Tiffanee and Ayatallah: Irreconcilable Differences | Family or Fiance S2 E19 | Full Episode | OWN

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A couple who rushed into an engagement now face some serious conversations when they discover that their philosophies on religion, children and other crucial ideologies are so unaligned that the groom even refuses to get a marriage license. (Original air date: December 4, 2021)
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Tiffanee and Ayatallah: Irreconcilable Differences | Family or Fiance S2 E19 | Full Episode | OWN
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@tobemeis2bfree 6 дней назад

Girl, that first dinner told it all. His friends don’t even understand him. Run girl

@camdenhunt7565 6 дней назад

FR! I saw a giant red flag waving when he said he's been thru "countless toxic relationships" like you haven't been in ONE good one, not ONE? The problem is YOUUU

@dianeatkins6980 6 дней назад

Run fast and don't look back...periodt

@CreolePearls_ 6 дней назад

Him saying he really family oriented yet no one from his family came 😂😂😂 the contradiction is so insane 🤣🤣🙄 men like him who have nothing will help you lose everything even your mind ‼️

@Crystal-Love 6 дней назад

That’s so true. Your comment should be pinned‼️

@iamsenitrashaneil1234 6 дней назад

preach!!

@gailtaylor411 2 дня назад

That part! Family is #1 but you don't deal with your family due to their beliefs? Bruh...

@TheKiana600 15 часов назад

@@gailtaylor411 why be around people that don’t share the same beliefs as you ? Sounds like his family are Christian’s and he sounds atheist

@shaunabee 6 дней назад

5 mins in… Girl, RUN!!!

@MistyEE21 6 дней назад

5:55 in and I was done too.

@nicoleturner7642 6 дней назад

I ran from the T.V. GIRL RUN!!!!!!!

@MistyEE21 6 дней назад

@@nicoleturner7642 I hear you 😂 😂 😂

@landib1 6 дней назад

😂😂😂

@jordania179 6 дней назад

First 45 seconds girl !!!!

@MistyEE21 6 дней назад

Parents teach your daughters not to accept abuse and not conform to unhealthy relationships.

@Ginaaaa87 6 дней назад

I am glad his family knows he is delusional too 🤣

@quinnpope3705 6 дней назад

😂😂😂🤡

@jupiter4351 6 дней назад

He don’t live with his current children but wants to make more children to “be in the home with them” sir…you already have broken households

@TheBaba1920 6 дней назад

It’s giving cult leader.

@kaylawright6536 6 дней назад

Absolutely

@diva70smusic 4 дня назад

@@TheBaba1920 Great comment!! I was thinking Jim Jones but didn't phrase it in my comments. You have summed this man with 2 words.

@Redpursegreenbag 17 часов назад

I get what he meant, and it does make sense... just not with him! He mentioned that he's never loved like this so ya makes sense to want to have a child and raise that child with the person you feel you will love forever....

@lifeoferinr9383 6 дней назад

He's saying family is the most important thing but he's not close to his?! 😭

@yolandalcheek462 6 дней назад

Don't even have partial custody of his own kids, I knew he was strange by his name. RUN. He can't even lead, nor has a solid foundation. RUN

@creamekay 6 дней назад

when i heard that i was like huh

@thabsmkhize2481 5 дней назад

Lol same. I didn’t want to be stereotypical wrt his name, tried to give him the benefit of the doubt but wow lol he lived up to and exceeded every stereotype. He’s a law unto himself, not grounded by family nor by rules - while being so self righteous - this woman is in for it.

@tyrathethird 6 дней назад

I’m so glad the grooms best friend was holding him accountable. Black men have to hold each other accountable. It is imperative. Dude makes no sense.

@TheKiana600 15 часов назад

Who makes sense he’s right about everything with the government we are awarded of the states they do on us with our diverse certificates and everything like that. If you look it up, you know he’s telling the truth. Our Social Security numbers is attached to money that’s ours, but we can’t get it because they have it in their federal reserves. He’s not lying about any of that.

@tiffaneebrinkman4121 6 дней назад

We finally broke up yall, it's ok 🤣

@Makavellah001 5 дней назад

Thank God you found your damn mind where you lost it at

@amandatiragalo9344 5 дней назад

thank YOU JESUUUS GAAAALIIIIIII🎉🎉🎉🎉

@brianablutcher3736 5 дней назад

Girl thank god, he is crazy 😂

@emmarhondawilson7071 4 дня назад

I am so happy for you. Because you dodged a bullet..trust and believe me. I was married to a man that was a narcissist. You made the right decision.

@brittbritt4661 3 дня назад

Congratulations lol

@kishacooper8475 6 дней назад

He chose her, Dm'd her, and gave her a ring after 8 weeks for a very particular reason.

@genmore1953 2 дня назад

I feel he saw her insecurities and thought he could make her a sister wife

@dianastjohn700 14 часов назад

@genmore1953 my thoughts exactly!

@t.w.8174 Час назад

Like my mom always says, trash men hunt and prey on women they think they can control.

@priscillak88 6 дней назад

He found someone he can manipulate. There is some insecurity there and he knows it. I don’t think this will last

@tiffaneebrinkman7563 2 дня назад

It didn't last. I know my worth 😊

@robinwambui1589 6 дней назад

He doesnt want a marriage certificate because he will want to add other wives

@mj8382 6 дней назад

GURLL EXACTLY!!!

@mj8382 6 дней назад

Who’s to say the last baby mama wasn’t his “ wife” but once the broke up she’s downgraded to “ ex girlfriend “ picking and choosing when to pick the title of WIFE!!

@Kimmy_Beee 6 дней назад

Bingo!!!🎯

@Mizz_Vee 6 дней назад

Yes!

@rosewanda2 6 дней назад

Absolutely..

@09kenedy 6 дней назад

He named elevating her in every way EXCEPT financially 🙃

@Makavellah001 5 дней назад

And has the nerve to want more wives with his broke ahhhh

@ka8204 3 дня назад

Because the govt prints Money🙄

@porshataylor-ee5ri 6 дней назад

He///////// no. He's about to make you a sister wife girl.

@thebarbieinvestor5428 6 дней назад

When he really want a brother wife. This is just tew much!!! Who them brows fooling besides Tiff 😭😭😭😫😫

@iam_yahsgrace29 6 дней назад

He like I just need a lil more time to work on her. Break her down(YAH FORBID) SHE GONE DO WHAT I SAY!!! LOL😳

@quinnpope3705 6 дней назад

😂😂😂😂😂

@quinnpope3705 6 дней назад

Baby he not ready for tee😂😂

@shakithayoung3190 6 дней назад

That's all I was thinking

@sherrypressley4308 6 дней назад

He doesn’t even have insight into what he claims to believe. He becomes emotional and yells when he unable to articulate. Know what and why you believe in something when trying to sway others. They may have questions.

@Daniellehiu 6 дней назад

Exactly. When they were asking how does the gov't being involved affect you and the impact and he couldn't verbalize it. He just said you know how! No we don't! Explain.

@Purplegirl-pi1jo 6 дней назад

Because he doesn’t know what he’s talking about

@FEMME_CHRONICLES 6 дней назад

Her personality is FLAT, she’s shut down, there’s no one home. I believe the abuse has started.

@Crystal-Love 6 дней назад

I agree!

@Momo-kv8zo 2 дня назад

And her poor son has to deal too 😤 they probably did get married and that kid got out as soon as possible.

@tiffaneebrinkman7563 2 дня назад

No, never that. We broke up

@genmore1953 2 дня назад

I feel she’s a bit insecure and thinking he’s the best she can do

@genmore1953 2 дня назад

@@Momo-kv8zothis is why I don’t introduce my kids until for years

@Aaron-vb1gu 6 дней назад

This guy has several red flags...if he is so serious in regards to his ideology why pick a woman that does not follow it??? He is just CONTROLLING and trying to cover it up with these ideology.

@d.m.3753 6 дней назад

Bingo on the controlling part... because it would be an accomplishment to have her fall in line.

@monique4826 6 дней назад

He also can’t even state what it is that he believes. I think she has low self esteem because how does she hear him speaking this way and still want to marry into that. He’s delusional.

@deborahadams3745 6 дней назад

This relationship is not going to work. Period. She will be walking on eggshells through out this relationship. Run and run fast. Don’t be scared to lose him. This is not what you want. Run girl run.

@NikkiRich174 6 дней назад

PURPOSELY IGNORING RED FLAGS IS TO OUR OWN DETRIMENT

@thabsmkhize2481 5 дней назад

And we only have ourselves to blame when things go awry.

@tamarabello 6 дней назад

This man provides no stability at all. You have a child, think about him before you plant seeds of destruction.

@CreolePearls_ 6 дней назад

Exactly ZERO 0️⃣ he a dusty

@yolandalcheek462 6 дней назад

Her son don't like him either, they act like we couldn't read in between the lines

@tamarabello 5 дней назад

@yolandalcheek462 I hope she realised that their visions do not align, and she needs someone who provides peace in the home they build together. He wants things his way and can't see reason to anything else. He is overbearing, and the truth is his family doesn't deal with him.

@rosewanda2 6 дней назад

He doesn’t want a married certificate because he wants to legally bring in another wife.. It’s bigamy with one!! He gives narcissist vibes..

@MsJellybean1111 2 дня назад

I usually hate when people throw around the word narcissist. But this man reeks of narcissistic abuse.

@crystalfowler2336 6 дней назад

10 secs in, this ain’t going to work

@MD-ck7rc 6 дней назад

My thought exactly

@LuvYaya24 6 дней назад

😂 same thoughts 💭 the therapist hit the nail on the head

@Tboogiewitdabun 6 дней назад

Lmao

@tashiannaartist 6 дней назад

I really like Tiffany's mom and aunt. They are very sensible, articulate, and respectful. Excellent job ladies ❤

@sandraisom134 6 дней назад

He should be on Seeking sister wife😂😂

@Ginaaaa87 6 дней назад

First interviews is all I be needing to see.

@mikaelah8904 6 дней назад

he’s very narcissistic, i hope she runs far away

@AlainaMoore-sc7xw 6 дней назад

it’s now making sense none of his family came😂

@mj8382 6 дней назад

THE SAME BIRTH CERTIFICATE! HE doesn’t want his CHILD to have is the SAME one that could’ve helped him get full custody of his last child, DOes he even have. a DRIVERS license?? Becuz that’ll go against the “sovereign citizen” code ! 😢GURL RUN!

@rolondabrown1233 6 дней назад

This therapist is bomb ❤❤❤❤

@nbbim2012 6 дней назад

There are certain things that cannot be compromised about- individually nothing wrong with your preferences but these 2 are like East & West....run Tiffanee run!!!!!!!

@CynthiaMurphy-ep8os 6 дней назад

Exactly...he need to find someone tht has his beliefs..it's all a CONTROL thing🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

@camdenhunt7565 6 дней назад

Family is so important to him but none of them showed UP for him? Red flag, run away.

@keepitfrankwithfentse 6 дней назад

His family is not with the BS. They see him as problematic

@tearapowell3780 6 дней назад

They are not equally yoked. I understand both positions

@ohhxsoxcynthia 6 дней назад

Marrying a hotep is… a choice lol

@mkxv 6 дней назад

I bet he thinks the earth is flat too smh like it or not you’re living in America where we have laws and taxes and documents. The delusion is incredible

@sheenaacker6078 6 дней назад

Ayatallah is too much for me. There is too many red flags flying here, especially communication, control and emotions. I just don’t see major issues of this magnitude being fixed in 3 days. Girl, run already!

@whiteeagle7594 6 дней назад

Bride Mom said she will deliver the baby and Auntie said look on RU-vid 😂😂😂

@Purplegirl-pi1jo 6 дней назад

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@naturerazzi7shi495 3 дня назад

Aunty Blue is a trailer blazer. She told him: your needs means making your wife happy '. 😂😂😂 Done with his foolery lol

@goodchick88 6 дней назад

She needs to open her eyes and run!!!

@CynthiaMurphy-ep8os 6 дней назад

Exactly. Her eyes is so sad

@welcome2vonasworld821 6 дней назад

Right .....

@carolinagirl2428 6 дней назад

I just thought about it, Ayettallah might not be his birth name. He likely changed it 🤔🤔🤔

@bilqis3 6 дней назад

His family might be followers of the Nation of Islam. That is a name used among them. Malcolm X has a daughter with that name.

@reginadavis7499 3 дня назад

I think he said growing up people couldn't pronounce it so he may have been born with it

@friedmangobean 6 дней назад

love the daily drops!!

@annette1007 6 дней назад

He’s controlling and that isn’t going to change in 3 days.. I think he’s saying what’s he needs to to get through this process when they get home what he says will go . Girl Run

@SexyRed7474 6 дней назад

Same

@DravenNavarro 6 дней назад

Ayatallah found a better and authentic bond with Omar Cardona

@ob2be1 6 дней назад

How do you know?

@NikkiRich174 6 дней назад

Seems Juicy Where's The Proof Give Us A Link... Tell Us More 👀

@sashatv382 6 дней назад

Who’s Omar Cardona?🤷🏽‍♀️

@Tboogiewitdabun 6 дней назад

Just RU-vid it, I’m sure it’ll pop Up

@thabsmkhize2481 5 дней назад

@@sashatv382that’s what I’d like to know 🙃

@magnoliah6476 6 дней назад

Id be soooo embarrassed if i was her sitting at the dinner table claiming i want to marry this man girl take some me time

@gracenalwadda1582 6 дней назад

This relationship can't last forever their energies are not matching.

@brigittemorobise7585 6 дней назад

He doesn't even know what the state wants to do to him 😂

@22221mm 6 дней назад

He got no nuclear family coming?… He lying, he gaslighting momma Oh no!

@Queen-of-the-Burbs 6 дней назад

Toward the end he said what sounded good but he clearly don’t care about how she feel.

@iamsenitrashaneil1234 6 дней назад

yep told them what they wanted to hear. Agreed to considering marriage certificate then in the same setting removed the marriage and wife title and added life partner. 😂

@TheKayrotic 6 дней назад

5mins in…he is homeless

@FEMME_CHRONICLES 6 дней назад

😂 yup

@desidefense1463 6 дней назад

She insecure and he saw that and took advantage of it. He's a hot head and I'm sure he's not a safe zone

@raya74 6 дней назад

Yess

@22221mm 6 дней назад

He TOXIC AF

@IndiasFACE 6 дней назад

He can’t get his point across and NO ONE not even his own friends can talk to him without him reacting like that. Thats so embarrassing…so unhinged…and SO SCARY.

@Irockmycrown 6 дней назад

She needs to run fast.

@helena3631 6 дней назад

This

@zurierae2106 6 дней назад

My sister is a Hebrew Israelite and has some of the same world views not as extreme but…. We haven’t spoken in 3 years 😢 whereas I believe we can respectfully agree to disagree. You do you I do me. But that power trip, aggressiveness, desire to control, quick to anger. No thank you

@yemedemure414 6 дней назад

I’m an Israelite as well. Thats who we are. The so called African Americans Latinos and native Americans. It’s biblical Sis. If you are a Bible believer. Our ppl will be destroyed for the lack of knowledge.

@lolaispure4296 6 дней назад

@@yemedemure414😂😂😂 damn

@zurierae2106 3 дня назад

@@yemedemure414 That’s wonderful I have nothing against the religion. But again the hypocrisy, aggressiveness, controlling ways, hot headedness . The in godliness of her ways. The way she treats her family. I cannot tolerate. There’s extremist in ALL religions.

@LeshaFBaby 6 дней назад

I remember this crazy...dinner shouldnt have been that stressful..who would want to live with that..then wonder why his family at a distant. Her aunt is not to be played with. I like her.

@ManiAnger 6 дней назад

Not a hood Hotep 🤦🏾‍♀️

@natemclarke 6 дней назад

LMAO

@22221mm 6 дней назад

😂😂😂 with a lightskinned or non-Black woman. The hoteps always contradicting themselves

@FarmerReLa 6 дней назад

Bwahahaaa spot on

@bilqis3 6 дней назад

@@22221mmreferencing that woman’s skin color is unfair and the weakest example (of so many) of his poor logic. Besides many might argue that much of the ideology espoused by the Asaar Aset community is based on fantasy and trauma responses. I pray for everyone’s healing so they can accurately see and hear one another and avoid confusing their “feelings” with facts.

@lolaispure4296 6 дней назад

@@bilqis3 nah it was relevant to talk about colour. Hoteps always married to some light skin or white women. I see it all the time.

@negrabella2085 6 дней назад

He is not it for her .. she is so sweet . He is set up his ways , bullheaded , inconsiderate and insensitive.. she will never be happy.. Hope she wakes up and walks away ❤

@tiffaneebrinkman7563 2 дня назад

Thank you. I did.

@Kendallslovejoy 6 дней назад

He sounds so ignorant

@smurfy7972 6 дней назад

He’s the type to think he’s smarter than everyone else too. 🤦🏽‍♀️

@samanthalewis5739 6 дней назад

Exactly! I guess he’s unemployed because the government would be all in his business

@brielax4441 6 дней назад

I knew he would backtrack on the 3-way and marriage license. I didn’t believe him when he was speaking to the family about compromising for her. He’s too set in his ways and he should find a woman who agrees to his same lifestyle.

@Crystal-Love 6 дней назад

I knew it as well. I was looking for this comment.

@user-fs8kd4ze8i 6 дней назад

Girl RUNNNNN! He is not the one. He is gonna control your life and you will be more miserable than you already are

@ChellyJ 6 дней назад

6 mins in and all I see are two mfs who ain’t got no business being together 🤦🏾‍♀️

@happyalice6306 6 дней назад

As a foodie, I always look at what the families eat at the dinner. This is the saddest meal I’ve seen on this show! 😂

@Ginaaaa87 6 дней назад

I wonder if he file his taxes 🤔

@22221mm 6 дней назад

😂

@avisward8449 6 дней назад

@ellegeter8844 3 дня назад

Now u know hes a member of the sovereign moorish nation. No taxes no nothing lol

@Fancyisthe1 6 дней назад

What a nightmare, she said it was perfect.. 😮

@TheShaws22 6 дней назад

Girl....runnnnnn this man is insane 😂

@thun325 6 дней назад

In his eyes they are already married. No birth certificate and no monogamy 😢

@reginadavis7499 3 дня назад

He want sister wives

@Augmented-- 5 дней назад

HE COULDNT EVEN GET THREE PEOPLE TO SHOW UP?! Girllll run

@B.NC.2020 6 дней назад

Has he been to prison before? I hate to stereotype... but

@camilelovejoy6574 6 дней назад

ANGER ISSUES RUN

@tiffaneebrinkman7563 2 дня назад

I did lol

@camilelovejoy6574 2 дня назад

@tiffaneebrinkman7563 awesome u deserved better than him.

@sunnydered5545 6 дней назад

Therapy is expensive Watching family or fiance and listening to the good doc when the couple's won't is free

@mogwanyengjohannesmankoe3578 5 дней назад

I really don't understand why people like forcing things even when they see they aren't compatible!!🙄

@user-kd7tb1xb9n 6 дней назад

And why does she want to marry him again? I'm assuming she has low self esteem....

@Beatrix_Ditto 6 дней назад

If he wants to sleep with other women... and he's adamant about it... then committed, he is not. At all.

@melaniekingwilson6905 5 дней назад

This bride needs to put on her running shoes and RUN!! His mind is warped!!

@michellewright6500 6 дней назад

I’ve seen this before. He’s just saying what he needs to say to get the approval.

@dianemclaurin5366 6 дней назад

I don't trust him He's just trying to do all this for TV Girl run get out while you can He's going to change on you!😮

@sheripeter2979 3 дня назад

Even his friends are like run . He don’t know what he’s talking about

@user-vq6hl8vz4i 6 дней назад

Nor wonder he doesn’t have a relationship with his family and he’s gonna lose everyone😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@IamTiaB 6 дней назад

He the toxic one

@trishconners3933 6 дней назад

I don’t think they belong together at all. I think they’re only attracted to each other and that’s it

@sondragreen9638 6 дней назад

Baby leave that man y’all in two different books

@NA-ko4ub 6 дней назад

He wants to control her. Do as I say and ask no questions.

@22221mm 6 дней назад

Tiff is in abusive cycle.

@dismissdetractors3350 6 дней назад

Despite all of the red flags, and she should have more confidence in herself to see that she does not have to settle with this deranged individual, what does he do for a living since he wants to be a sovereign citizen?

@mikbella1 6 дней назад

😅😅

@tiffaneebrinkman7563 2 дня назад

I broke up with him 🎉

@dismissdetractors3350 День назад

@@tiffaneebrinkman7563 I am so glad to hear this! Not only for your own sanity and peace, but you deserved so much better. May your current or next relationship be healthy!

@zurierae2106 6 дней назад

Girl run! Exactly it’s all about control

@shabey8436 6 дней назад

I wish they had follow up videos, like where are they now. Because this video is several years old. I hope both of these people have moved on with other people, because they are unevenly yoked. They are not a match at all.

@tiffaneebrinkman7563 2 дня назад

Follow up.... we broke up.

@zadia1445 6 дней назад

Mother: "What in the world is my daughter getting into?" Um ma'am", an abusive relationship.

@bebahhassan4715 4 дня назад

As Muslim myself, I never saw someone more delusional then this brother. She better run and never look back.

@loisthompson2877 2 дня назад

It’s so sad that she doesn’t love herself enough to walk away from that so-called relationship she’s a beautiful woman and she’s setteling for less than she deserve

@saturnladee110 5 дней назад

Polygamy with no polygamoney is backwards.

@123ZOOOMZOOM 6 дней назад

Girl run!

@karenowens4504 5 дней назад

Just get with someone who has the same beliefs instead of wearing a person down to make them believe what you believe. I just understand why folks do that.

@miquelagarrett9601 5 дней назад

They have absolutely no business together

@Tboogiewitdabun 6 дней назад

Two totally different people, they don’t know each other- ion see how that’s gonna work… She wants to please him. I know this. I was her

@Crystal-Love 6 дней назад

🙋🏾‍♀️me too‼️

@mamaj3539 6 дней назад

I smell danger

@karenweal9585 6 дней назад

😮😮😮😮😮 Don’t do it girl.

@natashacashaw9803 6 дней назад

He77 No Run fast as you can And please don’t look back 🥴🥴🥴🤦🏽‍♀️It’s a strong No for me .

@deborahadams3745 6 дней назад

Me too!

@nicolenichols8109 5 дней назад

The way they all changed their minds and gave a blessing. That man is controlling as hell and showed his behind at that dinner. No ma’am you don’t have my blessing. WTH.

@PeachezSaid 6 дней назад

Run Sis 🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️

@Nina-Bananaaa День назад

He was wrapped up in confusion. So much that he can’t explain it so he gets frustrated at them not understanding what he’s confused about. He talks in circles

@nicolefrancis9403 6 дней назад

This show is so powerful in a sense that it helps couples dig deep and understand what they getting themselves in. It's always good to see a happy ending. S/o to Tiff and Ayatalla❤