I don't bother even listening to them now, I've come to realise these narcissistic children suffer from a massive case of self entitlement. Just annoying static.
I find that people who openly work hard, don't. It makes sense. If you always have this feeling that you are not pulling your weight, You will probably stay that extra time out of guilt. If you think you have worked hard, you will probably go home a half an hour or hour early as a "reward" for your hard work.
I was called a toxic masculine and misogynistic male for telling people I don't prefer tatoos on women in copious amounts or with sleeves. Having preferences is frowned upon nowadays.
I totally agree with your comments...if I was messing around with...NOT DATING...a girl/woman with her neck, face, arms, or legs covered in Tattoos or piercings, I WOULD NEVER TAKE HER TO MEET MY MOTHER/FAMILY...I would not embarrass myself or my family like that!!! A woman/girl with all those "TRAMP-STAMPS"...usually means emotional, psychological, or self-worth problems...in other words..."DAMAGED GOODS"!!! Just my 53 year old HONEST OPINION!!!
No f-ing way she’s 40. Most guys who have been around women a fair amount can see right through this facade. It’s tough for most modern women to hide “50”
I’ve literally never EVER, as in, NOT ONCE, seen a woman improve her physical appearance with a tattoo(s). However, this woman in the interview seems to be very reasonable and accepting in regards to her understanding of how tattoos can have an impact on things like dating and relationships. My hats off to her for embracing reality and being so mature (unlike most) on a topic such as this which is very personal to her.
True I really respect her mindset in that case, she is looking for help and realized the "problem" which most women never do. but she still damaged from her time on the cc
It's interesting because she believes her expectations are reasonable. She just doesn't understand that the man she has picked in her head also has a woman he has picked in his.
She doesn't rate herself as high value, yet she is setting the bar pretty high. Even without the tats, she's not dating material for what she is seeking. It's bizarre seeing how they think.
They realize it’s no longer a man issue, it’s the self realization and reflection that can no longer compete with the younger 25 woman and it’s right in your face and that must be difficult for woman to come to that realization.
a sloppy disgusting old plate of cold food in a restaurant that a stranger ate from and left sloppy seconds....sitting on a table for hours (with tons of ink/tattoos as a cherry on top) that isn't appealing???
It's sad that so many women think tattoos are great, an expression of their "individuality", and they don't realise it's a turn-off/red flag for a lot of guys
Women today think men like what they like in a sexual context. Men like purity or what’s closer to that standard; women like utility and security and whatever has most of that standard. In building competence, a man’s body in prior times had marks, had wounds due to being out there in the battle field for food and resources to build security for himself, dependents and offsprings. To bring it back: tattoos on men (marks) attractive. Tattoos on women not attractive.
I have a super beautiful daughter, when she was 15 , I started my please don't ever get a single tattoo. I drummed that toon until she graduated college. What she learned during her modeling career, was that tattoos are like a death sentence in that industry. Models with tattoos are often thought of as strippers and porn stars. Just the way it is.
Mirroring. People tend to pick partners that are similar to themselves or are a complement to their own look, style, appearance. Professional men like professional looking women. Athletic likes athletic, Goth likes goth, etc. Another reason she's only getting hits on dating apps from druggies, is because they are the ones who tend to mirror her appearance.
I actually felt sad for Tamie. She seems like a sweet person. I see this all the time, and by that I mean; motherly and kind women swept away by the siren song of today's postmodern and selfish culture. These people are peer pressured into taking no thought for the 'morrow, and live vapid lives of instant gratification and behave like they're delayed adults. If she'd have lived a more traditional life she'd probably be happily married with a partner preparing for a blissful 2nd half of her life by now. But now that she's over the hump (to put it politely), she sees the faults of her youth; the divorce, the kids, the ex-partners, the tattoos, she wonders why no man wants to date her or treat her how she expects? Kind of sad. Don't let your life turn into this lady's, folks.
Every women and man needs to read your post. I love this " motherly and kind women swept away by the siren song of today's postmodern and selfish culture.
10:58 "I would hope so...[TATTOOED GUYS] tend to be musicians, people that do a lot of drugs and alcohol..." Umm Tamie So why would non-tat guys want to hang out with you again? I'm guessing as a young chick you were a reasoble looking becky Who passed on the boring clean guys to chase after drama, yes? My solution: cats, wine, vibratey thingy Just look after your kids but don't be surprised if they don't want to hang out with the older generation either
You're the perfect simp, oliver 😆 Tamie was very RUTHLESS in her selection process when she had much to offer; including the greatest gift from wmn to man : children. She's the type who cultivated false hopes in a number of guys looking for affection, while she was on the carousel having the time of her life. I interpret that as the oldest SCAM in the book. She's now crying for walking wallets and human punchbags to take out her frustrations on. Thankfully, she wears her carousel behaviour in the form of indelible ink and every guy can sense her past. Guys. DO NOT APPROACH.
@@jamesclark6487 Ha ha, how can you tell? She regrets her tats, and had to learn the hard way about bad attention and good attention from guys, that sounds like personal growth to me. Negative snap judgements are a display of character too.
Ive never met anyone w a ton of tattoos that weren’t completely hollow NPC’s inside. Its usually a coping mechanism for someone lacking personality whilst being an attention junkie.
@@cattan4696 life’s most profound truths will often undoubtedly come off as cruel and reductionist. This corresponds heavily w religious tradition: Silly, stories used to marginalize and oppress in one’s youth... Manual for spiritual/emotional stability in one’s adulthood.
I was at the grocery store about a year ago and had a young, pretty, in shape woman in a tasteful dress walk by. She had poise and grace and not a cell phone or tattoo in sight. She smiled at me even though I was standing there with a dumbfounded look on my face. The reason I was so shocked was because it was like having a unicorn walk by.
Tattoos is one of the most obvious red flags. It really signals high time preference, short sightedness, superficial narcissism and a FO-YOLO-attitude. It also signals that someone fishes in a small pool of other tattoo aficionados.
@@KingStreetBrody No it is the 1920's again, and the poster you are responding to is 100% correct. You have bought into yet another myth of postmodernism. There is a reason the world is absolute garbage right now and it because of that childish attitude.
Speaking as a 65 year old man, I regret not doing a lot of things in my life but one desideratum I most emphatically do not regret is not getting a tattoo. I was tempted a couple of times when I was young. Thankfully I gave them a pass.
I never understood it, and never will. It seems like self sabotaging behavior, and virtually irreversible. I remember when you couldn't get a decent job if you had visible tattoos. It's because they make people look like a derelict.
@@qua7771 Yup, it looks like graffiti. Many times, especially as they get older, bad graffiti. It just devalues and defaces in my opinion. If I had that done to me against my will, I would sue vigorously.
@@erichmacho5741 I don't mind a small tattoo that someone got when they were young. We're seeing people covered in them, and planning their next one. A lot of the so called "art" looks demonic.
Paying a stranger to scribble on your body in a permanent way seems ridiculous to me. It’s like wearing the same tee shirt every day for the rest of your life.
She seems nice, probably a 4 without the ink, terrible hair style, not much in the makeup department, I sense a high level of insecurity, she has doomed herself with the ink.
She spent thousands ruining her body. You couldn't make it up. If she had no tats she could probably get a good average guy at best, with all the tats its sad but i can't see any man committing to her.
Men that are into tattoos will have relationships with women without tattoos. But men that don't like tattoos on women will not. Basically, women reduce their pool of candidates by getting inked.
She is good for fun, but nothing more. It took a long time, but its time to pay the bill for her 😂😂 she was looking for the badboy and at 40yrs she wants the "good guy" 😂😂😂😂
Sorta like some of us guys. 15-20 years ago I wanted the easy chick who I knew was dtf. now, I want the quiet girl who doesn't party and who doesn't put out.
@@GuerreroDelInfo Yup. Loads of men think its just a womans problem. Its not, us men get caught out too. I was the young stud and plowed my way through my 20s and all the way up into my early 30s because I could and it wasn't until I hit about 33 that I realised f**k... I'm covered in tattoos, I spend every hour in the gym and simply because of a few things (height, funny, very in shape etc etc) I get a certain type of woman that would never really stick around in a serious sense but that never dawned on me because I was so used of it and didn't care because I wanted to move on and f**k a new chick. The whole new and shiny thing. Now I'm older, wiser but totally accept I f**ked up because I want a family, a nice quiet wholesome chic and a nice wholesome life but I don't deserve to take that away from some good guy whose looking for the same and has been putting the world in.. not that I could anyway. Few women would bring me home to their parents. I did that once - the father basically told me to never come back to their house again in the most polite way he could. I never felt so ashamed. Totally understood where he was coming from, men can read men. The only shitty part was I did genuinely love his daughter but back then would I have cheated - absolutely. Did he protect his daughter from a ruined relationship: yes. Oh well, I'll plow on fellas. Best of luck holding down the fort.
Simps led her astray with empty compliments on tattoos. I see this at my gym all the time. A beautiful woman who is working out gets some dudes initiating convo solely about tattoos and how great they look. It’s messed up. Half the time I am saying to my self: “why is a beautiful woman like that fucking up herself with tattoos like that.” And the odd thing is those typical simps never talk to the untattooed women.
Not simps, but also Chads. Even average to high end guys will sleep with a woman in her twenties with tats. The issue comes in their late twenties or thirties when guys start looking at long term partners and potential wives and say 'No thanks.' Suddenly women like Tamie realize that while guys just wanting to sleep with her will give her a pass, serious people won't.
My totally honest take when I see a tattooed woman: I assume they've probably had an abortion, a train ran on them, daddy issues, impulse control issues, manic moods, etc. etc.
So many visual red flags. The tats scream young adult issues. My experience is those issues pop up within 90 days and if I have a choice I;m gonna not do a date. Thank God I don't have to deal with dating anymore
tats are proof she got long mileage on her. "its impossible to go back to moonshine in your 40s after drinking quality whiskey for 10 years in your 20s"
Tattoos are excellent advertising. They immediately let me know that I should not hire you and especially shouldn't date you. What other trait gives you so much information so quickly?
This woman is now paying for her past as strong and independent with two children out of wedlock. These disgusting figures on a woman's body repel serious men and as she said, those men who approach her and have tattoos themselves, are entangled with drugs and have problems with the law. Unfortunately in life, the bill comes when it is too late.
Damaged Goods...plain & simple...something is definitely wrong...emotional, psychological, or self-worth problems...RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN & DON'T LOOK BACK!!!
@@friendzoned4990 I wouldn't say all of the men/women with tattoos or piercings are criminals...but I would say probably close to half are. You know Yourself, that a lot are criminals, thugs, drug addicts, theifs, & homeless. There is no way I would trust some of these people, there is no way I would invite them into my home... I'D JUST BE INVITING TROUBLE!!!
This also applies to women who have a full face of make up on all the time. At the gym, out for a run, first thing on a morning, every day at work. They won't be seen without make up on. This is a red flag.
I've always viewed lots of tattoos on a woman as a signal of promiscuity because getting covered in tattoos is an inherently risk-taking and rebellious behavior, just like promiscuous sex. Same as piercings. I think this is why I am usually attracted to women with lots of tattoos, but have never thought of dating one. Some tattoos are fine, but being covered in them like this women just looks trashy and in my experience, women who look like the one in this video tend to be an absolute nightmare to be around (I'm not saying she is that way, just pointing out a trend).
One of the main and most obvious traits of Borderline Personality Disorder is having several tattoos. Not that every chick that has them has BPD, but...yeah, it's usually a sign of major emotional instability. And a lot of women may even be awesome/sweet people, until they're in a relationship.
@@reck0n3r Interesting, never thought of it that way. I know one way BPD is characterized is lots of risk-taking behavior, so that definitely fits my theory. I think tattoos can also be an addiction to fill the void, I know my ex was always craving the next tattoo and loved the feeling of having a new one.
There's a girl on TikTok/IG who asked guys if they liked the fact she has tattoos and saw her as wife material and nearly every guy told her don't get anymore because she was beautiful without them and they'd rather she didn't. Her reply? "Well, I guess I'll be single for the rest of my life." smh...
I could be wrong but when I hear words like "dating" "intimate compatibility" "we get along but I'm not wife material" sends me a message that there is a high body count. Men that want a "good time" or "hook up" and even enjoy a 1:1 type of company with a women that has a high body count they still don't want to commit to a long term relationship or marriage. And as she stated the type of man that would want a long term relationship with her would be a Beta male or someone that she is not attracted to. She said she got a lot of her tattoos in her 20's but unfortunately the choices we make in life at an earlier age has significant affects in our later age. She said she is having her forehead tattoo removed but anyone that tattoos their forehead has to at least at the time of doing it would be deemed mentally or emotionally unstable at that decision/choice. Most people that I know or have met with face tattoos are drug addicts, porn stars, prisoners, gang affiliated, tattoo artists or some forms of the arts(musicians) or top level athletes. I hope she finds what she is looking for.
Totally correct in that second to last sentence about the type of people with face tattoos. And if you're the new guy on the scene, imagine if any of the guys from her past is jealous and holding any sort of grudge! No guy of quality would be interested in a relationship with such a woman.
Her requests are reasonable, she is intelligent, she seems very nice and looks like she might be fun. Sad side, she has just ruined all of the positives with the tattoos. A friend died in a motorcycle accident several years back. His widow was a Beautiful 24 year old girl. In her grief she went down and had his name and a symbol tattooed on her inner thighs. Then she went down and had a tombstone tattooed on her back full size with his name and dates on it. Those are stop signs for any man that would have her. She will never be theirs because she will always belong to her husband that has passed. Anyone but especially women lessen their options when they mark themselves up with tattoos. Personally I believe the female body is too perfect to ruin with a tattoo. Makes a woman look trashy.
I used to hate Tattoos, but now I see it as a quick way to discern if I want to talk to someone. Nature tells you that bright colors are to be avoided.
She's a working girl who should seek a working guy. A plumber, truck driver, mechanic, carpenter, etc. would be the best match for her. She has no chance with a professional man. The tattoos are kinda gross but maybe it's not an issue for some guy out there. A Harley biker dude would appreciate her tattoos.
Exactly. She ain't getting a white collar dude. Imagine him in his tux rocking up to a work party with her artwork on full display. If she was 22, maybe. In her mid 40s???? No chance.
Why does she assign her effort in achieving her goals as an asset he should recognise as "a high value woman"? A high value woman to a man has nothing to do with her career, financial standing (so long as she's solvent and not a debt magnet) it's whether she's caring, supportive, loyal, honest etc... None of that has anything to do with her goals, they're her goals not his. If she's no intention of supporting his why should he support hers? She wants a dominant man but she wants to set the terms... I think she'll find that hard with a dominant man. He'll set the terms and it will be take it or leave it. The thing is, what's really is going on here? The tats are not really an issue unless your expecting high society events. She's 40, OK but that's not a deal breaker, a lot of men don't want kids - hers are old enough not to be an issue, she looks and acts feminine that's a plus, so what is stopping this? It's got to be the high bar she's set for potential partners. So you have to ask just what is it she's expecting? and why does she think she deserves it? What is she offering in return? The kind of men looking for a 40+ year-old woman to settle down with are actually expecting to SETTLE DOWN, not go rock climbing, mountaineering, jogging miles a day (for that you date a 20+ woman) they just chill at home and relax at a time of their life where they're expecting to do just that. But that sounds like it's boring to her. She has no intention of fetching her man's slippers and curling up to watch a film... So what is she bringing to this for him?
tattoos for me are a huge turn off, now days woman are smothered in them, chest arms legs back eww i see beauty then think its ruined. imagine seeing this when shes in 50s 60s.
I'm glad I am old and married. I feel very very sorry for men today and what the have to pick from in the way of women. Angry, entitled, and tatted. No thanks!.
Do women really look down on guys who get sober? Seriously, that's a deal breaker for her? How? How on earth is somebody who choses, for himself, to get sober a bad thing?
It's the same as crying on her shoulder. Failing your burden of masculinity to figure it out on your own. She'll support you being in there, but she'll be doing it from the friend zone.
The 'sobriety thing' is bad because it becomes THE singular obsession in one's life. When you're going to for AA meetings a day, (Yes...I'm exaggerating a bit) you have neither the time nor mental energy for developing the money/power/fame and fitness that you need for success.
@@leomcnamara8711 That's probably what it is, honestly. I got sober last year, but I don't go to meetings, and I did it for health reasons. I don't even think about drinking now. I work out, eat right, and the physical and financial gains I've seen since I quit drinking are enough for me. Sobriety is a part of my overall success in the last year, but not what defines my life. Good way to look at it!
I think tattoos are fine on women. It tells me about them they don't realize. A hodge podge of random shapes splattered all over the place in random locations tells me she is a high drama basket case. Limited or even a couple large ones shows intent, direction, and thought. We may not agree on the thought as it could be completely manic. I'm not against them. If the tat has class I'm still in the game.
I think there is some confusion about what exactly a "high value"and "alpha males"are. Neither of these terms have a sole criteria of being a millionaire. A lot of men on here too, think it's about money, it is not. You can be Chad with no money but physically attractive to women and you are classed as high value and alpha by women. I have found that there appears to be more and more content by rich and others, which concentrates on finances being the go to characteristic for women to desire you. I think we all need to realise ,most will not achieve millionaire status, but that doesn't stop you maxing out in other areas and improving yourself.
Gotta disagree, high value is about finances. Alpha is not. There are High value betas (elon musk , will smith) and Broke alphas (check out your local jail, its full of 'em) In a way women want exactly what men want : everything. They want a high value alpha. But you are correct that we all cannot be millionaires but with that said you gotta keep pushing. Women respect the grind as well. As long as you are not lazy you are ok. Average people will get average outcomes. But for people that have ambition , the financial motivation will fuel more fire for you to hit your goals.
I sort if agree. IMO a high value man is someone who has a good job he enjoys,just needs to earn enough to live well, comes from a good family, works out and eats well so has a good body and has good morals and honest etc I could go on but I'd say any woman should be aiming for that kind of man not some fantasy.
I’ve always preferred the blue collar worker to the man with a lot of money. Why, because they are more down to earth, they usually work on their own car and can renovate a home. They don’t mind walls on the beach, a hike and grabbing a bite to eat… men with a lot of money tend to flaunt their homes, cars and fancy dinners.
I think any tattoo is one too many. And anyone who doesn't believe in family values is going to be difficult to understand the truth of being wholesome.
People that are all tattooed up typically have self image issues, I’ve never gotten a tattoo because I’m happy in my own skin. I love everything about myself and I’m not trying to boast because I’m not an attractive man, lol. But woman ESPECIALLY love men in tats. I don’t give a f, I’m happy being me and most people now a days have major issues with their looks and have to get tattoos to be happy.
Here's the thing though that you see so often is a woman who's made bad decisions making demands. When you are looking for a significant other money should not come into it when you mix a relationship with money it will always fail always 100%. People are not money people are not bank accounts a person's value is not in correlation to what's in their wallet. Do they have a job and are they not on food stamps this is probably it and this just means that they are responsible. When you start talking about money it only indicates to everyone that you are looking for a bank account and not a human being to spend the rest of your life with. Let me cover myself in tattoos let me have children with other men let me fry my hair and now let me make unrealistic demands on the male populace as to the requirements to be with me. Must make a bunch of money every year must be alpha must own three cars must own his own house. That person isn't going to want someone with french fry hair covered in tattoos who has already been impregnated by other men and left by them. The scale isn't balanced. Two pennies does not equal the weight of gold no matter how hard you try. Maybe it's time to start being realistic.
We see this all around. These women are competing with young attractive chicks that don't expect as much. They messed up their young years, and still don't understand that actions have consequences. Now they want to settle down when it's too late. It's game over!
I've had a very attractive woman ask me why I don't like tattoos on women... I told her that a tattoo on a beautiful woman , appears to me as vandalism and graffiti on a beautiful sculpture. And a warning sign to men.
I hear a LOT of woman talk about, he has to love you for who you are, blah blah blah and then they themselves have these long lists of requirements for men, so they expect to be loved unconditionally, yet don’t want to love a man unconditionally. 🙄 Cry me a f’in river, this female STILL has specific demands for a certain man. He has to look and act like a bad boy BUT he needs to be nice to me. Bad boys don’t give a flying f about what you want, period.
