THIS THIS THIS AND THIS! unfortunately, many and I mean manyyyy are in fact thinking they're "great" when they're just being used... Don't believe ME. TIME has proven this fact, TIME, it's undefeated.... And no, him giving you a ring or marrying you doesn't mean you're not being used. A smart narcissist will lock his supply down. Ijs
It’s easy to serve a man with integrity. It’s a privilege to carry the name of a man of great character. It’s easy to respect a man that keeps it real. A man of his word. A man who honors the Most High God.❤️🌹
Yessss Sharon, well said. And I realised tht the only way for a man to be faithful is to fear God because I can’t see what he is doing always but if he has it in his mind that she can’t see me but God can… what is God thinking about what Im doing right now texting this girl… etc tht is what keeps him loyal. I realised that a lot of men profess to be Christians but they aren’t truly following Jesus. Real salvation has signs and symptoms. The Lord has called us to be disciples not follow a religion. When you do this and read the word and renew your mind, have a solid relationship with Him, you become a changed person and are able to be set free from the bondages of the flesh thus presenting your body as a living sacrifice to The Almighty❤
I definitely got that kind of woman with me in my life. We are about to have our first child together June 1st. Thank you God for putting us together an showing me everyday she is who I belong with. 🙏🏿🙏🏿☝🏿💯
This is lovely. But please support her through the changes. Pregnancy and birth changes a woman completely and it takes 2 years after birth for the body to return to pre pregnancy. Hormones are all over the place. The child will be a priority. I hope you will both be able to squeeze time and energy for eachother and give eachother grace but just be prepared to not have the same kind of "assistance" as before the baby. Many men do not understand the impact on a woman. So I hope you can support and have patience ❤ wishing you all the best and congratulations 🎉
My condolences... Blessings and peace to you. I miss my wife as well. May she rest in peace. 🙏🏽 She was definitely this kind of woman for me. Love you Indi... ❤️🌺
No lie when he spoke this all I could think about is my woman she always asking me what do I need and if I’m ok. I remember I was looking for a certain cereal and I couldn’t find it. My lady went to store after store looking and didn’t quit looking until she ran across them in target. She got me 3 boxes. She also always surprising me with lil healthy snacks I like one morning it was on the windshield of my car with a cute note. Women like that deserve good men I truly love her and glad GOD allowed us to cross paths 💙😎
Real Woman know this! This guy was already neat & organized with a nice man cave home. When I came to his home.. I changed his silver ware in an much better organized way , saved him money on our bill by adding a coupon he never even think to use, Those little details I paid attention to HE LOVED! ITS CALLED PROVIDER MEETS HIS HELP MATE!
This is me. However, my ex didn't want to be the best version of himself. I had to learn that some people just don't want help. You can't help everyone. Sad part is he was the one that was all about what he could get from me. Using me. Men like that aren't even worth time nor effort.
Classic traits of a narcissist man. I know because I am legally married to one. He's so jealous of my.progressing without him that he wont.sign the divorce papers of 2 years now😢 I'm upset and watchful because he's a time bomb.
@@Victoria-tc5cm I completely understand. I was engaged to my ex but his problem was everything was my fault. I was the toxic one. I was to blame. He literally thought he had no flaws and was perfect, but would be pissed when someone told him otherwise. Some men do not know how to let go nor do they accept the consequences for their own actions.
I don't know about that....find a way to be useful? Does he love her or just what she does for him? What if the only thing about her he finds 'useful' is her money. Does that make him a gold digger?
Wow ! This brother here nailed it! The good book talks about the Proverbial Woman and lists attributes this gentleman espouses here in this short clip! Being of service, being useful , having an investment in your success, your happiness and from a loving heart..- and by reverse engineering a quality man is going to cherish that woman, respect that woman, carve out time of his busy schedule to show love and appreciation for that woman. Why wouldn’t he? That’s a butterfly 🦋 woman. And that woman has her own program. She isn’t idolizing her man but honoring her man. She loves him despite his mistakes, his shortcomings etc… she is with him in spirit when not together. And visa versa. Some good looking honey can come on to us as a man and it’s like “nope! I have a high quality women I love, honor and respect!” No thank you! I respect myself, God and her too much
There’s ways to do this in dating and committed relationships. Boundaries and limits. 😂😂for simplicity if he wants to take you to a concert assistant in finding great seats.
My wife knows I'll forget my lunch in the morning... That she cooked the night before and packed. She will place my lunch by the door every morning. She is a great woman.
@@calvinmack7124they never learned how to make meals for themselves. I don’t get how there are men and women out there who can’t cook. It’s actually not that hard to do lol
Nope. Not true to a certain capacity. A narcissist will look out for himself and be on his best behavior around you. He will put on his best representative and check so many checkboxes..... meanwhile, you will believe that you have a solid guy until he removes that mask...
Facts. Real women know how to move with direction and not expect anything other than you to love her, be supportive and reciprocate that same energy. She realizes this type of behavior is priceless and values this over anything monetary!!
In other words the “trad wife”…but excluding the word wife since he’ll never make her out to be…such twist deception men refuse to end their obsession over women
It's Called Being REAL & Called Tough Honest Love! If She Isn't Setting You Straight, NO Matter How Harsh It May Sound Or Be, Iy IS REAL Love. NOTHING Comes Before PHYSICAL WELL BEING & REAL LOVE! ❤️💯🫂
Any time a woman says something tying her physical affection with her man’s ability to provide financially, she’s not a gold-digger, she’s a literal prostitute. Those things are mutually exclusive when you love someone because you should NEED his intimacy for reasons outside of what he can buy for you. Relationships are symbiotic.
You're absolutely 💯 correct. It goes both ways. I actually used to go with my Dad a lot to pick out his suits. He was color blind. The salespeople would always sell him nice apparel, but he didn't match. I wasn't having my Dad looking ridiculous. He worked for the Reagan Administration and in the White House, so he had to look professional at all times. My Mom was working for the Smithsonian Institute, so she couldn't always go with him. So I made myself useful.😊 It's the same in any relationship, give and take.
It can be annoying to continually hear men talk about women because of the amount of bs that comes out of some men's mouths but I actually agree with him on this one. Ladies just make sure you're not people pleasing or giving to the point where you lose yourself. Make sure you're appreciated and that the energy is reciprocated. Side note: this man looks like a professional gamer, no ps5 lol (respectfully)
Thank you for letting me know. A lot of men do not understand and they think she is nagging when she sees your greatness and is trying to get you to see the greatness in yourself. Thank you for eloquently speaking in great women. But some men cannot handle that. 🤗🤗
On point, if only us real ones were more valued, instead of being taken for granted. us real ones are rare... proud to be a part of the rare crowd. thank you for this post, and SSalute to those who do value the real ones in your life.
Facts Remember that everything you do, whether good or bad your doing it for yourself. It doesn't matter how many times you meet the wrong partners just heal and do you
Truth he tells… b4 u know u need it; it’s already provided and in some cases you never even knew it needed. The woman God places in your life will be amazing❤❤❤🎉 🥂
When I got with my man he was making $12 an hour now he’s making a very good amount of money. I think I motivated him a lot and I never broke him down even when he wasn’t in his bag. I did what people say not to do and I saw his potential. He was the kindest man I had ever met and I felt like everything else could be fixed, and eventually it did get better just like I thought. I went for the real kind man and we won together. 5 years later we live a very fortunate life.
This why real women are hard to fine , fellas if you got real one hold on to her , she a real rare diamond lost in Africa , you won’t find these days . Stay safe out here fellas ✊🏾✌🏾
I had a girl who was legit the opposite of this. She wouldn’t want to get involved in my projects, she didn’t help or inspire me she tried to stop me and tried to get me to only focus on her
Like in the movie Hustle and Flow even tho the black girl was pregnant, she brought the light for his inspiration, sung on a track, gave him space when he needed it, a peace of mine when he needed it, she came through in so many ways, and sadly that went over alot of women and men heads in the end.
Lets talk about how men can add value to us great women, we need reciprocation too. If hes not adding value in your life dont pour into him, he will deplete you while building himself up gor the next woman.
This was once me until I got used up and kicked to the curb. And I was told it isn’t me but it’s was them and now all the support and love I gave is given to someone else
