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There is an art to ... being able to take, what appears to be on the face of it, two random and seemingly disparate items, but you assist the listener, to make the connection on their own. Another way is to turn a double entendre, back on the other person, as it their mind that's "in the gutter" when you were leading them the entire time. Cerebral gymnastics are a hoot
@@a-10warthog23 it's literally saying "You don't know how to be charming? Just be charming" of course being descriptive Is a good way to entertain people, but this video says nothing about how to do it
@@a-10warthog23 of course drawing good art Is a good way to produce good art, but those videos i mentioned say nothing about how to do It. That's why they're the same thing
Seriously? So you didn't get how him explaining that Ryan replaced generic phrases with things that conjure funny visuals makes the process of learning to be funny less abstract and gives you a clearer idea of what to go for? Why can't people accept that social skills are SKILLS? As in stuff that you'll inevitably suck at in the beginning, regardless of whatever advice you get, and that you'll have to practice and fail repeatedly before you can be good at it. Just because a piece of advice won't make you instantly funnier doesn't mean it's bad advice. If you think it is then you just don't understand how skills work.
It REALLY helps that they are almost always given the questions that will be asked during recording before hand. That’s why so many of them seem so well-spoken on the spot. I’m not saying he may not be naturally that way, but I’m saying that’s how interviews usually seem to transition to the next topic so easily.
@@mmcs4973people sometimes confuse self awarness and noticing your not good at certain things as self deprecating. Its not though big society issue rn is using words that are only half correct. Self deprecating you literally dont like yourself. " i suck at etc etc " " im not smart in etc etc " Or a big one " im fat " if you are fat or not smart in a certain subject, point it out then change to improve in that subject its just being realistic with yourself. This comment confused that topic. Cheers hope you learned something.
You're wicked smart man, yeah that's exactly what he said, has nothing to do with repetition and practicing so that over time you get better at it, have you ever gotten good at anything or are you just a condescending spoon all the time?
I’ve always preferred to just say an obscure fruit. It always gets a good laugh and if you know additional facts about the fruit people are naturally curious to hear more!
I love this mode of witty humour, it certainly improves on bombastic insults that conjures up ill will ( negative issues) Laughter is the golden elixir of life.
@@b.0.z.nightcore519 It is. You've just had more practice driving and you're probably irrationally more afraid of failure when it comes to social skills, even though mistakes in driving have far worse consequences.
Sad thing is, I’m super good at this around my close friends/family, but any time I’m in a group I’m not 100% comfortable with, I can never think of something funny to say until after.
Most people are like this, you’re not alone. Don’t focus on the whole group, break down the group into a couple of people at a time in your mind and switch those people in your mind with the other people in the group every so often, this worked for me
he's confident in himself. self-deprecating humor takes confidence but it also deflects attention if you are shy. this is how I use jokes that take pressure off myself and the audience. I hate awkward silences.
Self-confidence is key. I have always been a very self-confident over the top type person and it showed up when I walked into an FM radio station with zero experience and told them I was going to be there next afternoon drive this jockey. Immediately got the job they called before I even made it back to my house. Course it was '80s there were no cell phones. I learned to be quick with it and funny by honing my skills on air.
It is so weird you say that, because I make self deprecating jokes all the time, but the reason I do it is because I think very little of myself. Of course, I don't tell anyone this, so it may still come off as confident?
You're just upset that the advice made you understand humor better but didn't give you the magic pill to be instantly funny. He broke down what Ryan did, you're just mad that it still takes practice. Such a lazy-ass mindset.
I do that all the time, and i'm now one of the funnier guys at my work. 😅 Either that or people laugh at me being a complete fuck up~ Either way, they laugh and i got no beef with people~ win-win.
Here’s what you have to do. The main thing that flying requires is the ability to throw yourself at the ground and miss. You must throw yourself forward with all your weight and the willingness not to mind that it's going to hurt, however it will surely hurt if you fail to miss the ground. The difficulty is in missing the ground, and doing so accidentally, as deliberately intending to miss the ground does not work.
It is also advisable not to listen to what others may say, as they could say something such as: "Good God, man, you can't possibly be flying!". It is vitally important not to believe them or they will suddenly be right, and you will find yourself failing to miss the ground once again.
Nah, wit is a skill, not a talent. People think of way too many skills as talents, and therefore give up under the assumption of "I wasn't born with it"
@@joel.ha. it’s easier if you are naturally outgoing and witty, if you’re naturally annoying and not funny, which many people are, it’s hard to improve
Ryan Reynolds is naturally witty. You're either born with that, you learn it as coping mechanism, or it's just not your personality or how you communicate at all. But it takes all kinds of people to make the world interesting
Not really, everything can be practiced. Notice Reynolds mostly says self-deprecating jokes. those are pretty easy to come up with. or think of silly scenes from things you've already seen.
He's funny as hell. As a socially awkward guy who tries to be funny to counteract it, it's cool to see humor explained like this, thank you for posting. Comedians have such a way of being their 'best worst selves' in their humor that just connects in such a human way, it's highly admirable.
Man that was so true and helpful. A year ago, whenever i was expected to tell a joke, i would just cry for hours, but now, i say "so i ripped my denzel curry poster off the wall!" and then everyone applauds me! Men *AND* women swoon uncontrollably (once they stop laughing, that is) and now my life is great! Thanks charisma on command!!
@@excisionsstepserum8336 I'd say it's pretty hard because you have to think fast and make a good delivery of the joke, otherwise you're probably going to look cringey
Skill learning is hard if you don't like hard things, give up be a loser like you always wanted to be Hes not going to promise you an easy ticket like all these other fake channels, the biggest takeaway from the video was being able to come up with scenarios and how they add to comedy.
@@BossOfAllTrades yea for sure! Now whenever I cant think of something funny to say in a timely manner I just scream "I GET PAID IN SPITS AND INSULTS!" and proceed to rip my Denzel Washington poster off my wall..
Truth. I know a guy who thinks he’s funny but he’s not. He always looks at me to laugh at his jokes but I don’t. Another guy says something funny & I bust up laughing. Unfunny guy asks why I laugh at the other guy & not him? The other guy says it’s all in the timing bro. I’m like that’s it. Timing & a good sense of humor is everything.
Unless of course youre not funny. If that's the case just be a funnier person. If that doesnt work just try practice. Dont practice anything in particular, . . . Just... ya know.. practice? *Rips Denzel Washington poster off trailer wall*
I wish i was smart and influential enough to tell a legless or paralyzed person to get up their feet and start making life worth living. But alas, all i get is a deathstare and threats of killing me. Talk about kicking a man while he is down... IF they could do the kicking to begin with that is 😅
My husband does this so often it amazes me. Its like he has all these cue cards in his brain. He pulls out these witty comments at the perfect moments on a whim. I love it!
I love that your response is celebrating someone you love with this quality, that’s amazing! I think appreciation for the qualities of other people is a quality that makes just about everyone really likable too!
Does he work in sales? Very effective at reducing tension and making the customer comfortable to buy & less likely to closely examine every verbal detail.
The key here is instead of answering questions directly and dryly, make your responses into stories. This can draw out conversations and keep the small talk to an absolute minimum. But remember to not make everything about yourself. Context of a situation matters.
But don't forget when making your responses into stories, to avoid the Abe Simpson effect... "We can't bust heads like we used to. But we have our ways. One trick is to tell stories that don't go anywhere. Like the time I caught the ferry to Shelbyville. I needed a new heel for m'shoe. So I decided to go to Morganville, which is what they called Shelbyville in those days. So I tied an onion to my belt, which was the style at the time. Now, to take the ferry cost a nickel, and in those days, nickels had pictures of bumblebees on 'em. 'Gimme five bees for a quarter,' you'd say. Now where were we...oh yeah. The important thing was that I had an onion on my belt, which was the style at the time. They didn't have white onions, because of the war. The only thing you could get was those big yellow ones..."
@Keep300 Yeah, it's about delivery really, you can keep things from getting long-winded (because nobody likes people who talk too much), but making sure to give people enough rope to keep the conversation and interesting. But honestly, if you're good at asking questions and focusing on the person instead of yourself, that would probably help more than telling stories imo. It's a balance ig
@@skepticusmaximus184 "Oh... oh no... oh no no no... you're doing it again... he's doing it again, he's telling ... telling one of his stories! Well I won't be a party to it, no sir, good day!"
I think some people are naturally born with quick wit. I have a three year old granddaughter that can come up with witty comebacks at her age. I told her to stop running around like a chicken with its head cut off (she’s wild). Her response” cock a doodle do”.
As a child who has separated siblings in different families it was really difficult I have a lot of issues that are being addressed that affected my will to live especially. I’m lucky my dad wants to be into my life recently but the pain is still there. Stay breezy ppls ✌🏾
I really hope my children give me another chance 🙏🏼🙏🏼 I lost all 3 at different times in my life and my eldest is going to college next semester then the national guard which i am so freaking proud of but my mom and sister lied to him until he was 16 and then told him i left him to do drugs so my sister adopted him. In all truth that isnt too far from it but there was another person involved in this child and he burned off when my boy was only 4 months old and i was 19 his bio was 13 yrs older than me and just left after introducing me to every drug known to man.... I could not drag him thru the life i was leading i could have done it in a better way but thats all done my sister hates me and taught him to as well. But he actually invited me to his graduation may 23 im in iowa hes in tx he asked me 1 month to the day if id come after i asked him like a year ago so I will crawl on my knees for 700 something miles just to see him walk across that stage. I wish i would have known sooner its so expensive and he asked if i could chip in on a car for his graduation present but that was my bad i asked him what he wanted 😂😂😂 of course "ummm i need money for a car" i said ill see what I can do. I still have a 13 and 15 yr olds out there that i get no contact with so I am very grateful for the chance to try to build something together whatever that may be I'll take anything.❤
Ryan has always been quick with the wit. I can't think of one world he's done that hasn't used it. Sure he's refined it to a razor sharp edge but he's had it his whole career.
I used to chill with Ryan in my late teens and early twenties. He is the most down to earth person I have ever met. This is rare in people who posess such intelligence and wit.
One of the keys to success and popularity, I think, is to have the "intelligence" to treat others as equals, each valuable in their own way -- and to "level that playing field" with wit and humor.
