant third as her priorities. Don't rely on bars, or social circle. Try day game pick up. Special events are also great places to meet new women.
@Human_01
@Human_01 Год назад
............................. "Evil" is the antithesis to the virtue: 'humanity'. Humanity is the characteristic that defines the human spirit. Humanity is symbiosis across humans and society. 'Humanity' exceeds 'social-darwinism'. ............................. NEURO-PERSONALITY ............................. "SENSORY-FEELERS" ARE LARGELY RESPONSIBLE FOR SPREADING DISINFORMATION AND HATE TOWARDS ENTJ/INTJ (AGAINST "THINKERS" IN GENERAL)-BOTH IRL AND ON THE INTERNET; DESPITE THOSE NEURO-PERSONALITY TYPES BEING A BLESSING TO SOCIETY AND ALL OF MANKIND! THEY DESERVE BETTER! 😤 'ESFJ', 'ESFP', ISFP and ISFJ are a pathogen to humanity, and 'then' Cluster-B (depending on they neuro-personality). THEIR "FEELINGS 'IS' THEIR REALITY", THEY ALSO HAVE A MALICIOUS-MIND BY DEFAULT (excluding normal ISFJ). DESPITE HAVING MALICIOUS INTENT THEY ARE ALL EMOTIONALLY-WEAK AND PRONE TO COVERT/VULNERABLE-NARCISSISM. ............................... Also... To intelligent readers (who do 'not’ have a ‘pathological disregard for rationality and reality'). I recommend researching 'narcissistic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissist'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)! European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!!! They are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-r@pe, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim/damsel in distress, creating "flying-monkeys", and 'bribing' others (with money or BJ) to attack, or at times, kill someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Emmett Till. xSFP and ISFJ (2W1) are the most complicit, narcissistic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependents' (look up the definition). Like ESFJ, XSFP's "feelings 'is' their reality." Most are covert/vulnerable-narcissists. ISFJ often perceive things only on the surface level (even by sensor standards), are suckers for a “pretty face", and their neuro-psychology makes them the ideal narcissitic-codependent and pawn to the ESFJ (blind-loyalty, surface level perception, susceptibility to covert-narcissism). Lastly, ISFJ are notorious for impersonating other people's identities IRL and on the internet. SUMMARY Evil personality: 'ESFJ' (ALL), ESTJ (Cluster-b), ISFJ-2W1 (covert-narc/enabler). [Secretly] Evil and narcissist-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP (ALL), ESFP (ALL), and ISFJ (2W1 enable ESFJ). ☝️ALL of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict as a distraction (at other people's expense, truly evil). Spread the word! Thank you. ___________ Research ref: Raudha Athif, Ghislaine Maxwell, Marilyn Monroe, Karen, ESFJ-narcissists, ESFJ-neurology, Gaslighting, Amber Heard, Fake feminism, Rising of a shield hero (Malty-'ESFJ'; XSFX spread disinformation online. ISFJ is the main culprit; ISFJ largely perceive things on the surface level), 'Brood-parasitism’- XSFJ natural psychology..
@alitaylor1235
@alitaylor1235 Год назад
One minute men claim they don't like women who play games but when they meet someone who doesn't play games, they aren't interested because they "like the chase." Can you please make up your mind?
@badlander6369
@badlander6369 Год назад
I know half a dozen single guys in their 50's ( myself included) who had wives that left or never appreciated them. They are all decent, funny, hard working, good looking and no drama. Too many women focus on chemistry over character. Chemistry is the kindling but character is the large pieces of firewood that keep the fire going for the long haul.
@cha9165
@cha9165 Год назад
And men focus on looks over character so what's your point. Maybe if you're friends married a women with good character they wouldn't be alone. It works BOTH ways. It's not the woman with poor character who married herself, it was the man who proposed and MARRIED HER
@HKona7
@HKona7 Год назад
Exactly!! Men love to blame women when they’re the ones picking the wanna be kardashian th0ts. Then can’t figure out why they only want money . Lmao
@levigoldsteinbergowitz7391
@levigoldsteinbergowitz7391 Год назад
@@cha9165 lol let me guess, single mom?
@eastlakebaytalk4138
@eastlakebaytalk4138 Год назад
Both of y’all are right no need to argue
@Feber2001
@Feber2001 Год назад
Instant gratification.
@hans-christianbauer5947
@hans-christianbauer5947 Год назад
It is so surprising to me how many women actually believe that they are 10's, despite the fact that they are barely average looking. When you hold that mindset, the idea that men could reject you because they don't like you doesn't even cross their mind. Some of the most off putting women I know actually do believe that they have great personalities. This whole "you're perfect just the way you are" movement seems to have led to a complete lack of self awareness.
@carolallison9685
@carolallison9685 Год назад
Haha, if it makes you feel better, it drives some of us women nuts, too. Im middle-aged and have been married for a very, very long time, and you wouldn't believe the shit my husband and have had to go through with some of these women. We are too old for this shit lol. I might get a guy try to start a conversation with me at the store or something, but i politely say im married, and they say "oh sorry have a nice day," and thats the end of it. My husband, on the other hand, gets the old "but im better than your wife" ploy from women who know he's happily married with 3 kids, and they can't even understand that my husband, for one, isn't attracted to them because he's not into obese women with bitchy personalities, and second, he already knows no woman is going to give him what i already do both in and out of the bedroom. These women are so full of themselves, they dont even realize they are actually offending my husband by acting like they are entitled to him because he's attractive and has a 401k. He's opened up to me about how sometimes, with the women who really try to push, it actually upsets him because he feels like they only see him as a piece of meat, and dont actually care that he's a person with a happy life, and they don't care if they destroy what he's built. The pure entitlement of these women is disgusting. I dont know how the single guys can even deal with it at this point. I feel for you gents out there.
@hans-christianbauer5947
@hans-christianbauer5947 Год назад
@@carolallison9685 I live in a rural area so it's not quite as bad here, but the stuff that happens in big cities can border on real life satire. A couple of months ago I was approached by a less-than-appealing woman during a colleague's birthday party. She was rather resistant to my polite attempts of letting her down easy, insisting that she could do things I had never experienced before. So I just looked at her and said: "I've had headaches before". That did the trick.
@dalaov5258
@dalaov5258 Год назад
I drive Uber and I see it everyday....
@FootPauler
@FootPauler Год назад
It’s because so many women get worshipped on social media or by guys who are trying to sleep with them. That will inflate anybodies head 🤷🏾‍♂️
@brianmolstad1255
@brianmolstad1255 Год назад
Not only do they think they look like 10s, they think their personalities are 10, when that number is even lower than their physical appearance.
@erox2717
@erox2717 Год назад
Im 40 and have decided 3 years ago to be single. And i have never been happier tbh. At first i was put off by the majority of men who treated me badly but im also aware that i played a part in that undoing. I tried to work on myself and blamed myself for years. When i was becoming a better person i was still meeting the wrong kind of men. So i was still doing something wrong i guess cause thats wat ur basically trying to say that its our fault too. Which i agree. In the end after years went by i stopped blaming myself, I stopped blaming men. I began to love myself and accept who i was and i started to enjoy my life on my own, it is an amazing experience! I would never trade the kind of happiness i feel now for anything. Regardless of what we are doing wrong or who was at fault, the important thing is finding happiness on our own journey. We dont need to have someone to be happy as long as you are happy thats all that matters. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being single, it doesnt matter how you got there. What matters is what youve learned along the way and how you feel about it in the end.
@RottenCheese
@RottenCheese Год назад
The unfortunate thing about women is that their leveraging power fades as they age. Specifically what men desire in women fades with time. Youth, beauty and purity for example. So if a woman chooses a bad partner from the start, she has screwed up. This is why historically the entire family would make an effort to help vet for good partners, because it is that important. The more bodies you have as a woman, the less likely you will be taken seriously for marriage.
@rickmorgan1441
@rickmorgan1441 Год назад
congrats
@tonygabashvili8357
@tonygabashvili8357 Год назад
@@RottenCheese We don't care how many partners they've had and they can easily lie about it anyways. A 35 to 45 year old woman still has much more leverage than a guy the same age. Also youth is a desirable quality for both men and women, it signifies health
@jsav4269
@jsav4269 Год назад
@@tonygabashvili8357 for marriage… you better care about their past partner count, pair bonding for women is shot after 1-2 guys, then you’re dealing with the family courts, and that my friend as a man you should never be put in that scenario! Virgin women file for divorce only 14% of the time, women with a single previous partner file 48% of the time after 2-3 it’s over 60% numbers go up and up, if she’s college educated, there’s a 90% chance she will divorce you and steal all your shit! So yeah it fucking matters
@tonygabashvili8357
@tonygabashvili8357 Год назад
@@jsav4269 I posted a link to a pew study that found that the more education a women has the lower their divorce rates but it was removed. Find me the source to your 90% divorce rate claim that isn't just "trust me bro" logic
@Scorpionwitch
@Scorpionwitch Год назад
I hope more women watch this too because you're spot on. From a man's perspective, I'm 55, I've seen society do a 180 on how men are portrayed. In this age of media and internet, men are constantly shown to be, dumb, irresponsible, sexist, clods who only are redeemed by a woman "fixing" them. Every movie, TV show, etc. portrays men this way. Couple that with the expectation that "good" men must be 6', athletic, really good looking, and able to pay for everything, and women perceive the dating world to be devoid of anyone worthwhile because those men aren't interested in them. I've told more than one woman complaining that there are no good men that they walked right past 100 good men today that would be happy to date them but they weren't "hot" enough to notice. Then throw in the fact that the men who ARE getting dates are the men least likely to want a relationship and are just in it for the sex, because they can, and suddenly all men are dogs and don't want relationships. I'm not sure this will ever get straightened out. We would have to get back to a place where both men and women are valued for the traits that each gender traditionally brings to the table and in this vapid, superficial, world-revolves-around-me society, I don't see it happening.
@Sommers234
@Sommers234 Год назад
Well stated. While I never chose to marry, I've had a number of multi year relationships and every one of these girls (right up into my late 50s), was a good person. I never dealt with all these angry, annoying ladies that I run into here and there. I don't know why I've been so fortunate, but I think some of it is because in nearly every case, someone of value in both of our lives made the introduction. So I always suggest that folks ask trusted friends, family or other acquaintances if they know someone they can introduce you to. Better yet, just be your greatest self. Keep up a good attitude, and be open to introductions. Lots of folks want to hook you up and you probably haven't seemed open to it.
@KpxUrz5745
@KpxUrz5745 Год назад
Very good explanation of what's happening these days. By now, "the science is IN", and now everyone knows how useless and harmful dating apps are, and we now know that feminism has been an immense failure and has ruined entire generations. Liberalism (such as on college and university campuses) is largely at fault for most of society's current disasters, and social media is too, since it is also almost fully implemented and controlled by "group think" liberals. Since technology is still changing and developing, and since it is all run by the very flawed minds of Silicon Valley liberals, I don't see anything improving in society any time soon. Although there are growing bodies of evidence that most people have had it "up to here" with all this upsidedown gender nonsense, race nonsense, equality nonsense, and all the other trending social inanities of our day. I will believe things can get better when I actually see it get better. Right now, things are still getting worse.
@ideitbawxproductions1880
@ideitbawxproductions1880 Год назад
It's one of the reasons I like the movie Bad Teacher with Cameron Diaz (OK, "like" is a strong word... maybe "tolerate" lol). She starts the movie being a manipulative bitch, but reality kicks her down constantly for her actions, and while she isn't a Saint by the end of the movie, she does become a better woman. She even turns down Justin Timberlake's character (a people-pleasing pretty boy she was initially attracted to for being a hot guy, but has no self-worth), for the gym teacher who might not be rich but has tons of self-respect.
@brianmolstad1255
@brianmolstad1255 Год назад
Most amazing is that, while these women want everything, all they have to offer is a very well used vagina.
@haydenglatemore
@haydenglatemore Год назад
I'm with you on that, any women that expect men to do all the work in a relationship including pay for everything, whilst they bring nothing to the table and think that they're a prize and deserve diva treatment because of their gender, from a male perspective is the worst thing a woman can be
@liesareparadox1892
@liesareparadox1892 Год назад
Men want what they don’t have in a relationship. My wife brings me peace. She IS my home. She is the soft nurturer that I would give my life to protect.
@bluebehir
@bluebehir Год назад
Good message, very important, but slightly ambiguous. If I may reinforce your message? Men want in a relationship the qualities they don't bring to it. They want peace, softness and tenderness, nurturing. When we have that in our lives, we will do everything we must to protect it.
@elliotmyers9071
@elliotmyers9071 Год назад
We aren’t dumb. Just do a prenuptial contract. I implore men to learn from the divorce trend.
@bluebehir
@bluebehir Год назад
@@elliotmyers9071 It sounds like you have no research on prenuptial agreements. If you make one single erroneous provision or unfair claim, the whole prenup gets thrown out in court. Most prenups end up getting challenged in bitter divorce cases, and about half get dismissed. Usually because the new lawyer finds a clever escape loophole. If you don't have every loophole covered exactly right, it gets thrown out instantly. In Australia they are called Binding Financial Agreements, and you choose to have one as a married couple or as an unmarried couple. If you choose the latter, it gets dismissed if you then get married. Also, it's valid for 2-4 years and then the judge can choose to dismiss it anyway.
@Madchris8828
@Madchris8828 Год назад
That's awesome, and it just made me realize I've seen very few examples of that in my whole life even.
@blackporscheroadster-yw8hb
@blackporscheroadster-yw8hb Год назад
Get the sick bucket....
@josephstevens9888
@josephstevens9888 Год назад
There are a lot of great guys out there who are looking for girls to accept them for who they are. Most of us are under 6-feet tall, earn under 100K per year, but who love to be in a stable relationship free of drama and demands.
@desperationno5
@desperationno5 Год назад
…It feels like they want to step into a “ready to go” lifestyle instead of building a life together…
@Gh0stGaminginc
@Gh0stGaminginc Год назад
A lot of women love the toxicity
@nicksmith-cx1fx
@nicksmith-cx1fx Год назад
Women think they will always have options, so they spend their 20's chasing after career and the top guys. Your relationship options will dwindle quiet rapidly once you are 30. Lets face it we all loose our looks when we get older. If he met you in your 20's he would always find you beautiful. Now that you are 30, guys are thinking I am not that attracted to her, it's a bad deal for me. I will rather stay single. If having a family, getting married is what is most important to you, then make that a priority.
@rudeawakening3833
@rudeawakening3833 Год назад
The “ sixes “ ! 1.) 6’ tall 2.) 6 figure income 3.) 6 pack abs 4.) 6,000 sq ft house 5.) 600 hp car
@tipithedhedhistar4132
@tipithedhedhistar4132 Год назад
@@rudeawakening3833 what’s the 6th one? 😂
@canadious6933
@canadious6933 Год назад
Honestly, I have been working hard on myself, improving a lot but I still have met so many women that get turned off or shut me out of their interest over the smallest things. They have such high expectations and are ready to drop someone if they don't fit exactly what they imagine in their head. Now, I have amazing female friends and they help me out with advice, so I know there are nice women out there, but they are mixed in with some very shallow women too.
@genevieveharakidas7054
@genevieveharakidas7054 Год назад
So many women have unrealistic expectations. I’ve met men who do the same.
@anamericanman
@anamericanman 10 месяцев назад
You are taking advice from women?
@canadious6933
@canadious6933 10 месяцев назад
@@genevieveharakidas7054 Definitely, a lot of men are real dumbasses, I have seen quite a lot treat my female friends like crap. Its a tough world out there
@Luked0g440
@Luked0g440 Год назад
I wanted to be in a relationship from the time I was in my late teens until my late 40s. Women did not want me, so I quit trying. I’m 60 now. Good to see that nothing changes.
@jus4000kicks
@jus4000kicks Год назад
That has much more to do with your outlook and perspective. It is very sad that you have bought such a lie. You need to change yourself and your perspective.
@orderflowarchives
@orderflowarchives Год назад
​@@jus4000kicks in his 60s? He can't start a family anymore.
@jus4000kicks
@jus4000kicks Год назад
@@orderflowarchives Its not impossible. I know people who got married older than that. Perhaps they may not be able to have a family but a) there are ways to get children like adoption and b) they would still have each other.
@youngsavagefury7138
@youngsavagefury7138 Год назад
@John S. 존 살라 Sorry to hear that but don't give up believe in yourself. You are worthy and important and sounds like a great guy if a woman pass you over it is their lost. Stay strong brother
@billisdope
@billisdope Год назад
I’m in that same exact boat.
@dbeaton1111
@dbeaton1111 Год назад
I've had a few strong relationships and have been married for 14 years, now. I've found that telling her what your boundaries are helps a lot. Be honest, respectful, and kind but tell her that if you feel disrespected or unwanted you're out of there, and mean it. If she can't apologize when she's obviously wrong, puts her needs above yours, constantly complains about stupid things and likes to create drama, you're better off without them. A man needs peace and partner, not an ATM-seeking harpy with issues.
@bplayerr1
@bplayerr1 Год назад
Yup! Learned the hard way w my 1st college gf. After that I put my foot down and tell them like it is aa soon as the chananigans start! It works like a charm like you said, you better mean it though. Left one bc of that and my current wife is the mvp, just had to lay it down for her once!
@michaeldpa1333
@michaeldpa1333 Год назад
PREACH!
@MDpart2
@MDpart2 Год назад
The first time I traveled outside the United States to Mexico and Southeast Asia I must say it was like an alternative universe. It was amazing. By the time I came back home I had a new sense of worth. I had a new sense of hope and desire. It was life changing. I came back looking at these women back home that I used to try and date and I would just chuckle. It's a big world out there. If you are a man in America, you are in the gutter.
@ctguitarguy8510
@ctguitarguy8510 Год назад
Absolutely. American women live in an alternate reality. When men see how traditional, feminine, attractive women actually used to be and still can be, it's like breathing fresh spring water for the first time. Men need to go abroad.
@xpmedia8660
@xpmedia8660 Год назад
Yup I met fiance when touring Europe. I'm honestly traumatized by American women
@torhbakalit908
@torhbakalit908 Год назад
europeans too no worry , and its in africa and asia as well , except they see opportunities in you thats why they treat u better dont be fooled if u bring them home ill be shocked how quick they will cheat on u , had a guy in a restaurant he was a head chef brought back an asian chick to uk ,not even need to tell immidiately started to fk with one of the chefs :D and he found out , he was raging n stayed w the chicks and fired the chef , loser :D he should bann the girl n thank it to the chef instead
@MDpart2
@MDpart2 Год назад
@@torhbakalit908 That’s an amateur mistake. You never bring them back. Stay there. If it doesn’t workout you can find another in 20 minutes, or come back home and they can’t follow you. I will guarantee you that your problem will be trying not to cheat on them. That will be your challenge.
@torhbakalit908
@torhbakalit908 Год назад
@@MDpart2 exactly :)
@pianofantasy4375
@pianofantasy4375 Год назад
I know this video is a little older but Courtney you are a legend. You are a blessing to men who need to hear the truth about dating/women. Like you said yourself, videos like this can help women just as much too, but I really like your balanced and well judged approach to modern dating/relationships and it always helps clear my head of the bs that floods social media normally. Every blessing to you!
@williamt1579
@williamt1579 Год назад
I want a relationship, I just don’t want to be their number 1 or “god” to them. I just want to be their partner. That way I can actually be free to be myself.
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan Год назад
As a relationship should be.
@zackbennett5609
@zackbennett5609 Год назад
You’re not a ride or die, bae soulmate kinda guy?
@regalchange
@regalchange Год назад
Was Eve Adam’s partner?
@zwollekira8202
@zwollekira8202 Год назад
Aww how a good boy William you are
@zwollekira8202
@zwollekira8202 Год назад
@@CourtneyRyan what should be ??
@thepainphantom
@thepainphantom Год назад
"**What we allow is what continues.**" Wise profound words, Courtney!
@devilsadvocacy
@devilsadvocacy Год назад
Or, worded a little differently, “What you allow, you encourage”
@steveboone1498
@steveboone1498 Год назад
Anyone can get a date except for me and that's the way everyone wants it.
@hamilton9651
@hamilton9651 Год назад
Which is why I gave up dating!
@SkullAngel002
@SkullAngel002 Год назад
2:55 - You know the topic is serious when Courtney out of nowhere does an engagement ring flex.
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan Год назад
😂😭
@Human_01
@Human_01 Год назад
@@CourtneyRyan ............................. "Evil" is the antithesis to the virtue: 'humanity'. Humanity is the characteristic that defines the human spirit. Humanity is symbiosis across humans and society. 'Humanity' exceeds 'social-darwinism'. ............................. NEURO-PERSONALITY ............................. "SENSORY-FEELERS" ARE LARGELY RESPONSIBLE FOR SPREADING DISINFORMATION AND HATE TOWARDS ENTJ/INTJ (AGAINST "THINKERS" IN GENERAL)-BOTH IRL AND ON THE INTERNET; DESPITE THOSE NEURO-PERSONALITY TYPES BEING A BLESSING TO SOCIETY AND ALL OF MANKIND! THEY DESERVE BETTER! 😤 'ESFJ', 'ESFP', ISFP and ISFJ are a pathogen to humanity, and 'then' Cluster-B (depending on they neuro-personality). THEIR "FEELINGS 'IS' THEIR REALITY", THEY ALSO HAVE A MALICIOUS-MIND BY DEFAULT (excluding normal ISFJ). DESPITE HAVING MALICIOUS INTENT THEY ARE ALL EMOTIONALLY-WEAK AND PRONE TO COVERT/VULNERABLE-NARCISSISM. ............................... Also... To intelligent readers (who do 'not’ have a ‘pathological disregard for rationality and reality'). I recommend researching 'narcissistic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissist'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)! European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!!! They are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-r@pe, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim/damsel in distress, creating "flying-monkeys", and 'bribing' others (with money or BJ) to attack, or at times, kill someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Emmett Till. xSFP and ISFJ (2W1) are the most complicit, narcissistic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependents' (look up the definition). Like ESFJ, XSFP's "feelings 'is' their reality." Most are covert/vulnerable-narcissists. ISFJ often perceive things only on the surface level (even by sensor standards), are suckers for a “pretty face", and their neuro-psychology makes them the ideal narcissitic-codependent and pawn to the ESFJ (blind-loyalty, surface level perception, susceptibility to covert-narcissism). Lastly, ISFJ are notorious for impersonating other people's identities IRL and on the internet. SUMMARY Evil personality: 'ESFJ' (ALL), ESTJ (Cluster-b), ISFJ-2W1 (covert-narc/enabler). [Secretly] Evil and narcissist-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP (ALL), ESFP (ALL), and ISFJ (2W1 enable ESFJ). ☝️ALL of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict as a distraction (at other people's expense, truly evil). Spread the word! Thank you. ___________ Research ref: Raudha Athif, Ghislaine Maxwell, Marilyn Monroe, Karen, ESFJ-narcissists, ESFJ-neurology, Gaslighting, Amber Heard, Fake feminism, Rising of a shield hero (Malty-'ESFJ'; XSFX spread disinformation online. ISFJ is the main culprit; ISFJ largely perceive things on the surface level), 'Brood-parasitism’- XSFJ natural psychology..
@ctguitarguy8510
@ctguitarguy8510 Год назад
Male game is the ability to attract women, female game is the ability to retain a man and get him to commit. So for women, it's the ultimate flex.
@MiaCarter7
@MiaCarter7 Год назад
It’s true. We really all do need to do honest self reflection. A lot of issues would be solved if we were able to take accountability for ourselves. Too bad they didn’t teach us that in school
@steelfanther328
@steelfanther328 Год назад
It's my neighbor. She’s single. She’s shapely and beautiful and she lives right across the street... I watched her as she got home from work this evening. I was surprised when she walked across the street, up my driveway and knocked on my door. I opened the door, she looked at me and said, ”I just got home, and I have this strong urge to have a good time, get drunk, and have fun tonight. Are you doing anything?” I quickly replied, “Nope, I’m free!” “Great” she said. ”Can you watch my dog?” Moscow, Russia
@nutyyyy
@nutyyyy Год назад
Sorry, that's kinda hilarious if true 😂
@Pittboss4127
@Pittboss4127 Год назад
I laugh with sympathy 😂
@undefinedvariable8085
@undefinedvariable8085 Год назад
I hope you said "Nope".
@steelfanther328
@steelfanther328 Год назад
@@undefinedvariable8085 Actually I said "Yup" because dogs are always a lot happier to see me again than women ...
@Albemarle7
@Albemarle7 Год назад
@@steelfanther328 Then she will never respect you. Enter the Friend Zone. Expect never ending favor requests, and expect nothing for them.
@jpmaintenancesvc4749
@jpmaintenancesvc4749 Год назад
I just tried getting back into dating a couple months after I filed for a divorce. After being married, and out of it for 8 years, it's like I landed in the Twilight Zone. After a few months, I threw in the towel. After seeing the way people carry on these days, I can't motivate myself to fool with it. It's kinda sad that something that's supposed to be natural, and rewarding, has been turned into a total warzone. They can duke it out without me.
@jbob6545
@jbob6545 Год назад
get that passport my guy
@markholland9562
@markholland9562 Год назад
Totally agree with ya , it's like a bloody war zone out there , like Courtney said we just keep Butting heads together and going no where !!
@LisaFenton-h7f
@LisaFenton-h7f 9 месяцев назад
Try to date again --but, NOT ONLINE! That's the most TOXIC place! There are good wmoen & men out here. We just have to look for them in the REAL world
@chriswardwell5170
@chriswardwell5170 Год назад
I can say that as a man I recognize my own horrible taste in a partner and that also has everything to do with me and I've actively stepped away from any attempt at a relationship with anyone in that capacity till I can sort out my own issues
@marthajacob8604
@marthajacob8604 Год назад
Perfectly said, same here!
@lavatr8322
@lavatr8322 Год назад
Teach me. because when I _think_ this woman might be perfect for me, _SHe's turns out absolute betch_
@chriswardwell5170
@chriswardwell5170 Год назад
@L' Avatr was that reply for me? I'm just curious I'm an easily confused dude sorry it's not for a lack of intelligence just I like clarity
@cha9165
@cha9165 Год назад
Well done you
@paxaeterna3709
@paxaeterna3709 Год назад
Amazing. I'll incorporate this to my arsenal
@MrJsch1305
@MrJsch1305 Год назад
I have been without a relationship for 7yrs. Recently I have discovered that the issue hasn't been me, but its been with women. My experience has been women flaking out on chats in online dating, and choosing to limit themselves by trying to only date the top tier. I had a date, where the woman walked out of the restaurant 5min after we were seated, because I didn't live in the city, but the suburbs. Women refuse to believe that there are decent men who are not top tier, who might be more worth their time than the top tier. It's the feminism belief that women should only have and deserve the best, and the only men who are the best, are the ones in the top tier. Meanwhile, guys like me, who are not top tier, but are successful, responsible, and have good lives, are reduced to a level of "2nd class undesirables" to most, if not all women.
@michaelsix9684
@michaelsix9684 6 месяцев назад
they only learn when it's too late
@pz3782
@pz3782 Год назад
This isn't just for romantic relationships. Modern life has skewed many people's perception of all relationships. From romantic, Familia, friendship.
@CRD-hi6vk
@CRD-hi6vk Год назад
Courtney really understands the man's perspective on modern dating, relationships, and marriage. That's why I watch her channel. Keep up the good work and producing great content! Thanks!
@DestinyAwaits19
@DestinyAwaits19 Год назад
Men do want relationships. The ones that don't want relationships are abusive assholes. But most incels want a relationship with a woman. We just can't get one.
@Human_01
@Human_01 Год назад
............................. "Evil" is the antithesis to the virtue: 'humanity'. Humanity is the characteristic that defines the human spirit. Humanity is symbiosis across humans and society. 'Humanity' exceeds 'social-darwinism'. ............................. NEURO-PERSONALITY ............................. "SENSORY-FEELERS" ARE LARGELY RESPONSIBLE FOR SPREADING DISINFORMATION AND HATE TOWARDS ENTJ/INTJ (AGAINST "THINKERS" IN GENERAL)-BOTH IRL AND ON THE INTERNET; DESPITE THOSE NEURO-PERSONALITY TYPES BEING A BLESSING TO SOCIETY AND ALL OF MANKIND! THEY DESERVE BETTER! 😤 'ESFJ', 'ESFP', ISFP and ISFJ are a pathogen to humanity, and 'then' Cluster-B (depending on they neuro-personality). THEIR "FEELINGS 'IS' THEIR REALITY", THEY ALSO HAVE A MALICIOUS-MIND BY DEFAULT (excluding normal ISFJ). DESPITE HAVING MALICIOUS INTENT THEY ARE ALL EMOTIONALLY-WEAK AND PRONE TO COVERT/VULNERABLE-NARCISSISM. ............................... Also... To intelligent readers (who do 'not’ have a ‘pathological disregard for rationality and reality'). I recommend researching 'narcissistic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissist'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)! European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!!! They are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-r@pe, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim/damsel in distress, creating "flying-monkeys", and 'bribing' others (with money or BJ) to attack, or at times, kill someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Emmett Till. xSFP and ISFJ (2W1) are the most complicit, narcissistic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependents' (look up the definition). Like ESFJ, XSFP's "feelings 'is' their reality." Most are covert/vulnerable-narcissists. ISFJ often perceive things only on the surface level (even by sensor standards), are suckers for a “pretty face", and their neuro-psychology makes them the ideal narcissitic-codependent and pawn to the ESFJ (blind-loyalty, surface level perception, susceptibility to covert-narcissism). Lastly, ISFJ are notorious for impersonating other people's identities IRL and on the internet. SUMMARY Evil personality: 'ESFJ' (ALL), ESTJ (Cluster-b), ISFJ-2W1 (covert-narc/enabler). [Secretly] Evil and narcissist-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP (ALL), ESFP (ALL), and ISFJ (2W1 enable ESFJ). ☝️ALL of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict as a distraction (at other people's expense, truly evil). Spread the word! Thank you. ___________ Research ref: Raudha Athif, Ghislaine Maxwell, Marilyn Monroe, Karen, ESFJ-narcissists, ESFJ-neurology, Gaslighting, Amber Heard, Fake feminism, Rising of a shield hero (Malty-'ESFJ'; XSFX spread disinformation online. ISFJ is the main culprit; ISFJ largely perceive things on the surface level), 'Brood-parasitism’- XSFJ natural psychology..
@kengaroo5170
@kengaroo5170 Год назад
After a few years of marriage the mask comes off and then you see the real person. Many men stay for the children in misery. Society doesn't recognize how men sacrifice for their children by staying with narcissistic women.
@michaelgbrl22
@michaelgbrl22 Год назад
Really? she's really understands man's perspective???? sorry but i still doubt that.
@Nikatanggu
@Nikatanggu Год назад
Yes take her advice and watch yourself being 50 and single. There is no hope for any of you and I’m there to record it for future men to see.
@AtlRopeGuy
@AtlRopeGuy Год назад
I'm a 35 year old guy with everything going for him. Can't get a date for anything. 5'11 tall, 150lb, bachelors + masters degree, mature, no kids, intelligent, financially successful. Keep on doing you Courtney! Hopefully people will listen before the trend is too late
@reneshaw7960
@reneshaw7960 Год назад
I'm a female, do you go out at least? I find this odd that you have these great qualities but can't get a date.
@reneshaw7960
@reneshaw7960 Год назад
Where do you live you sound like a great guy. I'm a female
@someone-ji2zb
@someone-ji2zb Год назад
5'11 but 150 pounds means you are skin and bone. You don't have to go to the gym if you don't want, but I highly recommend you at least get into some intensive calisthenics to get basic muscle build and tone going. Not saying this to demean you, but the reality is that you are likely not attractive to women from a physical stand point.
@jeremiahbryant123
@jeremiahbryant123 Год назад
@@someone-ji2zb yea I think you might be right. I’m 5’8 150 and people call me skinny , and say I need to gain weight all the time
@someone-ji2zb
@someone-ji2zb Год назад
@@jeremiahbryant123 I was in the same boat at 5'10 and 155, and luckily my brother, many years ago, said I looked like a I would blow away in a gentle breeze. Those words made me think and kind of look at myself. And frankly I was weak. It wasn't just that I looked lame, I was lame. Even lifting a 40 lb water bottle package was difficult, and I was sick of it.
@thorny3218
@thorny3218 Год назад
Translation: chad doesn’t want a relationship. beta bob that does is invisible. 🤣
@timothycorless7286
@timothycorless7286 Год назад
Until men and women understand & become aware how our subconscious mating instincts work this is what's going to continue....
@MrJGchampion
@MrJGchampion Год назад
Unrealistic expectations, Standards and preferences are what’s wrong with the dating world now
@TSierra
@TSierra Год назад
They are delusional and unrealistic.
@Knightpro1981
@Knightpro1981 Год назад
You're so right, you know something? You're better off single, keep all your assets and wealth to yourself, if you do meet a woman you want to marry, make her sign a Pre-Nup.
@Wobbothe3rd
@Wobbothe3rd Год назад
The expectations are set sky-high on purpose. Young women don't really want to settle down with anyone at all.
@AndyKirtland11
@AndyKirtland11 Год назад
Very true and having modern technology, as well as these dating apps that provide them endless attention. As a result, women end up having false hopes and expectations. A lot of women think they can always do better to the point they get little to no attention and that isn’t good for their own mental health and wellbeing. Surely if you both like each other and there is a strong connection, then that should be enough.
@markishbasedgod5251
@markishbasedgod5251 Год назад
Yes, a woman that isn't pure, is slightly above average in looks, and wants to be a house wife wants a millionaire. Well guess what? I eat cheetos, live with my mom, and have no job and I want a Victoria secret model. There we go, now we can both live in delusion.
@alanhigh8125
@alanhigh8125 Год назад
Honestly, life is just easier and far less stressful when you're alone. I've been divorced for nearly 21 years, and I'll never go back to the plantation. I recently retired, and things got even better! I live off my pension and Social Security. No arguments, no disputes, no negotiations, no nagging, no compromises, no dirty looks, no yelling, no name-calling, no passive-aggressive behavior. Just peace. A man reaches a point in his life when he values peace and quiet more than a piece of anything else. Don't find out the hard way, as I did. 😊
@ralph3428
@ralph3428 Год назад
I think men are just tired of the demand’s and expectations……it gets tiring …..most have stopped caring and just do what makes us happy unfortunately.
@80skid83
@80skid83 Год назад
Exactly and these same women bring nothing to the table
@chriscast329
@chriscast329 Год назад
we going overseas for real women
@Iamtheone-x8w
@Iamtheone-x8w 4 месяца назад
​@@chriscast329it's fucked everywhere
@terrylim9902
@terrylim9902 Год назад
It's a quarter past 1am in Malaysia & i almost fell asleep listening to Ms Courtney feminine voice 🤣. Anyway just my personal opinion, most men & women deep inside their hearts all want a stable, happy & long lasting relationship & marriage. It's just that due to society stigma, hook-up culture, making horrible decisions etc, it's all messed up now
@lukewise3244
@lukewise3244 Год назад
We want relationships, but we don't want to have to compete with anyone's past.
@user-kcrpine
@user-kcrpine Год назад
It’s not just compete, but we’re also expected to not only accept but embrace her past. Many women insist it makes them more attractive and valuable, oblivious to the fact we find that behavior absolutely disgusting in the context of a serious relationship.
@jericoba
@jericoba Год назад
I also doubt women want that. No one wants to compete in that way.
@diegobrando6115
@diegobrando6115 8 месяцев назад
@@user-kcrpineI told my last gf to never mention her past to me but she still did it anyways 🤷‍♂️
@fionaa2004
@fionaa2004 Год назад
i love your content
@youngsavagefury7138
@youngsavagefury7138 Год назад
💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
@MinnesotaKing
@MinnesotaKing Год назад
Good for you, most western women have forgotten that it should be a two-way street.
@HKona7
@HKona7 Год назад
And what about men? Y’all aren’t worth the trouble anymore. Took a good look at yourself first
@original-australian_OG
@original-australian_OG Год назад
If what you say is true, stay a virgin (if you're not a used sloot). Otherwise no self respecting man will ever take you.
@rickmorgan1441
@rickmorgan1441 Год назад
@@HKona7 lol what type are you looking for
@AlexanderSkinnerVids
@AlexanderSkinnerVids Год назад
There’s an old saying: when someone brings nothing to the table, they expect YOU to fill the table. A lot of people are just *exhausting* nowadays.
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan Год назад
🫠 true lol
@richardthomas598
@richardthomas598 Год назад
Oh, a lot of people have always been exhausting. The difference is now they can be loud and exhausting where everyone can see them.
@ka9202
@ka9202 Год назад
THIS! And some just want to be at the table because everyone else is doing it not because they're hungry.
@paulcooper5748
@paulcooper5748 Год назад
Bingo bongo.
@80skid83
@80skid83 Год назад
Love this
@tyw2675
@tyw2675 Год назад
If her username is Spicy Disaster, she should see a Spicy Therapist.
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan Год назад
lol 😂🙌🏼
@Gh0stGaminginc
@Gh0stGaminginc Год назад
Some women pride themselves in their "crazy" which is something I can never understand.
@bluestingerborg
@bluestingerborg Год назад
@@Gh0stGaminginc Any woman who says that they’re crazy and proud of it, I always wonder why their relationships don’t work or no man wants to date them or why they’re with a low value beta simp
@s.beccari4678
@s.beccari4678 Год назад
"try being kind and sweet and nice and not bring drama into their life". She is not wrong honestly
@derekluna7700
@derekluna7700 Год назад
🤣just be kind bro
@declangill5138
@declangill5138 Год назад
I've recently accepted my demons of 8 years ago that actually put me in a bad place. I can only speak for myself (I'm 31 and not experienced intimacy), but I'm not afraid to be single until the right woman comes along. I don't crave any relationship, I still have parts of me I need to build, and if it's gonna take a bit longer to get where I'm going, well, then it has to be
@eddiewillers1
@eddiewillers1 Год назад
Peace and strength to you, Brother - you will prevail.
@declangill5138
@declangill5138 Год назад
@Eddie Willers it's weird. I feel the fear in every aspect and still go in every aspect of my life, but where women are concerned I still freeze hahaha
@xavierjones6852
@xavierjones6852 Год назад
@@declangill5138 focus on yourself brother. That’s always when the right one comes along. I thought it was bullshit. But you truly do find a partner when you’re not looking for one
@declangill5138
@declangill5138 Год назад
@Xavier Jones there's one girl I like in my acting class. I get a vibe she likes me too, but equally, I get a vibe that I make her uncomfortable. It's frustrating lol
@SodiumSyndicate
@SodiumSyndicate Год назад
@@declangill5138 Do not chase her, focus on yourself bro. Improve yourself.
@JackSmith-gv5yw
@JackSmith-gv5yw Год назад
I'm from the UK, England to be more precise. More and more men here (young and old) are opting out of serious relationships....and it's for a few reasons. The main one is that they can't be bothered with it, sounds crazy, but's it's true. Many men here are looking for ways out of what is considered traditional types of relationships, many like me work online and can be location independent and are spending more time abroad (mainly South East Asia and South America). The cost of living is cheaper and meeting women is a lot easier....I'm starting to feel a bit sorry for women in the west.
@timmyhiggins5220
@timmyhiggins5220 Год назад
England is a nightmare. I spent 3 years there. Most women are average or below, but they think a bit of make up makes them supermodels. Also they are like ladettes, very unfeminine
@airynod
@airynod Год назад
Mate, don't scare me like this. I just moved here from Asia.
@hotpockets69
@hotpockets69 Год назад
So you and the people in your circle just want to be whores. Got it. Just feel free to not further contribute to the garbage by bitching about how you can't find a woman to be with after you've finished giving out street meat.
@JackSmith-gv5yw
@JackSmith-gv5yw Год назад
@@hotpockets69 Well I wouldn't call myself a man whore, I just see it as having many more options. It's not that I cant find a woman here, I can, and have....my options increase 10 fold on another continent. I'm not just talking about options with women, my currency can go along way abroad.
@JackSmith-gv5yw
@JackSmith-gv5yw Год назад
@@airynod I'm not trying to scare anyone, It's just that South East Asia has offered me so much over the last 7 years.
@antimatters6283
@antimatters6283 Год назад
I generally think some of these things are overblown, but this video has good advice and commentary. Not all women think or believe like the woman in the Tik Tok video; but, there are some that do, and men do the same too, have similar excuses. They can A) Blame all others, the universe is wrong, all men are wrong, and I am right. Or B) I am making mistakes, going about this wrong, have wrong ideas. Guys that that think "All women want a tall, hot man with money, and then divorce him," is a background belief and mindset that is a turn off. This is a self-fulfilling guarantee women won't like the man. This bad outlook will seep out no matter how they try to cover it up. The man has problems. The woman will figure it out. So too, women who say "Men don't want relationships..." is a person with a bitter, bad attitude and they will not attract good men. Good men will be repelled by this woman. She is driving good men away. Who would want to be with the woman in the Tik Tok video!? Life isn't a meme. There is waaaay, way too much simplistic thinking going on with men and women with these outlooks. If you are not attracting the right people, the problem is you.
@MindOfW
@MindOfW Год назад
I can't wait to see Courtney Ryan hit 500k subscribers! Thanks very much my online mate
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan Год назад
Aww thank you so much 🥹
@LatimusChadimus
@LatimusChadimus Год назад
On the road to 2M!
@LeSpiduh-Mon
@LeSpiduh-Mon Год назад
@@LatimusChadimus one day!
@Courtney-Alice-Gargani
@Courtney-Alice-Gargani Год назад
I think women in their 20's are immature in a relationship. When they reach their 30's and 40's, they mature more in a relationship and it might to be too late because he might see you that you have too much baggage.
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan Год назад
I think this is true for many.
@prussiansocietyofamerica
@prussiansocietyofamerica Год назад
When they hit their 30's and 40's, they still never mature. Even in their 60's and 70's, they act like little spoiled children.
@Gh0stGaminginc
@Gh0stGaminginc Год назад
Yep, they ride the carousel in their 20s, when they hit the wall, they have no choice but to settle and use a man for his money. So the decent guys they rejected in their youth are left with a used up woman with baggage. It's like getting sloppy seconds.
@rickybobby9797
@rickybobby9797 Год назад
Men don’t value “maturity” in women (which typically translates to sexual experience). They value virtue, youth, friendliness, and submissiveness. Because men and women are different, they value different things which in turn defines the differences with sexual market value.
@prussiansocietyofamerica
@prussiansocietyofamerica Год назад
@@rickybobby9797 What we mean by maturity is emotional maturity. And Real Men do value it if they find that, but it's rare. Women who are emotionally immature, sleep around a lot more especially in their 20's.
@beautifulchlorophyll2285
@beautifulchlorophyll2285 Год назад
0:55 FACTS this is what I keep saying to these 'independent, I got my own money, car, house, I don't need no man, why am I single' girls - it's like sure... live your best life... but I'm not trying to date myself, I already got all this covered why are we doubling up and creating redundant skills in our relationship? I want a relationship with a woman who compliments me, who can do the things I can't do and likes to do the things I don't like to - as far as responsibilities etc. go anyway - then the recreational and fun stuff it's good to be aligned, that's how we get balance and balance breeds stability.
@petermoss5919
@petermoss5919 Год назад
American men the best thing I can tell you leave this country and women alone. I like how only men that "have options" are the men that she is referring too. What about the 95% of men that get absolutely NOTHING from these women? If you aren't a Chad forget it, you are completely invisible. If you are a 90% Chad, not good enough, go away. The most shocking part of this video was the women at the beginning. At least there is one woman in this country that does get it. When you get to a country that truly values men, families, and relationships; you will be in shock and you will know how far women have declined here in America. The women of the past were certainly much better than the women of today. Today's women are becoming men; just like the lady was referring to at the beginning of this video.
@Larry-hy5rm
@Larry-hy5rm Год назад
I'm 52 and have been single for about 23 years. I started looking for a relationship 3 years ago but so far all I have found are women that want money, looks, unrealistic sexual expecttions, or material things. I'm 6ft 1in, eat healthy, workout, take care of myself but none of that seem to matter, so as of right now, I'm better off by myself instead of having the drama or materialistic women in my life. I treat women as equals and not trying to trash anyone, I'm simply speaking from the last 3 years of experience. Maybe one day I will find that right person, but until then I will continue to live my life. I can't believe how much people have changed in 23 years and all of the drama that goes on. I just want a drama free life with someone else that just want to be happy and enjoy life. Men want relationships, women just need to get their priorities straight. Men aren't perfect either and have their own issues to deal with. Maybe someday we will be able to all live together in happiness and harmony and get rid of the drama and superficial ideas and wants. MEN DO WANT RELATIONSHIPS! I just don't want someone that has tried out every other guy before they get to me. I have standards, but until women start to have the same types of standards it really don't mean much to me. I don't just sleep with women and move on, I'm looking for something meaningful that will last. I'm too old for stupid childish games and rediculous expectations.
@joshhernandez6974
@joshhernandez6974 Год назад
Get a Mexican woman that has needs. Go to Mexico or South America. A woman in need will respect you and treat you amazing if you are a loving and caring provider. American women are terrible …too bossy and have unrealistic expectations. The worst part is that American women don’t really “need” you. Most have good jobs and are self sufficient. Get a woman that needs you and she’ll appreciate you more that one that doesn’t need you at all. I have three sisters and four brothers. All married. Only ONE of my brothers married outside our culture (Latino) he married a white chick and had two kids with her. 25 years later and can you guess who is the ONLY ONE out of eight of us that is divorced? You nailed it. The one married to a white American. Divorce is now like a sport in the US …50 percent of people get a divorce in the US ..wonder why ? Women DONT NEED MEN …they just need a good job , a cat and Netflix 🤷🤷
@Larry-hy5rm
@Larry-hy5rm Год назад
@@joshhernandez6974 LOL, to true. I agree with what you're saying. Most, not all, American women are just disrespectful, no matter how well you treat them.
@Larry-hy5rm
@Larry-hy5rm Год назад
@Josh Hernandez LOL, too true. I agree with what you're saying. Most American women, not all, are just downright disrespectful no matter how well treat them or what you do for them. It's sad really, but it's the reality of thus new "feminist" thing they have going on these days.
@rickjeffjeff
@rickjeffjeff 7 месяцев назад
You could write a book.That was long.
@mike15.
@mike15. Год назад
whatt ? its actually the opposite 😂 95% of women i know have a boyfriend.. and about 30% of men i know have a girlfriend... and im single for quite some years.. even women on tinder have a boyfriend and just search for sex
@prussiansocietyofamerica
@prussiansocietyofamerica Год назад
And the worst part is it has been like this for many decades now. Those 95% of Women you speak of, it was always like this, and the moment if they ever got out of that relationship, they are with someone the next day. The reason for this dynamic is not only that more and more Vvimmin share the same small 5% pool of Men, but if you look up demographic data, the younger and and younger age brackets have less and less females being born for every lower age bracket. So there are actually less younger Women. Even though Women are more in population than Men, it doesn't account for the fact that the majority of the Women population are very old.
@nighthawk20011
@nighthawk20011 Год назад
I want a relationship, but not right away. Not immediately. I recently got out of something...not sure what it was. We went one one date and the next day she said we were in a relationship. I want to get to know someone before I make that kind of commitment. Every day she'd text me a "cosmo" level relationship quiz. My defenses went up fast. I'd never dated someone that was in a relationship from the first date. She had a lot of red flags. She then sent me a breakup message followed by a week of texts apologizing and wanting to get back together. Week ended with a video call of her in tears. First thing in the morning. I ended up blocking her everywhere. Oh and the "gay" thing in the video. I had a woman I was dating back in the 90's stop a date right in the middle and said "you don't date a lot...have you ever thought you might be gay?". Um...no...and don't let the door hit you as you leave.
@bigneiltoo
@bigneiltoo Год назад
Oh, please Jason! Don't make us wait any more than we already have! The longing!!
@ryans413
@ryans413 Год назад
My brother in laws mom asked me that when I said no I’m dating right now. She said are you gay jooking of course but I still feel she kinda meant it not as a joke
@stormchaser419
@stormchaser419 Год назад
Here is what women ACTUALLY offer 1. Narcissism 2. Selfishness 3. Entitlement 4. Materialistic demands 5. Delusional thinking 6. Emotion based thinking 7. Cheating emotionally and physically 8. Verbal abuse 9. Emotional abuse 10. Physical abuse 11. Yelling 12. Screaming 13. Spending problems 14. Debt you are supposed to take care of 15. STD's 16. Baby daddy mentality 17. Gaslighting 18. Emotional problems from CC days 19. Societal approval of disgusting behavior 20. Backing by the courts Thanks but no thanks. In the accounting equation, Net Worth = Assets - Liabilities women have very few assets that counteract their many many many liabilities hence they offer negative net worth.
@xyeB
@xyeB Год назад
Yep
@jamesdavidson676
@jamesdavidson676 Год назад
Storm Chaser And number 21 would be MGTOW saves lives.
@ProfWho-ut5he
@ProfWho-ut5he Год назад
Cute, kind, and feminine women who take care for themselves are NEVER single. If a woman is single, then there is always a good reason for it.
@saynotohookups
@saynotohookups Год назад
For some women it's because they are tired of men's crap. For me it was partly that plus I went to a Baptist Church for a long time. The man who I thought I would marry and vice versa when I was in my twenties left me for his co-worker. He claimed that I did nothing wrong to make him want to leave and use me while he was with her. I am meeting men, even in my age group, who don't have any interest in anything serious.
@Human_01
@Human_01 Год назад
............................. "Evil" is the antithesis to the virtue: 'humanity'. Humanity is the characteristic that defines the human spirit. Humanity is symbiosis across humans and society. 'Humanity' exceeds 'social-darwinism'. ............................. NEURO-PERSONALITY ............................. "SENSORY-FEELERS" ARE LARGELY RESPONSIBLE FOR SPREADING DISINFORMATION AND HATE TOWARDS ENTJ/INTJ (AGAINST "THINKERS" IN GENERAL)-BOTH IRL AND ON THE INTERNET; DESPITE THOSE NEURO-PERSONALITY TYPES BEING A BLESSING TO SOCIETY AND ALL OF MANKIND! THEY DESERVE BETTER! 😤 'ESFJ', 'ESFP', ISFP and ISFJ are a pathogen to humanity, and 'then' Cluster-B (depending on they neuro-personality). THEIR "FEELINGS 'IS' THEIR REALITY", THEY ALSO HAVE A MALICIOUS-MIND BY DEFAULT (excluding normal ISFJ). DESPITE HAVING MALICIOUS INTENT THEY ARE ALL EMOTIONALLY-WEAK AND PRONE TO COVERT/VULNERABLE-NARCISSISM. ............................... Also... To intelligent readers (who do 'not’ have a ‘pathological disregard for rationality and reality'). I recommend researching 'narcissistic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissist'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)! European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!!! They are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-r@pe, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim/damsel in distress, creating "flying-monkeys", and 'bribing' others (with money or BJ) to attack, or at times, kill someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Emmett Till. xSFP and ISFJ (2W1) are the most complicit, narcissistic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependents' (look up the definition). Like ESFJ, XSFP's "feelings 'is' their reality." Most are covert/vulnerable-narcissists. ISFJ often perceive things only on the surface level (even by sensor standards), are suckers for a “pretty face", and their neuro-psychology makes them the ideal narcissitic-codependent and pawn to the ESFJ (blind-loyalty, surface level perception, susceptibility to covert-narcissism). Lastly, ISFJ are notorious for impersonating other people's identities IRL and on the internet. SUMMARY Evil personality: 'ESFJ' (ALL), ESTJ (Cluster-b), ISFJ-2W1 (covert-narc/enabler). [Secretly] Evil and narcissist-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP (ALL), ESFP (ALL), and ISFJ (2W1 enable ESFJ). ☝️ALL of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict as a distraction (at other people's expense, truly evil). Spread the word! Thank you. ___________ Research ref: Raudha Athif, Ghislaine Maxwell, Marilyn Monroe, Karen, ESFJ-narcissists, ESFJ-neurology, Gaslighting, Amber Heard, Fake feminism, Rising of a shield hero (Malty-'ESFJ'; XSFX spread disinformation online. ISFJ is the main culprit; ISFJ largely perceive things on the surface level), 'Brood-parasitism’- XSFJ natural psychology..
@ProfWho-ut5he
@ProfWho-ut5he Год назад
@@Anonymousejfi3jdujejejdieo Maybe you have some other issue you are not aware off then? I did two research studies on this topic. In one study where people should identify the three most attractive women they know personally, they had to write down the relationship status of these women. Out of over 600 women identified in this study, all of them, 100% were in relationships. Not even the exception to the rule was there. Highly attractive women are not single. And personally, I made the same (sad) experience. Over the years, travelling the world, I encountered 214 women who I found very attractive when talking to them. All of them were in long-term relationships, usually married. So, although I never in my life got rejected by a woman, I was still not able to find a loving partner. All women I liked were taken; no exception. No opportunity to flirt, no opportunity to get into a suitable relationship.
@Petwayboy
@Petwayboy Год назад
@@ProfWho-ut5he Story of my life bra
@steveunderhill5935
@steveunderhill5935 Год назад
My wife was single for a year+ before we shacked up. She’s a 10, it’s hereditary.
@waydel4
@waydel4 Год назад
Congratulations on getting engaged. With your insight on relationships, I hope you have a wonderful marriage.
@JRGProjects
@JRGProjects Год назад
We will see. Women are women, if a few try and get to "our level". None of them will ever understand. They are not wired for it.
@JoeCool0510
@JoeCool0510 Год назад
Wow, refreshing video! Underscores the need for each party to understand what their values are and how they would like to be treated (Golden Rule), before they enter into the dating scene. And the bit about projection is, I believe, very accurate. We often apply motives to other people's actions, and these motives are constructed based upon our own personal history. I've been married to the same woman for 26 years and I find that I am becoming an increasingly rare phenomenon. Those 26 years have taught me a lot of things, but chief among them is that the fairytale romance is just that: a fairytale. Sure you'll have romantic memories (my wife and I honeymooned in Paris -- very romantic), but for a relationship to work takes work. If you continue to deceive yourself thinking "Oh it shouldn't be this hard... etc etc" you will jump from partner to partner (maybe a serial monogamist?). It sucks, but life is hard. But it's a little less hard when you're working on it together with your beloved.
@damirzeric1018
@damirzeric1018 Год назад
6'5 , blue eyes, close to 100k and still hard to find a female who wants a serious relationship.. it's all just luck and who you come across unfortunately. People think over 6ft. Or $$ and you can find a good relationship not true. It's the generation and social media and everyone things their is better out there. Get lucky and find someone genuine is the key 🔑
@Concatenate
@Concatenate Год назад
Close to 100K ain't gonna cut it, bro. Haven't you heard some of these interviews? They want 500K dudes, lol. You're only an inch away and 400+K away from being perfect. Oh wait, blue eyes, you need to have one blue and the other hazel. Then you'll be perfect. Don't worry, man, you'll get there.
@DS-uo1zy
@DS-uo1zy Год назад
i think its just generalisations, on average you will have higher chances attracting a high-value women than someone who does not have your attributes. Doesn't mean you particularly could also have bad luck. But i guess it is getting harder for everybody for sure
@damirzeric1018
@damirzeric1018 Год назад
@A B haha true I just need 400k more and some better luck to attract a women that's a 6 😂😂😂😂
@mannygonzales1985
@mannygonzales1985 Год назад
@@Concatenate Haha. Do they not realize, that only 2% of men across the world earn 500k a year. Not only that, but men on average don't even hit six figures until they hit their 50's lol. And these women are 6's, and they're competing with younger women who are 9's who are also after these same 500k a year men. I earn a little over 50k a year, which is considered average, and I'm usually shun. Good thing, I have some height, and a ripped physique with a 6-pack. That's the only reason I remain in the game lol. If you don't have looks and or money, then you're pretty much screwed.
@Leonhart_93
@Leonhart_93 Год назад
I think you have the same problem that a lot of women do: they go for guys that don't want serious relationships because all of them have options. It happens when they are good looking. One of my personal creeds is that a woman with 4 looks and 10 personality is >> than a woman with 10 looks and 4 personality.
@joemacy2776
@joemacy2776 Год назад
I'm a man, and I sure as hell want to be in a relationship. The problem is that I just can't seem to find a girl who is actually interested in dating me. I sometimes wonder why I can't find love. After all, I think I am a decently attractive guy, and I also have a university education which is something that many guys don't have. I also happen to be autistic which impairs my social skills, and I really wish women could see past that. It's just depressing to me because I'm 27 years old, and I still haven't found my partner. I have only been in one relationship, and that was back when I was in high school, so it's been about a decade now since I've dated.
@davidsmyth6822
@davidsmyth6822 Год назад
Don’t chase women. Chase your dreams, and the women will chase you. In all seriousness, woman like ambition, and they like knowing you have other passions and aren’t going to rely on them exclusively for happiness. Good luck buddy!
@chriscast329
@chriscast329 Год назад
go overseas brother. u will find many women. SE asia, africa, south america, u will find what u are looking for
@melange78
@melange78 Год назад
I think a lot of women want a pet, not a man. They see men as some kind of dog that they can do whatever they want with.
@prussiansocietyofamerica
@prussiansocietyofamerica Год назад
They want a trophy to boast about to their other friends.
@otorishingen8600
@otorishingen8600 10 месяцев назад
I'm so glad I had my share of great Sex, deep conversations and trust with ex-girlfriends.. cause it seems the world gone batshit crazy
@bach556
@bach556 Год назад
I don’t know but as a guy who spent most of his life alone, i’m getting used to it. I’m not willing to devote part of my time to someone else anymore. Maybe i found peace when being alone that i couldn’t find anywhere else. Guys are afraid of commitment because that would limit their freedom. Could be a valid reason.
@mikloridden8276
@mikloridden8276 Год назад
Also to avoid heartbreak. Got out of 3 serious relationships the past 2 years and they all ended the same. Dumping me for someone else
@Metaphix
@Metaphix Год назад
True, it's not all sadness and loneliness. There is so much freedom to do what you want when you want, to spend your own money on what you want, when you want. To do as much or as little in any given day as you want. It can be liberating especially after a toxic relationship.
@ivanaleksandartsanev1693
@ivanaleksandartsanev1693 Год назад
Especially seeing how damaging the marriage of my parents was for the whole family, I've also accepted and rather stay alone for the rest of my life. I would never try to have kids in a toxic relationship and traumatize them forever by not being able to create a good relationship and stable household. I'm only ashamed for not being able to continue the bloodline and last name of my father and grandfather, but maybe it's the right thing to do as that's how natural selection works - only the worthy can survive.
@jbob6545
@jbob6545 Год назад
get that passport my guy
@24X7CARZ
@24X7CARZ Год назад
I’m a GenX married guy and have never watched a video on the TikToxic platform. I watch these videos because my kids are now dating age, and I can’t believe the weird crap they’re fed through that platform and other social media. So here I am watching reactions to this stuff on RU-vid to understand what’s going on. What a weird world young people are growing up in.
@asterixdogmatix1073
@asterixdogmatix1073 8 месяцев назад
Same Gen X here. My son is a tween. I fear for his time as a teen with toxic social media.
@MekonenMeteor123
@MekonenMeteor123 Год назад
Thanks for sticking up for us Courtney! It’s not about men versus women. It’s about human versus human. Be a good human and look for another good human to do life with.
@DestinyAwaits19
@DestinyAwaits19 Год назад
I want a relationship with a woman. A deep and profound relationship. The men that don't want relationships only want sex cause they're impulsive pigs.
@MekonenMeteor123
@MekonenMeteor123 Год назад
​@@DestinyAwaits19 Unfortunately, there's been a lot of misinformation flying around for generations on this subject. I think a lot of us are growing out of it. Let's keep our fingers crossed.
@DestinyAwaits19
@DestinyAwaits19 Год назад
@@MekonenMeteor123 yeah!
@HeyHerdy
@HeyHerdy Год назад
There isn't a person in this world that wouldn't have a better day if they knew that they had someone to hug, kiss and see their smile.
@Vegaswill714
@Vegaswill714 Год назад
I am an older guy, many of the same discussions happened 10 or 20 (or more) years ago. The difference is that it wasn't all over RU-vid or TikTok so people didn't get as wound up. Courtney Ryan has some very good advice, the kind of things parents should be discussing with children. I think in our modern culture people don't have time to pass on this kind of knowledge. IMO two keys: 1) Every person is an individual, don't over generalize and 2) Use your dating for learning and refine your wants and needs in a partner. Chances are by the time you reach 30 your list of "must haves" for a partner will be entirely different than at age 22.
@LisaFenton-h7f
@LisaFenton-h7f 9 месяцев назад
Very wise!
@ImpChadChan
@ImpChadChan Год назад
Well, first of all, "relationships" was NEVER part of male desire. Like, finding a girlfriend or wife is simply not part of our reproductive strategy, so we don't have an instinctive desire to go after it (the male reproductive strategy is to have sex with all fertile females, and that's it). Second, there's a lot of competition to women in the world, I mean... virtual substitutions for it (which youtube won't let me name here). And I guess most important, women became more and more demanding about the things that are "unacceptable" in the behavior of men, so and guess that reach a point when many males just thought: "You know? That's too much for me, I don't think I like you that much." so... ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Maybe you girls shouldn't taking men for granted.
@picuart9881
@picuart9881 4 месяца назад
Men are not avoiding relationships, men are avoinding a long/big investement of time and effort just to lose it all in a moment !
@HerrenGamingNews
@HerrenGamingNews Год назад
I'm just tired of getting damaged women. As an average man, I'm invisible to most women, but when I do find a woman, she's extremely overweight, has the 1000 cock stare from being pumped and dumped, she also takes out her past relationship truma out on me. I recently had a girl for a month. I was working very hard to take on a first date, but she'd out of nowhere accuse me of using her or playing her. After the 6th time, I cut my losses and walked away. Right now, I have zero options, but I'm finding the single life not only peaceful, but enjoyable I'm making more friends and I've pivoted to chasing money. Men has lost koney chasing women. But you'll never lose money chsing money!
@HerrenGamingNews
@HerrenGamingNews Год назад
@ChristophBackhaus nope, never had a friend become my girl. Believe me, I've tried.
@SodiumSyndicate
@SodiumSyndicate Год назад
If she ain't Virgin, you should be Searchin.
@HerrenGamingNews
@HerrenGamingNews Год назад
@sodiumsyndicate8715 Truth be told, I'm not looking nor was I when I met het. She was just really beautiful. The only thing that made the wait bearable was I have a fuck buddy. I've given up on dating, after my fuck buddy falls off I'm just getting escorts.
@deathblaizer
@deathblaizer Год назад
I think a lot of men have given up on relationships, they might smash that but not really interested.
@80skid83
@80skid83 Год назад
I'm not really that interested in relationships now , only a bit of fun here and there
@billnolte8644
@billnolte8644 Год назад
What's worse than staying single is to find one of the women exhibiting the bad traits and deciding to go for it anyway. Then you lose yourself trying to be the mate she wants instead of the mate you are. If you are LUCKY, she will realize what you could both have and see the light. Usually, you just end up being a backseat provider. Single is better. Adopt if you have to. Don't settle for the backseat. It only works if you both sit up front and take turns driving.
@robertthorp7557
@robertthorp7557 Год назад
10:04 "Am I someone that the person I want to be with ... would also want to be with?" Thank you for this.
@climbingtothetop
@climbingtothetop Год назад
I want a relationship, but I'm not going to settle for "just my turn". I want just mine.
@jer1776
@jer1776 Год назад
No man should. Any woman that wouldnt date you exclusively during their prime doesnt deserve your time of day.
@IMRROcom
@IMRROcom Год назад
What is the value of dating or a relation ship? As a men what is the gain? At this time I can still hang out with friends, go out do the things I want to do etc. Being single you have no restrictions placed on your life when you are single men. I know a dozen or so women now that have no kids have never been married etc. That are looking for men etc. but what they are looking for is not real, The want Pedro Pascal, Daniel Radcliffe, Stephen Amell, Chriss Pratt etc. those are actors and way out of their league. On the other hand I know tons of single guys that have never been married or desired to date or get married or have kids.... They still go out to the Baseball games, go fishing, go to the races, go to Vegas and just have fun with the guys when they are not working. So what is to gain from dating? They have it all being single and free.
@anthonyw5261
@anthonyw5261 Год назад
This channel should be required viewing before any dating period. 👏👏
@jimfarmer6794
@jimfarmer6794 Год назад
The men who want relationships are typically relegated to the Friend Zone.
@80skid83
@80skid83 Год назад
Yes
@treywise9126
@treywise9126 Год назад
Girl at this point I know it’s me cause women don’t even give me the time of day. Unless it’s to be they new best guy friend. Witch I don’t get why. Some even got the audacity to call me a perfect husband in the same sentence as rejecting me. I have taken so many Ls I don’t even feel it no more cause her actually likening me is the anomaly. I love the content I’ll figure my issues out eventually on my path to my best self
@Scorpionwitch
@Scorpionwitch Год назад
Then you're hanging out with the wrong women. While I don't know your full story there, don't be so quick to blame yourself. While there might be some things you could work on, everyone does, I guarantee it's not ALL on you.
@SodiumSyndicate
@SodiumSyndicate Год назад
That's because you are very nice to them. Why are you nice to women?, stop being nice & kind to them.
@Mike-iv3hy
@Mike-iv3hy Год назад
Maybe men don't want to be manipulated into having a baby with a woman who is going to take them to court when she gets pregnant and sues them for half their income, but wants nothing to do with them afterward ! Mike.
@LatimusChadimus
@LatimusChadimus Год назад
True that, men are not intimidated or afraid of women, except for the guys that have never talked to any female other than their mother, we are either annoyed disgusted or disappointed. Not at all intimidated.
@laststand6420
@laststand6420 Год назад
Mostly disappointed typically.
@shady_the_one
@shady_the_one Год назад
I might fall under disgusted, and if I see a few things, I'll already know they're fucked in the head (more depth later, I'm still watching the video)
@OMVilla2927
@OMVilla2927 Год назад
All true. That is why I stopped dating years ago. Not that I don't want to get married, but it would take a real partner.
@JohnSmith-xx9th
@JohnSmith-xx9th Год назад
Have you considered exploring beyond these shores? It doesn’t have to be American, or Western. Look further, mate!
@johncoons1666
@johncoons1666 11 месяцев назад
No morals, no standards. Our current society is terrible. Total shit show.
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